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Speaker 1: Hey there, everybody, and welcome to I Do Part too.

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Speaker 1: And in this episode, we're about to do a catch

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Speaker 1: up with one of our absolute favorite new friends. But

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Speaker 1: from the moment we met her, she kept telling us

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Speaker 1: she's having the hardest time finding a date. Can't find

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Speaker 1: a date, and you know, the last place, the latest

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Speaker 1: place she decided to look at the VIP suite next

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Speaker 1: to Travis Kelsey's mom and again see the Chiefs game.

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Speaker 1: And with that, welcome to I Do Part two. Folks.

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Speaker 1: This is the podcast for folks who didn't get it

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Speaker 1: right the first time around, might be even the second,

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Speaker 1: maybe even the third. This is the place to be

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Speaker 1: alongside one of the other hosts, Amy Roboxing weird to

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Speaker 1: introduce you that way.

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Speaker 2: Yes right, I'm one of your co hosts podcast. Yes,

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Speaker 2: so many of us feel your pain. We've been divorced,

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Speaker 2: we've had our hearts broken, we've searched for love to

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Speaker 2: no avail, and so we want you to know you're

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Speaker 2: not alone, and we're all here to help in the

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Speaker 2: conversation and in actually trying to set some people up.

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Speaker 1: Is it going better for you now? You just described

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Speaker 1: a struggle in your life and it sounds like this

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Speaker 1: is the podcast for you if you need some help.

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Speaker 3: I think it pretty good.

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Speaker 2: Let me set the record straight in case anyone doesn't know,

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Speaker 2: I have happily found my forever person.

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Speaker 1: Good for you.

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Speaker 2: Just to be sitting right next to me, no good,

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Speaker 2: save baby.

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Speaker 1: On this show we have Jenny Garth, Janna Kramer, the

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Speaker 1: other two hosts. We have here folks like Kelly Bensimone

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Speaker 1: who's been one of the mentors helping some of the

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Speaker 1: people find days. So I hope you've enjoyed this journey.

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Speaker 1: We've enjoyed. I absolutely have. When this first came to us,

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Speaker 1: I didn't know what to think the idea of doing it,

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Speaker 1: But now that we've been doing it, this has been

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Speaker 1: some of the most fun I've had at our heart.

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Speaker 2: You know, it's been a lot of fun because it's

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Speaker 2: so relatable. So many people are in between relationships, looking

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Speaker 2: for love or are basically looking their wounds. They're frustrated,

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Speaker 2: they're sad, they're heartbroken, and it's just something that I

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Speaker 2: think is universal. Who hasn't experienced that? So it feels

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Speaker 2: good to be able to have honest, real conversations about

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Speaker 2: the challenges, the highs and the lows. Of I feel

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Speaker 2: like figuring out what we're all here to do, which

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Speaker 2: is to love and to find that partner and to

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Speaker 1: And those conversations have been great that we've had on

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Speaker 1: the podcast. The conversations have been even better that we've

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Speaker 1: had in private with some of the folks. And the

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Speaker 1: folks that we've met is the reason really why this

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Speaker 1: has been such a joy. And I said, two of

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Speaker 1: our absolute favorite new friends. One of them Kathy Schwarts,

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Speaker 1: a lot of people are familiar with from The Golden Bachelor,

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Speaker 1: was a contestant there and you can't It's almost weird.

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Speaker 1: You can't say her name without saying the name Susan

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Speaker 1: Knowles is like peanut butter and Jelliot. Yeah, it's bacon eggs.

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Speaker 1: You can't have Kathin, not Susan. But Susan Knowles is

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Speaker 1: the other who is been looking for love. She's on

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Speaker 1: the Golden Bachelor. But I mentioned at the top we

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Speaker 1: of the most exclusive rooms in all of sports.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so Susan was with basically, I mean, probably one

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Speaker 2: Of who he's dating. But of course we're talking about

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Speaker 1: But yeah, Susan is here back with us now. We

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Speaker 1: always good to see you. We miss you. But for everybody,

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Speaker 1: just give them a quick update. We're gonna get it

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Speaker 1: into your dating life here in a second. But give

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Speaker 1: us a word. If I had to ask, if we

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Speaker 1: asked you right now, Susan, how's dating going, your one

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Speaker 3: Okay, slow, but not I did have a date. I

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Speaker 2: All right, that's hey. One is better than not. Right.

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Speaker 3: We went to play top golf. We had a great time.

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Speaker 3: Ah am a golfer. I got one hell of a drive.

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Speaker 1: you're familiar with this Bachelor Happy Hour, the Golden Hour

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Speaker 3: Kathy, the Golden because we are golden.

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Speaker 1: I mean yes, you know you had your golden butt

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Speaker 1: You're dead just initially. You just have to explain this

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Speaker 3: So Donna and I met last year. We did a

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Speaker 3: So of course I had to wear my other kelsey,

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Speaker 3: and everybody in my phone was blowing up. My friend's wait,

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Speaker 3: Obviously not, and she goes. You know, she said she

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Speaker 2: Yeah you were close, you were very close. How many

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Speaker 2: I think maybe next time? Maybe next not. Donna is

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Speaker 2: Did you all talk about dating?

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Speaker 3: Yes? You know me, Amy, come on, of course I

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Speaker 3: And it wasn't our first meet, you know, we know

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Speaker 2: So she's uninterested in finding someone at this point in

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Speaker 1: But but that doesn't register for you. Do you do

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Speaker 3: I want to find my person. I want somebody to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I do get that, and I love hearing you

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Speaker 3: don't they say? When you stop looking, that's when you

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Speaker 3: Maybe not long enough. I don't know. My eyes are

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Speaker 2: I think a lot of women might be afraid to

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Speaker 2: what you're saying I desire because they're afraid it's not

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Speaker 2: That yes, that the older guys are the guys who

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's Cathy's whole thing. They don't want me, and

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Speaker 3: I look good for sixty seven years old. I mean

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Speaker 1: We get so caught up in that because I know

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Speaker 3: Yeah's inside. And that's the problem I think with all

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Speaker 2: Yeah, isn't it about the conversation section and how much

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Speaker 2: do you find I don't know how many sporting events

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Speaker 3: Maybe not throwing the playoffs? I mean.

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Speaker 2: They're kind of focused on the fields.

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Speaker 1: Or you were talking about this date you went on recently.

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Speaker 1: How'd you meet? And will there be another date?

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Speaker 3: Yes, they'll probably be another date. He was quiet, quite

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Speaker 2: How old is he?

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Speaker 3: He's nice looking, he was tall enough. He was pleasant

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Speaker 2: Well, maybe he's a really good listener and he appreciates

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Speaker 2: I mean I think that. Look, if you have shared interest,

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Speaker 2: But it's kind of nice to have different personalities. I'm

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Speaker 2: an extrovert. You're an introvert, right and you don't realize that,

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Speaker 1: Look everybody, he is really like it.

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Speaker 2: In social settings. He actually, you know, you would know

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Speaker 2: because he loves talking to you and Kathy, but he's

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Speaker 2: not He's discerning in who he speaks to, and he

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Speaker 1: Very happy sitting in the corner of the room, just

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Speaker 3: Watch an Amy walk across the room and getting the butterflies.

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Speaker 2: And you know me, I'm like talk talk talk talk,

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Speaker 1: Besides, the golf, was there a meal involved drinks and bold.

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Speaker 3: And that's a plan for the spring that maybe we'll

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Speaker 2: So how did you all meet? How did you end

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Speaker 3: You actually on Facebook? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Okay, how did that go?

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Speaker 3: He said? There was Facebook dating. I think it is.

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Speaker 3: I went on for about ten minutes. He messaged me

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Speaker 3: and we chatted for I don't know, two or three

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Speaker 3: I don't get on that. So that's what we did.

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Speaker 3: Is he vocal in Philadelphia?

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Speaker 1: Oh that's great, that's great.

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Speaker 2: Do you do you? This is so interesting because I

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Speaker 2: don't know if it depends on what age range you're in,

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Speaker 2: but do you still play games and don't and wait

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Speaker 3: Oh? No, I was never good at that.

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Speaker 2: Great, I love suck at that.

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Speaker 3: Actually, everything I read that what we shouldn't do? I

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Speaker 3: do all that, shouldn't you know? I'll text first, I'll

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Speaker 3: ask them out. I don't care. Let's just do this,

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Speaker 3: you know what.

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Speaker 2: That's what's so nice about getting older is that you

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Speaker 2: learn sooner, which is better. So how often do you

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Speaker 3: A couple of times a week and it's only it's new,

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Speaker 5: So yeah, you know what, how do when we're young,

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Speaker 1: Right, You're seeing your relationship kind of play out a

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Speaker 3: Easier to look at somebody like, am I going to

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Speaker 1: Damn? That's a good point.

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Speaker 3: You know. I got to be able to have fun

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Speaker 3: Do you like to travel? Where have you been? Do

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Speaker 3: I made it a point to go everywhere. I love it.

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Speaker 3: I love to travel. I've been in Italy six times.

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Speaker 3: And when I ask, you're half Italian, have you been

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Speaker 1: The intimidation. One thing I didn't think about. Yeah, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Experience, just by my present, like a lot of men

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Speaker 3: Maybe, I mean, I got to be in charge a

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Speaker 3: You're exactly right, neither one of you two.

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Speaker 1: If I if this place is on fire, I would

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Speaker 3: Oh no, no, no, see that you just blew it.

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Speaker 3: You just that's a big no. Right now, you run

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Speaker 2: He actually actually to defend what he just said about himself.

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Speaker 3: I let you do it now, though yeah I would too.

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Speaker 3: Mine's always heavy, right, But.

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Speaker 1: If it's intimidating to a guy. You all are those

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Speaker 1: But trust me, I can buy my own flowers, I

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Speaker 3: Yes we can. But we love it when you do

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Speaker 1: But you all are so outward, you too, at least

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Speaker 3: So are you suggesting that I lower it a little bit,

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Speaker 2: You?

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Speaker 1: You don't want a guy who if he can't deal,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you have to.

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Speaker 2: And there are plenty of men out there who appreciate

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Speaker 2: just knew immediately, like there's no way they would be

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00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:18,800
Speaker 2: not going to work.

437
00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:26,800
Speaker 1: I asked myself that every day, are you considering Susan

438
00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:28,920
Speaker 1: doing anything different, switching anything up?

439
00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:33,040
Speaker 3: Stop looking again? I mean I wanted to try to

440
00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:35,600
Speaker 3: go back on it. I joined like that match dot

441
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:38,200
Speaker 3: com for not even a month. It was a week

442
00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:41,800
Speaker 3: and I already deleted everything. The profile was like, I can't,

443
00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:45,000
Speaker 3: I just can't do this. I am happy. I do

444
00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:48,720
Speaker 3: want to find my person to get old with. I do,

445
00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:54,159
Speaker 3: but I can't. I don't know. I don't want to

446
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:59,040
Speaker 3: say lower myself. That's the terrible phreeze. But sit online

447
00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:01,919
Speaker 3: and search through the these pictures in these profiles and

448
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:05,880
Speaker 3: be judgmental. It's like, this is not healthy. I'm all

449
00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:08,960
Speaker 3: over the place. Why can't I meet somebody walking to

450
00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:12,840
Speaker 3: the airport or in the store at the grocery store,

451
00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:15,480
Speaker 3: squeeze in the fresh fruit.

452
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:21,360
Speaker 2: To that point? Do you I'm curious because I struggle.

453
00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:23,920
Speaker 2: I would struggle with this if I weren't in a relationship,

454
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:27,760
Speaker 2: but might push myself in this direction. Do you go

455
00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:29,440
Speaker 2: to restaurants by yourself?

456
00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 3: Do you have yeah?

457
00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:33,440
Speaker 2: Establishments alone?

458
00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:36,919
Speaker 3: And I won't pick up my phone. It's like a job.

459
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:40,160
Speaker 3: Do not get on the phone. Do you know how

460
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:44,680
Speaker 3: weird it is sitting there by yourself and there's all

461
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:49,840
Speaker 3: these forty somethings and they're coupled, and some people will

462
00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:52,120
Speaker 3: chat once in a while, few words, or I'll try

463
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:54,800
Speaker 3: to make fun with the bartender just to have a conversation,

464
00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:58,840
Speaker 3: and then I start feeling weird. Yeah, and as long

465
00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:00,920
Speaker 3: as there are food in a glass the wine, I'm good.

466
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:04,159
Speaker 3: When you're sitting there waiting, it's like, okay, what do

467
00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:04,880
Speaker 3: I do now?

468
00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:09,760
Speaker 1: You know I do this. I enjoy what you just described.

469
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,439
Speaker 1: Leave the phone down and just take it all in

470
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:16,280
Speaker 1: around you and enjoy a meal with peace. I don't

471
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:18,400
Speaker 1: mind it at all. Obviously I'm not there trying to date,

472
00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:19,800
Speaker 1: but it's I know what.

473
00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:23,639
Speaker 3: You don't mind it either. I'm not. I'm perfectly comfortable,

474
00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:28,000
Speaker 3: but you're hoping that somebody looks at you right Well,

475
00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 3: you don't because you have your person. But when you're alone,

476
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:35,879
Speaker 3: you're like, and I'm looking around thinking they're way too young.

477
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,879
Speaker 3: They're all with people. Just enjoy your meal, Susan.

478
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:42,439
Speaker 2: Susan, would you vacation alone or have you vacationed alone?

479
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:43,480
Speaker 2: I have.

480
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:46,960
Speaker 3: I When I was living in Philadelphia in the city,

481
00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:50,199
Speaker 3: it was New Year's Day and I was with my

482
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 3: most favorite gaze and I was always with them every holiday,

483
00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:57,560
Speaker 3: and I was the other one, the third one, you know,

484
00:24:58,280 --> 00:24:59,919
Speaker 3: And I woke up New Year's Day and said, you

485
00:24:59,920 --> 00:25:01,840
Speaker 3: know know what, guys, I'm going to take myself to

486
00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:05,399
Speaker 3: Italy for fifteen days. I'm going to give six months

487
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:08,640
Speaker 3: to planet and I'm going. And it was like huge

488
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:12,399
Speaker 3: for me. And I did when I landed, Oh my gosh,

489
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 3: this most handsome man with my name. When I'm going,

490
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:18,359
Speaker 3: oh my god, I mean he could have been my son,

491
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:21,160
Speaker 3: of course, and he takes me in the little water

492
00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,840
Speaker 3: taxi I was in Venice and drops me off and

493
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:26,879
Speaker 3: I get up to this little tiny room and I thought, oh,

494
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:30,440
Speaker 3: what did I do? What do I do now? Yeah,

495
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 3: And that's when it began my journey. It was fabulous,

496
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:38,760
Speaker 3: but there was so so many times, so many moments

497
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:42,160
Speaker 3: that I wished I was sharing it with somebody. I'm

498
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:46,320
Speaker 3: like a hopeless romantic. I love romance, you know.

499
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 2: I just I got even emotional thinking about it because

500
00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:52,159
Speaker 2: I feel the same way like I can be alone.

501
00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:56,000
Speaker 2: But when you experience something beautiful, you want to share

502
00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:59,119
Speaker 2: it or fun or funny, you want to share it

503
00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:01,400
Speaker 2: with some muss. Yes, that's my.

504
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 3: Issue, that's what was missing. I mean, I have the

505
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:07,119
Speaker 3: time of my life and it empowered me in so

506
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 3: many ways. It wasn't too long after that, Eat, Pray, Love,

507
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:11,920
Speaker 3: and I thought where should I get next?

508
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, I know. I think it's one of

509
00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:22,120
Speaker 2: those dreams that sounds amazing and is but so scary

510
00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 2: to actually put into practice. I traveled a lot alone

511
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 2: for work, and and I did have moments where I

512
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 2: was like, Okay, this is I was alone in this

513
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:34,439
Speaker 2: mansion that I had been put up in and no

514
00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:37,960
Speaker 2: one else ended up staying there on like in the

515
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 2: Seychelles with the Indian Ocean pounding wats below me, and

516
00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:43,480
Speaker 2: I just thought, You're like, why am I by my

517
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 2: cellar place alone for three weeks?

518
00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 1: Nobody's going to believe this. I would have gone, wow,

519
00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:53,879
Speaker 1: I should have called me.

520
00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:55,359
Speaker 3: I wouldn't joined you.

521
00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:58,200
Speaker 2: But actually the truth is I was married at the time,

522
00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:01,600
Speaker 2: and those that those weeks gave me clarity, like of

523
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 2: what I knew I wanted to do, which was a

524
00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 2: end my marriage.

525
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:08,160
Speaker 3: Well, you're in touch with yourself and you have time.

526
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:11,159
Speaker 3: What am I doing? Am I happy? Where do I

527
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 3: want to be? Yeah?

528
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:16,359
Speaker 2: No, there's a lot of aha moments. It can come

529
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:20,119
Speaker 2: in those moments of solitude. But I know you're looking

530
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 2: for that person. So you said, I mean, obviously you

531
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:28,240
Speaker 2: went onto Facebook, and that has borne some fruit. We'll

532
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 2: see what happens. Do you have a strategy, a plan

533
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 2: of attack for this new year for twenty twenty five

534
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 2: to find love?

535
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 3: No, No, it's more about I have some good news

536
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:43,960
Speaker 3: I'm going to share. So I was opening an email

537
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 3: and I never even heard of IOATP the International Organization

538
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 3: of Top Professionals, And I will be announced shortly that

539
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 3: I've been nominated for the Officiate of the Year of

540
00:27:56,840 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 3: twenty twenty five. WHOA so exciting. So there's a big

541
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 3: photo shoot in New York under the Nastac Building. My

542
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:09,280
Speaker 3: picture will be up there and they'll do a photo

543
00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:12,679
Speaker 3: shoot and it's a huge It's all over the world,

544
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:15,680
Speaker 3: like watching the videos from last year. This year, it'll

545
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:20,439
Speaker 3: be in December in Las Vegas, and the people like

546
00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 3: every walk of life and it's dripping and downs and

547
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:28,960
Speaker 3: gorgeous and I'm like, oh my god, this is me.

548
00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:32,480
Speaker 3: So I'm tickled.

549
00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:35,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, tell us how you earned the honor? How you

550
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:36,359
Speaker 2: earned the award.

551
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:39,480
Speaker 3: I don't know who nominated me, but they said that

552
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:42,840
Speaker 3: they have watched and what I've shared with the public

553
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 3: and what I do and my talk. You know, I'm

554
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:49,480
Speaker 3: all about empowering women that are over the age of

555
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:52,480
Speaker 3: fifty or sixty, that we still have a light. There's

556
00:28:52,560 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 3: so many possibilities. I mean, look at me. Who'd have thought.

557
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:11,080
Speaker 1: You are forever optimistic even if something didn't go your

558
00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:13,400
Speaker 1: way or this isn't happening the way you want. And

559
00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 1: we've talked about that from personal and professional aspects of

560
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 1: your life. You are eternally optimistic and upbeat and just

561
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 1: everything you say and your energy. Folks can't see you

562
00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:27,640
Speaker 1: right now, but from the moment you just you're bursting, right,

563
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 1: You're just that smile. Yeah, yeah, you're always so we

564
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 1: have I'm not kidding you. We don't make a lot

565
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:35,360
Speaker 1: of new friends on purpose these.

566
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 3: Days, right right, You know a lot of people, but

567
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 3: friends are Yes, You're one of.

568
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 1: Our favorite favorite new people. It really is a treat

569
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 1: to gotten to know as much as we have over

570
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 1: the past year plus.

571
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:50,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, and people that are gloomy and doomy, like I've

572
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:54,720
Speaker 3: separated myself from people that I've known since grade school

573
00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 3: that we're still friends, but I choose not to because

574
00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:00,840
Speaker 3: I tried. I tried to con instant look at the

575
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 3: brighter side. I'm so such a believer in positive attracts.

576
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:08,160
Speaker 3: Positive and what you put out there, you're going to

577
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:10,760
Speaker 3: get right back at you. So if you feel a

578
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:16,120
Speaker 3: little negativity, be aware of it, stop and rephrase it

579
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 3: and change the thought. I mean, it really works.

580
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:24,320
Speaker 2: It totally does. I am such a believer in positive energy,

581
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:27,680
Speaker 2: and it's so easy to start complaining and we all

582
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:30,160
Speaker 2: do it. But I'd like say, oh, do you hear

583
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:32,400
Speaker 2: what you just did or said yeah, it's in your

584
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 2: head right, and just say how can I find a positive?

585
00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 2: And what I just said like stop a race? You

586
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:40,479
Speaker 2: can always find the positive, and yes, if you can

587
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 2: find someone else who has that same goal, because we're

588
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:46,640
Speaker 2: not all always going to be positive.

589
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 3: No, I have moments, trust me.

590
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, clearly we all do. But if you know that

591
00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:54,959
Speaker 2: that is important, and you recognize how important that is

592
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 2: to your overall happiness and your mental well being, that's

593
00:30:58,360 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 2: key to find.

594
00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:02,560
Speaker 3: It gets you threw the dawn parts, the sad parts.

595
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 3: You know, it's got to get better. I was once

596
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:09,840
Speaker 3: asked this question and some people look at me like, well,

597
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:12,600
Speaker 3: you love yourself? I said, no, it's true. How does

598
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 3: this feel, this new celebrity because you were on TV

599
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 3: and now you're a star d I said, you know,

600
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 3: I was a star the day I was born. It's

601
00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 3: just time the rest of the world knows it. I mean,

602
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:29,560
Speaker 3: doing hair behind the chair for forty years, you're a star.

603
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 3: I perform every day in the salon when I worked

604
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:35,920
Speaker 3: in the salon, and I listened to people and helped

605
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:40,520
Speaker 3: make people feel good about themselves. So it's a natural

606
00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 3: thing for me.

607
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:43,560
Speaker 2: I love that, you know, TJ. I don't know where

608
00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 2: you got it from, but you said to me, and

609
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 2: you actually just said this, Susan, that you're looking for

610
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:50,840
Speaker 2: someone to grow old with. And TJ's like you read

611
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 2: somewhere that someone said you should be looking for someone

612
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 2: to stay young with. And I feel like that's what

613
00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:58,240
Speaker 2: you're looking for.

614
00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:01,280
Speaker 3: Oh I like that. Thank you. Oh that was like

615
00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 3: a goosebump movement.

616
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:06,240
Speaker 1: But it makes sense. For it's hard to find folks

617
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 1: like you anywhere who look at life that way that

618
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 1: I am just trying to be a kid for as

619
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 1: long as I can, and that's what we all should

620
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:15,480
Speaker 1: be trying to do. So that is going to be

621
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:18,320
Speaker 1: a challenge for you out because most people just aren't

622
00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 1: built like that.

623
00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:21,520
Speaker 3: I'll never grow up though, I mean.

624
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:25,880
Speaker 2: I know, right proudly displaying or showing or talking about

625
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 2: your Peter Pan syndrome. I we're all responsible adults, but

626
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:31,880
Speaker 2: I have always try to be in touch with my

627
00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:35,480
Speaker 2: inner child. I tried. I try to slide across the floor.

628
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:36,440
Speaker 3: That's fun.

629
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:39,000
Speaker 2: Yes, back up the music and dance right.

630
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god, wait a minute, we forgot Wait a minute,

631
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:44,880
Speaker 1: we forgot to ask Jesus crime. I mean, who the

632
00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 1: hell is this Jack guy?

633
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Jack, Jack, God bless Jack.

634
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 1: What's with you and Jack?

635
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 3: The world thought Susan Jack, Susan and Jack. Jack likes

636
00:32:55,200 --> 00:33:01,360
Speaker 3: to cook like I do. Jack was on Jean's bachelorette Yes, yes,

637
00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:06,120
Speaker 3: and we did meet, and he's he'd be a great friend.

638
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 1: Then why does everybody else think be great?

639
00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 3: Because we're both loud, and we're both Italian, and we

640
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 3: both like to cook, and we're both funny at times.

641
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 1: So yeah, that all sounds good to me.

642
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:19,480
Speaker 3: Two of the same as maybe not so good.

643
00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 2: Oh okay, I hear you. That makes sense, that makes sense,

644
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 2: but actually too, like thinking about that pool of men

645
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 2: who all put themselves out there in these seasons, I mean,

646
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 2: have you had the opportunity to, like, you know, in

647
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 2: the other out of the other reality seasons they have,

648
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:37,440
Speaker 2: like the people who didn't get picked all go to

649
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:41,240
Speaker 2: an island together and like, you know whatever, in paradise whatever,

650
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 2: they have difference, it's coming.

651
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:46,960
Speaker 3: So they said rumor has it, so you can't. This

652
00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:52,719
Speaker 3: is not rumor has it. They're thinking about some gold

653
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 3: and paradise. And the first thing I said, of course,

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Speaker 3: was we're not going to Mexico with bugs to no

655
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Speaker 3: air condition. It's not going to work at our age.

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Speaker 2: It's so funny. I thought you were to say. The

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Speaker 2: first thing I said was count me in or sign

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Speaker 2: me up.

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Speaker 3: Well, they know, Alba absolutely. I'm hoping it's like on

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Speaker 3: a cruise ship or something.

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Speaker 2: Wait, you wanted to be on a cruise ship?

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Speaker 3: I mean better than bugs in no air Yeah.

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Speaker 2: That's actually not a bad idea. That's like mixing one

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Speaker 2: of our favorite shows below Deck with Oh I Love Violence,

665
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 2: and then he or The Bachelor, and then he just

666
00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 2: put them together and it's all the people who still

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00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:31,120
Speaker 2: are looking for love who didn't get chosen, and put

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Speaker 2: them all together and stir in a little bit of

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Speaker 2: alcohol which always makes it extra fun.

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Speaker 3: And maybe some new meat too. Here's the issue. Women

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Speaker 3: are not shy, so those men that did not get chosen,

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Speaker 3: and they're all lovely men. I've interviewed quite a few

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Speaker 3: of them, had them on our podcast and got to

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Speaker 3: know them, and they're great guys. Most of them are taken.

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Speaker 3: Their DMS blew up and I remember them saying it

676
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Speaker 3: to us, don't wear ladies when you get off here.

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Speaker 3: You're going to get so many people asking you out.

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Speaker 2: And we didn't, but the men did.

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Speaker 3: Men my age aren't really on Instagram and social media.

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Speaker 3: You're lucky if you get a Facebook, you know what

681
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Speaker 3: I mean. And they're not doing that, but women do.

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00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:21,880
Speaker 3: We're all on social media, so they've reached out. I

683
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:23,880
Speaker 3: know some one of them told me they had like

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Speaker 3: five hundred messages like people asking them out. And quite

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Speaker 3: a few of them are in relationships. You know, Mark

686
00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:36,240
Speaker 3: is with somebody, and Jonathan is with somebody, Jordan's with somebody,

687
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Speaker 3: who's left who's maybe we need some new meat on

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Speaker 3: this golden thing. If there is one sound bad?

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Speaker 1: Have you gone through that list of guys because they've

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Speaker 1: been vetted? I mean have you? I mean you almost

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Speaker 1: just put their names on the list and start checking

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Speaker 1: them off. Okay, he's taking he's taking he's ugly, he's

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Speaker 1: or whatever. But have you done that?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, yeah, obvious obvious abilities because they've said, hey,

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Speaker 2: I'm looking for love as well, I'm older, I want

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Speaker 2: I want this.

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Speaker 3: But they were looking for Joan with the long blonde

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Speaker 3: hair and a nice, thin, perfect body, and I'm not

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00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:18,879
Speaker 3: Joanah is quiet, Jone is soft spoken. If I were

700
00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:22,280
Speaker 3: the Golden Bachelorette, it would be one hell of a show.

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Speaker 3: We all fall.

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Speaker 1: I would love to see the guys. They bring your weight.

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Speaker 3: But I think they did a great job choosing men.

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Speaker 3: She had some very very nice men, Susan.

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Speaker 1: Her roles ceremony. Some of the gods would probably kill

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Speaker 1: the rolls back. I can't take them, oh God.

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Speaker 3: But you know, there's that other side of me, that romantic,

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00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 3: soft loving side of me. But for the most part,

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Speaker 3: I like to have fun.

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Speaker 2: I like to smile, and you need you need people

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Speaker 2: to know that because you want to have somebody who's

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Speaker 2: willing to have fun too, or it's no fun, no fun.

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Speaker 2: Have you told us what you're do you have an

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Speaker 2: ideal man in your mind or like a way to

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Speaker 2: describe who would be your perfect.

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00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:17,280
Speaker 3: Guy, Somebody that's kind to everyone, especially the person waiting

717
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:20,879
Speaker 3: on you at a table that I judge people when

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00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:29,120
Speaker 3: they don't treat people with respect. That's the biggest thing. Physically,

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Speaker 3: I'd like them to be taller than me, that's for sure,

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Speaker 3: even though I'm starting to shrink now, so it's not

721
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 3: such a bad thing. But I like a tall man.

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00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:43,799
Speaker 3: I like a man that's confident and can laugh. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I'm not asking for all that much.

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Speaker 1: Confidence. Apology is yeah tough.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure you know one hundred of them, right.

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Speaker 1: I mean, but folks, if you're listening, this is serious.

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Speaker 1: If you if there's someone you know that you think

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Speaker 1: it's perfect for Susan, we absolutely want you to reach

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00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:04,440
Speaker 1: out to us. We are not kidding here. You can

730
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Speaker 1: call us, email us, follow us on the social media,

731
00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:09,680
Speaker 1: all the sites we have. All the information is going

732
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 1: to be in the show notes as well. Rate and

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Speaker 1: review the podcast. But if you think you know someone

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Speaker 1: who is kind, who is what was confident?

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Speaker 2: And how tall are you? Susan?

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Speaker 3: Five six six foot is perfect? Five long?

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Speaker 2: Say at least five to eight? Probably six? Nos, Oh

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Speaker 2: we want a six foot because you have.

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Speaker 3: Heels on what else?

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Speaker 2: Okay, six feet, I get it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So he's your six feet, I mean, what the heels?

742
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Speaker 1: How tall are you with the heels?

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Speaker 3: I guess five to nine.

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00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 1: Okay, So if you know somebody who's five to nine

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00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 1: and a half and a buff, reach out.

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Speaker 3: You know what, if he's the right person, I don't

747
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:49,360
Speaker 3: care how tot he is, I'm way past that.

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Speaker 2: Well, Susan, we are hoping that twenty twenty five is

749
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Speaker 2: your year, and and so many others who are listening

750
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:01,960
Speaker 2: to us. But it's a it's a pleasure, and hey,

751
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Speaker 2: when you do come to New York, please please, please please.

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Speaker 3: I'm coming tomorrow. Actually, Sarah b living abundantly. Okay, that

753
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:14,120
Speaker 3: that show? No, I'm doing. I'm going to co host.

754
00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:17,040
Speaker 3: I'm going to co host and we're doing four shows.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm okay. So you're spend in the night.

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Speaker 3: No, Unfortunately, I have to fly to Florida and do

757
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 3: a wedding the very next day, and then we're going

758
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Speaker 3: to Carmel. Are you coming to Carmel Cal?

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00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 2: Did we get invited to Carmel?

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00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:32,000
Speaker 1: Yeah?

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00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 3: We did. Yeah, I believe that you did.

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Speaker 2: I didn't get the invite.

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Speaker 3: Amy, because you weren't there when I met his daughter,

764
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Speaker 3: which oh my god, I fell in love with her.

765
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 3: I had her cracking up. She probably thinks I'm I

766
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 3: sat right next door Amy, and I'm like, Okay, I

767
00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:50,640
Speaker 3: know I don't dance like you, but I like this song.

768
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Speaker 3: What do you think we have fun? But that's the

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Speaker 3: night I think you guys were invited.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry it was me. That was my bad.

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Speaker 2: Okay, introvert always ask me because as the extrovert.

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Speaker 3: I will, I should have texted you. I will.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So we're gonna get the playing right near Pebble Beach there. Yeah. Wait,

775
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:17,440
Speaker 3: you have to see this guy, the one that was

776
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Speaker 3: the last one to go on Jones season. He has

777
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:24,799
Speaker 3: gone crazy. He went out and bought new clubs. He's

778
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:28,839
Speaker 3: taken golf lessons. He had a whole new alphit new

779
00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:30,719
Speaker 3: shoes I have to wear? Do you think you're going?

780
00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:35,799
Speaker 3: It's cold? He wants to look good, he wants to

781
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Speaker 3: play well.

782
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Speaker 2: He's waiting for all those d ms to come into

783
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Speaker 2: his Instagram feed.

784
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Speaker 3: So I had a photo shoot for goingn's sake. I

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Speaker 3: got you are so and he's so funny and sweet.

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Speaker 3: He's a nice guy. I don't know. I think maybe

787
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Speaker 3: he's wanting to be the next Bachelor or something.

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Speaker 2: We shall see Susan. Susan, thank you so much for

789
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Speaker 2: spending some time with us. We want to let anyone

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Speaker 2: know that I do. Part two is an iHeart Radio podcast.

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Speaker 2: We're falling in Love DJ and I would say staying

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Speaker 2: in love is the main objective. Thanks for listening, everybody,