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Speaker 1: Yes, sir, morning. Everybody is DJ Envy ange Lae, Charlemagne

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Speaker 1: the guy. We are to breakfast club. We got a

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Speaker 1: special guests in the building. Yes, indeed, did I say right?

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Speaker 1: You did? Okay, you've had practice. I did. I tried

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Speaker 1: to tell him you didn't trust me. But you know,

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Speaker 1: you know what happens because a lot of times Charlemagne

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Speaker 1: and tell me the wrong thing on purpose. I say,

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Speaker 1: I believe you did that to me. A couple of

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Speaker 1: times he's jealous of you. We're welcome. How are you

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Speaker 1: feeling this morning. I'm good, I'm happy to be here,

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Speaker 1: happy to have you man. I am very happy to

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Speaker 1: be here. I'm very grateful for the time you guys

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Speaker 1: are about to dedicate to this insane conversation we're about

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Speaker 1: to have, so thank you. Please inform us on what's

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Speaker 1: going on. And I ran because there's so much going

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Speaker 1: And sometimes it's hard to get accurate information to and know.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about it. I'd love first to know what

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Speaker 1: you guys think is happening. It feels like women's right

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Speaker 1: to being violated all over the world, and it feels like,

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Speaker 1: you know, Iran is the episode. I know, everybody's definitely

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Speaker 1: focused on what's happening here in America where Roe v Wade,

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Speaker 1: but it feels like what's going on over there is

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Speaker 1: like just cruel and unusual punishment. I saw the thing

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Speaker 1: real when they said that they were sentencing fifteen thousand

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Speaker 1: protests to death. Yes, the parliament essentially gave the green

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Speaker 1: Gina Emini, whos a Kurdish woman. She had come to Tehran,

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Speaker 1: was stopped by the morality police, which they called the Bastiche,

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Speaker 1: It sounds very conservative already. That is that is a tragedy.

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Speaker 1: It is a tragedy. It's a morality. Police walks around

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Speaker 1: looking at what people are dressing in how they're acting. Yes,

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Speaker 1: what the Bastigi do. They are the morality police. Uh.

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Speaker 1: They are not necessarily part of the military. They are

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Speaker 1: Women legally have half the right there of men legally, right,

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Speaker 1: So whether that's being accused of if someone who has

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Speaker 1: the Islamic Republic, their agenda. Iran has eight percent of

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Speaker 1: Do you think those stories like you know, the one

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Speaker 1: But they weren't do you think those stories called more

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Speaker 1: This is not some organization that's never done this before.

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Speaker 1: We're not sure. And that headline was if this has

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Speaker 1: believe they were put there by the United States. Right now,

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Speaker 1: whether that was intentional, whether everyone had a plan that

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Speaker 1: So the US, I think, is figuring it out. I

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Speaker 1: he said, they cried more during the raping than they

427
00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:15,000
Speaker 1: did right before their executions. I mean that is some

428
00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:18,920
Speaker 1: women are killing themselves and scratching out the scratching out

429
00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:22,440
Speaker 1: their faces, scratching out their eyeballs, because once you are

430
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:26,480
Speaker 1: de virginized through this lens of rape within that culture,

431
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:30,840
Speaker 1: you can't marry Nope, So then where do you go?

432
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,680
Speaker 1: Who has you? How do you what's your upward mobility

433
00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:37,080
Speaker 1: once you've lost your greatest asset, which somehow is your virginity.

434
00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:43,640
Speaker 1: That's why, right, It's just like that's literally like what

435
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:46,600
Speaker 1: you know this people that keeps screaming because you see

436
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 1: these videos of people being I know, my feet is

437
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 1: like a horrific like I'm sure people just muted me

438
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:56,480
Speaker 1: completely at this point. People are just screaming like you

439
00:23:57,040 --> 00:24:00,000
Speaker 1: like you don't know God, you're not God loving person.

440
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,520
Speaker 1: And because they are just I mean, I'm talking like

441
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:06,719
Speaker 1: thirty forty people on top of one human being, and

442
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:10,160
Speaker 1: like you're talking about a student just like in school,

443
00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:15,199
Speaker 1: because what he's chanting zan Zendi Ozodi like women, life, freedom,

444
00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:21,120
Speaker 1: I mean, that's fucking bullshit. Excuse my language, but that's

445
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:23,879
Speaker 1: just it was heartbreaking and that's why. But it was

446
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:25,520
Speaker 1: important I felt like for me to read because, like

447
00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:28,680
Speaker 1: you said, it is important to educate yourself through people

448
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:31,000
Speaker 1: who know more than you about what's going on. This

449
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:32,640
Speaker 1: was in a rat though, and I always hear Iran

450
00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:35,280
Speaker 1: in Iraq, so is it the same in both? Like

451
00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:37,800
Speaker 1: when it comes to what's happening in Iran right now.

452
00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:41,480
Speaker 1: Iran is a very different country on the sense that

453
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:44,840
Speaker 1: it is Shiite, it is not Sunni. And the most

454
00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:47,280
Speaker 1: important thing I think about Iran to know is, up

455
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:50,439
Speaker 1: until nineteen seventy nine, it was a second you know,

456
00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:53,680
Speaker 1: it was a country wasn't perfect. There are many flaws.

457
00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:56,120
Speaker 1: The Shaw was not by at all a perfect king

458
00:24:56,160 --> 00:25:00,359
Speaker 1: and perfect leader. That's a whole other episode of people

459
00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:02,320
Speaker 1: more educated than me can give you all the reasons

460
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:07,080
Speaker 1: why he wasn't perfect. But he did create opportunities of

461
00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:10,919
Speaker 1: education and freedom for women. He was a supporter of

462
00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:15,120
Speaker 1: women and their mobility within society. Forgot. My mom came

463
00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:17,920
Speaker 1: here to go to get an education, you know, under

464
00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 1: the Shaw, and was blessed by her whole family. I

465
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:23,840
Speaker 1: mean my family's you know, just like a middle normal

466
00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 1: family from Iran. My mom came here, got an education,

467
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 1: her sister got an education. This was a normal thing,

468
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:33,280
Speaker 1: This was a very she came here. She's an entrepreneur.

469
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:35,920
Speaker 1: And that the craziest thing about Iran that I will

470
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 1: tell you is that it's a matriarchal society. There is

471
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Speaker 1: I It is a society where the person doing the

472
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Speaker 1: bossing and bullying in the household is my mother, It's

473
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:51,760
Speaker 1: not my father, you know. And that's that's how it

474
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 1: is in ninety nine percent of Iranian households. It's the

475
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 1: woman who drives. Yes, is a knows and how it's

476
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:01,840
Speaker 1: gonna be. And and it's worse to catch hell from

477
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:04,920
Speaker 1: her than it is from him. Yeah, how how can

478
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:09,200
Speaker 1: we help, like the amplify more people from Iran's voices?

479
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:11,679
Speaker 1: So listen, this is one of the things that we

480
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:14,320
Speaker 1: have done with this document. We have put together a

481
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:18,959
Speaker 1: panel of people who are domain experts. I'm talking thirty

482
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 1: forty years on this topic. We've also put together a

483
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:25,439
Speaker 1: panel of people who are i would say, more culture driven,

484
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:29,440
Speaker 1: more gen z driven. My friends started an amazing Instagram

485
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:33,679
Speaker 1: called samonis m sam a n I s M. He

486
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 1: creates these insane videos, all tracked to whether it's rage

487
00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 1: against the machine or Kendrick Lamar. So it's like he's

488
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:42,480
Speaker 1: trying to make the content very Western, but he's showing

489
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:45,960
Speaker 1: the footage. Our friends started an account called frem Iran.

490
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 1: It's beautiful, it's artistics. She's a master's from Yale, So

491
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:53,840
Speaker 1: you look at this content, you think it's refinery twenty nine,

492
00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 1: there's these two young women that started an account called

493
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Speaker 1: Middle East Matters. They're domain experts of everything in the

494
00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 1: Middle East. I think of them as like our young

495
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 1: vice media. So giving voice to some of these folks

496
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:07,600
Speaker 1: and having them come and talk about what's going on here,

497
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:11,159
Speaker 1: I think is super important. I think, you know you

498
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:13,760
Speaker 1: can make donations to our Getting a go fund Me

499
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:16,200
Speaker 1: was almost impossible. I always have to give a shout

500
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 1: out to go fund me. They went above and beyond

501
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 1: because with sanctions it's almost impossible to help this country

502
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:24,639
Speaker 1: or raise money for this country. We can't give money

503
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,880
Speaker 1: to Iran, but we can raise money to help raise

504
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:30,960
Speaker 1: awareness for Iran. So that's one way you can help.

505
00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 1: But I think giving exposure too, because again we're not Iraq,

506
00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:40,439
Speaker 1: We're not Afghanistan. We are we are adjacent, but we

507
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:44,840
Speaker 1: are something very different because we have nuclear capabilities, because

508
00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 1: we have eighty nine million people, sixty percent of them

509
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:51,280
Speaker 1: of under the age of thirty. But we are the

510
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:54,840
Speaker 1: highest users of Instagram within the Middle East. Literally, you

511
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:59,200
Speaker 1: can ask Instagram this. We are hybrid communicators. But I

512
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:02,840
Speaker 1: believe if we don't get this Islamic Republic out of power,

513
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:05,639
Speaker 1: it's not just a how how many more days of

514
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 1: footage are you gonna watch? This is going to embolden

515
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:11,520
Speaker 1: these people. And they've already like they already sent drones

516
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:15,880
Speaker 1: to Russia. Right, They're just they don't care. They think

517
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 1: they can do whatever they want. Dangerous. I'm like, I

518
00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 1: know I'm coming in all heavy. I'm like, I did

519
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:28,119
Speaker 1: I have one more questions that you did say? You

520
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 1: have your memoir coming out. I'm working on it. Okay,

521
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:33,400
Speaker 1: it is coming out. We don't know when. We don't

522
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:36,160
Speaker 1: know when you'll you'll be the first to know. And

523
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 1: so for you being queer in your family and culturally,

524
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 1: how was that like as far as how they did

525
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:46,160
Speaker 1: they accept that right away? Was it a conversation? I

526
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:50,000
Speaker 1: mean I was emancipated at sixteen because we did not

527
00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:59,000
Speaker 1: have language. My parents have I would say deep levels

528
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:02,239
Speaker 1: of trauma, you know, like people who are exiled from

529
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 1: their country. They don't fit in UM, they don't know,

530
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 1: they don't understand how to assimilate. They did not UM. No,

531
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 1: they were not good about they were terrible about it.

532
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 1: They know that they were terrible about it. They feel

533
00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 1: badly about it. I have been through therapy and through

534
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 1: lots of other things, have done a ton of sort

535
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:26,959
Speaker 1: of thought leadership and thinking about it. I think finding

536
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:30,600
Speaker 1: empathy for people who've done you a little dirty creates

537
00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:34,560
Speaker 1: a lot of grace. And so we're actually pretty tight

538
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:38,720
Speaker 1: right now. I've been tight for the past. We've been

539
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:41,920
Speaker 1: tight for the past nine or somewhat years, ten years. Yeah,

540
00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:45,120
Speaker 1: that was part of the reason you were emancipated. It

541
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 1: was the reason I was emancipated. Yeah, I mean by

542
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 1: my parents were like, you cannot be gay, you cannot

543
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:53,239
Speaker 1: be queer. This is not cool with us. We're not

544
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 1: we won't support you financially. And that's what they were taught.

545
00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 1: So I think that's what they were taught. I think

546
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 1: they want to it in America. But I also think

547
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 1: that they did not expect me to be so stubborn

548
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 1: that I would take a trash bag, fill it with tuna,

549
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:11,280
Speaker 1: fish and socks and a couple pairs of parents pants

550
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:13,720
Speaker 1: and march out the door and never come back. I

551
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:16,600
Speaker 1: don't I think they thought I would like change my

552
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 1: mind or something, or suppress it. Yeah, But I think

553
00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 1: from the very beginning I was a bit of a

554
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 1: revolutionary personality. All the things I read about the things

555
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 1: I cared about. The music I listened to engendered and

556
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:36,880
Speaker 1: emboldened my sense of being moj and so you know,

557
00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 1: we've preyed on it. We've I think what's also helped

558
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 1: as my wife she's Iranian, and my son, I think this,

559
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:48,400
Speaker 1: you know what's so funny. I think they were afraid

560
00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 1: that me being gay meant I wasn't Iranian, that I

561
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 1: was like somehow dissing their culture. And then I think

562
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 1: when they realized as I was older, that I was

563
00:30:57,040 --> 00:31:01,480
Speaker 1: heavy Iranian, that they were like, oh, like, you still

564
00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:04,120
Speaker 1: love us. It's like some sort of weird trauma bond.

565
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 1: I don't know, my therapist, this is what I spend

566
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 1: all this money on. This is what I spent I

567
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 1: spend more money on this than I do vacation. How's

568
00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:14,240
Speaker 1: that you should try to get them to go too.

569
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:16,760
Speaker 1: I have tried. I have begged, but they're live the

570
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 1: generation of like, how could you possibly tell about bigness

571
00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 1: that they could tell other people that's right? And I'm like, no,

572
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 1: it's confidential. It's legally confidential, Like it's like telling your lawyer.

573
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 1: They're like, I don't tell a lawyer anything either. You're like,

574
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 1: how can they help you. I know what you said.

575
00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:32,160
Speaker 1: It's true about grace still because it's like one of

576
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 1: the biggest things I learned, you know, in regards to

577
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 1: my father's it's like, you know, you realize your parents

578
00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:40,040
Speaker 1: were people before they were your parents, and when you

579
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:43,720
Speaker 1: find out their stories, it allows you to give them

580
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:48,400
Speaker 1: a lot more grace. I think that, um, I never

581
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 1: trust a person that can't forgive, You cannot forget. Like,

582
00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:55,480
Speaker 1: my relationship with them is very boundaried, so I'm like,

583
00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:57,560
Speaker 1: this is what we do, this is what we can

584
00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:00,920
Speaker 1: talk about. They don't like it because I'm very like boundaried,

585
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 1: but there's a lot of love present, especially now. I've

586
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:09,000
Speaker 1: never seen them so broken as I have in the

587
00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:12,280
Speaker 1: past eight weeks. It's almost like they're reliving this trauma

588
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:14,920
Speaker 1: of exile. I think it's I always tell people, I'm like,

589
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 1: imagine you go on a trip somewhere for a few weeks,

590
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:21,440
Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, the middle of that trip,

591
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 1: you're told you can't go back to your home, and

592
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 1: your home the streets have changed names, your schools have

593
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 1: changed names, all your stories that you love are closed.

594
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:34,760
Speaker 1: And I think it's a lot to be exiled from

595
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:37,200
Speaker 1: a place that you grew up in. I think that's deep,

596
00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 1: and then it's demonized. I mean, look at the Ayatola,

597
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 1: Like yo, I look at that dude, and I'm like,

598
00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:46,520
Speaker 1: he it's hard to believe that that's you know, your country.

599
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 1: It's hard to believe. And look, I think a lot

600
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 1: of people felt that way about Donald Trump in this

601
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 1: country and what you've seen here, whether you like him

602
00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 1: or not, you can't argue that this country has gone

603
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 1: in the direction of divisiveness and a lot more hate

604
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 1: present than before. And whether that's true or not, I

605
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 1: think that's just how people feel, right. That's why I'm

606
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:11,800
Speaker 1: not looking for I do not want him back on

607
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 1: the campaign trail. Really, no, that's the last thing I want.

608
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,680
Speaker 1: Do you think you can win? I mean, yeah, I

609
00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 1: think you can win. But I don't want him back

610
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:21,000
Speaker 1: on the campaign trail because every day we're gonna have

611
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:22,840
Speaker 1: to hear about him in the news cycle. Every day,

612
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 1: it's gonna be something that's stern the pot. Every day,

613
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:27,760
Speaker 1: it's gonna be more divisiveness. Like, I don't want that. Like,

614
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 1: I think I think it's unavoidable at this point. You know,

615
00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:34,480
Speaker 1: I think he's coming I think we need to be

616
00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:37,440
Speaker 1: prepared like we were for these mid terms. I think

617
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:40,960
Speaker 1: we need to continue to support our local officials and

618
00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:45,080
Speaker 1: keep pushing through Congress and Senate and keeping heavy on

619
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:47,840
Speaker 1: our judges to make the right decisions. But yeah, I

620
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 1: think a fight for freedom, for inclusion and democracy is

621
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:54,160
Speaker 1: a global fight right now. You know, I think everyone

622
00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:57,200
Speaker 1: needs to put their foot on the gas. So I think,

623
00:33:57,240 --> 00:33:59,240
Speaker 1: I mean, you guys know like I'm heavy on a

624
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:02,720
Speaker 1: run because I've been heavy on trans rights, gay rights,

625
00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 1: you know. I mean, you know, I don't have to say,

626
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:09,319
Speaker 1: but it's just like, fuck, I can't handle where we're

627
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:14,480
Speaker 1: going as a global sort of thought leadership around women

628
00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:19,480
Speaker 1: in general. It just seems wrong. So ask me a

629
00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:23,280
Speaker 1: fun question. Please don't make me just answer these heavy questions.

630
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:25,840
Speaker 1: You were here for them, an education we needed. This.

631
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:28,840
Speaker 1: Can I do to help you? Guys? That's my bigger question.

632
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:31,319
Speaker 1: You just did. Is there anything else we can do

633
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 1: as a group that we can help you just did it? Okay,

634
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 1: you can make some copies of those papers. I'm gonna

635
00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:38,480
Speaker 1: get you copies of this. I'm gonna send it to

636
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:41,840
Speaker 1: you or something. I'll send it to you. Give you

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Speaker 1: a PDF I will send it to your friends, and um, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean I think people just need to keep paying

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Speaker 1: attention because if you look at these kids, they're mega inspiring.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's I think that's the one. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you've seen all the rappers, You've seen their videos, You've

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Speaker 1: seen how much they love Drake, you see how much

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Speaker 1: they love Kendri Smart. It's like, I'm really trying hard

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Speaker 1: to get people from the culture to start to speak

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Speaker 1: up for these artists and activists over there who are

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Speaker 1: just living and dying through the lens of the music

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Speaker 1: that we make here, you know, And that's really what

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Speaker 1: that's really been our goal. So yeah, well, thank you

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Speaker 1: for joining us in appreciate you. Yeah. I don't even

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Speaker 1: work here and I'm here, so I mean, I when

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Speaker 1: I came in and saw you, I was I was like,

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Speaker 1: very flattered and happy this to you. What's going on

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Speaker 1: with you? No, No, she taught me from Martin. Right now,

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Speaker 1: she says she got a job. We don't believe it's

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Speaker 1: that's in January, okay, but they will not let me

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Speaker 1: get off this show. I've been trying and it's a

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Speaker 1: lot of work. I'm doing double duty right now. I

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Speaker 1: saw your new show and working here. Are you having funky?

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Speaker 1: I'm ready to go okay, but I'm glad to have

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Speaker 1: been here for this conversation. Thank you for having me.

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Speaker 1: I'm glad you're mister big Time now. You're all doing okay.

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Speaker 1: God is good and you are just killing on all

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Speaker 1: of your business endeavors and making your family happy. My

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Speaker 1: wife is good, I know, and that's beautiful. My wife

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Speaker 1: is good, not my life. My wife is. That's really

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Speaker 1: all that matters. I appreciate you guys so much. I

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Speaker 1: love you guys so much. Without any asking, You're like,

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Speaker 1: please come, I know what a huge audience you have,

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Speaker 1: Please please, please, anything I can do, And for all

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Speaker 1: the listeners you can go to the Lincoln the Bio

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Speaker 1: and we are more than happy to spend the next

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Speaker 1: few days just answering questions at MJ at MO chess right.

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Speaker 1: Love you guys,