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Speaker 1: just saying just you only connect through the workout, working

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Speaker 1: finds his dates about it. I was about this new

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Speaker 1: love Jim. He's great. And I go there hoping that

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Speaker 1: you know, learn a lot about Jim, and I always

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Speaker 1: disappointed because he's not like Rob. Like Rob gets me.

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Speaker 1: too much in common is never a good thing, Garrett,

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Speaker 1: What was that restaurant you went to? He's my friend,

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Speaker 1: give him my number. I'm fun. The cool thing about

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Speaker 1: could have been out with Rob instead of Jim. Isn't

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Speaker 1: but I'm like that I got to. I got a

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Speaker 1: you should always order what you want, but sometimes we

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Speaker 1: I don't want to get a chatch to it. That's

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Speaker 1: what they call it, a special. Would you go on

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Speaker 1: never see them again? Yeah? Fair enough, Yeah, no problem there.

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