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Speaker 1: I twenty nine mail have started a new position at

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Speaker 2: So like basically you could access any any bad disabled

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Speaker 1: even good. Dude, Sophie, I see you, I see you,

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Speaker 2: Touch me if you can catch me, if you can. Now,

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Speaker 2: I kept saying that this is boring and I don't

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Speaker 2: Just like like just unreasonably, so, yeah, why do you

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Speaker 1: Dude? She just loves to prive. Maybe she's like yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: because she played this prank out in front of our friends, okay,

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Speaker 1: just a prank. It's just a frank, Bro, It's just

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Speaker 2: no phase, no, no fase, no, no phase. Yesterday we

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Speaker 2: Everybody knew that I was planning to propose to her.

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Speaker 1: Oh God, in front of your family and friends. When

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Speaker 1: ask everyone.

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Speaker 2: Everyone, you're the closest people in your life, everyone you love,

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Speaker 2: and Obi's setting herself up for failure.

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Speaker 1: Though actually, actually, like actually this is a thing, Like

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Speaker 1: there's no like only goats. Yeah, at least that say

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Speaker 1: no Scottish Highlands. Will you marry me? No? No strek.

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Speaker 2: And I called all my loved ones because we had

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Speaker 1: So they did talk about it. They did. It seems

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Speaker 1: It seems like right. I asked her, will you marry

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Speaker 1: no marriage for you. Wow. How long did she keep

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Speaker 2: H well, I was so grumpy, panicked and upset with

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Speaker 1: I mean, bro, the whole family's there, I would be aghast.

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Speaker 2: We stood there for about thirty seconds, which feels like

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Speaker 1: Not the moment, you know, not like not quite the moment.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's she should have like it's been communicated seriously,

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Speaker 1: But this point to bring it back after a month.

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Speaker 1: I know. That's what's worse. Like, that's what's the terrible

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Speaker 1: thing about it is like like Opie thinks, okay, like

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Speaker 1: now it's finally done, it's been over a month, you

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Speaker 1: and then bam, she snipes her. I feel like that's

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Speaker 1: actually the best time to use it in terms of

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Speaker 1: like the most pranky that got. You gotta give it

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Speaker 1: a prank, bro, that is a prank. I was so

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Speaker 1: embarrassed and dis pointed, as you should be. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I just put the.

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Speaker 2: Ring back in the box and said I was gonna

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Speaker 2: leave to cool off. I didn't even let her say

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Imagine if she followed up with a note that's

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Speaker 1: actually that would be slightly hilarious. My god, why is

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Speaker 1: all the time? It's insane, Like find another bit, Like God,

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Speaker 1: so like that it probably is the funniest way to

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Speaker 2: So I said no. That our relationship. Yeah, she kept

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Speaker 2: texting me. I was not answering her calls, saying that

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Speaker 2: that I knew she always did that.

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Speaker 1: You knew, you knew why I always do that, and

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Speaker 1: op he was like, I fucking hated, I know you

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Speaker 2: Hey, Devil's I'm playing your part, Devil's advocate. It's a

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Speaker 1: Come on, You're not allowed to say that anymore. I'm

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Speaker 1: banning officially saying it's a prank bro band. This is

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Speaker 1: going to be like bro is this girl's non says

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Speaker 1: it's a prank bro way too many times, way too much.

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Speaker 1: I put in my fist out no more, it's a

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Speaker 1: prank bro. Over. She said that I left her in

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Speaker 1: maybe you shouldn't have said no, Maybe you should have

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Speaker 1: said yes. Maybe he could like he ruined a perfectly

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Speaker 2: An incredible moment all the friends, like everyone care about

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Speaker 2: good God. She's stressed that I was making the situation

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Speaker 1: Dude just got to read the room. Man read the room.

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Speaker 1: up your crowd work lady, like come on, yeah, it's like, hey,

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Speaker 1: so anyone ever had this happened to you? Am I right? Guys?

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Speaker 2: And they're just like, what you just turned down my

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this relationship is falling apart.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, my parents supported me, but my in laws called

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Speaker 1: Baby don't say no, bro oh p was the.

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Speaker 2: One that was humiliated. If we're talking about acumulating, that

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean? I really think there's a

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Speaker 2: she knew that I didn't like it and decided to

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Speaker 1: I don't think so? Yeah? Well, yeah, definitely an escalation yeah,

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Speaker 1: devil with advocate here you go. Let's like, you know, like,

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Speaker 1: but she might even say it still like this, this

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Speaker 1: Her saying no momentarily doesn't really do anything, like it's

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Speaker 1: not like, I mean, sure, momentary embarrassment, but like but op,

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Speaker 1: probably she's got to say yes. You've already talked about

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Speaker 1: saying yes. Yes. He's just so annoyed because he just

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Speaker 1: doesn't like this amazing, amazing joke. It's yeah, yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: like you just like you don't get the art of

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Speaker 1: comedy exactly. This is actually it's very high brow, very intellectual.

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Speaker 1: Comrade to the moon of the roof. It's like, uh,

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Speaker 1: you know, you know, uh not handsome squid word, but

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Speaker 2: By the way, I since all of you all are

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Speaker 2: relationship not not not like you know, but you know

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Speaker 2: you can have a relationship with a stranger. This is

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Speaker 2: you know, this is true a encounter.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I got I got an entangled entanglement for you. Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So so I last like a couple of episodes ago,

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Speaker 1: on the beach, right, Alexa? You met Alexa? Right, yes, dude,

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Speaker 1: with a good looking girl, you have hot girl credibility. Right,

432
00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:19,639
Speaker 1: Hot girl credibility is everything, yes, right, Because if you

433
00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:21,960
Speaker 1: have a hot girl that's saying like, oh, like this

434
00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 1: person is like cool enough to hang out with, then

435
00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:27,359
Speaker 1: any other girl you approach like, oh okay, this guy's

436
00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:34,159
Speaker 1: probably the defenses are down, john No. And so I

437
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:37,600
Speaker 1: meet this girl at the beach, she's like journaling, uh, well, okay,

438
00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:39,960
Speaker 1: I don't meet her. Alex and I arrived early to

439
00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:42,080
Speaker 1: the beach. We're supposed to meet some other people. This

440
00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:45,359
Speaker 1: girl is just kind of like journaling alone. There's a

441
00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:47,600
Speaker 1: bunch of people on the beach. I'm like, that girl

442
00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:50,600
Speaker 1: is very cute, and so Alex and I sit right

443
00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:54,120
Speaker 1: next to her. Oh yeah. I start talking to her,

444
00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:57,840
Speaker 1: askingring about the journaling stuff. The journal looked really cool

445
00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:00,280
Speaker 1: and we just like hit it off immediately. Like we

446
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:02,040
Speaker 1: ended up talking for like probably like an hour. It's

447
00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:05,200
Speaker 1: such a it's such a perfect conversation starter, dude. I like, dude,

448
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:08,800
Speaker 1: a girl that journals, oh oh, oh so good. I

449
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:13,359
Speaker 1: love a girl that loves to self improve anyway, super cute,

450
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 1: very intellectual, went to UCLA. I get her Instagram and

451
00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 1: then we like plan. We start with I'm like, hey,

452
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 1: do you want to go to a museum and get

453
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:26,320
Speaker 1: a little tipsy and uh hang out? Oh yeah, And

454
00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:29,199
Speaker 1: she's like yes. And then last time we talked, I

455
00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,679
Speaker 1: showed John the text messages. She didn't respond for like

456
00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:34,919
Speaker 1: two days. Dude, she was I still think you're a

457
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 1: little overblowing it two days days. Some people some people

458
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:42,640
Speaker 1: are just bad. I have a very very very close

459
00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:45,520
Speaker 1: friend who I love dearly, who is terrible at texting

460
00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:47,800
Speaker 1: and I and it's known, yeah, you know what I

461
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:51,080
Speaker 1: mean to be fair there there, I have like three

462
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:53,879
Speaker 1: hundred do read text message so yeah, I remember one

463
00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:56,080
Speaker 1: time You're like, dude, I have like a thousand unread

464
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,040
Speaker 1: exs I need to go through all. Yeah, yeah, I know.

465
00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 1: Let's see what it's at right right now, it's at

466
00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 1: forty two, so hey, yeah, away. At that point it's

467
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 1: like it's like it's so it's so many it's not

468
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:08,520
Speaker 1: even a real num. Yeah, it's not representative of how

469
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 1: much of an And you're responding to the responding the

470
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:18,840
Speaker 1: topp like John, Yeah, John's VIP number one for so yeah,

471
00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:22,120
Speaker 1: we connect really well. She doesn't respond for a couple

472
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:23,600
Speaker 1: of days, but then she's like, yes, I would love

473
00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:26,879
Speaker 1: to go. We schedule it for Sunday at the Getty,

474
00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 1: all right, and at three thirty rolls around. We had

475
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:34,320
Speaker 1: just done a little party which you should have come to,

476
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:37,560
Speaker 1: by the way, on Saturday, but it was fun, and

477
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:40,359
Speaker 1: I meet her at the Getty and I'm a little nervous.

478
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:42,760
Speaker 1: I'm actually very very nervous because I didn't realize you

479
00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:44,639
Speaker 1: had to like reserve spots for the getty, which you

480
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:47,640
Speaker 1: actually don't, but ended up all being fine and instantly

481
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,919
Speaker 1: again do the connections there. She's so cute. She's so

482
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 1: cute and like conversations flowing. We like make these babies laugh.

483
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:58,920
Speaker 1: We're dancing together. How you said we make these babies.

484
00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:02,679
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we make these No, we make these bababies. Amazing, amazing.

485
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:06,720
Speaker 1: D it's dude, it's it's so freaking cute, right, Like

486
00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:09,880
Speaker 1: we're getting along and we're talking to all these random people.

487
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:13,680
Speaker 1: We learned like sword fighting from these swordsmen. People nice,

488
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 1: and then we're, uh, we're about to get kicked out.

489
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:18,480
Speaker 1: It's like five point thirty. We're going to go to

490
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:21,359
Speaker 1: a wine bar. And as we're leaving, we see this

491
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 1: guy in like this tie die shirt that says porn

492
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:27,120
Speaker 1: and biscuits on it or sorry, biscuits and porn, right,

493
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 1: And I'm like, what the hell is biscuits important? And

494
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:32,280
Speaker 1: so we go up to this guy and we're like,

495
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:35,359
Speaker 1: what is biscuits important? And he's like, well, you know,

496
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:37,640
Speaker 1: I'm from North Carolina. It's like like this really cool

497
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:40,439
Speaker 1: little shop on on the East coast, like right on

498
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 1: the water in North Carolina and tells us a little

499
00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:45,399
Speaker 1: bit more about it. I'm like, that kind of sounds interesting.

500
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 1: And so I turned to this girl i'm with and

501
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 1: I'm like, do you want to go? And she's like yes,

502
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:54,280
Speaker 1: and I'm like I'm serious and she's like I'm serious too,

503
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay, we're gonna get tickets later today, right,

504
00:26:57,920 --> 00:27:01,760
Speaker 1: And so we go to We go to this wine bar,

505
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:04,960
Speaker 1: having a phenomenal time talk about sex cults. Then we

506
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 1: go to the we walk down to the ocean. We're

507
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:11,359
Speaker 1: swinging together, looking to each other's eyes. It is so cute,

508
00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 1: an awesome, amazing date. Then we go and walk along

509
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:16,719
Speaker 1: the beach and like you know, having some deep conversations

510
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 1: and we go to this tower and we're talking about

511
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:23,720
Speaker 1: how like our parents met and then she's looking at me,

512
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 1: looking at her, and then we're going for a little smooch.

513
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:30,040
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and it was Oh, it was so great.

514
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:31,439
Speaker 1: It was so great, dude, it was so great. This

515
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 1: is like oozing romance. Yeah, it's like preposterous. And there

516
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 1: was a point where she's like, you can't look at

517
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 1: me like that we just met. I'm like, you can't

518
00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 1: look at me like that we just met, and yeah,

519
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:45,040
Speaker 1: we were staring at the other's eyes a lot, and

520
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 1: then we're you know, we're wrapping up a little little

521
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 1: makeout sash and walking back to the boardwalk and I'm like,

522
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 1: I'm serious about North Carolina and she's like I'm serious too,

523
00:27:58,000 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 1: and like I'm going to buy the tickets right now.

524
00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:05,000
Speaker 1: And so we are leaving this Friday for North Carolina

525
00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 1: to drive to Biscuits Import. Dude. Wow, wow, I'm glad

526
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:17,840
Speaker 1: you saved it that holy ship. Dude. Wow, she's so cool. Dude, Wow,

527
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:20,680
Speaker 1: she's so cool, dude. Hell yeah, I'm hyped.

528
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:25,680
Speaker 2: The question, though, is is this the end of hot

529
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:28,840
Speaker 2: boys summer? I mean falls around the corner.

530
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:30,919
Speaker 1: If you think about it, you know, that's you know,

531
00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 1: the Christians like, we lost a real we lost a

532
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 1: good one today. Boys. It very well could be I

533
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:38,360
Speaker 1: had a I had a brief hot boy summer. Yes,

534
00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:43,800
Speaker 1: brief but brief, but flaming, but ye, raging, raging, flaming,

535
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 1: ver a flaming Hot boys summer is hot boys looking

536
00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:50,000
Speaker 1: for other hot boys.

537
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 2: Oh, hot boys looking for other hot boys. That is

538
00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 2: the hottest monstrous like the the frequency of sex.

539
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:03,760
Speaker 1: Oh dude, happening. It's ten times a day. Yeahs, you're

540
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:06,280
Speaker 1: gonna have a thousand, a thousand fucks in a summer,

541
00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 1: a thousand, so many fucks will be so many, so many.

542
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 1: But I don't know. Well, I mean, we'll see how

543
00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:16,720
Speaker 1: this goes. I'm I'm feeling good about it, but things,

544
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:21,000
Speaker 1: things could fall apart. Life and love is, of course,

545
00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 1: is fluid and fleeting, but I am. I am very excited,

546
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 1: and I hope it goes well and you'll share it

547
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:33,120
Speaker 1: with our with our wonderful fans. Who's stuck through? Yeah, yeah,

548
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:36,600
Speaker 1: anyone who's actually listening to this, dude, shout out, shout

549
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 1: out to listening to my love life. Oh yeah,