1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,680 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:10,320 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEVARVFM dot com and 4 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:14,200 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter 5 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're going to read 6 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now. You never know, it 7 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 1: could be yours. 8 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:23,320 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. 9 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:25,960 Speaker 2: We got it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter. 10 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 1: Thank you. A few subjects. I'm tired of hiding from 11 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:32,559 Speaker 1: the truth. Dear Steven Shirley. I've been sleeping with my 12 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:36,280 Speaker 1: married best friend for almost fifteen years and I have 13 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 1: been friends since high school and we're in our late fifties. Now. 14 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 1: No one suspects anything, and we're able to have sex 15 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 1: in his house while his. 16 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 3: Wife is home. 17 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:48,560 Speaker 1: I even have a key to their house to take 18 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:52,199 Speaker 1: care of their dog whenever they travel. Oh yeah, I'm 19 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 1: about to get married for the second time, and my 20 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 1: best friend, who loves me dearly, is jealous. He said 21 00:00:59,680 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 1: that I've get married and cut him off sexually, but 22 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 1: I tried to tell him that won't be the case. 23 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 1: We were texting back and forth about how things will 24 00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 1: go once I'm married and my fiance read all of 25 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:14,039 Speaker 1: our texts. He said that he figured we were messing 26 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 1: around and since he since he has proof, now we 27 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 1: should go to counseling before we get married. He was 28 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:22,160 Speaker 1: acting like it's no big deal. So I asked him 29 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 1: why he was so calm, and he said that he 30 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 1: has a side chick too. He was relieved that I 31 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 1: had been doing the same thing, because he said it 32 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 1: was killing him to cheat on me repeatedly. We're done 33 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 1: with hiding from the truth, and he said, if I'm 34 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:42,320 Speaker 1: going to keep messing with my best friend, then I 35 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 1: need to let his wife know what's going on. He said, 36 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 1: at our ages, we need to be sexual with whoever 37 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: suits our fancy because life is short. I love the 38 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 1: two men in my life for different reasons, and each 39 00:01:55,480 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 1: one is so different. 40 00:01:57,560 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 3: In the bedroom, I. 41 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 1: Told my lover that it's time for us to be 42 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:04,280 Speaker 1: honest with his wife. He said that will never happen, 43 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:07,240 Speaker 1: and if she ever found out about us, he'd have 44 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 1: to end the relationship with me. But what if his 45 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:12,959 Speaker 1: wife is cool like my fiance and she's okay with it. 46 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 1: I can't see my life without my lover. So what 47 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 1: should we do here? 48 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:17,760 Speaker 2: What? 49 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 3: Okay? You know what? 50 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you so much 51 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:27,399 Speaker 1: for this letter because it just further proves that we're 52 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 1: living in just crazy times. 53 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:30,240 Speaker 3: You gotta love her. 54 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:33,920 Speaker 1: Your fiance has a lover. Your lover has a wife 55 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:38,359 Speaker 1: and what okay, nothing well that I can never say 56 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 1: will make you stop, But I will tell you this. 57 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 1: This man who you think is your best friend is 58 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 1: not your friend. And the bigger part is he doesn't 59 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 1: care about you like he like you think he does. 60 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:53,960 Speaker 1: You said he loves you dearly and he's jealous. Nope, 61 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:57,399 Speaker 1: he's not going to tell his wife because that's who 62 00:02:57,480 --> 00:03:01,639 Speaker 1: he loves and that's who he cares about, his side piece. Remember, 63 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:04,640 Speaker 1: he cares about his wife's feelings. He doesn't want to 64 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 1: lose her. You, on the other hand, are expendable, But wife, 65 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 1: he isn't in this situation. And you don't think his 66 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 1: wife suspects anything anything. Your fiance said he figured you 67 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 1: guys were messing around, so why wouldn't his wife? And 68 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 1: she has intuition. Okay, although I can't imagine you guys 69 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 1: having sex in her house. That is praise and way 70 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:31,080 Speaker 1: too risky. 71 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:31,800 Speaker 3: You could die. 72 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm just gonna say it. You would be wise 73 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 1: to get somewhere and sit down, like my mom used 74 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 1: to tell me, but not for this, But she used 75 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 1: to tell me that for other stuff. Leave this married 76 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 1: man alone. But I know you won't. I know you're 77 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: not going to. If he does tell his wife, it 78 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 1: will not be the happy situation your fiance thinks it's 79 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 1: gonna be. I think he's a low key swinger anyway, 80 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 1: and he wants everybody to just swing. And you know 81 00:03:57,120 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 1: you guys be just a happy four some here. But 82 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 1: this is a mess. You don't need any advice for me. 83 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 1: You're tired of hiding the truth. Wait till you tell 84 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 1: his wife and see what's gonna happen unless she has 85 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 1: a side piece too, Tommy, in. 86 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 2: Order for this to work, I mean, And I'm trying 87 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 2: to help you know what I mean, because I know 88 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 2: I know you want you know you want it to work. 89 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 2: You know you've started out doing something and you just 90 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:26,279 Speaker 2: you know you want this to work. I'm pulling for 91 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:28,599 Speaker 2: you because I'm always about what people want in life, 92 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 2: and people want different things than this person. This is 93 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:33,719 Speaker 2: what they want, so in order for this to work, 94 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 2: everybody has to have a side piece, you see what 95 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:41,479 Speaker 2: I'm saying. So everybody has to bring that to the table. 96 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 2: So I don't know if we need to have a 97 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:45,760 Speaker 2: side piece meeting or to come to side peace meeting. 98 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:48,240 Speaker 2: We need to come to side piece meeting, all right, 99 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 2: And here's what I think you all should do. You 100 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 2: guys to sit down and have a meeting. But more importantly, 101 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 2: you got to bring somebody in that can talk to 102 00:04:57,480 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 2: y'all about these type of things, because you want if 103 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:03,159 Speaker 2: you're gonna do it, you want to do it right. 104 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 2: You know, No, not necessarily therapy, just somebody that's going 105 00:05:07,520 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 2: through this. See, I think you should call Neo. I 106 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:15,359 Speaker 2: think Neo should come in and be the done and 107 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 2: show you how this is done. Neo has proven that 108 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 2: four or five people can live under the same roof 109 00:05:22,440 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 2: and have a great time. 110 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:26,240 Speaker 3: It's tested and proven. Leo is doing it. 111 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 2: They go out together, they go everywhere together, They cooking 112 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:29,920 Speaker 2: and cleaning together. 113 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 3: It can be done. 114 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:35,479 Speaker 2: But now this wife that don't know, we've got to 115 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 2: somehow figure out. 116 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 3: If she's with us or is she not with us? 117 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:40,480 Speaker 3: You know what I mean? 118 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 2: And they may we may have to let the wife go, 119 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 2: but we can't handlebody that's not. Hey, hey, sometimes you 120 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:48,599 Speaker 2: gotta let some things go to get the big picture. 121 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:50,280 Speaker 3: If you if it's what you want, you really want 122 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:55,840 Speaker 3: things go, you know what I mean? One of them? 123 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 2: Hey, you know, surely they can't be too attached if 124 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 2: we're still over here messing around the sidepiece. All right, 125 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:05,160 Speaker 2: So fifteen, if you really want this to go, I 126 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 2: can reach out the neo. I let him come higher 127 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:11,159 Speaker 2: at y'all and sit down and walk y'all through the 128 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 2: steps of being together where all of you all are 129 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:17,600 Speaker 2: happy and it can be done. If this is what 130 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 2: you want. This is not for everybody, but for this 131 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 2: group right here in this letter. You know, this is 132 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:23,280 Speaker 2: what makes them happy. 133 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 3: You know. 134 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 2: They want to do this person, then do that person, 135 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:28,720 Speaker 2: and then do that one over. Then they don't even 136 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:30,160 Speaker 2: know that one, but we're gonna do that one too. 137 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:33,280 Speaker 2: That's what they want. I'm not like Uncle Steve that'll 138 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 2: tell you, hey'all wrong with y'all, y'all, whyle, y'all can't 139 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 2: get one person? 140 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 3: What the hell is going on today? 141 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:42,280 Speaker 1: Hang on? Hang on, hang on, nephew. We'll have part 142 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:44,920 Speaker 1: two at twenty three minutes after the hour, we'll hear 143 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 1: from Junior. Subject is I'm tired of hiding from the truth. 144 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:51,799 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening 145 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:59,280 Speaker 1: Steve Hardy Morning Show. You've heard us talk about the 146 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: benefits of Globelife insurance. Globe Life has been protecting families 147 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 1: for generations. 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She says she's been sleeping with her married 157 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 1: best friend for the last fifteen years almost and they've 158 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:45,680 Speaker 1: been friends since high school. They're in their late fifties now, 159 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 1: still doing the same thing, still sleeping with each other. 160 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:53,560 Speaker 1: Now her best friend has a has a wife and 161 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 1: now she's getting ready to get married for the second time, 162 00:07:57,840 --> 00:08:03,920 Speaker 1: and so her who is the husband, didn't want her 163 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 1: to do it. Well, he said that, you know, she's 164 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:07,680 Speaker 1: going to be messing around and he may not ever 165 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 1: see her, and you know, because she's married now and 166 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 1: all of that, and she wanted to reassure him that 167 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 1: that wouldn't be the case. They could still mess around 168 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:20,960 Speaker 1: even though she's getting ready to get married. And what 169 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 1: happened they were texting back and forth. Her fiance saw 170 00:08:24,200 --> 00:08:27,680 Speaker 1: the Texas and boy was he relieved because and she 171 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 1: was wondering, why are you so calm? Why are you 172 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 1: not mad? He said, because I got a sigh piece too. 173 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:34,319 Speaker 1: So you know. 174 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:37,559 Speaker 3: You got a side peece. 175 00:08:37,520 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 1: You get peece? Yes? So yeah, so so the the 176 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 1: jickst of the letter is that you know, they're tired 177 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 1: of hiding from the truth. They want to tell everybody. 178 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 1: She wants her boyfriend, who is married, not the fiance, 179 00:08:56,520 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 1: to tell his wife so she would know what's going on. 180 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 1: But the boyfriend husband said, that's not happening. I'm not 181 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 1: telling my wife, which means that he didn't think his 182 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:08,679 Speaker 1: wife would go along with this. He doesn't know whether 183 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 1: his wife has a zide piece or not. But he 184 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:13,640 Speaker 1: knows that his wife won't go along with this. He said, 185 00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:15,480 Speaker 1: if I tell my wife, that will be the end 186 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 1: of us. 187 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 3: So what she. 188 00:09:17,200 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 1: Wants to know is, you know, she she can't see 189 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:23,360 Speaker 1: life without him. She loves them both, although they're both 190 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:27,320 Speaker 1: different sexually in every other way. But she wants to 191 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:30,680 Speaker 1: know what should she do here? Basically, what should she do? Junior? 192 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:34,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's the question we do here? Yeah, which 193 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 3: I've been doing. 194 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:38,080 Speaker 4: But you know what, because you know you're dating your 195 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 4: best friend, you dat him when you're also dating your fiance, 196 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:45,640 Speaker 4: you dating them. But I think you need to mention 197 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 4: all your partners in here. Put put the other partners 198 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:50,719 Speaker 4: you ain't thinking about. Are you also Dayton death? You 199 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:53,840 Speaker 4: need to put that in there to you also Dayton death. 200 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:56,760 Speaker 4: Don't go in there and tell that woman nothing. 201 00:09:56,880 --> 00:09:58,320 Speaker 3: No, she's gonna kill you. 202 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:02,560 Speaker 4: Don't don't talk about the man you dating. You're dating 203 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:06,079 Speaker 4: death too, y'all in a full full blown relationship. You 204 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 4: can't just sit up here and act like death is 205 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:10,720 Speaker 4: not involved. Y'a Also dating funeral homes because they gonna 206 00:10:10,720 --> 00:10:14,440 Speaker 4: shock this body around. You date cemeteries, you date a 207 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 4: lot of people here. You're dating churches. You're gonna have 208 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 4: this funel in you date way moted just these two. 209 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:21,439 Speaker 4: You dating everything. 210 00:10:21,640 --> 00:10:24,040 Speaker 3: Okay, you need to really think about this. Don't go 211 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:25,840 Speaker 3: in there. Ask that woman nothing. 212 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:28,680 Speaker 4: Okay, you going there there, don't ask about Facebook? 213 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:31,720 Speaker 3: Did you see this? Don't see nothing about the Diny trial. 214 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 3: Don't say nothing about none of this. 215 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:37,079 Speaker 4: Don't mention nothing that's going on, because if she find 216 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 4: out and thank you messing with a man, you gonna 217 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:42,440 Speaker 4: be dead. You ain't got to worry about this marriage counseling. 218 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:43,320 Speaker 4: You ain't gonna make it. 219 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:47,080 Speaker 3: Then you're not gonna make it. You gotta worry about 220 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 3: this wedding. You playing. 221 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 4: You can stop planning right now. If she find out, 222 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:52,080 Speaker 4: you're not gonna make that web. You're not walking down 223 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:54,439 Speaker 4: no hour now. People gonna march in for you to 224 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 4: view this body. That's what you have. This woman is 225 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 4: not playing with you, Okay, this is this This woman's husband. 226 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:04,200 Speaker 4: She committed her life to this man, and you set 227 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 4: up being casually having sex in. 228 00:11:05,960 --> 00:11:11,439 Speaker 3: The house is your house? That's that's crazy. What is 229 00:11:11,559 --> 00:11:15,679 Speaker 3: you doing while his wife was there? Yeah, that's how 230 00:11:15,720 --> 00:11:19,079 Speaker 3: I know you dating death? How does that. You know 231 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 3: how fast you got to be doing it? You know 232 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 3: how you're quiet? 233 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, and you're stupid for doing that, You really really are. 234 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:31,959 Speaker 3: Yeah, you're just stupid for doing But big is this 235 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:33,960 Speaker 3: house we do here? You don't need to do nothing. 236 00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:34,559 Speaker 3: Keep doing it. 237 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 4: Watch you find out you ain't gonna make it to 238 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:39,640 Speaker 4: the wedding. We need gonna figure pick out these colors, 239 00:11:39,679 --> 00:11:41,440 Speaker 4: these flowers, we need to find out we're gonna put 240 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 4: on this obituary. 241 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 3: You need to find out all of this. A lot 242 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:48,800 Speaker 3: of you got no singing and gonna be singing and 243 00:11:48,880 --> 00:11:52,920 Speaker 3: flower bringing the word. You're gonna be the Paul Bearer Paul. 244 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 4: Bearers right now because you're gonna everybody got a compet 245 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:56,720 Speaker 4: participate in this relationship. 246 00:11:58,920 --> 00:12:00,080 Speaker 3: Hell she on the way. 247 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:07,720 Speaker 1: You're furnting around with hell yeah yeah, But she says 248 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:11,280 Speaker 1: she loves now. Now here's a question, guys. Can you 249 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 1: be in love with two people at the same time? 250 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:16,720 Speaker 1: She says she loves the two men in her life, 251 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:20,440 Speaker 1: but for different reasons, and each each one of them 252 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:22,319 Speaker 1: is so different in bed. 253 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:24,240 Speaker 4: If it's like this, you can be in love with 254 00:12:24,280 --> 00:12:26,599 Speaker 4: two many years. You can I love my mama and 255 00:12:26,760 --> 00:12:27,199 Speaker 4: my wife. 256 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 3: I love that you be in love like that. 257 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:39,000 Speaker 1: This ain't this, ain't what you're doing. What you're doing, Yeah, 258 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:43,560 Speaker 1: this is yeah. Yeah, And he said clearly to her, uh, 259 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 1: that will never happen. When she asked him to tell 260 00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 1: his wife so you know she could get involved, he said, 261 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:51,440 Speaker 1: that will never happen, and if it does, it's going 262 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:52,520 Speaker 1: to end their friendship. 263 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:52,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. 264 00:12:53,120 --> 00:12:54,880 Speaker 1: And you know his wife is not going to be 265 00:12:54,960 --> 00:12:57,719 Speaker 1: with us unless she has a side piece herself, and 266 00:12:57,800 --> 00:12:59,440 Speaker 1: there's no mention of that in the letter. 267 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 2: You got to get rid of his wife, sir. She's 268 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:04,240 Speaker 2: the part just messing it all up. We've got for 269 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:07,439 Speaker 2: some Yeah, I mean, it's not gonna. 270 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:12,560 Speaker 3: Work if she's she has to have a side piece, 271 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:14,439 Speaker 3: the wife, you can't help me. 272 00:13:14,960 --> 00:13:17,120 Speaker 1: I know she's allowing us want to sleep with her 273 00:13:17,200 --> 00:13:20,439 Speaker 1: husband in her house. And I know I agree with you. 274 00:13:21,160 --> 00:13:23,840 Speaker 1: I definitely agree with you on that. Yeah, I said 275 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 1: that she yeah, because she's too calm. 276 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 3: She's too you know, she's too cool with all. 277 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:31,000 Speaker 1: Of this that's going on. 278 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:31,679 Speaker 3: All right. 279 00:13:32,800 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 1: Thanks guys. 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