1 00:00:01,160 --> 00:00:06,800 Speaker 1: Everyone knows about bro code, but what about lady laws. 2 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:08,240 Speaker 2: Nobody calls it that. 3 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: The goal guide. Yes, the she scrolls. It's getting older 4 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:21,480 Speaker 1: and older. Yeah, the shoe lady scroll from the well, 5 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:25,799 Speaker 1: whatever it's called, it does exist, and it's standing in 6 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:28,360 Speaker 1: the way of our listener finding out the truth about 7 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 1: what really happened when his girlfriend went on a trip 8 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 1: with a bunch of her friends. He knows something happened 9 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 1: and he needs our help getting the answers before his 10 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:41,839 Speaker 1: relationship falls apart. And you're gonna hear it, and you're 11 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:46,959 Speaker 1: a brand new awkward Tuesday phone call. Next, it's awkward. 12 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 2: It's Tuesday. 13 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:53,559 Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. I think we all know 14 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 1: what happens on boys trips. Grown man sipping sparkling water 15 00:00:59,680 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 1: with any umbrellas, comparing essential oils, debating the correct way 16 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:09,959 Speaker 1: to fold a linen napkin. Things get pretty wild on 17 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 1: all the guy getaways I've attended. That is not a 18 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 1: lot of girlfriend's happy here. Yes, I'm not going to 19 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:17,959 Speaker 1: get into the origami tickle fights. 20 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:21,199 Speaker 3: Whoa after you guys do the fitted sheet fight. 21 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 1: It's a boy's secret, bro We're But on the other hand, 22 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:29,959 Speaker 1: girls trips. Those are a little bit more of a mystery. 23 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:34,520 Speaker 1: Anybody knows. Nobody knows what goes on. You just disappear. 24 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:36,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, the same stuff. 25 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:40,960 Speaker 1: Not as hard as we do it. You can't like 26 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 1: we can't. 27 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:44,959 Speaker 3: We can plan a dinner to blow your minds. I'll 28 00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:45,319 Speaker 3: tell you that. 29 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 1: Doubtful. But our listener Mix says his girlfriend took a 30 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:53,559 Speaker 1: girl's trip recently and now there's an issue. They should 31 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 1: have jumped in with fun right away. But I mean 32 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 1: it's probably Yeah, I don't know how Mick feels about it. Mick, 33 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. Dude. 34 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:08,000 Speaker 2: I that was a lot that was I realized I 35 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 2: may have been doing guys trips wrong. 36 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 3: Looking for an invite for Jefferies next weekend. 37 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 2: I'm not certain of that. 38 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:17,639 Speaker 4: I just. 39 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 1: Well, I'll invite you to NAPA when we have an opening. 40 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:24,959 Speaker 1: What made you reach out to our show for help? 41 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 2: So my girlfriend, her name is Adrian. We've been dating 42 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 2: for like a year now, like she still she still 43 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 2: does stuff with like her friends and stuff, which is 44 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 2: you know, like healthy. 45 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 1: Hopefully you'll just stop. I can't believe she still has friends. 46 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 2: So they went on a trip together recently and like 47 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:50,200 Speaker 2: normally she gets back and like she's really cool. But 48 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 2: this time, I don't know, something's different. I'll ask her 49 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 2: about it, and like she doesn't say anything about it. 50 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 2: She just says it's fine and tries to change the subject. 51 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 3: Do you know was there any like girl drama? Like 52 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 3: was there some fights on the trip? Maybe she's upset 53 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 3: about him? 54 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:07,400 Speaker 2: You know, if there was, I'd love to know, But 55 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 2: no one's told me a thing. Have you have you 56 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 2: talked to her friends? 57 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 1: I was gonna ask what they say? 58 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 2: They haven't said anything either. They say if she wants 59 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 2: to talk about it, she can, but they can't. 60 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: The words that they used. That's a red flag right there. 61 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:24,680 Speaker 2: Bus. 62 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, how did you feel hearing that response from the friends? 63 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 2: It makes me think that something happened, But I don't. 64 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 1: I have no idea what I didn't say it like 65 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 1: that if something didn't happen, I mean, at least an 66 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 1: origami paper cut, but doesn't. 67 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 3: Like, what's the first thing that you're most worried about. 68 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 2: I'm worried she got hurt. You worried about like I'm 69 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 2: kind of worried about cheating. But you know, like people party, 70 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 2: things get wild. 71 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:00,120 Speaker 1: I mean, have you seen her. I feel like you 72 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 1: would know pretty quickly if she was badly injured. Yeah. 73 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 2: No, And I've tried, like ever since she got back. 74 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 2: I'm like, hey, do you want to do dinner? Do 75 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 2: you want to do lunch? Do you want to like 76 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 2: see a movie or something? And she's just like no, 77 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 2: I'm busy. I've got something going on. 78 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 3: But it's almost like she's ghosting you to ride from 79 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:19,279 Speaker 3: the airport. 80 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, like she's still responding, So that's good. 81 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:26,599 Speaker 1: Okay, how long has it been since your girlfriend got 82 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 1: back from the girl's trip. 83 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 2: It's almost been a week, and normally we hang out 84 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 2: right after, so I can get an update. 85 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 3: Six days not seeing someone when you're in a one 86 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 3: year relationships you yeah, well enough. 87 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, Alexis, he's not giving like clingy boyfriend vibes though, 88 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 1: just a tiny bit borderline, but it's possible. 89 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:49,240 Speaker 2: It just feels like she left this one version of 90 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 2: herself but came back as another. I just want to 91 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:55,040 Speaker 2: know what's going on, like what happened? 92 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, and who. 93 00:04:56,800 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 3: The real her really is? 94 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 1: How many versions of her are there? 95 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 2: Well? 96 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 3: There can be a lot. 97 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 1: Okay, so the reason that you reached out to us, 98 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:09,840 Speaker 1: I'm just wanting to clarify you want to call your 99 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 1: girlfriend here and what are you hoping to get done? 100 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:16,480 Speaker 2: I want to know what happened if I can, or 101 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 2: at least figure out when we could meet to find 102 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:20,120 Speaker 2: out for sure. 103 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 1: So that's going to be our challenge here. We're going 104 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 1: to reach out to someone who is hesitant to come 105 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 1: out with a lot of information. We need to figure 106 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:30,920 Speaker 1: out some advice for Mick here to help him get 107 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 1: her to open up. 108 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:33,800 Speaker 3: And I can't wait to hear the tea about this 109 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 3: girl right now, I mean, honestly. 110 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:39,480 Speaker 1: Or maybe help our listener. Maybe that should be important. 111 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 3: Things can be true, Josh God, Yes. 112 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 1: We'll try to accomplish both when we do your awkward 113 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:53,039 Speaker 1: Tuesday phone call right after this hold on It's awkward, Tay, 114 00:05:54,000 --> 00:06:00,279 Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Girls' trips? What really goes 115 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:04,159 Speaker 1: on when women spend a weekend together the girls know? 116 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 1: Is it all just innocent pillow fights and wine tastings 117 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 1: and gossip under the moonlight? Or is there a more 118 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 1: sinister side to a lady's layaway. 119 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:17,599 Speaker 3: Oh man, like deciding who gets a king sized bed 120 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 3: at the rental house? Yeah, okay, you're right, they're all 121 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:25,720 Speaker 3: queen size beds. 122 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 1: But that is the question that our listener, Mick has, 123 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:33,479 Speaker 1: what happened on the girl's weekend because his girlfriend Adrian 124 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:35,719 Speaker 1: went on a trip with a bunch of her gal pals, 125 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:40,480 Speaker 1: came back and ever since hasn't willingly spoken with him, 126 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 1: has him hung out with him at all. He even 127 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 1: reached out to her friends to ask what happened, and 128 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 1: this may be the worst part. Their answer was, it's 129 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:54,479 Speaker 1: not really our place to tell you. And that also 130 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:56,720 Speaker 1: makes me think the girls want him to know, because 131 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 1: if they were, they would just be like, what are 132 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 1: you talking about? Right? They would lie to make him 133 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:02,920 Speaker 1: feel good, But they didn't do that. They put him 134 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 1: into this limbo. So, as you can expect, Mick is 135 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 1: totally freaked out. He's turned to us for advice because 136 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 1: she clearly does not want to open up to him 137 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:14,840 Speaker 1: about it. We need to help bring down those walls. So, Brooke, 138 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 1: what's your advice for Mick? 139 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 3: So easy? Really well, speculate something even worse that could 140 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 3: have happened, so then it's easy for her to confess whatever. 141 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 1: It actually is. 142 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 3: So you say, listen, I talked to your friends. They 143 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 3: said you had to tell me, my mind's going crazy. 144 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 3: Did you kill someone? 145 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 1: Oh? That's where they take it, right to murder? 146 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 3: Then she feels comfortable to say no, it's not that Mick. 147 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:43,600 Speaker 1: Are you comfortable questioning your girlfriend on a potential homicide? 148 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 2: Hey, I think that's genius. I would share it of 149 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 2: something else, but this is a much better way to 150 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:52,480 Speaker 2: break the ice on now. 151 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm shocked that you would actually think that's a 152 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 1: good idea. 153 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 2: It's incredible. If I accused her of cheating, that's just 154 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 2: an instant fight, whether she did it or not. 155 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 1: No, but yeah, accusing her of murdering a. 156 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 2: Stranger if she didn't murder someone, like, how where are 157 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 2: you supposed to even go from that? 158 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, she'll totally trust you. 159 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 2: Let's like, accidental deaths happen all the time. 160 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 1: Have you killed someone before me? Why are you so 161 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 1: happy about it? Let's not even get into it. And frankly, 162 00:08:26,640 --> 00:08:28,920 Speaker 1: I don't think we should give any more advice after this, 163 00:08:29,080 --> 00:08:32,200 Speaker 1: So let's just let's dial Adrian for you. Hopefully she 164 00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 1: answers our number. 165 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:34,440 Speaker 2: Thank you so much. 166 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:36,240 Speaker 1: I would take a deep breath before you do this, 167 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:37,960 Speaker 1: try to go in with a level head. But we 168 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:39,640 Speaker 1: got your back if you need us, I'm inn dial 169 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:40,720 Speaker 1: it right now here we go. 170 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 2: Hell uh, hey, it's it's me. How are you? Who 171 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:00,680 Speaker 2: are you? 172 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 3: What? 173 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:02,960 Speaker 4: Like whose phone are you calling from? 174 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 2: It's just like you haven't really been responding to me, 175 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:10,320 Speaker 2: so like I kind of figured maybe a different number 176 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 2: would maybe get me the opportunity to talk to you, 177 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:18,960 Speaker 2: because like I haven't seen you, and like I'm your boyfriend, 178 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:21,040 Speaker 2: so why won't you talk to me? 179 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, sorry, I am just kind of in the middle 180 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:27,679 Speaker 4: of something right now though, but. 181 00:09:29,240 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 2: Oh, like okay, I'm sorry about I have to like 182 00:09:32,040 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 2: a miss you. Like again, you just haven't talked to 183 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:39,200 Speaker 2: me all week, and like usually when you, like it's 184 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 2: got to be the trip, right because usually you come 185 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 2: back and I get to hear about like what you've done, 186 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 2: and I just haven't. You haven't said anything about it, 187 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 2: and I just don't know what's going on, So if 188 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 2: you could please talk to me. 189 00:09:55,320 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 4: I don't. 190 00:09:57,679 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 2: Like you went on a trip for a weekend. You left, 191 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:03,079 Speaker 2: like we were talking, we were having fun, and now 192 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:06,440 Speaker 2: you're back and I haven't heard a word about anything 193 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:12,080 Speaker 2: that like means anything for a week now, So what happened? Okay? 194 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 4: Eh, just first of all, calm this down, please, Okay, 195 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 4: So let's start there. 196 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 2: Let's take a story. 197 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 4: Okay, Well, things happen, things change. 198 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 2: So I'm not going to yell. But what things? I because, like, 199 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:38,960 Speaker 2: I talked to your friends and they said that you 200 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 2: should be the one to tell me about it, and 201 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:43,160 Speaker 2: that makes me worried. 202 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:46,200 Speaker 4: You should not be talking to my friends. 203 00:10:47,240 --> 00:10:50,199 Speaker 2: Do you even hear yourself right now? Like? I'm friends 204 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:54,920 Speaker 2: with them too. Who who are you? I don't really 205 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:56,440 Speaker 2: feel like Adrian to me right now. 206 00:10:57,480 --> 00:11:00,160 Speaker 4: No, I'm someone who realizes they're. 207 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:05,719 Speaker 2: Worth Actually, what does that mean? Are you mad at me? 208 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:10,480 Speaker 2: Did I do something? I? Like? Please just tell me? Please? 209 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:12,120 Speaker 2: What is going on? 210 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 4: It's nothing he did? 211 00:11:16,600 --> 00:11:20,200 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, if you're not going to tell me, your 212 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:25,120 Speaker 2: friends won't say. I'm worried you did something you regret. 213 00:11:25,600 --> 00:11:28,199 Speaker 4: I never cheated on you, if that's what you're implying. 214 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 2: Not once. Wait hold on, no, it wasn't. I what happened? 215 00:11:36,200 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, I'll tell you this. There was another guy 216 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:41,960 Speaker 4: on the trip who did pay a lot of attention 217 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:42,320 Speaker 4: to me. 218 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 2: Okay, I like, like, do I know him? No? 219 00:11:48,880 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 4: He's kind of famous. 220 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:54,679 Speaker 2: What are you talking about? Famous for? 221 00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 4: The well he was two seasons ago, he was on 222 00:11:57,800 --> 00:12:01,320 Speaker 4: the Bachelorette. 223 00:12:00,480 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 2: Huh okay, okay, so so what so. 224 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:10,680 Speaker 4: He flirted with me and and it just made me 225 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:16,800 Speaker 4: question things like if I settled and am I dating down? 226 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 3: God? 227 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:24,720 Speaker 4: She was like ripped, Oh god, okay. 228 00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 1: Ever finished that sentence. 229 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:29,439 Speaker 4: Who are the other people listening? 230 00:12:29,559 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 3: Are you on speaker with people? 231 00:12:31,200 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 1: Nobody's very susceptible. 232 00:12:33,080 --> 00:12:36,959 Speaker 2: Yes, so you're dating down? 233 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 1: Hold on, Mick, hold on, hold on, let let's help 234 00:12:39,800 --> 00:12:42,600 Speaker 1: Adriane understand what's going on here. So you're on the radio. 235 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:45,760 Speaker 1: This is called an awkward Tuesday phone call. The reason 236 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:49,480 Speaker 1: Mick is on with us is because he was worried 237 00:12:49,679 --> 00:12:52,559 Speaker 1: about your behavior after you got back from the girl's trip. 238 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:55,439 Speaker 3: And apparently it was for good reason that he is concerned. 239 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:57,840 Speaker 2: So like nothing else happened. That was it. 240 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:00,400 Speaker 4: I told you and I wouldn't do that. 241 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:01,520 Speaker 2: I'm not that girl. 242 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:03,480 Speaker 4: Good, I'm not I'm not a cheater. 243 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:06,360 Speaker 1: Okay, one step shy, that's kind of nice, But she 244 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:07,240 Speaker 1: didn't do. 245 00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:09,840 Speaker 2: Anything creating gown. That's like the part I can't get over. 246 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:14,040 Speaker 4: I said, I said dating down, question mark. I was 247 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:17,600 Speaker 4: asking myself, am I I wasn't saying that as a 248 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 4: statement or that I decided that. I'm just thinking about it. 249 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:23,559 Speaker 4: I'm being honest with you you wanted honestly, I'm being 250 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:24,079 Speaker 4: honest with you. 251 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 2: Okay, but you get how that would suck. 252 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:32,200 Speaker 1: Right, like totally. But on her side, Mick, a famous 253 00:13:32,240 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 1: person flirted with her, and you could understand how that 254 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:37,559 Speaker 1: might change your mindset. 255 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 3: Right, guy is not famous. I could guarantee you could 256 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:43,240 Speaker 3: tell us his name and there's no way anyone in 257 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:44,800 Speaker 3: any room would ever know what he is. 258 00:13:44,880 --> 00:13:46,400 Speaker 1: He needs the villain of the show too. You don't 259 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:48,720 Speaker 1: even know the hottest. 260 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 2: But can you even remember how many rounds he made it? 261 00:13:50,920 --> 00:13:53,960 Speaker 4: Or like, I'm not talking about him, I'm not talking 262 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:55,559 Speaker 4: about Hi'm not with these people on the phone. 263 00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:58,120 Speaker 1: Okay, we just have to focus more on Adrian. So 264 00:13:58,200 --> 00:14:00,800 Speaker 1: your mind is you're questioning where you are at in 265 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:02,360 Speaker 1: your relationship, right, which. 266 00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:06,680 Speaker 3: Is a normal experience at the one year market bachelorette 267 00:14:06,679 --> 00:14:07,960 Speaker 3: contestants be damned. 268 00:14:08,080 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 1: But at the same time, Ajian, you still are in 269 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:13,040 Speaker 1: this relationship with Mick. You've been together a year. He 270 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:14,280 Speaker 1: deserves some communication. 271 00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 2: Said yeah, and I miss you, I want to see you. 272 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 2: I feel like, if we could see each other and 273 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 2: talk this out, things could just be different. 274 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 1: And he was talking in a normal tone of voice too, Adrian, 275 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 1: think about that. 276 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:33,640 Speaker 4: This is like so much. Okay, look, we can still 277 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:36,840 Speaker 4: date and like hang out and whatever. But I'm I 278 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 4: just have to be totally honest with you. But I've 279 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 4: been thinking and I do really want to be on 280 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:51,840 Speaker 4: a reality TV show. And this week I've been submitting 281 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:53,360 Speaker 4: audition tapes. 282 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 2: I'm don't he convinced you to get into his line 283 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:05,160 Speaker 2: of work? Is that what you're talking about? 284 00:15:05,680 --> 00:15:07,320 Speaker 3: Is that what we are considering it now? 285 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:10,080 Speaker 1: All right, we are running out of time here, mixed. 286 00:15:10,160 --> 00:15:12,240 Speaker 1: So at the end of the day, are you okay 287 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 1: with still seeing Adrian while she pursues her reality fame? 288 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:18,640 Speaker 1: Don't do that BG. 289 00:15:18,920 --> 00:15:23,160 Speaker 2: All right, Look, Adrian, I really like you. I'm sorry 290 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:27,240 Speaker 2: I haven't told you this yet, but like I love you. 291 00:15:28,280 --> 00:15:30,440 Speaker 2: Oh that. 292 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 1: Was the first time you said that. 293 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 4: Oh, buddy, let's just like we need to take a breather. 294 00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 4: We need to take a break and just. 295 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:41,880 Speaker 1: See like, yeah, that's a good idea. Let's go to 296 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:45,280 Speaker 1: break right now, and let's all breathe. Commercial break coming 297 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:48,280 Speaker 1: up right after this man Nick man, I wish you 298 00:15:48,320 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 1: the best, but I would recommend you don't watch ABC 299 00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:53,440 Speaker 1: at eight pm weeknights. 300 00:15:54,920 --> 00:15:57,600 Speaker 3: That's Eastern time, that's Central. 301 00:15:56,440 --> 00:16:02,680 Speaker 1: I just don't watch it. Man, I'm not gonna Okay good. 302 00:16:02,520 --> 00:16:04,880 Speaker 2: Man brooking Jeffrey in the morning. 303 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:07,040 Speaker 1: I don't even know what to say about that other 304 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:10,280 Speaker 1: than that was crazy. Well, yeah, that's the thing. 305 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:12,520 Speaker 3: That's why the producers are going to pick her for 306 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:18,000 Speaker 3: reality shows. She is just the right level of Yes, you. 307 00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:21,400 Speaker 1: Think it's still a long shot that she gets cast 308 00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 1: onto some like Love is Blind or Hookup Hotel show, 309 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:27,720 Speaker 1: But I guess you're right. The more unhinged the better 310 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:28,280 Speaker 1: for TV. 311 00:16:28,400 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 2: It is. 312 00:16:28,920 --> 00:16:31,160 Speaker 3: It's good for him because the person always goes viral. 313 00:16:31,240 --> 00:16:32,720 Speaker 2: That's like, Hey, they were dating me when they went 314 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:34,200 Speaker 2: on the show. 315 00:16:35,800 --> 00:16:38,359 Speaker 1: Let's say that she does get cast and her girlfriends 316 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:40,960 Speaker 1: from that trip have a big viewing party. He's definitely 317 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 1: watching the TV from the bushes, and not only doing that, 318 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 1: he's actually rooting for her to win. What do you 319 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:52,040 Speaker 1: mean she doesn't get the final rows. Yeah, she deserved it. 320 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:54,640 Speaker 3: If your girlfriend is on the Bachelorette, you do want 321 00:16:54,640 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 3: to at least do well. 322 00:16:55,880 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, boyfriend, I don't know if that one worked out 323 00:17:02,400 --> 00:17:04,000 Speaker 1: or if it didn't work out. I don't know if 324 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:05,159 Speaker 1: to call it a success or not. 325 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:08,200 Speaker 3: We got the truth, we did, and that's the success. 326 00:17:08,280 --> 00:17:10,560 Speaker 1: That's what we can do for you in your personal life. 327 00:17:10,600 --> 00:17:12,800 Speaker 1: If you need some help, reach out to the show 328 00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:15,000 Speaker 1: and we can give you the advice you need to 329 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:17,240 Speaker 1: call whoever it is in your life to have that 330 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 1: awkward conversation. Yeah, we love it. Yeah, and if you 331 00:17:21,600 --> 00:17:24,800 Speaker 1: love it, hit subscribe on our podcast, Peprok and Jeffrey