1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to your Saturday podcast as Brooke and Jeffrey, 2 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:05,880 Speaker 1: And a quick reminder, tomorrow is Mother's Day. 3 00:00:06,080 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 2: Yes, I thought it. 4 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:10,720 Speaker 3: Was last week, so I sent my mom strawberry super early. 5 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 4: Which is better than sending them super late. 6 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:14,480 Speaker 2: Then I tell her and I apologize, and I was like, 7 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:16,599 Speaker 2: I don't even call you. I was so busy. I 8 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 2: was like, not till next week. I'm not okay, I'll 9 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 2: call you Sunday. 10 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:21,439 Speaker 4: So you dig get out it? 11 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:24,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I thought myself, nay it. 12 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 1: Well, listen, if you're frantic for a gift, I'm just 13 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 1: gonna tell you can go to our Merch for a 14 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 1: Cause and buy a brand new second. 15 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 4: Date update crew Neck. 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If I've learned anything from reading 30 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 2: countless dating blogs, they all say the absolute worst thing 31 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 2: you can do is be open to trying new things. 32 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 4: No, they don't. That's the opposite of what they all say. 33 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 2: New experiences should scare you and you need to avoid 34 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 2: them at all costs. 35 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 5: Instead of reading. 36 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 4: The anti therapy blogs again. 37 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:28,760 Speaker 2: You know, you need to stick to the places that 38 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:32,400 Speaker 2: you've already been and people you already know, and nothing 39 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 2: bad can ever. 40 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:37,120 Speaker 1: Happen people, Okay, Jeff, is how you end up in 41 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:39,319 Speaker 1: like my hometown dating your gage? 42 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 5: Okay, supports it. 43 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 1: Is. 44 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 2: One of our listeners didn't take that advice, thank god, 45 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 2: and he's some sort of modern renaissance man decided to 46 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 2: try something new and look where it landed him right 47 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 2: here on our show, which I'm guessing is another new 48 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 2: experience for him that he's never done before. 49 00:01:57,040 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 4: So yikes, we're the low point. 50 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:02,279 Speaker 2: We are, Alvin, welcome to your new life. 51 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 3: Low awesome, glad to be here. This is my first 52 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 3: time ever doing that. 53 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 4: Now, are you feeling shame or excitement. 54 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:14,800 Speaker 3: No, definitely excitement. I don't I'm not feeling shame. 55 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, we're going to change that by the end 56 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:19,800 Speaker 2: of the segment. But you said that you tried something 57 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 2: new for your dating life. 58 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 5: What was that? 59 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 3: Have you ever heard of a red envelope party? 60 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:30,840 Speaker 2: What is that? 61 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 4: What's a red envelope party? 62 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:36,359 Speaker 3: Well, it's like a like a dating event that people 63 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 3: put on. And there was at this fancy house and 64 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 3: you went by yourself. 65 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 4: You didn't bring a friend. 66 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:45,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, this was a friend hooked me up with this, 67 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:50,640 Speaker 3: but I went by myself. Yeah. And then you scan 68 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 3: like a QR code and you fill out a questionnaire 69 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 3: that's like about your interests and your values. 70 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:58,919 Speaker 4: You know what kind of person you are find on 71 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 4: a dating profile, right. 72 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, just a brief little thing like that, and 73 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 3: then once you do the questionnay. I went side the 74 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 3: house and it was had the vibe of like a 75 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 3: slanky private members club. It was a fancy furniture and 76 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 3: well stocked bar, chandeliers the whole you know. 77 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 2: A chandelier that is rich. No, no broke people. 78 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 1: You get a house full of single people and you're 79 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 1: only allowed to talk to one person. 80 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 4: So they give you a motive. 81 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 6: Is that the rule? 82 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 3: No, No, you're you're supposed to mingle and drink and 83 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:30,080 Speaker 3: have a good time. That's what I was doing. About 84 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:33,080 Speaker 3: like an hour into it, maybe a little more, a 85 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 3: waiter came around with a silver tray and on the 86 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 3: tray were red envelopes and you find the one that 87 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 3: had your name on it, and that has inside the 88 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 3: person that you are supposed to meet once. But we'd 89 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 3: already hung out from that. 90 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 1: I'm guessing the whole point is so that you go 91 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:50,120 Speaker 1: around the room and actually try to find the other person. 92 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, it's more about talking to other pian person. 93 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 4: I mean my guess anyway, And. 94 00:03:57,760 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 2: The fact that it's on a silver tray makes me 95 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 2: believe whatever is on it is like and so, who 96 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 2: was the person whose name was in your envelope? 97 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 3: My envelope had the name Natalie in it. 98 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 4: Okay, had you already met? Why are you laughing? 99 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 2: I thought he said he had his own name in 100 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 2: his envelope? 101 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 4: Did you had you already met Natalie or do you 102 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:25,280 Speaker 4: have to go find her? 103 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 3: I had actually met her, and she was like obviously 104 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 3: on there to date. So I'm looking around, you know, 105 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 3: looking at all the ladies and she was like top 106 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 3: of my list. 107 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 4: Oh you're like, yes, like he read envelope. 108 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 5: That's nice. 109 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:39,039 Speaker 3: There was a yes, just bump. 110 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:41,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, So you went and tracked her down. How 111 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:42,280 Speaker 5: did that go? 112 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:44,679 Speaker 3: It was great. We were having a really good time 113 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:47,039 Speaker 3: and she was laughing a lot and I was laughing. 114 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 1: Oh that's a good sign because she could have been 115 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 1: disappointed when she saw your name. 116 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:53,359 Speaker 3: No, no, she seemed cool and she was kept encouraging 117 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 3: us to go back to the bar. And so, yeah, 118 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:58,279 Speaker 3: we did drink a bit. I admit it. I definitely 119 00:04:58,360 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 3: was feeling a buzz. Nice. 120 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 1: Okay, but you're you know, you're doing it together and 121 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 1: it's a party scene, like it seems appropriate. 122 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it was appropriate amount and I was not alone, 123 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 3: you know, it was everybody was having a good time 124 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 3: and she was having a good time. You know, like 125 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:14,360 Speaker 3: I said, we were laughing a lot. 126 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 5: These are all positive reviews. 127 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 2: Is there anything in your mind that like was like 128 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 2: a low moment of the night or something that could 129 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:21,279 Speaker 2: have gone wrong? 130 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 5: Yes, yes, there was. 131 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:26,840 Speaker 4: Oh he's laughing now. 132 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 3: I mean it's not the worst, but like we had 133 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 3: been sitting for a while and we stood up and 134 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 3: we walked outside and it was pretty warm, and I 135 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:37,279 Speaker 3: definitely had like a head rush and I kind of 136 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 3: fell into a bush. 137 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 2: Oh and this was in front of Natalie. 138 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, oh yeah, I was walking with her. 139 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:48,920 Speaker 4: You may have but she may have looked a little sloppy. 140 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, yeah, I looked sloppy. I didn't like 141 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 3: fall over, Like I was just so hammered that I 142 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 3: was just like passing out. But you know, I definitely 143 00:05:55,640 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 3: leaned into it hard, let's put it that way. 144 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:01,159 Speaker 2: A confident lean into a bush. 145 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:03,920 Speaker 3: But she helped me out of it. But like I'm 146 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 3: a pretty big guy, so she couldn't really do it. 147 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 3: So this guy like kind of stepped over and kind 148 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:08,479 Speaker 3: of helped me too. 149 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 2: Gave you a hand. Not your proudest moment, but it's 150 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 2: probably not like a total deal break for you. So 151 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:16,040 Speaker 2: how did it end that night? 152 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 5: But with you and Natalie? 153 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:19,039 Speaker 3: Well, at the end of the party, I asked her 154 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:20,719 Speaker 3: if she wanted to go up to have some food, 155 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 3: you know, soak up the alcohol, right, and she said 156 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:25,600 Speaker 3: she wanted to hang back and find this friend that 157 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 3: she came with. And I don't know, that's it. Then 158 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:31,279 Speaker 3: I haven't heard back from her. I mean I got 159 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:34,839 Speaker 3: her her her number, Yeah. 160 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 4: Exactly, have you called her or nothing? 161 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:39,279 Speaker 3: I texted her once. I don't want to be the 162 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:43,479 Speaker 3: dude who's stending multiple texts, but definitely, like damn, I 163 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 3: went to all that trouble and thought it was a 164 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 3: good connection and then just seem weird that nothing has 165 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 3: come since then. 166 00:06:48,279 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 2: Maybe she confidently leaned on the same bush and is 167 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:52,919 Speaker 2: trapped inside of it right now waiting for somebody to 168 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 2: come pick. 169 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 4: Her out, as we see. 170 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 2: So we're gonna call, we'll see if she answers, and 171 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 2: try and get you your second date update Fancy edition 172 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 2: coming up right. 173 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:03,360 Speaker 3: After this. 174 00:07:05,040 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 5: Second date update. 175 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 2: I'm gonna need to set the scene here for any 176 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:14,720 Speaker 2: listeners just joining us. We picture well dressed men and 177 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 2: women sitting on ornate couches, sipping on gimlets, mingling together. 178 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:26,280 Speaker 2: Red envelope party people. It's fancy. 179 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 4: It does feel like something that happened in Jeff's neighborhood. Girls, Yeah, yeah, 180 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 4: a lot. 181 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 2: Of ask on uh huh, gimlets and mint julips and 182 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 2: what's a red envelope party? I'm still not one hundred 183 00:07:41,560 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 2: percent sure I get the idea, but one of our listeners, Alvin, 184 00:07:44,560 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 2: attended one the other night where he went to a 185 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 2: house in an upscale neighborhood. They have you fill out 186 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 2: a dating survey and then later, based on the answers 187 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 2: to your questionnaire, they bring you a red envelope on 188 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:58,720 Speaker 2: a silver platter with the name of the person that 189 00:07:58,800 --> 00:08:01,840 Speaker 2: you matched with and are host to meet that night. Yes, 190 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 2: and the name of Alvin's person was Natalie, So they 191 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:09,840 Speaker 2: met up, had a great time there until he fell 192 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 2: into a bush outside. 193 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:13,680 Speaker 4: I didn't ruin the night, It was just a memory. 194 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:17,160 Speaker 1: The thing is he remembers it, so he wasn't too 195 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:18,200 Speaker 1: dry exactly. 196 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 2: The problem is now Natalie is ghosting. So Brooke, take 197 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 2: a break from putting your reservation and at the red 198 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 2: envelope house and tell us, how do you. 199 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 5: Feel about it? 200 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 4: My hometown was more like bush Light and you'd wrestle 201 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 4: a pig, you know. 202 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:31,760 Speaker 2: And they started. 203 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:36,680 Speaker 1: The problem is is it's a singles party, so she 204 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 1: could have easily just met somebody. 205 00:08:38,520 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 4: Else that night. Oh yeah, like that's the whole point 206 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:45,319 Speaker 4: in the red envelope is so you go around and. 207 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 2: Oh, you're talking about before the envelopes were handed out. Yes. 208 00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, and like the friend that she had to find 209 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 1: at the end of the party air quotes was probably 210 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 1: the person she was talking to before him. 211 00:08:57,160 --> 00:09:00,120 Speaker 2: Alvin, did you notice Natalie speaking with any other guy? 212 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 5: Is? 213 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:03,360 Speaker 3: I mean I did notice her speaking with other guys, 214 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:03,839 Speaker 3: but not. 215 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:06,199 Speaker 1: Like you know, I'm sure that's what the point is. 216 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:08,720 Speaker 3: That's like ask you. 217 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 1: It's not like they signed a contract that you could 218 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 1: only go out with this person in the red envelope. 219 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 3: They don't know who was. 220 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:16,440 Speaker 2: In the red envelope for the first hour jet it's 221 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 2: a red envelope with a red flag attached to. 222 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:23,440 Speaker 5: I'm worried, but let's call Natalie here and see what 223 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:34,320 Speaker 5: she has to say. Here we go, Hello, Hey, is 224 00:09:34,320 --> 00:09:35,079 Speaker 5: this Natalie? 225 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 6: Yes, this is Natalie. Who is this? 226 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 2: My name is jeff and I'm part of a radio 227 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 2: show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we're 228 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:45,560 Speaker 2: all here eager to talk to you. 229 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:53,360 Speaker 5: Yeah. 230 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:55,200 Speaker 2: We actually were given your phone number by one of 231 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:57,840 Speaker 2: our listeners that went out. It was kind of on 232 00:09:57,920 --> 00:09:59,319 Speaker 2: a sort of a date. 233 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:03,280 Speaker 4: Met you at a date party, singles single. 234 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:05,679 Speaker 2: And this segment is called second Date Update because we're 235 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:08,360 Speaker 2: trying to get you two back together and figure out 236 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:12,320 Speaker 2: if there's maybe chemistry or if if you feel the 237 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:15,559 Speaker 2: same way. Thank you, Brooke. But this guy's name is Alvin. 238 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:20,320 Speaker 6: Oh okay, oh my god? 239 00:10:21,160 --> 00:10:22,640 Speaker 2: Remember him from the Red On? 240 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:24,559 Speaker 3: Remember him? 241 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:24,840 Speaker 5: Right? 242 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:25,520 Speaker 1: I do? 243 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:27,960 Speaker 6: I do remember him. I'm just surprised. 244 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:31,440 Speaker 4: Oh my god. Describe like what that party was like 245 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:33,599 Speaker 4: for you. Also, if it's one of those parties, you 246 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 4: don't have. 247 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:34,960 Speaker 5: To describe too much. 248 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 6: So I just I had never been to one, so 249 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:45,040 Speaker 6: I don't know what to tell you about it because 250 00:10:45,040 --> 00:10:46,559 Speaker 6: I didn't stay. 251 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:50,439 Speaker 1: You didn't say, well, I don't think he stayed very 252 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:52,720 Speaker 1: long either. Did you meet somebody else? Is that what 253 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 1: it come down? Which is totally fine, that's the whole 254 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 1: point of the party, right, success for you? 255 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:01,200 Speaker 6: Well, I've had friends who have done these parties, Like 256 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:05,439 Speaker 6: I was really just trying to experience it and leave 257 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:08,320 Speaker 6: because my friends who've done the parties, they say that 258 00:11:08,880 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 6: you should leave by midnight if you don't want to. 259 00:11:12,520 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 6: You know that it can get pretty crazy, let's put 260 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 6: it that way. And I was just trying to get 261 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 6: out of there. 262 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:21,199 Speaker 4: Is it really actually one of those. 263 00:11:24,559 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 2: Can you elaborate? What do you know? 264 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:26,760 Speaker 5: What happens at midnight? 265 00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:31,359 Speaker 6: I heard that they open up these like other rooms 266 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 6: for activities after midnight, and I just that's not really 267 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 6: my damn, like each one apparently has a theme. 268 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:41,600 Speaker 1: I don't know, are you not calling Alvin back because 269 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:45,079 Speaker 1: you think he stayed, or are you not calling him 270 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:47,679 Speaker 1: like I don't understand why you or. 271 00:11:47,640 --> 00:11:49,079 Speaker 5: The fact that he was at that party. 272 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:52,440 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, I think I made the assumption that 273 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:56,120 Speaker 6: he's been to more than one, maybe a bunch of these. 274 00:11:56,080 --> 00:11:57,880 Speaker 2: And that's not. 275 00:11:57,800 --> 00:12:01,000 Speaker 6: Really my thing. I will not to that after. 276 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:05,800 Speaker 2: Midnight if you think that you're making an assumption there. 277 00:12:05,960 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 2: I don't know if it's fair to jump to a 278 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:11,000 Speaker 2: full conclusion until we actually talked to Alvin himself. 279 00:12:10,679 --> 00:12:12,680 Speaker 4: Because he seems like such an innocent guy. 280 00:12:13,800 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 2: And you don't even have to wait because Alvin is 281 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:19,000 Speaker 2: on the other line right now, listening to this conversation 282 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 2: from a secret room in our studio. 283 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:25,960 Speaker 3: Don't say that, yes, I'm here. 284 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:28,319 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, what. 285 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 3: Is happening, Natalie? 286 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 4: Did I die? Did you stay after midnight? Alvin? 287 00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:37,079 Speaker 2: Do you know what she's talking about with the extra 288 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 2: rooms that open up? 289 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:39,840 Speaker 3: Yes? I do? 290 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:41,800 Speaker 5: You do you. 291 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 2: And you're laughing? 292 00:12:43,520 --> 00:12:47,920 Speaker 3: Okay, bro? Well, yeah, I mean she laughs, and like 293 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:50,320 Speaker 3: I said, I was kind of feeling it, you know, 294 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 3: and I was like, oh, I'm here. 295 00:12:56,640 --> 00:12:58,840 Speaker 2: I'm afraid to go into any more details of what 296 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:02,120 Speaker 2: actually happens. Did you partake or are you just enjoying 297 00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 2: the view? 298 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:07,360 Speaker 3: Brother, I was just enjoying the view. 299 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 1: Why in the world would you contact a radio show if. 300 00:13:10,559 --> 00:13:12,680 Speaker 4: This is the type of event that you want to 301 00:13:13,120 --> 00:13:13,640 Speaker 4: Why did. 302 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:16,080 Speaker 2: You You didn't mention any of this to us? 303 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:18,439 Speaker 3: True, you guys asked me to talk about the date part. 304 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 3: That's the part that I was interested in. Talking with 305 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 3: you guys about the rest of the party in the 306 00:13:22,600 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 3: event and stuff is like another story. 307 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 2: Okay, well sure, but it's a pretty important detail. I 308 00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:29,679 Speaker 2: think to bring up. 309 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 3: The story ends when Natalie left, like afterwards, that was 310 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:34,800 Speaker 3: just on this, you know. 311 00:13:34,920 --> 00:13:40,360 Speaker 4: Okay, we don't need to I mean making you feel 312 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:41,880 Speaker 4: better or worse, Natalie. 313 00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 6: I mean, I don't like the idea of him watching 314 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:49,560 Speaker 6: other people. Yeah, I don't like, why does he want 315 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:50,600 Speaker 6: to contact me. 316 00:13:51,480 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 3: Because you were the first and not interested in Like 317 00:13:53,640 --> 00:13:55,640 Speaker 3: I was thinking about you the whole rest of the night, 318 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:56,680 Speaker 3: Like that's all I want. 319 00:13:57,320 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 6: Other people thinking of me. 320 00:13:58,840 --> 00:14:02,800 Speaker 4: That's so well, why do you go to the party. 321 00:14:02,840 --> 00:14:05,480 Speaker 1: If you're not into that type of people, like Natalie, 322 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:10,240 Speaker 1: when what are you doing? That's actually but sometimes you 323 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:11,679 Speaker 1: don't know until you try it. 324 00:14:11,800 --> 00:14:15,200 Speaker 6: Right now, Yeah, I was trying to just do something 325 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 6: outside of the box because I'm not super adventurous, but 326 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:21,520 Speaker 6: I definitely have boundaries as far as not wanting to 327 00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:24,320 Speaker 6: participate in the late night activities. 328 00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 3: Okay, you guys are making to sound like I'm some 329 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:29,480 Speaker 3: kind of total freakers into like wild This is the 330 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:32,520 Speaker 3: first time, just like Natalie, the first time I ever 331 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 3: went to one of these things. 332 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:35,360 Speaker 2: We're not judging. 333 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:36,320 Speaker 5: Some of us are jealous. 334 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:40,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, like a podcast about these it's crazy. 335 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:42,600 Speaker 2: How long were you there? 336 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:46,000 Speaker 3: So like like three, a little after three, like three 337 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 3: thirty something. 338 00:14:48,720 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 2: You watched for three hours. 339 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 3: I mean, I'll only really actually watched like this one 340 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:55,320 Speaker 3: room called the Ascot Room. That's the only one that 341 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 3: I even got. 342 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:57,560 Speaker 5: The Ascot Room. 343 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 3: You don't askot are like those ties like scarfs. 344 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 5: Oh it's actually a smart idea. 345 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:07,240 Speaker 3: Paper, pretty creative. 346 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:13,360 Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, that's so gross. I don't what say 347 00:15:13,440 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 6: to that. 348 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:16,480 Speaker 2: Well, look, he didn't use one of the ascots. He 349 00:15:16,560 --> 00:15:18,200 Speaker 2: just watched people with the ascots. 350 00:15:18,240 --> 00:15:21,600 Speaker 6: Oh no, but I like, oh no, I don't. I don't. 351 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 6: I don't know why I shouldn't have pulled you out 352 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 6: of that bush. I don't know. 353 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:33,120 Speaker 2: Different meanings before I ask officially, Alvin, is there anything 354 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:35,320 Speaker 2: else that you want to say to Natalie, like a 355 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:36,320 Speaker 2: like a final plea. 356 00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 3: Maybe I just want to say, like, I thought we 357 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:40,480 Speaker 3: had a good turn before, and it's not like like 358 00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:42,920 Speaker 3: I said, I'm not like into that scene. That's not 359 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:46,000 Speaker 3: like my place and my people or something. And you 360 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:47,800 Speaker 3: got to admit we were having a good time at 361 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:48,720 Speaker 3: least I think we were. 362 00:15:48,920 --> 00:15:52,240 Speaker 1: It's a good yeah, I mean, and he obviously his 363 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:54,360 Speaker 1: intentions was to meet one person. 364 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:57,360 Speaker 6: Okay, Well, I just need to know are you going 365 00:15:57,680 --> 00:15:58,760 Speaker 6: to go to the next one? 366 00:15:59,680 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 3: I mean, if you wanted to go with me to 367 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:04,520 Speaker 3: one of those, that would be cool. But I'm not 368 00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:06,080 Speaker 3: going to be going by myself. 369 00:16:06,400 --> 00:16:08,640 Speaker 1: Well I was a little soon to say that, yeah, 370 00:16:08,640 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 1: my friend, but it's not too soon to ask if 371 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:13,880 Speaker 1: we can facilitate another meet up between the. 372 00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:15,160 Speaker 5: Two of you. 373 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:17,840 Speaker 2: We have a red envelope party over at Chili. 374 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:21,040 Speaker 4: I'm going to see you in the baby bedroom. 375 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:23,760 Speaker 6: That's what I was going to say. As long as 376 00:16:23,760 --> 00:16:26,560 Speaker 6: there aren't extra rooms being opened up. 377 00:16:26,480 --> 00:16:29,840 Speaker 2: After Okay, you're open to it, you know. 378 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 6: What I am, because, like I said, I'm trying to 379 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:35,120 Speaker 6: the adventurous. And it sounds like he went and he 380 00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 6: committed to the experience, but it doesn't sound like it's 381 00:16:38,920 --> 00:16:40,160 Speaker 6: something that he does all the time. 382 00:16:40,360 --> 00:16:41,280 Speaker 5: Oh my. 383 00:16:43,960 --> 00:16:47,760 Speaker 2: Janitor's classes, gradus, you got yourself another day? 384 00:16:48,280 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 3: Yes, but I really am. 385 00:16:50,800 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 4: Is it gonna be so sweet when you guys tell 386 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:57,400 Speaker 4: this story when you met? 387 00:16:57,920 --> 00:17:00,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, everybody has red ascots in the weather party. 388 00:17:01,280 --> 00:17:03,360 Speaker 3: No, just on honeymoon night as ascots. 389 00:17:03,520 --> 00:17:08,200 Speaker 5: No, the Billboy can watch 390 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:11,320 Speaker 4: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.