1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:03,080 Speaker 1: It is time for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you 2 00:00:03,120 --> 00:00:08,080 Speaker 1: need advice and relationships, if you need advice and parenting, work, dating, sex, 3 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:12,280 Speaker 1: all of that, submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM 4 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:17,160 Speaker 1: dot com and don't forget to click submit Strawberry Letter. Okay, 5 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:20,600 Speaker 1: today's subject is shall I tell? Should I tell? My wife? 6 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:24,960 Speaker 1: About these women? Here's Stephen Shirley and yeah, and Tommy, 7 00:00:25,079 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 1: by the way, you're in the letter, Tommy is what? Yes? Yeah, 8 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 1: you heard the subject the title you know, Dear Stephen Shirley. 9 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:37,560 Speaker 1: Before Junior even heard it, he said, no, Dear Stephen Shirley. 10 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 1: Four months ago, I married the love of my life. 11 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: So far, our marriage is great. I'm ahead chef at 12 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:47,199 Speaker 1: a high end restaurant and I love my job, but 13 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:49,960 Speaker 1: I work long hours. There are a lot of beautiful 14 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 1: single female servers and bartenders that work at the restaurant, 15 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 1: and it seems like since I got married, these women 16 00:00:57,040 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 1: have started to show me a lot of attention. A 17 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:02,320 Speaker 1: couple of the girls have asked me to hang out 18 00:01:02,360 --> 00:01:05,320 Speaker 1: after work. The other day, a girl slid her phone 19 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 1: number and address in my pocket and said I was 20 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:11,520 Speaker 1: welcome to stop by. I love my wife with all 21 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:15,680 Speaker 1: my heart. But as a saying goes, pressure can bust 22 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 1: a pipe, and mine is about to burst. You should 23 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 1: see these young women at my job. It's gotten so 24 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 1: bad that I've started leaving work early when I can 25 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 1: to avoid these situations. Here. This is for you, Nephew Tommy. 26 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:34,680 Speaker 1: I know, Nephew Tommy will not like this, but I 27 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 1: feel like I need to tell my wife what's going 28 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 1: on at my job. She has always told me to 29 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 1: be honest with her no matter what I have not. 30 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 1: I have not pursued these women, and I'm afraid that 31 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 1: if my wife finds out later about them flirting with me, 32 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 1: she will be hurt. This is my third wife, and 33 00:01:55,720 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 1: I want my marriage to last. I am for me. Yes, 34 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 1: I am not a cheater, but this situation is driving 35 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 1: me crazy. Stephen Shirley, please help me before I do 36 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 1: something stupid. I need to make this urge go away. WHOA, 37 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 1: All right, this is a mess right here. Um. I 38 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 1: love the fact that you said you're not a cheater, though, 39 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:26,359 Speaker 1: so let's work with that. You're not a cheater. I mean, 40 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 1: we're all humans, we're not animals. We all have what's 41 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:33,080 Speaker 1: called self control. You have to exercise some self control. 42 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:37,799 Speaker 1: In this situation. What you're experiencing is temptation at its 43 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 1: highest level, coming at you from all directions. Please please 44 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:45,040 Speaker 1: try to be strong. I mean, I'm just telling you 45 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 1: don't give into these women. You say you've managed to 46 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 1: avoid them so far. You say you are very in 47 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 1: love with your wife. I say, go ahead. I know 48 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:55,920 Speaker 1: the guys are not going to agree with me. Go 49 00:02:55,960 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 1: ahead and tell your wife, because yes, nothing's happening. To 50 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 1: go ahead and tell her that the women are coming 51 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:06,080 Speaker 1: at you. The women are coming at you at work. 52 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:11,119 Speaker 1: I don't want him to seat. Tell your wife, tell her, 53 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 1: Tell your wife, tell her, I want nothing's happening. I'm 54 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:20,920 Speaker 1: not on drugs. Tell your wife. Why can't he tell her? 55 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 1: Tell her? Maybe that'll cut Maybe he won't even think 56 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 1: about cheating them, even think about it, because you know 57 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 1: he's thinking about it, all right. I'm just saying and 58 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 1: acting on it, acting on what he loves. His wife 59 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 1: obviously surely has has never been a day as a man. 60 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 1: I'm an forgive not with these The Bible says, forgive 61 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 1: her Lord for she no not, And That's what I'm 62 00:03:55,280 --> 00:04:03,680 Speaker 1: gonna have to do. No not subject what should I 63 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 1: tell my wife about these women? Yeah? Yes, question is 64 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:20,920 Speaker 1: your ass nuts? Have you lost? Kill damn mine? What 65 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:28,719 Speaker 1: in you after being divorced twice would make you walk 66 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:35,040 Speaker 1: in here with this unnecessary confession? You ain't done enough? 67 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 1: What is you're telling It ain't nothing happening at work? 68 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 1: Why are you opening your damn MO to this woman 69 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 1: who ain't got no reason not to trust you? Why 70 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 1: would you throw that in the pot? It start mixing 71 00:04:56,320 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 1: it up? You're stupid, stupid for right now, stupid, stupid, 72 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 1: your stupid boy. But I'm so glad you wrote me 73 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:13,599 Speaker 1: because I'm want to stop this stupid boy, it swell 74 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 1: up into the dumbest damn decision of your life. Don't 75 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:19,920 Speaker 1: you listen to Shelly tell her she don't know nothing. 76 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:24,280 Speaker 1: Sherley is a woman, they tell y'all all say that 77 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:28,120 Speaker 1: she always told me to be honest with her no 78 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:34,720 Speaker 1: matter what. That's a damn lie. Two responds coming up 79 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 1: and twenty three after the hour, trying to throw me 80 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 1: off with you're listening, Steve with this bad advice to 81 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 1: this man. Listen to me, he man, listen to me. 82 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 1: Know what I'm talking about? This food? But brother, listen 83 00:05:57,560 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 1: to me. I'm really appreciate you, right because I'm finished 84 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:07,600 Speaker 1: up this stupid But he's smart because he wrote on 85 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:13,360 Speaker 1: Steve somebody that's on the third man. Well he on 86 00:06:13,560 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 1: his third man. Now he got something in common with Tommy. 87 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 1: He got something in calm with me. He came to 88 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:24,120 Speaker 1: the men. Really, she ain't really ended because Sharley don't 89 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 1: know this food? Should I tell my wife about the 90 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:34,279 Speaker 1: fact that you asking the question? Is enough reasonable doubt? 91 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:39,040 Speaker 1: Why you can't get convicted? You can't get convicted on 92 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:46,040 Speaker 1: reasonable Do you still free? Yeah? Oh, but you're gonna 93 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 1: walk up there? Mans in here, listen to this right here. 94 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:50,800 Speaker 1: I'm a head chef out of hand restaurant. I love 95 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 1: my job, but I work long hour. That's good, right there, 96 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 1: you working long hour? Right there, you're working. Provide deal. 97 00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:00,279 Speaker 1: Let's go down this line right here that the lot 98 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 1: of beautiful single female servants and bartenders work in the wrestaurant. 99 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:05,719 Speaker 1: It seemed like since I got married, these women have 100 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 1: started to show me a lot of attention. So damn what, 101 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:17,160 Speaker 1: I so damn what? Now you're getting attention? Shut him out. 102 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 1: A couple of the girls have asked me to hang 103 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:21,640 Speaker 1: out after work. The other day a girl cleared the 104 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 1: phone number that dress in my pocket and said I 105 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 1: was welcome to stop by. That's all she said. Don't 106 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 1: go over there. Now, Tommy gonna feel different about this. 107 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 1: That's why you wrote us both. Don't go over that dog. 108 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:41,680 Speaker 1: Just feel flattered. Wow, know that you not know that 109 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 1: you're a good catch to the one who caught you. 110 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 1: Just gone right there. But then he said the other 111 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 1: day and that, and I said, I was working. I 112 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 1: love my wife with all my heart. Hold it right there. 113 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 1: That's the fact. That's what you go home and tell 114 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 1: your wife I love of you with all my heart. 115 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 1: Damn this other information. But as the saying goals. Pressure 116 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:10,400 Speaker 1: can bust a pipe to hear a cup of drink, 117 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 1: and mine is about to bust. So now you fit 118 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 1: to give in? Yes, So now you think, and if 119 00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 1: you're going in, tell your one that that's gonna fix 120 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 1: your problem. No, it's not dumb, it's gonna create a 121 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 1: whole nothing problem. You're gonna throw some distrust in the 122 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:35,360 Speaker 1: relationship that ain't there now, the long hours you're working, 123 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 1: she's gonna start a questioning him. Remember that house used 124 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 1: to come into that was so peaceful. Now you're gonna 125 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 1: start getting patted down. You're gonna get smell. Yeah, what's 126 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:48,560 Speaker 1: in your plan? She's gonna start smell because women can 127 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:52,840 Speaker 1: smell another woman. You're gonna get your clothes made all 128 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 1: that that. See right now, you ain't doing nothing like that. 129 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:58,080 Speaker 1: So just let don't worry about the pressure busting a pipe. 130 00:08:58,360 --> 00:09:00,320 Speaker 1: Don't go in there and bust your damn off in 131 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:03,559 Speaker 1: the head with the pipe. Now you should see these 132 00:09:03,600 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 1: young women at my job. It's gotten so bad. I've 133 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 1: started leaving work early when I can to a board 134 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 1: d situation. You're doing the right name. If he do 135 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:16,560 Speaker 1: get some smell, have another woman smell on him. Stop 136 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:18,839 Speaker 1: and get fifty centway for gas and pull it all 137 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:27,920 Speaker 1: old stuff. Yeah that's true. Well you can in your 138 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:31,760 Speaker 1: gas pumping your cash. Just take a little cap and 139 00:09:31,960 --> 00:09:33,719 Speaker 1: get something in that cap and throw it on me. 140 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 1: It's easier to tell her I've done that before. I 141 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:39,319 Speaker 1: don't miss out a lot of stuff with gas. Good 142 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:43,680 Speaker 1: idea Thoma's sake. Then he says, I know, nephew, Thoma 143 00:09:43,720 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 1: would not like this, but I feel like I need 144 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:48,079 Speaker 1: to tell my wife what's going on. Joe Joe Tommy 145 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 1: and Uncle Steve don't like this. No, No, don't done Tommy. 146 00:09:53,360 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 1: Uncle Steve killed Brodi. He hasn't done anything, Lena. Wait, 147 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:10,120 Speaker 1: I have a perfect example, Carla. Yes, what is what? 148 00:10:10,240 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 1: Does Tash come home and tell you from time to 149 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 1: time all the women at the job be flirting with him? 150 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 1: To own your boys? She has always told me to 151 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:32,560 Speaker 1: be honest with her, no matter what. That's not true. Wait, 152 00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:35,440 Speaker 1: what's not true? What? She has always told me to 153 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:38,560 Speaker 1: be honest with her, no matter what. That's not true. 154 00:10:38,880 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 1: It's a trap. It's a trapp dog guilty, It's a trap. 155 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 1: Jack Nicholas said it best. You can't handle the truth, 156 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 1: and they can't. Now listen to me. I have not 157 00:10:57,679 --> 00:11:00,920 Speaker 1: pursued these women, and I'm afraid that if my wife 158 00:11:00,920 --> 00:11:04,320 Speaker 1: finds out later about them flirting with me, she will 159 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:08,480 Speaker 1: be hurt. Yes, let her be hurt, then, don't you 160 00:11:08,559 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 1: catus in your house? See it's rather rather for her 161 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 1: to be hurt to find out that they've flirting with you. 162 00:11:14,679 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 1: How they're gonna find out if you leave the phone 163 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:20,199 Speaker 1: number in your pocket that she's stuffed in that she's 164 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:23,360 Speaker 1: gonna find out and he will. So what are he 165 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:27,200 Speaker 1: gonna do bring the note to the house. It's happened before, Steve, 166 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:30,679 Speaker 1: not to a black woman. She gonna call down that 167 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:33,120 Speaker 1: your ass ain't gonna be the head chef no more. 168 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 1: She gonna wreck your job. He does, He's gonna do 169 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:39,560 Speaker 1: it by accident. He's not gonna do it on purpose. 170 00:11:42,480 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 1: So better he tell her no, it ain't the time 171 00:11:47,679 --> 00:11:50,520 Speaker 1: for that. This is my third life, wife, and I 172 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 1: want my marriage to laugh. You know why you're on 173 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 1: your third wife because you've been walking in there with 174 00:11:54,840 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 1: information Your ass ain't had no business going in there 175 00:11:57,240 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 1: because cheating. He's been cheating. I'm not a cheetah. It's 176 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 1: his next line. I Am not a cheetah. We gotta go. 177 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 1: We'll be back with more of a Steve Harvey Morning 178 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:14,520 Speaker 1: Show right after you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Let's 179 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 1: get back to this letter. Steve subject, should I tell 180 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 1: my wife about these women? And the answer is hell no. 181 00:12:23,640 --> 00:12:31,040 Speaker 1: Don't you listen to Shirley. Be honest, he's not doing anything, 182 00:12:31,120 --> 00:12:34,240 Speaker 1: So what does it matter if he tells her or not? Steve, 183 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 1: do you know why would you open up a candle? 184 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:40,760 Speaker 1: Worms like? He hasn't done anything, So what has he 185 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:43,679 Speaker 1: got to tell so right, just tell that the women 186 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 1: are flirting with them? Why? No, no, why it's an issue. 187 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 1: He's not doing anything with the women. Hey, let me 188 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 1: handle this right quick. Let me close this out because 189 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 1: he is a very important line at the end of 190 00:12:57,200 --> 00:13:01,360 Speaker 1: this letter. Come on, Stephen Shirley, please help me before 191 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:06,080 Speaker 1: I do something stupid. I need to make this urge 192 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:12,160 Speaker 1: go away. Now listen to me what you actually come 193 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 1: into as an old saying that every itch need to 194 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:22,680 Speaker 1: get scratched. The only way to make the itch go 195 00:13:22,880 --> 00:13:27,440 Speaker 1: away is you got to scratch it. See see, But 196 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 1: now listen, let me teach you something. Let go now, 197 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:32,880 Speaker 1: I'm fin to teach him. So come on. But that 198 00:13:33,200 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 1: is a form of scratching that you can do that's 199 00:13:37,160 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 1: not scratching. Wait, it has a form of scratching that 200 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:44,920 Speaker 1: you can do when your head itch, you can scratch 201 00:13:44,960 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 1: without scratching it. And it's called the weave pat. If 202 00:13:50,360 --> 00:13:59,160 Speaker 1: you pack that, it's pat. So now what you gotta 203 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:02,560 Speaker 1: do is to address this urge to make it go away. 204 00:14:02,840 --> 00:14:09,040 Speaker 1: You don't scratch the itch. You got packed the edge. Yeah. 205 00:14:09,679 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 1: See when she take that number, slide it in your 206 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:14,679 Speaker 1: top pocket. You take it out your pocket, sliding back 207 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 1: in her top pocket. So that's patting. Yeah, she she 208 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:25,120 Speaker 1: won't get you. You won't get huh. Okay, I like 209 00:14:25,400 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 1: he's gonna you know what I'm saying, what you want 210 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:33,880 Speaker 1: to now? He needed to make this urge go away. Yeah, 211 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 1: so you got to release some of the pressure in 212 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:39,240 Speaker 1: this pipe for the pipe bus. And the way to 213 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:43,480 Speaker 1: release the pressure is to let some out. Yeah, there 214 00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:49,360 Speaker 1: you go. That packed the itche But don't scratch the itch, Junior. 215 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:52,560 Speaker 1: You'll be cheating if you listen to this. I stand saying. 216 00:14:53,560 --> 00:14:56,800 Speaker 1: You don't think patting is gonna lead to something? If 217 00:14:56,800 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 1: he don't do nothing his pipe goal bus. That's only 218 00:15:01,240 --> 00:15:06,240 Speaker 1: you must release some pressure hold that pipe coming up 219 00:15:06,280 --> 00:15:09,640 Speaker 1: at this higher pipe coming up at the top of 220 00:15:09,680 --> 00:15:12,760 Speaker 1: the hour. We'll come right back with more of the 221 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening to 222 00:15:16,920 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show.