WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Stepmom Thirst Trap 0:00:00.320 --> 0:00:01.720 Today gets a little spicy. 0:00:01.880 --> 0:00:03.680 Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, and welcome 0:00:03.720 --> 0:00:13.680 to the second day. Today is though, actually well today? Yeah, 0:00:13.720 --> 0:00:16.840 and on Tuesdays we do do the awkward Tuesday phone call. 0:00:17.600 --> 0:00:20.200 Uh and you know what, in honor of it, why 0:00:20.239 --> 0:00:22.239 don't you just share with us in the comments the 0:00:22.239 --> 0:00:25.600 most embarrassing thing your family member has posted on social media. 0:00:26.320 --> 0:00:28.920 You know it'll make our listener feel better. I think 0:00:28.920 --> 0:00:29.480 it really will. 0:00:29.560 --> 0:00:33.559 His freaking out and we love reading the comments. We 0:00:33.600 --> 0:00:35.880 love living in the comments. What do you see, Alexis 0:00:36.040 --> 0:00:38.760 Sean Andrews said, found you on TikTok and I've been 0:00:38.800 --> 0:00:41.360 listening to you ever since. I even recommended you to 0:00:41.400 --> 0:00:44.840 my boss and she loves you. Oh well, you better 0:00:44.880 --> 0:00:47.879 give him a race. Yeah, he really doesn't. Anyone he's 0:00:47.880 --> 0:00:48.760 got good taste. 0:00:48.680 --> 0:00:49.720 Could have got himself fired. 0:00:49.760 --> 0:00:53.720 That was risky, I know. All right, let's get your 0:00:53.720 --> 0:00:55.160 Awkward Tuesday started right now. 0:00:57.080 --> 0:01:03.320 Parents never post anything embarrassed on social media, right Alexis, No, I. 0:01:03.280 --> 0:01:06.080 Love every photo my mom takes where she looks better 0:01:06.120 --> 0:01:08.679 than me, and it. 0:01:07.880 --> 0:01:10.680 In fact, go to my mom's Facebook page right now 0:01:10.720 --> 0:01:14.680 and you'll see nothing but wholesome, non politically motivated fourteen 0:01:14.760 --> 0:01:17.679 paragraph rants about how happy she is with the state 0:01:17.720 --> 0:01:18.279 of the world. 0:01:18.440 --> 0:01:21.160 Yeah, she just loves this country. 0:01:21.280 --> 0:01:22.200 He sure does. 0:01:22.480 --> 0:01:24.959 But one of our listeners is freaking out over what 0:01:25.160 --> 0:01:28.560 his new step mom just put up online, and according 0:01:28.600 --> 0:01:32.080 to him, it's not just concerning, but has potential to 0:01:32.280 --> 0:01:37.720 literally ruin their entire family's dynamic unless he can convince 0:01:37.720 --> 0:01:40.680 her to maybe take it Downike, you're gonna hear why 0:01:40.680 --> 0:01:43.880 it's so controversial while we attempt to give our best 0:01:43.920 --> 0:01:47.560 advice in your brand new awkward Tuesday phone call right 0:01:47.600 --> 0:01:48.040 after this. 0:01:49.520 --> 0:01:50.320 It's awkward. 0:01:50.560 --> 0:01:51.400 It's Tuesday. 0:01:52.240 --> 0:01:57.960 It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Awkward family dynamics isn't a 0:01:58.040 --> 0:02:01.800 new concept. No, Families have been making things weird with 0:02:01.840 --> 0:02:05.400 each other for centuries. Yeah, like in the fifteen hundreds 0:02:05.440 --> 0:02:08.919 when King Henry the Eighth was literally beheading his exes 0:02:09.160 --> 0:02:11.799 while his children argued over who got the bigger turkey 0:02:11.880 --> 0:02:12.560 leg at the wake. 0:02:13.720 --> 0:02:16.040 So yeah, nothing new there. 0:02:16.400 --> 0:02:17.359 Yeah, but in. 0:02:17.320 --> 0:02:21.200 The modern digital age, we've unlocked brand new ways to 0:02:21.280 --> 0:02:25.000 make things uncomfortable with your family, which brings us to 0:02:25.000 --> 0:02:28.840 today's call. One of our listeners, Peter's, reached out because 0:02:29.120 --> 0:02:32.840 he's facing a particularly distressing issue with a member of 0:02:32.880 --> 0:02:35.520 his own household, and he needs our help with it. 0:02:35.600 --> 0:02:37.000 So Peter, welcome to the show. 0:02:37.560 --> 0:02:39.280 Hey guys, how you doing it? 0:02:39.360 --> 0:02:41.280 Sounds like better than you? 0:02:41.320 --> 0:02:46.760 Oh sucks to be you, Peter, like having a. 0:02:46.720 --> 0:02:48.200 Call of radio station for family. 0:02:48.240 --> 0:02:48.600 Drummer. 0:02:48.600 --> 0:02:49.520 It must be serious. 0:02:49.720 --> 0:02:53.720 That's all right, yes, okay, all right, Peter. 0:02:53.880 --> 0:02:56.160 We're here to support you despite the tone of how 0:02:56.200 --> 0:02:58.560 we started this segment. But tell us what's going on 0:02:58.639 --> 0:03:00.320 in your family life that made you out. 0:03:01.040 --> 0:03:04.679 Here's the deal. My uh, my parents separated about eight 0:03:04.760 --> 0:03:07.880 years ago. That's fine. I think they're better off separated. 0:03:07.919 --> 0:03:11.240 But last year my dad was telling us that he 0:03:11.360 --> 0:03:15.000 started dating somebody, which was kind of shocking. I mean 0:03:15.280 --> 0:03:15.919 he's older. 0:03:16.200 --> 0:03:17.359 Dads usually are older. 0:03:17.520 --> 0:03:21.520 Yeah, no, I mean I mean like post sixty. 0:03:22.200 --> 0:03:22.919 Yeah right. 0:03:23.080 --> 0:03:25.200 That was the first shocking thing. But then the second 0:03:25.240 --> 0:03:28.320 shocking thing was we finally meet this woman and turns 0:03:28.360 --> 0:03:31.160 out that she is my age. 0:03:32.120 --> 0:03:36.240 Oh, how are you in your twenties or your thirties. 0:03:36.480 --> 0:03:38.720 I'm twenty five years younger than my father. 0:03:38.880 --> 0:03:45.880 Okay, okay, I know, hold on, that's cute, But worry 0:03:45.960 --> 0:03:47.600 she's taking advantage of your father. 0:03:47.520 --> 0:03:49.920 Or is it just awkward to call her mom. Yeah, 0:03:51.040 --> 0:03:51.560 where it was. 0:03:51.560 --> 0:03:54.000 A lot of things. Tell us where we're speculating a lot, 0:03:54.040 --> 0:03:55.280 tell us where your head is at. 0:03:55.600 --> 0:03:58.000 I mean when I met her, I thought, I mean, 0:03:58.040 --> 0:04:00.520 she's obviously my dad seems really happy with her, which 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:02.800 is great, that's the most important things. But it was 0:04:02.840 --> 0:04:06.080 just it is really weird that they ended up. I mean, 0:04:06.120 --> 0:04:12.040 they got married, and they got married. Who Yeah, what 0:04:12.120 --> 0:04:13.920 you like, Well, it's interesting you guys make that joke 0:04:13.960 --> 0:04:16.520 because she makes those jokes now she's my mom now 0:04:16.600 --> 0:04:18.599 and all that kind of thing, and I just realilyan 0:04:18.600 --> 0:04:19.440 next me uncomfortable. 0:04:19.520 --> 0:04:21.920 But yeah, if you're not. 0:04:21.839 --> 0:04:23.839 In on the joke, then it's yeah, she's trying to 0:04:23.880 --> 0:04:25.880 like lean in and be funny, probably because she's a 0:04:25.880 --> 0:04:29.280 little uncomfortable too, Like, yeah. 0:04:29.080 --> 0:04:30.640 I mean it's I mean I didn't really get to 0:04:30.640 --> 0:04:32.599 know where that much before they got married either. But 0:04:32.600 --> 0:04:34.159 he's a grown man. He can do what he wants. 0:04:34.560 --> 0:04:38.840 But anyway, we would fast forward to recently and one 0:04:38.839 --> 0:04:41.520 of my friends he sends me a text saying, Hey, 0:04:41.520 --> 0:04:44.200 have you seen your step mom's Instagram posts? 0:04:45.040 --> 0:04:45.920 This is not good? 0:04:46.080 --> 0:04:48.760 Why it's not like an apple pie that she just baked. 0:04:48.760 --> 0:04:52.160 I'm assume what is he talking about? 0:04:52.400 --> 0:04:55.920 Her latest photo is a first trip on a photo. 0:04:56.800 --> 0:04:59.599 Yeah, that's wrong with she's in her twenties. Yeah, she's 0:05:00.600 --> 0:05:02.320 she's feeling good about herself. 0:05:02.800 --> 0:05:05.159 Well, I mean that's fine if she wasn't married to 0:05:05.240 --> 0:05:06.720 a sixty something year old man. 0:05:06.839 --> 0:05:09.159 What so like, if you're married, you can't post pretty 0:05:09.200 --> 0:05:11.320 pictures of yourself and if your dad doesn't care, why. 0:05:11.279 --> 0:05:11.840 Do you care? 0:05:12.600 --> 0:05:15.600 That's the thing is he's like not on social media. 0:05:15.640 --> 0:05:17.480 I don't even think he knows. I mean, this is 0:05:17.520 --> 0:05:19.680 something that a single girl in her twenties would be doing. 0:05:19.680 --> 0:05:21.960 A single girl be doing is to get attention from 0:05:22.000 --> 0:05:22.520 other men. 0:05:23.360 --> 0:05:25.800 You need to grow up and understand that wives can 0:05:25.800 --> 0:05:27.000 also post hot photos. 0:05:27.480 --> 0:05:29.760 I don't think he's saying that the wife isn't allowed 0:05:29.760 --> 0:05:32.359 to post a hot photo. He's saying that his father 0:05:32.520 --> 0:05:34.279 might have an issue with her doing it. 0:05:34.320 --> 0:05:36.200 But you don't know that she's already showed him the pick, 0:05:36.360 --> 0:05:38.640 or that he's approved of it, or and like not approved. 0:05:38.640 --> 0:05:41.120 It's also like he likes it. Listen, I have a 0:05:41.120 --> 0:05:42.279 hot Momah. 0:05:42.800 --> 0:05:45.640 Sometimes people are just hot and they can't stop themselves 0:05:45.680 --> 0:05:46.760 from being hot, you know. 0:05:47.279 --> 0:05:50.320 Yeah, and I understand that she is an attractive woman. 0:05:50.320 --> 0:05:53.080 I'm not saying that she can't be proud of being attractive. 0:05:53.080 --> 0:05:55.760 It's just maybe I'm not explaining this well enough. These 0:05:55.800 --> 0:05:59.080 photos are like bordering on inappropriate. I mean, it's not 0:05:59.160 --> 0:06:01.520 quite only level, but it's. 0:06:03.600 --> 0:06:04.960 Okay, got it. 0:06:04.960 --> 0:06:07.800 It's especially for someone who's in a brand new marriage 0:06:07.800 --> 0:06:11.240 with an older man to like immediately turn around and 0:06:11.279 --> 0:06:13.760 start posting photos that a bunch of other guys are 0:06:13.800 --> 0:06:17.440 liking without the new husband knowing they could cause an 0:06:17.480 --> 0:06:20.080 issue in the family new marriage. 0:06:20.160 --> 0:06:23.120 I think more than anything, it's probably uncomfy that you 0:06:23.160 --> 0:06:24.479 find your step mom hot. 0:06:24.680 --> 0:06:28.680 Yeah look I didn't say hot, its attractive. 0:06:29.240 --> 0:06:30.880 Yeah, you could say she's. 0:06:30.800 --> 0:06:32.480 And your guy friends follow her and send you this 0:06:32.600 --> 0:06:34.000 picture of her. That's weird. 0:06:34.520 --> 0:06:36.560 I just don't want to hear words like smelt. I 0:06:36.560 --> 0:06:38.640 don't want to hear these smell. 0:06:38.920 --> 0:06:43.800 Are you hearing the words friends or stepmom? Ah? 0:06:47.640 --> 0:06:50.360 Well, clearly this is something that's bothering you and you're 0:06:50.400 --> 0:06:52.760 worried that it would affect your dad. So what are 0:06:52.800 --> 0:06:54.920 you hoping to do with your awkward Tuesday phone call? 0:06:54.960 --> 0:06:57.200 Here? And I don't want to cause drama. I just 0:06:57.240 --> 0:07:00.000 I want to be really respectful and encourage her pulle 0:07:00.600 --> 0:07:03.160 to maybe either take it down or tone it down, 0:07:03.200 --> 0:07:04.919 because I don't think she understands that it can be 0:07:04.960 --> 0:07:07.880 uncomfortable for other people, not just me, like the whole family. 0:07:08.000 --> 0:07:09.400 I think ale Is brought up a good point. 0:07:09.440 --> 0:07:11.680 You may call and she's like, oh, I showed it 0:07:11.720 --> 0:07:13.440 to him and he said, I can post it and 0:07:13.480 --> 0:07:17.239 this call is never going to hit the air anyways. 0:07:17.320 --> 0:07:18.040 Okay, Well, I. 0:07:17.960 --> 0:07:20.360 Mean it makes him uncomfortable no matter what the dad says. 0:07:20.400 --> 0:07:21.120 I mean, that's the thing. 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:23.520 And if the dad's comfortable, then he's just got to 0:07:23.560 --> 0:07:26.440 stay uncomfortable. I mean, so we need their relationship. 0:07:26.800 --> 0:07:29.600 We need to give you advice on how to respectfully 0:07:29.720 --> 0:07:32.880 have the conversation with your new step mom that her 0:07:32.960 --> 0:07:36.320 thirst trap photos might be making people in the family 0:07:36.400 --> 0:07:37.440 feel uncomfortable. 0:07:37.680 --> 0:07:37.880 Yeah. 0:07:37.960 --> 0:07:40.200 I mean, like I said, I don't think it's just me, 0:07:40.360 --> 0:07:42.480 but I really am looking out for my father. I 0:07:42.520 --> 0:07:44.720 don't think that he would he would appreciate it. I 0:07:45.000 --> 0:07:46.200 really don't think he knows about it. 0:07:46.280 --> 0:07:49.080 Okay, we'll find out when we come back. We'll give 0:07:49.120 --> 0:07:52.000 you our advice and let you call your hot smilf 0:07:52.080 --> 0:07:54.520 mom and we'll let. 0:07:54.400 --> 0:07:55.960 You make your awkward Tuesday phone calls. 0:07:56.000 --> 0:07:56.120 Call. 0:07:56.360 --> 0:07:59.640 That's the same agent. You're the one who say it's 0:07:59.640 --> 0:08:00.360 funny with us. 0:08:00.520 --> 0:08:06.200 Okay, will let you say that to your mom coming 0:08:06.280 --> 0:08:09.960 up right after this? Not mom, Not yeah, not mom, okay, yeah, 0:08:09.960 --> 0:08:14.320 step mom. Sure we'll do it after this. It's awkward. 0:08:14.600 --> 0:08:20.280 It's it's awkward Tuesday phone call. Well, this is a 0:08:20.320 --> 0:08:21.840 new one for us for sure. 0:08:22.520 --> 0:08:25.480 One of our listeners, Peter, told us about an interesting 0:08:25.680 --> 0:08:29.640 family dynamic that he's dealing with, where his dad got 0:08:29.720 --> 0:08:33.320 remarried last year to a woman twenty five years younger, 0:08:33.720 --> 0:08:37.480 about the same age as Peter himself, which, obviously that's 0:08:37.520 --> 0:08:39.920 a little bit uncomfortable, he said, but he's managing. 0:08:40.360 --> 0:08:43.160 The really weird part, though, just came. 0:08:43.040 --> 0:08:47.480 Up when Peter's buddies sent him texts and photos of 0:08:47.600 --> 0:08:49.719 his new step mom's Instagram. 0:08:50.200 --> 0:08:51.280 That's so ruthless. 0:08:51.480 --> 0:08:57.080 It's because she's posting some salacious photos of herself on there. 0:08:57.760 --> 0:09:00.000 And Peter is worried about two things. 0:09:00.240 --> 0:09:04.160 One, his dad is not on social media and probably 0:09:04.240 --> 0:09:07.320 doesn't know that his new young wife is doing this, 0:09:07.640 --> 0:09:10.319 so he's trying to protect his father and his father's 0:09:10.320 --> 0:09:13.319 feelings and two besides his dad, what would the. 0:09:13.280 --> 0:09:14.920 Rest of their family think about this? 0:09:14.960 --> 0:09:18.400 Because it could cause family drama and his new step 0:09:18.480 --> 0:09:21.600 mom might not realize the impact that it has. 0:09:21.720 --> 0:09:23.560 So Peter just feels uncomfortable. 0:09:23.679 --> 0:09:27.839 Everybody does, so, Peter, he doesn't want to sound judgmental 0:09:27.960 --> 0:09:30.880 or rude about this. He just wants to politely bring 0:09:30.960 --> 0:09:33.160 it up to his new step mom. And how does 0:09:33.200 --> 0:09:34.479 he do it respectfully? 0:09:34.840 --> 0:09:36.760 Brook? Go ahead, you have the floor. 0:09:36.920 --> 0:09:39.800 And we got to stop calling him her his step mom. 0:09:39.840 --> 0:09:42.240 I know technically that's true, but it's not like she's 0:09:42.280 --> 0:09:43.640 a mother figure in his life. 0:09:43.760 --> 0:09:46.400 What's a better term for her that you would feel appropriate? 0:09:46.440 --> 0:09:49.199 With his dad's new hot wife? 0:09:49.360 --> 0:09:56.559 Yeah, that's so much, Peter, Are you comfortable dad's new 0:09:56.600 --> 0:09:57.559 hot wife? A? 0:09:59.040 --> 0:10:01.880 Thank you advice. 0:10:02.120 --> 0:10:04.559 I think the way you need to approach this is 0:10:04.880 --> 0:10:08.640 Alyssa obviously loves your father, and anyone who loves someone 0:10:08.679 --> 0:10:11.120 wants to be accepted by that person's family, of course, 0:10:11.200 --> 0:10:13.800 So I think you take it as the angle as like, Hey, 0:10:14.760 --> 0:10:17.160 just a heads up. I'm getting a lot of crap 0:10:17.360 --> 0:10:19.760 about this photo from my buddies. 0:10:19.960 --> 0:10:23.080 It's very attractive, you look great, but I just. 0:10:23.000 --> 0:10:25.679 Want to let you know that maybe my family wouldn't 0:10:25.679 --> 0:10:28.319 be as cool as I am with it. 0:10:28.720 --> 0:10:29.480 You know what I mean. 0:10:29.920 --> 0:10:31.120 I love the photos. 0:10:31.160 --> 0:10:33.440 I think you look sexy, but the rest of my 0:10:33.559 --> 0:10:35.720 family they're not as cool as me. 0:10:37.280 --> 0:10:39.480 Don't need to go that far, but just go the 0:10:39.520 --> 0:10:41.640 angle of like you're trying to be a little protected. 0:10:41.679 --> 0:10:43.240 Ye I'm the grandma or something. 0:10:43.240 --> 0:10:46.640 That's actually pretty good advice. 0:10:46.679 --> 0:10:48.960 So Peter locked that in Jose, what do you think? 0:10:49.040 --> 0:10:50.520 So you got to think from her perspective. 0:10:50.600 --> 0:10:52.760 Right on Instagram, every person in. 0:10:52.720 --> 0:10:54.800 The world, every guy is just telling her she's gorgeous. 0:10:55.080 --> 0:10:57.319 All her girlfriends in her life tell her she's slays 0:10:57.360 --> 0:11:00.960 and she's pretty. So you may be the first person 0:11:01.000 --> 0:11:03.679 that brings up that this is a little inappropriate and 0:11:04.120 --> 0:11:05.679 you just need to be cautious about it. 0:11:05.880 --> 0:11:09.800 Okay, I mean I can't imagine that I'm the first 0:11:09.840 --> 0:11:11.719 person to tell her that maybe you should tell I 0:11:11.760 --> 0:11:12.880 can't imagine that. 0:11:13.160 --> 0:11:14.439 I bet that's actually true. 0:11:14.720 --> 0:11:18.160 I'm going to imagine that that is actually true. 0:11:18.040 --> 0:11:21.079 But you need you need to consider that as a possibility. 0:11:21.160 --> 0:11:23.280 This might be the first time she's ever got any 0:11:23.320 --> 0:11:25.600 different feedback on these photos, but. 0:11:26.040 --> 0:11:26.840 Not like that too. 0:11:27.240 --> 0:11:30.040 Yeah, it's something to be wary of for sure. 0:11:30.760 --> 0:11:32.960 We'll just keep that in mind and we'll back away. 0:11:33.080 --> 0:11:34.280 Let you make your awkward call. 0:11:34.920 --> 0:11:36.920 Thank you, all right, man, here we go. 0:11:46.040 --> 0:11:52.720 Hello, Hi, Alissa, it's it's Peter. How you doing. Oh 0:11:53.520 --> 0:11:53.880 I didn't. 0:11:53.920 --> 0:11:55.559 I didn't relate it with you. I thought I saved 0:11:55.559 --> 0:11:57.360 you on my phone, but I didn't recognize the number. 0:11:58.440 --> 0:11:58.800 What's up? 0:11:58.840 --> 0:11:59.080 Oh? 0:11:59.160 --> 0:12:03.840 Yeah, I uh yeah, this is a new phone number. 0:12:03.840 --> 0:12:08.600 It's okay, you can save this one in But I 0:12:08.640 --> 0:12:11.680 wanted to call because I mean, it's a little awkward 0:12:11.720 --> 0:12:15.920 for me to say. But one of my friends brought 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:17.040 something up to me recently. 0:12:18.120 --> 0:12:24.079 Okay, yeah, they they they saw a photo that you 0:12:24.440 --> 0:12:27.520 posted on Instagram recently, and they told me I should 0:12:27.520 --> 0:12:28.880 take a look at it because it was. 0:12:31.160 --> 0:12:34.800 I don't know, hey, Peter, Sorry, sorry, can you hold 0:12:34.800 --> 0:12:36.679 on a second. I just got to take something out 0:12:36.679 --> 0:12:38.120 of the oven. 0:12:39.360 --> 0:12:40.280 You don't even cooked. 0:12:41.600 --> 0:12:45.959 Okay, all right, sorry, sorry, I'm here. Okay, So what 0:12:45.960 --> 0:12:47.280 what happened? What's with your friend? 0:12:48.360 --> 0:12:52.360 Yeah, so this is kind of uncomfortable for me to 0:12:52.400 --> 0:12:58.320 talk about with you, especially, but my friends thought that 0:12:58.480 --> 0:13:03.520 your photos might feel old, little problematic. 0:13:02.880 --> 0:13:03.640 As the right word. 0:13:03.760 --> 0:13:05.120 But what do you mean? 0:13:05.200 --> 0:13:07.480 But what photos. 0:13:07.559 --> 0:13:11.240 Yeah, you're married to my dad now, and those types 0:13:11.280 --> 0:13:17.920 of photos might be viewed as inappropriate, inappropriate? 0:13:18.120 --> 0:13:21.480 How Oh, I don't want to get into the statistics 0:13:21.679 --> 0:13:25.240 about it. I just god, this is oh my god. 0:13:27.120 --> 0:13:30.000 All right, Well you called me to complain about them, 0:13:30.600 --> 0:13:34.120 so something in particular that you find wrong with them, 0:13:34.240 --> 0:13:35.280 so just tell me. 0:13:36.000 --> 0:13:38.719 Look, it's not just me. I'm also trying to look 0:13:38.720 --> 0:13:42.440 out for for you and and for my dad, just 0:13:42.960 --> 0:13:45.719 like you're you're my family now, and I'm I mean, 0:13:46.520 --> 0:13:48.800 I'm not going to call you my mom. You do that, 0:13:49.160 --> 0:13:53.080 but you shouldn't be posting first trap photos for everyone 0:13:53.160 --> 0:13:54.920 to see. 0:13:55.920 --> 0:14:00.880 Wait, hold on, I'm do you think those are thirst 0:14:00.880 --> 0:14:01.800 trap photos? 0:14:02.600 --> 0:14:04.600 I mean, you're you're barely wearing anything. 0:14:06.400 --> 0:14:10.480 Do you want to see a thirst trap photo photo? 0:14:11.400 --> 0:14:13.960 I don't. If I don't want to see anything that 0:14:15.000 --> 0:14:17.000 I've seen enough, I don't need to see more. 0:14:18.480 --> 0:14:20.920 Those are team compared to like what I was posting 0:14:20.960 --> 0:14:22.040 online two years. 0:14:21.880 --> 0:14:26.440 Ago, Okay, thing to hear that. I just I think 0:14:26.440 --> 0:14:28.440 about how maybe my dad would feel, because he is 0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:31.320 not on social media or anything, and if he was 0:14:31.360 --> 0:14:34.600 to find out that his young, pretty wife was putting 0:14:34.600 --> 0:14:36.800 pictures of herself like that online. I don't think he 0:14:36.800 --> 0:14:39.000 would appreciate it. I think you'd feel weird about it, 0:14:39.000 --> 0:14:40.920 and and like you're looking for other men. 0:14:41.080 --> 0:14:46.440 Still, Wow, Okay, clearly you don't know your father like 0:14:46.600 --> 0:14:47.080 at all. 0:14:48.920 --> 0:14:52.160 I think I know him pretty well. I knew him 0:14:52.240 --> 0:14:55.840 long before you did. Actually, so, Peter, he's. 0:14:55.640 --> 0:14:59.880 The one who took those photos. He told me to 0:15:00.080 --> 0:15:01.120 post him online. 0:15:07.000 --> 0:15:08.680 Relationship. Really, you got to train the guy. 0:15:08.800 --> 0:15:10.440 He's got to get the right angle too. You need 0:15:10.480 --> 0:15:11.400 some assistance with that. 0:15:12.960 --> 0:15:16.120 Oh my god, who are all these people? What is happening? 0:15:16.400 --> 0:15:16.640 Yeah? 0:15:16.680 --> 0:15:19.480 These people Alyssa is a radio show called Brooke and 0:15:19.520 --> 0:15:21.560 Jeffrey in the Morning, a show that you're. 0:15:21.440 --> 0:15:22.080 On right now. 0:15:22.360 --> 0:15:24.080 And you handled that so well? 0:15:24.880 --> 0:15:27.280 What Like? This was a radio called Peter, what are 0:15:27.320 --> 0:15:27.720 you doing? 0:15:28.360 --> 0:15:30.720 Yeah, this is a segment we do called Awkward Tuesday 0:15:30.720 --> 0:15:33.760 phone called. Peter reached out to us because he didn't 0:15:33.760 --> 0:15:36.600 know the right way to have this conversation with you. 0:15:37.120 --> 0:15:40.160 That the photos that you posted online might make his 0:15:40.280 --> 0:15:43.240 dad and some other people in his family feel a 0:15:43.320 --> 0:15:44.600 little bit uncomfortable. 0:15:44.600 --> 0:15:48.120 We keep saying that, but really it's just making Peter uncomfortable. 0:15:48.600 --> 0:15:49.280 What's happening? 0:15:49.400 --> 0:15:49.600 Peter? 0:15:49.760 --> 0:15:53.320 Doesn't know how Obviously anyone else feels, including his father. 0:15:52.920 --> 0:15:54.680 His father was the one that told her to do it. 0:15:54.720 --> 0:15:56.680 Peter, your thoughts on what you just heard. 0:15:56.960 --> 0:15:59.800 I can't imagine that he would do that. Maybe if 0:15:59.800 --> 0:16:02.000 they are private, like for you and him, I can't 0:16:02.040 --> 0:16:03.880 imagine that. Yeah, put it out for the world. 0:16:04.120 --> 0:16:06.160 Maybe your dad's Your dad's a confident man. 0:16:06.280 --> 0:16:07.920 Obviously, you know. 0:16:08.040 --> 0:16:10.880 He doesn't understand social media, so he's like, sure posted, 0:16:10.960 --> 0:16:11.520 I don't. 0:16:11.320 --> 0:16:12.800 Know, he doesn't millions of games. 0:16:13.280 --> 0:16:16.600 Yeah, he definitely knows social media. Like obviously he looks 0:16:16.600 --> 0:16:19.440 at my social media with me and we're laughing at 0:16:19.440 --> 0:16:20.080 the comments. 0:16:21.280 --> 0:16:22.800 Oh, he's fully aware. 0:16:23.000 --> 0:16:25.640 I can't imagine that he would. My father's an account 0:16:25.640 --> 0:16:27.720 he's a he's a pragmatic man. 0:16:30.320 --> 0:16:32.640 My hot mother is an accountant, and she will tell 0:16:32.680 --> 0:16:34.640 you that sounting can be very sexy. 0:16:34.800 --> 0:16:38.080 There's a lot of repressed emotions there then to come out. Now, 0:16:38.120 --> 0:16:40.840 your dad is in his second stage of life. He's 0:16:40.880 --> 0:16:42.600 exploring a whole new side of himself. 0:16:42.640 --> 0:16:47.440 It sounds like, yeah, he's he's into photography now. Cool, 0:16:47.480 --> 0:16:51.240 Like he's always wanted to do photography, and so I'm 0:16:51.240 --> 0:16:54.640 helping him out. It's like a passion project, like my 0:16:54.840 --> 0:16:55.880 sunset to him that. 0:16:55.920 --> 0:16:58.560 Doesn't hear his news. I mean that's what it is 0:16:58.880 --> 0:17:00.000 for you, Alsa. 0:17:00.320 --> 0:17:02.480 I mean good for you that you you look young 0:17:02.600 --> 0:17:04.399 now and you look attractive now, and you can do 0:17:04.440 --> 0:17:06.119 that and then be you. 0:17:06.920 --> 0:17:09.760 Clearly a lot for Peter to process. He didn't understand 0:17:09.960 --> 0:17:11.080 the dynamics that we're. 0:17:11.240 --> 0:17:13.040 Just don't follow her in stuff for a little bit. 0:17:13.280 --> 0:17:15.480 Yeah, that might be a solution if. 0:17:15.320 --> 0:17:18.000 It makes you feel more comfortable. I could maybe make 0:17:18.040 --> 0:17:22.200 my profile private. Oh, you know, basically so your creepy 0:17:22.200 --> 0:17:23.199 friends can't look at it. 0:17:23.400 --> 0:17:24.960 Wow, that's a big compromise. 0:17:25.000 --> 0:17:25.880 That's unnecessary. 0:17:25.960 --> 0:17:29.640 That's she calls him his creepy friends. 0:17:30.000 --> 0:17:32.800 Okay, that sucks for all of us. But Peter, would 0:17:32.800 --> 0:17:34.359 that make you feel more comfortable? 0:17:35.119 --> 0:17:36.960 I feel more comfortable about it, and I think that 0:17:36.960 --> 0:17:40.360 I think that would help the family if they were to. 0:17:40.040 --> 0:17:42.120 She really is a protective step mom. 0:17:42.280 --> 0:17:45.000 Wow, Melyssa. 0:17:45.680 --> 0:17:48.159 Yeah, And I'll make sure, Peter, we have another photo 0:17:48.160 --> 0:17:50.800 shoot scheduled for next weekend, so I'll make sure it's 0:17:50.840 --> 0:17:51.520 private by them. 0:17:53.800 --> 0:17:55.960 What you want, don't I don't need to hear about them. 0:17:55.880 --> 0:17:59.879 Please, Peter supports you, and I want to follow her. 0:18:00.040 --> 0:18:00.760 I don't know a. 0:18:04.520 --> 0:18:07.680 Brooking Jeffrey in the morning. 0:18:06.920 --> 0:18:09.159 Got a text into seventy eight five nine two. It says, 0:18:09.240 --> 0:18:11.480 I want to be in Peter's stepmom's videos. 0:18:11.520 --> 0:18:13.160 Can you pass my number on to her? 0:18:14.880 --> 0:18:17.600 I think that's the exact opposite of what Peter's goal 0:18:17.840 --> 0:18:19.120 was entering his call. 0:18:19.200 --> 0:18:20.280 But hey, you. 0:18:20.280 --> 0:18:23.520 Snooze, you lose Pete. You were giving the chance, you declined. 0:18:23.920 --> 0:18:25.840 Now we're offering it up to our listeners. 0:18:26.280 --> 0:18:29.199 Peter's stepmom and Stacy's mom. You know they're like one 0:18:29.280 --> 0:18:29.720 of the same. 0:18:29.880 --> 0:18:31.800 Oh yeah. 0:18:31.880 --> 0:18:33.600