1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:04,040 Speaker 1: Hey, friend, we are back in the courtroom. Let us 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:06,920 Speaker 1: get into it. This one is for all of the 3 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 1: social media girlies and guys, because if you have friends 4 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:14,240 Speaker 1: who promote their businesses on social media, I think you 5 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:16,759 Speaker 1: will have a lot to say about this case. Let's 6 00:00:16,760 --> 00:00:18,759 Speaker 1: get into it. It says, hey, ki key, am I 7 00:00:18,840 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 1: wrong for not supporting my friends' business on social media? 8 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: My friend launched her new business and asked everyone to 9 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 1: share her post. I saw the post, I liked the posts, 10 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:32,479 Speaker 1: but I did not share the post because I've been 11 00:00:32,479 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 1: trying to keep my page clean and professional for my 12 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:39,480 Speaker 1: own work. So my friend texted me and said, it's 13 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:43,960 Speaker 1: crazy how strangers support me online more than my own 14 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 1: friends do. I responded and said, listen, people take social 15 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 1: media to serious. And I just noticed after I sent 16 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:55,320 Speaker 1: that text, she blocked me on all of her social 17 00:00:55,360 --> 00:00:59,280 Speaker 1: media pages. Am I wrong for not reposting her business 18 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:03,640 Speaker 1: even though I genuinely support her in real life? Okay, 19 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:06,280 Speaker 1: I feel like two things can be true here. Yes, 20 00:01:06,319 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 1: people take social media way too serious. However, supporting your 21 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:16,480 Speaker 1: friend's business online is free. It's free. It takes nothing 22 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 1: for you to like their posts, comment, engage with the post, 23 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:24,280 Speaker 1: and then she she personally asked you to repost it. Now, 24 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:26,920 Speaker 1: I understand you may not have wanted it on your page. 25 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 1: You don't want your followers to think maybe this is 26 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 1: your business or you're affiliated somehow. But a simple repost 27 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:37,520 Speaker 1: to maybe your stories or something to just say, hey, 28 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:40,119 Speaker 1: my friends just started a new business. Check her out. 29 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:44,480 Speaker 1: Like that type of support is free. It's free. It 30 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 1: takes nothing from you to do it. So I understand. 31 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 1: Sometimes the algorithm will not show you your friends work 32 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 1: and people will walk around upset thinking that you don't 33 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 1: support them and you didn't even see it. I get 34 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 1: that part right, But she literally reached out to you 35 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 1: and asked you, hey, can you please repost this for 36 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 1: me as a friend. I think it would have taken 37 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:08,520 Speaker 1: nothing for you to just repost it in your stories, 38 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 1: or even if you said, hey, girl, like, I don't 39 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 1: want to put this on my page, but I'm gonna 40 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:13,959 Speaker 1: make sure that I tell people about it. I'm gonna 41 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 1: share it with some people, or if you said, hey, 42 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna repost it, but I'm gonna comment on it. 43 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:21,080 Speaker 1: You just saw it, you liked it, and you kept moving, 44 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 1: and your friend literally asked you for some online support. 45 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:26,960 Speaker 1: I think you are wrong here, friend, I do in 46 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:30,840 Speaker 1: my opinion as somebody who a lot of my job 47 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:35,640 Speaker 1: is revolves around my online presence. Right, My bosses and 48 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 1: things judge me off of the numbers and engagement that 49 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 1: they see on my social media feeds. So to me, 50 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 1: it's like, you know this is a part of her business. 51 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:47,360 Speaker 1: You know, this is what she's doing. It literally takes 52 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 1: nothing for you to support her online. Support online is free. 53 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 1: It is free. And that's why I love the Thirteen 54 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 1: because y'all support me online, y'all support the Fred Show online, 55 00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: and literally what we do, it's free for you to 56 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:02,079 Speaker 1: support us. It's free for you to listen to the 57 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 1: radio that supports us. It's free for you to like 58 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 1: a post on social media. That is how you can 59 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:09,359 Speaker 1: support us. And so I think your friend was more 60 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 1: than reasonable by asking you to support her online. And 61 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 1: I don't feel like you you even really gave it 62 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 1: much attention. You said, you saw the post, you liked 63 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 1: the post, you kept moving. You could have like she 64 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:23,640 Speaker 1: asked you to repost it. If you didn't want to, 65 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 1: then tell her that and tell her why, but like 66 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 1: just ignoring it completely and just not even like showing 67 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:33,519 Speaker 1: her any love online. I think that was a little 68 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 1: like a little shady. I think that was a little 69 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 1: shady friend. So I understand why she may have blocked 70 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 1: you home, And I think if you want to repair 71 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 1: the friendship, you can simply reach out, like, hey, girl, like, 72 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 1: you know, my bad for not reposting it. This is 73 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 1: why I didn't repost it. But I've you know, I'm 74 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 1: gonna share it with some people. I'm definitely gonna talk 75 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 1: about it to people like and let her know that 76 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 1: you genuinely support her, because I will tell you in 77 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 1: my experience, I get way more support from people I've 78 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 1: never met in my life online right, never met in 79 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 1: my life, than I do from the people I know 80 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 1: in real life. Like if you go on my Facebook, 81 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 1: it's mostly like people I went to high school with 82 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 1: family members. I may get like one, like two comments 83 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:16,600 Speaker 1: over there. But you know, on a somewhere like TikTok 84 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:20,360 Speaker 1: or Instagram where I literally don't know anybody in real life, 85 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 1: I get so much support in love, And I don't 86 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:25,119 Speaker 1: understand why it's like that. If you see your friends 87 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 1: start a business, or if you see your friend posting 88 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:30,160 Speaker 1: something on social media and you know that they need 89 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:34,359 Speaker 1: your support, just go ahead and engage with it. It's free. 90 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 1: It is a free way of supporting people. So I 91 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 1: may be a little biased on this though because I 92 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:41,839 Speaker 1: work in such a social media place. But let me 93 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 1: know your thoughts, you guys are the jury. Of course. 94 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 1: I posted a video to my Instagram and my TikTok 95 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 1: and Fred Show platforms too. Go over there. Let me 96 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 1: know your thoughts, and yeah, it's mandatory, like it's you must. 97 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 1: I'm just kidding, but yeah, if you want to support, 98 00:04:58,120 --> 00:05:01,720 Speaker 1: engage with the post online. But yeah, girl, I think 99 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 1: you're wrong on this one. I think social media support 100 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:06,479 Speaker 1: is the easiest thing you can do for a friend. 101 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 1: It is free, it is free, it takes nothing. But anyway, 102 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 1: let me know your thoughts. Jury. Hit me up of 103 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:15,600 Speaker 1: course on the gram, at on air ky k K 104 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 1: e k E, at Fresh Show Radio everywhere, and I 105 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:23,159 Speaker 1: will talk to you tomorrow like bright and early. You 106 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:24,559 Speaker 1: already know. Love you. Bye.