1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO with our chief 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 1: love Officer, Steve Harvey. 3 00:00:06,559 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 2: Here we go. 4 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:10,959 Speaker 1: This is from Chris in Flint, Chris Wrights. I put 5 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:12,959 Speaker 1: a bunch of meat on the grill before I took 6 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:16,200 Speaker 1: my son to practice. I got home and my in 7 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:20,200 Speaker 1: laws were there and we're raving about how good my 8 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:24,160 Speaker 1: ribs were. I barely had any meat left. My wife 9 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 1: can't understand why I'm mad? Why did she allow this? What? 10 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:32,960 Speaker 3: Oh, the decent thing would at least save some for 11 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:37,320 Speaker 3: your husband because it's your husband's house. You can't let 12 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:39,880 Speaker 3: your in laws come over there and get in front 13 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 3: of your man. So you should have saved something for 14 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 3: your man. That's that's a fact. Hey, hey, hey, Steve cook, 15 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:53,200 Speaker 3: these ribs. Take a quarter slab that's for Steve, half 16 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 3: slab that's for Steve. 17 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 2: That's fair. 18 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 3: So yeah, she should have she should have not allowed 19 00:00:58,480 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 3: them to eat all of it. 20 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:00,920 Speaker 2: That's right. 21 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 4: Who had the audacity to open my grill and take 22 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 4: the stuff off of Who did in laws? 23 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 2: In laws that stay daughter house? That's how they. 24 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:14,959 Speaker 1: Looked at it, right, all right? Moving on to Wanda 25 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 1: is serious. Yeah, the grillers perked up on this one. 26 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 1: Didn't he Wanda in paradise rights. My boyfriend moved in 27 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:26,120 Speaker 1: with me and I thought, you know, he would at 28 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 1: least pay the utilities. He said, we didn't have that 29 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:33,280 Speaker 1: agreement before he moved in, so he's not responsible for 30 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 1: my bills. My house is paid for. Does he have 31 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 1: a valid argument or not? 32 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:41,480 Speaker 3: No, No, he doesn't have a valid argument. And you're 33 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:44,480 Speaker 3: stupid for allowing a man to move in and live 34 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 3: off you. How does this work? What do you mean 35 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 3: we didn't have that agreement before? Where is his honor? 36 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 3: Where's the character in this guy? You've married a man 37 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 3: who doesn't have character? I mean you've I mean you've 38 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 3: you've allowed a man to move into your house that 39 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:04,560 Speaker 3: doesn't have character. What are you even talking? Does he 40 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 3: have a valid point? Put him out? Put him out? 41 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 3: How you gonna move in on the woman? And you 42 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 3: ain't gonna handle the bills? She'd have bought the house. 43 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 3: And now you in here talking about you ain't. That 44 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 3: wasn't no agreement, man, So what you in here for? 45 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 3: So he get everything he want you? You sleeping with him, Yeah, 46 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 3: cuddling with him, spooning with him, cooking for him. In 47 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:32,959 Speaker 3: the words of my Grandmama laughing on him and now 48 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 3: and now what? 49 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 2: And now what? He He ain't got nothing on life? 50 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 3: Girl? 51 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:41,079 Speaker 2: Why why are you in here? 52 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 3: That makes no sense? How did you let a man 53 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 3: move in? And y'all ain't have no rules? See that's 54 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 3: what's wrong. Man, y'all keep doing stuff without without talking 55 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:57,040 Speaker 3: it out. Now here in here talking about he? That 56 00:02:57,200 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 3: was no agreement. What kind of bum person is this? 57 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 1: Get out? 58 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:04,919 Speaker 2: He's just an indecent human being. 59 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:05,400 Speaker 1: Man. 60 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 2: Put this dude out and quit seeing him. 61 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:12,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, great advice, he elo. Moving on to 62 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 1: Gabe and Schamberg, Gabe writes, I was having sex with 63 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:19,440 Speaker 1: one of my longtime friends and I noticed that she 64 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:22,399 Speaker 1: was recording us. She said that she records us all 65 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 1: of the time. I asked her to delete the videos. 66 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:28,640 Speaker 1: We're both married, so why would she record us? Can 67 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:29,640 Speaker 1: she be trusted? 68 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 3: What can she be trusted? You don't understand what this 69 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 3: is gonna be. See this is this is called blackmail. 70 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 3: We both married, I record us all the time. I 71 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:50,400 Speaker 3: asked her to delete it. I'm not asking you, no, 72 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 3: I'm taking all e phones, all e phone going to 73 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 3: the house with me, all of them, all of. 74 00:03:57,480 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 4: Cant that was put then take it to the un. 75 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 2: All these there ain't none of this getting out? Can 76 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 2: she be trusted? No? 77 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 1: Wow, she's recording. 78 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:22,279 Speaker 4: Yeah, but it ain't in a mirror and you moving? 79 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:32,279 Speaker 2: All right? What is that? This is so crazy? 80 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:34,039 Speaker 1: That is so crazy? 81 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 2: All right? 82 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:38,839 Speaker 1: Last one, Coelo. This is from Alison in the Bronx. 83 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:42,040 Speaker 1: Alison writes, my husband told me that from now on 84 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:46,239 Speaker 1: he will decide when we have sex, and he will 85 00:04:46,320 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 1: initiate it. He said he is tired of me being 86 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:52,279 Speaker 1: aggressive with him and it makes him feel like the wife. 87 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 1: So her question is, so men don't want women to 88 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 1: initiate sex or is it just him she wants? 89 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 2: Not the way you've been doing it. Address this he 90 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 2: can't do? 91 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 4: What has she been doing? 92 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 3: Yeah? 93 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:13,640 Speaker 2: Excuse wait? This a woman talking to him? Open your lips. Wait, 94 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 2: make it better. 95 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 3: I don't care nothing about that TV being on. You 96 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:20,120 Speaker 3: ain't watching no more games? You can watch this. 97 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 2: Shut up? What is you crying for? 98 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 1: Man? 99 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 2: You're a little pump behind Lay down kiss me? Do 100 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:48,520 Speaker 2: you shut your little simple self up? My mama told 101 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:56,480 Speaker 2: me you was gonna be like this your mama, Are 102 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 2: you done? 103 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 1: That's the last one? But what is he doing? While 104 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:05,280 Speaker 1: she's doing all of. 105 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 2: That, her. 106 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 3: Baby, Hold on, I don't want you your lip right now, 107 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 3: come on your lip? 108 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 2: You know, baby baby? Hold up, baby, hold up? 109 00:06:17,400 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 3: The game on, baby baby. 110 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 2: The game on, baby baby. 111 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:30,720 Speaker 4: Everybody looking, everybody's looking. 112 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:34,039 Speaker 3: Yeah he got you know, the fellas is over for 113 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 3: the game. She she just on just letting him happen. 114 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 2: What about what about the fight party? 115 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 3: Baby baby, baby baby? This is just the second round 116 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:48,239 Speaker 3: crawfeted winning. I don't want no lap dance? 117 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 1: Right is too aggressive? 118 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:58,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's waiting too much. Hey, hey, hey man, what 119 00:06:58,960 --> 00:06:59,600 Speaker 2: y'all looking at? 120 00:06:59,640 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 1: Man? 121 00:06:59,839 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 2: She just playing. 122 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:08,159 Speaker 1: But her question is, so this is most men she 123 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 1: wants to know. Don't so men don't want women to 124 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:12,680 Speaker 1: initiate sex? Or is it just him? 125 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 3: No, we don't mind that at all. It's just obviously 126 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 3: you have been too much. Well, he got to come 127 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 3: in the house after work one day and just sit 128 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 3: on babies from now on. 129 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 2: Listen to me. I decide when we have sick. 130 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 1: These are the rule. 131 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 3: I decide when we're gonna have sex. You're gonna stop 132 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 3: all this treating me coming here, Donna taar my shirt off. 133 00:07:39,400 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 3: And he's really got no buttons on six shirts. 134 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:46,960 Speaker 2: Six my work shirt, hippers on my work uniform. I 135 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 2: got to go to I gotta go to work. I 136 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 2: got four work uniforms. All them zippers gone. 137 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 3: I got safe depends on these zippers stuck themself Friday, 138 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:56,840 Speaker 3: trying to use the bathroom. 139 00:07:56,880 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 2: We don't stop all this. 140 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 1: You're listening The Hardy Morning Show.