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Speaker 2: Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, and welcome

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Speaker 2: to the second day. Today is though, actually well today? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and on Tuesdays we do do the awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 2: Uh and you know what, in honor of it, why

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Speaker 2: don't you just share with us in the comments the

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Speaker 2: most embarrassing thing your family member has posted on social media.

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Speaker 1: You know it'll make our listener feel better. I think

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Speaker 2: His freaking out and we love reading the comments. We

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Speaker 2: Sean Andrews said, found you on TikTok and I've been

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Speaker 2: my boss and she loves you. Oh well, you better

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Speaker 2: give him a race. Yeah, he really doesn't. Anyone he's

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Speaker 3: Could have got himself fired.

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Speaker 2: That was risky, I know. All right, let's get your

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Speaker 4: Parents never post anything embarrassed on social media, right Alexis, No, I.

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Speaker 2: Love every photo my mom takes where she looks better

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Speaker 4: In fact, go to my mom's Facebook page right now

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Speaker 4: and you'll see nothing but wholesome, non politically motivated fourteen

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she just loves this country.

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Speaker 3: He sure does.

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Speaker 4: But one of our listeners is freaking out over what

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Speaker 4: her to maybe take it Downike, you're gonna hear why

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Speaker 4: it's so controversial while we attempt to give our best

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Speaker 3: It's awkward.

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Speaker 1: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 4: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Awkward family dynamics isn't a

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Speaker 4: new concept. No, Families have been making things weird with

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Speaker 3: So yeah, nothing new there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but in.

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Speaker 4: The modern digital age, we've unlocked brand new ways to

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Speaker 4: today's call. One of our listeners, Peter's, reached out because

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Speaker 4: he's facing a particularly distressing issue with a member of

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Speaker 3: So Peter, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 5: Hey guys, how you doing it?

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Speaker 1: Sounds like better than you?

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Speaker 2: Oh sucks to be you, Peter, like having a.

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Speaker 1: Call of radio station for family.

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Speaker 5: Drummer.

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Speaker 1: It must be serious.

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Speaker 6: That's all right, yes, okay, all right, Peter.

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Speaker 4: We're here to support you despite the tone of how

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Speaker 5: Here's the deal. My uh, my parents separated about eight

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Speaker 5: But last year my dad was telling us that he

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Speaker 1: Dads usually are older.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I mean I mean like post sixty.

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Speaker 5: That was the first shocking thing. But then the second

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Speaker 1: Oh, how are you in your twenties or your thirties.

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Speaker 5: I'm twenty five years younger than my father.

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Speaker 7: Okay, okay, I know, hold on, that's cute, But worry

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Speaker 1: Or is it just awkward to call her mom. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: I mean when I met her, I thought, I mean,

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Speaker 5: you like, Well, it's interesting you guys make that joke

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Speaker 5: I mean it's I mean I didn't really get to

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Speaker 5: But anyway, we would fast forward to recently and one

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Speaker 5: have you seen your step mom's Instagram posts?

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Speaker 3: This is not good?

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Speaker 7: Why it's not like an apple pie that she just baked.

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Speaker 3: I'm assume what is he talking about?

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Speaker 5: Her latest photo is a first trip on a photo.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's wrong with she's in her twenties. Yeah, she's

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean that's fine if she wasn't married to

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Speaker 2: What so like, if you're married, you can't post pretty

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Speaker 6: Do you care?

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Speaker 5: That's the thing is he's like not on social media.

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Speaker 5: I don't even think he knows. I mean, this is

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Speaker 2: You need to grow up and understand that wives can

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Speaker 4: I don't think he's saying that the wife isn't allowed

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Speaker 2: But you don't know that she's already showed him the pick,

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Speaker 1: It's also like he likes it. Listen, I have a

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Speaker 2: Sometimes people are just hot and they can't stop themselves

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and I understand that she is an attractive woman.

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Speaker 5: It's just maybe I'm not explaining this well enough. These

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Speaker 4: It's especially for someone who's in a brand new marriage

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Speaker 2: I think more than anything, it's probably uncomfy that you

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Speaker 5: Yeah look I didn't say hot, its attractive.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you could say she's.

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Speaker 1: And your guy friends follow her and send you this

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Speaker 5: I just don't want to hear words like smelt. I

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Speaker 2: Are you hearing the words friends or stepmom? Ah?

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Speaker 4: Well, clearly this is something that's bothering you and you're

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Speaker 5: Here? And I don't want to cause drama. I just

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Speaker 7: You may call and she's like, oh, I showed it

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I.

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Speaker 2: Mean it makes him uncomfortable no matter what the dad says.

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Speaker 7: And if the dad's comfortable, then he's just got to

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Speaker 4: We need to give you advice on how to respectfully

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Speaker 3: You make your awkward Tuesday phone calls.

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Speaker 1: That's the same agent. You're the one who say it's

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Speaker 3: Okay, will let you say that to your mom coming

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Speaker 3: up right after this? Not mom, Not yeah, not mom, okay, yeah,

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Speaker 4: One of our listeners, Peter, told us about an interesting

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Speaker 4: Up when Peter's buddies sent him texts and photos of

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Speaker 2: That's so ruthless.

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Speaker 4: It's because she's posting some salacious photos of herself on there.

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Speaker 4: Because it could cause family drama and his new step

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Speaker 1: So Peter just feels uncomfortable.

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Speaker 4: Everybody does, so, Peter, he doesn't want to sound judgmental

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Speaker 3: Brook? Go ahead, you have the floor.

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Speaker 2: And we got to stop calling him her his step mom.

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Speaker 2: I know technically that's true, but it's not like she's

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Speaker 3: What's a better term for her that you would feel appropriate?

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Speaker 1: With his dad's new hot wife?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's so much, Peter, Are you comfortable dad's new

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Speaker 1: It's very attractive, you look great, but I just.

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Speaker 9: Okay, yeah, they they they saw a photo that you

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Speaker 8: I don't know, hey, Peter, Sorry, sorry, can you hold

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you're married to my dad now, and those types

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Speaker 8: All right, Well you called me to complain about them,

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Speaker 8: Wait, hold on, I'm do you think those are thirst

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Speaker 8: Do you want to see a thirst trap photo photo?

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Speaker 8: The one who took those photos. He told me to

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Speaker 8: Oh my god, who are all these people? What is happening?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: These people Alyssa is a radio show called Brooke and

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Speaker 8: On right now.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this is a segment we do called Awkward Tuesday

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Speaker 2: We keep saying that, but really it's just making Peter uncomfortable.

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Speaker 1: What's happening?

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Speaker 3: Peter?

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Speaker 2: Doesn't know how Obviously anyone else feels, including his father.

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Speaker 1: His father was the one that told her to do it.

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Speaker 5: I can't imagine that he would do that. Maybe if

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Speaker 1: Maybe your dad's Your dad's a confident man.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, he definitely knows social media. Like obviously he looks

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Speaker 5: I can't imagine that he would. My father's an account

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Speaker 2: My hot mother is an accountant, and she will tell

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Speaker 4: There's a lot of repressed emotions there then to come out. Now,

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Speaker 5: I mean good for you that you you look young

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Speaker 4: Clearly a lot for Peter to process. He didn't understand

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Speaker 8: It makes you feel more comfortable. I could maybe make

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Speaker 2: That's she calls him his creepy friends.

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Speaker 1: She really is a protective step mom.

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Speaker 4: Wow, Melyssa.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, And I'll make sure, Peter, we have another photo

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Speaker 5: What you want, don't I don't need to hear about them.

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Speaker 3: Please, Peter supports you, and I want to follow her.

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Speaker 5: I don't know a.

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Speaker 4: Got a text into seventy eight five nine two. It says,

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Speaker 3: Can you pass my number on to her?

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Speaker 4: I think that's the exact opposite of what Peter's goal

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Speaker 3: But hey, you.

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Speaker 4: Snooze, you lose Pete. You were giving the chance, you declined.

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Speaker 4: If the hot young moms want to post photos of themselves,

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Speaker 4: for God's sakes, do not stop them.

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Speaker 3: What are You're crazy? What the hot mom's.

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Speaker 4: Post and the hot dads and the ugly moms and

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Speaker 3: Everybody compose whatever they want.

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Speaker 4: We need all those photos, and we also need you

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Speaker 1: And also follow our socials.

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Speaker 2: You're not going to find any hotness, no first traps there,

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