1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:02,800 Speaker 1: I thought my girlfriend was a nice Christian girl, but 2 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 1: then I saw her on the hub getting. 3 00:00:04,640 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 2: Creem eyes ding ding ding dove and is done. 4 00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: Motherfuck her? Okayop to start, I'm very conservative, I always 5 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 1: have been, always will be. Somehow, I think doing it 6 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:20,200 Speaker 1: should be something that's done between people who love each other. 7 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 1: And I would never be intimate with a woman I 8 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:26,160 Speaker 1: don't care about. Ah. All right, mister op. I met 9 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 1: my girlfriend at church. We're both Catholic, and I don't 10 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 1: want to go into all the details of our lives, 11 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,479 Speaker 1: but she always presented herself as someone who agreed with 12 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:39,960 Speaker 1: my worldview, that conservative Catholic worldview. I asked her about 13 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 1: her past. She said she only dated two people in 14 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:46,319 Speaker 1: college and one after before she met me, So it's 15 00:00:46,360 --> 00:00:48,920 Speaker 1: like three people total. Three people, Okay? Cool? And not 16 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:51,600 Speaker 1: every relationship has to work out. And I'm no virgin, 17 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 1: so I can certainly forgive. 18 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 2: He's not a virgin. 19 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 1: He's not a virgin. 20 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 2: What are you doing here, buddy? What are you talking 21 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 2: about on your morals and all this stuff? 22 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:03,960 Speaker 1: Like, yeah, I thought you were so conservative. After three years, 23 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 1: I think maybe this girl is the girl I'm going 24 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 1: to spend the rest of my life with oh So. 25 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 1: They've been dating for three years, he said, amount of time. 26 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 1: Then last week she has a reunion with some college friends. 27 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:17,480 Speaker 1: I asked to come along, and she was a tad hesitant, 28 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:20,160 Speaker 1: but eventually she agrees. I never knew so many people 29 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 1: in her life from before I met her, so I 30 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 1: thought it would be cool to get some insight. On 31 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 1: the drive over there, she said something like, if they 32 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 1: say anything about me, they're lying. Okay, that's a joke. Yeah, 33 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 1: what are you hiding? Come on? We get there and 34 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 1: everything is going good until one of the guys says 35 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:41,960 Speaker 1: something like girlfriend has always been the adventurous type and 36 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 1: set it off handedly and looked away after realizing I 37 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: was her boyfriend. Later on, i'm alone with this guy 38 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 1: and I bring it up. At this point, I was thinking, 39 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 1: maybe she did something stupid in college and she may 40 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 1: have been embarrassed about it, But I didn't think she 41 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 1: had a dark secret or anything. But nothing could have 42 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 1: prepared me for what happened next. Oh So he asked 43 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 1: me point blank, are you sure you want me to 44 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 1: answer that? He's like, bro, are you ready to? 45 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 2: Oh? 46 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 1: Pandora's box, a red pillar, blue pail over body. I say, yes, yes, 47 00:02:13,520 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 1: I do. He proceeds to tell me that she had 48 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 1: a huge reputation in college, that she slept with anyone 49 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:23,720 Speaker 1: and everyone, even some teachers for a bump in a grade. 50 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:30,239 Speaker 2: Now that's what I call extra credit plus turn those 51 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 2: ds into a's or putting d's into the a's. 52 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 1: Oh, and she had even slept with some of the 53 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 1: people in the group there. Nice. There are about thirty people, 54 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 1: maybe seventeen guys. I am freaking out at this point, 55 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 1: I feel ill. I tell them all sorts of nasty things. 56 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 1: And then he drops the real big bomb. She has 57 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 1: videos on the hub. Uh oh. He shows me to 58 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:57,040 Speaker 1: count that hasn't been active in three years, and there 59 00:02:57,080 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 1: she was the image that haunts me to this day, 60 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:03,359 Speaker 1: a thumbnail of her with two guys and she has 61 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 1: basically like I kind of like salute written on her forehead. Oh, 62 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 1: dear geez, that's like degrading. That's sad, very degrading. I 63 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 1: turned pale. Is this really the person I was going 64 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 1: to marry? I mean, she was reluctant to give me 65 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 1: oral says she doesn't do stuff like that. 66 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I love how that's like the first 67 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 2: thing that. 68 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:29,679 Speaker 1: I like, what but she wouldn't blow my ding dung, 69 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:32,640 Speaker 1: And yet here's she is doing it with four or 70 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 1: three different guys. Yeah. At the same time, sufficed to say, 71 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 1: I broke it off with her after confronting her, and 72 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 1: I had a very nasty fight with her. Just writing 73 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 1: this has made me ill, are there really no woman 74 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 1: out there for me? Man? I feel like I'm dying. 75 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:51,119 Speaker 2: There's no there's no more women left for us, good 76 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 2: guys out there? 77 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 1: Bro, Yeah, I dude, I I mean this one, No, 78 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 1: this one's tough, This one she should have I just 79 00:03:57,720 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 1: like tell I mean, like, don't have to help them. 80 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 2: Eventually. I feel for her because that's like such a 81 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 2: hard thing to tell them, but like you really you 82 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 2: really should if it's publicly out there, like you really 83 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:13,160 Speaker 2: should because they'll like they could find out, you know. 84 00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:16,160 Speaker 1: But also kind of like do shee or I don't know? 85 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 1: Is this is this guy that told him douchey or 86 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:23,159 Speaker 1: not douche Yeah? I feel like he's trying to sabotage 87 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 1: the relationship. 88 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:26,800 Speaker 2: Honestly, maybe maybe he didn't get his piece back in 89 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:27,719 Speaker 2: the days and he's. 90 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:33,159 Speaker 1: Trying to run at Beck to the Beck that sucks 91 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:34,719 Speaker 1: rough situation,