1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:09,879 Speaker 1: Let's talk about sex baby, Hello sexies. O MG, I 2 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:14,480 Speaker 1: cannot believe we are here. I have been sitting on 3 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:17,159 Speaker 1: this idea because we all know that I love to 4 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 1: talk about sex and some people get a little nervous 5 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 1: about it, and I'm still perplexed on why. And it's 6 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:28,480 Speaker 1: usually women who get a little uncomfortable with other women 7 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:32,320 Speaker 1: talking about sex. So when I thought about this idea, 8 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 1: I was like, who else is comfortable talking about sex? 9 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 1: Who I find so fun, so sexy, so interesting. That 10 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:43,959 Speaker 1: could be my fucking co host who's also endearing as 11 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:48,879 Speaker 1: it gets. So I have my co host, Sally Carson. 12 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 2: Hello sex. 13 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:52,880 Speaker 3: So I'm so excited to be here. 14 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 2: Are you nervous at all? 15 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 3: I'm a little nervous. I mean I've never really done 16 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 3: anything like this before. 17 00:00:57,600 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 2: But you've been on podcasts. 18 00:00:58,800 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 3: I've been on podcasts. 19 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 2: Yes, Well, we're going to get to know each other 20 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 2: quite well, like we know each other, but we're about 21 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:05,760 Speaker 2: to know each other. I know. 22 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 3: When when I first heard it was you as like 23 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:11,959 Speaker 3: immediately yes, I think I like she my publicist like 24 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:14,320 Speaker 3: called me and I was in Mexico and she said, like, 25 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 3: would you want to do a podcast with Lala? And 26 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 3: I was. 27 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:18,959 Speaker 1: Like, are you like Lala Anthony? 28 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 3: I was like yeah, he was literally like me, Like 29 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 3: I was shocked, and I mean it was just. 30 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:31,040 Speaker 2: It's just so meant to be. I've watched you on TV. 31 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:38,399 Speaker 1: We've obviously connected met, but like there's just something about 32 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:42,479 Speaker 1: you where when you're on camera, you're so authentically yourself. 33 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:45,679 Speaker 1: You're so cute, You're hottest buck, you have no problem 34 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:46,679 Speaker 1: talking about sex. 35 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 2: Does your mama watch the show Girl? Yes? 36 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 3: My mom is My mom is getting tagged. Thank god, 37 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 3: I have the best family in the whole wide world, 38 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 3: because like my mom gets tagged online right now saying 39 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 3: like she's your daughter likes to eat ass? Oh yeah? 40 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 3: And she I mean she's like. 41 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 2: She doesn't love it, but. 42 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 3: She's like, I mean, that's my daughter. She can't stop 43 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:13,239 Speaker 3: her from talking. 44 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:13,680 Speaker 2: About her mouth. 45 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:15,920 Speaker 1: Do you like to eat ass or does it have 46 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 1: to be like a really comfortable situation. 47 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 2: Or depending on the alcohol. 48 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 3: Depending on the entire situation. I think, Okay, yeah, but no, 49 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:29,240 Speaker 3: I don't. I don't like prefer like, I don't like 50 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 3: eating ass. I just like if it makes my man happy, 51 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:36,359 Speaker 3: I'm all about I'm a pleaser. Oh yeah, So like wow, 52 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:39,360 Speaker 3: my man is like, I am really into this. I'm like, okay, 53 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 3: I'll try it. 54 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 2: Wow, you're a bag of fun. 55 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 3: I mean I haven't done anything that crazy. 56 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:48,520 Speaker 1: But before we deep dive into all the all the 57 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 1: sexy talk, because I also have like a rapid fire 58 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:54,960 Speaker 1: game that I want to play you before you were 59 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 1: on Southern Charm. 60 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:58,800 Speaker 3: You're like born and raised there right Greenville to like 61 00:02:58,840 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 3: three hours outside. 62 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, and I mean you how did you get 63 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:06,359 Speaker 2: on the back? Was it bachelor? Bachelor? 64 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 1: Yeah? 65 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 2: Bachelor? 66 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 3: Yeah. So I was engaged and he I was twenty. 67 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 2: Four, oh shit, a baby. 68 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, and he was one of my surgeons, like at 69 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 3: the hospital I worked at in Virginia, and he you know, 70 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 3: fell in love quickly, got engaged. And then a girl 71 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 3: DMed me twenty nine days before my wedding and she 72 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:33,920 Speaker 3: was like, hey, girl, I've been hanging out with your Beyonce. 73 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 3: And I was like, oh perfect. 74 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 2: Did you believe her? 75 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 3: Not at first, but then she told me that he 76 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 3: was wearing jeans and flip flops and I was like, Yep, 77 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 3: that's that's a man. 78 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 2: Doesn't everybody where you live where jeans and flip flops? 79 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 3: Not jeans not pants and flip flops. I cannot get 80 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 3: down with that. 81 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 1: But shorts and flip flops, yeah, that's so. If they're 82 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 1: in shorts and flip flops, you'll eat ass. 83 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 2: But if it's jeans and flip flops, we'reing for me. 84 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 3: I know, go, I don't know. I mean, I was 85 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 3: engaged to the guy, but yeah, I mean canceled the wedding. 86 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 3: And then the Bachelor called me a week later and 87 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 3: they were like, we want you. We heard your story 88 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 3: and I was like, how they couldn't tell me. 89 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 2: Someone submitted you. Yeah, oh my god. 90 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 3: So I fly out there and then I was like, 91 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 3: what the hell am I doing? I was on my 92 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:24,719 Speaker 3: bachelorette party a month before this, Oh my god, and 93 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:26,600 Speaker 3: I was it was the weekend we were supposed to 94 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:29,479 Speaker 3: get married, like when we started filming The Bachelor. So 95 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:31,720 Speaker 3: I was like, I want to leave, and the producers 96 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 3: are like, you can't leave. You have to break up 97 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 3: with your boyfriend first, and I'm like, I don't even 98 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:39,039 Speaker 3: know who the bachelor is. He's my boyfriend now, so 99 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 3: they make me go and here like and there's twenty 100 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 3: six other people that are dating him before we're meeting 101 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 3: him exactly, and I was like, this is weird, but 102 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:48,160 Speaker 3: okay if it gets me out of here. And then 103 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 3: he offered me a rose and I was like, no, 104 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 3: I want to go home. And then I got back 105 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 3: together with my ex, the one that cheated, Yes, and 106 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:56,279 Speaker 3: he cheated on me again. So then I went on 107 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 3: Bachelor in Paradise. Oh, and then I left because I 108 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:03,039 Speaker 3: got bullied. So what does they bully you about him? 109 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 2: About him? 110 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 3: Yeah? And I didn't want his name brought up just 111 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 3: because of his career and stuff. 112 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:09,840 Speaker 2: Wow, I mean like so nice. 113 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 3: Well you google his name and it used to be 114 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:14,159 Speaker 3: all these medical papers and now it's like, who is 115 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:14,760 Speaker 3: Sally's ex? 116 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:17,800 Speaker 2: Isn't that such a wonderful thing? 117 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 1: It is now my fiance is also known as Lala 118 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:24,480 Speaker 1: Ken's ex fiance. Good, it's a wonderful and like all 119 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 1: that hard work and that's all your known exactly. 120 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:27,919 Speaker 3: It's great. 121 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 2: It is great. 122 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 3: Right, we got our payback? 123 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 2: Did you? What was the age difference? 124 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 3: He was forty two? 125 00:05:35,680 --> 00:05:36,040 Speaker 2: Wow? 126 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:39,839 Speaker 3: Yes? Okay he was older? And how he was like hot? 127 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 2: Okay? How was the sex with him terrible? Really? 128 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:43,280 Speaker 1: Yes? 129 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 2: What are we doing? 130 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:47,920 Speaker 3: I don't know, but that was I feel like I 131 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 3: was young, and like I didn't really I hadn't really 132 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 3: experienced much that happened. Yeah, So like I was just 133 00:05:56,680 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 3: I didn't really know what was out there. I mean 134 00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:00,719 Speaker 3: now I'm like, oh my god, it would not have ground. 135 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, because that's what age does and experiences, and 136 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 1: you realize, like what you're missing out on? 137 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:10,159 Speaker 2: Do you sober sex? 138 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:14,040 Speaker 1: For me, Like, I hadn't had sober sex ever until 139 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 1: I broke up with my fiance really yeah, this was 140 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 1: five years ago, Okay, but I got sober in the relationship. 141 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:24,599 Speaker 1: Like I met him and I was deep in my 142 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 1: like we were gearing up to become like an alcoholic 143 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 1: and member of AA. But then when I was out 144 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 1: of the relationship, I was so nervous to go out 145 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:35,920 Speaker 1: and date. 146 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 2: And I've spoken about this before. 147 00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 1: And I met this guy and it was actually filmed 148 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 1: on vander Pump Rules. But I met this guy, and 149 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:46,040 Speaker 1: I mean, we're in freaking Lake Havasu. 150 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:48,559 Speaker 2: It's like no one who is my type. 151 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, And it was like these men were just like 152 00:06:51,440 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 1: dropped into the bar for me. 153 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 2: God heard my prayer. 154 00:06:57,640 --> 00:06:59,280 Speaker 1: And I thought it was gonna be like a one 155 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 1: night stand. Could not sleep in the bed that night 156 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:04,800 Speaker 1: because apparently when I'm sober and having sex, I turned 157 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 1: into a squorter. So that was fun to realize. 158 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 3: You didn't know. 159 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 2: No, I had no idea. I just thought some women 160 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 2: were squorters and some I don't. 161 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, like I thought that too. Are you talking about 162 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 3: this yesterday? I have one time in my life, Yeah, 163 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 3: one time. 164 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:23,960 Speaker 2: It's only been with this guy that it's happened to me. 165 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 3: He maybe does he like it because some guys know 166 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 3: how to do it. 167 00:07:27,960 --> 00:07:29,240 Speaker 2: Oh, he know how to do it. 168 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, because like there was just one guy in Nashville 169 00:07:31,960 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 3: that I have history with and he like I stole 170 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 3: my stomach and like happened, and I was so freaked out. 171 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:38,720 Speaker 3: I was like, I don't even know what just happened. 172 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 2: No, it's fucking amazing. 173 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 1: But I was at a dinner with a group of 174 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 1: girlfriends the other night and we were talking about scorting, 175 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 1: and I was convinced, along with my other friend Natalie, 176 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 1: that it is not pea And then the other guy 177 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 1: we were with was like, definitely, absolutely, and Natalie and 178 00:07:57,520 --> 00:07:59,400 Speaker 1: I were like, no, it doesn't come out of the 179 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 1: pea hole, comes out of where the penis goes the vagina. No, 180 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 1: so we googled it and it was like I was 181 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 1: shocked and disgusted and repulsed by myself. Okay, So, scientific 182 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:14,920 Speaker 1: and medical research shows that scorting is primarily the involuntary 183 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 1: expulsion of diluted urine from the bladder, often mixed with 184 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 1: secretions from the scheme's glands. 185 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 2: The female prostates, Okay, while it contains chemical. 186 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:35,680 Speaker 3: Markers of p where does it come out? 187 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:39,679 Speaker 1: I thought it came out of the vagina hole that 188 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 1: the penis enters, but it comes out of the peele. 189 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 2: I'm disgusted. And now you're saying that he pushed on 190 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 2: your stomach. It's like, oh, yeah, that's pee. 191 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 3: I think I was googling it after it happened to me, 192 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:54,960 Speaker 3: and it's like it's totally normal, and like you're fine, 193 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:57,960 Speaker 3: don't be embarrassed about it. It's very natural that I 194 00:08:58,040 --> 00:08:59,000 Speaker 3: was like mortified. 195 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 2: What did he do while he was fingering? 196 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:02,680 Speaker 3: No, we were having sex. 197 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:07,199 Speaker 1: You're like, oh, okay, I was fully like spraying his 198 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 1: face when it happened. 199 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 2: Like he seemed fine with it. He seemed fine with 200 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 2: I'm sure he was. I would not be fine with it, 201 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 2: especially now knowing what it is. 202 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 3: Can you imagine does a man standing up in the 203 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:23,360 Speaker 3: bed and just peeing all over you? So I feel 204 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 3: like that's. 205 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 2: That's called the golden shower. Yeah, I'm not into that. 206 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 2: I'm not into that at all. No, I was in 207 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 2: high school. 208 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 1: I was totally fine with it, really yeah, and I 209 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:35,960 Speaker 1: would like put ice up there and have sex. It 210 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:39,080 Speaker 1: was like weird, like the things that I was like 211 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:42,480 Speaker 1: down for back in the day, like high school, a 212 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:45,560 Speaker 1: little inappropriate and weird. Yeah, why do you think that 213 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 1: it's such a taboo thing, like when a woman talks 214 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 1: about sex still to this day, Like men are fine 215 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:52,840 Speaker 1: with us talking about sex, but I find that other 216 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:57,920 Speaker 1: women they get extremely judgmental anytime I've spoken about sex, 217 00:09:58,000 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 1: even you with the comment section we like your daughter 218 00:09:59,840 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 1: like to eat ass, It's like and okay, yeah, Like 219 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:04,959 Speaker 1: I don't understand why. 220 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 3: Those are the people that are probably not getting any 221 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:08,079 Speaker 3: They're unhappy. 222 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:11,199 Speaker 2: Right, you know, like like just missionary style and. 223 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:14,000 Speaker 3: It's yeah, and it's boring and not fun, or they're 224 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:17,320 Speaker 3: just like really conservative like with that kind of stuff. 225 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:19,760 Speaker 3: I just never have been like I've always lived my 226 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:22,319 Speaker 3: life out loud, and I've never been embarrassed about like 227 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:23,319 Speaker 3: things that I'm into. 228 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:27,040 Speaker 1: I think it's great. I do too, And when people 229 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:29,960 Speaker 1: say things to me like your daughter is going to 230 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 1: like hear you talk about these things. One damn like 231 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:35,400 Speaker 1: she probably will. I didn't appropriate age, but yeah, like 232 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:37,760 Speaker 1: I would rather her come to me and talk to 233 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 1: me about all the experiences I've had so she can 234 00:10:41,040 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 1: go out into the world and like live her best life. 235 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:46,440 Speaker 3: Absolutely, is that horrible? No, Because I feel like I 236 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:49,839 Speaker 3: was having not as great of sex I am now 237 00:10:49,920 --> 00:10:52,760 Speaker 3: because I wasn't talking about it right like back when 238 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:56,920 Speaker 3: I was like younger, and now like I feel comfortable 239 00:10:56,920 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 3: communicating like what I want, what I like, what I 240 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 3: don't like, and then I've had way better sex life 241 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 3: from it that part. 242 00:11:03,760 --> 00:11:06,720 Speaker 1: I think Also when you're in like a partnership, I 243 00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 1: think that there's also that element of like I can't 244 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 1: tell them that, like I don't like what they're doing 245 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 1: because I don't want to hurt their feelings. 246 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:16,160 Speaker 2: You have to be compatible when. 247 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:20,600 Speaker 1: It comes to the intimacy, yes, because yes, I feel 248 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:22,720 Speaker 1: like when you get into a partnership, my biggest thing 249 00:11:22,920 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 1: is you have to have the foundation of like friendship, 250 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 1: right because that's gonna be what sustains you throughout. But 251 00:11:29,120 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 1: I mean, like, if you don't amber who I do 252 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 1: an unlikely affair with. 253 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 2: She said it perfectly. 254 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:40,160 Speaker 1: When a man fingers me and it's soft, it's like 255 00:11:40,240 --> 00:11:42,840 Speaker 1: I need you to finger me like you're angry with me. 256 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that's crazy. I don't like a. 257 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 1: Jack camera, so you would have to tell your guy 258 00:11:51,600 --> 00:11:53,440 Speaker 1: don't finger me like you're angry. 259 00:11:53,520 --> 00:11:55,720 Speaker 3: Like some people do that and I'm like, the fuck 260 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 3: are you trying to find in there? 261 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:03,559 Speaker 2: It's nothing in there, Like I don't like it's crazy 262 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:04,440 Speaker 2: trying to find it. 263 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:07,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I don't like that, like the aggressive like 264 00:12:07,800 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 3: because like that doesn't please me. 265 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:09,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. 266 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 3: So I guess everyone's different and she liked different. 267 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's like finger me like I've upset you. Wow, 268 00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 2: I know. 269 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. 270 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:18,440 Speaker 3: See I don't like that. 271 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:20,880 Speaker 2: Do you like being like spanked and all that shu? 272 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 1: Yeah? 273 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, every time. 274 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:29,439 Speaker 1: You're gonna stay choked, weren't you You're gonna stay choked? 275 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:29,880 Speaker 2: Love it. 276 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 3: But it depends. Like the guy I was just telling 277 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:38,320 Speaker 3: you about really good sex, yeah, didn't do any of that. 278 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:39,720 Speaker 2: It was more soft. 279 00:12:39,800 --> 00:12:41,800 Speaker 3: It was more soft, So I like, I think it 280 00:12:41,880 --> 00:12:44,400 Speaker 3: just depends on the situation because I can go either 281 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:45,719 Speaker 3: way like you can. 282 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:48,559 Speaker 1: Do you find the do you have sober sex? Yes 283 00:12:49,040 --> 00:12:52,800 Speaker 1: in the mornings, Okay, do you find that when you're 284 00:12:52,880 --> 00:12:56,280 Speaker 1: sober you want more like lovey dovey? 285 00:12:58,400 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 3: Probably? 286 00:12:59,320 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 1: Yeah? More? 287 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:02,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I think I just like go after like, 288 00:13:03,440 --> 00:13:07,280 Speaker 3: you know, the vibe, Like some guys you know, are 289 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:09,440 Speaker 3: like softer mint, you know. And then there's other guys 290 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:11,520 Speaker 3: that are just like I look at them and I'm like, 291 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:14,079 Speaker 3: I want to be choked. 292 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 2: You want to turn into fucking Jane and Tarzan. Yeah, 293 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 2: I get that. 294 00:13:18,360 --> 00:13:21,000 Speaker 3: And they have to have that look. I mean, hmmm, 295 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:21,719 Speaker 3: I don't know. 296 00:13:22,480 --> 00:13:25,720 Speaker 2: I do know exactly what you're fucking right there. 297 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 3: Some guys that I'm like, wow, you know, you're just 298 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:33,960 Speaker 3: such a like soft emotional like sweet man. And then 299 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:36,559 Speaker 3: another guy I look at and I'm like, take me down, 300 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 3: take me down, take me now. Can I tell you 301 00:13:40,679 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 3: the other thing though, when it comes to take me down? 302 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 1: For sure, But when I like, if I'm with a 303 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:51,000 Speaker 1: dude and we're doing our thing, like before we go 304 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 1: do something right, like I've got my clippings ready to 305 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:58,160 Speaker 1: go and I have my mouth down there. If you 306 00:13:58,520 --> 00:14:01,080 Speaker 1: fucking touch my head, I'm giving you. 307 00:14:01,160 --> 00:14:03,840 Speaker 2: Teeth yeah, Oh, so you hate it if I don't 308 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:04,959 Speaker 2: have my weave in. 309 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:05,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, you're good. 310 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:09,280 Speaker 2: Bob me up and down like bobbing for an apple. 311 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:11,120 Speaker 2: When my extensions are in. 312 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:11,840 Speaker 3: Don't touch me. 313 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:13,360 Speaker 2: Don't touch my fucking head. 314 00:14:13,360 --> 00:14:14,160 Speaker 3: Did you tell them that? 315 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 2: Yes? Okay. I literally will come up and be like, 316 00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:21,400 Speaker 2: you touch my head again with my weave in, you're 317 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:23,120 Speaker 2: getting teeth. Yeah, don't do that. 318 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:23,520 Speaker 3: Yeah. 319 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:25,640 Speaker 2: Then when the weave comes. 320 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:29,800 Speaker 3: Out, you're like, yeah, go time, Yeah, throw me around. 321 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:32,640 Speaker 3: I can't get mine out though, I have to deal 322 00:14:32,640 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 3: with it. 323 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 2: Oh, yours are like attached to the head. 324 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. So then sometimes you know when they start because 325 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 3: sometimes I like a good hair pool ouch, And when 326 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:48,280 Speaker 3: they do that, my extensions sometimes come out and I'm like, 327 00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:49,640 Speaker 3: you can't do that. It's rbing my hair out. 328 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 2: See, so you too have to sometimes say you don't 329 00:14:53,200 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 2: do that. 330 00:14:53,640 --> 00:14:57,600 Speaker 3: I never, But then I'm like, so good, lose the weave. 331 00:14:58,160 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 2: See we can't get all out it. Tomorrow she comes 332 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:05,040 Speaker 2: out with like the most like scraggly extensions you've ever 333 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:06,960 Speaker 2: seen in your life. They're like you look a little different, 334 00:15:07,680 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 2: a little different this morning. 335 00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:11,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, go to sleep at end and wake up before. 336 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 2: You're I can tell you're fun. How about chicks? You 337 00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 2: ever hooked up with the chick? 338 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:21,080 Speaker 3: So we actually talked about it like this season. But 339 00:15:21,880 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 3: I went to Canada, okay, and I hooked up with 340 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:25,160 Speaker 3: my first girl. 341 00:15:25,560 --> 00:15:27,400 Speaker 2: Just a ransom ago two months ago. 342 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 3: Wow, first time? 343 00:15:29,760 --> 00:15:30,160 Speaker 1: I yeah. 344 00:15:30,160 --> 00:15:31,320 Speaker 3: I mean we were just like making out in the 345 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:31,720 Speaker 3: hot tub. 346 00:15:31,840 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 2: She was hot, Okay. 347 00:15:33,400 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 3: I was like, okay, this is great, and then I 348 00:15:38,280 --> 00:15:40,560 Speaker 3: could not get myself to go down. 349 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:43,000 Speaker 2: Did she go down? Wow? 350 00:15:44,240 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 3: So but like you know, we were making out with 351 00:15:47,680 --> 00:15:48,960 Speaker 3: the guy too, Like a guy was like. 352 00:15:48,920 --> 00:15:51,600 Speaker 2: So it was like a threesome type of situation kind. 353 00:15:51,520 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 1: Of not like f one, right, but he just watched. 354 00:15:57,360 --> 00:15:59,880 Speaker 1: Yeah kind of that's all they're good for sometimes. 355 00:16:00,560 --> 00:16:01,360 Speaker 3: But it was great. 356 00:16:01,400 --> 00:16:03,400 Speaker 2: I mean I was could you do it sober? 357 00:16:04,560 --> 00:16:07,040 Speaker 3: Yeah? I think so. But I think that that's when 358 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:08,680 Speaker 3: I knew, like, okay, I'm very straight. 359 00:16:09,120 --> 00:16:12,240 Speaker 1: Okay, but some people do try to put women in 360 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 1: boxes like that, well not just women, I think men 361 00:16:14,440 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 1: and women. If you are able to hook up with 362 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:21,760 Speaker 1: the same sex, they automatically certain people want to label 363 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:25,200 Speaker 1: you as by And I've hooked up with many women, 364 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:29,400 Speaker 1: but I don't believe myself to be bisexual because I 365 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 1: couldn't be in a relationship with a woman exactly. 366 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:34,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I see that. 367 00:16:35,240 --> 00:16:37,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, some people feel more comfortable like putting a label 368 00:16:37,800 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 1: on it, like you're bisexual, you can hook up with chicks. 369 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:43,080 Speaker 2: For me, I'm like, I'm a straight person. I have 370 00:16:43,160 --> 00:16:44,080 Speaker 2: hooked up with chicks. 371 00:16:44,120 --> 00:16:46,120 Speaker 1: I would hook up with chicks, but because it wouldn't 372 00:16:46,160 --> 00:16:48,120 Speaker 1: go past the hookup. 373 00:16:47,880 --> 00:16:51,760 Speaker 2: Like, I don't think I'm bisexual? Is that what it's called? Vicurious? 374 00:16:52,520 --> 00:16:55,400 Speaker 3: But you're some curious about like no woman like you 375 00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 3: know that? 376 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:58,720 Speaker 1: You no? Like y curious seems like something where you 377 00:16:58,760 --> 00:17:00,920 Speaker 1: go out and you hook up with chick and it's. 378 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:02,640 Speaker 3: Like you're trying to to figure out your sexuality. 379 00:17:02,720 --> 00:17:04,520 Speaker 2: Yeah I'm not trying to figure it out. You already know. 380 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:06,440 Speaker 3: Yes, I don't know what it's called because I'm the 381 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:08,720 Speaker 3: same like I would, I would do it again, but 382 00:17:08,760 --> 00:17:11,160 Speaker 3: I would never be in a relationship one. 383 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:15,240 Speaker 1: So being the definition being bi curious refers to a 384 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:19,399 Speaker 1: person who is open to exploring or experiment experimenting with 385 00:17:19,440 --> 00:17:23,000 Speaker 1: sexual romantic attractions to genders other than ones they are 386 00:17:23,040 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 1: typically drawn to. Okay, so maybe I am, yeah, exploring 387 00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 1: and experimenting, though I've explored, I've experimented. That's like the 388 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:35,040 Speaker 1: first one. But if it happens multiple times, like I 389 00:17:35,119 --> 00:17:37,400 Speaker 1: know that I want to end up with a man, 390 00:17:38,720 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 1: I'm not. 391 00:17:39,440 --> 00:17:41,000 Speaker 2: I'm not curious. I'm not. 392 00:17:41,320 --> 00:17:45,360 Speaker 1: I'm thirty six years old. Yeah, Like the experimental phase for. 393 00:17:45,359 --> 00:17:45,960 Speaker 2: Me is over. 394 00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:48,640 Speaker 1: Is over, Like you've done it well, unless it comes 395 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:49,159 Speaker 1: to anal. 396 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:51,280 Speaker 2: I've never done anal before. 397 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:52,639 Speaker 1: Girl. 398 00:17:53,119 --> 00:17:54,520 Speaker 2: Wait, let's talk about it. I want to do the 399 00:17:54,600 --> 00:17:57,360 Speaker 2: rapid fire. Your favorite position to. 400 00:17:57,400 --> 00:18:00,760 Speaker 3: Orgasm probably me on top because I'm in control. 401 00:18:01,040 --> 00:18:03,920 Speaker 2: M I would say, me on top or from behind? 402 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:07,720 Speaker 3: I see, I can't come from behind. Mind. 403 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:11,320 Speaker 1: There's just something about the position, Like I think, what 404 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:14,439 Speaker 1: happens when I'm on top, it's because you're getting all 405 00:18:14,440 --> 00:18:16,800 Speaker 1: the right places right, Like I need to share the 406 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:19,720 Speaker 1: pressures there from behind. For me, when I get off 407 00:18:19,720 --> 00:18:20,360 Speaker 1: that way. 408 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:23,640 Speaker 2: It's like the mental of like my ass in the air, 409 00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:25,480 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? 410 00:18:25,640 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 1: Yeah? 411 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:29,600 Speaker 2: Ever encountered a micro penis? 412 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:35,440 Speaker 3: Actually no, not like a clinical like not like not 413 00:18:36,080 --> 00:18:39,359 Speaker 3: a diagnose, not like a diagnose, Like I see micro 414 00:18:39,440 --> 00:18:42,800 Speaker 3: penises because I work in the hospital. Oh no, yeah, 415 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:47,800 Speaker 3: Like I see all the things, but I mean I 416 00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:48,560 Speaker 3: see everything. 417 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 2: You see everything. 418 00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 3: You see everything, but I've never encountered never encountered one. No, 419 00:18:55,960 --> 00:18:59,240 Speaker 3: but there is someone that is in my friend group 420 00:18:59,280 --> 00:19:02,080 Speaker 3: that is rumored death one. I'm not gonna blast them, but. 421 00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:04,600 Speaker 2: They're telling me off of the podcast. I have to 422 00:19:04,600 --> 00:19:05,159 Speaker 2: I must know. 423 00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:06,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll tell you. 424 00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:09,640 Speaker 2: Okay, Ever queafed then wanted to vanish? 425 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:09,840 Speaker 1: No? 426 00:19:11,200 --> 00:19:12,760 Speaker 2: Have you queathed during sex before? 427 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:13,480 Speaker 1: Yes? 428 00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:17,040 Speaker 2: Yeah? Have you wanted to vanish after air in there? 429 00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:18,960 Speaker 3: I'm like no, Like that's like y'all's fault. 430 00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 1: There are certain things that if a man freaks out 431 00:19:23,600 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 1: about it, I'm like, you're a. 432 00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:27,440 Speaker 2: Little fucking bitch boy. 433 00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:28,720 Speaker 3: That gives me the ick. 434 00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:30,240 Speaker 2: It gives me such an ick. 435 00:19:30,400 --> 00:19:36,160 Speaker 3: Like and if a man is like intimidated by my vibrator, 436 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:37,919 Speaker 3: like literally grow up. 437 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I have that question. How do you 438 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:42,880 Speaker 1: feel about the vibrators? I love vibrator bringing it into 439 00:19:42,920 --> 00:19:43,800 Speaker 1: the bedroom with a man. 440 00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:48,960 Speaker 3: I don't necessarily need to, yeah, like because I feel 441 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:50,960 Speaker 3: like I have good sex, Like I know what I want, 442 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:53,639 Speaker 3: like whatever. But sometimes it's just fun. 443 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:56,640 Speaker 2: I think it's fun to have toys. Yeah, because when 444 00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:59,920 Speaker 2: you're sleeping with the same person over and over again, 445 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:02,560 Speaker 2: like you have to do something to spice it up. 446 00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:04,800 Speaker 3: Sometimes I think that's when it comes into play. Yeah, 447 00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 3: but like a man like my ex was really intimate, 448 00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:10,520 Speaker 3: Like if I wouldn't use my vibrator when he's like 449 00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:13,399 Speaker 3: out of town, he like did not like it? What? Yeah, 450 00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 3: like he did not like it. That is so crazy 451 00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:22,480 Speaker 3: to me, jealous, like thinking that the vibe the vibrator 452 00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:25,520 Speaker 3: was giving me better organizasms than him, which it was. 453 00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:27,880 Speaker 2: I was doing it to myself, So he was right. 454 00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:31,160 Speaker 2: He pinpointed it perfectly, he did. 455 00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:34,360 Speaker 1: But what if a guy that you're with, you're out 456 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:35,600 Speaker 1: of town and he jacks off? 457 00:20:36,520 --> 00:20:38,120 Speaker 2: I don't do you care? I know, I don't care either. 458 00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:38,360 Speaker 3: I don't. 459 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:39,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, like, do what you gotta do, buddy. 460 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:42,359 Speaker 3: So that's a weird subject for me because one of 461 00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:46,000 Speaker 3: my exes was order line like porn. 462 00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:46,480 Speaker 2: I'm sessed. 463 00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:50,800 Speaker 1: Yes, when you are like having a moment with yourself, 464 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:53,800 Speaker 1: self care, self love, do you need to watch porn? 465 00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:58,880 Speaker 3: I don't need to, but I do, and weirdly tell 466 00:20:58,920 --> 00:21:02,000 Speaker 3: me I love lesbian porn. 467 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 1: We're so on the same wavelength and that's actually very 468 00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:06,280 Speaker 1: very common. 469 00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:10,119 Speaker 3: Really, Yes, I just think a man is just like gross. 470 00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:10,680 Speaker 2: I do too. 471 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:13,840 Speaker 1: I usually so your your search bar is like lesbian, yes, 472 00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:16,680 Speaker 1: very much, Like, yeah, that's kind of that's me too. 473 00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:17,720 Speaker 3: I love it. 474 00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:20,040 Speaker 1: There is this girl and I think her name is 475 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:23,720 Speaker 1: Sammy s on porn Hub, and she's like got the 476 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:27,399 Speaker 1: most banging body, and I always put her into my 477 00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:30,040 Speaker 1: search bar really yeah, And I think she makes it 478 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:33,600 Speaker 1: with her boyfriend because it's always the same tattooed arm, 479 00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:36,239 Speaker 1: and I'm like, whatever is happening with this couple is 480 00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:36,840 Speaker 1: just working? 481 00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:40,359 Speaker 2: No, it's s a m y. 482 00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:44,200 Speaker 3: I feel like, yeah, I mean mine's always like some 483 00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:46,560 Speaker 3: girl given a massage. 484 00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:51,000 Speaker 2: Oh my god, we watched the same porn. We watched 485 00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:55,120 Speaker 2: the exact same porn. Yeah, that's her. Wait wait, wait, wait, 486 00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:58,359 Speaker 2: she's the one. I'm obsessed with her. You have to. 487 00:21:58,600 --> 00:22:01,680 Speaker 1: And she's got like this giant she's got a little 488 00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:05,280 Speaker 1: alien tattoo in between her boobs, yes, and then from 489 00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:08,240 Speaker 1: behind she's got this giant lion tattoo. 490 00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:13,440 Speaker 2: Okay, yes, she's smoking, she's so hot. But you and 491 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:18,640 Speaker 2: I are definitely looking up the same shit. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 492 00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:18,959 Speaker 2: that's her. 493 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:24,719 Speaker 1: Go oh my god, you can google anything dirtiest thing 494 00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:27,879 Speaker 1: you've ever said during sex. That's a hard one for 495 00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:31,080 Speaker 1: me because I don't I I like dirtiest. 496 00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:33,840 Speaker 3: Ye, I don't know what a dirtiest one would be. 497 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:34,400 Speaker 2: I mean, like. 498 00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:39,200 Speaker 3: I got I mean, I wouldn't call this dirty though, 499 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:43,240 Speaker 3: saying like, you know, telling them on their little slut. 500 00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:46,720 Speaker 2: Yeah that's not Yeah, that's dirty, right, I don't think 501 00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:49,200 Speaker 2: that's that's pretty much as dark and deep as I'm 502 00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:53,879 Speaker 2: going to. But dirty talk for me, like the man can. 503 00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 1: Quickly give me the ache depending on what he says, 504 00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:59,879 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah, I get it quick. Yeah, Like 505 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:02,680 Speaker 1: I can talk about me being your little dirty sledge 506 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 1: the moment he says, are you my dirty little SLEDG, 507 00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:06,120 Speaker 1: I'm like, get the fuck. 508 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,040 Speaker 3: I've had that, And I don't like that. 509 00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:11,360 Speaker 1: I don't either let me steer the ship. Yeah yeah, no, 510 00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 1: please don't say that to me. 511 00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:13,000 Speaker 3: No. 512 00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:18,920 Speaker 2: And also I hate it when like the dude this 513 00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:22,800 Speaker 2: position for a man during like a four play moment, 514 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:25,480 Speaker 2: this position when he's laying like this and does this 515 00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:26,760 Speaker 2: and touches himself. 516 00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:29,080 Speaker 3: Oh my god, get away. 517 00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:31,680 Speaker 2: Get away from me, like you're never touching me with it. 518 00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 2: So enjoy that. So disgusting sex tapes in or out? 519 00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:42,840 Speaker 1: And I'm into what about naked pictures I recently just 520 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:44,080 Speaker 1: started sending. 521 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:44,880 Speaker 2: I like naked. 522 00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:47,000 Speaker 3: I sometimes even just take them for myself, Like if 523 00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:49,040 Speaker 3: I I do the same thing, if I think I 524 00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:51,040 Speaker 3: look good in the mirror, I'm like, might need this 525 00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:51,399 Speaker 3: one day? 526 00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:52,760 Speaker 2: Have you seen that? 527 00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:53,640 Speaker 1: I think? 528 00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:57,040 Speaker 2: Is it a meme? Who am I? But this girl no, 529 00:23:57,119 --> 00:24:00,080 Speaker 2: it's like an Instagram rail and this girl's being blackmail 530 00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:01,040 Speaker 2: with naked photos. 531 00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:03,080 Speaker 1: And he sends her the photos and she's like, oh, 532 00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:05,879 Speaker 1: this is me pre kids. She's like, please don't send it, 533 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:07,480 Speaker 1: and she like takes a sip of her wine. She's like, 534 00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:09,120 Speaker 1: please fucking release them. 535 00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:10,080 Speaker 2: Literally, I have. 536 00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:12,960 Speaker 3: It's so funny because I have. I'm gonna show you this. 537 00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:16,440 Speaker 2: Like they could get out. I'm like, you're welcome. Then 538 00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:18,320 Speaker 2: I wish my motherfucker would. 539 00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:21,720 Speaker 3: Literally, That's how I mean. This TikTok that I'm about 540 00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:23,399 Speaker 3: to show you is exactly how I feel about it. 541 00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:25,800 Speaker 3: I'm like, don't threaten me with that. 542 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:27,200 Speaker 2: Don't threaten me with never. 543 00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:28,960 Speaker 3: I'm not going to send you a nude. They don't 544 00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:31,520 Speaker 3: think I look hot in I'm on. 545 00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:32,359 Speaker 2: The same wavelength. 546 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:35,120 Speaker 3: Release it, release it, release it. 547 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:37,600 Speaker 2: And don't blur my face. You don't need to let 548 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:38,040 Speaker 2: them know. 549 00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:41,040 Speaker 3: Here it is is that when you're starting to leak 550 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 3: your nudes and they're like you can tell everybody. 551 00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:48,240 Speaker 2: That's so good, that's so good. Well, your body's banging. 552 00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:49,440 Speaker 2: Your body is slamming. 553 00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:04,840 Speaker 3: Biggest turn on, I would say, like initially confidence, just 554 00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:09,359 Speaker 3: like coming in and just taking care of you, you know, 555 00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,680 Speaker 3: just like knowing exactly what you're doing. Yeah, for the man. 556 00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,119 Speaker 2: And then if you call me baby, I'm fucking done. 557 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:16,560 Speaker 3: Really, oh my god. 558 00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:18,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I have to be into it. There have 559 00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:20,920 Speaker 2: been men who call me pet names and I'm like, please, 560 00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:22,720 Speaker 2: don't fucking do that. Wow. 561 00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:24,280 Speaker 3: Is there any pet names you like? 562 00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:26,440 Speaker 2: It depends on the guy. 563 00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:31,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree with that. Yeah, there's like there's a 564 00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:35,120 Speaker 3: man that calls me mommy. 565 00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:36,800 Speaker 2: With an eye. Yeah, you love it. 566 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:37,520 Speaker 3: I love it. 567 00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:40,640 Speaker 2: I'll get how many people are on your roster right. 568 00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:48,000 Speaker 3: Now, like sexy roster? 569 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:50,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, like sleeping with like I'm not speaking with anyone 570 00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:55,080 Speaker 1: right now really yeah, which is new for me. Okay, 571 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:57,760 Speaker 1: But I mean, like I have guys that I'm talking 572 00:25:57,800 --> 00:25:59,719 Speaker 1: to that you haven't slept with. 573 00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:02,600 Speaker 3: Lives in Denver, one lives in La. Yeah, well no, 574 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 3: I've slept with one in La. 575 00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:07,600 Speaker 2: I love this. 576 00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:10,920 Speaker 3: But Charleston is just gross. 577 00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:13,359 Speaker 1: And I feel like everyone knows everybody, like if you've 578 00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:15,720 Speaker 1: slept with them, they've slept with like twelve other people 579 00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:16,119 Speaker 1: that you know. 580 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:20,560 Speaker 3: So I'm moving very like cautiously in Charleston. But I'll recycle. 581 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:24,720 Speaker 1: Oh, I recycle too. Comfortability is everything exactly? 582 00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:27,399 Speaker 3: So if like, if I'm like really needing something, like 583 00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:29,040 Speaker 3: I have some guys I can text. 584 00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:32,480 Speaker 2: And then the long distance though, do you feel like 585 00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:34,840 Speaker 2: it's gonna go anywhere with the guys you're just talking to? 586 00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:35,480 Speaker 1: No? 587 00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:39,800 Speaker 3: I mean I wish, but like I'm not moving away 588 00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:42,280 Speaker 3: from Charleston, like I'm not, and. 589 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:44,159 Speaker 2: I don't think they're gonna move to you will they know? 590 00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:46,200 Speaker 2: Like what is there to do in Charleston? 591 00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,119 Speaker 3: I mean I love Charleston. I mean there's I'm on 592 00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:50,240 Speaker 3: a boat usually. 593 00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:52,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, but your life is there, Like if the guy 594 00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:55,000 Speaker 1: in La like what could he possibly do in Charleston? 595 00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:58,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. Is he in the entertainment world? Yeah? 596 00:26:58,800 --> 00:26:59,000 Speaker 3: Yeah? 597 00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:03,720 Speaker 2: See you could be on Southern charm or not into it? 598 00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:05,160 Speaker 2: All right? 599 00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:08,200 Speaker 1: You said spanking is a big one. You love being spanked? Yes, 600 00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:11,800 Speaker 1: depends on the mood for me? Is anal on the 601 00:27:11,840 --> 00:27:14,960 Speaker 1: table for a one night stand. Okay, you like ANAL 602 00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:16,080 Speaker 1: but one night stand? 603 00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:20,200 Speaker 3: Okay, I'm not like I don't like love it. One 604 00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:24,480 Speaker 3: night stand. Okay, this is crazy, but I have had 605 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:27,160 Speaker 3: ANAL on a one night on my only one night stand. 606 00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 2: What You've only had one one night stand ever? And 607 00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:31,720 Speaker 2: you let him? 608 00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:34,840 Speaker 3: I don't know what. Wow, I don't know why. I 609 00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:38,360 Speaker 3: don't know why. Okay, but it just kind of happened 610 00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:39,600 Speaker 3: and it was great. 611 00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:41,760 Speaker 1: Like I think that's not the only time you've ever 612 00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:46,160 Speaker 1: done ANAL though, No, no, god no, I've never done 613 00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:46,480 Speaker 1: it ever. 614 00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:50,399 Speaker 3: You need to try it, really, yes, because it's like 615 00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:55,840 Speaker 3: a different orgasm. Really, it feels just more intense. 616 00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:59,119 Speaker 2: Okay, how do I prepare for that? Though? 617 00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:03,960 Speaker 3: My eggs that I did it for five years, loved it, 618 00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:07,000 Speaker 3: so like that's how I got comfortable. 619 00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:08,640 Speaker 2: Doing it, doesn't it? Don't you have to like kind 620 00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:09,720 Speaker 2: of prepare for that though. 621 00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:13,119 Speaker 3: I mean I've actually one of my friends gave me 622 00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:15,399 Speaker 3: an in am at once because I was like, I 623 00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:16,159 Speaker 3: know he's gonna want to. 624 00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:18,680 Speaker 2: Okay, so you recommend myself out? 625 00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:24,480 Speaker 3: Yeah? And then I mean not every time, but definitely 626 00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:30,160 Speaker 3: fingers first, Yeah, because I'm a tight little lady right there, 627 00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:33,600 Speaker 3: like like anything you know. 628 00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:35,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, you would have first time. 629 00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:36,560 Speaker 3: Yeah. 630 00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:40,320 Speaker 2: I also I feel like I would have to be 631 00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:41,960 Speaker 2: very very comfortable with the person. 632 00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:44,680 Speaker 3: Absolutely. Yeah. I don't do it with anyone now, Like 633 00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:46,200 Speaker 3: I would never do it with like a one night 634 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:48,160 Speaker 3: stand or anyone that I'm not comfortable with. 635 00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:50,280 Speaker 2: You had to have been blitzed. 636 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:53,479 Speaker 1: I was on the one night stand absolutely, because it 637 00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:56,160 Speaker 1: wasn't even like phasing me, like I was like, whatever, 638 00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:57,360 Speaker 1: let's go, let's do it. 639 00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:02,480 Speaker 2: What were you blitzed on? Tequila? No vodka? That'll do 640 00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:04,560 Speaker 2: it to you. Yeah, that'll do it too. 641 00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:07,720 Speaker 1: You. Now I think I could have maybe I used 642 00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:09,520 Speaker 1: to have one night stands. I don't know that I 643 00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:11,400 Speaker 1: could do it now I couldn't. 644 00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:13,720 Speaker 3: I mean like I couldn't. I can't believe I did then, 645 00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:16,600 Speaker 3: Like I I have to be like I have to 646 00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:20,680 Speaker 3: like know you or at least know about you. You 647 00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:24,240 Speaker 3: can't just like come over yeah and go to a 648 00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:27,920 Speaker 3: bar and run into a guy and like just go home. 649 00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:29,840 Speaker 2: Do you have a condom drawer? 650 00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:30,800 Speaker 1: No? 651 00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:34,400 Speaker 2: I feel like I used to have one. 652 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:36,920 Speaker 1: Now I don't need one because everything has to be 653 00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:40,120 Speaker 1: so thought out. It's like, well, I have my kids, 654 00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:41,960 Speaker 1: and it's but you know, so like to have a 655 00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:44,960 Speaker 1: condom drawer. It's like I don't really need because it's 656 00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:45,959 Speaker 1: never on a whim anymore. 657 00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:47,560 Speaker 3: Can you hate a condom? I'm not gonna lie. 658 00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:50,480 Speaker 1: We all do, babe, but we have to be safe. 659 00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:52,920 Speaker 1: I know there's a lot of stuff out there. Every 660 00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:57,080 Speaker 1: time I use a condom, I hate. It does something 661 00:29:57,120 --> 00:30:00,160 Speaker 1: to me. You have to wear condoms, I know, or 662 00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:01,320 Speaker 1: he does. 663 00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:03,680 Speaker 2: When people are like, no, it's. 664 00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:05,840 Speaker 1: Kew about method, I'm like, no, no, no, I'm not 665 00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:08,000 Speaker 1: worried about the baby aspect. 666 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:09,520 Speaker 2: I'm worried about the other shit. 667 00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:11,960 Speaker 3: No, I am too, especially in Darlsan. 668 00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:13,320 Speaker 2: Really. 669 00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it's like maybe you should have the condom drawing. 670 00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:18,680 Speaker 3: I should probably have a condom draw And you know what, 671 00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:21,480 Speaker 3: I'm not taking home enough, Like it's not justified for 672 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:23,240 Speaker 3: me to do that right now because like I'm really 673 00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:25,400 Speaker 3: not sleeping with a lot of people. 674 00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:29,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just wild. 675 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:31,760 Speaker 1: Like I feel like men should just be if they're 676 00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:35,120 Speaker 1: like sexually active, they should just be carrying condoms around. 677 00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:36,840 Speaker 3: I agree. I agree with that. 678 00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:39,200 Speaker 1: And you have to be very careful about who your 679 00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:44,200 Speaker 1: baby daddy is. That is like a whole different yeah, 680 00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:46,880 Speaker 1: I can't even think about that, like what you did, 681 00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:48,280 Speaker 1: and it looks like you were scared. 682 00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:52,320 Speaker 2: She's like, she's like, I'm good. 683 00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:54,200 Speaker 3: I'm thinking all the guys that I like are in 684 00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:56,280 Speaker 3: my past. I'm like, oh my god, if that would 685 00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:58,160 Speaker 3: have happened, I would have that would have been horrible. 686 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:10,840 Speaker 2: What about music on or off? In what song? 687 00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:13,200 Speaker 3: Either? No specific song. 688 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:16,880 Speaker 1: I lost my virginity to Lollipop by Lil Wayne, You're 689 00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:20,160 Speaker 1: kidding and a red condom and he like pulled it 690 00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:21,920 Speaker 1: off after and he was like, that's all you and 691 00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:23,560 Speaker 1: I thought I was just like bleeding to death and 692 00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:29,600 Speaker 1: started crying. Yeah, it was intense. Were you seventeen? How 693 00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:30,760 Speaker 1: old were you sixteen? 694 00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:35,760 Speaker 2: Yeah? Fine with your boyfriend? Or was it just boyfriend? 695 00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:36,120 Speaker 3: Yeah? 696 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:36,440 Speaker 2: Same? 697 00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:42,120 Speaker 1: How long did it last? That not the same, but yeah, okay, 698 00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:45,680 Speaker 1: so similar to mine. I met him like seventeen and 699 00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:46,840 Speaker 1: we broke up when I was twenty. 700 00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:50,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, that was like got into like a five year relationship. 701 00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:52,840 Speaker 3: That's the one that got away. 702 00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:54,640 Speaker 2: Oh is he married? 703 00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:54,760 Speaker 1: No? 704 00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:58,160 Speaker 3: Actually, so sad he has a girlfriend. All my friends 705 00:31:58,200 --> 00:31:59,720 Speaker 3: are like, you need to go and text him, and 706 00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:02,760 Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm not touching that. Like this guy's happy, 707 00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:05,320 Speaker 3: it's finally happy. I would wreck his world right now 708 00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:07,080 Speaker 3: with the state of mind that I'm in. 709 00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:09,000 Speaker 2: You feel like you have a lot of toxic traits 710 00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:09,640 Speaker 2: right now. 711 00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:12,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I do. I need to like heal this before 712 00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:15,360 Speaker 3: I can like really commit to someone. 713 00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:17,560 Speaker 1: I think, you know, I was actually talking to a 714 00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:21,200 Speaker 1: friend about this today because I have many toxic traits 715 00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:24,400 Speaker 1: and I have a lot of trauma. And I was 716 00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:28,280 Speaker 1: talking to a therapist on my podcast with Amber and 717 00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:30,160 Speaker 1: I was like, I feel like I've done all of 718 00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:33,080 Speaker 1: this work over the past, you know, four and a 719 00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:37,520 Speaker 1: half five years, and what I'm worried about, or I'm 720 00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:40,080 Speaker 1: asking you should I be worried about If I've met 721 00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:43,120 Speaker 1: someone and I notice things start coming up for me, 722 00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:46,400 Speaker 1: does that mean I haven't done enough work? And she said, 723 00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:50,080 Speaker 1: you can only do so much work on yourself before 724 00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:52,800 Speaker 1: someone else needs to come into the picture and start. 725 00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:54,240 Speaker 2: Healing those wounds that you have. 726 00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:57,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's always been my biggest fear that I 727 00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:01,000 Speaker 1: will meet someone who's just completely wonderful and I will 728 00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:03,880 Speaker 1: fuck it up with my toxic traits and my trauma. 729 00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:06,760 Speaker 1: So I totally get your comment. 730 00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:07,440 Speaker 2: That's how I am. 731 00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:10,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like it could be the most perfect guy. 732 00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:12,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'll try. I'll find a way to like something. 733 00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:15,600 Speaker 3: To Savatah, what is that? I don't know. I mean, 734 00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:18,640 Speaker 3: this man called me the day before I got engaged 735 00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:20,400 Speaker 3: because my best friend told him that. 736 00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:22,040 Speaker 2: The one that got away. 737 00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:25,600 Speaker 3: Yes, you're talking. Yeah, my best friend told him like, hey, 738 00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:28,880 Speaker 3: he's planning on proposing just so you know, want he 739 00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:32,160 Speaker 3: want you to be shocked online or whatever. He facetied 740 00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:34,720 Speaker 3: me and I answered, and he was like, if it's 741 00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:37,560 Speaker 3: a ring you're looking for, I'll buy you one tomorrow. Like, 742 00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:40,320 Speaker 3: do not marry this man? And I was like, I'm 743 00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:42,840 Speaker 3: in du deep. It's the last time I ever talked 744 00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:47,240 Speaker 3: about Oh that is heartbreaking. That's like a movie. So sad. 745 00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:50,040 Speaker 2: And now he is happy and I. 746 00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:51,840 Speaker 3: See his brothers every once in a while, but yeah, 747 00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:54,760 Speaker 3: he's happy. He seems happy at least. Yeah, I know, 748 00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:59,560 Speaker 3: you can't fuck it up. That's so sad. I'm so sorry. Okay, 749 00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:00,840 Speaker 3: I think about them all the time. 750 00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:02,760 Speaker 2: Oh that is the worst. 751 00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:03,200 Speaker 3: I know. 752 00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:03,800 Speaker 2: I know. 753 00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:06,480 Speaker 3: But we're not I mean, we probably wouldn't work anyways, 754 00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:08,320 Speaker 3: if like we got back together. 755 00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:11,520 Speaker 1: I know, because you have a you have like this 756 00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:13,960 Speaker 1: vision in your mind of what it would be like, 757 00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:16,680 Speaker 1: but then you actually get into it and you're like, 758 00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:19,040 Speaker 1: the reality sinks in and it's completely different than what 759 00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:19,480 Speaker 1: you think. 760 00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:21,399 Speaker 3: It's going to be. Also, he's just like he would 761 00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:24,200 Speaker 3: hate all the drama that surrounds me in my life. 762 00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:26,480 Speaker 1: It's going to take a very special person to come 763 00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:30,480 Speaker 1: into your world and be able to separate reality from reality. Absolutely, 764 00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:34,520 Speaker 1: I know, trust me, Like we're kind of it's hard. 765 00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:40,800 Speaker 3: Hard, is like crazy just because I'm on reality TV. Yeah, 766 00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:42,799 Speaker 3: so I feel like it honestly, Like people are like, 767 00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:45,560 Speaker 3: this is going to widen your pool of people, and 768 00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:47,239 Speaker 3: I'm like, no, this has made it harder for me 769 00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:47,560 Speaker 3: to date. 770 00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,960 Speaker 1: It does because most people don't want their business out 771 00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:51,360 Speaker 1: there like that. 772 00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:52,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, now I'm will. 773 00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:55,920 Speaker 2: Saying people who you want to date don't want them. 774 00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:58,200 Speaker 1: No. And every time I go on watch Robins Live 775 00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:01,920 Speaker 1: or I run into like and Yet Bravo CON's like, 776 00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:04,040 Speaker 1: would you ever date someone in the Bravo universe? 777 00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:06,279 Speaker 3: And I'm like, no, would you not? No? 778 00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:11,680 Speaker 1: Yeah you would because you're like you you have like 779 00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:15,080 Speaker 1: really hot and tall men on your show where you 780 00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:16,680 Speaker 1: can like I haven't ever. 781 00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:19,279 Speaker 2: I haven't been on a show where the people that 782 00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:22,799 Speaker 2: are there are what I could be into. You know, 783 00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:25,400 Speaker 2: I feel like they're also like relationship. 784 00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:29,360 Speaker 3: But that's then, Yeah, that ship has sailed for me 785 00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:30,840 Speaker 3: with the Southern Drona boys. 786 00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:33,880 Speaker 2: Though. Have you ever started your period during sex? 787 00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:36,040 Speaker 3: Yeah? 788 00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:37,880 Speaker 2: And did the guy get aicked? 789 00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:38,400 Speaker 1: No? 790 00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:41,800 Speaker 3: Or if the if the guy got picked by period, 791 00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:42,720 Speaker 3: I would be itcked. 792 00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:47,560 Speaker 1: I was really young the only time that that had 793 00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:49,759 Speaker 1: happened to me. Because most of the men who I 794 00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:52,879 Speaker 1: have been with, if I'm on my period, they're like, okay, well, 795 00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:55,160 Speaker 1: let's just get in the shower, like do it on 796 00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:56,600 Speaker 1: fucking rubber, like. 797 00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:57,399 Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck. 798 00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:01,120 Speaker 3: Some guys are like I'll still go down yeah, which, 799 00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:02,680 Speaker 3: by the way, all right, okay. 800 00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:09,160 Speaker 1: But this guy, he was a football player. He took 801 00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:13,400 Speaker 1: me out to Seattle and we sleep together. He busts 802 00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:19,680 Speaker 1: in probably thirty six seconds. Okay, so we're done whatever, 803 00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:22,560 Speaker 1: and he's like, I can't go out like that. We 804 00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:24,080 Speaker 1: have to go one more time, like I have to 805 00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:26,480 Speaker 1: show you. And I was like, all right, like such 806 00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:28,359 Speaker 1: a weird thing to say, too, Like where you trying? 807 00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:31,799 Speaker 1: If this is about me and you want to get 808 00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:33,480 Speaker 1: me off, then by all means, let's go because that 809 00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:35,520 Speaker 1: would be not more about him, but it was more 810 00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:39,160 Speaker 1: like he wanted to like prove to me, well the 811 00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:43,640 Speaker 1: second go around, the tiniest bit, the tiniest bit, and 812 00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:46,359 Speaker 1: I was coming off of my period. Yeah, yeah, and 813 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:50,120 Speaker 1: he lost his fucking mind to the next day he 814 00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:51,040 Speaker 1: goes to practice. 815 00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:52,440 Speaker 2: I like washed the sheets. 816 00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:54,480 Speaker 1: It like was not a big deal, but he made 817 00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:56,160 Speaker 1: it such a big deal that like I started getting 818 00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:58,279 Speaker 1: a migraine because I was so in my head about it. 819 00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:01,919 Speaker 1: He comes back home, we like have a day together, 820 00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:05,200 Speaker 1: get in the bed. Keep in mind, this man has 821 00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:07,680 Speaker 1: a wound on his arm that he has wrapped up. 822 00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:10,280 Speaker 1: We're laying in the bed and there's like a dot 823 00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:14,879 Speaker 1: of blood and he goes, you couldn't get that out, 824 00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:19,640 Speaker 1: And I was like, look at your fucking arm right now, 825 00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:22,360 Speaker 1: that most likely is coming from you. 826 00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:24,879 Speaker 2: I'm just laying here, like, what the fuck do you mean? 827 00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:27,640 Speaker 1: I was so rosed out by it. Yes, at that 828 00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:30,480 Speaker 1: point then I got pissed. Yeah, Like it started with 829 00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:33,000 Speaker 1: a shame and I was like in my early twenties. 830 00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:34,279 Speaker 3: And what he say? 831 00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:38,160 Speaker 1: He just like sat there, he just sat there. I 832 00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:39,920 Speaker 1: was like, I cannot wait to get away from you. 833 00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:43,440 Speaker 1: Tomorrow and then when I've landed back in Utah, he 834 00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:44,960 Speaker 1: had texted me and was like, I'd really like to 835 00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:47,560 Speaker 1: bring you out again. I'm like, honestly, like I'm so 836 00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:51,480 Speaker 1: scarred by the interaction that we had after that happened 837 00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:53,400 Speaker 1: that like, I don't ever need to see you again. 838 00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:56,120 Speaker 3: Also, can we talk about the fact so you traveled 839 00:37:56,160 --> 00:38:01,560 Speaker 3: to see him, he flew you out? Yeah, that terrifies me. Well, 840 00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:04,800 Speaker 3: like I'm stuck, like I have a lot of guys 841 00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:08,040 Speaker 3: that have been like out here, let's do this, and 842 00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:11,239 Speaker 3: I've never met them before, and I'm like, what if 843 00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:12,399 Speaker 3: I get there and I hate you? 844 00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:15,080 Speaker 2: Well, I had met him before, Oh yeah, I had 845 00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:15,400 Speaker 2: met him. 846 00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:18,520 Speaker 3: Most people traveled when for someone that you don't you've 847 00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:18,839 Speaker 3: never met. 848 00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:21,360 Speaker 1: I've never traveled for someone that I've never met. But 849 00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:24,400 Speaker 1: even though, like as i've gotten older, because I'm a 850 00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:27,640 Speaker 1: control freak, now i'm very funny. If a guy offers 851 00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:30,080 Speaker 1: to fly me out, I'm like, you're not flying me anywhere. 852 00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:32,160 Speaker 1: Just tell me when to come and I'll book my ticket. 853 00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:34,080 Speaker 1: Even if he has a house, it's like I'm not 854 00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:38,000 Speaker 1: staying there. I'll stay at a hotel because God forbid. 855 00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:40,440 Speaker 1: And if I don't even use the hotel and I 856 00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:42,520 Speaker 1: stay with you the whole time. Great, I love that, 857 00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:44,680 Speaker 1: but I need to know that I have an escape 858 00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:47,520 Speaker 1: plan if this does not go the way I want 859 00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:47,839 Speaker 1: it to go. 860 00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:50,600 Speaker 3: Craig helped me escape a lot. Like I flew out 861 00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:52,960 Speaker 3: to see man first time have done it. I was terrified, 862 00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:54,000 Speaker 3: you've never met him before. 863 00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:56,040 Speaker 2: Ye, and. 864 00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:01,480 Speaker 3: I wanted to leave so bad, and Craig happened to 865 00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:04,600 Speaker 3: be there, And can you say where you were? I 866 00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:09,960 Speaker 3: was in Missouri, okay, but I was like, Craig, I 867 00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:10,400 Speaker 3: just want to. 868 00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:15,120 Speaker 2: Go, and Okaig rescued you nice, so sweet. 869 00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:17,840 Speaker 3: I know He's like, let's get you the fuck out here. 870 00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:19,040 Speaker 1: Oh. 871 00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:19,680 Speaker 2: I love that. 872 00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:21,160 Speaker 1: This is like. 873 00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:23,680 Speaker 3: Not that long ago. 874 00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:25,520 Speaker 2: Wow. 875 00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:29,600 Speaker 1: So even with your guys, is little whatever last season 876 00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:31,640 Speaker 1: is still swooping in if you need him. 877 00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:34,360 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Craig's one of Craig's a great one in 878 00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:36,920 Speaker 3: my life. I love that for you, He's great. We 879 00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:39,040 Speaker 3: have our moments, but we fight like brothers sister. I 880 00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:40,640 Speaker 3: feel like like we'll get. 881 00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:42,799 Speaker 1: Like drunk and just scream at each other and then 882 00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:45,759 Speaker 1: totally come back to Oh that's the best. Some call 883 00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:50,960 Speaker 1: it toxic. I call it an evolved relationship. How do 884 00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:53,000 Speaker 1: you feel about our first podcast together. 885 00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:55,160 Speaker 3: I love it. I feel like I'm not I don't 886 00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:57,000 Speaker 3: even feel like I have a microphone, but I. 887 00:39:57,280 --> 00:39:59,160 Speaker 2: Know that's the best though. We are just talking. 888 00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:02,120 Speaker 1: Thank you, my loves for listening to the first episode 889 00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:05,440 Speaker 1: of Sex Unlocked right into our DMS because I want 890 00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:07,320 Speaker 1: to talk about it all Let's like take the stigma 891 00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:09,040 Speaker 1: away from women talking about sex. 892 00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:10,640 Speaker 2: Like women who talk about. 893 00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:13,000 Speaker 1: Sex, they're not whoores, they're not sluts. We're just a 894 00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:16,239 Speaker 1: bunch of women exchanging information. All right, Sally, I love 895 00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:17,080 Speaker 1: you baby, all right. 896 00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:22,160 Speaker 2: Bye guy Bye.