WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Red Envelope Regret

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, welcome to your Saturday podcast as Brooke and Jeffrey,

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<v Speaker 1>And a quick reminder, tomorrow is Mother's Day.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I thought it.

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<v Speaker 3>Was last week, so I sent my mom strawberry super early.

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<v Speaker 4>Which is better than sending them super late.

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<v Speaker 2>Then I tell her and I apologize, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even call you. I was so busy. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, not till next week. I'm not okay, I'll

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<v Speaker 2>call you Sunday.

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<v Speaker 4>So you dig get out it?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I thought myself, nay it.

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<v Speaker 2>Second date, up date. If I've learned anything from reading

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<v Speaker 2>countless dating blogs, they all say the absolute worst thing

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<v Speaker 4>No, they don't. That's the opposite of what they all say.

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<v Speaker 2>New experiences should scare you and you need to avoid

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<v Speaker 2>them at all costs.

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<v Speaker 5>Instead of reading.

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<v Speaker 4>The anti therapy blogs again.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, you need to stick to the places that

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<v Speaker 2>you've already been and people you already know, and nothing

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<v Speaker 2>bad can ever.

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<v Speaker 1>Happen people, Okay, Jeff, is how you end up in

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<v Speaker 1>like my hometown dating your gage?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, supports it.

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<v Speaker 1>Is.

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<v Speaker 2>One of our listeners didn't take that advice, thank god,

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<v Speaker 2>and he's some sort of modern renaissance man decided to

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<v Speaker 2>try something new and look where it landed him right

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<v Speaker 2>here on our show, which I'm guessing is another new

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<v Speaker 2>experience for him that he's never done before.

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<v Speaker 4>So yikes, we're the low point.

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<v Speaker 2>We are, Alvin, welcome to your new life.

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<v Speaker 3>Low awesome, glad to be here. This is my first

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<v Speaker 3>time ever doing that.

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<v Speaker 4>Now, are you feeling shame or excitement.

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<v Speaker 3>No, definitely excitement. I don't I'm not feeling shame.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, we're going to change that by the end

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<v Speaker 2>of the segment. But you said that you tried something

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<v Speaker 2>new for your dating life.

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<v Speaker 5>What was that?

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<v Speaker 3>Have you ever heard of a red envelope party?

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<v Speaker 2>What is that?

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<v Speaker 4>What's a red envelope party?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it's like a like a dating event that people

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<v Speaker 3>put on. And there was at this fancy house and

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<v Speaker 3>you went by yourself.

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<v Speaker 4>You didn't bring a friend.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, this was a friend hooked me up with this,

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<v Speaker 3>but I went by myself. Yeah. And then you scan

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<v Speaker 3>like a QR code and you fill out a questionnaire

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<v Speaker 3>that's like about your interests and your values.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what kind of person you are find on

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<v Speaker 4>a dating profile, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, just a brief little thing like that, and

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<v Speaker 3>then once you do the questionnay. I went side the

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<v Speaker 3>house and it was had the vibe of like a

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<v Speaker 3>slanky private members club. It was a fancy furniture and

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<v Speaker 3>well stocked bar, chandeliers the whole you know.

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<v Speaker 2>A chandelier that is rich. No, no broke people.

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<v Speaker 1>You get a house full of single people and you're

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<v Speaker 1>only allowed to talk to one person.

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<v Speaker 4>So they give you a motive.

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<v Speaker 6>Is that the rule?

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<v Speaker 3>No, No, you're you're supposed to mingle and drink and

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<v Speaker 3>have a good time. That's what I was doing. About

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<v Speaker 3>like an hour into it, maybe a little more, a

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<v Speaker 3>waiter came around with a silver tray and on the

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<v Speaker 3>tray were red envelopes and you find the one that

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<v Speaker 3>had your name on it, and that has inside the

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<v Speaker 3>person that you are supposed to meet once. But we'd

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<v Speaker 3>already hung out from that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm guessing the whole point is so that you go

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<v Speaker 1>around the room and actually try to find the other person.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, Yeah, it's more about talking to other pian person.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean my guess anyway, And.

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<v Speaker 2>The fact that it's on a silver tray makes me

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<v Speaker 2>believe whatever is on it is like and so, who

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<v Speaker 2>was the person whose name was in your envelope?

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<v Speaker 3>My envelope had the name Natalie in it.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, had you already met? Why are you laughing?

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<v Speaker 2>I thought he said he had his own name in

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<v Speaker 2>his envelope?

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<v Speaker 4>Did you had you already met Natalie or do you

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<v Speaker 4>have to go find her?

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<v Speaker 3>I had actually met her, and she was like obviously

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<v Speaker 3>on there to date. So I'm looking around, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>looking at all the ladies and she was like top

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<v Speaker 3>of my list.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh you're like, yes, like he read envelope.

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<v Speaker 5>That's nice.

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<v Speaker 3>There was a yes, just bump.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, okay, So you went and tracked her down. How

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<v Speaker 5>did that go?

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<v Speaker 3>It was great. We were having a really good time

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<v Speaker 3>and she was laughing a lot and I was laughing.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's a good sign because she could have been

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<v Speaker 1>disappointed when she saw your name.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, she seemed cool and she was kept encouraging

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<v Speaker 3>us to go back to the bar. And so, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>we did drink a bit. I admit it. I definitely

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<v Speaker 3>was feeling a buzz. Nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but you're you know, you're doing it together and

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<v Speaker 1>it's a party scene, like it seems appropriate.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, it was appropriate amount and I was not alone,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, it was everybody was having a good time

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<v Speaker 3>and she was having a good time. You know, like

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<v Speaker 3>I said, we were laughing a lot.

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<v Speaker 5>These are all positive reviews.

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<v Speaker 2>Is there anything in your mind that like was like

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<v Speaker 2>a low moment of the night or something that could

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<v Speaker 2>have gone wrong?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, yes, there was.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh he's laughing now.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it's not the worst, but like we had

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<v Speaker 3>been sitting for a while and we stood up and

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<v Speaker 3>we walked outside and it was pretty warm, and I

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<v Speaker 3>definitely had like a head rush and I kind of

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<v Speaker 3>fell into a bush.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh and this was in front of Natalie.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, oh yeah, I was walking with her.

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<v Speaker 4>You may have but she may have looked a little sloppy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know, yeah, I looked sloppy. I didn't like

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<v Speaker 3>fall over, Like I was just so hammered that I

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<v Speaker 3>was just like passing out. But you know, I definitely

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<v Speaker 3>leaned into it hard, let's put it that way.

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<v Speaker 2>A confident lean into a bush.

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<v Speaker 3>But she helped me out of it. But like I'm

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<v Speaker 3>a pretty big guy, so she couldn't really do it.

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<v Speaker 3>So this guy like kind of stepped over and kind

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<v Speaker 3>of helped me too.

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<v Speaker 2>Gave you a hand. Not your proudest moment, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>probably not like a total deal break for you. So

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<v Speaker 2>how did it end that night?

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<v Speaker 5>But with you and Natalie?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, at the end of the party, I asked her

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<v Speaker 3>if she wanted to go up to have some food,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, soak up the alcohol, right, and she said

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<v Speaker 3>she wanted to hang back and find this friend that

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<v Speaker 3>she came with. And I don't know, that's it. Then

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<v Speaker 3>I haven't heard back from her. I mean I got

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<v Speaker 3>her her her number, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Exactly, have you called her or nothing?

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<v Speaker 3>I texted her once. I don't want to be the

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<v Speaker 3>dude who's stending multiple texts, but definitely, like damn, I

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<v Speaker 3>went to all that trouble and thought it was a

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<v Speaker 3>good connection and then just seem weird that nothing has

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<v Speaker 3>come since then.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe she confidently leaned on the same bush and is

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<v Speaker 2>trapped inside of it right now waiting for somebody to

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<v Speaker 2>come pick.

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<v Speaker 4>Her out, as we see.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're gonna call, we'll see if she answers, and

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<v Speaker 2>try and get you your second date update Fancy edition

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<v Speaker 2>coming up right.

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<v Speaker 3>After this.

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<v Speaker 5>Second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna need to set the scene here for any

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<v Speaker 2>listeners just joining us. We picture well dressed men and

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<v Speaker 2>women sitting on ornate couches, sipping on gimlets, mingling together.

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<v Speaker 2>Red envelope party people. It's fancy.

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<v Speaker 4>It does feel like something that happened in Jeff's neighborhood. Girls, Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Of ask on uh huh, gimlets and mint julips and

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<v Speaker 2>what's a red envelope party? I'm still not one hundred

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<v Speaker 2>percent sure I get the idea, but one of our listeners, Alvin,

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<v Speaker 2>attended one the other night where he went to a

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<v Speaker 2>house in an upscale neighborhood. They have you fill out

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<v Speaker 2>a dating survey and then later, based on the answers

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<v Speaker 2>to your questionnaire, they bring you a red envelope on

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<v Speaker 2>a silver platter with the name of the person that

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<v Speaker 2>you matched with and are host to meet that night. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>and the name of Alvin's person was Natalie, So they

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<v Speaker 2>met up, had a great time there until he fell

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<v Speaker 2>into a bush outside.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't ruin the night, It was just a memory.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is he remembers it, so he wasn't too

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<v Speaker 1>dry exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>The problem is now Natalie is ghosting. So Brooke, take

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<v Speaker 2>a break from putting your reservation and at the red

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<v Speaker 2>envelope house and tell us, how do you.

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<v Speaker 5>Feel about it?

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<v Speaker 4>My hometown was more like bush Light and you'd wrestle

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<v Speaker 4>a pig, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>And they started.

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<v Speaker 1>The problem is is it's a singles party, so she

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<v Speaker 1>could have easily just met somebody.

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<v Speaker 4>Else that night. Oh yeah, like that's the whole point

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<v Speaker 4>in the red envelope is so you go around and.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, you're talking about before the envelopes were handed out. Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and like the friend that she had to find

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of the party air quotes was probably

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<v Speaker 1>the person she was talking to before him.

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<v Speaker 2>Alvin, did you notice Natalie speaking with any other guy?

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<v Speaker 5>Is?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I did notice her speaking with other guys,

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<v Speaker 3>but not.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you know, I'm sure that's what the point is.

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<v Speaker 3>That's like ask you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like they signed a contract that you could

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<v Speaker 1>only go out with this person in the red envelope.

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<v Speaker 3>They don't know who was.

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<v Speaker 2>In the red envelope for the first hour jet it's

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<v Speaker 2>a red envelope with a red flag attached to.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm worried, but let's call Natalie here and see what

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<v Speaker 5>she has to say. Here we go, Hello, Hey, is

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<v Speaker 5>this Natalie?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, this is Natalie. Who is this?

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<v Speaker 2>My name is jeff and I'm part of a radio

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<v Speaker 2>show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we're

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<v Speaker 2>all here eager to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>We actually were given your phone number by one of

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<v Speaker 2>our listeners that went out. It was kind of on

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<v Speaker 2>a sort of a date.

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<v Speaker 4>Met you at a date party, singles single.

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<v Speaker 2>And this segment is called second Date Update because we're

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<v Speaker 2>trying to get you two back together and figure out

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<v Speaker 2>if there's maybe chemistry or if if you feel the

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<v Speaker 2>same way. Thank you, Brooke. But this guy's name is Alvin.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh okay, oh my god?

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<v Speaker 2>Remember him from the Red On?

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<v Speaker 3>Remember him?

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<v Speaker 5>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>I do?

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<v Speaker 6>I do remember him. I'm just surprised.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god. Describe like what that party was like

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<v Speaker 4>for you. Also, if it's one of those parties, you

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<v Speaker 4>don't have.

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<v Speaker 5>To describe too much.

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<v Speaker 6>So I just I had never been to one, so

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know what to tell you about it because

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't stay.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't say, well, I don't think he stayed very

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<v Speaker 1>long either. Did you meet somebody else? Is that what

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<v Speaker 1>it come down? Which is totally fine, that's the whole

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<v Speaker 1>point of the party, right, success for you?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I've had friends who have done these parties, Like

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<v Speaker 6>I was really just trying to experience it and leave

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<v Speaker 6>because my friends who've done the parties, they say that

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<v Speaker 6>you should leave by midnight if you don't want to.

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<v Speaker 6>You know that it can get pretty crazy, let's put

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<v Speaker 6>it that way. And I was just trying to get

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<v Speaker 6>out of there.

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<v Speaker 4>Is it really actually one of those.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you elaborate? What do you know?

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<v Speaker 5>What happens at midnight?

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<v Speaker 6>I heard that they open up these like other rooms

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<v Speaker 6>for activities after midnight, and I just that's not really

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<v Speaker 6>my damn, like each one apparently has a theme.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, are you not calling Alvin back because

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<v Speaker 1>you think he stayed, or are you not calling him

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<v Speaker 1>like I don't understand why you or.

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<v Speaker 5>The fact that he was at that party.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean, I think I made the assumption that

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<v Speaker 6>he's been to more than one, maybe a bunch of these.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's not.

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<v Speaker 6>Really my thing. I will not to that after.

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<v Speaker 2>Midnight if you think that you're making an assumption there.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if it's fair to jump to a

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<v Speaker 2>full conclusion until we actually talked to Alvin himself.

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<v Speaker 4>Because he seems like such an innocent guy.

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<v Speaker 2>And you don't even have to wait because Alvin is

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<v Speaker 2>on the other line right now, listening to this conversation

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<v Speaker 2>from a secret room in our studio.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't say that, yes, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my gosh, what.

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<v Speaker 3>Is happening, Natalie?

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<v Speaker 4>Did I die? Did you stay after midnight? Alvin?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what she's talking about with the extra

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<v Speaker 2>rooms that open up?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes? I do?

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<v Speaker 5>You do you.

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<v Speaker 2>And you're laughing?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, bro? Well, yeah, I mean she laughs, and like

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<v Speaker 3>I said, I was kind of feeling it, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, oh, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm afraid to go into any more details of what

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<v Speaker 2>actually happens. Did you partake or are you just enjoying

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<v Speaker 2>the view?

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<v Speaker 3>Brother, I was just enjoying the view.

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<v Speaker 1>Why in the world would you contact a radio show if.

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<v Speaker 4>This is the type of event that you want to

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<v Speaker 4>Why did.

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<v Speaker 2>You You didn't mention any of this to us?

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<v Speaker 3>True, you guys asked me to talk about the date part.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the part that I was interested in. Talking with

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<v Speaker 3>you guys about the rest of the party in the

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<v Speaker 3>event and stuff is like another story.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well sure, but it's a pretty important detail. I

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<v Speaker 2>think to bring up.

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<v Speaker 3>The story ends when Natalie left, like afterwards, that was

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<v Speaker 3>just on this, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, we don't need to I mean making you feel

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<v Speaker 4>better or worse, Natalie.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I don't like the idea of him watching

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<v Speaker 6>other people. Yeah, I don't like, why does he want

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<v Speaker 6>to contact me.

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<v Speaker 3>Because you were the first and not interested in Like

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<v Speaker 3>I was thinking about you the whole rest of the night,

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<v Speaker 3>Like that's all I want.

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<v Speaker 6>Other people thinking of me.

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<v Speaker 4>That's so well, why do you go to the party.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're not into that type of people, like Natalie,

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<v Speaker 1>when what are you doing? That's actually but sometimes you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know until you try it.

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<v Speaker 6>Right now, Yeah, I was trying to just do something

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<v Speaker 6>outside of the box because I'm not super adventurous, but

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<v Speaker 6>I definitely have boundaries as far as not wanting to

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<v Speaker 6>participate in the late night activities.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you guys are making to sound like I'm some

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<v Speaker 3>kind of total freakers into like wild This is the

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<v Speaker 3>first time, just like Natalie, the first time I ever

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<v Speaker 3>went to one of these things.

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<v Speaker 2>We're not judging.

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<v Speaker 5>Some of us are jealous.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like a podcast about these it's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>How long were you there?

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<v Speaker 3>So like like three, a little after three, like three

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<v Speaker 3>thirty something.

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<v Speaker 2>You watched for three hours.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'll only really actually watched like this one

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<v Speaker 3>room called the Ascot Room. That's the only one that

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<v Speaker 3>I even got.

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<v Speaker 5>The Ascot Room.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't askot are like those ties like scarfs.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh it's actually a smart idea.

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<v Speaker 3>Paper, pretty creative.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my gosh, that's so gross. I don't what say

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<v Speaker 6>to that.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, look, he didn't use one of the ascots. He

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<v Speaker 2>just watched people with the ascots.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh no, but I like, oh no, I don't. I don't.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know why I shouldn't have pulled you out

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<v Speaker 6>of that bush. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Different meanings before I ask officially, Alvin, is there anything

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<v Speaker 2>else that you want to say to Natalie, like a

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<v Speaker 2>like a final plea.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe I just want to say, like, I thought we

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<v Speaker 3>had a good turn before, and it's not like like

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<v Speaker 3>I said, I'm not like into that scene. That's not

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<v Speaker 3>like my place and my people or something. And you

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<v Speaker 3>got to admit we were having a good time at

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<v Speaker 3>least I think we were.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a good yeah, I mean, and he obviously his

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<v Speaker 1>intentions was to meet one person.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, Well, I just need to know are you going

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<v Speaker 6>to go to the next one?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, if you wanted to go with me to

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<v Speaker 3>one of those, that would be cool. But I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>going to be going by myself.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I was a little soon to say that, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my friend, but it's not too soon to ask if

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<v Speaker 1>we can facilitate another meet up between the.

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<v Speaker 5>Two of you.

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<v Speaker 2>We have a red envelope party over at Chili.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to see you in the baby bedroom.

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<v Speaker 6>That's what I was going to say. As long as

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<v Speaker 6>there aren't extra rooms being opened up.

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<v Speaker 2>After Okay, you're open to it, you know.

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<v Speaker 6>What I am, because, like I said, I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 6>the adventurous. And it sounds like he went and he

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<v Speaker 6>committed to the experience, but it doesn't sound like it's

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<v Speaker 6>something that he does all the time.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my.

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<v Speaker 2>Janitor's classes, gradus, you got yourself another day?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, but I really am.

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<v Speaker 4>Is it gonna be so sweet when you guys tell

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<v Speaker 4>this story when you met?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, everybody has red ascots in the weather party.

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<v Speaker 3>No, just on honeymoon night as ascots.

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<v Speaker 5>No, the Billboy can watch

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<v Speaker 4>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.