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Speaker 1: Okay, guys, here are my dates for the High and

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Speaker 2: In June, I will be in Hyannas, Massachusetts, and then

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Speaker 2: two shows in Nantucket. In August you can find me

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Speaker 2: in Red Bank, New Jersey, Montclair, New Jersey, and Calgary.

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Speaker 1: That's Canada.

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Speaker 2: And September I will be in Santa Barbara, San Diego,

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Speaker 2: New York City, Philly, and New Haven, Connecticut. October is Atlanta, Baltimore, Saginaw, Michigan, Pittsburgh, Toronto, Boise, Idaho,

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Speaker 2: and Spokan. And then in November I'll be in San Francisco.

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Speaker 2: I'm coming to Salt Lake City, Austin, Houston, Dallas Babies,

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Speaker 2: I'll be there. And then in December I am closing

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Speaker 2: out my tour in Denver and Vancouver. So get your

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Speaker 2: tickets at Chelseahandler dot com for the High and Mighty Tour.

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Speaker 1: Hi, Catherine, Dougie.

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Speaker 3: Come over here, he over here, Doe, Chelsea, I have

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Speaker 3: This is an update from a caller, but it is

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Speaker 3: a letter regarding our Laurel and Jackson episode from a listener.

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Speaker 1: Oh thank God for laur Lyn Jackson. She really is

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Speaker 1: a savior. She is a savior.

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Speaker 3: She just has given us a world.

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Speaker 1: Yes, she's given the world. She's just so wonderful, such

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Speaker 3: And I also think like the way she talks about

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Speaker 3: the afterlife or what's beyond the veil is very accessible

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Speaker 3: no matter what you believe. Like my dad, I gave

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Speaker 3: him a copy of each of her books a year

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Speaker 3: Christian background, but he he's like, this all fits with

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Speaker 3: It's it's very accessible, I think to a lot of people.

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Speaker 3: But Cindy says, I recently listened to Laura ln Jackson

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Speaker 3: It was like different ways that he showed her that

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Speaker 1: Well. Our caller today is Kira So.

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Speaker 3: Kira says. My husband and I live in Tampa, Florida.

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Speaker 1: Kira, Hi, Kira, Hi, Hi, Hi. You got to get

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Speaker 1: Charlotte's words as Charlotte gorgeous. I just came from Charlotte.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And Charlotte's like it's so young and vibrant and

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Speaker 1: Do, and you want to personally train while you build

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Speaker 4: Ideally most of my I would like for my business

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what my trainer, Ben says, he has like

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Speaker 4: So, then if we were to make this move in

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Speaker 3: Do you guys not have combined finances? Do you like

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Speaker 4: We definitely have. It's just it's a personal thing for me.

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Speaker 4: He has never held anything over my head. He has

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Speaker 3: That's like something that both of you need. It's not

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Speaker 1: And I do think that, like, since you are so

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Speaker 3: Like, does this all feel good? This feels like you've

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Speaker 3: move Carolina?

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Speaker 1: By bye bye. My goal is to get everyone to

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Speaker 3: Well it's working for Kira. Okay, so our last little

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Speaker 3: I was recently promoted to manager, and while I'm proud

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Speaker 1: Tara, easily, you belong here.

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Speaker 1: Not only in the career, but like this imposter syndrome.

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