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Speaker 1: Well, now, I'm all for people using their voice, ma'am,

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Speaker 1: but I'll tell you something. You know, you don't have

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Speaker 1: to As a society, we don't have to complain about everything.

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Speaker 2: We don't all need to be heard though, either like

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Speaker 2: it's okay to have an inner monologue or like say

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Speaker 2: it to your besty, type it in your notes, app

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Speaker 2: like not everyone needs an opinion on everything.

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Speaker 1: You know, a woman, she's a news anchor in Denver,

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Speaker 1: I think, or so were in Colorado and she read

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Speaker 1: a handwritten letter that she got from a viewer saying

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Speaker 1: that basically, she dressed like a promiscuous woman. Yeah, she

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Speaker 1: dressed like a harlot of the night. Oh no, she

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Speaker 1: wasn't wearing a pollon of power suit. She wasn't. I

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Speaker 1: guess she was wearing something that this this viewer found undesirable.

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Speaker 1: So they took the time to look up the mailing

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Speaker 1: address for the television station. Make sure to get this

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Speaker 1: woman's you know name correct, and then write a letter

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Speaker 1: to her about how terrible she looked on TV. And

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Speaker 1: then go get a stamp, and those aren't cheap. And

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Speaker 1: then if you can find one, you know, if you

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Speaker 1: know where to get a stamp even and then put

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Speaker 1: it in the mail and then wait, you know, for

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Speaker 1: her to get this letter. And it's like, I think

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Speaker 1: the point that she was making, and it's a point

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Speaker 1: that we occasionally think around here too, it's like, you know,

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Speaker 1: you don't have to you don't have to let us

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Speaker 1: know every time you think we suck, like you don't. Like,

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Speaker 1: first of all, most of us have confidence issues as

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Speaker 1: it is, and like deep, deep identity issues and anxieties.

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Speaker 1: So you know, just just trust that if you think

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Speaker 1: we suck, we've already we've already identified that within ourselves today,

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Speaker 1: Like already for in the last two hours, I've already

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Speaker 1: figured it out. You know that I suck, So you

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Speaker 1: don't need to remind me. It's okay, But like, what

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Speaker 1: does it say? What does it say about the people themselves? Though?

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Speaker 1: That's the part that's a little bit sort of confusing

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Speaker 1: for me, is so we suck or or this woman

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Speaker 1: doesn't dress well on TV or whatever, But you took

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Speaker 1: the time to find out how to get a hold

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Speaker 1: of the place and in this case write a letter

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Speaker 1: on paper and a pen. I don't know where you

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Speaker 1: found you to one of those, and then an envelope

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Speaker 1: you found it? Did you have to go buy? Like?

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Speaker 1: I don't have you ever noticed? But if you need

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Speaker 1: one envelope, you got to buy one hundred. So this

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Speaker 1: person probably invested twenty or thirty dollars in this letter?

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Speaker 1: And what does that say about you? Right? You know

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Speaker 1: what I mean? Like you can tell me I sucked?

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Speaker 1: But why did You're the one taking the time to

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Speaker 1: let make sure that I know what you think? And

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Speaker 1: it's not nice. And that's a lot of time in

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Speaker 1: your day and energy. So why were so mad?

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Speaker 2: It's very odd to care about what other people do

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Speaker 2: with their life, whether it be tattoo's piercings, the way

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Speaker 2: they dress, the way they cut their hair, Like why

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Speaker 2: do you care what another person does if it doesn't

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Speaker 2: affect you?

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Speaker 1: For an email? Like what are you doing?

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Speaker 2: Also?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean just send a texture and write a

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Speaker 1: nasty DM like that. It's easy. Free yah now, and

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Speaker 1: be sure and put your full name on aaron where

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Speaker 1: you work and everything else too, because that also is helpful.

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Speaker 1: I just it's interesting to me. And hey, you know what,

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Speaker 1: speak your mind, say what you want, stand up for yourself,

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Speaker 1: all these different things. I just it's just like I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. We don't have to

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Speaker 1: let everybody know about everything we're mad about. You know,

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Speaker 1: if you don't like it, if you have a bad

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Speaker 1: experience at a place, then maybe don't go back. If

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Speaker 1: you feel like someone you know wronged you or ripped you, often, definitely,

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Speaker 1: by all means, it is a process for that, but

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: That.

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Speaker 1: Being said, one of the first things I do when

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Speaker 1: I see kind of a crazy post of any kind

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Speaker 1: is go right to the comments, because they are wild,

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Speaker 1: they are wildly entertaining. So there's that, But I also

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Speaker 1: just think, like, you know, did you have to You know,

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Speaker 1: maybe you didn't have to. But those are one hundred

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Speaker 1: and some odd people, man, they really they told the NFL,

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Speaker 1: they told them, And next guess what, guys, Next year

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Speaker 1: they're going to have a hundred fewer viewers. Yeah, the

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Speaker 1: eighty million people that watch to right, and they'll be right,

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Speaker 1: they'll be right there next year. You'll probably write another

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Speaker 1: note too. That's that's another thing. You know, how many

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Speaker 1: times have we seen around and you're like, oh, you

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Speaker 1: are You're terrible, You're you're the worst, and I'll never

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Speaker 1: listen again. And then the next morning it's it's another time.

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Speaker 1: That is a clown. No one what you did. You

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Speaker 1: didn't waste any time. But you know what, I just

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Speaker 1: want you to know captain positivity in twenty twenty five.

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Speaker 1: I love it. I love everybody, even some of the haters. Now,

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Speaker 1: some of it take it to some people take it

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Speaker 1: too far. I don't love you, but you are some

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Speaker 1: of you are entertaining, and I just want to thank

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Speaker 1: you for listening. It's the Fred Show on the