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Speaker 1: Hello, Yeah, hello, Hello. What's your name?

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Speaker 2: Rudy? Not nice to talk to you? How are you?

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Speaker 1: Rudy Rulige, Rudy Giuliani? When did he fuck up your

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Speaker 1: name a little bit? Because for something, when you say Rudy,

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Speaker 1: I think Rudy Giuliani, and I think the fucking reindeer,

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Speaker 1: Rudolph with the nose. I can't think of any other

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Speaker 1: Rudy or maybe or wait, there's a fucking kid named

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Speaker 1: there's not a real kid, like a cartoon child named Rudy.

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Speaker 1: Do you know who I'm talking about?

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Speaker 2: I don't. But the one I usually get a lot

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Speaker 2: is like from the Rudy movie. Like when I was younger,

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Speaker 2: I would tell people, like, Rudy's my nickname. I like,

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Speaker 2: I go buy it a lot because it's different people

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Speaker 2: to to pronounce than my actual name. But I would

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Speaker 2: get it. I would get like the movie reference, like

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Speaker 2: the Rudy Football movie. Have you ever seen that one.

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Speaker 1: The Rudy Football movie. You know what is that?

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Speaker 2: It's like it's like a really old school movie, but

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Speaker 2: it's that that's the name of the movie is It's Rudy.

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Speaker 2: It was like really popular, like in the early two thousands,

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Speaker 2: I believe so that's the name, Like, that's the reference.

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Speaker 2: I got a lot from like older people. They're like, oh, Rudy,

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Speaker 2: like from the movie, and I'd be like, yeah, sure,

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Speaker 2: even though I never really watched.

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Speaker 1: Fucking it just came to me. Rudy is the name

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Speaker 1: of the main character from Chalk Zone.

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Speaker 2: Choc Zone. Believe it or not, I haven't. I've never

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Speaker 2: seen that show.

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Speaker 1: How old are you?

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Speaker 2: Thirty?

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Speaker 1: Okay, you're in choc Zone territory? Did you used to

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Speaker 1: watch Nickelodeon?

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Speaker 2: I did, But it'sick to a lot of like SpongeBob,

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Speaker 2: SpongeBob and like Jimmy Neutron.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he was this guy he would use chalk to

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Speaker 1: create You know what's funny chalk Zone. You know what's

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Speaker 1: funny is there's all these old like I'm about to

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Speaker 1: say so things so stupid, but I'm just gonna say

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Speaker 1: it and see how it sounds. But there's all these

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Speaker 1: like old shows about children creating characters and then talking

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Speaker 1: to them. Like this guy Rudy from Chalk Zone. He

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Speaker 1: basically enters this world made of chalk, and he created

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Speaker 1: he creates a little guy, a little blue guy, and

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Speaker 1: he make and he talks to it. Do you think

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Speaker 1: that's like how kids are making like chatbots that are

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Speaker 1: like little monsters that they can talk to with AI.

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Speaker 1: Is that similar?

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Speaker 2: Uh? I would say, yeah, so it's something a little similar.

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Speaker 2: I do vaguely remember the show, but I would say

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Speaker 2: I would say so.

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Speaker 1: I would say so, yeah, I mean the both signs

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Speaker 1: of like schizophrenia in a way.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I was thinking of the same thing,

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Speaker 2: like it probably contributes more to schizophrenia than it does

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Speaker 2: to like the aichatpots.

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Speaker 1: But you know, yeah, so yeah, I think it's best

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Speaker 1: to I think it's best to talk to real people,

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Speaker 1: I guess, or like having an imaginary friend, you should

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Speaker 1: have a real imaginary friend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, But then you know, kids get a little

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Speaker 2: little too ahead of themselves. You know, we'll draw like

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Speaker 2: the little pictures, and then you know it leads to

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Speaker 2: parents to get concerned, and that's how horror movies start.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: You texted me and said, I live in America. My

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Speaker 1: girlfriend wants me to move to Japan to be with her,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like it's a huge risk to give

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Speaker 1: up everything and go. I would like some outside advice

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Speaker 1: from the wise Gecko man, please sir okay okay, is

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Speaker 1: your girlfriend Japanese or she just wants to move to Japan.

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Speaker 2: No, she is one hundred percent Japanese. She was born there.

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Speaker 2: She's half Japanese and have Spanish, and she wants me

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Speaker 2: to go over there. Obviously, Like I've already mentioned my age,

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Speaker 2: I'm thirty years old, she's thirty two. She's going to

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Speaker 2: turn thirty three in July. And so I basically already

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Speaker 2: pension insurance. I bought a house back in twenty seventeen,

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Speaker 2: so like my payments are pretty well. But I've tried

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Speaker 2: So I'm kind of like conflicted a little bit.

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Speaker 1: You know, It's funny, there's there's actually a lot of

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Speaker 1: there's a lot of like key differences, but something kind

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Speaker 1: of exactly similar. I won't go into too much detail

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Speaker 1: actually also happened to me where I thought I almost

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Speaker 1: moved to Japan for similarly reasons. Japan is awesome. Japan

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Speaker 1: is like a great fucking time. Have you been? I

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Speaker 2: I have. I went there for the first time ever

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Speaker 2: last year to visit her. I was there for two weeks,

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Speaker 2: and then this past January I was actually staying with

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Speaker 2: her for three months, so I got a good little

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Speaker 2: taste of it, which was which was nice, different way

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Speaker 2: of life. Obviously, I wasn't really working while I was there.

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Speaker 2: It was more like kind of studying a little bit,

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Speaker 2: but very different, very different from America, but a little

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Speaker 2: difficult to talk to people because I'm not fluent in

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Speaker 2: the language. I could barely speak it. So yeah, very

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Speaker 2: very different. But I loved it. It was it was

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Speaker 2: absolutely amazing. It was beautiful.

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Speaker 1: I mean it's great. Yeah. I've spent like four months there,

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Speaker 1: a few years, and it's it's fucking sweet. The biggest

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Speaker 1: decided to not move there, is because like, like you're

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Speaker 1: totally not supposed to be there. That was my feeling

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Speaker 1: like like one the one of the cool things, like

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Speaker 1: one of the cool things about America is that, like

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Speaker 1: you know, we have like diversity, Like there's no like

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Speaker 1: it's it's a mono culture. And like if you're not

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's one thing that I like you said, you

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Speaker 2: really do feel it. When I was there, Like obviously,

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Speaker 2: like she doesn't fully look like a Japanese person. You

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Speaker 2: see that I was a foreigner and obviously she's not.

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Speaker 2: She doesn't look like fully Japanese and she would have

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Speaker 2: to like talk to them like oh, like Japanese is

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Speaker 2: okay basically, and they would like profusely like apologize like oh,

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Speaker 2: I'm so sorry, I'm so sorry, you know, but definitely, yeah,

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Speaker 2: like here in America, it's very different, Like nobody really

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's uh, I mean it's also it's tough. It's

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Speaker 1: Where are you based currently that you don't want to

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Speaker 2: I'm currently based in Illinois. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Where are in Illinois?

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Speaker 2: Towards like the suburbs, towards like the Naperville Plainfield and

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Speaker 2: like that area out there. I actually was considering going

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Speaker 2: to your show, Okay, yeah, in a couple of months.

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Speaker 2: I think it's like in August, right or something like that.

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Speaker 1: Uh, I've had too. I've got one in Bloomington. I

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Speaker 1: have actually no fucking idea where that is, and then

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Speaker 1: one in Chicago.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, yeah, I was considering. I was considering going,

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Speaker 2: but I don't really have anybody to to go with.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I'm gonna find somebody. Yeah, it's I'll think

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Speaker 1: But anyway, anyway, anyway, I'm so she and she wantsn't

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Speaker 2: So she lives in Shibuya, Tokyo, Like she's probably like

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Speaker 2: a fifteen minute walk away from Shibuya crossing a. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: she's got like a really nice studio apartment. She works

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Speaker 1: So how did you meet this girl?

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Speaker 2: So my job allows me. It's kind of like it's

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Speaker 2: So I figured Japan is pretty safe, It's got very

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Speaker 2: but she ended up coming over here back in July.

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Speaker 2: That was like the first time we met. And then

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Speaker 2: over there again in January, okay, and I'm planning to

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Speaker 1: Okay. So it's been a so you guys are in

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Speaker 1: a committed relationship, yeah, yeah, okay, And so it's been

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Speaker 1: a back and forth thing over the course of how long.

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Speaker 2: It's been about it's been about soll June right now,

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Speaker 2: it's been about a little over a years since we

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Speaker 2: started dating. We have had like our issue choose every

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Speaker 2: every here and there because obviously like cultural differences and

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Speaker 1: What have what have been the issues that you guys

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Speaker 1: have had to work out?

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Speaker 2: Uh and uh okay. So basically, like she she's a

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Speaker 2: out late and drinking and all those other things, like

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Speaker 2: she does it pretty consistently. She's very She connects a

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Speaker 2: and obviously like in return, they'll like like they'll go

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Speaker 2: they'll go golfing things like that. Sometimes she'll also travel

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Speaker 1: Your girlfriend sounds like the kind of you know, it's funny, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's kind of where we're Yeah, that's that's

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Speaker 1: I mean, what's this?

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Speaker 2: What's this?

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Speaker 1: What's this job?

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Speaker 2: I don't want to get too too personal.

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Speaker 1: But I don't have to get the person. But what's

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Speaker 1: I mean, what like, what is it just like some

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, it's I guess I can kind of

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Speaker 2: And like I said, it pays pretty well. I work.

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Speaker 2: So that's how I had stayed over there.

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Speaker 1: Okay, And as an in person gig.

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Speaker 2: It is in person I drive a like class B

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Speaker 1: Also, what's the plan if you moved to Japan?

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Speaker 1: What can you even get a job? Like you know,

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Speaker 1: like a visa, like have you looked into like, because

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So there's a few pathways that her and I

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Speaker 2: or I would have to come back to America. I

435
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 2: am currently like trying to study to get a software

436
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:31,160
Speaker 2: engineering degree, so I could potentially find a like remote

437
00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 2: job and then obviously go to the language school, so

438
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:39,080
Speaker 2: I can kind of work as a software engineer, as

439
00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:41,240
Speaker 2: you know, for a Japanese based company, or.

440
00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 1: I mean for a Japanese based either you say for

441
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:46,200
Speaker 1: a US company, because that would be like a I

442
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 1: mean that's like the cheat code for doing shit.

443
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:52,639
Speaker 2: Well well yeah, but like like yeah, get paid in

444
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:56,480
Speaker 2: an American currency, but like having the skill to be

445
00:25:56,520 --> 00:26:00,439
Speaker 2: able to use like the Japanese language and like English

446
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 2: language as well. So Okay, that's kind of like the

447
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:04,959
Speaker 2: secondary planned.

448
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:09,359
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, but I'm no, I'm glad we talked about it.

449
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:13,719
Speaker 1: But this doesn't sound like a logistical thing. This is

450
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:18,359
Speaker 1: like this is more of an emotional thing. This is

451
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 1: more of like a guttural thing. Do you want to

452
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:26,359
Speaker 1: have kids with this woman? Do you want to like

453
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 1: build a whole life together? Is that the plan?

454
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 3: Ah?

455
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:32,200
Speaker 2: See, I would love to. I would love to. I

456
00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:36,199
Speaker 2: I love her. I definitely want to marry her. But

457
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:39,639
Speaker 2: the lifestyle thing, I don't know if she's willing to

458
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 2: like slow her life down right now and kind of

459
00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 2: settle in, you know, so I kind of have to

460
00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 2: wait for her in a sense.

461
00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 1: Oh but that but I mean, yeah, but you're fucking thirty.

462
00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:58,600
Speaker 1: You know, she's what thirty.

463
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:04,400
Speaker 2: Three Actu's gonna be thirty three this year. Okay, I'm

464
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 2: taking you know what I mean, Like it's we're not

465
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 2: getting any younger. But at the same time, like I

466
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:12,320
Speaker 2: don't want to rush into into kids either, Like.

467
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:18,400
Speaker 1: Dude, that's the tough thing. And this is and dude, dude,

468
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 1: I've had I've had this problem. Like this is the

469
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 1: hard thing about this, Like overseas stuff is it's like

470
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 1: the toughest thing about it is that everything about it

471
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 1: just feels like it's a It feels like it's a

472
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 1: very all I have no if by the way, because

473
00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:44,359
Speaker 1: this is like a thing I've like dealt with, Like

474
00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 1: I don't actually have an answer for you. I can

475
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 1: I can merely ponder it. I can merely ponder it

476
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 1: for you with you. The toughest thing about this is

477
00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 1: like the it's scary because it's like a it's such

478
00:27:56,600 --> 00:28:01,480
Speaker 1: an all or nothing thing. Like in order for it

479
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 1: to like these things, they they they require these really

480
00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 1: scary like leaps of faith. Right Like if you were

481
00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:14,080
Speaker 1: just like dating a lady in Illinois, like who lived

482
00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 1: in this fucking city and you lived in the suburbs

483
00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 1: and your distance was an hour away, it's like, okay,

484
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 1: we can like slowly build our relationship and figure out

485
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:27,600
Speaker 1: these problems and stuff. But when you got you know,

486
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 1: a lady in Japan, it's like, if we're doing this,

487
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 1: we're fucking doing this, you know, Like uh like, if

488
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,680
Speaker 1: we're getting married, we're getting married. If we're you know,

489
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:37,920
Speaker 1: if I'm moving a move like it like in order,

490
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:40,200
Speaker 1: it's it's hard to have like a relationship like this

491
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 1: where it requires big leaps of faith and big moves

492
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 1: to do it. But I will I will say that,

493
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 1: and and I and I I empathize with you on that.

494
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:59,000
Speaker 1: It's really like kind of tough and scary. I will

495
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:03,880
Speaker 1: say this though, if you believe in your gut a

496
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 1: that you actually no, if you believe in your gut

497
00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:09,040
Speaker 1: A that you love this woman, I mean, that's easy.

498
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:12,040
Speaker 1: You know, love, love is love is love is kind

499
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 1: of the easiest equation of a relationship. I think, you know,

500
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:19,600
Speaker 1: because love is love love love love doesn't really take anything.

501
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 1: You can love like you can love someone you don't

502
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 1: have to be in the same room with them. Like

503
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 1: love is easy. You know. Commitment is difficult, Uh, logistics

504
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 1: are difficult. Maintaining relationship is difficult. But the question is, Okay,

505
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 1: do you love her? You know? A, I mean that's

506
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 1: the easy one. And then b do you feel in

507
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:48,960
Speaker 1: your gut that like she's your partner, Like she's the

508
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:52,480
Speaker 1: one you want to do this with? You know, if

509
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:54,800
Speaker 1: you feel in your gut you're like, she's fucking like

510
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 1: when you look, like when you think about her, are

511
00:29:57,200 --> 00:30:01,600
Speaker 1: you like she's fucking awesome? She's so great. I would.

512
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 1: I want her to be the mother of my children.

513
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 1: I think she's an amazing person. I think she's so cool.

514
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 1: I think she's like I respect her so much, I

515
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:17,040
Speaker 1: admire her so much. I'm you know, like all that shit,

516
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 1: that's the shit you really want to be making sure

517
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:25,240
Speaker 1: you're in tune with, Like we're aligned on that stuff.

518
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:32,760
Speaker 1: Because for every relationship, you have to decide what you're

519
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 1: willing to put up with or make work. And so

520
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:42,520
Speaker 1: you should ask yourself, like what your gut is saying

521
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 1: to you and what you can give full body yes?

522
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 1: Like like go like, ask yourself several questions and figure

523
00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:54,640
Speaker 1: out which of these questions am I giving a full

524
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:57,240
Speaker 1: body yes? Two? And then which of these questions am

525
00:30:57,280 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 1: I hesitant about? Like you like you asked you literally

526
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,840
Speaker 1: stuff like the easy one. Do I love her full body?

527
00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:03,120
Speaker 2: Yes?

528
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:06,600
Speaker 1: I love her? That's easy. Do I give a full

529
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:10,240
Speaker 1: body yes to she'd be a great mom? Do I

530
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:13,880
Speaker 1: have a full body yes? Too? We have similar values.

531
00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 1: Do I give a full body yes to? I deeply

532
00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:19,000
Speaker 1: admire her? You know, do I give a full body

533
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 1: yes to? All of these other things? And then if

534
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:26,160
Speaker 1: you can give a full body yes to like most

535
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 1: of that stuff. Then everything else you gotta go, Like

536
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 1: you know, I mean this, I mean this house. Who

537
00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:36,960
Speaker 1: gives to be Frank, Who gives a fuck about this house?

538
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Like it's a fucking house,

539
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:41,480
Speaker 1: like you like you can rent it out, you can

540
00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 1: sell it, like who gives a fuck? Right, Like, that's

541
00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 1: not the This house is kind of a stupid thing

542
00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:51,360
Speaker 1: to me because it's it's nothing. It's like a it's

543
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 1: a minor money thing that has like very logistical, easy

544
00:31:56,160 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 1: to solve solution if you had deep RELI even the job,

545
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 1: I mean job is a little different, but like fucking

546
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,680
Speaker 1: even the job is like whatever, you can figure out

547
00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 1: how to find some fucking job. Like do you have

548
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 1: deep relationships? Deep connections? Deep? Like do you fucking are

549
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 1: you absolutely, full body, deeply in love with Naperville, Illinois?

550
00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 3: You know?

551
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:27,200
Speaker 1: And you might be. You might maybe your parents are there,

552
00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 1: Maybe I don't. I don't know, you haven't really I don't.

553
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:31,479
Speaker 1: But but also the fact that I the fact that,

554
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 1: like when when I asked you what's going on in

555
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:37,240
Speaker 1: the suburbs of Illinois, you didn't bring up, Oh, my

556
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:39,840
Speaker 1: parents are there, and I want to be close with them. Oh,

557
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:42,680
Speaker 1: I have such a great friend group in Illinois. I

558
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 1: want to be you brought up this like house, It's like,

559
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:46,520
Speaker 1: what the fuck is this house? Who gives a fuck

560
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 1: about that? You know a lot of that's just kind

561
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 1: of like fear shit. But the question, the questions I

562
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:55,080
Speaker 1: would really be asking if I was you, is like,

563
00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 1: what are you? What are you in like full alignment

564
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 1: with in terms of like your relationship with this lady.

565
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:06,560
Speaker 2: You know, well like a full body yes too, Like

566
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:09,680
Speaker 2: a lot of things about her, I can I can

567
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:12,120
Speaker 2: list many things. One of the things I do have

568
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 2: an issue with like she takes a lot of naps.

569
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:21,200
Speaker 1: No you can No, that's you can work through that, dude.

570
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:25,760
Speaker 1: She takes a go yeah, yeah, yeah, she takes a

571
00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 1: lot of naps.

572
00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:28,280
Speaker 2: So like sometimes it was really nice when I was

573
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:29,680
Speaker 2: over there and I'd be like, hey, like let's go,

574
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:31,520
Speaker 2: let's go for a walk or something like let's go

575
00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 2: walk the dog, and she'd like, oh, I want to

576
00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 2: take a nap, and she naps for like a couple

577
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:37,440
Speaker 2: like three four hours. I was just kind of like,

578
00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 2: that's kind of our day, which which sucks, but like

579
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:42,480
Speaker 2: you said, it's it's whatever. Man.

580
00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 1: Oh my God, dude, No, that's a thing. That that's

581
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 1: a that's easy. That's so we'd let her, let her

582
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:49,680
Speaker 1: take a nap and then go for a walk.

583
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 2: Right right.

584
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:51,360
Speaker 1: Yeah.

585
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:53,240
Speaker 2: No, I caught myself a lot of the times where

586
00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 2: she was like, oh, like I'm gonna take a nap,

587
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 2: and I'm like, okay, I'm gonna go to the gym,

588
00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:58,520
Speaker 2: you know, something like that, or like i'd take your

589
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:00,400
Speaker 2: dog for a walk or something like that, or I'd

590
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:02,400
Speaker 2: go for a coffee shop if she wanted to sleep

591
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:04,840
Speaker 2: in or you know. So it's like I never really

592
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 2: found like a big issue with that, you know. But

593
00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:09,239
Speaker 2: when I was like, like, you know, a few times

594
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:10,680
Speaker 2: I'd be like, hey, like let's go do this, and

595
00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:12,080
Speaker 2: she'd be like no, Like I wanted to get to

596
00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:16,440
Speaker 2: have some like I said, very minor thing. But besides that,

597
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:20,879
Speaker 2: like she's she's very kind, she's very intelligent, she's very

598
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:25,920
Speaker 2: hard working. She's got such an amazing personality. And like

599
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:30,319
Speaker 2: when I had gotten sick when I was over there,

600
00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:32,480
Speaker 2: I had like really bad like stomach virus like the

601
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:34,400
Speaker 2: whole time, and she was worried about me. She was

602
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:37,600
Speaker 2: like trying to help me out, like offering me to

603
00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:43,040
Speaker 2: get medicine intern Yeah, I in turn I did the

604
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:47,280
Speaker 2: same thing. Yeah, so like I'm willing to give everything

605
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:51,719
Speaker 2: up for her. It's just like like you said, it's

606
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:54,719
Speaker 2: a scary leap of faith because thing.

607
00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 1: But again, the like naps, you know what, I like,

608
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:01,520
Speaker 1: I'm talking I'm talking about like real I'm talking about

609
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:05,759
Speaker 1: like like I'm talking about real I'm talking about real shit,

610
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:10,360
Speaker 1: like like like are you real real ship? Real shit is?

611
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:15,400
Speaker 1: Like do you both have the same like real ship is? Like?

612
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:17,840
Speaker 1: Are you both physically attracted to each other? If that

613
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:20,360
Speaker 1: matters to you? If you are you both physically attracted

614
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 1: to each other? Do you like hanging out with each other?

615
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:27,120
Speaker 1: Do you have similar ish ways of looking at the

616
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:30,840
Speaker 1: world and problems? Do you have similar ish ways that

617
00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:33,880
Speaker 1: you want to like live a life? Do have similar

618
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 1: ish timelines for marriage and family?

619
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:38,560
Speaker 2: You know?

620
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:40,879
Speaker 1: I mean everything else is bullshit like naps. I mean

621
00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 1: you know whatever, if like like, if the big things

622
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 1: align and the things that aren't taking you out of

623
00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 1: uh uh Naperville, Illinois are like real, which then you

624
00:35:56,320 --> 00:35:58,879
Speaker 1: know So I'm I'm not I'm not. I'm not here

625
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 1: to tell you what to make your decision about. But

626
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:02,279
Speaker 1: like if if I were in your shoes and I

627
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 1: have been in your shoes like that, those are the

628
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:05,399
Speaker 1: things I'd be thinking about.

629
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, so what is it that you mentioned? So a

630
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:12,880
Speaker 2: lot of the times, like I guess one of the

631
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:15,120
Speaker 2: things that I did kind of an issue with. Like,

632
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:18,360
Speaker 2: so I like to talk through our problems, right, so

633
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 2: if there's something that bothers me, I typically try to

634
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:24,160
Speaker 2: bring it up, right, and we discussed it and we

635
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 2: talk about it. Yeah, but the way she these things,

636
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:29,600
Speaker 2: it would be more of like, well, if it's not

637
00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:31,880
Speaker 2: a big deal, then just kind of let it go,

638
00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:36,120
Speaker 2: you know. So that that's something that we've we struggled

639
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:39,480
Speaker 2: with a little bit because like I would try to

640
00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:41,319
Speaker 2: bring something up and she would take it as an

641
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:43,360
Speaker 2: argument and I'd be like like, I'm just trying to

642
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:47,480
Speaker 2: explain what bothered me here, and she was like, well,

643
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:50,480
Speaker 2: there's somethings that like you did that bothered me. And

644
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 2: she's like, but I didn't bring them up because well.

645
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 1: Yes, you know it's it's not important dude. Yeah, No,

646
00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 1: this lady is a genius because you got to pick

647
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 1: your But I also I really feel like in a relationship,

648
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:07,880
Speaker 1: you have to pick your battles. I believe that deeply,

649
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. That's that's why I side

650
00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:13,400
Speaker 1: with her on that. I believe in a relationship you

651
00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:18,520
Speaker 1: must pick your battles, like every like, because there's little

652
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:22,319
Speaker 1: things that, like everyone's gonna have, like the naps thing, right,

653
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:24,759
Speaker 1: Like everyone's gonna have little things that pissed each each

654
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:25,520
Speaker 1: other off by each other.

655
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:26,200
Speaker 2: But like.

656
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:29,879
Speaker 1: You should should I think in a relationship, you should

657
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:37,080
Speaker 1: strategically pick your battles as to what is a big

658
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 1: deal for you, do you know what I mean. That's

659
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 1: why I'm on her side with that.

660
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I've definitely gotten a lot better at it. Like,

661
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 2: if there's something small that would bother me, like I

662
00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:50,799
Speaker 2: just kind of like water up a ducks back, I

663
00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:53,040
Speaker 2: just kind of like let it go. If it's something

664
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:54,919
Speaker 2: a little bit bigger, you know, I'll try to bring

665
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:58,800
Speaker 2: it up. But besides that, like we've kind of moved

666
00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 2: past it. There is a little bit of a language

667
00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 2: barrier obviously when it came to us communicating like those

668
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:08,880
Speaker 2: issues before. But I've kind of learned to simplify my

669
00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:12,480
Speaker 2: wording a little bit, and you know, it kind of

670
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:16,040
Speaker 2: makes things a little bit easier because obviously she knows

671
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:18,720
Speaker 2: more English than I know Japanese, so we mainly speak

672
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:20,799
Speaker 2: in English, so I kind of have to tone it

673
00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:24,319
Speaker 2: down a little bit. So when it comes to those things,

674
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:29,040
Speaker 2: I have gotten definitely gotten a lot better. And but

675
00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:31,600
Speaker 2: like like I said, the only other thing is just

676
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 2: like her her lifestyle that she that she lives, which

677
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:37,800
Speaker 2: you know, it's like I said, it's it's a little

678
00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:41,839
Speaker 2: difficult for me, but I'm like, I'm trying my best

679
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:42,879
Speaker 2: to kind of be okay with it.

680
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:46,120
Speaker 1: You know, It's an interesting thing when you're dating someone

681
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:51,080
Speaker 1: who English is not their native language, is you have

682
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:58,560
Speaker 1: this thing of like little nuance, Like you're more likely,

683
00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 1: I feel like, to be taken at complete face value

684
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 1: in everything that you say. Like little nuances are not

685
00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:14,960
Speaker 1: they don't come across as much, and that depending on

686
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:19,080
Speaker 1: who you are and like kind of the situation, there

687
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:25,080
Speaker 1: are pros to that and cons to that. Yeah, you

688
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:27,280
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like, like for example, if you like,

689
00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:31,439
Speaker 1: like if you're tired and you say I'm tired, it's

690
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 1: pretty like you know, if it's not like, oh, if

691
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 1: you say I'm tired in like a slightly bitchy way,

692
00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:41,279
Speaker 1: that that that like that you'll that she'll interpret it

693
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:45,319
Speaker 1: as like you're trying to like you mean something, and

694
00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:47,800
Speaker 1: like it's more likely you'll be taking a face value

695
00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 1: and like there's something kind of nice about that. But

696
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:53,799
Speaker 1: then the flip side of it is like when you

697
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:59,400
Speaker 1: do want to communicate in in these like nuanced ways,

698
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 1: it is a a little trickier.

699
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:05,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's that. That is something that it took a

700
00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:08,680
Speaker 2: little bit of adjusting because sometimes she would like say

701
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:11,799
Speaker 2: things and the way she would say them would come

702
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:14,319
Speaker 2: kind of come off a little harsh, and she was like, oh,

703
00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:16,360
Speaker 2: like I didn't I didn't mean it like that, but

704
00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:19,800
Speaker 2: like for me, for us, like the way that she

705
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:22,200
Speaker 2: would say it was like very direct, you know, and

706
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 2: I was just kind of like taken aback by it.

707
00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 2: I was, yeah, of course, it's just a little here

708
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:27,960
Speaker 2: and there.

709
00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, of course. But you get you kind of get

710
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 1: used to that because you you have to. You have

711
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:37,239
Speaker 1: to understand that, like, uh, they're not so they're not

712
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:40,400
Speaker 1: trying to do that. That's just like their understanding of

713
00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:44,000
Speaker 1: that that they just it's just a little nuances are

714
00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:50,760
Speaker 1: are I I there was this girl I was dating

715
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:56,680
Speaker 1: a while ago, and she would like we would text

716
00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 1: and she would respond to some of my texts and

717
00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:04,360
Speaker 1: just say like and okay, you know, and do you

718
00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 1: know what like like if you're like with that, like

719
00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:09,600
Speaker 1: another American person, like if they just say like sure,

720
00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:14,400
Speaker 1: it kind of sounds like they're being passive aggressive in

721
00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:17,359
Speaker 1: a text, right, And like we met, like I tried

722
00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:19,640
Speaker 1: to explain this to her, and she felt like bad.

723
00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:22,239
Speaker 1: She was like, oh, I didn't realize that was like

724
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:25,360
Speaker 1: the vibe that I was communic, Like I feel like

725
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:27,360
Speaker 1: I like rocked her world with like just the not

726
00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:28,880
Speaker 1: She was like, oh fuck, how many people have I

727
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:32,680
Speaker 1: been like accidentally being passive aggressive too? Just because I

728
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 1: didn't know the little the little nuance of like suore

729
00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:37,319
Speaker 1: you know.

730
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:41,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, and see, like one thing that I do to

731
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:44,319
Speaker 2: kind of like help, like we just add like a

732
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:46,920
Speaker 2: bunch of little we we use Line, which is like

733
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 2: their main messaging app. We use like a lot of

734
00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:52,200
Speaker 2: the little emojis or whatever they use over there to

735
00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:55,000
Speaker 2: kind of like soften those nuances so they know, like

736
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:57,320
Speaker 2: if so she knows I'm not being like too aggressive

737
00:41:57,360 --> 00:42:02,359
Speaker 2: and vice versa, you know. So, but yeah, I mean

738
00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 2: besides that, like the relationship is it's going, you know,

739
00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:08,200
Speaker 2: it's cool.

740
00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:09,759
Speaker 1: Man, And it's cool. It's cool. I mean it's hard.

741
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:13,160
Speaker 1: It's hard because yeah, it takes these kinds of things.

742
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:18,920
Speaker 1: They they're like they really require like full send leaps

743
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:22,480
Speaker 1: of faith to make work. And that's it's hard and scary.

744
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:23,880
Speaker 1: Tell you know, I get I get you.

745
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like what are some ways that I would I

746
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 2: could use to like cope with the late night outings

747
00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:34,400
Speaker 2: so to speak, because like in a couple of months,

748
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:37,319
Speaker 2: like es actually like she's going, yeah, like she's going

749
00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 2: to Costa Rica. It's gonna be her and like one

750
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:45,880
Speaker 2: other dude, which is like to me, that's uncomfortable, but

751
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:48,759
Speaker 2: and like I want to trust it, I really do,

752
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:51,719
Speaker 2: and I try my best to have one hundred percent face.

753
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 2: It's just this dude.

754
00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:59,319
Speaker 1: You you you know, like you a girl doesn't even

755
00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:01,600
Speaker 1: have to be a girl friend for that, Like you

756
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:06,200
Speaker 1: know when a girl likes you, you know what I mean?

757
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 1: Like you know you know? Do you know what I mean?

758
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:13,040
Speaker 1: Like you've lived life, You've been in crushes, relate, like

759
00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:15,920
Speaker 1: forget about a relationship, forget about wife, like you just

760
00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:19,880
Speaker 1: you know when a girl likes you and when she

761
00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:25,480
Speaker 1: doesn't like you? And if you know that a girl

762
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:29,680
Speaker 1: likes you, That's kind of all I think you need

763
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 1: to know. And if you know that, that's that's I

764
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:37,600
Speaker 1: just feel like that's all you need to know. I

765
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:42,120
Speaker 1: don't know, maybe I have different views about this kind

766
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 1: of stuff, but like because I'm not I'm not a

767
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:52,920
Speaker 1: preticularly jealous person, I don't think but like.

768
00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 2: It.

769
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:57,560
Speaker 1: You know, I don't like it like you. I mean,

770
00:43:57,560 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 1: that's all I have to say, man, is like, don't

771
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:04,280
Speaker 1: because you don't want your Because if you love someone

772
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:06,360
Speaker 1: and you know that they love you, and you know

773
00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:08,319
Speaker 1: that they like you, just like kind of I feel

774
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:10,880
Speaker 1: like you should just let that be the thing. And

775
00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:13,279
Speaker 1: then any other like, oh, is she cheating on me

776
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 1: with this like guy that like her work sent her

777
00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 1: to be with, like by pure nature of the fact

778
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:25,279
Speaker 1: that like it's just her and like a guy, Like

779
00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 1: it's not even like like we don't even know anything

780
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:30,760
Speaker 1: about this guy, Like it's just some dude from her work.

781
00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:35,719
Speaker 1: Like I think the fact that your auntsy about just

782
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:38,760
Speaker 1: the fact that she is going out to Puerto Rico

783
00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 1: with another guy just because he's a literally just because

784
00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:46,279
Speaker 1: he's of the opposite sex, is like, you know, it's

785
00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:47,919
Speaker 1: a lot it puts a lot of pressure on her,

786
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:49,759
Speaker 1: and you know, and you wouldn't want and if you

787
00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:55,920
Speaker 1: were in that position, you wouldn't want her to be

788
00:44:56,320 --> 00:45:02,520
Speaker 1: feeling like she's you know, not control. Yeah, kind of control.

789
00:45:02,640 --> 00:45:06,239
Speaker 1: Can I like kind of controlled in some way, shape

790
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 1: or form.

791
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:13,360
Speaker 2: Right, But you know it. You know a lot of

792
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:17,839
Speaker 2: people have given me advice on my perspective, so it's

793
00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:20,960
Speaker 2: really it's really helpful that you kind of put it

794
00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 2: in perspective of her that she said, you're kind of

795
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:25,880
Speaker 2: doing this.

796
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:28,480
Speaker 1: Did you have a lot of Did you have like

797
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 1: a ton of your guy friends being like she's fucking

798
00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:33,560
Speaker 1: cheating on you?

799
00:45:33,600 --> 00:45:36,840
Speaker 2: No? No, No, it's it was just like for me

800
00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 2: and my therapist, like we were just trying to understand

801
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:44,240
Speaker 2: exactly like because like I said, she's a freelance worker,

802
00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:45,799
Speaker 2: so a lot of these people that she'll meet, like

803
00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:47,439
Speaker 2: she has to go out and meet on her own.

804
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:50,200
Speaker 2: So we're just trying to understand like the their cultural

805
00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:53,439
Speaker 2: aspects of it. And then like a lot of it,

806
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:55,880
Speaker 2: it just comes down to like what I'm used to

807
00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 2: and what I'm not used to. Like I like in

808
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:01,279
Speaker 2: my relationships in the past, like I would not go

809
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:04,480
Speaker 2: out with another woman for work or for fun, you know,

810
00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:07,560
Speaker 2: just to go drink and have karaoke with out of

811
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 2: respect for my partner, you know, So for her to

812
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:12,480
Speaker 2: do something like this, oh.

813
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:14,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, Yeah that makes yeah, yes, yes, yes,

814
00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:17,600
Speaker 1: that makes sense. Yeah you would not, Yes, that makes

815
00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:19,880
Speaker 1: I give what you said. Like, yes, in America, like

816
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:22,839
Speaker 1: if if you had like a female I totally give

817
00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:25,279
Speaker 1: you a minute. If you had a female coworker just

818
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:28,799
Speaker 1: be like or a female boss, just be like, hey,

819
00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:34,360
Speaker 1: let's just you and me get uh drinks after work

820
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 1: and do karaoke together, and you went, your wife would

821
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:42,000
Speaker 1: totally be like what the fuck? And yes, it's different,

822
00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:45,120
Speaker 1: but it's a weird. Yeah, it's a weird. There's like

823
00:46:45,120 --> 00:46:49,560
Speaker 1: a culturally thing there where it's like doing that as

824
00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 1: like part of working.

825
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:55,720
Speaker 2: Right. So that's the struggle that I've been trying to overcome,

826
00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:59,440
Speaker 2: is just the cultural aspect of different relationships where she

827
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:01,759
Speaker 2: sees it as just these are just my friends and

828
00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:04,560
Speaker 2: this is like business, where I see it as like,

829
00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:07,879
Speaker 2: you know, in America, you don't necessarily do that if

830
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:11,360
Speaker 2: you come home late from drinking with like a person

831
00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:13,319
Speaker 2: of the opposite sex and you're home at like three

832
00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:17,840
Speaker 2: o'clock in the morning. That's you know, grounds for questioning

833
00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 2: like what the fuck, like why are you coming home

834
00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:22,799
Speaker 2: so late? You know. So that's that's the issue that

835
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:24,799
Speaker 2: I've been trying to kind of like work through and

836
00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 2: overcome obviously because I don't I'm not. I try my best,

837
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:32,080
Speaker 2: like could not be controlling because she's her own person,

838
00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 2: she lives her own life. It's just like trying to

839
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:39,720
Speaker 2: overcome myself in these thoughts that I have when she's

840
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:44,000
Speaker 2: out either on trips or you know, on late nights.

841
00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:46,239
Speaker 1: Well, listen, we'll wrap this up in a second, but

842
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:50,799
Speaker 1: I'll just say from where I sit, it's kind of

843
00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:54,920
Speaker 1: as simple as like, if you if you feel really

844
00:47:55,239 --> 00:48:00,319
Speaker 1: gutturally aligned, and if you feel like if you've feel

845
00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:06,480
Speaker 1: gutturally aligned with this lady in all of the aspects

846
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:09,840
Speaker 1: that are like actually important, not like the fucking naps

847
00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:11,760
Speaker 1: or the house or whatever. If you feel like gutta

848
00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:17,320
Speaker 1: really aligned with all the important aspects, you can kind

849
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:20,200
Speaker 1: of work through everything else. That's that's kind of how

850
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:26,320
Speaker 1: I feel. What's your name again, man, Rudy, Rudy, Rudy Juliani, Yes, Rudy.

851
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:29,320
Speaker 2: Oh and by the way, I had called your show before.

852
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:32,279
Speaker 2: I believe it was three years ago. I called under

853
00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:37,839
Speaker 2: a different name. It was under Johnny I had I

854
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:40,200
Speaker 2: was the guy that was like in that Monica dating

855
00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:43,640
Speaker 2: sim thing. After our phone call, I kind of I

856
00:48:43,719 --> 00:48:47,960
Speaker 2: kind of got my my ship together and wait.

857
00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:48,640
Speaker 1: You the fucking what You're the fucking guy who was

858
00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:50,960
Speaker 1: dating who was dating an Ai chat.

859
00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:55,480
Speaker 2: BoNT uh uh uh somewhat yeah, like the dokie dokey

860
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:57,479
Speaker 2: literal literature club thing.

861
00:48:57,960 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 1: Oh fucking ship dude, Yeah, yes, I remember that. Oh

862
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:05,040
Speaker 1: fucking you have like a real girlfriend now.

863
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. I changed the trajectory of my life after that. Uh,

864
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:19,399
Speaker 2: after that phone call, man, Yeah, after that, I kind

865
00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:21,520
Speaker 2: of like I went to the gym for a little bit.

866
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:25,279
Speaker 2: I kind of looked like back at our phone call,

867
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:28,200
Speaker 2: and then I started planning a solo trip to like Hawaii.

868
00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:32,200
Speaker 2: Uh after we talked, because I was like, fuck, man,

869
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:34,719
Speaker 2: like what am I doing with my life? I kind

870
00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:38,280
Speaker 2: of have to start doing something differently. And then because

871
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:40,319
Speaker 2: of you, I kind of decided to go on that

872
00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:44,160
Speaker 2: trip and then it just kind of went from there. Dude,

873
00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:44,920
Speaker 2: So thank you.

874
00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:51,080
Speaker 1: Holy shit, I'm so I'm so happy. I mean, I

875
00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:55,839
Speaker 1: am so delighted to be part of your AI girlfriend

876
00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:59,440
Speaker 1: to real girlfriend pipeline. That brings me so much joy,

877
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:01,040
Speaker 1: That brings me.

878
00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:04,319
Speaker 2: So much to do it. Oh yeah, man, thank you

879
00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:05,200
Speaker 2: so much, dude.

880
00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:07,000
Speaker 1: Yeah I remember the Yeah there was like twenty twenty two. Yeah,

881
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:10,040
Speaker 1: I totally remember that. Okay, Dan, Hell yeah, Okay. This

882
00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:11,719
Speaker 1: is one of the this is one of those instances

883
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:13,440
Speaker 1: where I'm like, this is a great this is a

884
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:19,719
Speaker 1: perfect return caller episode here. Okay, cool man, Well, let

885
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:21,239
Speaker 1: me know what you end up doing. I'm curious, call

886
00:50:21,320 --> 00:50:25,120
Speaker 1: me back in, call me back in three years, and

887
00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:27,680
Speaker 1: let me know if you're if you're living the beautiful, uh,

888
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:31,160
Speaker 1: the beautiful Japan life. Is there anything else you want

889
00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:33,040
Speaker 1: to say to the people of the computer before we go, Rudy?

890
00:50:34,680 --> 00:50:37,759
Speaker 2: Could I give her a Instagram a shout out? Because

891
00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:39,720
Speaker 2: like she she's a teacher, so she kind of relies

892
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:43,200
Speaker 2: on like students to like book her classes and stuff.

893
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:44,960
Speaker 2: I'd kind of like to help her out a little

894
00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:47,280
Speaker 2: bit if people can kind of go on like her videos.

895
00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:48,480
Speaker 2: Are you okay with that?

896
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:51,239
Speaker 1: Or well, I mean I'm I mean I'm okay with that,

897
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:54,759
Speaker 1: but I'm also like this, like is she cool with

898
00:50:54,920 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 1: like a bunch of random folks, Like, I mean, I

899
00:50:58,120 --> 00:51:01,800
Speaker 1: guess if she posts videos publicly, then it's fair game.

900
00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:03,080
Speaker 1: Like is she cool with that?

901
00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:06,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean she's been trying to post like on

902
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 2: Instagram more so she can try to get new students.

903
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:12,279
Speaker 2: So even if she gets one person or something like,

904
00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:13,840
Speaker 2: I just want to make sure it's okay with you.

905
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:16,640
Speaker 1: If it is, I mean, it's okay if she if

906
00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:18,960
Speaker 1: she's cool with being like you know what, I guess

907
00:51:19,080 --> 00:51:20,399
Speaker 1: boxed or whatever.

908
00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 2: Then I approach should have asked her. Fuck, I mean,

909
00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:28,879
Speaker 2: but it is public, you.

910
00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:30,880
Speaker 1: Know what, you know what for the let's do for

911
00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:33,439
Speaker 1: the sake of the fact that we've given out, let's

912
00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:36,000
Speaker 1: not let's not do it. If it was your Instagram,

913
00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:37,920
Speaker 1: I'd be like, fine, but because it's hers, let's not

914
00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:38,279
Speaker 1: do it.

915
00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:41,759
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, sounds fair, sounds fair. In three years and

916
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:44,000
Speaker 2: three years, if everything goes well, I'll have a talk

917
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:46,399
Speaker 2: with her and then I'll call back and then I'll

918
00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:46,920
Speaker 2: shout her out.

919
00:51:46,920 --> 00:51:51,040
Speaker 1: Then okay, swag. Thank you, Rudy, good luck, man, take.

920
00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:57,440
Speaker 2: Care, Thank you so much, you as well. Man. Forever, ready, foreveray, forever.

921
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:03,839
Speaker 1: That was Rudy. Rudy's a nice guy, good, good fella.

922
00:52:04,520 --> 00:52:08,839
Speaker 1: I hope I hope he figures it out. I don't know. Yeah,

923
00:52:08,880 --> 00:52:10,840
Speaker 1: a lot of the fuck because that was I don't know.

924
00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:12,560
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna repeat a bunch of shit I already said.

925
00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:17,600
Speaker 1: But yeah, whatever, I don't have any post call thoughts.

926
00:52:17,600 --> 00:52:21,400
Speaker 1: I would just repeat everything I said. Go watch Chalk Zone.

927
00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:24,800
Speaker 1: Let me what's what year did chalk Zone come out?

928
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:29,720
Speaker 1: Who's got the chalk chalk Zone. Rudy's got the chalk.

929
00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:37,160
Speaker 1: Rudy's got the chalk chalk. So dude, his name is

930
00:52:37,239 --> 00:52:42,279
Speaker 1: Rudy Tabooty. That's the name of the chalk Zone guy

931
00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:46,560
Speaker 1: ran for Wow, ran for six years. That's a long

932
00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:51,279
Speaker 1: that's a good run. Holy shit, two thousand and two

933
00:52:51,440 --> 00:52:59,520
Speaker 1: to two thousand and eight. Wow, this this podcast has

934
00:52:59,520 --> 00:53:04,560
Speaker 1: been running as long as chalk Zone. How about that?

935
00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:07,920
Speaker 1: Has it been running as long as chalk Zone? Now

936
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:10,520
Speaker 1: it's spring a it has not even been running as

937
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:13,400
Speaker 1: long as chock Zone. That's what we gotta do. We

938
00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:14,720
Speaker 1: gotta beat chalk Zone.

939
00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:16,520
Speaker 2: All right?

940
00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:20,479
Speaker 3: Hello, is this the geest Man?

941
00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:23,680
Speaker 1: Yes, sir, who is this?

942
00:53:23,680 --> 00:53:30,200
Speaker 3: This is chintone Man, Hell yeah, chintone Chinon, Hell yeah.

943
00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:34,680
Speaker 1: Chenton what's up? Chinton real name, but people call mechen

944
00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:38,919
Speaker 1: Cente Cente. You said, Uh, I want to talk about

945
00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:40,400
Speaker 1: how I cut my dick open.

946
00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:43,440
Speaker 3: You want to hear a story like that?

947
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:44,440
Speaker 2: Uh?

948
00:53:44,880 --> 00:53:47,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know from a guy like you, absolutely please

949
00:53:47,760 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 1: tell me everything awesome.

950
00:53:50,960 --> 00:53:54,919
Speaker 3: So this was probably so I'm with my fiance right now.

951
00:53:54,920 --> 00:53:57,320
Speaker 3: This is like when we sort of first got together.

952
00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:01,000
Speaker 3: But yeah, I was with my current fiance time, and

953
00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:03,680
Speaker 3: on my dick, I started like a get like a

954
00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:07,400
Speaker 3: little growth, almost like a pinple. She was crazy, And

955
00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:10,839
Speaker 3: it started off small, super tiny, like little pin dot,

956
00:54:11,680 --> 00:54:13,400
Speaker 3: and just like over like a month or two, it

957
00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:15,480
Speaker 3: got bigger and bigger, to the point where it was

958
00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:17,920
Speaker 3: a size a little bit bigger than your standard BB

959
00:54:18,040 --> 00:54:21,879
Speaker 3: gun like tell it. So it got to a point

960
00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:23,880
Speaker 3: where I had to, like, I didn't want to go

961
00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:26,120
Speaker 3: to the doctor and get that shit checked out. Every

962
00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:29,560
Speaker 3: time I fucked, I could feel that thing on my

963
00:54:29,640 --> 00:54:33,640
Speaker 3: penis and it was like fucking damn near middle shaft

964
00:54:33,960 --> 00:54:39,560
Speaker 3: right on top. That's it didn't hurt or anything, but

965
00:54:39,800 --> 00:54:44,040
Speaker 3: it was cool. But to get it out was a problem.

966
00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:46,560
Speaker 3: You know, I'm not sure if you ever heard of

967
00:54:46,640 --> 00:54:51,000
Speaker 3: like the doctor pimple popper. Yeah, sure, you ever seen

968
00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:51,800
Speaker 3: any of her videos?

969
00:54:51,840 --> 00:54:52,279
Speaker 2: By chance?

970
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:56,000
Speaker 1: I haven't, but I assume she doesn't do dicks.

971
00:54:56,440 --> 00:54:58,600
Speaker 3: No, I haven't seen any dicks on there, but fucking

972
00:54:58,680 --> 00:54:59,720
Speaker 3: that's where I had mine.

973
00:55:00,600 --> 00:55:04,120
Speaker 1: Oh fuck, So you had to cut open, You had

974
00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:06,200
Speaker 1: to cut open. So you had a giant pimple on

975
00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:09,320
Speaker 1: your dick and you had to cut open the pimple

976
00:55:09,400 --> 00:55:12,960
Speaker 1: or did you have to like fucking like do it?

977
00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:15,160
Speaker 1: Was it an inside job? You have to go inside

978
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:16,480
Speaker 1: of your penis to get the pimple?

979
00:55:17,560 --> 00:55:19,520
Speaker 3: It wasn't, no, no, no, So it was on the surface

980
00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 3: of my skin, so it was over. I didn't have

981
00:55:21,560 --> 00:55:24,000
Speaker 3: to go like under, like fucking under the neat or anything.

982
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:27,000
Speaker 3: So basically, so my girl had to make the first incision.

983
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:28,880
Speaker 3: She had to make the first cut because I was

984
00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:29,760
Speaker 3: too much of a pussy.

985
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:33,320
Speaker 1: Wait wait, your girl, your girlfriend just made an incision

986
00:55:33,360 --> 00:55:34,120
Speaker 1: on your penis.

987
00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:36,840
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, I got a little like little knife, like

988
00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:38,360
Speaker 3: a little exacto knife because.

989
00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:42,680
Speaker 1: You're doing amateur surgery.

990
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:43,439
Speaker 2: Yeah for real?

991
00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:47,359
Speaker 3: Actually, yeah, that's what it was. So I'm over here

992
00:55:47,360 --> 00:55:49,560
Speaker 3: button naked on the shower, like sitting on the shower

993
00:55:49,640 --> 00:55:54,040
Speaker 3: tip with my dick in my hand, and well first,

994
00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:55,799
Speaker 3: I was like, all right, well, get me hard that way,

995
00:55:55,800 --> 00:56:01,160
Speaker 3: it's easier to like manipula. She's just gonna be moving

996
00:56:01,200 --> 00:56:02,719
Speaker 3: around your girlfriend.

997
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 1: You have to pay. You have you're sitting, I love,

998
00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:12,480
Speaker 1: standing standing in the shower and you're you have your

999
00:56:12,480 --> 00:56:15,719
Speaker 1: girlfriend has a fucking exacto knife and she's gonna cut

1000
00:56:15,719 --> 00:56:17,680
Speaker 1: off the pin on your pennis and you're like, and

1001
00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:20,120
Speaker 1: you're like, hey, can you can you get me hard

1002
00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:20,919
Speaker 1: first so.

1003
00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:24,920
Speaker 3: You can cut Okay, So two minutes before I get like,

1004
00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:27,360
Speaker 3: I'm sitting on the shower tub with the knife in

1005
00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:30,359
Speaker 3: my hand, you know, and she comes in and she's

1006
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:32,040
Speaker 3: like you start doing it yet, Like, no, I'm too

1007
00:56:32,120 --> 00:56:34,400
Speaker 3: much of a pussy. So I was like, get me

1008
00:56:34,480 --> 00:56:36,799
Speaker 3: hard first, and then you know, let's do this first

1009
00:56:36,800 --> 00:56:39,600
Speaker 3: decision because it's gonna be moving around and ship. So

1010
00:56:39,640 --> 00:56:41,600
Speaker 3: I got hard. But as soon as she put blade

1011
00:56:41,600 --> 00:56:43,160
Speaker 3: to dick, plofed.

1012
00:56:42,840 --> 00:56:45,840
Speaker 1: Immediately, and you know, as one does.

1013
00:56:47,120 --> 00:56:47,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't think.

1014
00:56:47,800 --> 00:56:49,160
Speaker 3: I thought I would be able to handle it, but

1015
00:56:49,200 --> 00:56:50,680
Speaker 3: I guess I'm not inture like knife place.

1016
00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:52,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was gonna say, there's probably a lot of

1017
00:56:52,280 --> 00:56:54,920
Speaker 1: guys who that would make them harder.

1018
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:59,319
Speaker 3: But you're right right, not me, not me as soon

1019
00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:01,720
Speaker 3: as that happened, but she got the first cut in, dude,

1020
00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:03,719
Speaker 3: and I was like, all right, well, I'm in way

1021
00:57:03,760 --> 00:57:06,400
Speaker 3: too deep. I could see this thing kind of so

1022
00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:08,239
Speaker 3: I might as well keep going. And then as soon

1023
00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:10,480
Speaker 3: as I started squeezing, I realized she didn't go anywhere

1024
00:57:10,480 --> 00:57:13,120
Speaker 3: near because she had to, So I just told her.

1025
00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:14,600
Speaker 3: I told her to get the fuck out.

1026
00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:15,000
Speaker 2: And just.

1027
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:19,240
Speaker 1: How dude, how big was this fucking pimple?

1028
00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:21,000
Speaker 3: Uh?

1029
00:57:21,040 --> 00:57:21,120
Speaker 1: So?

1030
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:23,600
Speaker 3: It started off super small, like the size of any

1031
00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:26,200
Speaker 3: like little like pin dot pimple, but it grew up

1032
00:57:26,200 --> 00:57:28,360
Speaker 3: to like damn near the size of a bbe, like

1033
00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:30,480
Speaker 3: a little bit bigger, you know, like BB guns.

1034
00:57:31,000 --> 00:57:33,520
Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, that's not that big of bb.

1035
00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:36,000
Speaker 3: No, it's not that big. But I certainly felt it, dude,

1036
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:38,040
Speaker 3: when you're fucking you feel that thing. And this started

1037
00:57:38,040 --> 00:57:38,520
Speaker 3: bugging me.

1038
00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:41,680
Speaker 1: Okay, so once you uh sort of popped it or

1039
00:57:41,680 --> 00:57:44,120
Speaker 1: cut it off, like what happened? Like it did it? Heal?

1040
00:57:45,560 --> 00:57:45,680
Speaker 2: Oh?

1041
00:57:45,760 --> 00:57:45,960
Speaker 1: Well?

1042
00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:48,560
Speaker 3: I mean so at first she made that first decision,

1043
00:57:49,240 --> 00:57:51,520
Speaker 3: and I had to keep cutting down. But I got

1044
00:57:51,520 --> 00:57:53,880
Speaker 3: to a point where I got like fifty percent of

1045
00:57:53,920 --> 00:57:56,600
Speaker 3: it uncovered. And this was like a thirty minute process

1046
00:57:56,600 --> 00:57:59,960
Speaker 3: because I was shaking off, scared and shit, fucking blood everyone.

1047
00:58:02,520 --> 00:58:05,160
Speaker 3: But yeah, I just kept trying to tug it off,

1048
00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:07,200
Speaker 3: but that thing was like super glued to my fucking

1049
00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:10,600
Speaker 3: my skin. So I just had to, like, like bit

1050
00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:12,800
Speaker 3: by bit, just pull it and cut, pull it and cut.

1051
00:58:12,880 --> 00:58:15,480
Speaker 3: I butcher a lot of meat, so I knew what

1052
00:58:15,520 --> 00:58:18,640
Speaker 3: to do. But yeah, it was on me, so it

1053
00:58:18,720 --> 00:58:20,800
Speaker 3: was kind of a different change. But yeah, after I

1054
00:58:20,840 --> 00:58:22,280
Speaker 3: cut it out, I should healed up right away.

1055
00:58:22,480 --> 00:58:22,880
Speaker 2: Closed.

1056
00:58:23,240 --> 00:58:25,919
Speaker 3: I didn't need stitches or nothing. At work, I got

1057
00:58:25,960 --> 00:58:27,680
Speaker 3: like I wear I'm a mechanic, so we have like

1058
00:58:28,240 --> 00:58:31,520
Speaker 3: glue for cuts like that, not like that, but for

1059
00:58:31,680 --> 00:58:34,240
Speaker 3: cuts in general. So I just super glued that thing,

1060
00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:36,720
Speaker 3: shut it down, cleaned it up, kept it cool for

1061
00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:37,160
Speaker 3: like a week.

1062
00:58:37,400 --> 00:58:40,480
Speaker 1: Wait, I'm sorry, what are you super glue?

1063
00:58:42,160 --> 00:58:44,680
Speaker 3: Well, at my job, I have like it's like super

1064
00:58:44,680 --> 00:58:46,880
Speaker 3: glue when you get a cut, so you can like glue.

1065
00:58:46,720 --> 00:58:47,600
Speaker 2: Your wounding shut.

1066
00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:51,080
Speaker 3: So I just grewed the incisions. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you're

1067
00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:51,480
Speaker 3: not rid of it.

1068
00:58:52,400 --> 00:58:57,520
Speaker 1: You glued your own dick pimple back together.

1069
00:58:58,840 --> 00:59:00,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, well there's a little hole there because there was

1070
00:59:00,680 --> 00:59:04,680
Speaker 3: a little like sist in there after I was done,

1071
00:59:04,720 --> 00:59:07,200
Speaker 3: you know, there's still there. So I just shut it clothes,

1072
00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:08,120
Speaker 3: kept it clean.

1073
00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:09,640
Speaker 2: No more issues.

1074
00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:16,760
Speaker 1: Mmmmm, well, I'm happy to hear that you're doing well now.

1075
00:59:17,960 --> 00:59:19,880
Speaker 3: Hell yeah, I'm doing great, man, How are you doing that?

1076
00:59:20,480 --> 00:59:23,240
Speaker 1: I'm doing pretty good too. Actually, I'm doing all right.

1077
00:59:23,280 --> 00:59:25,760
Speaker 1: I'm doing okay. I'm glad to hear that your part.

1078
00:59:26,640 --> 00:59:29,200
Speaker 1: Did you feel like this had any impact upon your relationship?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 3: I mean, if it did, it was probably a good one.

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Speaker 3: I think it was one of the better memories with

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Speaker 3: me and my lady.

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Speaker 1: That's sweet.

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Speaker 3: Worst part is, though, this is when I was still

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Speaker 3: living with my parents. So I was at my parents.

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Speaker 3: I was doing this, and my mom she has like

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Speaker 3: a special wound spray that like drives out wounds pretty good,

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Speaker 3: and I need some of that stuff too, just to

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Speaker 3: help keep everything clean. As soon as I asked for it,

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Speaker 3: it was an issue. Man, she got scared.

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Speaker 2: She's like, what happened?

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Speaker 3: Would you do?

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Speaker 2: What's the problem?

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Speaker 3: Like, dude, seriously, I don't I don't want to talk

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Speaker 3: about it, but I just teach the wound spray.

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Speaker 2: What's my name?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was a good. Go ahead, finish your story

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Speaker 1: about your your mom.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, my name's Chenpe. But yeah, she she told

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Speaker 3: me she basically she wouldn't give me the wound spray

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Speaker 3: until I told her what happened. So I gave her

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Speaker 3: the whole feeling, just told her what I told you

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Speaker 3: right now, and then she hits me with the oh,

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Speaker 3: your dad gets so ah, So what do you mean

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Speaker 3: my dad gets those? And yeah, so it made sense.

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Speaker 3: Everything came to a full circle at the end.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know that's the that's that's the deterministic nature

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Speaker 1: of life hitting you right in the dick. You know

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Speaker 1: what I mean? It really it's like, that's the deterministic

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Speaker 1: nature of life hitting you in the dick, right is

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Speaker 1: you You can't decide to whom you are born in.

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Speaker 2: This world, That's exactly right.

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Speaker 1: You may you may well be. You may well have

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Speaker 1: a cursed bloodline that forces you to have pimples on

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Speaker 1: your penis occasionally.

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Speaker 3: But now one day I'm gonna have to tell my son,

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Speaker 3: Hey son, you might have a I don't know, but.

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Speaker 1: Where free will kicks in. Where free will kicks in

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Speaker 1: is the free will to choose a wonderful partner who

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Speaker 1: will be there to help you.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 1: To cut the worts off your penis. And how beautiful

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Speaker 1: is that?

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Speaker 3: That's why I put a ring on it. Man, getting

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Speaker 3: married that girl?

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Speaker 1: What a wholesome story.

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Speaker 3: What's up?

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Speaker 2: Man?

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Speaker 1: Is there anything else you want to say to the

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Speaker 1: people of the computer before we go?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 3: No, Man, just love your podcast. Been trying to get

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Speaker 3: on for a while. I think you called me like

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Speaker 3: on Monday, or I think I missed one of your calls.

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Speaker 2: Felt bad about it.

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Speaker 3: But even so, if that talks to you, Man, life's

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Speaker 3: going good. You know, no longer living at parents' house,

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Speaker 3: just about my own. I'm doing all right. We keep truckling.

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Speaker 1: Sweet, Sweet, thanks for sharing, Chente. I'll see you in

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Speaker 1: the universe.

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Speaker 2: Man, you have a blessed one.

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Speaker 1: Get that was Cente. Yeah, dude, I think I believe

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Speaker 1: in free will to some degree. Uh, there's I believe in.

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Speaker 1: Like I think life is like fifty to fifty. I

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Speaker 1: think it's fifty to fifty. There's so many things in

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Speaker 1: life you just can't control. You can't control the genetics

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Speaker 1: you were born, to where you were born, all that shit.

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Speaker 1: So you know that's life. Life is like fifty percent

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Speaker 1: of it is just it just gives you bullshit like

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Speaker 1: a like a like penis pimples, and the other fifty percent.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's it's whatever you do with that bullshit,

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Speaker 1: the choices you make to help you get through it.

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Speaker 1: I think that's what Vincente was getting at with this. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's been the Therapy Gecko podcast. Thanks for listening. My

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Speaker 1: name is Lyle. I'm a gecko. I'm a person, and.

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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Speaker 1: That's all I have to say. Oh, I guess I

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Speaker 1: have some plugs I can talk about. Please go see

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Speaker 1: my live show. I'm doing live shows. I'm touring the country.

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Speaker 1: You can get tickets at therapy geckotour dot com. I'm

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Speaker 1: doing shows all over the place. I don't know when

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Speaker 1: this episode is coming out, but I think I'll be

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Speaker 1: in the Pacific Northwest already by the time this is

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Speaker 1: this comes out, but there's a lot there's a lot

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Speaker 1: of cities, so if you live anywhere, go to therapy

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Speaker 1: geckotour dot com and check if I'm near you. You

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Speaker 1: can go to Patreon dot com slash Lyle forever to

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Speaker 1: get ad free episodes. I just uploaded a bonus episode

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Speaker 1: with Olivertree. If you guys are familiar with Oliver Tree.

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Speaker 1: I had him come on to do an episode, and

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Speaker 1: that episode is exclusively on the Patreon, Patreon dot com

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Speaker 1: slash lyle Forever. There's bonus episodes, ad free podcast, all

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Speaker 1: that stuff. But anyway, those are my little stupid plugs. Uh.

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Speaker 1: This was a good episode today. I enjoyed this. Thank

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Speaker 1: you everyone to call. Thank you to Rudy, thank you

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Speaker 1: to Vincenzo. Making me think about life. That's the secret

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Speaker 1: of the podcast, folks. It's therapy for me. It's helping

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Speaker 1: me talk through the fucking nature of our existence on

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Speaker 1: this planet. All right, I've had too many diet cokes today.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go calm down somewhere. Jack bless you guys,

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Speaker 1: see you around the universe goes on the line every

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Speaker 1: nine

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Speaker 2: Teaching Li