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Speaker 1: It's time.

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Speaker 2: Cheater Only.

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Speaker 1: On the Jubile Show, Gwynn is on the phone today

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Speaker 1: for to catch a cheater. She's been with her boyfriend

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Speaker 1: Eddie for seven years. Oh wow, and now she thinks

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Speaker 1: he might be cheating. Gwen, that's a long time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's been a journey. You know, we've been together

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Speaker 3: for quite some time and we've had some bumpy roads

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Speaker 3: and it hasn't been you know, just rainbows and sunshine.

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Speaker 3: We've been through a lot together and I've been sticking

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Speaker 3: it out with him, you know, and between a friend's funeral,

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Speaker 3: his parents passing, and losing his job for almost a year,

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Speaker 3: which took a lot on us fiscally, his drinking got

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Speaker 3: really bad. So yeah, he's I mean I had to

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Speaker 3: ask him and beg him, and he's been going to

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Speaker 3: AA and he's been really trying. But his meetings lately

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Speaker 3: they're usually once a week and now he leaves it

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Speaker 3: like four times a week for a meeting, and I'm

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Speaker 3: just like, what's going on?

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Speaker 4: Does he need that?

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Speaker 3: Though?

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Speaker 4: I think that when you need extra support, you can

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Speaker 4: attend more meetings.

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Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, yeah, you can attend as many as you want.

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Speaker 1: You can do one every day. You don't think he's

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Speaker 1: going to the meetings that much.

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Speaker 3: You know what, he could, but now, like as opposed

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Speaker 3: to like two months ago, they were fine and he

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Speaker 3: would come home with life and energy and really start

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Speaker 3: to open up about his feelings. And now he comes

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Speaker 3: home he doesn't want to talk. I can't touch him,

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Speaker 3: he goes into the toower in any good thing bit

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Speaker 3: oh you know, And it's just like he's so distant.

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Speaker 3: If you're going through more emotionally, like you should talk to.

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Speaker 1: Me the straight to the show.

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Speaker 4: There is always something that's a flag for me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, the only logical thing that I always

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Speaker 3: off of another person.

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Speaker 4: That's hard to think. That's hard to like process in

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Speaker 4: your own mind, I'm sure, but maybe, I mean it

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Speaker 4: sounds sketchy. But then also he could have a legit

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Speaker 4: reason this time. I don't feel like I have a

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Speaker 4: real feeling on this story right really.

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Speaker 1: Because it sounds like he's going through a lot. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: it could be that he's just going through a lot.

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Speaker 1: It also could be that he's messing around.

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Speaker 3: You know, I figure you guys could help, you know.

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Speaker 1: We definitely can we will play a song come back,

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Speaker 1: and then do the usual You already told us what

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Speaker 1: grocery store you guys are reward card members at, so

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Speaker 1: we'll call from there say that every single month we

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Speaker 1: offer one lucky Rewards Card member free flowers to deliver

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Speaker 1: to anybody they want, and we'll see if he sends

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Speaker 1: us to you or somebody else.

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Speaker 4: Okay, thanks guys, gosh, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to play a song, come back and

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Speaker 1: get your to Catch a Cheater next it's the Jubal show.

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Speaker 1: Right in the middle of to Catch a Cheater And

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Speaker 1: if you're just joining us. Gwinn is on the phone

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Speaker 1: and she thinks that her boyfriend of seven years might

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Speaker 1: be messing around. His name is Eddie. We're about to

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Speaker 1: call him and pretend to be from the grocery store

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Speaker 1: that he's a Reward Cards Rewards Card member at, and

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Speaker 1: do the usual thing that we do. We're going to

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Speaker 1: tell him that every single month, we choose one Rewards

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Speaker 1: Card member at random we gets free flowers delivered from

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Speaker 1: our brand new and improved floral department to anybody that

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Speaker 1: he wants, and we'll see if he sends him to

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Speaker 1: his girlfriend or to someone else. But before we call him,

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Speaker 1: Gwen wish everybody's memory on why you think you might

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Speaker 3: You've just been going through a lot. He started a

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Speaker 3: a up again, and he went from one meeting a

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Speaker 3: week to four meetings a week, and he takes showers

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Speaker 3: after coming home, and he doesn't talk, and he doesn't

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Speaker 3: want me to touch him, and something's just off.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't steel right.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm ready.

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Speaker 2: I hope. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Emotionally I'm not, but I need this all right?

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Speaker 1: Here we go.

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Speaker 5: Hello?

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Speaker 4: Is this Eddie?

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Speaker 2: H Yeah, Eddie?

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Speaker 1: How are you? My name is Jordan. I'm calling from

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Speaker 1: I'm calling with the exciting news that you're this month's

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Speaker 1: big winner. Congratulations, I wonderful. What oh maybe you don't know.

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Speaker 1: Every single month, we choose one of our Rewards Card

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Speaker 1: members to say thank you very much for being such

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Speaker 1: We do delivery now, trying to get the word out

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Speaker 1: and also saying thank you very much for being such

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Speaker 1: a loyal customer. So what you want is thirty six

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Speaker 1: long stem red roses, a box of chocolates, and a

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Speaker 1: absolutely free. It's actually a two hundred and forty seven

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, that's cool.

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Speaker 1: So if you know who you want to send it to,

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Speaker 1: I can take the information down in just a couple

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Speaker 1: time to call you back. Unless you know who you

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Speaker 1: want to send it to right now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I can. I can just tell you how to

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Speaker 2: send it to now.

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Speaker 1: So we'll just start with the name, the first name,

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Speaker 2: We can go with Scara, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, and is there? It does come with a card.

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Speaker 1: Would you like to put a message on a card?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Sure, that'd be great.

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Speaker 1: Okay, good for it. I can take that down for

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Speaker 1: you right now.

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Speaker 2: Okay. It's thank you for helping me to help myself.

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Speaker 2: I owe you so much. I'm falling harder for you

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Speaker 2: every day.

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Speaker 1: Oh that is lovely. It's probably not lovely to your girlfriend, Gwenn.

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Speaker 1: What who is on the phone right now? You're a

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Speaker 1: piece of this is the Jubile Show, Eddie. It's a

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Speaker 1: radio show and we do a segment where we try

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Speaker 1: to catch people cheating by seeing who they'll send flowers to.

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Speaker 4: And that's what this whole thing is. So I'm here, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I'm here, Nina, and you're busted. Bro.

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Speaker 1: Hey it's Victoria and your girlfriend Gwenno is on the phone.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 3: Wow every funeral, I was there for you each time.

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Speaker 3: And this is what you do.

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Speaker 2: This is what you do to me. I'm not selfish.

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Speaker 2: You're horrible. You're horrible.

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Speaker 3: You're such a piece of crape.

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Speaker 4: Well who is Sarah and how do you know her?

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Speaker 2: Oh happened to be my AA sponsor?

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Speaker 4: Okay, this is a that makes.

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Speaker 2: It ad like.

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Speaker 5: I'm just sending her You know, I thought I was

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Speaker 5: sending her guitars because in the flowers, because I just

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Speaker 3: And what about falling harder for her every day? That's

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Speaker 3: total bullsh and you know it. How long has this

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Speaker 5: I mean, I don't know how to explain that. I mean,

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Speaker 5: there's nothing going on.

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Speaker 2: It's just like she's a sponsor, she helps me.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like you're making that up. Now after the fact, Eddie,

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Speaker 1: we all heard.

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Speaker 4: Him say that, right, I'm falling more for you every day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm falling harder for you every day.

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Speaker 3: And this legit because you you sound like you have

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Speaker 2: How are you so calm? How are you so calmly collected?

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Speaker 5: Because there's not what you think that was just being

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Speaker 2: I didn't mean that.

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Speaker 3: Why are you falling for her? That's not kind, that's

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Speaker 3: you admitting that you have feelings.

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Speaker 4: Also, isn't that like breaking a rule over recovery. Shouldn't

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Speaker 4: you not get into relationships, especially with your sponsor?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well you know what, I called book on that

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Speaker 2: Well, Sarah is like a sponsor because she's also in

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Speaker 3: Yeah you know what, And I was like a girlfriend

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Speaker 3: to you because now I'm an ex and all you're

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Speaker 3: going to be in front of the house, So you

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Speaker 3: were like a resident of our house and now you're

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Speaker 3: like homeless. Okay, so just remember all these lights and maybe, Okay.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't have to go that far.

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Speaker 5: I'm just saying that she understands that's what I've been

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Speaker 5: going that far.

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Speaker 2: You don't lie.

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Speaker 3: About her being your sponsor?

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Speaker 2: Do you realize that? Do you realize.

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Speaker 3: No, she's kind of like a mistress because she is.

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Speaker 3: What's wrong with you?

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Speaker 2: How are you that delusional?

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Speaker 3: You're such an I can't believe I dedicated my time

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Speaker 3: and energy to your trauma. You're just one big regret.

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Speaker 2: I just needed additional support, that's all.

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Speaker 4: Like the oopsis I fell down on you support. I mean,

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Speaker 4: he didn't actually say it, Eddie. Why don't you just

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Speaker 4: say it and.

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Speaker 2: Say what I didn't. I didn't do anything. I'm not cheating.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, now you can get all the support you

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Speaker 3: need from Pharah. So enjoy your new life and enjoy

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Speaker 3: her mattress.

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Speaker 1: Gwenny hung up. Oh, I'm sorry, so sorry.

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Speaker 3: You know, I'm I'm sorry, but I'm a little relieve

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Speaker 3: because now i know I'm not crazy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's what happened, and now.

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Speaker 3: You know I'm not.

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Speaker 2: I'm just done. I'm done.

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Speaker 3: I'm just done now.

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Speaker 1: And you'll hear it. You know you'll find you'll find

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Speaker 1: the right person. Obviously it wasn't meant to be, but

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Speaker 1: it is. I do know that feeling. Though it's terrible,

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Speaker 1: but also at least now you know and take.

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Speaker 4: That energy you're putting into his trauma and put it

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Speaker 4: right into you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much, this is oh God.

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Speaker 1: Let us know if you need anything.

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, thanks.

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Speaker 3: The Jewble shows to Catch a Cheater