1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:05,560 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what y'all don't 2 00:00:05,600 --> 00:00:10,440 Speaker 1: know y'all at all at all. 3 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 2: So give them. 4 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 3: The bus busses. 5 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, listening to to I don't joy. 6 00:00:50,680 --> 00:01:02,320 Speaker 1: Joy you know, turn. 7 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:06,959 Speaker 3: Love, you. 8 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:25,559 Speaker 4: Got turn. 9 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 5: I can't. 10 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:43,039 Speaker 6: To turn the mouth turn. 11 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 3: You probably got to turn mouth turn turn the water 12 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 3: of the moat up. Wouldn't come. 13 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: Come out, you think, huh? 14 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 5: I sure will come on and everybody you are listening 15 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 5: to the voice, come on now. Dig me for one 16 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 5: and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Thank God 17 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 5: for it all the time too. Well, here we go today. 18 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 5: I want to share something with you that will help 19 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:22,079 Speaker 5: you because it's helped me. 20 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:23,519 Speaker 1: You know. 21 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 4: I was. 22 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 5: Telling the story once that in this magazine called Rob Report, 23 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 5: that there was a statue I used to see for years. 24 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 5: I started buying Rob Report magazines years ago. So I 25 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 5: just wanted to see what affluent people did, you know, 26 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:47,239 Speaker 5: just wanted to see what people with means did, what 27 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:50,359 Speaker 5: type of investments they did, what they bought, you know, 28 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 5: where they traveled to the Rob Report. It's just like 29 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 5: a it's like a big boy toy magazine. You can 30 00:02:56,919 --> 00:02:58,959 Speaker 5: see what cars is out. You know, I didn't have 31 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 5: money for none of it. I was dreaming, though, you know, 32 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 5: I just wanted to see. And there was a statue 33 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:11,680 Speaker 5: inside this magazine of this man who was coming out 34 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 5: of this bronze rock. And he was completely bronze, and 35 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 5: he was muscular, and you know, he didn't look nothing 36 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 5: like me, but he was a man coming up out 37 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 5: of a rock. And he had a huge hammer and 38 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:27,639 Speaker 5: a chisel in his hand. And as his body from 39 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:30,080 Speaker 5: the waist up was coming out of this huge piece 40 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:32,639 Speaker 5: of stone, you could see where it was him who 41 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 5: had been chiseling in forming himself. So the name of 42 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 5: the statue was self made man. And for years man 43 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 5: I said, Man, I'm gonna get a big house one day, 44 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 5: and I'm gonna put that statue in the backyard in 45 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:47,880 Speaker 5: the corner. That's gonna be my little spot where I 46 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 5: go chill, because I'm a self made man. Well, after 47 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 5: years of working at becoming somebody and having reached a 48 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 5: degree of success, I would have nothing to do with 49 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 5: that statue. There's nothing about that statue that appeals to 50 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 5: me anymore. Because on my journey and in my quest 51 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 5: to become what I thought would be this self made man, 52 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:21,159 Speaker 5: where I could put this statue and had this statue 53 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 5: in the corner be kind of cold symbolizing it. 54 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:24,480 Speaker 1: I had made it. 55 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:28,720 Speaker 5: I realized on my journey there's no such thing as 56 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:32,160 Speaker 5: a self made man. That we all need help, and 57 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 5: that God places people in our paths along the way 58 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 5: that benefit us oftentimes. And it's the most unlikely person 59 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:45,720 Speaker 5: often times, and it's the most unlikely way that He 60 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:48,480 Speaker 5: presents these people in front of you. It's crazy how 61 00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 5: he does it. 62 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:49,240 Speaker 1: Man. 63 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 5: And so this is a statue now that I look 64 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:55,279 Speaker 5: at and I go, I see what the creator was saying. 65 00:04:55,839 --> 00:05:01,400 Speaker 5: And that's cool, but not for me, because I needed help. 66 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 5: And I've learned a lot of things like this along 67 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:08,160 Speaker 5: the way. And the part I wanted to share with 68 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 5: you all about this is you've got to develop You've 69 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:16,280 Speaker 5: got to develop a sense of purpose. You have to 70 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:21,480 Speaker 5: develop a sense of purpose that's different. See, your purpose 71 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:29,480 Speaker 5: is created for you by God because when He created 72 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 5: you as an individual from whatever two parents you may have, 73 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 5: that's not important here. When he created you, he had 74 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 5: something in mind for you, and it was a purpose. 75 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 5: God has not created a single soul to become a criminal. 76 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:49,040 Speaker 5: God has never created a single soul to be a 77 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:53,160 Speaker 5: drug dealer. This came about through some decisions we made 78 00:05:54,360 --> 00:05:58,920 Speaker 5: as sinners, and we stayed in that place. But see 79 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 5: what he created. He has a wonderful idea for us. 80 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:06,880 Speaker 5: But God gives us human beings this thing called choice, 81 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:09,680 Speaker 5: and we have the power to decide. So you can 82 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:12,480 Speaker 5: decide if you're going to adhere to the purpose that 83 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 5: God created you and made you for, or you can 84 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:19,600 Speaker 5: go ahead and make some choices on your own. So like, 85 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 5: if God wanted to give you a life and give 86 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:23,720 Speaker 5: it to come to you and give you life more abundantly, 87 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:26,720 Speaker 5: and that's his promise if you come to him, if 88 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 5: you choose him, then cool. But if you say, well 89 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:33,600 Speaker 5: this ain't moving along fast enough, I'm gonna get my 90 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:36,479 Speaker 5: own life of abundance, I'm gonna start slanging. Well, guess 91 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 5: what now, Tada, You made a decision and seek God's 92 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 5: decisions and choices. The one thing I learned about them, 93 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 5: God's decisions, choices, his voice, It has no sin in it. 94 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 5: And it amazing how many people it came up to 95 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:53,480 Speaker 5: you and said, the Lord wanted me to do this 96 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:55,719 Speaker 5: to you, and I'm doing it. That God is punishing 97 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 5: you and I'm doing this to you because God gonna 98 00:06:58,440 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 5: see that you get your day. 99 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 1: Who is this person? 100 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:05,200 Speaker 5: Who is this person that God all of a sudden 101 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 5: gave this authority and power to God didn't get at 102 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 5: the nobody, man, nobody, This person only had the right 103 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 5: to hold you to your past, the right to make 104 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:18,679 Speaker 5: you pay. So who makes them pay when they make mistakes? 105 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 5: Because they all make them. So when I say you 106 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 5: have to have a sense of you have to develop 107 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 5: a strong sense of purpose. That means you have to 108 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 5: strongly get in touch with your creator to find out 109 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:33,840 Speaker 5: what the purpose you were created for. See, it's two 110 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 5: things that I had to learn along the way. My 111 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 5: career was what I was paid for. My calling is 112 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 5: what I was made for. See, it's two different things, folks. 113 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:48,960 Speaker 5: It took me a long time to learn it. Some 114 00:07:49,120 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 5: people think that they calling is to be a performer. Well, 115 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 5: that's what you paid for, and a big part of 116 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 5: your life is your performance. It's tied directly to your gift. 117 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 5: But what you made for, though, what you made for 118 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 5: is to bring about some significant change in another human 119 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 5: beings lives because we are all linked together in this chain. 120 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 5: That's what you are here for. Everybody has a purpose 121 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 5: to do something wonderful, meaningful, or impactful for another person. 122 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 5: You think the God that invented the airplane was merely 123 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 5: inventing the airplane so he could fly. Now, his purpose 124 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:32,559 Speaker 5: was to become an inventor, to come up with this 125 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:35,319 Speaker 5: invention so he could fly and we all fly. 126 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:36,600 Speaker 1: See. 127 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 5: Sometimes God will make you successful so you can become 128 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:42,439 Speaker 5: successful so you can turn around to teach other people 129 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 5: how to become successful. God save people, so you can 130 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 5: turn around it tell other people how wonderful it is 131 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 5: to be saved. You see how this thing work. That's 132 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 5: what we have to do as people. And it's nothing 133 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:57,719 Speaker 5: that we have to go and discover. We have to 134 00:08:57,800 --> 00:09:00,360 Speaker 5: go and develop it. But if you haven't discovered your purpose, 135 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 5: it's simply because here's it. If you haven't discovered your purpose, 136 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:11,439 Speaker 5: it's simply because you have not contacted the creator and 137 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 5: maker of your soul to ask and find out why 138 00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 5: you were created. It's as simple as that. If you 139 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 5: buy a toyota, there's an owner's manual on the inside 140 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:32,880 Speaker 5: that will tell you everything you know how to best 141 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 5: operate your toyota, how to make it work, how what 142 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:40,959 Speaker 5: to do They got a troubleshooting section. Your faith is 143 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:44,559 Speaker 5: the same thing as an owner's manual in your car. 144 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:48,959 Speaker 5: Open up that book, man, find out how to jumpstart 145 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 5: your life, how to troubleshoot it and get on with 146 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 5: your life, and find out your purpose and develop a 147 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 5: strong sense of purpose. 148 00:09:56,360 --> 00:10:00,480 Speaker 6: All right, Okay, you're listening hard morning show. 149 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:08,079 Speaker 1: Lady. Slip me half your attention to this is the 150 00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:10,400 Speaker 1: quiet Stones, dude. 151 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:13,040 Speaker 4: That was it. 152 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:14,079 Speaker 1: That's all I wanted to do. 153 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:17,320 Speaker 5: I was gonna do smoking Robinson's cruising, but I didn't 154 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 5: have a voice for it on it because I just 155 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:22,280 Speaker 5: worked out and I don't feel like it my train. 156 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 5: I don't know what's wrong with him. 157 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 1: Excuse me. 158 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:28,480 Speaker 7: You don't have the voice of Smoky Robinson because you 159 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 7: worked out. 160 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the only reason. That's the only reason. 161 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 7: Called. 162 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:36,679 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it got it got me early. I 163 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:44,480 Speaker 5: had it, but to workout through it, you know, yeah, yeah, 164 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:47,720 Speaker 5: you know. And you know what right now, Like, since 165 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 5: I ain't never done smoke, it can't nobody to say 166 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 5: I ain't. 167 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 4: He I do. 168 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:58,679 Speaker 1: When I lie, I do unverifiable lie. That's the thing 169 00:10:58,800 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 1: about it. 170 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 5: No, hell no, you know all that's why Roscoe Wallace 171 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:09,679 Speaker 5: wins all the time. Yes, yeah, Ladies and gentlemen, this 172 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 5: is the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Shirley Strawberry, Calin Farrell, 173 00:11:15,720 --> 00:11:20,040 Speaker 5: Mouth of the South, Junior or government. Name is kill Space, 174 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 5: a man, founder of Kill's Hopes. Yes, sir, Yeah, they run, walk, 175 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:30,679 Speaker 5: They do everything long as it's warm. They don't do 176 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 5: no cold weather activities for this foundation. No sub Ladies 177 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:41,920 Speaker 5: and gentlemen, the legend that is Nephew Tommy. You know 178 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:43,120 Speaker 5: what's on your mind to day? 179 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:43,920 Speaker 4: Oh? 180 00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:45,840 Speaker 1: Man, I want to talk to you about something. Month man, 181 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 1: let me ask you this. Man, This is important for 182 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:50,840 Speaker 1: man understanding man just prayer. 183 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:54,480 Speaker 8: Man understanding how to pray and what I'm praying for, 184 00:11:55,080 --> 00:11:57,559 Speaker 8: because sometimes we may not be praying the right prayer. 185 00:11:58,200 --> 00:12:00,839 Speaker 1: Is it always something about Lord, let me have or 186 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 1: can I want? Let me say this. 187 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:06,480 Speaker 5: My answer is not gonna be a perfect answer. All 188 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 5: I know is what I have had to learn to 189 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:14,640 Speaker 5: incorporate in my prayer. When I ask for something, I 190 00:12:14,880 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 5: always ask Him to guide me in his will, because 191 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:24,560 Speaker 5: I have asked for a lot of things that really 192 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:27,319 Speaker 5: wasn't good for me or really wasn't in the plan, 193 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:31,480 Speaker 5: and I wasted a lot of prayers like that because 194 00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:34,200 Speaker 5: what he wanted and had for me, I was trying 195 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 5: to go in another direction. So now when I ask 196 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:39,599 Speaker 5: for stuff, always say if it's in your will. But 197 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 5: then mostly now I go, Lord, fix it how you 198 00:12:43,880 --> 00:12:46,599 Speaker 5: want me to be and order my steps, you know, 199 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:49,599 Speaker 5: put me in that direction. If you ask God to 200 00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:52,520 Speaker 5: order your steps, he'll do it for you as you 201 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 5: self received. 202 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:56,959 Speaker 1: I just want to try to do your will, you know. 203 00:12:57,080 --> 00:13:00,400 Speaker 5: Now, sometimes as a human I fight against that, you know, 204 00:13:00,600 --> 00:13:05,360 Speaker 5: because it's uncomfortable sometimes, but that's it is. 205 00:13:05,559 --> 00:13:06,679 Speaker 1: Life is uncomfortable. 206 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:09,679 Speaker 5: You have to make uncomfortable decisions and you have to 207 00:13:09,760 --> 00:13:13,480 Speaker 5: get comfortable being uncomfortable if you ever want to be successful. 208 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 1: So that's how I pray you can. Can you instead 209 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:19,480 Speaker 1: of ordering your steps? Can you order a house or 210 00:13:19,640 --> 00:13:21,960 Speaker 1: order a cart? Can you order other things? 211 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:22,400 Speaker 5: Well? 212 00:13:22,480 --> 00:13:23,640 Speaker 1: Yes, you can ask for. 213 00:13:27,559 --> 00:13:28,160 Speaker 6: Morning Show. 214 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:32,719 Speaker 1: I have asked for it. I have ordered get a cracking. 215 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 9: Coming up a minute after the hour, we're gonna hear 216 00:13:39,280 --> 00:13:42,640 Speaker 9: once more from the nephew as he runs that prank 217 00:13:42,720 --> 00:13:48,720 Speaker 9: back right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, 218 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:50,599 Speaker 9: and this time now to start your morning off with 219 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:52,320 Speaker 9: the Nephew and run that prank back? 220 00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:53,319 Speaker 6: What you got, Nash? 221 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:58,439 Speaker 1: All right? I got time today, I got time to motivated. 222 00:13:58,600 --> 00:14:00,040 Speaker 6: Woke up, motive date. 223 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:02,559 Speaker 1: Woke up motivated. H there we go. 224 00:14:02,880 --> 00:14:08,240 Speaker 7: You sent my wife pitch. You sent my wife pitches? 225 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:14,319 Speaker 7: God dog, let's go now speak the trouble. Hey man, 226 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 7: you've been sending pictures of uh are your damn stomach. 227 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 1: To my wife phone? Hey? Well, hey man? 228 00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 7: Have yall been sending pictures of your muscles on your 229 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:25,160 Speaker 7: stomach to my wife phone? 230 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 4: Hey? What the hell is this fish? 231 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:29,280 Speaker 1: Right here? 232 00:14:30,560 --> 00:14:33,400 Speaker 7: This fisher man? My name is Fisher, but they call 233 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:35,320 Speaker 7: me fish. What I want to know from you? Have 234 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 7: you been sending pictures of your stomach to my wife phone? 235 00:14:39,240 --> 00:14:41,320 Speaker 4: Man? I don't know. Did you talking about play boy? 236 00:14:41,360 --> 00:14:43,160 Speaker 4: Don't call me with this about am I? 237 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:44,680 Speaker 1: If I else? 238 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:45,800 Speaker 4: Pictures? Ain't none of you? 239 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 1: It is my business, that's my wife. Then you send this. 240 00:14:51,400 --> 00:14:53,720 Speaker 4: You knowing you must ain't got you must ain't ripped 241 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:58,000 Speaker 4: up back me or something you worried about this? Hey man, 242 00:14:58,280 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 4: get you some fittiness, don't coming. 243 00:15:01,720 --> 00:15:04,440 Speaker 1: I got some business. My business is my wife man, 244 00:15:04,880 --> 00:15:05,640 Speaker 1: And if you say. 245 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 7: It, let me tell you something I'm gonna tell you 246 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:08,600 Speaker 7: right now. 247 00:15:08,680 --> 00:15:09,800 Speaker 1: I want to find you. 248 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:14,400 Speaker 7: If the same muscles that's on her phone is up 249 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:16,440 Speaker 7: underneath your shirt, I'm whooping your. 250 00:15:18,040 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 4: I ain't hard to find, play boy. You can find me. 251 00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 4: And if I am sent pictures to your wife, you 252 00:15:23,440 --> 00:15:24,720 Speaker 4: must like it. Play boy? 253 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:27,680 Speaker 1: Hey man, ain't let me tell you. No, you're being disrespectful? 254 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:29,840 Speaker 1: Is what you're doing. You understand you've been. 255 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:32,320 Speaker 4: You've been a little calling me on the phone. 256 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 2: Which is you? 257 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:36,240 Speaker 4: Better check somebody else about this here? For I had 258 00:15:36,280 --> 00:15:37,720 Speaker 4: your wife brothering on my stomach? 259 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:40,320 Speaker 1: Hey man? Who you hey? See who you calling? 260 00:15:40,880 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 2: Man? 261 00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:43,760 Speaker 1: Who do you think you are? Hey? 262 00:15:43,880 --> 00:15:44,040 Speaker 7: Hey? 263 00:15:44,160 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 1: Who you think you talk? Let me tell you something? 264 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:49,760 Speaker 4: Okay, tell us take my phone about a picture? 265 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 7: That's because I know them and them if I find 266 00:15:53,560 --> 00:15:55,120 Speaker 7: out them your muscles. 267 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 4: On my what? What? 268 00:15:56,240 --> 00:15:56,880 Speaker 7: I just leave? 269 00:15:56,920 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 4: You found my phone number? So I guess you can 270 00:15:59,400 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 4: find me your own? Boy? 271 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 1: Hey, how about this here? Where are you? 272 00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:06,760 Speaker 4: Let's get hey? Ask your wife where I'm at? Where 273 00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:07,080 Speaker 4: she is? 274 00:16:07,720 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 1: My wife is at work right now? 275 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:13,480 Speaker 4: If you think so? How you think she got on? Boy? 276 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:16,240 Speaker 1: Hey man? I tell you what when I find when 277 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:18,000 Speaker 1: I find you a little disrespectful? 278 00:16:18,280 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 4: Answer? Wife? Where I'm at Yeah that what's new. It's security. 279 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:27,400 Speaker 4: You must not be ripped up like me. 280 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:30,640 Speaker 1: He man, Hey, hey, hey, I got I got muscles 281 00:16:30,720 --> 00:16:31,440 Speaker 1: on my stomach. 282 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:34,880 Speaker 4: I got right now to get these. Get this summer 283 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 4: right for your wife. 284 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:38,960 Speaker 7: Hey, man, let me tell you something. Man, that's all right, 285 00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:41,360 Speaker 7: that's all right. Hey, how about this here. I know 286 00:16:41,480 --> 00:16:43,760 Speaker 7: who your wife feels now, that's all right. 287 00:16:43,960 --> 00:16:45,000 Speaker 4: I know who she has too. 288 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 7: Okay, well, that's all right, and I'll be calling her. 289 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:49,840 Speaker 7: I'm calling her, letting her know what's going on. 290 00:16:50,320 --> 00:16:54,440 Speaker 4: Take this out. She liked my stummer too, Yeah, yeah. 291 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:54,960 Speaker 5: You like that. 292 00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:57,560 Speaker 1: No, No, I'll tell you what. I tell you what 293 00:16:57,720 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 1: she don't like it. When I get to her, I'm 294 00:16:59,200 --> 00:17:01,000 Speaker 1: gonna let your wife know what's going on around here. 295 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:03,680 Speaker 4: Say, man, you don't know nothing about my wife. My 296 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 4: wife and your wife might be rubbing together home. White. 297 00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:07,760 Speaker 4: You don't know nothing about my business. 298 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:09,720 Speaker 1: Ain't man, you ain't finna be disrespectful to me. 299 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:12,560 Speaker 4: Man, I have done told you once see don't see 300 00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:14,080 Speaker 4: me on what I will see. 301 00:17:14,240 --> 00:17:16,320 Speaker 1: I already asked you once where are you. 302 00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:18,920 Speaker 4: I'm gonna raise up my shirt so you can see 303 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:22,400 Speaker 4: this rips up six pacts that your wife like, yeah, all. 304 00:17:22,359 --> 00:17:25,240 Speaker 1: Right, okay, okay, it's just a matter of time. 305 00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 4: Then you better go check your wife and don't be 306 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:31,480 Speaker 4: calling across man. 307 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:34,119 Speaker 7: Okay, Well, I tell you what I'm gonna call an 308 00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:37,120 Speaker 7: That's that's what I'm gonna call a Yana baby. 309 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:41,160 Speaker 1: Say what yeah yeah, and slows you down. Now, yeah, 310 00:17:41,240 --> 00:17:42,240 Speaker 1: I'm calling your wife. 311 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:44,200 Speaker 4: I'm calling up here. We can get it on the 312 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:47,000 Speaker 4: three ways and then and then I call your wife 313 00:17:47,040 --> 00:17:48,000 Speaker 4: and get on my way. 314 00:17:48,440 --> 00:17:51,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I'm gonna tell you this here right now. 315 00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:53,159 Speaker 4: What I need is tell me whatever you want to 316 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:53,399 Speaker 4: tell me. 317 00:17:53,960 --> 00:17:55,959 Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, pump, where you at? 318 00:17:56,640 --> 00:18:00,760 Speaker 4: How much fuller? Throwing home? What's more? I'm in now? 319 00:18:00,880 --> 00:18:03,760 Speaker 4: You got my wife name? I want to know your name. 320 00:18:03,840 --> 00:18:07,000 Speaker 4: They called your fish or chicken or where they called you. 321 00:18:07,320 --> 00:18:09,480 Speaker 4: You can meet me wherever you want to home by 322 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:12,239 Speaker 4: And we just said this ain't no fake feeling. Mean. 323 00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:14,840 Speaker 4: I deal with punk chump like you every day. 324 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:19,040 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, not a problem, not a problem. I'll be right. 325 00:18:19,440 --> 00:18:21,399 Speaker 4: How long you gonna be that, I'm gonna be that 326 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:22,040 Speaker 4: to your pump? 327 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:24,720 Speaker 7: It is okay you look, I want you to take 328 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 7: my my name down so you'll know who you're waiting on. 329 00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:29,560 Speaker 4: You got your what uh? You said your name was 330 00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:31,159 Speaker 4: chicken or something like that. 331 00:18:31,359 --> 00:18:32,200 Speaker 1: Do you have a pin? 332 00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:33,280 Speaker 4: I don't need no pin? 333 00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:36,159 Speaker 1: Punk. Okay? Do you want to know who this is? 334 00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:38,480 Speaker 4: You gonna tell me who you was? Home boy? 335 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:42,240 Speaker 1: I ain't told you my full name, chump. 336 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:45,320 Speaker 4: I don't need to know you name. You got my number? 337 00:18:45,840 --> 00:18:49,640 Speaker 4: Calling me about a chattoo off stummach or something. 338 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:54,680 Speaker 1: It's muscles, it's muscles of your stomach. On my wife? 339 00:18:55,960 --> 00:18:57,119 Speaker 2: Did the pictures? 340 00:18:57,480 --> 00:18:59,639 Speaker 1: How many sit ups do you be doing this? 341 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:01,360 Speaker 4: Did you look at the other pictures? 342 00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:04,480 Speaker 1: What other well? Okay, hey, hey man, hey man, I'm 343 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:06,520 Speaker 1: not finna be playing with you by my wife. 344 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:08,520 Speaker 4: Man, I ain't playing with you. I'm playing with your wife. 345 00:19:09,040 --> 00:19:11,840 Speaker 7: Okay, Okay, I'm gonna tell you something about your wife. 346 00:19:11,880 --> 00:19:13,720 Speaker 7: I'm gonna tell you something about your wife. 347 00:19:13,560 --> 00:19:15,640 Speaker 4: That you don't know. If I don't know it, don't 348 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:16,560 Speaker 4: know somebody else know it? 349 00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:16,920 Speaker 1: Oh? 350 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:17,440 Speaker 4: I know it. 351 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:18,280 Speaker 5: Me and her know it. 352 00:19:18,520 --> 00:19:20,920 Speaker 1: When I just got off the phone with her. You 353 00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:22,439 Speaker 1: want to know? You want me tell you what your 354 00:19:22,480 --> 00:19:23,040 Speaker 1: wife told me? 355 00:19:23,600 --> 00:19:24,800 Speaker 4: Man, say what you have to say. 356 00:19:25,520 --> 00:19:27,920 Speaker 7: I'm gonna say this right here, I'm gonna say this punk. 357 00:19:28,160 --> 00:19:31,480 Speaker 7: This his nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 358 00:19:31,560 --> 00:19:35,480 Speaker 7: Your wife a Yanna got me the prank phone? Your 359 00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:36,840 Speaker 7: ignorant man? 360 00:19:37,560 --> 00:19:41,440 Speaker 1: How stupid are you? Hello? 361 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:46,640 Speaker 7: This nephew, Tommy man from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 362 00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:48,560 Speaker 7: Your wife got me the prank phone? Call? 363 00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:49,159 Speaker 5: You do you? 364 00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:50,879 Speaker 1: Damn you? 365 00:19:51,240 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 7: You are more ignorant than me. This Yeah, God, hey, trouble. 366 00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:10,400 Speaker 7: I got to ask you this bag, answer this question 367 00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:12,800 Speaker 7: for me. What is what is the baddest that, I mean, 368 00:20:12,880 --> 00:20:15,840 Speaker 7: the baddest radio show in the lab, the only one 369 00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:16,359 Speaker 7: with nephew. 370 00:20:17,000 --> 00:20:20,920 Speaker 4: I'll tell you that. 371 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:25,320 Speaker 1: Oh man. Alright, trail man, you'll be easy man, go 372 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:26,160 Speaker 1: light on, y'all. 373 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 4: All right, I'm a we'll tell Steve. 374 00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:29,080 Speaker 5: I say what. 375 00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:38,000 Speaker 1: All like I say, is I did that? I did that? 376 00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:40,639 Speaker 6: You met your match on that one. 377 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:41,040 Speaker 2: Sorry? 378 00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:46,119 Speaker 1: You're what I say at play pranking worship. It's pranking worship, 379 00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:47,880 Speaker 1: all right. 380 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:49,200 Speaker 6: Nephew, thank you. 381 00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 9: Coming up next, it is asked the c l O 382 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:56,080 Speaker 9: Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building for your 383 00:20:56,160 --> 00:21:01,200 Speaker 9: love questions. Right after this, you're listening hard Morning show, 384 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:04,760 Speaker 9: it is time for your favorite segment. Steve asked the 385 00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:10,879 Speaker 9: CLO Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey, Ready for your love questions? 386 00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:14,440 Speaker 9: This one is from Tally in Kansas. Tally writes, my 387 00:21:14,560 --> 00:21:16,680 Speaker 9: seven year old son came home and told me that 388 00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:19,479 Speaker 9: his dad has a new girlfriend and he hates her. 389 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:22,400 Speaker 9: I told him that's not nice to say about anyone, 390 00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 9: and he said she made two steaks for her and 391 00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:29,720 Speaker 9: his dad, and she gave him chicken tenders. I spoke 392 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:31,800 Speaker 9: to my ex and asked if my son was telling 393 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:34,439 Speaker 9: the truth, and he said that his child is fine 394 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:35,800 Speaker 9: with chicken tenders. 395 00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:37,080 Speaker 1: He's only seven. 396 00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:40,080 Speaker 9: Now we've got a problem because my ex is on 397 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:43,359 Speaker 9: board with his unequal treatment of his own child. Should 398 00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:45,360 Speaker 9: I talk to Should I have a talk with them 399 00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:46,760 Speaker 9: before this gets any worse? 400 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:47,960 Speaker 4: What? 401 00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:52,399 Speaker 1: Well, we have a situation here, Tally. 402 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:59,439 Speaker 5: First, your question was your son hates your exes new 403 00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:04,400 Speaker 5: boyfriend real, Well, now you have her, Well you hate 404 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:08,800 Speaker 5: her now, So we're not everybody in teleyhouse hate the 405 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:12,760 Speaker 5: new girl. So now we do have a problem. And 406 00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 5: you've spoken to him and the seven year old on 407 00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:19,120 Speaker 5: his steak. Now I can understand. I don't know why 408 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:22,000 Speaker 5: you got these chicken tenders turned into hate for you. 409 00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:24,840 Speaker 5: I would have been more than happy when I was 410 00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:27,160 Speaker 5: seven and plus when I was seven. Back in them days, 411 00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:29,240 Speaker 5: I wasn't allowed to say I didn't want nothing. I 412 00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:31,760 Speaker 5: hate them damn chicken tenders, and shut my damn mouth. 413 00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:34,159 Speaker 5: I don't up my mouth about them damn chicken tenders. 414 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:36,639 Speaker 5: Them chicken tenders would have got packed up in me 415 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:38,399 Speaker 5: and it wouldn't have been as hard to go to. 416 00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:44,520 Speaker 1: The bathroom next time. So that's any way it would 417 00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:44,960 Speaker 1: have happened. 418 00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:47,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know what, now you just let these chicken 419 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:50,040 Speaker 5: tenders out the next time you go. So that's what 420 00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:50,760 Speaker 5: it would have happened. 421 00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:53,440 Speaker 1: In him. Do you have a little situation. 422 00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:57,560 Speaker 5: I think you should just talk to him or your ex, 423 00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:01,040 Speaker 5: and he really would have been fine to chicken tenders. 424 00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:04,480 Speaker 5: I think this is an overreaction. Your boy's seven years old. 425 00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:08,520 Speaker 5: He's smart, he's manipulative. He know to come in here 426 00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:11,040 Speaker 5: with you and say the right thing. So please be 427 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:14,480 Speaker 5: aware of how smart and cunning kids are. I'm gonna 428 00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:16,919 Speaker 5: come in and upset my mama. I'm gonna tell her 429 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,800 Speaker 5: I hate her because they had steaks and they gave 430 00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:23,000 Speaker 5: me chicken tenders. Well, you know, you got a little 431 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:26,120 Speaker 5: bitty ass teeth, so you know you got a little 432 00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:29,080 Speaker 5: baby teeth, little baby teeth posted to eat chicken tenders. 433 00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:31,600 Speaker 5: I don't think it's that big of a deal, and 434 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:34,080 Speaker 5: I wouldn't let this little boy drive a wedge in 435 00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:37,800 Speaker 5: it right down. This unequal treatment is because he's not equal. 436 00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:41,080 Speaker 5: What you don't like is it was done by the 437 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 5: new girlfriend, and he made sure you knew it. Quite 438 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,879 Speaker 5: a snick mood from the seven year old that loves 439 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:52,119 Speaker 5: his mother deally tally, and he's just doing what little 440 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:55,159 Speaker 5: boys do because he doesn't know yet that it's okay 441 00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:58,480 Speaker 5: to love two people. He does not know that yet, 442 00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:03,360 Speaker 5: and so he's sides and he's chosen you. But let's 443 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:05,560 Speaker 5: not make it any harder than it can be. 444 00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:06,840 Speaker 6: Yeah, very good. 445 00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:08,399 Speaker 5: The chicken tenders was fine? 446 00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:12,240 Speaker 6: Feel low, all right? Moving on to Aaron in Oklahoma. 447 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:15,120 Speaker 9: Aaron says, my mother's sixty four year old boyfriend makes 448 00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:18,960 Speaker 9: comments about my butt and it's making me uncomfortable. I'm 449 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:21,040 Speaker 9: five to three and I'm a curby girl, but I 450 00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:24,119 Speaker 9: dress very conservatively. I've told my mother that he is 451 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:26,399 Speaker 9: a dirty old man, and she said he means no harm. 452 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:31,119 Speaker 9: It is underhanded way of giving a compliment. My husband 453 00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:34,680 Speaker 9: is about to get involved since my mom thinks it's cute. 454 00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:38,320 Speaker 9: I'm forty years old, so I don't need my husband's help. 455 00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:40,240 Speaker 9: How do I stop this dirty old fool? 456 00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:43,159 Speaker 5: Uh uh no, No, I let your husband helele it. 457 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:47,480 Speaker 5: Let your husband handle it. You gonna will be learning, 458 00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:50,960 Speaker 5: but just let him hand it. You're forty, You don't 459 00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:51,760 Speaker 5: need your husband. 460 00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:52,200 Speaker 1: You don't. 461 00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:55,720 Speaker 5: But the husband can talk to him a little bit 462 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:58,720 Speaker 5: different in a man. Any more comments about my lady behind. 463 00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:01,160 Speaker 5: It's going to be a problem for you with your behind. 464 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:03,600 Speaker 5: You just got a little man said it'll end a 465 00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:07,160 Speaker 5: lot quicker. See you then already went to yo mama 466 00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:10,000 Speaker 5: about it. It didn't work out. Now you're gonna go 467 00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:12,760 Speaker 5: to him. How you think it's gonna work out? Let 468 00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:15,600 Speaker 5: your husband talk to the man and it'll be done. 469 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:20,239 Speaker 5: It's just a respectful conversation. He that's sixty four year old, 470 00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:23,160 Speaker 5: don't want it forty. He don't want that fast? 471 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:24,800 Speaker 1: What he won't fast? 472 00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:27,600 Speaker 5: See I'm sixty four. I'm telling you that ain't what 473 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:32,560 Speaker 5: we want. Look at the bright scared of it, but 474 00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:36,480 Speaker 5: we don't need that. A lot of speed moving around 475 00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:41,080 Speaker 5: in that room, and it ain't coming from him. A 476 00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:43,880 Speaker 5: lot of speed in that room, a lot of endings, 477 00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:46,320 Speaker 5: and it ain't coming from the sixty four year old. 478 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:51,840 Speaker 6: All right, moving, that's behind though, You're on point. 479 00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:55,320 Speaker 9: This morning, Celo Courtney in Tampa writes that I am 480 00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:57,960 Speaker 9: recently divorced and I have a crush on my coworker. 481 00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:00,720 Speaker 9: I heard he's messing with another girl at work, so 482 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:03,960 Speaker 9: I don't need or want any drama. He won't admit 483 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 9: that he's messing around, but the fact that he's sinking 484 00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:09,240 Speaker 9: around with me makes me believe it's true. We've done 485 00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:12,320 Speaker 9: everything except go all the way, and I want him badly, 486 00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:16,440 Speaker 9: but for some reason, he's holding back. I invited him 487 00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:18,880 Speaker 9: to my house, but he won't come. Does this mean 488 00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:21,119 Speaker 9: he is with another woman and he's trying to be 489 00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:21,959 Speaker 9: faithful to her? 490 00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:23,680 Speaker 1: Lady? Are you for real? 491 00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:24,400 Speaker 5: Huh? 492 00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:25,560 Speaker 6: Yep, she's for real. 493 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:27,080 Speaker 1: Wait are you for real? Courtney? 494 00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:30,280 Speaker 5: You all have done everything but go all the way. 495 00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:33,600 Speaker 5: He won't go all the way. You invited him to 496 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,280 Speaker 5: your house, but he won't come. You know he's dating 497 00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:39,800 Speaker 5: a coworker that he's fooling around with. You don't want 498 00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:42,600 Speaker 5: no drama, but you right on the edge of creating drama. 499 00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:44,240 Speaker 1: I can't. 500 00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:46,840 Speaker 5: I can't help you, Courtney, because it seems to me 501 00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:50,159 Speaker 5: like you want to do what you want to do regardless. 502 00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:53,359 Speaker 5: Now you just need Uncle Steve's permission. I'm not gonna 503 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:53,879 Speaker 5: give it to you. 504 00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:57,960 Speaker 1: Good, that's what she wants. You're dating this man is 505 00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:01,119 Speaker 1: dating another woman on the job. But he won't admit it. 506 00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:01,879 Speaker 1: But you know it. 507 00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:06,440 Speaker 5: He don't admit to you either. You just got divorce. 508 00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:09,840 Speaker 5: Why would you jump into somebody that's in a relationship. 509 00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:13,800 Speaker 5: That's probably why you got divorced in the first place. 510 00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:21,400 Speaker 5: Somebody would meet somebody already in a relationship, Courtney. Let's 511 00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:26,760 Speaker 5: not be stupid here, Courtney. There are other men out there. 512 00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:30,040 Speaker 5: Open up your pool, get on the day, ap Quit 513 00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:32,880 Speaker 5: trying to find your man. At your job and your church. 514 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:40,080 Speaker 5: It's the same people down there every week. Open up 515 00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:43,720 Speaker 5: your but it's the same men every week at the church. 516 00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:45,960 Speaker 5: Ain't no new men coming to the church. It's new 517 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,800 Speaker 5: women coming to the church. Ain't no new men coming 518 00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:54,200 Speaker 5: to the church. Men sign up for church like Republicans 519 00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:55,560 Speaker 5: sign up for the vaccine. 520 00:27:57,200 --> 00:28:04,400 Speaker 1: Damn. And we don't want it right there? 521 00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:07,960 Speaker 6: This it leave it right there? 522 00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:10,520 Speaker 3: Wow? 523 00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:13,600 Speaker 6: Does this mean he is with another woman and he's 524 00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:15,240 Speaker 6: trying to be faithful to her. 525 00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:20,159 Speaker 1: It means he don't want you. What you're trying to 526 00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:21,960 Speaker 1: put it on here? He don't want you. 527 00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 5: He'd have done everything with you except go all the way. 528 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:27,440 Speaker 5: You'd invited him over the house and he won't come. 529 00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:32,600 Speaker 5: One and one is two. Yes, what you won't whatever 530 00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:35,440 Speaker 5: he doing, don't worry about that. He don't, won't you? 531 00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:43,280 Speaker 6: Hello, will come on Courtney, Come on, Courtney girl. All right, 532 00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:50,680 Speaker 6: thank you, clo. You're listening hard Morning show. All right, Steve, 533 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:52,680 Speaker 6: is that time and game when we need you the most. 534 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:54,800 Speaker 6: We need you to be the judge. It's time for 535 00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:57,920 Speaker 6: right or wrong with your nephew. 536 00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:04,640 Speaker 5: Have you ever noticed all of the worst segments we 537 00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:08,800 Speaker 5: have Tommy is you know it's amazing to be a 538 00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:12,240 Speaker 5: part of the worst segment and the best segment. Well, 539 00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:14,200 Speaker 5: he's a part of the worst and the best. The 540 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:17,480 Speaker 5: pranks are the best segments, right, wrong. 541 00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:19,440 Speaker 1: You just don't like the fact that I make sense. 542 00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:22,440 Speaker 1: I wish to try to gang up on me. 543 00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:25,000 Speaker 8: You and this really shows you what the A and 544 00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:28,680 Speaker 8: M college system is doing. What this really shows me? 545 00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:32,840 Speaker 8: He got one ready? 546 00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:35,840 Speaker 7: Okay, So let me ask you this, So I asked 547 00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:38,080 Speaker 7: him this last night. He ain't respond. Will you tell 548 00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:42,640 Speaker 7: him it is rude for a deaf person to do 549 00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:47,840 Speaker 7: sign language? Why their mouth is full of food? You 550 00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:53,480 Speaker 7: you're not supposed to talk while your mouth is full. 551 00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:57,000 Speaker 1: So am I right? You're not supposed to sign language 552 00:29:57,440 --> 00:30:00,480 Speaker 1: while you're eating. Tell him. 553 00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:05,560 Speaker 2: You're not gonna say just. 554 00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 1: So you mean to tell busy if your fingers going, 555 00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:14,720 Speaker 1: that's rude. 556 00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:20,200 Speaker 5: But if they could chew with their mouth closed and talk, 557 00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:24,080 Speaker 5: if you can chew, if you talk without over it 558 00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:24,800 Speaker 5: in your mouth. 559 00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:28,880 Speaker 7: I saw this at the restaurant and I was a Paul, 560 00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:32,920 Speaker 7: this is just rude. You can't be doing sign language 561 00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:33,520 Speaker 7: in your mouth. 562 00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:36,920 Speaker 1: That rude. I haven't a spell a Paul. 563 00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:41,760 Speaker 3: Language. 564 00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:47,200 Speaker 1: Do that one now, Then here's another one for Mr 565 00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:51,640 Speaker 1: Junior boy. Tell this boy if. 566 00:30:53,400 --> 00:31:00,360 Speaker 7: Some simese twins, Yeah, have six with some most Siames swings? 567 00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:08,719 Speaker 1: Ain't that swinging? Telling that dog about that last night time? 568 00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:13,360 Speaker 1: I think you're right on that. Yeah, I had two corners. 569 00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:20,560 Speaker 1: I had to get out. I can't even I'm with 570 00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:21,560 Speaker 1: you when you're right. 571 00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 5: Swing. 572 00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:26,800 Speaker 8: If I look over my shoulder, see my partner with 573 00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:28,240 Speaker 8: the person I'm connected to. 574 00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:30,840 Speaker 4: Swinging. 575 00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:34,840 Speaker 5: I can't believe if you saw the twins and you 576 00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:37,520 Speaker 5: in here with this girl, it ain't a wing in hell. 577 00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:38,360 Speaker 5: I see. 578 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:44,080 Speaker 6: I love right or wrong. 579 00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:45,160 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I love it. 580 00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:48,520 Speaker 6: I love as stupid. 581 00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:55,120 Speaker 1: Looking at me like, hey man, what is you excited 582 00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:58,320 Speaker 1: about right here? 583 00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:00,800 Speaker 4: I am you? 584 00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:04,479 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, and you looking at us? 585 00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:04,920 Speaker 4: Yeah? 586 00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:08,000 Speaker 1: You over there getting it and I know what you're 587 00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:14,840 Speaker 1: doing it, but you try to flip, y'all. I'll tell 588 00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:16,120 Speaker 1: you what better not get him. 589 00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:23,160 Speaker 4: Just like that. 590 00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:26,040 Speaker 5: That's it, that's true. 591 00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:29,800 Speaker 1: He's gonna text me back. Okay, you you you kind 592 00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:32,160 Speaker 1: of got a point on it. You didn't want adn't 593 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:32,880 Speaker 1: want a minute? 594 00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:39,479 Speaker 7: What else? You know the reason why he picked him 595 00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:41,840 Speaker 7: a call because last week we're on the phone, I said, 596 00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:44,479 Speaker 7: you do know the devil is married? 597 00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:47,080 Speaker 1: And then he gonna just hang up on me. What 598 00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:53,880 Speaker 1: will you tell him the devil is married? I can 599 00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:55,280 Speaker 1: tell you marriage. 600 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:07,680 Speaker 7: Is right? 601 00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:12,880 Speaker 6: Come on, Johnny, right or wrong? Why why are you 602 00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:13,360 Speaker 6: saying that? 603 00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:17,600 Speaker 1: Finish it? I know his wife and his ex wife. 604 00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:19,520 Speaker 4: Why? 605 00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:23,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, more than one way you can get in trouble. 606 00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:25,840 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I was just talking about the devil. 607 00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:31,320 Speaker 7: I just told him the devil was mad because you know, 608 00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:34,280 Speaker 7: because you know when they when they be raining and 609 00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:37,120 Speaker 7: sunshine and at the same time, that's when they be arguing. 610 00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:39,240 Speaker 1: That's because I know he that's my grandmama say it. 611 00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:42,280 Speaker 1: So I need to be the man are you talking about? 612 00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:42,640 Speaker 4: No? 613 00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:50,440 Speaker 5: No, he actually does have a wife. And would you stop. 614 00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:58,760 Speaker 1: Stop it right now? And how much pain was you 615 00:33:58,880 --> 00:33:59,160 Speaker 1: in me? 616 00:33:59,520 --> 00:33:59,720 Speaker 5: Boy? 617 00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:03,880 Speaker 6: I mean we all heard that when we were little, 618 00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:05,680 Speaker 6: right when it's raining or whatever. 619 00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:09,879 Speaker 5: I've never heard that, and this first time I'm hearing 620 00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:10,480 Speaker 5: this for Tommy. 621 00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:15,319 Speaker 1: But I am here to confirm so far. 622 00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:17,840 Speaker 6: And how do you know it? 623 00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:21,200 Speaker 1: Cause I stated. 624 00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:25,759 Speaker 5: That. 625 00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:28,200 Speaker 1: See, I just didn't work out for you. 626 00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:32,280 Speaker 6: Don't say that, Tommy. 627 00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:36,600 Speaker 1: Are you doing Tommy what I love? Right or wrong? 628 00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:40,600 Speaker 1: This first time? You've ever been two out of three? Okay, 629 00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:44,040 Speaker 1: I don't want to say this from you. I'm telling 630 00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:45,279 Speaker 1: you you do it. 631 00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:47,520 Speaker 5: The death one was the only one I didn't like, 632 00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:53,360 Speaker 5: the swinging Siamese and Lucifer's ex wife. 633 00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:59,399 Speaker 1: I'd say you got three out of three today. Okay, yeah, 634 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:00,239 Speaker 1: I don't. 635 00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:02,160 Speaker 6: But you're the judge, Steve. 636 00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:03,840 Speaker 1: No, I think he was. 637 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:06,319 Speaker 5: He was on fire today except for the death talking. 638 00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:08,560 Speaker 5: I think it's very gifted. If death person can talk 639 00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:11,920 Speaker 5: and chew with his mouth, I think that's a talent. 640 00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:16,719 Speaker 5: Let me tell you right now, because my my mouth. 641 00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:19,080 Speaker 5: Food fall out my mouth all the time when I'm talking. 642 00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:24,640 Speaker 6: You're listening Morning show? All right, guys, it is time 643 00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:27,480 Speaker 6: for it. Would you rather here's the first question. 644 00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:31,320 Speaker 9: Would you rather get a paper cut on your finger 645 00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:34,000 Speaker 9: every time you turn the page of a book or 646 00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:37,520 Speaker 9: a magazine or something, or would you rather bite your 647 00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:39,480 Speaker 9: tongue every time you eat? 648 00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:40,959 Speaker 6: So what's worse? 649 00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:44,080 Speaker 1: Give me that paper cut? Cut paper cuts. 650 00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:45,800 Speaker 5: I'll take the paper book because I ain't reading no 651 00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:49,239 Speaker 5: book no way, so that ain't going to be too 652 00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:54,320 Speaker 5: much damage. I don't never read more than a page anyway. 653 00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:57,680 Speaker 5: I beat a page, bite my damn tongue. 654 00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:00,640 Speaker 6: I think I'm rather my tongue. 655 00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:03,759 Speaker 1: No, I know you don't. We must ain't never been 656 00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:04,200 Speaker 1: it before. 657 00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:07,320 Speaker 6: I've been my tongue before. But I don't like paper cuts. 658 00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:08,000 Speaker 6: I hate that. 659 00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:25,480 Speaker 1: Coming up, and you rather do that cut? I can't bite. 660 00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:30,120 Speaker 1: I hate biting my tongue, biting my jaw all. 661 00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:33,680 Speaker 6: That is painful. 662 00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:38,160 Speaker 1: And when the molars chopped down, look and then you 663 00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:42,239 Speaker 1: do it back to back, yes, yes, yes, yes, make 664 00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:45,759 Speaker 1: what is wrong with me and take that the heel 665 00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:46,080 Speaker 1: in there? 666 00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:49,279 Speaker 6: Yeah a long time? All right, here's another one. 667 00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:53,400 Speaker 9: Would you rather be a little late, just a little 668 00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:55,760 Speaker 9: bit late, or just way too early? 669 00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:56,719 Speaker 6: Way too early? 670 00:36:57,200 --> 00:37:01,040 Speaker 1: I'm going with the little late. Really, I'm celebrity cordially. 671 00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:02,520 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, you're a celebrity. 672 00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:04,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna be way too early, sitting up in 673 00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:07,879 Speaker 1: here for I'm sitting up in here. 674 00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:13,000 Speaker 5: Offer like I'm thirsty, Like if y'all know this will 675 00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:14,560 Speaker 5: be Yeah, Hey, yeah, I'm sitting up here like I 676 00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:15,839 Speaker 5: ain't got no work or nothing. 677 00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:19,759 Speaker 1: Hit me for this role. I shouldn't want to do 678 00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:23,120 Speaker 1: this show. Hey, how y'all doing this? Speaking of everybody 679 00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:25,839 Speaker 1: coming in something? That's Steve Harvey? Hi, guys, how you doing? 680 00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:26,200 Speaker 1: I'm here? 681 00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:31,000 Speaker 10: Hey, just let that Steve Harvey. Yeah, can't just let 682 00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:34,080 Speaker 10: whoever it is. Let's let's let him over here. But 683 00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:35,000 Speaker 10: a five minutes early? 684 00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:35,600 Speaker 4: Really need this? 685 00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:41,759 Speaker 6: So, yeah, you're a celebrity, so you can. I hate 686 00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:43,120 Speaker 6: being late? Oh god, I hate. 687 00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:45,160 Speaker 5: I had a guy one time though this happened in 688 00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:47,160 Speaker 5: New Orleans and me and him fell out behind this 689 00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:50,839 Speaker 5: had a meeting doing Essence Festival with this guy at 690 00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:55,160 Speaker 5: this restaurant, and uh, I had I had a driver, 691 00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:58,160 Speaker 5: and so the driver got caught up in traffic and 692 00:37:58,280 --> 00:37:59,880 Speaker 5: was waiting. And so when I got to the restaurant, 693 00:37:59,880 --> 00:38:02,920 Speaker 5: I ten minutes late. This guy was a white collar 694 00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:05,719 Speaker 5: Wall Street guy. He said, wow, you're late. I said, yeah, 695 00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:07,520 Speaker 5: I called you man. I was running behind him. My 696 00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:10,839 Speaker 5: driver got stuck in traffic. He said, you didn't think 697 00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:13,399 Speaker 5: to get a cab. I said, no, I didn't think 698 00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:16,239 Speaker 5: to get a cab. Well, if a cab would have 699 00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:17,920 Speaker 5: gotten you here on time, you think that would have 700 00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:20,640 Speaker 5: been better. I said no, I can't get in cabs. Dog, 701 00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:22,120 Speaker 5: I'm famous. I don't know what to do with it 702 00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:25,200 Speaker 5: to take me. I got a drive. All of a sudden, 703 00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:26,680 Speaker 5: he got Steve Harve and the cab. Now I'm in 704 00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:28,359 Speaker 5: the back of the French Quarter getting my ass. 705 00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:28,800 Speaker 1: Whoop. 706 00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:37,719 Speaker 6: You're listening hard Morning show. All right, guys, here's a 707 00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:38,560 Speaker 6: question for you. 708 00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:42,760 Speaker 9: What old arguments do you or your significant others still 709 00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:44,799 Speaker 9: bring up to this day? 710 00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:46,960 Speaker 1: Junior man? 711 00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:49,760 Speaker 9: Now, well, now, wait a minute. This was the topic 712 00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:53,400 Speaker 9: on reddit dot com. A man said he complimented a 713 00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:57,240 Speaker 9: waitress on her short, bald haircut in front of his wife, 714 00:38:57,600 --> 00:39:00,680 Speaker 9: and over a year later, his wife still makes him 715 00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:03,279 Speaker 9: feel badly about it. According to the story, his wife 716 00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:05,919 Speaker 9: offers to go to the bathroom and shave her. 717 00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:12,359 Speaker 6: Head if that will make you happy. I love it, Yes, 718 00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:13,200 Speaker 6: I love it. 719 00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:17,359 Speaker 1: Right, it's just a nice cut. 720 00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:19,400 Speaker 9: Well, maybe I need to go to the bathroom and 721 00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:21,320 Speaker 9: shave my head if that'll make you happy. 722 00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:24,000 Speaker 6: Maybe that'll make you happy if I got a shaved head. 723 00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:26,480 Speaker 6: I know just how she said, you. 724 00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:33,280 Speaker 1: Know, yes, what a compliments? 725 00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:37,680 Speaker 9: Oh you don't like my long hair? Maybe I need 726 00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:42,400 Speaker 9: to shave my head. Maybe I'll yes. And if you compliment, 727 00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:44,680 Speaker 9: you handing out compliments and stuff. 728 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:48,160 Speaker 6: All right, So, Steve, I don't know why this makes 729 00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:48,800 Speaker 6: me think of you. 730 00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:52,920 Speaker 9: Do you have any arguments in your relationship that never 731 00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:56,319 Speaker 9: go away? And you know something that comes up from 732 00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:56,960 Speaker 9: time to time? 733 00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,880 Speaker 5: The thing we really are about and over some damn kids. 734 00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:06,640 Speaker 5: You know, it's some damn kids. Most my arguments is 735 00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:08,840 Speaker 5: be about some one of them kids. We have a 736 00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:10,840 Speaker 5: difference of opinion of the way we all to handle it. 737 00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:13,680 Speaker 5: That's the one that you know comes up all the time, 738 00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:16,480 Speaker 5: you know, And I'm too hard. I don't know how 739 00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:19,280 Speaker 5: to love the kids in spite of their problems and stuff. 740 00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:21,960 Speaker 5: I know kids have problems and everything, but you know, 741 00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:23,399 Speaker 5: I don't want to hear. 742 00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:27,920 Speaker 6: What you're their parents are supposed to listen. 743 00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:29,640 Speaker 1: I'm tired of parents. 744 00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:32,440 Speaker 5: Do you jammen? 745 00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:33,520 Speaker 1: You think you know everything? 746 00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:36,839 Speaker 5: Go ahead, mess this little section of your life up 747 00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:38,000 Speaker 5: with your little stupid ass. 748 00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:42,120 Speaker 1: Come in here. I don't know the man. I'm so sick. Man, 749 00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:44,280 Speaker 1: Hell go ahead. Try. 750 00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:46,000 Speaker 2: Oh. 751 00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:47,520 Speaker 5: She got so mad at me the other day after 752 00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:49,120 Speaker 5: one of the kids asked me if I said try, 753 00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:50,520 Speaker 5: she said, till you. 754 00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:51,440 Speaker 1: Know that ain't gonna work. 755 00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:54,719 Speaker 5: Well, okay, if you tell them don't do it, they're 756 00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:59,440 Speaker 5: gonna do it anyway. Okay, try it, try it. 757 00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:05,840 Speaker 1: Let's let's go ahead owing knowing that. 758 00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:09,680 Speaker 5: That's not knowing what's gonna happen. Because when I told 759 00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:11,560 Speaker 5: you not to do something, you do it anyway. Then 760 00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:13,800 Speaker 5: you come back in here. I should have listened to you. 761 00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:17,880 Speaker 1: Yes you don't. She's going out here and do it 762 00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:18,880 Speaker 1: fall on your face. 763 00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:19,680 Speaker 5: But did you? 764 00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:22,839 Speaker 9: Yeah? 765 00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:26,640 Speaker 1: I did most of the time. Most of the time. 766 00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:28,480 Speaker 5: Well, I just kept most my stuff from him. I 767 00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:30,359 Speaker 5: didn't go in there with opinion. I ain't ask some nothing. 768 00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:32,200 Speaker 5: I just went on and blew it. 769 00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:36,600 Speaker 1: I've I did that and shut your poor ass up? 770 00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:37,759 Speaker 1: What did you do now? 771 00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:43,040 Speaker 6: You didn't want to hear all yeah, yeah, all right, 772 00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:45,399 Speaker 6: so junior, I know you have one. 773 00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:47,800 Speaker 1: Oh god, oh okay. 774 00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:51,799 Speaker 8: Girl came to the store time right and after the show, 775 00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:54,120 Speaker 8: you know, they go to the bathroom and she hears 776 00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:56,239 Speaker 8: some women in there talking about me about how funny 777 00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:57,040 Speaker 8: I was and how. 778 00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:57,480 Speaker 1: Cute of them. 779 00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:01,680 Speaker 8: She heard that, so anytime anybody compliment me. And she said, well, 780 00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:03,440 Speaker 8: let me go in the bathroom. See what the discussion 781 00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:07,600 Speaker 8: is this time about somebody. Somebody say I like your shirt. 782 00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:09,320 Speaker 8: She says, let me get up and go to the bathroom. 783 00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:11,840 Speaker 8: It must be a conversation. She the only one in 784 00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:14,799 Speaker 8: here like this damn shirt. So he got I don't 785 00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:16,920 Speaker 8: like to talk about that every damn time we go 786 00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:17,239 Speaker 8: out there. 787 00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:19,040 Speaker 1: I don't care if we go to pulling the drive through. 788 00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:20,440 Speaker 1: Oh I like your sunglasses. 789 00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:22,680 Speaker 8: Women running the bathroom in MacDonald's, it must be a 790 00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:26,560 Speaker 8: conversation about the sunglass, don't matter where we go. 791 00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:29,600 Speaker 1: We was at our cousin funeral, he said, man, I 792 00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:32,200 Speaker 1: like that suit. Old suscussion in the bathroom at the church. 793 00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:34,560 Speaker 1: Let me running the bathroom. She was saying about the 794 00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:40,919 Speaker 1: suit man. Yeah, she's so fly. Yeah, I was even 795 00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:41,880 Speaker 1: doing nothing. 796 00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:43,960 Speaker 6: Said, I didn't ask these ladies to say nothing. 797 00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:46,759 Speaker 1: But then I brought it. I flipped it, you know, 798 00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:48,759 Speaker 1: I said, well, you should have said something first. 799 00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:49,960 Speaker 6: Then we had here it's no more. 800 00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:56,319 Speaker 1: Oh that was Why did you say that, Junior? Because 801 00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:56,960 Speaker 1: I'm stupid? 802 00:42:58,000 --> 00:42:58,879 Speaker 2: What did you say? 803 00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:03,160 Speaker 1: What happened? She turned around on you that talking for 804 00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:12,759 Speaker 1: the day. Oh yeah, the silent treatment. All right, guys, 805 00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:13,120 Speaker 1: thank you. 806 00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:14,640 Speaker 6: Coming up, we'll have more of the. 807 00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:18,839 Speaker 9: Steve Harby Morning shows right after this. You're listening hard 808 00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:22,200 Speaker 9: Morning show coming up at the top of the hour. 809 00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:25,880 Speaker 9: Right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today, 810 00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:29,840 Speaker 9: and the subject is my mother and my ex are besties. 811 00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:33,120 Speaker 6: My mother and my ex are besties. 812 00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:35,360 Speaker 9: We'll get into that in just a little bit, but 813 00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:38,520 Speaker 9: right now the nephew is here with today's frank phone call. 814 00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:39,920 Speaker 6: What you got for his neft. 815 00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:45,759 Speaker 1: Make a wish ministry? Let me hear that. 816 00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:47,000 Speaker 6: That sounds nice. 817 00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:51,920 Speaker 1: It sounds good, don't Yeah, it always does? Und you 818 00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:53,359 Speaker 1: best you bet. 819 00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:00,440 Speaker 4: Cat. 820 00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:04,920 Speaker 2: Let's go New Baptist. This is Terrence may help you please, 821 00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:05,960 Speaker 2: Brother Terrence. 822 00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:10,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, how you doing? I got your number? You you 823 00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:12,560 Speaker 4: with the over the church you with to make a 824 00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:13,320 Speaker 4: wish ministry? 825 00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:15,160 Speaker 2: Yes, I am I may help you. 826 00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:22,080 Speaker 4: Well listen, I'm I'm I'm actually uh, I'm I'm terminally ill, brother, 827 00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:26,480 Speaker 4: brother Terrence, And I don't you know, as far as 828 00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:29,520 Speaker 4: what the doctors tell me, it could be six months 829 00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:34,120 Speaker 4: or another year, but I know, uh, my time here 830 00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:35,920 Speaker 4: is definitely limited. 831 00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:36,200 Speaker 7: You know. 832 00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:39,000 Speaker 2: Well, I'm sorry to hear that, but we're definitely here 833 00:44:39,120 --> 00:44:42,520 Speaker 2: to help you out with whatever you need or whatever 834 00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:43,360 Speaker 2: we can help you with. 835 00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:44,880 Speaker 1: So what can we do for you? 836 00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:48,800 Speaker 4: Well? You know, I truly believe that sometimes people have 837 00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:51,480 Speaker 4: you know, I've seen one of the more movies they 838 00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:53,759 Speaker 4: got with it got a bucket list or whatever they 839 00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:56,440 Speaker 4: call it. You know, people trying to do things before 840 00:44:56,480 --> 00:44:59,399 Speaker 4: they leave here. I guess I'm just sitting around trying 841 00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:00,880 Speaker 4: to figure out what I could do and what I 842 00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:04,520 Speaker 4: wanted to do before I left this world and went 843 00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:07,920 Speaker 4: on to what he asked for me next. You know, 844 00:45:08,040 --> 00:45:12,400 Speaker 4: I don't believe in doing anything unless is prayed on first. 845 00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:16,960 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, if you don't mind, maybe you can you know, 846 00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:19,480 Speaker 4: before I even tell you my wish, we prayed that 847 00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:22,759 Speaker 4: the wish would come true. You're not doing anything like that. 848 00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:25,360 Speaker 2: Oh no, I don't mind praying. That's what we're here for. 849 00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:27,360 Speaker 2: Bow your head with me. 850 00:45:28,080 --> 00:45:31,879 Speaker 4: Yes, yes, yes, sir, is your head by yes, sir, yes, sir. 851 00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:34,600 Speaker 2: It is Brother God. We come to you in the 852 00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:37,880 Speaker 2: homeless way. We know how Lord, we asked you to 853 00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:41,439 Speaker 2: touch this young man and every which way he hurt, 854 00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:44,760 Speaker 2: and then we asked you to deliver him for whatever 855 00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:47,200 Speaker 2: is going on with him and let him know that 856 00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:50,040 Speaker 2: we the church is here to help him with whatever 857 00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:54,279 Speaker 2: his needs is in his last days. And Jesus Name, I. 858 00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:58,600 Speaker 4: Pray say Amen with me, Amen, Amen, that's. 859 00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:01,640 Speaker 2: Gonna do it here. Now. You a member of the 860 00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:03,880 Speaker 2: church here of Newton, Well. 861 00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:07,640 Speaker 4: I was a member. I still consider myself a member. 862 00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:10,400 Speaker 4: It's just been quite sometimes trying to over a year 863 00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:12,319 Speaker 4: and a half, two years since I've been able to come, 864 00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:17,120 Speaker 4: you know, due to my illness. But definitely I will 865 00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:17,680 Speaker 4: remember that. 866 00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:20,360 Speaker 2: Well, that's all right. We're not worried about all that. 867 00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:23,759 Speaker 2: We just here to take care of your last and 868 00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:26,920 Speaker 2: final wish. That's what our ministry is for, you know. 869 00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:31,239 Speaker 2: We helps people with with with anything they need, you know, like. 870 00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:33,560 Speaker 4: What what what all of I mean when when people 871 00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:35,839 Speaker 4: call and won't things what all of you you all 872 00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:37,520 Speaker 4: what all of y'all helped them with? 873 00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:42,440 Speaker 2: Well, we've helped them with the rent. Uh, take them 874 00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:46,799 Speaker 2: to the store, help them with a utility bill, come 875 00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:49,719 Speaker 2: out and cut the grass, anything like that that they 876 00:46:49,840 --> 00:46:52,600 Speaker 2: just can't do. Take them to the doctor's apartment. Anything 877 00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:55,440 Speaker 2: we'd like to help them with, we do exactly that. 878 00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:59,960 Speaker 4: Okay, Well I pretty much got those things taking care. 879 00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:03,440 Speaker 4: You know. I think what I'd like to do between 880 00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:06,680 Speaker 4: you and and myself brother saying that I've never told 881 00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:11,520 Speaker 4: anyone what I'm about to tell you. I've never been 882 00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:16,879 Speaker 4: with a with a woman to I'm you know, I'm 883 00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:20,080 Speaker 4: thirty eight, but I've never been with a woman. 884 00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:23,239 Speaker 2: Well, I guess that might be a blessing. You might 885 00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:24,879 Speaker 2: you might be here. That's a good thing. 886 00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:28,600 Speaker 4: Well, you know, but sometimes you know, I guess before 887 00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:31,360 Speaker 4: I leave, I guess that's a desire that I have. 888 00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:34,880 Speaker 4: And and and uh, what I wanted to ask you 889 00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:38,880 Speaker 4: was there is a lady there at the church, and 890 00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:43,680 Speaker 4: before I leave, I think that's the woman that I 891 00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:44,759 Speaker 4: would actually like to. 892 00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:46,239 Speaker 5: To be with. 893 00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:49,359 Speaker 2: Well, I don't know if make a wish. Ministry can 894 00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:52,560 Speaker 2: support that kind of stuff. But go ahead, let me hear. 895 00:47:53,160 --> 00:47:56,800 Speaker 4: Okay, the lady that I'm I'm actually interested in actually 896 00:47:57,320 --> 00:48:01,319 Speaker 4: uh she works at the church too. O real when 897 00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:03,719 Speaker 4: not see, she's kind of me tall on, she's about 898 00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:07,400 Speaker 4: five to nine and she's probably about a size D 899 00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:12,919 Speaker 4: a beautiful long league man and and and sandy type 900 00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:16,399 Speaker 4: of hair, sandy color, sandy brown man. And I mean 901 00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:18,200 Speaker 4: she looked like CAREMEA. 902 00:48:18,280 --> 00:48:21,040 Speaker 2: Hold on a minute. What's her name? 903 00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:24,040 Speaker 4: Uh? I think her name Linda? 904 00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:27,000 Speaker 2: Now hold on, that's my wife? 905 00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:27,680 Speaker 4: What you mean? 906 00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:28,280 Speaker 2: Go ahead? 907 00:48:28,360 --> 00:48:28,560 Speaker 5: See? 908 00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:31,240 Speaker 4: Wait? Wait wait wait wait wait wait Linda is your wife? 909 00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:33,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's my wife? You sorrin? 910 00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:35,080 Speaker 1: What do you mean? 911 00:48:36,120 --> 00:48:36,359 Speaker 5: Listen? 912 00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:39,680 Speaker 4: Y'all are ministry now now, if y'all supposed to be 913 00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:42,160 Speaker 4: taking care of people, don't make a wish and taking 914 00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:44,280 Speaker 4: care of what they want before they leave this world. 915 00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:46,040 Speaker 4: If that's my wish, what is. 916 00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:49,200 Speaker 2: The problem listening here? You didn't cross every line there 917 00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:51,680 Speaker 2: was about this man, so I don't give a damn 918 00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:54,719 Speaker 2: about it. The more you're talking about sleeping with my wife, 919 00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:56,560 Speaker 2: if I see you, I'm gonna do something to you. 920 00:48:56,760 --> 00:48:59,160 Speaker 2: They ain't gonna even be able to recognize you. So 921 00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:01,600 Speaker 2: what the talking about missing with my wife? 922 00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:04,600 Speaker 4: Son of them? I'll call missus Linda myself and seeing 923 00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:06,759 Speaker 4: she don't have a problem with helping me to make 924 00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:08,719 Speaker 4: my wish come true, go right ahead and. 925 00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:12,160 Speaker 2: Call and you won't call nobody else. That'll be the 926 00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:14,080 Speaker 2: last call you make. 927 00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:18,400 Speaker 4: I thought y'all were here to relieve people so they 928 00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:21,520 Speaker 4: can enjoy themselves before they leave this world. 929 00:49:21,840 --> 00:49:24,320 Speaker 2: You talking about sleeping with my wife? Are you crazy? 930 00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:27,400 Speaker 4: But if I'm finna leave here, ain't nobody gonna know 931 00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:27,879 Speaker 4: what you want? 932 00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:31,279 Speaker 2: I don't care if you die. I don't care. You 933 00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:33,839 Speaker 2: ain't sleeping with my wife and you fool with her, 934 00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:36,320 Speaker 2: you probably gonna go ahead and die quicker than you 935 00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:36,759 Speaker 2: need to. 936 00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:39,239 Speaker 4: I thought this was a ministry. 937 00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:40,080 Speaker 2: I don't tell you. 938 00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:43,200 Speaker 4: Now you're over there telling me about dying. Y'all supposed 939 00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:45,719 Speaker 4: to be a ministry that helps people before they leave 940 00:49:45,840 --> 00:49:46,840 Speaker 4: on wonder what it is? 941 00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:49,239 Speaker 2: But you talking about sleeping with my wife? You got 942 00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:51,880 Speaker 2: an illness? But something must be wrong with your ma. 943 00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:53,560 Speaker 2: Ain't talking about missing with my wife. 944 00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:55,640 Speaker 4: Ain't nobody gonna even know I fen with your wife want? 945 00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:57,719 Speaker 4: I'm gone there, ain't gonna be with the two of y'all. 946 00:49:58,080 --> 00:49:59,719 Speaker 4: At least you would have helped me before. 947 00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:02,160 Speaker 2: I no, I can't help you with nothing. And let 948 00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:04,320 Speaker 2: me tell you something. I'm not the preacher, I'm not 949 00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:07,319 Speaker 2: the past I'm not the deacon, I'm not none of them. 950 00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:09,920 Speaker 2: But if you mentioned my wife, you gonna know who 951 00:50:09,960 --> 00:50:12,480 Speaker 2: I am. I'm gonna be the hundred taker. Do you understand? 952 00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:14,319 Speaker 4: I don't hear what you're saying. But I got one 953 00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:16,560 Speaker 4: more paint. I need to tell you about who I 954 00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:21,680 Speaker 4: who asked you to go ahead in me, nephew shop 955 00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:26,600 Speaker 4: from the Steel Harvey Morning Show, your wife Linda, y'all 956 00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:28,239 Speaker 4: me the phrase shot me. 957 00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:29,680 Speaker 2: Now, y'all tell. 958 00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:39,960 Speaker 4: You wont y'all ain't recording this man recording every last. 959 00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:44,120 Speaker 2: Lord ham murs past ain't gonna hear this is. 960 00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:50,680 Speaker 4: Oh god, I got one more thing that Lord, what 961 00:50:50,920 --> 00:50:54,680 Speaker 4: is the fastest and I mean the radio show in the. 962 00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:57,719 Speaker 2: Land, Steve Harvey Morning Show. 963 00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:07,000 Speaker 5: Come on, NASA, I ain't now wanted them, Blake, I'm 964 00:51:07,040 --> 00:51:08,600 Speaker 5: on you must. 965 00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:10,279 Speaker 4: Hold on. 966 00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:15,920 Speaker 1: Wait a minute. Let's talk about my talk talk. 967 00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:18,760 Speaker 6: Talking about said. 968 00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:25,600 Speaker 1: Man Sandy Holland you go that what's her name? 969 00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:30,040 Speaker 6: Was play so much? 970 00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:33,200 Speaker 1: My wife? You go down quicker than you need to. 971 00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:39,120 Speaker 2: Care. 972 00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:40,840 Speaker 4: If you guy, you. 973 00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:44,680 Speaker 1: Might leave here sooner than you post. 974 00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:51,239 Speaker 5: Man, Oh man, that stupid son of a who do 975 00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:52,719 Speaker 5: you think you're gonna call him? 976 00:51:52,960 --> 00:51:55,240 Speaker 1: Sleeping? My wife? Stupid? 977 00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:57,640 Speaker 2: That was what? 978 00:51:57,960 --> 00:51:58,239 Speaker 5: What his? 979 00:51:58,520 --> 00:51:58,560 Speaker 4: What? 980 00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:03,839 Speaker 1: His prow proud? I was laughing through the plot. 981 00:52:04,080 --> 00:52:04,960 Speaker 5: Yes he will. 982 00:52:06,560 --> 00:52:09,920 Speaker 1: Want do it, Yes he will. He gonna do it 983 00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:11,520 Speaker 1: for you, Yes he is. 984 00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:13,960 Speaker 5: He gonna do it for you, bless him in these 985 00:52:14,120 --> 00:52:22,360 Speaker 5: last dates. He gonna do it, Yes he will, Oh man, Jesus' name. 986 00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:25,680 Speaker 6: All right, thank you? Never oh lord? 987 00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:27,319 Speaker 1: What's her name? 988 00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:28,680 Speaker 2: Coming up? 989 00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:32,640 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter, Linda, your stupid subject. 990 00:52:32,800 --> 00:52:35,399 Speaker 6: My mother and my ex are besties. Will get into 991 00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:36,320 Speaker 6: it right after this. 992 00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:41,960 Speaker 9: You're listening Harvey Morning Show. It's time now for today's 993 00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:47,240 Speaker 9: Strawberry Letter. If you need advice and relationships, work, dating, sex, parenting, 994 00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:50,000 Speaker 9: and more, submit your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey FM 995 00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:54,520 Speaker 9: and click submit Strawberry Letter. That's Steve Harvey FM dot 996 00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:58,200 Speaker 9: com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading 997 00:52:58,239 --> 00:53:01,680 Speaker 9: your letter live on the air. Just are going to 998 00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:04,239 Speaker 9: read this one right here, right now. It could be yours. 999 00:53:04,320 --> 00:53:07,319 Speaker 1: You never know, You never know. Buckle up and hold 1000 00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:08,719 Speaker 1: on tight. We got it for you here. 1001 00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:13,360 Speaker 9: It is a strawberry letter subject my mother and my 1002 00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:14,920 Speaker 9: ex are besties. 1003 00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:16,320 Speaker 6: Dear Stephen Shirley. 1004 00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:19,359 Speaker 9: I've been divorced for almost three years, and I moved 1005 00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:23,040 Speaker 9: away after the divorce to start anew. My husband was 1006 00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:27,040 Speaker 9: an avid cheater, and my mother finally told me after 1007 00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:29,319 Speaker 9: he'd been having an affair with a woman for over 1008 00:53:29,480 --> 00:53:32,880 Speaker 9: six months. My mother is employed by my ex husband 1009 00:53:33,080 --> 00:53:36,920 Speaker 9: as his accountant. He has two businesses that do very 1010 00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:41,480 Speaker 9: well in a small town they're in. My mother was 1011 00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:45,400 Speaker 9: a retired accountant when he and I met, and he 1012 00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:47,520 Speaker 9: fell in love with her and he hired her. 1013 00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:50,600 Speaker 6: When I say they fell in love, I mean it. 1014 00:53:51,360 --> 00:53:54,719 Speaker 9: Whenever he and I would have a disagreement, she'd always 1015 00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:57,080 Speaker 9: tell me to consider his point of view. 1016 00:53:57,400 --> 00:53:58,200 Speaker 6: When he cheated. 1017 00:53:58,600 --> 00:54:01,120 Speaker 9: I think she knew it all along and only told 1018 00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:04,000 Speaker 9: me because my ten year old daughter saw him with 1019 00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:04,760 Speaker 9: this woman. 1020 00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:06,080 Speaker 6: Excuse me. 1021 00:54:06,560 --> 00:54:10,080 Speaker 9: My daughter kept referencing daddy's friend at work, so I 1022 00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:13,560 Speaker 9: asked my mother and she spilled the teeth. Our relationship 1023 00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:16,839 Speaker 9: hasn't been the same since then, and she said it's 1024 00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:20,520 Speaker 9: because I divorced my husband. Her belief is that I 1025 00:54:20,640 --> 00:54:25,040 Speaker 9: should have kept my family together no matter what. The 1026 00:54:25,160 --> 00:54:27,840 Speaker 9: things my husband did for his girlfriend were the same 1027 00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:30,760 Speaker 9: things he did for me, So it wasn't the cheating 1028 00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:33,120 Speaker 9: that got to me. It was the time he spent 1029 00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:36,080 Speaker 9: with her and the trip he took her on. I 1030 00:54:36,239 --> 00:54:39,440 Speaker 9: asked my mother to reconsider working for him, and she 1031 00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:42,600 Speaker 9: said that whatever we had going on should not affect 1032 00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:47,640 Speaker 9: her money. Our own daughter doesn't talk to my ex 1033 00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:50,719 Speaker 9: right now because she figured out who daddy's friend was. 1034 00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:54,480 Speaker 9: My mother called recently and said she's trying to get 1035 00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:57,799 Speaker 9: the family together for Thanksgiving and she wants me there. 1036 00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:01,279 Speaker 9: She said, my ex, we'll be there. We'll be doing 1037 00:55:01,400 --> 00:55:04,400 Speaker 9: the turkey and she would cook everything else. How can 1038 00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:07,800 Speaker 9: my own mother be so ignorant and invite him to dinner? 1039 00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:11,839 Speaker 9: Should I show up and curse them both out? Well, 1040 00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:14,799 Speaker 9: you know that sounds good on paper, it really does, 1041 00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:18,399 Speaker 9: but this is bad. I mean, this situation is bad, 1042 00:55:18,800 --> 00:55:22,040 Speaker 9: and yes, your mom is really wrong. I don't advise 1043 00:55:22,120 --> 00:55:24,560 Speaker 9: you to curse your mom out. I mean, after all, 1044 00:55:25,360 --> 00:55:27,319 Speaker 9: she's all the way wrong. I agree with you one 1045 00:55:27,400 --> 00:55:31,920 Speaker 9: hundred percent, but she is your mom. She's not acting 1046 00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:34,280 Speaker 9: much like a mom, though, I will say that because 1047 00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:36,600 Speaker 9: her loyalty should be to you at all times, and 1048 00:55:36,719 --> 00:55:41,160 Speaker 9: not your ex. He's cheating, he's your ex husband. She 1049 00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:43,759 Speaker 9: knew about it, didn't tell you. She was keeping these 1050 00:55:43,800 --> 00:55:47,600 Speaker 9: secrets all because of money. Is that why she was 1051 00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:51,680 Speaker 9: doing it? I think this had to hurt you, and 1052 00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:55,560 Speaker 9: this is some kind of betrayal on your mom's part. 1053 00:55:55,960 --> 00:56:00,520 Speaker 9: The best thing you could do is decline her crazy, thoughtless, 1054 00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:04,960 Speaker 9: inconsiderate dinner invitation. Just don't go. Please make your own 1055 00:56:05,080 --> 00:56:08,359 Speaker 9: plans for you and your baby girl, your daughter, maybe 1056 00:56:08,400 --> 00:56:11,080 Speaker 9: some friends or whatever. But the main thing is to 1057 00:56:11,200 --> 00:56:13,680 Speaker 9: forget what they have going on at the mom's house 1058 00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:17,920 Speaker 9: and just let that go. Your mother is just ugh anyway. 1059 00:56:18,640 --> 00:56:22,000 Speaker 9: After the holidays, I say, continue to distance yourself. This 1060 00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:26,440 Speaker 9: is a toxic situation. Stay away from it and let 1061 00:56:26,560 --> 00:56:28,440 Speaker 9: them do their thing. Let them do her if she 1062 00:56:28,600 --> 00:56:30,759 Speaker 9: wants to stay over there with him. You know the 1063 00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:33,799 Speaker 9: lines are crossed, the line in the sand. It's divided now. 1064 00:56:34,640 --> 00:56:37,399 Speaker 9: Don't let her make you feel guilty for divorcing him. 1065 00:56:37,600 --> 00:56:41,120 Speaker 9: That was a while ago, and you should. You definitely 1066 00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:43,120 Speaker 9: did the wrong thing. If he was doing all this 1067 00:56:43,160 --> 00:56:46,600 Speaker 9: stuff that your mother said, and he obviously was, This 1068 00:56:46,800 --> 00:56:49,160 Speaker 9: is just so wrong. On so many levels, Steves. 1069 00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:55,040 Speaker 5: My mother and my ex are besties, don't I don't 1070 00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:58,359 Speaker 5: get this, especially from a male perspective. I just don't 1071 00:56:58,520 --> 00:57:02,759 Speaker 5: understand how this operate and functions. But when you're talking 1072 00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:07,799 Speaker 5: about dysfunctional people, then it's a little bit easier. You've 1073 00:57:07,840 --> 00:57:10,920 Speaker 5: been divorced for three years, you moved away to start 1074 00:57:11,120 --> 00:57:15,399 Speaker 5: new your husband was a big cheater, and your mother 1075 00:57:15,560 --> 00:57:18,400 Speaker 5: finally told you after having an affair with a woman 1076 00:57:18,520 --> 00:57:22,280 Speaker 5: for over six months. Your mother is employed by your 1077 00:57:22,360 --> 00:57:25,720 Speaker 5: ex husband as his accountant. Here's where the problem is 1078 00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:28,600 Speaker 5: right here. So he's got two bus that do very 1079 00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:31,960 Speaker 5: well in a small town. That my mother was a 1080 00:57:32,080 --> 00:57:37,120 Speaker 5: retired accountant when he and I met, and he fell 1081 00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:40,880 Speaker 5: in love with her, and he hired her. Now here's 1082 00:57:40,920 --> 00:57:43,439 Speaker 5: a problem with the letter. When I say they fell 1083 00:57:43,520 --> 00:57:49,480 Speaker 5: in love, I mean it. There's a lot in that statement, ma'am, 1084 00:57:50,360 --> 00:57:53,640 Speaker 5: And I don't have the time to unpack it, but 1085 00:57:53,800 --> 00:57:56,120 Speaker 5: I'll just rearrange some stuff in the luggage. 1086 00:57:57,880 --> 00:58:00,280 Speaker 1: Whatever he told me we. 1087 00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:04,720 Speaker 5: Had a disagreement, the girl's mother would always tell her 1088 00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:08,400 Speaker 5: to consider his point of view. Then when the dude cheated, 1089 00:58:09,600 --> 00:58:12,080 Speaker 5: the lady wrote the letter say I think she knew 1090 00:58:12,120 --> 00:58:15,120 Speaker 5: it all along and only told me because my ten 1091 00:58:15,200 --> 00:58:19,480 Speaker 5: year old daughter saw him with this woman. So I'm 1092 00:58:19,520 --> 00:58:26,080 Speaker 5: assuming that she had the daughter before she married the man, 1093 00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:30,000 Speaker 5: because she refers to the daughter as my ten year 1094 00:58:30,040 --> 00:58:34,160 Speaker 5: old daughter. And then the daughter kept referencing daddy's friend 1095 00:58:34,320 --> 00:58:37,520 Speaker 5: at work. So you asked your mother and she spilled 1096 00:58:37,560 --> 00:58:42,200 Speaker 5: the tea. Our relationship has been the same since then, 1097 00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:45,480 Speaker 5: and she said it was because I divorced my husband 1098 00:58:45,520 --> 00:58:47,360 Speaker 5: and her belief as I should have kept my family 1099 00:58:47,360 --> 00:58:52,960 Speaker 5: together no matter what. Now, I think, ma'am, this is 1100 00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:56,600 Speaker 5: where you got a little bit going on. Maybe your 1101 00:58:56,720 --> 00:59:00,600 Speaker 5: mother tried to stay out of your business, didn't have 1102 00:59:00,920 --> 00:59:04,520 Speaker 5: solid proof like the daughter didn't. She just saw him somewhere, 1103 00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:08,520 Speaker 5: and your husband told her this is daddy's friend from work. 1104 00:59:09,560 --> 00:59:12,560 Speaker 5: That's why the daughter was referencing her the woman as 1105 00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:15,840 Speaker 5: daddy's friend. Hang on, I thank your mother's just trying 1106 00:59:15,880 --> 00:59:17,080 Speaker 5: to stay out of it. But I give you a 1107 00:59:17,120 --> 00:59:18,360 Speaker 5: real scoop boy to come back. 1108 00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:18,960 Speaker 7: All right. 1109 00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:22,200 Speaker 9: We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at 1110 00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:25,720 Speaker 9: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter subject 1111 00:59:25,800 --> 00:59:28,600 Speaker 9: my mother and my ex are besties. We'll get back 1112 00:59:28,680 --> 00:59:29,920 Speaker 9: into it right after this. 1113 00:59:30,360 --> 00:59:33,080 Speaker 6: You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. 1114 00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:36,400 Speaker 9: All right, come on, Steve, Let's recap today's Strawberry letter. 1115 00:59:36,520 --> 00:59:39,720 Speaker 9: The subject my mother and my ex are besties. 1116 00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:43,720 Speaker 5: This woman's been divorced for three years from her husband, 1117 00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:47,480 Speaker 5: who was a big cheater on her. When she met 1118 00:59:47,520 --> 00:59:51,000 Speaker 5: her husband, they introduced him to her mother. Her mother 1119 00:59:51,080 --> 00:59:52,960 Speaker 5: fell in love with him, and the girl says, I 1120 00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:55,960 Speaker 5: mean fell in love with him. Like I said earlier. 1121 00:59:56,360 --> 00:59:58,440 Speaker 5: I think there's something behind that, but I don't have 1122 00:59:58,600 --> 01:00:00,640 Speaker 5: time to unpack that because you didn't mention that. 1123 01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:01,160 Speaker 1: In the letter. 1124 01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:06,120 Speaker 5: Your daughter, who obviously you had before you married this man, 1125 01:00:06,680 --> 01:00:09,600 Speaker 5: made a reference one day to daddy's friend at work. 1126 01:00:10,080 --> 01:00:12,920 Speaker 5: You inquired to your mother about who daddy's friend was. 1127 01:00:13,040 --> 01:00:16,360 Speaker 5: Finally she spilled the tea. She didn't have to then, 1128 01:00:17,000 --> 01:00:18,920 Speaker 5: but she said, well, and I think your mother was 1129 01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:21,880 Speaker 5: trying to stay out of y'all's business because she didn't 1130 01:00:21,880 --> 01:00:25,040 Speaker 5: have solid proof that the man was cheating, but she 1131 01:00:25,240 --> 01:00:27,760 Speaker 5: had some inkling. So when you came to her, she 1132 01:00:28,000 --> 01:00:31,000 Speaker 5: told you she think the man is cheating. And then 1133 01:00:31,080 --> 01:00:33,880 Speaker 5: you all's relationship ain't been the same since because you 1134 01:00:34,000 --> 01:00:38,080 Speaker 5: thought your mother should have told you right away, Well, 1135 01:00:38,200 --> 01:00:40,720 Speaker 5: it ain't your mama's business, and I think that may 1136 01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:42,919 Speaker 5: have something to do with it. But then your mother 1137 01:00:43,120 --> 01:00:47,400 Speaker 5: says it's because you divorced your husband and her belief 1138 01:00:47,520 --> 01:00:50,280 Speaker 5: that you should have kept your family together no matter what. 1139 01:00:52,520 --> 01:00:54,800 Speaker 1: Now here's what. 1140 01:00:54,920 --> 01:00:57,120 Speaker 5: You say the problem is, you say, the problem is 1141 01:00:57,240 --> 01:01:00,680 Speaker 5: the things your ex husband did for his girlfriend were 1142 01:01:00,720 --> 01:01:03,080 Speaker 5: the same things he did for me. So it wasn't 1143 01:01:03,160 --> 01:01:05,360 Speaker 5: the cheating that got me. It was a time he 1144 01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:07,160 Speaker 5: spent with her on the trip he took her on. 1145 01:01:07,800 --> 01:01:13,880 Speaker 1: That's the cheating. See, sisters, don't that's the action. 1146 01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:17,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, don't talking about No, he did the same thing 1147 01:01:17,720 --> 01:01:23,480 Speaker 5: for me. How that's what cheating? Is you seeing somebody? 1148 01:01:23,680 --> 01:01:27,280 Speaker 5: Why are you seeing somebody else? And what do a 1149 01:01:27,440 --> 01:01:31,320 Speaker 5: dus do when they see each other? They spend time together? 1150 01:01:32,120 --> 01:01:37,000 Speaker 5: How do they spend time together? They go somewhere. So 1151 01:01:37,160 --> 01:01:39,000 Speaker 5: what you sitting up there talking about this the time 1152 01:01:39,080 --> 01:01:40,120 Speaker 5: he spent with her on the trip. 1153 01:01:40,240 --> 01:01:41,120 Speaker 1: What were they supposed to do? 1154 01:01:42,200 --> 01:01:46,000 Speaker 5: Everybody don't have an affair at lunch in the backseat 1155 01:01:46,080 --> 01:01:49,919 Speaker 5: of a car. He got money, he gonna do something 1156 01:01:49,960 --> 01:01:54,160 Speaker 5: a little bit different, So don't talk about it's the 1157 01:01:54,280 --> 01:01:57,120 Speaker 5: same things that got you. That's what cheating is, ma'am. 1158 01:01:58,000 --> 01:02:00,880 Speaker 5: You just trying to find another reason to say you 1159 01:02:00,920 --> 01:02:02,160 Speaker 5: didn't keep the family together. 1160 01:02:02,280 --> 01:02:03,160 Speaker 4: But you don't have to. 1161 01:02:04,200 --> 01:02:06,120 Speaker 5: You don't want to stay with the dude because he cheated, 1162 01:02:06,200 --> 01:02:14,480 Speaker 5: that's all. Now it gets a little sticky. You came 1163 01:02:14,560 --> 01:02:17,200 Speaker 5: to your ask your mother to reconsider working for him, 1164 01:02:17,600 --> 01:02:19,840 Speaker 5: and she said that whatever we had going on should 1165 01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:26,360 Speaker 5: not affect her money. That's an interesting statement, yes, but 1166 01:02:26,480 --> 01:02:32,200 Speaker 5: it gets even more interesting though. Our own daughter doesn't 1167 01:02:32,240 --> 01:02:34,560 Speaker 5: talk to my ex right now. Now it's our daughter, 1168 01:02:34,640 --> 01:02:36,720 Speaker 5: so I don't know when y'all had the baby skip that. 1169 01:02:37,400 --> 01:02:39,840 Speaker 5: Don't talk to her my ex right now because she 1170 01:02:39,960 --> 01:02:43,720 Speaker 5: figured out whose daddy freem was. My mother called recently 1171 01:02:43,800 --> 01:02:45,960 Speaker 5: and says she's trying to get the family together for 1172 01:02:46,080 --> 01:02:49,600 Speaker 5: Thanksgiving and she wants me there. Your mother is trying 1173 01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:54,800 Speaker 5: to repair her relationship, but she's stupid, so she said 1174 01:02:55,120 --> 01:02:58,720 Speaker 5: your ex will be doing the turkey and she would 1175 01:02:58,840 --> 01:03:06,240 Speaker 5: cook everything. Now the now here is the thing. The 1176 01:03:06,440 --> 01:03:11,920 Speaker 5: affair that the ex had is probably over. He probably 1177 01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:15,720 Speaker 5: wants the best thing he ever had back. He done 1178 01:03:15,800 --> 01:03:20,800 Speaker 5: went to the mother to get you back. So now 1179 01:03:20,880 --> 01:03:24,240 Speaker 5: the mother says she's trying to get the family together. 1180 01:03:25,960 --> 01:03:28,960 Speaker 5: Your ex is gonna be doing the turkey, and she 1181 01:03:29,080 --> 01:03:32,040 Speaker 5: would cook everything else. How can my own mother be 1182 01:03:32,280 --> 01:03:37,240 Speaker 5: so ignorant and invite him to dinner? Because your mama ignorant? 1183 01:03:39,680 --> 01:03:42,280 Speaker 1: It's okay, she's so disloyal. 1184 01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:44,680 Speaker 5: Some people have mama's just ignorant. 1185 01:03:44,760 --> 01:03:45,560 Speaker 1: You got one. 1186 01:03:47,320 --> 01:03:49,840 Speaker 5: But now here's the danger I see in this. Should 1187 01:03:49,880 --> 01:03:51,360 Speaker 5: I show up and curse them both out? 1188 01:03:51,400 --> 01:03:51,760 Speaker 1: Of course? 1189 01:03:51,880 --> 01:03:55,160 Speaker 5: Now why had energy to that? Why are you getting 1190 01:03:55,240 --> 01:03:57,280 Speaker 5: dressed to go over there to cuss both of them out? 1191 01:03:57,960 --> 01:04:01,000 Speaker 5: First of all, if I were you, I would try 1192 01:04:01,080 --> 01:04:04,320 Speaker 5: to fix the relationship with my mother. That's what I 1193 01:04:04,360 --> 01:04:09,120 Speaker 5: would do. That's an important relationship. She did give you life. 1194 01:04:10,000 --> 01:04:13,680 Speaker 5: Now do it sound like she wrong in this case? Absolutely? 1195 01:04:13,880 --> 01:04:14,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, yes. 1196 01:04:15,640 --> 01:04:18,880 Speaker 5: But now if your husband is not trying to get 1197 01:04:19,000 --> 01:04:24,040 Speaker 5: back with you, which I think the case is, here 1198 01:04:24,200 --> 01:04:27,600 Speaker 5: is the spoiler alert. You said your husband fell in 1199 01:04:27,720 --> 01:04:31,320 Speaker 5: love with your mother, and I mean fell in love. 1200 01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:33,520 Speaker 1: Them. 1201 01:04:33,680 --> 01:04:35,720 Speaker 5: Let me make a statement about me and ladies in 1202 01:04:35,800 --> 01:04:37,919 Speaker 5: case you want to know where you're staying with a man. 1203 01:04:39,360 --> 01:04:42,440 Speaker 5: If you want to know where a man's heart is, 1204 01:04:43,960 --> 01:04:51,160 Speaker 5: the holidays is where he is. If you want to 1205 01:04:51,360 --> 01:04:57,480 Speaker 5: know where a man's heart is the holidays is where 1206 01:04:57,800 --> 01:04:58,400 Speaker 5: he is. 1207 01:05:00,640 --> 01:05:04,120 Speaker 6: He's where he loves the family, and he still loves hers. 1208 01:05:04,200 --> 01:05:05,880 Speaker 6: What you're saying, because he's over, he's going to be 1209 01:05:05,960 --> 01:05:07,080 Speaker 6: over at the mom's house. 1210 01:05:08,040 --> 01:05:14,200 Speaker 5: But Thanksgiving, Yeah, now you can take that one of 1211 01:05:14,280 --> 01:05:17,680 Speaker 5: two ways. I don't think you think your mama is 1212 01:05:17,760 --> 01:05:21,200 Speaker 5: seeing this man, but I do think your mother is 1213 01:05:21,280 --> 01:05:21,960 Speaker 5: attracted to. 1214 01:05:22,040 --> 01:05:22,960 Speaker 1: His power. 1215 01:05:24,320 --> 01:05:25,000 Speaker 6: All the money. 1216 01:05:25,160 --> 01:05:28,439 Speaker 1: She said, Oh wow, the power is money show. 1217 01:05:29,920 --> 01:05:33,360 Speaker 5: Well, okay, he done provided her with a job. She's 1218 01:05:33,480 --> 01:05:35,600 Speaker 5: told her. You should have stayed with your family to 1219 01:05:35,640 --> 01:05:39,080 Speaker 5: hold your family together. Your mama old school. All right, 1220 01:05:39,800 --> 01:05:42,680 Speaker 5: you get together to find out who really stuffed in there. 1221 01:05:42,880 --> 01:05:44,440 Speaker 9: All right, guys, we got to get out of here. 1222 01:05:44,480 --> 01:05:46,840 Speaker 9: You can post your thoughts on Today's Strawberry Letter. It's 1223 01:05:46,880 --> 01:05:49,480 Speaker 9: Steve Harvey f M. And check out our Strawberry Letter 1224 01:05:49,640 --> 01:05:54,280 Speaker 9: podcast on demand. Okay, our Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. 1225 01:05:54,320 --> 01:05:55,480 Speaker 9: You can hear today's letter. 1226 01:05:55,920 --> 01:05:58,640 Speaker 6: You're listening Morning show. 1227 01:05:59,160 --> 01:05:59,400 Speaker 1: Okay. 1228 01:05:59,480 --> 01:06:02,000 Speaker 9: So since the pandemic, guys, it seems like people are 1229 01:06:02,080 --> 01:06:05,440 Speaker 9: now more than ever stocking up on supplies to keep 1230 01:06:05,480 --> 01:06:08,880 Speaker 9: them healthy. A new survey found that sixty five percent 1231 01:06:09,000 --> 01:06:11,840 Speaker 9: of respondents have a product in their home that they 1232 01:06:11,960 --> 01:06:14,920 Speaker 9: believe cure is a pretty much variety of health issues. 1233 01:06:15,280 --> 01:06:18,520 Speaker 9: Top of the list of the miracle cure All product 1234 01:06:18,720 --> 01:06:19,680 Speaker 9: is vasolene. 1235 01:06:20,680 --> 01:06:26,960 Speaker 1: Hello, we all grew up with that, right, Yeah, so 1236 01:06:27,520 --> 01:06:28,120 Speaker 1: I gotta. 1237 01:06:29,760 --> 01:06:31,960 Speaker 6: I gotta test the guys. Do you have any cure 1238 01:06:32,000 --> 01:06:34,000 Speaker 6: all products that you want to add to the list. 1239 01:06:34,720 --> 01:06:42,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll keep it stocked. Gott keep it in the rover. 1240 01:06:44,160 --> 01:06:44,480 Speaker 2: Got it. 1241 01:06:46,320 --> 01:06:52,320 Speaker 1: Works on everything. That green alcohol, that green, not the 1242 01:06:52,400 --> 01:06:56,720 Speaker 1: clear green? Which hazel? That's which hazel? Just fake? 1243 01:06:56,800 --> 01:06:59,480 Speaker 6: You know it doesn't burn like I'll no, no, no 1244 01:07:00,120 --> 01:07:00,600 Speaker 6: witch haze. 1245 01:07:00,960 --> 01:07:01,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1246 01:07:02,120 --> 01:07:05,000 Speaker 1: What does that do though? Witch has I don't know, 1247 01:07:05,160 --> 01:07:06,680 Speaker 1: but I feel better after I put it off. 1248 01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:10,439 Speaker 6: Don't get inflammation. Sometimes it's to shirt. 1249 01:07:10,680 --> 01:07:11,360 Speaker 1: Witch made it. 1250 01:07:13,080 --> 01:07:13,760 Speaker 6: Named hazel. 1251 01:07:14,480 --> 01:07:18,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, what you got in the house? Law? 1252 01:07:22,880 --> 01:07:24,040 Speaker 6: Where do you put the larn? 1253 01:07:24,440 --> 01:07:29,920 Speaker 1: Keep that anything that's wrong? Yeah, sitting on the stove. 1254 01:07:30,000 --> 01:07:31,800 Speaker 1: Don't never use it just in case. 1255 01:07:32,240 --> 01:07:35,320 Speaker 6: Yeah right, it was always on the stone, but it 1256 01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:36,320 Speaker 6: was never used. 1257 01:07:39,040 --> 01:07:41,280 Speaker 8: I gotta have it sponge prods in the Gotta have 1258 01:07:41,440 --> 01:07:44,680 Speaker 8: it like you gotta have you gotta keep in your. 1259 01:07:45,160 --> 01:07:52,440 Speaker 1: Yeah you got yeah, what you're saying? Arm and hammel bacon. 1260 01:07:55,400 --> 01:07:58,720 Speaker 6: We just started putting it in a refrigerator, castraw. 1261 01:08:00,280 --> 01:08:00,520 Speaker 1: Got that. 1262 01:08:01,680 --> 01:08:02,800 Speaker 6: You heard me with that one? 1263 01:08:03,240 --> 01:08:10,240 Speaker 1: All gold corn start that baby in there, got dipperash, 1264 01:08:10,400 --> 01:08:14,480 Speaker 1: go in there and get that corn start soak it up. 1265 01:08:16,439 --> 01:08:21,599 Speaker 1: Apple side of vinegar. Yeah, I got that. Got that cato, 1266 01:08:22,320 --> 01:08:23,080 Speaker 1: put it on your. 1267 01:08:23,120 --> 01:08:28,439 Speaker 6: Dreams and then white vinegar to clean the mirrors and stuff. 1268 01:08:29,360 --> 01:08:33,680 Speaker 1: I love black people. Keep it in the tuted deodoring 1269 01:08:34,160 --> 01:08:37,280 Speaker 1: just just in case, just in case. You need to 1270 01:08:37,320 --> 01:08:39,320 Speaker 1: hear that tea though. I need to hear that team 1271 01:08:39,360 --> 01:08:52,720 Speaker 1: when carn a band aide, I can't not the two 1272 01:08:52,800 --> 01:08:53,760 Speaker 1: big ones in hill. 1273 01:08:56,800 --> 01:08:58,839 Speaker 6: My favorite for the round one. 1274 01:09:00,840 --> 01:09:06,120 Speaker 5: Hostalotion. What Timonia here is, if you're gonna have your 1275 01:09:06,160 --> 01:09:07,440 Speaker 5: shoes are sweet. 1276 01:09:09,680 --> 01:09:16,160 Speaker 11: You're listening hard morning show? Well, does being scared make 1277 01:09:16,240 --> 01:09:18,960 Speaker 11: you want to get busy? You know, get busy? 1278 01:09:19,080 --> 01:09:19,920 Speaker 6: You know what that means? 1279 01:09:20,479 --> 01:09:25,479 Speaker 9: A study says yes, if someone is yelling boo makes 1280 01:09:25,520 --> 01:09:28,080 Speaker 9: you want to hook up with your boo, You're not alone. 1281 01:09:28,479 --> 01:09:32,040 Speaker 9: Experts say shriek inducing horror film scenes can make you 1282 01:09:32,160 --> 01:09:38,520 Speaker 9: feel horny. According to Leah Holmgren, a Manhattan based intimacy 1283 01:09:38,640 --> 01:09:42,040 Speaker 9: and relationship coach, it's a matter of simple human instinct 1284 01:09:42,120 --> 01:09:45,400 Speaker 9: to want to be close to another person when you're scared. 1285 01:09:46,200 --> 01:09:50,400 Speaker 9: This phenomenon is from prehistoric times when we needed to bond, 1286 01:09:50,720 --> 01:09:55,639 Speaker 9: especially in dangerous situations and increase the chances for survival. So, guys, 1287 01:09:58,040 --> 01:10:04,720 Speaker 9: Junior Steve, what movie, what horror movie scared you so 1288 01:10:04,960 --> 01:10:09,200 Speaker 9: much that you wanted to, you know, knock the boots, 1289 01:10:09,240 --> 01:10:09,879 Speaker 9: get busy? 1290 01:10:10,160 --> 01:10:10,759 Speaker 1: Yeah whatever. 1291 01:10:11,040 --> 01:10:12,960 Speaker 8: Yeah, Nightmare on Elm Street for me because I had 1292 01:10:13,000 --> 01:10:17,120 Speaker 8: to stay woke. Youre going to speak on your mind, 1293 01:10:18,600 --> 01:10:24,200 Speaker 8: just keep going. Yeah, you watched all of it one time? Sure, 1294 01:10:24,200 --> 01:10:26,360 Speaker 8: he watched it from one to ten. 1295 01:10:27,880 --> 01:10:32,000 Speaker 1: Just to stay up. That would do it for me. 1296 01:10:34,840 --> 01:10:37,200 Speaker 1: It's kind of weird, I know it is. 1297 01:10:37,920 --> 01:10:39,960 Speaker 9: I mean, I see if you go together to a 1298 01:10:40,120 --> 01:10:43,000 Speaker 9: movie and you guys, you know you're scared, so you're 1299 01:10:43,120 --> 01:10:45,639 Speaker 9: you're cuddled up in the movie and everything, but after 1300 01:10:45,720 --> 01:10:46,840 Speaker 9: the movie it's over. 1301 01:10:48,040 --> 01:10:48,200 Speaker 2: Right. 1302 01:10:49,240 --> 01:10:50,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna tell you right now. 1303 01:10:50,360 --> 01:10:55,280 Speaker 5: You don't get to me. Yeah, matter of fact, I don't. 1304 01:10:55,600 --> 01:10:57,360 Speaker 5: I don't mean I don't. First of all, I don't 1305 01:10:57,400 --> 01:10:59,600 Speaker 5: go to scared movies, so I don't know what the 1306 01:10:59,680 --> 01:11:02,360 Speaker 5: hell do last scary movie I went to the exors 1307 01:11:03,360 --> 01:11:06,400 Speaker 5: and that did not induce the exorsies. 1308 01:11:07,120 --> 01:11:08,000 Speaker 1: I was about sixteen. 1309 01:11:08,680 --> 01:11:10,879 Speaker 6: Now that's when you and your guys set. 1310 01:11:11,960 --> 01:11:13,560 Speaker 5: And I tell you what do make me want to 1311 01:11:13,560 --> 01:11:15,160 Speaker 5: get busy? Like if I'm getting. 1312 01:11:14,960 --> 01:11:17,280 Speaker 1: Cold, if it gets cold outside. 1313 01:11:17,280 --> 01:11:20,040 Speaker 5: I want to do something. If I got the flu, 1314 01:11:21,000 --> 01:11:27,439 Speaker 5: I want to do something. It's dark outside, I want 1315 01:11:27,479 --> 01:11:28,160 Speaker 5: to do something. 1316 01:11:28,920 --> 01:11:31,400 Speaker 6: Every everything other than a scary movie. 1317 01:11:31,479 --> 01:11:33,960 Speaker 1: Sound as soon as I wake up early in the morning, Yeah, 1318 01:11:34,080 --> 01:11:34,559 Speaker 1: good time. 1319 01:11:35,000 --> 01:11:37,960 Speaker 6: Yeah right, but can we back up to the flu? 1320 01:11:38,200 --> 01:11:39,680 Speaker 1: Can we back up to that? Yeah? 1321 01:11:39,680 --> 01:11:42,680 Speaker 5: If I got that energy, I don't need it. I 1322 01:11:42,800 --> 01:11:45,040 Speaker 5: just want to feel better. If I'm doing something, I 1323 01:11:45,200 --> 01:11:46,360 Speaker 5: forget I got the flu. 1324 01:11:47,280 --> 01:11:50,439 Speaker 6: Yeah, and then give it to give it to your wife. 1325 01:11:50,760 --> 01:11:51,759 Speaker 1: Well he probably got. 1326 01:11:51,640 --> 01:11:53,840 Speaker 5: It anyway, you know, when there laying around front, we'll 1327 01:11:53,920 --> 01:11:56,120 Speaker 5: do something like it. For like, if I got a fever, 1328 01:11:56,920 --> 01:11:59,360 Speaker 5: I want to do something, then too, I promise you. 1329 01:12:00,120 --> 01:12:02,320 Speaker 5: Then I can always say this is gonna be hot. 1330 01:12:04,600 --> 01:12:05,479 Speaker 1: You got to be comeing. 1331 01:12:05,960 --> 01:12:08,200 Speaker 5: I ain't got to laugh. You better come on this 1332 01:12:08,560 --> 01:12:12,240 Speaker 5: to be hot. And it is just you know, you know, 1333 01:12:12,479 --> 01:12:14,840 Speaker 5: just like that, you know, so you gotta know, you 1334 01:12:14,960 --> 01:12:17,000 Speaker 5: gotta know what it is that turn you on. You know, 1335 01:12:17,120 --> 01:12:18,920 Speaker 5: like if I make a left turn and I should 1336 01:12:18,920 --> 01:12:20,960 Speaker 5: have made the right turn. I want to do, so. 1337 01:12:23,160 --> 01:12:30,200 Speaker 1: Don't take much. It's scary movie. Yeah, if you want 1338 01:12:30,320 --> 01:12:40,559 Speaker 1: to all right, you know, and yeah, you know how you. 1339 01:12:40,640 --> 01:12:42,599 Speaker 6: Give us insight into men's thinking. 1340 01:12:42,720 --> 01:12:44,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, like if you like if I'm standing 1341 01:12:44,800 --> 01:12:46,720 Speaker 5: there talking to you, and you know how you just 1342 01:12:46,880 --> 01:12:51,400 Speaker 5: blow sometimes because you from a salad, but you blow. 1343 01:12:51,280 --> 01:12:53,560 Speaker 1: Your hair a little bit up and down. Yeah, you 1344 01:12:53,680 --> 01:12:56,080 Speaker 1: better get that. That'll get you done too. 1345 01:12:57,080 --> 01:12:57,280 Speaker 5: Yeah. 1346 01:13:00,439 --> 01:13:02,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, they don't really take much of what you're saying. 1347 01:13:03,280 --> 01:13:04,240 Speaker 1: That's exactly right. 1348 01:13:05,200 --> 01:13:07,960 Speaker 5: Like if you're outside and you playing sports or something 1349 01:13:08,040 --> 01:13:10,920 Speaker 5: like volleyball and a mosquito bite you on your ass 1350 01:13:10,960 --> 01:13:16,080 Speaker 5: and you slap the mosquitos, that'll probably yeah, more wanting 1351 01:13:16,080 --> 01:13:21,240 Speaker 5: to do. I know you, I know you were smacking that. 1352 01:13:21,360 --> 01:13:25,439 Speaker 1: For me, I know a little more mosquito. I'm just 1353 01:13:25,479 --> 01:13:27,760 Speaker 1: telling you how me and are I don't take much. Don't. 1354 01:13:28,720 --> 01:13:31,040 Speaker 1: If I have a sign crisis and y'all call me, 1355 01:13:31,360 --> 01:13:32,679 Speaker 1: I'll probably go one through something. 1356 01:13:35,080 --> 01:13:35,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, because he's sick. 1357 01:13:36,560 --> 01:13:37,720 Speaker 1: Somebody need to care about me. 1358 01:13:40,640 --> 01:13:44,320 Speaker 6: All right, Thank you, guys. Coming up, more music, more fun, 1359 01:13:44,720 --> 01:13:45,600 Speaker 6: make ignorance. 1360 01:13:45,920 --> 01:13:49,439 Speaker 1: I don't see how you doing today, sweetie. 1361 01:13:49,840 --> 01:13:51,040 Speaker 5: That's it, that's sweetie. 1362 01:13:51,320 --> 01:13:54,519 Speaker 6: That's what you want to see Harvey Morning Show coming 1363 01:13:54,640 --> 01:13:58,720 Speaker 6: up right after this. You're listening Harvey Morning Show. 1364 01:14:01,040 --> 01:14:06,200 Speaker 9: So, according to nutritionists, certain foods guys contain natural sleep 1365 01:14:06,280 --> 01:14:10,920 Speaker 9: promoting compounds like trip to fane and turkey that makes 1366 01:14:10,960 --> 01:14:15,360 Speaker 9: you sleepy after Thanksgiving dinner. Also, carbohydrates raise your blood 1367 01:14:15,400 --> 01:14:19,840 Speaker 9: sugar and serotonin levels, which then converts into melotonin and 1368 01:14:19,960 --> 01:14:20,759 Speaker 9: natural sleeps. 1369 01:14:20,840 --> 01:14:21,040 Speaker 4: Eight. 1370 01:14:21,479 --> 01:14:24,040 Speaker 6: Here are some foods that can add to your evening 1371 01:14:24,160 --> 01:14:26,200 Speaker 6: diet that you can add to your evening diet to 1372 01:14:26,280 --> 01:14:29,120 Speaker 6: help you fall asleep faster and get some quality sleep. 1373 01:14:29,280 --> 01:14:30,840 Speaker 6: Before I give you the list, what do you think 1374 01:14:30,920 --> 01:14:31,560 Speaker 6: they might be? 1375 01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:35,559 Speaker 1: Walking pie ye blue bed. 1376 01:14:35,760 --> 01:14:37,720 Speaker 6: Nope, not on the list because. 1377 01:14:37,400 --> 01:14:39,280 Speaker 5: It's a boiling ass piece of pie. It put me 1378 01:14:39,360 --> 01:14:40,120 Speaker 5: to sleep great time. 1379 01:14:40,200 --> 01:14:40,839 Speaker 1: I try. 1380 01:14:44,400 --> 01:14:48,840 Speaker 6: Banana bananas on the list. You eat bananas, it will 1381 01:14:48,840 --> 01:14:50,240 Speaker 6: help you get some quality sleep. 1382 01:14:50,439 --> 01:14:53,960 Speaker 5: Oh really, maybe I better quit eating bananas on this 1383 01:14:54,080 --> 01:14:55,240 Speaker 5: damn golf course. 1384 01:14:55,320 --> 01:14:58,160 Speaker 6: Here because you start to get sleepy around it. 1385 01:14:59,080 --> 01:14:59,759 Speaker 1: No, damn. 1386 01:15:01,960 --> 01:15:05,720 Speaker 9: Any other sit not pumpkin pie, Almonds, Almonds, they make 1387 01:15:05,800 --> 01:15:08,240 Speaker 9: you sleep, They help you get a good night's sleep. 1388 01:15:09,000 --> 01:15:15,000 Speaker 9: Cherries or cherry juice. Oh I loved oh that chip? 1389 01:15:15,280 --> 01:15:17,200 Speaker 1: Yes one. 1390 01:15:21,400 --> 01:15:22,960 Speaker 6: Can the mill or lavender tea? 1391 01:15:25,600 --> 01:15:28,240 Speaker 1: I love that mouth wide open. 1392 01:15:28,760 --> 01:15:33,000 Speaker 9: Eggs, Steve, you love eggs, and those are the folks 1393 01:15:33,040 --> 01:15:34,400 Speaker 9: that help you get a good night's sleep. 1394 01:15:34,520 --> 01:15:35,759 Speaker 1: So thank you, my favorite. 1395 01:15:35,840 --> 01:15:36,200 Speaker 5: I love it. 1396 01:15:37,160 --> 01:15:37,479 Speaker 2: All right. 1397 01:15:37,560 --> 01:15:39,840 Speaker 9: Coming up, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show, 1398 01:15:39,840 --> 01:15:42,080 Speaker 9: and at thirty three minutes after we'll play around. 1399 01:15:41,800 --> 01:15:46,080 Speaker 6: Of would you rather right after this? You're listening hard 1400 01:15:46,280 --> 01:15:48,840 Speaker 6: morning Show? All right, guys, it is time for it. 1401 01:15:49,000 --> 01:15:51,360 Speaker 6: Would you rather? Here's the first question. 1402 01:15:51,800 --> 01:15:55,200 Speaker 9: Would you rather get a paper cut on your finger 1403 01:15:55,360 --> 01:15:57,800 Speaker 9: every time you turn the page of a book or 1404 01:15:57,840 --> 01:16:01,320 Speaker 9: a magazine or something, Or would you rather bite your 1405 01:16:01,479 --> 01:16:03,240 Speaker 9: tongue every time you eat? 1406 01:16:03,920 --> 01:16:04,679 Speaker 6: So what's worse? 1407 01:16:05,040 --> 01:16:06,479 Speaker 1: Give me that paper cut? Cut? 1408 01:16:07,160 --> 01:16:09,200 Speaker 5: Paper cuts? I take the paper hook because I ain't 1409 01:16:09,200 --> 01:16:12,600 Speaker 5: reading no book, no way, so I ain't fit to 1410 01:16:12,600 --> 01:16:14,080 Speaker 5: beat too much damage. 1411 01:16:15,240 --> 01:16:15,720 Speaker 1: By the time. 1412 01:16:15,880 --> 01:16:18,040 Speaker 5: I don't never read more than a page anyway, I 1413 01:16:18,160 --> 01:16:21,240 Speaker 5: beat a page, bite my damn tongue. 1414 01:16:22,479 --> 01:16:24,200 Speaker 6: I think I rather bite my tongue. 1415 01:16:25,080 --> 01:16:27,960 Speaker 1: No, no, you don't. We must ain't never beat it before. 1416 01:16:28,479 --> 01:16:29,280 Speaker 6: My tongue before. 1417 01:16:29,360 --> 01:16:30,719 Speaker 1: But I don't like paper cuts. 1418 01:16:30,880 --> 01:16:32,800 Speaker 6: I hate that you rather just doing? 1419 01:16:33,160 --> 01:16:44,800 Speaker 1: Coming up, and you rather do that? No paper cut, 1420 01:16:45,439 --> 01:16:49,639 Speaker 1: give me the cuts. I can't bite. I hate biting 1421 01:16:49,680 --> 01:16:53,320 Speaker 1: my tongue, biting my jaw, all. 1422 01:16:55,960 --> 01:16:56,799 Speaker 6: That is painful. 1423 01:16:57,040 --> 01:17:01,160 Speaker 1: And molas when the molas chopped down? Lord, and then 1424 01:17:01,200 --> 01:17:04,680 Speaker 1: you do it back to back? Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, 1425 01:17:04,760 --> 01:17:07,600 Speaker 1: you're gonna make what is wrong with me? You a 1426 01:17:07,680 --> 01:17:09,080 Speaker 1: long and take that the heel in there? 1427 01:17:09,520 --> 01:17:12,240 Speaker 6: Yeah a long time? All right, here's another one. 1428 01:17:13,439 --> 01:17:16,320 Speaker 9: Would you rather be a little late, just a little 1429 01:17:16,320 --> 01:17:18,639 Speaker 9: bit late, or just way too early? 1430 01:17:18,880 --> 01:17:19,599 Speaker 6: Way too early? 1431 01:17:20,040 --> 01:17:23,280 Speaker 1: I'm going with the little late. Really, Yeah, I'm a celebrity. 1432 01:17:23,479 --> 01:17:25,360 Speaker 6: Cordially, Oh yeah, you're a celebrity. 1433 01:17:25,439 --> 01:17:27,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm gonna be way too early, sitting up in 1434 01:17:27,720 --> 01:17:31,120 Speaker 5: here for I'm sitting up in here off it like 1435 01:17:31,160 --> 01:17:36,519 Speaker 5: I'm thirsty. Like if y'all know this will be yeah, Hey, yeah, 1436 01:17:36,520 --> 01:17:38,080 Speaker 5: I'm sitting up here like I ain't got no work 1437 01:17:38,160 --> 01:17:38,479 Speaker 5: or nothing. 1438 01:17:39,720 --> 01:17:40,840 Speaker 4: Hit this role. 1439 01:17:41,479 --> 01:17:44,519 Speaker 1: I shouldn't want to do this show. Hey, how y'all 1440 01:17:44,560 --> 01:17:46,479 Speaker 1: doing this? Speaking of everybody coming in to something here, 1441 01:17:46,640 --> 01:17:48,760 Speaker 1: let's Steve Harvey. Hi, guys, how you doing? I'm here? 1442 01:17:50,000 --> 01:17:53,320 Speaker 10: Hey, just let that isn't Steve Harvey. Yeah, they just 1443 01:17:53,400 --> 01:17:56,519 Speaker 10: let whoever it is, let's let's not known here. But 1444 01:17:56,640 --> 01:17:57,400 Speaker 10: a five minutes early. 1445 01:17:57,520 --> 01:17:58,040 Speaker 4: Really need this? 1446 01:18:00,040 --> 01:18:04,120 Speaker 6: So, yeah, you're a celebrity, so you can. I hate 1447 01:18:04,160 --> 01:18:05,479 Speaker 6: being late. Oh God, I hate you. 1448 01:18:05,640 --> 01:18:06,880 Speaker 1: I had a guy one time though. 1449 01:18:06,960 --> 01:18:08,800 Speaker 5: This happened in New Orleans, and me and him fell 1450 01:18:08,840 --> 01:18:12,280 Speaker 5: out behind this had a meeting doing Essence Festival with 1451 01:18:12,439 --> 01:18:16,880 Speaker 5: this guy at this restaurant, and I had I had 1452 01:18:16,920 --> 01:18:19,840 Speaker 5: a driver, and so the driver got caught up in 1453 01:18:19,920 --> 01:18:21,479 Speaker 5: traffic and was waiting, And so when I got to 1454 01:18:21,560 --> 01:18:24,000 Speaker 5: the restaurant, I got there ten minutes late. This guy 1455 01:18:24,160 --> 01:18:26,840 Speaker 5: was a white collar Wall Street guy. He said, wow, 1456 01:18:26,880 --> 01:18:28,519 Speaker 5: you're late. I said, yeah, I called you man. I 1457 01:18:28,600 --> 01:18:30,920 Speaker 5: was running behind up my driver got stuck in traffic. 1458 01:18:31,479 --> 01:18:34,400 Speaker 5: He said, you didn't think to get a cab. I 1459 01:18:34,479 --> 01:18:36,760 Speaker 5: said no, I didn't think to get a cab. Well, 1460 01:18:37,040 --> 01:18:39,120 Speaker 5: if a cab would have gotten you here on time, 1461 01:18:39,200 --> 01:18:40,720 Speaker 5: you think that would have been better. I said no, 1462 01:18:41,360 --> 01:18:43,320 Speaker 5: I can't get in cabs. Dog, I'm famous. I don't 1463 01:18:43,320 --> 01:18:45,760 Speaker 5: know what this dude fin to take me. I got 1464 01:18:45,800 --> 01:18:47,840 Speaker 5: a driver. All of a sudden, he got Steve Harve 1465 01:18:47,880 --> 01:18:48,960 Speaker 5: and the cab. Now I'm in the back of the 1466 01:18:49,000 --> 01:18:50,920 Speaker 5: French Quarter getting my ass whoop. 1467 01:18:54,880 --> 01:18:55,360 Speaker 6: Coming up. 1468 01:18:55,720 --> 01:18:58,080 Speaker 9: Had forty nine minutes tab to be our it's our 1469 01:18:58,200 --> 01:19:00,760 Speaker 9: last break of the day, and of course we'll get 1470 01:19:00,800 --> 01:19:03,519 Speaker 9: some closing remarks from the one and only, our fearless leader, 1471 01:19:03,640 --> 01:19:04,360 Speaker 9: Steve Harvey. 1472 01:19:04,720 --> 01:19:07,840 Speaker 6: Rather be a little late right after this. You're listening 1473 01:19:09,040 --> 01:19:11,599 Speaker 6: Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, here we are our 1474 01:19:11,680 --> 01:19:14,720 Speaker 6: last break of the day. Come on, Steve, you got it. 1475 01:19:15,400 --> 01:19:19,000 Speaker 5: I ain't even got to waste no time. These are 1476 01:19:19,120 --> 01:19:25,600 Speaker 5: my closing remarks today. Here's the subject. There is no 1477 01:19:26,000 --> 01:19:34,080 Speaker 5: winning in giving up none. There is no winning in 1478 01:19:34,360 --> 01:19:39,479 Speaker 5: giving up. You have got to see it through. You 1479 01:19:39,680 --> 01:19:43,240 Speaker 5: have got to stick to it. You have got to finish. 1480 01:19:45,240 --> 01:19:48,599 Speaker 5: That is the only option you have when it gets 1481 01:19:48,760 --> 01:19:51,720 Speaker 5: dark and tough for you, you have got to see 1482 01:19:51,760 --> 01:19:57,080 Speaker 5: it through. You have got to survive it. You've got 1483 01:19:57,200 --> 01:20:00,320 Speaker 5: to finish. There is no other option there. There is 1484 01:20:00,479 --> 01:20:06,400 Speaker 5: no winning in giving up nothing. Let me explain something 1485 01:20:06,479 --> 01:20:11,880 Speaker 5: to you. In order to get to it, you must 1486 01:20:12,080 --> 01:20:12,720 Speaker 5: go through it. 1487 01:20:13,640 --> 01:20:14,360 Speaker 1: That's a fact. 1488 01:20:15,520 --> 01:20:20,200 Speaker 5: Anything you want in life is on the other side 1489 01:20:20,400 --> 01:20:24,240 Speaker 5: of something you have to go through. In order to 1490 01:20:24,360 --> 01:20:29,240 Speaker 5: get to it, you have to go through it. Stop 1491 01:20:29,479 --> 01:20:33,320 Speaker 5: complaining about that. I'm going through it part of your life. 1492 01:20:35,320 --> 01:20:40,280 Speaker 5: Because everybody got that. You're not the only one that's 1493 01:20:40,400 --> 01:20:44,320 Speaker 5: going through it. Stop complaining. Look, I know sometimes you 1494 01:20:44,360 --> 01:20:46,479 Speaker 5: want to stop and go man, I'm sick of this. 1495 01:20:46,720 --> 01:20:48,240 Speaker 1: I get it. I do too. 1496 01:20:49,360 --> 01:20:51,479 Speaker 5: I know there are times you want to go, man, 1497 01:20:52,720 --> 01:20:58,120 Speaker 5: this is hard, and you are absolutely right, it is hard. 1498 01:20:59,640 --> 01:21:01,760 Speaker 5: I know there are days where you go, man, I 1499 01:21:02,000 --> 01:21:03,920 Speaker 5: just I ain't feeling this today. 1500 01:21:04,280 --> 01:21:04,800 Speaker 1: I got it. 1501 01:21:06,880 --> 01:21:09,400 Speaker 5: But in order to get to it, you got to 1502 01:21:09,479 --> 01:21:14,840 Speaker 5: go through it. I name something you want that's just 1503 01:21:15,000 --> 01:21:19,559 Speaker 5: sitting right there, and you can just reach over this yours, 1504 01:21:20,120 --> 01:21:27,559 Speaker 5: name it, Name what what? Now? I'm talking about something 1505 01:21:27,640 --> 01:21:32,120 Speaker 5: that's really worth having. I'm talking about something you dream about. 1506 01:21:33,120 --> 01:21:35,559 Speaker 5: I'm talking about that thing that keeps you up at night. 1507 01:21:36,640 --> 01:21:39,440 Speaker 5: I'm talking about that thing that burns on the inside 1508 01:21:39,479 --> 01:21:43,840 Speaker 5: of you that death won't let it go. Those things 1509 01:21:43,960 --> 01:21:47,200 Speaker 5: right there are on the other side of something you 1510 01:21:47,320 --> 01:21:50,120 Speaker 5: got to go through. If you are unwilling to go through, 1511 01:21:50,439 --> 01:21:53,080 Speaker 5: you are not going to get to You gotta get 1512 01:21:53,120 --> 01:21:54,200 Speaker 5: this in your head. 1513 01:21:55,720 --> 01:21:55,880 Speaker 9: Now. 1514 01:21:56,000 --> 01:21:59,200 Speaker 5: I know when I say stop complaining about what you're 1515 01:21:59,240 --> 01:22:00,880 Speaker 5: going through, I know that's hard. 1516 01:22:01,800 --> 01:22:04,520 Speaker 1: But let me what does the complaining accomplish? 1517 01:22:05,640 --> 01:22:12,000 Speaker 5: Nothing? It accomplishes nothing. Every time I complain about how 1518 01:22:12,200 --> 01:22:18,360 Speaker 5: tired I am I'm still tired. Every time I complain 1519 01:22:18,479 --> 01:22:22,040 Speaker 5: about I'm sicker than people talking about me, they gonna 1520 01:22:22,120 --> 01:22:24,840 Speaker 5: still be talking about you. Ain't gonna talk about you 1521 01:22:25,080 --> 01:22:29,400 Speaker 5: some more. I'm tired of people talking about me that 1522 01:22:29,520 --> 01:22:34,639 Speaker 5: don't know me. What difference do it make? What they say? 1523 01:22:35,600 --> 01:22:38,479 Speaker 5: I mean, really, y'all, if you think about people who 1524 01:22:38,560 --> 01:22:42,200 Speaker 5: are talking about you behind your back, do you really 1525 01:22:42,360 --> 01:22:44,599 Speaker 5: understand that they don't matter? 1526 01:22:45,560 --> 01:22:47,160 Speaker 1: I said it earlier today. 1527 01:22:48,040 --> 01:22:51,599 Speaker 5: People that talk about you behind your back is because 1528 01:22:51,720 --> 01:22:52,640 Speaker 5: they behind you. 1529 01:22:54,400 --> 01:22:55,559 Speaker 1: Who in front of you. 1530 01:22:55,720 --> 01:23:00,639 Speaker 5: Talks about you behind your back? Name the person? No, man, 1531 01:23:00,880 --> 01:23:04,160 Speaker 5: everybody that talks about you behind that your back is 1532 01:23:04,320 --> 01:23:09,240 Speaker 5: behind you. You've passed them. That's what they mad about. 1533 01:23:10,920 --> 01:23:16,360 Speaker 5: Everything you want is on the other side of something 1534 01:23:16,439 --> 01:23:19,519 Speaker 5: you got to go through. In order to get to it. 1535 01:23:20,000 --> 01:23:23,200 Speaker 5: You got to go through it. This is the way 1536 01:23:23,360 --> 01:23:27,559 Speaker 5: life is set up for every living one of us. 1537 01:23:28,840 --> 01:23:32,519 Speaker 5: None of us are exempt from this. Quit trying to 1538 01:23:32,600 --> 01:23:35,280 Speaker 5: figure out how you can get around that part of it. 1539 01:23:35,479 --> 01:23:36,599 Speaker 1: It ain't happening. 1540 01:23:38,000 --> 01:23:38,160 Speaker 4: Man. 1541 01:23:38,240 --> 01:23:40,760 Speaker 5: I can't tell you the situation I'm in right now, 1542 01:23:41,760 --> 01:23:45,120 Speaker 5: and all of it's predicated on some other people doing 1543 01:23:45,200 --> 01:23:47,680 Speaker 5: what they supposed to do. But you know, what I did, 1544 01:23:48,320 --> 01:23:50,880 Speaker 5: I prayed about it. I turned it over to God 1545 01:23:50,960 --> 01:23:54,960 Speaker 5: because it was out of my hands. But see, the 1546 01:23:55,080 --> 01:23:57,719 Speaker 5: majority of what I want is out of my hands. 1547 01:23:58,880 --> 01:24:03,960 Speaker 5: My dreams are so big and so illustrious that in 1548 01:24:04,160 --> 01:24:08,479 Speaker 5: order for me to attain them, I absolutely have to 1549 01:24:08,680 --> 01:24:13,760 Speaker 5: have God's help. I don't want nothing I can accomplish 1550 01:24:13,920 --> 01:24:17,799 Speaker 5: on my own. I'm in the I need my Heavenly 1551 01:24:17,960 --> 01:24:21,519 Speaker 5: Father business. I'm in the I need You Lord business. 1552 01:24:22,080 --> 01:24:26,559 Speaker 5: So what I'm going through right now is solely God 1553 01:24:26,840 --> 01:24:31,120 Speaker 5: moving a lot of pieces into place to fix the 1554 01:24:31,280 --> 01:24:34,920 Speaker 5: prayer request that I put in. And you know, what 1555 01:24:35,000 --> 01:24:38,080 Speaker 5: it's causing me to do is causing me to go 1556 01:24:38,320 --> 01:24:43,840 Speaker 5: through something. But I've learned that God is always working 1557 01:24:43,920 --> 01:24:48,240 Speaker 5: on my behalf because I'm a believer, I'm a child 1558 01:24:48,320 --> 01:24:52,599 Speaker 5: of His. I honor him, I give him the glory, 1559 01:24:52,640 --> 01:24:56,080 Speaker 5: the credit, and the praise. So he working on my behalf. 1560 01:24:57,920 --> 01:25:00,599 Speaker 5: So as I sit here and try to I practice 1561 01:25:00,640 --> 01:25:03,160 Speaker 5: the patience that I need to allow Him to move 1562 01:25:03,240 --> 01:25:07,320 Speaker 5: the pieces into place. It's causing me to go through something, 1563 01:25:08,280 --> 01:25:11,760 Speaker 5: but guess what, if I want to get to it, 1564 01:25:12,080 --> 01:25:15,800 Speaker 5: I got to go through it. And I believe with 1565 01:25:16,040 --> 01:25:20,519 Speaker 5: everything in me He's working it out. Quot tripping, y'all. 1566 01:25:22,000 --> 01:25:29,040 Speaker 5: It's happening to everybody, including you. Talk to God. He 1567 01:25:29,200 --> 01:25:32,240 Speaker 5: loved to hear from you. He's in the blessing business. 1568 01:25:33,040 --> 01:25:36,200 Speaker 5: He's in the forgiving business. He's in to get your 1569 01:25:36,280 --> 01:25:41,599 Speaker 5: life together business. He's in the fix it business. Those 1570 01:25:41,680 --> 01:25:45,559 Speaker 5: are my closing remarks. Have a great day. Talk to God, 1571 01:25:45,920 --> 01:25:49,840 Speaker 5: he loved to hear from you. See you tomorrow. God 1572 01:25:50,320 --> 01:25:50,640 Speaker 5: will it. 1573 01:26:01,400 --> 01:26:01,680 Speaker 4: For all. 1574 01:26:01,760 --> 01:26:05,680 Speaker 9: Steve Harvey contests No purchase necessary, voidwaar prohibited. Participants must 1575 01:26:05,720 --> 01:26:08,880 Speaker 9: be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless 1576 01:26:08,960 --> 01:26:12,760 Speaker 9: otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey FM 1577 01:26:12,920 --> 01:26:16,479 Speaker 9: dot com. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.