1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,800 Speaker 1: My husband's sister is trying to set him up with 2 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:05,520 Speaker 1: another woman, but what he said next hurt the most. 3 00:00:05,680 --> 00:00:08,320 Speaker 2: You know. Sometimes it's like she's just being a good sister. 4 00:00:08,360 --> 00:00:10,080 Speaker 2: You know, she's like, hey, look it up, you're with 5 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 2: this ugly sack of dookie when you could be with 6 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:16,079 Speaker 2: Brazilian supermodel, a Brazilian supermodel. My sister in. 7 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 1: Law, twenty three female, is my husband's twenty eight male 8 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 1: half sister. 9 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 2: She was the. 10 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:24,479 Speaker 1: Product of their mother's infidelity. His father divorced their mother 11 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 1: when he was twelve after he found out through a 12 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 1: paternity test that she wasn't his classic. My father in 13 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 1: law refused to have anything to do with my sister 14 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 1: in law, but continue to have a relationship with my husband. 15 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:37,640 Speaker 1: Because of this, sister in law is very clinging to 16 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:39,920 Speaker 1: my husband. My husband is also very protective of a 17 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 1: sister and generally doesn't tolerate anything negative being said about her, 18 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 1: which is why I'm posting this here before mentioning anything 19 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:47,959 Speaker 1: to him. My husband and I bought a house last 20 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 1: year which has an indoor swimming pool. My sister in 21 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:53,240 Speaker 1: law was super excited when she saw it and asked 22 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 1: if she could use it sometimes with her friend. We 23 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:56,960 Speaker 1: said it was fine as long as she gave us 24 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 1: notice before she turned up. Her and her friend, Chloe, 25 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 1: have used it many times before, but almost never when 26 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 1: my husband is home. He's a lawyer and works long 27 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:07,479 Speaker 1: hours with lockdown. My husband has started to work from home. 28 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 1: My sister in law asked me if she and Chloe 29 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:11,119 Speaker 1: could come over and use the pool. I told her 30 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:14,479 Speaker 1: I was uncomfortable with them coming over as I'm pregnant 31 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:17,520 Speaker 1: and don't want to accidentally expose the baby to anything risky. 32 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 2: My sister in law asked if she. 33 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 1: And Chloe quarantined for two weeks, would they be able 34 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 1: to come over. My husband said it was fine. Two 35 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:25,760 Speaker 1: weeks later, they turn up to my house. My husband 36 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 1: was in the office. They go straight to the pool 37 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 1: after making small talk. My husband ends up coming out 38 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 1: after an hour and we're hanging out in the kitchen. 39 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: My sister in law walks in to get a drink 40 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 1: and starts talking to my husband before she goes back 41 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 1: to the pool. 42 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 2: She says, Chloe's gonna be so happy to see you. 43 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 1: It was weird because my husband and Chloe aren't close. 44 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:45,480 Speaker 1: Chloe comes into the kitchen two minutes later and spends 45 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 1: the rest of the time talking to my husband until 46 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 1: he excuses himself to get back to work. She's super 47 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 1: gigly and smiley when she talks to him. He would 48 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 1: say something sarcastic and she would laugh like it's the 49 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 1: funniest joke. 50 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 2: She's ever heard. 51 00:01:57,520 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 1: Oh boy, it honestly felt she was flirting with him 52 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 1: rapa blee. Before she went back to the pool, she 53 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 1: gave me this weird, smirky look like before they leave, 54 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 1: they ask my husband if he's working from home every 55 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 1: day of the week, and he confirms that he is. 56 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:13,520 Speaker 1: The next two weeks, they come over to the house 57 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 1: to swim every single day, Oh my god, except Chloe 58 00:02:17,400 --> 00:02:19,960 Speaker 1: never gets in the water. Instead, she hangs around the 59 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:22,919 Speaker 1: house in her bikini. She was previously wearing a one piece. 60 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 1: If it makes a difference. Every single day, whenever my 61 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:28,360 Speaker 1: husband comes out to hang around me, she quickly interrupts 62 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 1: him and starts talking until he has to go back 63 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 1: to work. Oh my god, i'd your husband's I made 64 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 1: lunch for us all and when I excuse myself to 65 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 1: call my husband down, my sister in law quickly stopped 66 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 1: me and said, Chloe could call him war me. They 67 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 1: shared a look, and Chloe looked really happy when she 68 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 1: went out to get him. Loe has also started to 69 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 1: get touchier with my husband. She's put her hands on 70 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:52,799 Speaker 1: his chest and arms, stands or sits really close to him. 71 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:55,919 Speaker 1: To my husband's credit, he does usually create space between 72 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 1: them whenever she does something like this. The reason I 73 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 1: believe my sister in law is in on this is 74 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 1: because she's made a few pregnancy related jabs at me. Recently, 75 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 1: she told me a story about how one of her 76 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 1: friend's boyfriends was cheating on her and then said something 77 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 1: along the lines of did you know a lot of 78 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:12,960 Speaker 1: men start cheating when their wives are pregnant. She's also 79 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:15,080 Speaker 1: made comments about how I look chubby now and it 80 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:18,079 Speaker 1: looks weird next to my husband because he's quote unquote 81 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 1: well built, which is a weird thing to say about you, 82 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 1: my biologically related brother. If she spots my husband out 83 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 1: of the office, she quickly goes to inform Chloe, I 84 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 1: know pregnancy hormones can mess with a person's brain, so 85 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:31,679 Speaker 1: I'm wondering if I'm just looking for something that isn't there. 86 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 1: My sister in law sent me a text yesterday asking 87 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:36,200 Speaker 1: if they could swim next week, and I really want 88 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 1: to say no, but I know she'll whind to my 89 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 1: husband if I do. I ideally want to have a 90 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 1: conversation with him before then, but I'm not sure if 91 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 1: I should mention the flirting. 92 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 2: Am I being delusional? 93 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 1: And John, there's a beefy update coming in come beef, 94 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 1: But what do you think? 95 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 2: I think it's pretty clear from everything we've seen that 96 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 2: this woman is absolutely trying to do it, and the 97 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 2: sister in law is trying to, like, so the seeds 98 00:03:57,320 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 2: of it. 99 00:03:57,640 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 3: Talk to the husband and be honest. 100 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 1: This is how I'm and I imagine the husband isn't, like, 101 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 1: completely oblivious to what's happening. Yeah, I hate just have 102 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 1: an honest conversation with your husband. He seems like a 103 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 1: reasonable dude. I was trying to figure out how is 104 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 1: going to bring up the issue. 105 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 2: Turns out I didn't have to. 106 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 1: We were watching a movie and my phone lit up 107 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: with another text for my sister in law telling me 108 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 1: how she now is going to be here at one 109 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 1: pm the next day to swim with Chloe. My husband 110 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:22,559 Speaker 1: saw it and told me to tell her not to come. 111 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 1: This is really behavior from my husband, because he tends 112 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 1: to do anything to accommodate my sister in law and 113 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 1: very rarely refuses her anything. I asked him if something happened, 114 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 1: and we shrugged it off and kept watching a movie. 115 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:35,599 Speaker 1: A few minutes later, he paused the movie and said 116 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:37,920 Speaker 1: he wanted to ask me a question. He asked if 117 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 1: I noticed Chloe never swam when she came to her house. 118 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:42,919 Speaker 1: I wish I could say it was calm and collected, 119 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 1: like the comments were advising, but I ended up laughing hysterically. 120 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 1: I was honestly so relieved he brought it up instead 121 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 1: of me having to be the one to do it. 122 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:52,600 Speaker 1: I think my husband thought I was losing my mind. 123 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:55,039 Speaker 1: When I finally stopped laughing, he repeated the question and 124 00:04:55,080 --> 00:04:56,159 Speaker 1: said he wanted. 125 00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 2: A serious answer. 126 00:04:56,880 --> 00:04:59,480 Speaker 1: I said, of course I noticed, and he awkward to 127 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 1: re apply. So you must have noticed the other thing too. 128 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 1: To summarize the conversation that followed, my husband hadn't noticed 129 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 1: Chloe flirting with him the first few days because he 130 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 1: was busy with work. He wasn't really paying attention to 131 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 1: anything else. He said, when she started getting handsy is 132 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 1: when he suddenly had the light bulb moment that she 133 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:17,279 Speaker 1: was into him. He says he didn't want to unnecessarily 134 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:19,479 Speaker 1: stress me out, so he never mentioned anything, but he 135 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:22,280 Speaker 1: was worried I'd noticed too and thought he was interested 136 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:25,160 Speaker 1: because he hadn't immediately shut it down. He realized he 137 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:27,360 Speaker 1: would eventually have to have this talk, but he wasn't 138 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:29,600 Speaker 1: sure to bring it up. He did privately speak with 139 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:32,480 Speaker 1: Chloe and told her he was happily married and wasn't 140 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 1: interested in starting anything with anyone else. Apparently she never 141 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:39,360 Speaker 1: took him seriously because she kept touching his strong, sexy arm. 142 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 3: Oh God. 143 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:42,279 Speaker 1: In the end, he called his sister on Sunday to 144 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:45,160 Speaker 1: tell her either to stop or Chloe couldn't come anymore. 145 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:47,680 Speaker 1: His sister ended up having a tantrum and said a 146 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 1: few nasty things about me, the baby in our relationship. 147 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 1: She insisted I was somehow behind his request and made 148 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: some comments about how I was controlling and insecure because 149 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:59,360 Speaker 1: I looked like a beach whale compared to Chloe, who 150 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 1: was younger and hotter. He was pretty pissed at this 151 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 1: and said if she said something like that about me again, 152 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 1: he would stop speaking to her. She claimed I had 153 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:09,200 Speaker 1: baby trapped him and When my husband pointed out we 154 00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:11,720 Speaker 1: were already married, so I didn't need to trap him, 155 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 1: and that he was the one who wanted to start 156 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 1: a family, she kept insisting I had manipulated him into 157 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 1: feeling this way. She claimed he was unhappy in our 158 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:22,160 Speaker 1: relationship and he always looked tired because I was forcing 159 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 1: him to slave away to fund my fancy lifestyle while. 160 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:27,360 Speaker 2: I sat on my ass all day. 161 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:29,479 Speaker 1: He pointed out he chose to be a lawyer knowing 162 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 1: he would have to work long hours, and I had 163 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:35,360 Speaker 1: only recently left my job, so her accusations were baseless. 164 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:37,359 Speaker 1: She said some other stuff along the same lines, But 165 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 1: the thing that made my husband finally snap was when 166 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:43,359 Speaker 1: she said it the baby was already ruining everything and 167 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 1: it was just going to get worse when it was born, 168 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 1: and he should have dragged me to the abortion clinic 169 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:49,839 Speaker 1: while he had the chance. 170 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 171 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:52,920 Speaker 2: He told her, neither her nor. 172 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 1: Chloe were welcome in her home anymore until they apologize 173 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 1: for how they've been behaving and for the things my 174 00:06:58,080 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 1: sister in law said. 175 00:06:59,080 --> 00:06:59,919 Speaker 2: He said he wasn't. 176 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 1: Sure he could ever forgive or forget what she'd said 177 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 1: about our child, even if she did apologize, and he 178 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 1: couldn't believe she would even think something like that, let 179 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:09,280 Speaker 1: alone say it. Apparently, she started crying and said she 180 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 1: was sorry. She said she didn't mean it, and she 181 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 1: was just scared to lose him, and that she wasn't 182 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 1: thinking clearly. He hung up on her, and he showed 183 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 1: me his phone and that she's been calling and begging 184 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:20,960 Speaker 1: him to reply. I want to know what you would think. 185 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 1: Would you still have a relationship with a sister? Would 186 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 1: you still like Chloe into your life even though she 187 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 1: was obviously flirting with your husband? 188 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 2: Put your answers in the comments right now. Season. 189 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 3: I would rather my niece die than let my cat suffer? 190 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:33,559 Speaker 3: Am I the whole? 191 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:37,040 Speaker 2: Okay? All right? Well a question, question, question, question right here? 192 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 2: Your cat? HM, over random person. We'll see that's the world. 193 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 2: That's a tricky question because we've already had to do 194 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 2: the absolute most to save her her little kiddy life. 195 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:50,840 Speaker 3: Uh, random stranger somewhere in the world. 196 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:57,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, over your cat. Oh man, if my girlfriend wouldn't 197 00:07:57,640 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 2: kill me, I would say the other person, but I 198 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 2: would let the person live. You would let the person live? Okay, 199 00:08:05,240 --> 00:08:08,080 Speaker 2: It's hard, that's yeah, that's a hard one, dude. I 200 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 2: think if they were both looking at me, like, like, 201 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 2: let's say they're. 202 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 3: Both looking at you, that's wayhuter than a human. 203 00:08:14,320 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you're way right. 204 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:18,080 Speaker 1: All right, this is the scenario, right, You got two 205 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 1: buttons in front of you, You have two cells. 206 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:20,680 Speaker 2: Right. 207 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 1: If you press the like one button, it completely removes 208 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 1: all the air of the chamber, and you have to 209 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 1: watch what happens after. And so either you remove the 210 00:08:30,800 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 1: air from the chamber with the human, or you remove 211 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:36,720 Speaker 1: the air from the chamber with the cat. Jesus, I'm 212 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 1: removing like I love my dog, I'm removing I'm removing 213 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 1: the dog air. 214 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 2: I don't know. I think it would be way harder 215 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:51,200 Speaker 2: watching a human die. Yeah, very challenging anyway. Anyways, onto 216 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:56,680 Speaker 2: brighter subjects of other people making this decision on us. Actually, 217 00:08:56,679 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 2: the title doesn't say at all. We'll see when does 218 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:02,720 Speaker 2: the title ever say at all? You know? But yeah, 219 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:05,480 Speaker 2: do forgive my tone and any grammar mistakes because I'm 220 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 2: really piss right now and I might need some rational opinions. Yeah, 221 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 2: rational opinions. That's what Reddit is known for. 222 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 3: Logic. 223 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 2: Me, I am single, living alone with two cats and 224 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 2: some fishes. My younger sister is a twenty three year 225 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:22,199 Speaker 2: old single mother of a two year old that has 226 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 2: some medical issues that require some expensive treatments and they 227 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 2: have to keep paying for them until the condition improves 228 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:29,440 Speaker 2: and she grows out of it. 229 00:09:29,520 --> 00:09:30,959 Speaker 3: But we don't know if that's going to be the case. 230 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:35,200 Speaker 2: So basically, it's like this illness could go on forever. Yes, essentially, 231 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 2: my sister is a child herself, too spoiled, a naive 232 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:46,080 Speaker 2: for this world to have coming out swinging just freaking 233 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 2: guns ballazin. My parents enabled her going on her own ways, 234 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:54,960 Speaker 2: and she insisted on having a child despite being told 235 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:57,200 Speaker 2: the risks of having the man she was with. 236 00:09:57,679 --> 00:10:01,959 Speaker 3: Dump her over it. Wait did he were about to 237 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:02,440 Speaker 3: find out? 238 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 2: Oh god, she somehow believed that having a baby would 239 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 2: make him stay. Oh that's the worst reason to have 240 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:12,280 Speaker 2: a baby. I've never understood that. Logic never doesn't make 241 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:14,959 Speaker 2: any sense. I mean, I guess you are technically tied 242 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:17,440 Speaker 2: to that person for life now. Yeah, But it's like, 243 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:21,960 Speaker 2: but like, if you're already having like such severe relationship, 244 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,600 Speaker 2: is that that is gonna help it? No, dude, babies 245 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:25,360 Speaker 2: make it harder. 246 00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 247 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:29,520 Speaker 2: No, Well, now she is living with my parents, and 248 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 2: my parents are providing for both of them, not alone 249 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 2: on her own, like me and my cats, Yeah, me 250 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:36,479 Speaker 2: and my pussy's. 251 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:40,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, he got so much responsibility cats. Come on, he 252 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:43,640 Speaker 1: has to put food out for them. Come on, I 253 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:45,760 Speaker 1: gotta shake those fish flakes over. 254 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 3: The God damn. 255 00:10:47,240 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 1: I feel like this guy has like the least time 256 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:53,559 Speaker 1: intensive pets ever, like cats and goldfish. 257 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:57,320 Speaker 2: Literally, unless you're me, those are the easiest pets of 258 00:10:57,360 --> 00:11:00,720 Speaker 2: all time. Yeah, if you're me, those finish are like 259 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 2: breaking their spines and going to the ICU. It's getting 260 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:06,960 Speaker 2: like like like intense surgery. 261 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 3: Literally. 262 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 2: Uh. As for me, I moved out of the house 263 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:17,320 Speaker 2: years ago from my terrible relationship with my sister. I 264 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:20,199 Speaker 2: was the only one to scold her for her mistakes 265 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:23,840 Speaker 2: when nobody else would, and she always had our parents 266 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 2: back her up. I don't you want to meddle for this, 267 00:11:26,440 --> 00:11:30,200 Speaker 2: op Like It's like it's like you you like brate 268 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:33,400 Speaker 2: your sister, congratulations, awesome. I don't know, like great work. 269 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:36,440 Speaker 2: It does seem like op Op's sister is a bit naive, 270 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:40,839 Speaker 2: but not like she's treating her so terribly, Like would 271 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:43,200 Speaker 2: you be so shitty to someone who just doesn't know 272 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:44,600 Speaker 2: any better, like I don't know. 273 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 1: I don't think so, and also doesn't see it doesn't 274 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 1: sound like she's done anything bad exact, so it's like 275 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:55,080 Speaker 1: she's like, maybe made some poor choices. 276 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:59,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, but not not like yeah and yeah, I'm always 277 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:02,319 Speaker 2: the ahole to this and I don't regret leaving, although 278 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 2: we still keep in contact. Okay, Sopia admits that's an ahole. 279 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 2: You basically yourself. My sister came to me begging for money, 280 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:18,520 Speaker 2: please give it to me. Has some change, as my 281 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 2: parents are now in a tough spot and they're having 282 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 2: trouble providing for her child, and they might need to 283 00:12:23,920 --> 00:12:27,880 Speaker 2: switch to a cheaper but less effective alternative to treat 284 00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 2: the illness. Yet that is a very rough scenario. Big yikes. 285 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:36,960 Speaker 2: I warned her that she shouldn't keep the child, but 286 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 2: she insists, and now it's become like this, man, this 287 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:48,440 Speaker 2: is some heavy ass stuff. Big yikes. Oh my goodness, 288 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:51,720 Speaker 2: I need to provide for myself and my pets too, 289 00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:55,400 Speaker 2: especially since one of my cats has health issues. Yes, 290 00:12:55,720 --> 00:13:00,360 Speaker 2: your cat and your niece same level. Listen late, as 291 00:13:00,360 --> 00:13:03,839 Speaker 2: someone who's been dealing with the most cat issues that 292 00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:05,360 Speaker 2: could possibly go wrong. 293 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 3: They ain't the same, They ain't the same. 294 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:11,800 Speaker 2: I refuse to give my sister any money, and she 295 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 2: ended up bringing the family onto the plate, saying how 296 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 2: we should help each other in times like this because 297 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:24,839 Speaker 2: we're family. I mean true, but no, what he's a dick. 298 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:29,880 Speaker 3: No I said that. Oh so I laughed in her face. Aha, 299 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:31,640 Speaker 3: you're not my family. 300 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:35,800 Speaker 2: My cats are my family. You're simply a hairless meat 301 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 2: bag compared to my precious kitties and my scaled kings, 302 00:13:42,440 --> 00:13:47,640 Speaker 2: scaled scaled kings. I told her that my cat is 303 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 2: my family and her child isn't. Wow, you know, he's 304 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:55,040 Speaker 2: the biggest dick ever. Ro it's your knees, bro, this 305 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:57,679 Speaker 2: might be like the biggest a hole we've ever had. 306 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:02,920 Speaker 2: I get her, not like being apprehensive to help her, 307 00:14:02,960 --> 00:14:05,200 Speaker 2: but like, you don't have to say shit like that, 308 00:14:05,320 --> 00:14:08,160 Speaker 2: Like that's just massively over the top. Yeah. 309 00:14:08,200 --> 00:14:11,080 Speaker 1: And also it's like like she's not it doesn't seem 310 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:13,240 Speaker 1: like she's berating. Ope, she's just kind of like we 311 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:17,120 Speaker 1: need to come together. Yeah, just no, you're not even 312 00:14:17,160 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 1: my family. And there's an update, let's hear it all. 313 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:22,600 Speaker 2: Right. After a few hours of cooling down, I think 314 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:25,120 Speaker 2: I do need to fill in some parts that weren't 315 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:27,600 Speaker 2: left out intentionally, though, I would prefer to leave out 316 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:32,080 Speaker 2: some details for privacy. For privacy, I think you're trying 317 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 2: to save yourself from the asshole opinion. Yes, my parents 318 00:14:36,280 --> 00:14:38,680 Speaker 2: did show favoritism towards my sister because she is quite 319 00:14:38,680 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 2: a few years younger than me. She's the type it 320 00:14:40,440 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 2: could be very sweet, needy, and clingy, so it wouldn't 321 00:14:43,080 --> 00:14:45,400 Speaker 2: be far fetched to say that helicopter parenting was a 322 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 2: part of it. As for my sister herself, well, I 323 00:14:47,680 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 2: don't think she's a bad person. She never grew out 324 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 2: of thinking everything is rainbows and unicorns, and she used 325 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 2: to have me taking blame for all the trouble she 326 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 2: got stirred up in thinks so my parents just assuming 327 00:14:57,360 --> 00:14:59,840 Speaker 2: everything is my fault. I didn't stop her from making mistakes. 328 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 2: Responsibility is just something she never learned. However, she still 329 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:06,240 Speaker 2: comes to me every time she needs something, oblivious to 330 00:15:06,280 --> 00:15:08,320 Speaker 2: my feelings and assumes I have whatever she wants. 331 00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:09,960 Speaker 3: And only listens to what she wants. 332 00:15:10,520 --> 00:15:12,760 Speaker 2: She came to me when she got herself pregnant that 333 00:15:12,840 --> 00:15:16,440 Speaker 2: time just what a way to word that, wow, and 334 00:15:16,520 --> 00:15:18,440 Speaker 2: wanted me to help her sort out a plan. My 335 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:22,560 Speaker 2: advice was simple, terminate it. Wow, mind you. I also 336 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:24,960 Speaker 2: warned her about him before, but she brushed me off. 337 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:27,280 Speaker 2: Then she wanted to go through with it, even if 338 00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:29,360 Speaker 2: after the doctor said there were risks to herself and 339 00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 2: the child. I knew it wouldn't have gone well, so 340 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:33,280 Speaker 2: I tried to talk her out of it. She seems 341 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 2: like very, very vindictive. Yeah, I'm not rather regretting what 342 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 2: I have said, but at the same time, half of 343 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:44,160 Speaker 2: me is telling me she really deserved it and I'm 344 00:15:44,240 --> 00:15:46,440 Speaker 2: not her parent. Wow. 345 00:15:47,640 --> 00:15:48,160 Speaker 3: Take that. 346 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 2: Wow, dude, Op kind of a dick, kind of a dick. 347 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:56,360 Speaker 3: I think Op is the ale, the kindest person hens. 348 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:57,160 Speaker 2: Nope, the a hole. 349 00:15:57,200 --> 00:15:57,600 Speaker 3: There we go.