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Speaker 1: I Go for Anything, Ask Us Anything. Yes. So we

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Speaker 1: more of your questions. We received tons of amazing questions

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Speaker 1: And we pick the juiciest questions when you ask us.

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Speaker 1: And with that being said, are you ready to answer

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Speaker 1: some of those juicy questions that our fans are asking us?

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Speaker 1: I was born ready, Okay? That like a Mauston Okay. So, guys,

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Speaker 1: we're going to divide the segments, and you know, some

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Speaker 1: Some are going to get a little personal. So we're

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Speaker 1: going to start with the first few questions and they're

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Speaker 1: about RHOM what.

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Speaker 2: Was one moment caught on film that made you say,

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Speaker 2: oh shit, I cannot believe this was filmed.

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Speaker 1: I know, I feel like I have a few of them.

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Speaker 1: I can really pinpoint one. What about you? What are

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Speaker 1: you thinking? Well, nothing that pertains to me, but I know,

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Speaker 1: do what it perfect that you know because you never

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Speaker 1: share anything? You know? Maybe it's because you never share anything.

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Speaker 1: Have you asked yourself that question? Nobody other you would

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Speaker 1: want them to like you didn't have no ship moment.

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Speaker 1: You've been on the show for seven years? Six years

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Speaker 1: ship moment on our show? Yeah, but that has to

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Speaker 1: do with Marathon. There's many no my love. Yes, it

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Speaker 1: does that you would have not on film? Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: say oh shit. Yeah, I thought it was about everybody

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Speaker 1: started saying to you, no, okay, talk about yourself.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I kind of never thought anything was

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Speaker 2: like oh shit. I was always like, okay, that's cool whatever.

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Speaker 2: I'm here to do this, this is what I'm here

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Speaker 2: to do. People like it, don't like it, I'm okay

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Speaker 2: with it. I thought it was like an oh shit

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Speaker 2: my moment with Lenny was like oh shit, like that happened, right,

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Speaker 2: that was pretty wild. Right, Well, I always take things

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Speaker 2: for myself, So I mean there's so many O shit

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Speaker 2: think about it. So you know there's so many, but

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Speaker 2: I felt like you were asking about us. My favorite

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Speaker 2: oh shit moment of you was when you were having

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Speaker 2: your Venue magazine party and Karen came in and asked

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh shit, no she didn't.

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Speaker 1: And your hands were flying in the air and you

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Speaker 1: were going like a crazy person. Oh yeah. To me,

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Speaker 1: that was like the best TV because I love watching

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Speaker 1: you when you go crazy and you throw your hands

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Speaker 1: in here. You've had so many. That's why I can't

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Speaker 1: make such a good and I don't remember none of

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Speaker 1: my own ship moments because I think I'm so much

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Speaker 1: black out. I black out. Yeah it's I get something

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Speaker 1: It just comes out, yeah, and I just can't even

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Speaker 1: many of them? So thank you? That was my favorite

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Speaker 1: was one that was a good one.

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Speaker 2: You get out?

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Speaker 1: In the day, nobody would throw anybody out. No, it's

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Speaker 1: a very common housewife you saying. But back in the

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Speaker 1: I did, Meredith Marks. Now have this you can leave

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Speaker 1: and everybody loves and I'm like, oh, please, Bro did

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Speaker 1: Nobody did you get out? Or remember when you with

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Speaker 2: Remember in my skin at the moment when we were

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Speaker 2: I think also because he was like seven feet tall,

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Speaker 2: And hit him over the head, and so get out

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Speaker 2: I'm just too polite. You know, I wasn't raised that way.

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Speaker 2: What was the most meaningful moment with another castmate that

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Speaker 1: All my meaningful moments are with you friends, meaningful? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: We have so much empathy for each other. It's a

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Speaker 2: beautiful thing. Yeah, hopefully you all have a good friend

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Speaker 2: What was one moment that you had with a fellow

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Speaker 1: Sometimes not all the scenes make it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, sometimes not all the scenes making it. After Oh,

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Speaker 1: like all our scenes make it when you and I film,

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Speaker 1: that's scenes. But I mean it could be with any

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Speaker 2: I think every time I do a scene with you,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, it was so good. We

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Speaker 1: The time make it. I really know. I'm trying to

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Speaker 2: I can think of plenty that didn't make it, and

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Speaker 2: I'm so glad they didn't make them because they were dreadful.

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Speaker 2: I saw the dread, and everyone else saw the dread in.

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Speaker 2: Many housewives have been stepping away from filming. At what

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Speaker 2: point do you think either of you able step away?

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Speaker 1: I really can talk about that. That is true that

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Speaker 1: and you and I have been talking about this a

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Speaker 1: doing this emotionally psychologically well, I mean, everybody handles their

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Speaker 1: And I still think the same thirteen years later, that

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Speaker 2: I feel like the housewives, the franchisees, a lot of

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Speaker 2: I'm still having fun doing it, because I do enjoy

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Speaker 2: you know, and that's the most important thing. You have

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Speaker 2: to love what you do. And I love what I do.

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Speaker 2: And when I stop loving it, then I'm out. What's

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Speaker 2: that special thing that Miami has that. No other franchise,

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Speaker 2: Sassong s. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I feel like we just have like that, you know,

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Speaker 1: that flavor, that sexiness, like that, we have fun. You know,

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Speaker 1: we're unique. We're like different, you know. We we fight hard,

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Speaker 1: but we love hard. Yeah, there's a lot of friendships

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Speaker 1: Honestly that's working together. Yeah, no, for real, I love it.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, if you're in the public eye, you're gonna get

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Speaker 2: No, okay, well she doesn't like my skinny legs. Thanks God,

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Speaker 1: Because no, they don't like those skinny legs. But Steve does, No,

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Speaker 2: We Well, you and I both have been around since

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Speaker 1: we have a special bond, like we've always said, with

432
00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:36,960
Speaker 1: all these women that do the same thing we do.

433
00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:39,919
Speaker 1: It's kind of like we get this, so we know,

434
00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:43,239
Speaker 1: so we share that. And I really like and get

435
00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:46,600
Speaker 1: along with her. I'm like, really particularly fond of all

436
00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:50,600
Speaker 1: my OG's it's just we've go so way back. And

437
00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:54,639
Speaker 1: his parents pretty cool too. She's so nice. She's so nice.

438
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:58,400
Speaker 2: She's like a Jewish mother, always sending gifts and checking

439
00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:02,120
Speaker 2: on you, and she's always worried about everyone's mental health.

440
00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:05,600
Speaker 2: And she's just a great, great person, regardless of the

441
00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:09,480
Speaker 2: craziness that you see on TV. She's just really like

442
00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:12,399
Speaker 2: a one on one good person. What's one city you

443
00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 2: would love to see Bravo make a housewife franchise out of.

444
00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:21,120
Speaker 1: I mean maybe Chicago would be interesting, or you wants

445
00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:25,199
Speaker 1: to Mi or Arizona, Nashville. I mean, I feel like

446
00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:27,919
Speaker 1: right now it's oversaturated by the way it really is.

447
00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:31,439
Speaker 1: I think that we're living different times, and unless the

448
00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:36,560
Speaker 1: formula really changes, I feel like the more popular shows

449
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:38,720
Speaker 1: will be more like summer houses.

450
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:43,840
Speaker 2: And I was actually thinking I wouldn't mind seeing housewives

451
00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:47,760
Speaker 2: of like Saudi Arabia, which will never happen we want

452
00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:49,919
Speaker 2: to buy no, no, no, no, but I want to

453
00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:53,440
Speaker 2: see behind the walls the dress by Ambarriceola.

454
00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:55,840
Speaker 1: That's never going to happen, SA, Are you kidding me?

455
00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:58,320
Speaker 1: Because it would never be real. Remember this is a

456
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Speaker 1: real I know, I know, but show them. I would

457
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:02,600
Speaker 1: like to see that.

458
00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:06,320
Speaker 2: I would like to see someone of different up the charade,

459
00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 2: what's underneath behind the wall?

460
00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:12,200
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean I can say yeah, I saw

461
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:15,879
Speaker 1: it also yeah, parents, but you know, I wasn't thinking

462
00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 1: of Europe at this point because there are different culture

463
00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 1: you know, obviously the French, and like America would not

464
00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:24,800
Speaker 1: really get it. I'm sorry. The question said it could

465
00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 1: be international international, so you're you're open to another No,

466
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Speaker 1: I mean no, I feel like only Americans get these

467
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 1: kind of shows. I feel like, you know, the cultures

468
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:44,040
Speaker 1: and people in different countries and continents don't understand this

469
00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:48,480
Speaker 1: pop culture and the housewives, so I still I feel

470
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:52,080
Speaker 1: like it's an American thing, and but they have, you know,

471
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:56,600
Speaker 1: and I thinkwives, British housewives know and they canceled it.

472
00:24:57,520 --> 00:25:00,959
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, so no I don't. I don't think it works.

473
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:06,720
Speaker 1: But again, you know, I feel like instead of I

474
00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:08,440
Speaker 1: don't think this is going to keep on growing. I mean,

475
00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:10,199
Speaker 1: this is just me personal. I don't think there's going

476
00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:13,560
Speaker 1: to be other cities unless they really changed the formula

477
00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:16,280
Speaker 1: and what these shows are about. So I think people

478
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:17,639
Speaker 1: are getting really turned off by it.

479
00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:21,760
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, So these next couple of questions get a

480
00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:26,680
Speaker 2: little personal. Ooh, what's a habit you haven't been able

481
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:27,240
Speaker 2: to break?

482
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 1: Whoa? Eating and drinking? Well, yours is not eating? My

483
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:36,160
Speaker 1: love drink eat drinking? Wait, can we just clarify how

484
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:40,560
Speaker 1: eating is not a bad habit is necessary? Bad eating,

485
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:43,960
Speaker 1: it's necessary my love bad eating? Okay, you don't eat

486
00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:48,440
Speaker 1: bad and it's not a bad habit. And drinking right

487
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:52,360
Speaker 1: like a bad habit would be like biting your nails. Yeah, okay,

488
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 1: so that's not our case, but that would be like

489
00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:56,720
Speaker 1: a bad habit.

490
00:25:57,480 --> 00:26:01,080
Speaker 2: Maybe laziness. I've become very lazy since I tired. What

491
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:03,359
Speaker 2: I did overcome was anxiety. I used to have a

492
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:05,080
Speaker 2: lot of anxiety, and I don't have it anymore. But

493
00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:06,879
Speaker 2: I have so much anxiety. How did you overcome?

494
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 1: In my friend? I need you being lazy and not

495
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:11,119
Speaker 1: leaving my house? You know, how could you doesn't like

496
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 1: anxiety like starts and it's like, well, when I first

497
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:17,480
Speaker 1: stopped working, I had so much anxiety all the time.

498
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:19,399
Speaker 1: I didn't know what anxiety was. I don't know.

499
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 2: I didn't know how to disconnect from it because it

500
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:24,280
Speaker 2: was so many years of working, working, working employees, people

501
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 2: calling me my phone, blowing parents. It was so much

502
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:31,120
Speaker 2: all the time. It took me years. I had PTSD.

503
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:35,200
Speaker 2: Now I'm very good at relaxing, and I.

504
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:37,199
Speaker 1: That's a good habit. Then you turned it into a

505
00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:38,119
Speaker 1: good habit, right.

506
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:40,760
Speaker 2: So I got rid of that anxiety that I had.

507
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 2: M Yeah, so that's how I did that. So now

508
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:48,440
Speaker 2: I'm an expert relaxer. If anyone that needs tips on relaxing,

509
00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:50,199
Speaker 2: text me.

510
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:53,560
Speaker 1: You know, I feel like maybe one of my bad

511
00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:57,040
Speaker 1: habits that I have not been able to overcome is

512
00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:01,600
Speaker 1: maybe like talking over you, or like talking too much.

513
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 1: You're doing great to or this is phenomenal. See might

514
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:08,639
Speaker 1: be all the books I'm reading are working for me.

515
00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 2: I want everyone that listens to this to comment on

516
00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 2: next podcast and tell Alexia how great she did today. Yes,

517
00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 2: I think your anxiety is part of that, because you

518
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 2: have a lot of anxiety.

519
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, well and you had a lot.

520
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:27,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, you've had a lot, and it gets you amped

521
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:30,200
Speaker 2: up and you're like, I gotta get this done because

522
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 2: I'm onto the next thing, and I'm on the next thing,

523
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 2: you know, and you're always like, have so much going on,

524
00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:38,439
Speaker 2: and yeah, but.

525
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 1: I want to work on that. I want to because

526
00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:41,760
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of times I don't let

527
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:45,439
Speaker 1: the other person talk. Yeah, I don't know it's a

528
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 1: bad habit or I think it's anxiety. I mean it's

529
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:52,439
Speaker 1: just like a mixture. It's just like the way that

530
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:54,920
Speaker 1: I am. So maybe it's like something that I don't

531
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:58,199
Speaker 1: like that I recognize that I need to work on

532
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 1: a little bit. Like beautiful. I think today is going swimmingly. Oh,

533
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:04,720
Speaker 1: I love it.

534
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 2: What's an unpopular opinion that you have that you actually

535
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:11,400
Speaker 2: feel really strongly about.

536
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:16,639
Speaker 1: Oh, we have a lot of unpopular opinions, which is

537
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 1: my all My unpopular opinions are political and I can't

538
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 1: say any of them, but yeah, right, yeah, I feel

539
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:25,600
Speaker 1: like a lot of them are related to politics, and

540
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 1: that's why they're unpopular. Yeah, because there's that's what about exactly?

541
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 2: If you could relive one day in your life, which

542
00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:40,840
Speaker 2: day would that be? I bet you have a feel.

543
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 1: There's so many definitely. I mean I feel like as

544
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:47,400
Speaker 1: a mom and as a mother, you know, their most

545
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 1: special day is the day that your children are born.

546
00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 1: So that's you know that the day you still remember.

547
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 1: You know, it's been thirty one years the first time,

548
00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 1: you know, I had to give birth to Peter and

549
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 1: then to Frankie twenty seven years ago. Oh damn baby,

550
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 1: and I remember, like I still remember the moment. I

551
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 1: still remember when I had the emergency Cinesian like how

552
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 1: it spelt like when they cut me. Oh I did,

553
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:15,680
Speaker 1: but it took too long, So I remember that so

554
00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:18,600
Speaker 1: if I could relive that again, you know, the day

555
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 1: that I became a mother was like, you know, everything

556
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 1: would you want to feel that slice? Well except for that,

557
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 1: but then they put so much on SJ. I couldn't

558
00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 1: even carry Peter because like I was vombiting. I got

559
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 1: so nauseous because they gave me. Oh yeah, it makes

560
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 1: me sick too. I mean, there's so many beautiful moments

561
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 1: that I would love, you know, to relive, you know again.

562
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:42,800
Speaker 1: You know, the day I got married with Todd in

563
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 1: Saint Bart's was was beautiful, just him and I just

564
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 1: exchanging our vows alone is better, you know, just so many.

565
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 1: There's so many, you know that I can just think about,

566
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 1: you know that you would want to relive again. But

567
00:29:58,000 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 1: I think that those are the ones that really, like,

568
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:01,800
Speaker 1: you know, stand out the most. You know, I had

569
00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 1: so many beautiful moments with my mom and conversations, oh

570
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 1: my god, you know, with my dad, all the beautiful

571
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 1: trips that I took with my dad, not knowing that

572
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: he was going to have such a short life, you know,

573
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 1: and he was going to pass away when he's fifty

574
00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 1: two years old. So it's so many of them. You know,

575
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 1: there are things that make me cry. Yeah, I know,

576
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 1: I was trying not to cry and like my voices

577
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 1: like breaking, but yeah, yeah, but you know, with you yeah, no,

578
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:29,720
Speaker 1: for sure. You know, I, like I said, I've had

579
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 1: so many beautiful moments, you know that I would love

580
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 1: to relive with all the people that I've loved in

581
00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 1: my life. And imagine how many people I've loved and

582
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 1: how many people I do love, you know that. Yeah,

583
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:46,160
Speaker 1: you know, but you know what I carry inside, like

584
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 1: in my heart, and that's why my heart is so

585
00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:50,280
Speaker 1: filled of love, and so it's yours because I only

586
00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:54,000
Speaker 1: have love for you know, all these people that were

587
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:56,520
Speaker 1: talking about, and all these moments and that's really all

588
00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:58,800
Speaker 1: you take. That's all you take with you. And I

589
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 1: feel like as we get over older, that's like what

590
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 1: we learned. Yeah, you know that all these materials make.

591
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:09,960
Speaker 2: You have less friends. You you know, who you love,

592
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:13,120
Speaker 2: who you can trust. After a lot of time, you

593
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:16,040
Speaker 2: get a handful of friends. That's all the only people

594
00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:17,720
Speaker 2: you want to spend time with, those only people that

595
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:18,600
Speaker 2: make you feel good.

596
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 1: And me, we asked me, and even with you, you know,

597
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:24,840
Speaker 1: we've had so many beautiful moments, you know, as friends

598
00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 1: having fun and celebrating and oh, so imagine me living

599
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:33,720
Speaker 1: all those moments that good ones. We had some good ones,

600
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. So it's like there's so many

601
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:38,040
Speaker 1: of them, and you know, and I think that that's

602
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:40,960
Speaker 1: like the secret that people need to hold on to,

603
00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 1: like all the good and happy memories. Yeah, because that's

604
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 1: why I live. That's why I live happily. And I

605
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 1: live my life so differently because people say, oh my god,

606
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 1: you've gone through so much, you know, and they're like

607
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 1: they expect you to be miserable and angry and you know,

608
00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 1: full of hate and full of sadness and I'm not

609
00:31:57,200 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 1: that person because I live my life differently and I

610
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:03,320
Speaker 1: always like to take all the good, all the happy,

611
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 1: like that's that's what I really focus on, I swear.

612
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 1: And I know you God, I know you're giving me

613
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 1: that ability because it's such a virtue, Like it's such

614
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 1: an amazing thing that I have that you can just

615
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 1: because if God knows what I would be if I

616
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:19,680
Speaker 1: wouldn't be that way, oh no, no, no noo. So

617
00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 1: I just think of all that happy and and you

618
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 1: know what, and there's for me the way that I

619
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:28,720
Speaker 1: look at in my perspective and my world and lectures world,

620
00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 1: there's more happiness and greatness and positive things than negative.

621
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 2: I really do believe, oh absolutely, absolutely, one hundred percent.

622
00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 2: There are a lot of people that my God, the

623
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:42,720
Speaker 2: things that have had I don't want to go down

624
00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 2: at deep dark at but yeah, there's a lot of

625
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:52,680
Speaker 2: people that I remember my dad had this girl that

626
00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:57,520
Speaker 2: he had. He had a few homes in this area

627
00:32:57,560 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 2: where I live, and there was a girl that would

628
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:05,520
Speaker 2: come to this charity that he found helped fund. It's

629
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:09,240
Speaker 2: helping people that were like amputees or crippled to sail.

630
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 2: Because my dad was a sailor, and he had this

631
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:16,000
Speaker 2: girl that he would have come stay in his home.

632
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:19,280
Speaker 2: She was so she was a theldemite baby. She was

633
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 2: born without arms or legs. And she would drive a huge.

634
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 1: Like what do you call that, like a winnebago, and

635
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:30,760
Speaker 1: she had dogs.

636
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 2: And he would give her the house and she would

637
00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 2: stay there and she would go do the sailing classes,

638
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 2: and she was so happy and giggly. My dad was like,

639
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:42,720
Speaker 2: this girl is so amazing. She's the happiest person in

640
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:46,160
Speaker 2: the whole world. No husband, no children, but she travels

641
00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 2: around in her winnebagel. I don't know how she would

642
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 2: drive it without arms and legs and would go sailing.

643
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 2: And she just lived her life happy against all odds.

644
00:33:56,080 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 2: And we all need to always realize there's someone that

645
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:05,960
Speaker 2: has it worse, and and look at the blessings around you.

646
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Speaker 2: Mayor So, I love how spiritual you are. What's the

647
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Speaker 2: weirdest superstition secretly that you believe in? Oh, I got

648
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:16,040
Speaker 2: some weird ones, but I feel like it's they're very Latino.

649
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:18,800
Speaker 2: And I'm sure you have the same ones, like putting

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Speaker 2: your purse on the floor because you lose your money, right,

651
00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:25,520
Speaker 2: you have that one what about the toilet sea down?

652
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Speaker 2: That's an Asian one?

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Speaker 1: Oh, is it? I thought it was just like an

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Speaker 1: obsessive control, like upset, like OCD, like I need to

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Speaker 1: have the toilet seat down just because like esthetically it's

656
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Speaker 1: like it it looks weird, like like I need it down.

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Speaker 2: So the Asians believe that all of the negative toxins

658
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Speaker 2: and evil spirits live in the toilets. You gotta put

659
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Speaker 2: the sea down, you're.

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Speaker 1: Keeping them out. And yeah, but what about when you

661
00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:55,360
Speaker 1: open it to pee whatever and you shut it quickly again? Okay,

662
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Speaker 1: I'd like that. So for me, it's not spiritual for superstitious.

663
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:02,880
Speaker 1: For me, it's just that I'm most CD and I

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Speaker 1: have to see the toilets.

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00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:07,879
Speaker 2: You're keeping the too, You're keeping the bad juju out

666
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 2: of your house. Do you know how many times in

667
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 2: the middle of the night I go stumbling into the

668
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Speaker 2: bathroom because I do tinkle a lot. Well, that's happened too,

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Speaker 2: Or when the when the seat has been picked up,

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00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:23,080
Speaker 2: which doesn't happen because Booberreley is it down, but that

671
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:25,799
Speaker 2: has happened to me, And then I fall inside.

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Speaker 1: There in the middle of the night. It's terrible do

673
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Speaker 1: you know what I'm talking about. The happened to me

674
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Speaker 1: is that it stays. You know that bike I'm going

675
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Speaker 1: by the Wayhotos I was talking about. Yeah, the warm sea,

676
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Speaker 1: the warm seat and the flushing and the whole thing.

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Speaker 2: Guys, Alexi, you had the best toilet on the planet.

678
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Speaker 2: I was just telling you. You walk into the bathroom,

679
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 2: the lid pops open, you sit on the seat, It's

680
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 2: super warm. It feels you would have to get maracled.

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Speaker 1: I would be like, bro, can you come out of

682
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:02,920
Speaker 1: the bath I don't want to? And everything I know.

683
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:07,000
Speaker 1: It also has the B day. Oh yeah, it's all there.

684
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:10,320
Speaker 2: It's got the perfect cleaner. When I sit on that toilet,

685
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:12,520
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm being swallowed by my mother in

686
00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 2: the hospital at birth. It's just like takes me back

687
00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 2: to the womb. It is so comfortable and delicious. And

688
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:22,840
Speaker 2: then when you get up, it flushes and the lick closes.

689
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 2: I was like, well, okay, mister, thank you so much.

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00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, it does it offer you so it's so funny.

691
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:31,520
Speaker 1: So when we go on vacation, toilet my friend, yeah,

692
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:34,319
Speaker 1: well everyone should have one in their house. Honestly, it's

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00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:36,920
Speaker 1: life changing. It is life changing. I don't know what

694
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:39,839
Speaker 1: I'm doing it. I would do so much work there.

695
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:42,759
Speaker 1: Oh I know, I like I take longer just because

696
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:45,920
Speaker 1: I have that toilet. Oh, it's excellent. So when we

697
00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:48,279
Speaker 1: go on vacation and we're like the hotel's obviously they

698
00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:52,200
Speaker 1: don't have that, no matter what, you know, fancy hotel

699
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 1: you stay at, and I forget, So I go pee

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00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:57,120
Speaker 1: and I don't flush. I know. It's like, hey, like

701
00:36:57,560 --> 00:36:59,760
Speaker 1: we're not at home, like so I like, it's funny.

702
00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:01,719
Speaker 1: So I pin, I'm always being to I'm not like you,

703
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:03,960
Speaker 1: but I can imagine if you will get used to

704
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 1: mine and then he's like, you need to flush because

705
00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 1: I forget to flush. I never flushed anywhere, So God

706
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:11,280
Speaker 1: sad if I use your bathroom and I don't flush,

707
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:13,960
Speaker 1: don't judge me. It's just because I'm used to my

708
00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 1: total tolia.

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00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:17,480
Speaker 2: I know, the last few trips I took you, I

710
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:18,319
Speaker 2: was like, I'm.

711
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:22,840
Speaker 1: Sorry, I'm so used to the total doing it for me.

712
00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:27,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I got it. Don't worry. It's true.

713
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 1: Don't worry.

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00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 2: I thought the toilet was closed. How has your relationship

715
00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:44,840
Speaker 2: with God helped you throughout life?

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Speaker 1: Everything? I mean, if God wasn't in my life, you know,

717
00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 1: and in my heart we'd have no peace, and then

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00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:58,319
Speaker 1: my yeah, I could not. And this is where you know,

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Speaker 1: I don't understand, you know how people that you know

720
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:04,799
Speaker 1: don't know God or don't have a relationship with God

721
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:10,120
Speaker 1: or with you know, how they go through things because

722
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:13,279
Speaker 1: I feel that, you know, God has always been so

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00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 1: present in my life. You know. I always went to

724
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Speaker 1: Catholic school, and even though I wouldn't go to church

725
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 1: every Sunday, is kind of like He's always lived in

726
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 1: my heart. Like I have a direct communication relationship with him.

727
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:29,840
Speaker 1: I talk to God every single day in the shore

728
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:34,120
Speaker 1: when I'm driving. You know, I'm always thankful in the

729
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:36,439
Speaker 1: morning when I wake up, Like this morning I woke up,

730
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:38,840
Speaker 1: that was the first thing I did, you know. I

731
00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 1: talked to him like he's like my best friend, and

732
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:42,759
Speaker 1: like you can't let me down, like you got me

733
00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 1: and I got you, but like I need you. So

734
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:48,239
Speaker 1: you know, I talk to God like that, and you know,

735
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:51,080
Speaker 1: so my angels, I'm so filled with faith, and I

736
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:53,160
Speaker 1: think that that's why I've been able to get through

737
00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:55,960
Speaker 1: so many things in my life. Absolutely, and for sure

738
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Speaker 1: the time that my faith was tested the most, was

739
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:04,440
Speaker 1: it Frankie And and with Frankie's accent, like I saw

740
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:09,319
Speaker 1: like the miracle happen. So I have zero doubts that

741
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:13,920
Speaker 1: there's a God and there's you know, and there's you know,

742
00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:18,800
Speaker 1: your angels and like the whole universe, universe just working. Yeah,

743
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:21,400
Speaker 1: when you believe in it, you have to believe in it.

744
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:23,719
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, Oh my god, I feel like wish I were

745
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 2: on church. I'm like, yes, Amen, praise Lord, pass that

746
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:28,280
Speaker 2: money asking around.

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00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:30,439
Speaker 1: Yeah. And you know, when I was younger, I don't

748
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:32,480
Speaker 1: know ever told you this, but my mom knows. I mean,

749
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:35,000
Speaker 1: my mom's no longer here, but my mom used to

750
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 1: love to tell her friends this. And I would like

751
00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 1: write letters to God. Oh really. And it wasn't market.

752
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:44,080
Speaker 1: It wasn't like are you their godess me, Margaret. It

753
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 1: was kind of like, are you their goddess me Alexia?

754
00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 1: And I'm not texting writing texting list, Oh I'm so

755
00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 1: twenty twenty. I'm not writing about my period. I got

756
00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:02,920
Speaker 1: favorite things on my mind. Oh my god, that was

757
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:05,560
Speaker 1: so good. So yeah, I used to write letters to

758
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:10,000
Speaker 1: God and you know, just like you know, like whatever

759
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:11,919
Speaker 1: it was like I was feeling what I would write

760
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 1: to God and I felt so much better. And you know,

761
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:17,879
Speaker 1: I haven't done that a long time again with Frankie's accent,

762
00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:23,560
Speaker 1: and I started doing that. Yeah, journaling is good, especially

763
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:25,680
Speaker 1: when you're going through something like that, because there's some

764
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:29,880
Speaker 1: other times when I mean, journaling is always good, that's true,

765
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:33,359
Speaker 1: but specifically that journ.

766
00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:36,080
Speaker 2: But I imagined that if I did it, it would

767
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:36,399
Speaker 2: be good.

768
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:40,880
Speaker 1: Right, No, it is. It's very therapeutic. Yeah, and and

769
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 1: at that moment it was. It was very good for me.

770
00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 1: But definitely like I have God present in my life

771
00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:46,719
Speaker 1: every single day.

772
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:50,440
Speaker 2: Well, you know what, you can't live without God. He

773
00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:52,799
Speaker 2: put us here and he's taken us out and we

774
00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:56,400
Speaker 2: got to get along with him in the meantime. Yeah,

775
00:40:56,440 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 2: and he's shown me a lot of blessings and things

776
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:04,279
Speaker 2: I've asked for one hundred per sid. You just got

777
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:06,120
Speaker 2: to let go. You got to let go and let

778
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:08,279
Speaker 2: him do his thing. You can't put a time frame

779
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:12,200
Speaker 2: on it. You can't demand and you can't expect and

780
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:14,160
Speaker 2: wait for it. You need to set it and you.

781
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:16,839
Speaker 1: Can question him because sometimes that happens to your question

782
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:18,279
Speaker 1: like why is this happening to me?

783
00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 2: Oh, because he's got a better plan for you, and

784
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:25,399
Speaker 2: you just set it out there and throw it into

785
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 2: the universe and it will come around in an even

786
00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:29,560
Speaker 2: better way than you even expected.

787
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:33,720
Speaker 1: Relics amen to that. Well, guys, it's been so much fun.

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Speaker 1: We really enjoy all of your questions. There were all phenomenal.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Yeah, they were really incredible. Thank you for

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00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:45,319
Speaker 1: being so interested in us. Yeah, we're so happy that

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00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:47,920
Speaker 1: we can share, you know, a little bit more with you. Guys.

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Speaker 1: Keep on sending the questions and hopefully we'll have a

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Speaker 1: it's summertime. Summertime and we need to travel a little

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