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Speaker 1: I banned my husband from the delivery room because he's

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Speaker 1: trying to hang with the boys while I'm birthing his child.

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Speaker 2: Am I They a whole dude, He's just trying to

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Speaker 2: share like a beautiful moment with him and the boys.

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Speaker 1: You know, you know My question is, you know there's

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Speaker 1: there's op delivering the baby. There's Opie's husband. What what

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Speaker 1: about the boys? What about the boys? The boy looking

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Speaker 1: out informed two they hate our baby exactly me, the

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Speaker 1: boys and my wife. We need a twenty four hour

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Speaker 1: live stream so the boys can just see in the

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Speaker 1: canal and watch the baby come out.

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Speaker 2: Every time it gets a little bit more dilated, you

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Speaker 2: take a shot, yeah, exactly centimeter a dilation is another shot.

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Speaker 1: And the doctor's in on it too. He's like taking

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Speaker 1: shots too. She's like, I'm getting bright there. Oh man,

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Speaker 1: all right, let's let's let's see this disaster unfold. So

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Speaker 1: I was in labor for twenty six hours long.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's too many hours, too many hours. I get

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Speaker 2: it over with already. Come on, what are you waiting for?

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Speaker 2: Definitely going hell? And I was in a lot of pain.

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Speaker 2: I've done in two hours?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, come on, man, wouldn't push it out in you know,

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Speaker 1: tenth of the time.

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Andrew Tate on birth, Yeah, that's right, giving Giving birth

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Speaker 1: is for pussies.

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Speaker 2: That's true.

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Speaker 1: Literally, not wrong. You know you got that one right.

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Speaker 1: And I was in a lot of pain because I

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Speaker 1: didn't take an epidural to numb myself. Dude, that is

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Speaker 1: like you're in labor for twenty six hours with basically

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Speaker 1: no pain reduction.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. That I'm gonna go out on a limb here.

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Speaker 2: That's all painful.

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Speaker 1: Sounds a little rough, It's fair to say. My husband

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Speaker 1: was constantly on the phone, either playing games or talking

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Speaker 1: with his bros, being really loud, And when I asked

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Speaker 1: him to please hang up, he'd hang up the phone

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Speaker 1: and then like ten minutes later they would call him back.

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Speaker 2: Yo, my man's there for twenty hours. What are you

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Speaker 2: supposed to do?

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Speaker 1: But the boys need him, Okay, boys need him.

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Speaker 2: His wife's got it under control. Yeah, yeah, two hours in.

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Speaker 2: She knows what she's going is coming out. You know,

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Speaker 2: it's already it's already started. Yeah, I already started. He

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Speaker 2: was there for the getting, he'll be there for the end.

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Speaker 2: He'll tune in. He's he's like playing games like i's

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Speaker 2: going honey.

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Speaker 1: You know, when you go to the movies, do you

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Speaker 1: wait the whole movie to go to the bathroom. No,

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Speaker 1: once it starts, you could go to the bathroom whenever

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Speaker 2: You can leave and a birth to the movies, yo,

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Speaker 2: But also a movie ain't twenty five hours long. Movie's

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Speaker 2: only two hours. If that birth was too hour, I'm

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Speaker 2: sure my guy would not be playing Legend of Zelda

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Speaker 2: on his Nintendo DS.

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Speaker 1: Hey, hey, hey, you never know.

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Speaker 2: I could finish the whole game.

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Speaker 1: He become the great the world's greatest player in twenty

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Speaker 2: Oh god.

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Speaker 1: He he really wanted to talk with them. He had

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Speaker 1: an important reason because his friends went on a boy's

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Speaker 1: trip without him, because I asked him to stay back

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Speaker 1: so he could be here when I went into labor

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Speaker 1: with his child. You know, it's a it's a valid excuse, dude.

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Speaker 2: The boys. He's sacrificed so much.

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Speaker 1: She literally he sacrificed a trip with all. It wasn't

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Speaker 1: I only have one wife giving back and maybe a

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Speaker 1: baby boy. A baby boy is barely one of the boys. Literally,

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Speaker 1: Like the head is like popped out. He's like, hey,

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Speaker 1: so look it's the boy and his boys were calling

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Speaker 2: And it's like it's like and it's like, oh, dude,

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Speaker 2: that's that's so sick. Fucking stuck with my wife in.

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Speaker 1: The labor rooms like tricks. We got like ahead of

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Speaker 2: I'm like, wife, can't you hurry this ship up?

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Speaker 1: Jimmy's already crushed like thirty bruskies since he started labor, babe, Like.

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Speaker 2: Come on, he's actually putting in work. What are you doing? Oh? God,

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Speaker 2: got a beer after beer? That's fucking labor.

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Speaker 1: He apologized to them. Blame He apologized to them, blaming

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Speaker 1: it on me being a nag, but just getting kid

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Speaker 1: like incomprehensible, like.

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Speaker 2: So, see, the thing I don't understand about these Reddit

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Speaker 1: Like like, there has to have been one hundred thousand

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Speaker 1: now that we're in the labor room, that's what.

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Speaker 2: There's no way it's just coming out like.

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Speaker 1: Usually it happens and she's like, oh, I'm just making dinner,

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Speaker 1: like oh I just I just you know, my dad

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Speaker 1: just died, but he's just talking with the boys. But

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Speaker 1: now it's like, okay, I have your child coming out

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Speaker 2: Mean much like this baby, the red flags have had

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Speaker 2: time to come out. That's right.

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Speaker 1: I was really annoyed with him and told him if

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Speaker 1: but he had to do so elsewhere because so I

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Speaker 2: That is I can't believe the wife is still making

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Speaker 2: like like uh.

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Speaker 1: Like compromise compromises just like turn off power, down your

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Speaker 1: fucking phone and be here, hold my hand in my hand. Well,

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Speaker 1: like you get to stand there. I gotta push this thing.

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Speaker 2: Out, bro, Like at least he gets to lie down, good.

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Speaker 1: God, babe, Like man, we got to stain on her

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Speaker 2: For twenty hours, twenty six hours, My hand so hard

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Speaker 1: My hand is purple.

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Speaker 2: But I understand, Like.

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Speaker 1: He was like, all right, fine, baby, I'll just call

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Speaker 1: him back later. So I had about twenty minutes of

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Speaker 1: then proceeded to put me on the video call give

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Speaker 1: I'm giving birth. He's like, yo's my wife, look at her?

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Speaker 1: Go my god. His mom makes a comment about how

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Speaker 1: she even claims she looks so good. The doctor was

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Speaker 1: what is it with these like it's always with these

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Speaker 1: redit stories, the one sane person and then everybody else

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Speaker 1: is a maning doctor was flirting with her? Like like

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Speaker 1: why in a million? Like you should be like give

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Speaker 2: Are like also, that's a weird like the weirdest flex

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Speaker 2: the doctors look good. She doesn't look good. No one

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Speaker 1: Awful awful, Like yeah, what is he supposed to think?

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Speaker 1: Like so you were flirting with a doctor while giving

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Speaker 2: Not I the husband that was there? Uh opie's oh

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Speaker 2: PE's wait, oh Pea's husband's father in the delivery room

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Speaker 2: and be like Doug I'm thankful for you, like, but

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Speaker 2: help him push out this baby. But could you stop

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Speaker 1: She's like, I'm already wide open for you. God No,

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Speaker 1: I was holding back everything inside me, trying not to

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Speaker 1: But at the same time, she sometimes just makes the

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Speaker 1: stupidest comments at the worst possible times, and this moment

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Speaker 1: I could not stand talking to her.

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Speaker 2: I mean completely fair.

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Speaker 1: It's like beyond fair.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, beyond fair. You're in a situation that allows a

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Speaker 1: Literally, a nurse comes in. A nurse ends up coming

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Speaker 1: I just really want to be alone. The nurse ends

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Speaker 1: up kicking out my husband and in turn, he ends

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Speaker 2: Yikes. I sense a divorce sitting there future. You know

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Speaker 2: what the real tragedy is what it wasn't a boy.

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Speaker 1: She's not one of the boys.

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Speaker 2: I can't have another hook, Sorry, I have him. It

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Speaker 2: can't be with the boys.

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Speaker 1: Sorry. You're just holding her like I gotta go on

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Speaker 2: You can't come.

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Speaker 1: You're not one of the boys. How is Jimmy supposed

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Speaker 1: to crush thirty bruskis in front of you like it's

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Speaker 1: it can't it can't be done.

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Speaker 2: It can't be done.

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Speaker 1: And he left the hospital because he was pissed off

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Speaker 1: that I got the nurse to kick him out of

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Speaker 2: Dude, didn't even wait.

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Speaker 1: This is literally your first child, and you're so you're

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Speaker 1: so petty that you leave the hospital to not see

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Speaker 2: I do I'm gonna go on a limb here. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I do not think this guy is going to make

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Speaker 2: a very good father. Oh dude, that's I don't know.

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Speaker 2: That's a pretty bold prediction. Are you Are you sure

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Speaker 2: putting out Are you comfortable putting that out there? I'm comfortable.

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Speaker 2: I'm okay. Yeah, I'm gona put it out there, planting

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Speaker 2: the flag. I feel so bad for Op. This is

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Speaker 2: a terrible, terrible situation. Dump that husband, man, get that.

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Speaker 2: Get your divorce papers ready and settled.

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Speaker 1: He also refused later to come see his daughter because

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Speaker 1: he was angry at me for kicking him out, and

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Speaker 1: my mother in law, who did visit me in the hospital,

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Speaker 1: wouldn't stop talking about how I'm such a bad wife

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Speaker 1: from removing for removing my husband from the room. God,

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Speaker 1: when I got home, he kept on bringing up how

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Speaker 1: I ruined a moment of bonding with his daughter and

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Speaker 1: how he could never forgive me for that. So my

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Speaker 1: the asshole for kicking my husband out out of the

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Speaker 1: delivery room because he was making phone calls with his boys. No,

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Speaker 1: that's the biggest, not at all, that's the biggest, Not

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Speaker 1: the a hole, Like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah all time, My God, just please get out and

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Speaker 2: like get out.

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Speaker 1: Divorce, take take your newborn daughter, and just just run.

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Speaker 2: Just just run to the hills. Just leave.