1 00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:16,600 Speaker 1: We've been away for the holidays. Uh. Some people's outgoing 2 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 1: message still says we're away on the holidays. It's Wednesday 3 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 1: after the New Year. Okay, Bosta enough, like we know 4 00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 1: it was a holiday, Like, let's let it go else. 5 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:29,160 Speaker 1: So you're not even working in an office, you're working 6 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 1: from home. We all have to come to terms with 7 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 1: the fact that we're going back to some version of work. 8 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:38,519 Speaker 1: And I stuck to my January three, end of day 9 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:42,000 Speaker 1: New Year's greeting this year. I just feel it's awkward, 10 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: and you know, you hesitate before saying it, like January seven, 11 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:47,239 Speaker 1: when you're talking to someone you haven't spoken to. It's 12 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:49,240 Speaker 1: a little bit of a caveat when you haven't spoken 13 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:50,760 Speaker 1: to someone, like it's one of those people you speak 14 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:52,520 Speaker 1: to once every couple of months, and then you happen 15 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 1: to speak to them that week and you're like, Wow, 16 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 1: Happy New Year. I guess because I'm insecure about it, 17 00:00:57,240 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 1: because I know it's weird after the first five days. Also, 18 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 1: like five o'clock, six o'clock, end of business day, we 19 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: don't need to be doing New Year's New Year's salutations 20 00:01:10,600 --> 00:01:13,480 Speaker 1: all hours of the day, all time zones, and I 21 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:17,679 Speaker 1: do think that this year it fell Sunday was the 22 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:20,400 Speaker 1: travel day to get home, so Monday I extended it 23 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: to Monday, end of day. But also we all have phones, 24 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:24,760 Speaker 1: it could have been Sunday. I'm pretty strict about it, 25 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:28,520 Speaker 1: like it's okay, you know, we all get it. It's January. 26 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:38,759 Speaker 1: Moving on. I was first in Aspen scheme with my daughter, 27 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 1: and then I was in Florida with my daughter and Paul. 28 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 1: I hadn't seen my mother for decades, and my daughter 29 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 1: had wanted to meet and wanted to meet her. So 30 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 1: last year we did that, which is sort of it's 31 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 1: not really rantish, So I'm going to get into that 32 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 1: on another day, just discussing that and discussing sort of 33 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 1: Emily dynamics and forgiveness and what we do for our 34 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:11,360 Speaker 1: kids and sort of putting them before you, and the 35 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 1: reasons that kids can make us reunite or bring different 36 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 1: situations together. So my daughter has forged a relationship with 37 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:21,600 Speaker 1: my mother in a very different way, in a fresh way, 38 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 1: in a way that's giving my daughter connectivity to me 39 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:27,800 Speaker 1: in my past, to her life, to who she is, 40 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:30,639 Speaker 1: to her art because my mother um is very much 41 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 1: an artist, and uh, because I've had a complicated relationship 42 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 1: with her, and it's been documented and discussed, and I 43 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 1: don't really want to get into that. But we haven't 44 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:43,640 Speaker 1: had a relationship, and I haven't necessarily wanted to. But 45 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 1: as people get older, myself and her, we think about 46 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:50,239 Speaker 1: how we're going to feel, you know, at the end, 47 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 1: and my daughter, I let it be her decision. She 48 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 1: kept asking me. Our kids are curious about our parents 49 00:02:57,280 --> 00:02:59,680 Speaker 1: and our relatives, and she kept asking me about it, 50 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 1: and last she said, can I meet her? Can I 51 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 1: meet your mama? Can we call your mamma? Can you 52 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 1: know all this stuff that might be awkward for me 53 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:06,800 Speaker 1: because it's been so long and there's a lot there, 54 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 1: a lot to unpacked, as a therapist would say. So 55 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:13,680 Speaker 1: my daughter really wanted to forge that relationship last year 56 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:16,360 Speaker 1: and then I thought, okay, that would satisfy her. She 57 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:20,239 Speaker 1: met her great, and then she kept asking about it more. 58 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 1: And I'm doing it for her, but stuff will come 59 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:25,640 Speaker 1: up for me. I'm not really sure about what that 60 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 1: stuff is. Uh, it's not really about me. It's about her, 61 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 1: but it also it is about me in the sense 62 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 1: that it will alleviate some of the anxiety that I've 63 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 1: had about what the future will be like. And it's 64 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 1: just it's an open it's a drawer that is just 65 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 1: closed that I never opened. So we're in the beginning 66 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 1: of it. But that's I guess that's a very big 67 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:46,480 Speaker 1: thing to say. That happened to me over the holidays 68 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 1: in moving into the new year. Um, I don't believe 69 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 1: in the year's resolutions. I never have. I feel that 70 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 1: people are running in leg warmers into gyms and paying 71 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 1: for memberships, and then you know you're starting at a ten. 72 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 1: And then if you don't do perfectly well, don't achieve 73 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 1: all of your dreams, and aren't you know, eating only 74 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 1: an antioxidant rich diet and working out seven days a 75 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 1: week at a boot camp, then you've failed, and then 76 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 1: you crashed to the bottom, and then you quote unquote 77 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 1: ruin it. And my book Naturally Thin is all about this, 78 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 1: about unrealistic expectations and resolutions and a good relationship with 79 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:25,600 Speaker 1: food and exercise, a healthy, realistic relationship. So I believe 80 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 1: in just I constantly do resolve. I will. I'll be 81 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:30,479 Speaker 1: laying in bed at night and I'll say, you know what, 82 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:32,159 Speaker 1: I want to be a better I want to be 83 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:34,239 Speaker 1: a better boss. I want to be a better partner. 84 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 1: I want to be better at this. I want to 85 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:38,160 Speaker 1: be more connected in this way. I want to take 86 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 1: brand on a trip for philanthropy or you know, and 87 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:43,120 Speaker 1: and try to make your goals every day or every 88 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:45,839 Speaker 1: week or however you want to do it, but to 89 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:51,720 Speaker 1: have a realistic, healthy relationship with what's in front of you, 90 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:55,600 Speaker 1: meaning with food, with exercise, but what your life is. 91 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:59,479 Speaker 1: So for me, I put sleep first. Sleep is my 92 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 1: first priority. I value it more than money, more than anything. 93 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 1: I mean, time is so precious and sleep, though, is 94 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 1: so valuable. So any day of the week, I would 95 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 1: choose to be rested before being in great shape, before money, 96 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 1: before exercise, all of it. So that's my priority. Um. 97 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 1: And when I can exercise, I do. It should be 98 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 1: noted to you and you should realize that years ago 99 00:05:26,080 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 1: I was much heavier and much more obsessed with it, 100 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 1: and much more high and low and yo yo um, 101 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 1: because it was extremes. It was you were good, if 102 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 1: you didn't eat, you were bad. If you ate, you binge, 103 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:41,799 Speaker 1: then you cleansed, you know, all over the map where 104 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's getting older, it's definitely getting older, 105 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 1: but you just realize one day that that's such a struggle, 106 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 1: and that's such it's just pulling on yourself like a 107 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 1: slinky and like twisting and turning versus just being realistic. 108 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:56,720 Speaker 1: And if you have exercise on some level in your life, 109 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 1: as I kind as I do, I'll take a walk 110 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 1: because I want to. When I want to, I'll surf 111 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:05,440 Speaker 1: or take a walk on the beach, or do yoga 112 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 1: when I can, uh when I'm not so crazed, but 113 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 1: I don't beat myself up about it. Exercise is like 114 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 1: a friend that when you see, you're happy to see, 115 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:15,600 Speaker 1: and if you don't see for a while, it's okay. 116 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:17,720 Speaker 1: And food should be the same thing. You should have 117 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 1: what you want. It shouldn't be drastic, and you should 118 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 1: not beat yourself up. No one was ever obese or 119 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:27,160 Speaker 1: overweight or uncomfortable about their weight from just having one 120 00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:29,839 Speaker 1: cookie or a piece of pizza or French fries. It's 121 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 1: the emotional mentality of being afraid of oil and fried 122 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:39,919 Speaker 1: and the things that you like and then rebelling and 123 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:41,919 Speaker 1: then eating them in excess and then not eating them. 124 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 1: And it's a terrible, terrible thing that so many people do, 125 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:48,160 Speaker 1: and that's being emotional about food. Food is not your 126 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 1: best friend nor your enemy. You weren't good if you 127 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:54,120 Speaker 1: did an eat, you weren't bad if you ate. It's 128 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 1: that roller coaster. It's that eating something that you don't 129 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 1: feel good about, that bad investment that you've made, and 130 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 1: then digging yourself deeper into a hole because you were 131 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:06,480 Speaker 1: already quote unquote bad today. But tomorrow, the sun's gonna 132 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 1: come out and it's gonna be January first, and everything's 133 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 1: gonna be great. And it's that high and low pressure 134 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 1: that really really does people in. So for me, you know, 135 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:15,560 Speaker 1: I used to be up and down, up and down, 136 00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:17,640 Speaker 1: and my weight never really changes. And so then you 137 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 1: can have a really good relationship with exercise and health 138 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 1: because it's for the right reasons. You're not working out 139 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 1: because you ate yesterday and you're not or you're not 140 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 1: working out because it's gonna be how you're gonna look good. 141 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 1: You're working out because you want to take a walk, 142 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 1: because you want to feel good, because you know that 143 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 1: it's just something to get air in your lungs and 144 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 1: that it's for the right reasons. And when you your 145 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 1: weight doesn't yo yo all the time because you don't 146 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:42,559 Speaker 1: ever binge. You may eat things you don't feel good about, 147 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 1: but then you can really make good choices. For example, 148 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 1: over the holiday, I had so many fried things, truffle 149 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:53,360 Speaker 1: fries with brand fried Brussels, spreads with fried oreos, fried everything. 150 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 1: But I didn't eat a ton of food. I wasn't 151 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 1: like pounding ice cream and French fries and all this stuff. 152 00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:00,480 Speaker 1: It wasn't I was eating as of food. I was 153 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 1: just eating stuff that isn't exactly healthy for you. And 154 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:05,320 Speaker 1: the same thing with drinking. I was drinking. I mean 155 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 1: on the plane on the way home January second, I 156 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 1: drank too bloody Mary's. They I had this like salty 157 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 1: caviaar thing. I had a margarita that day I had. 158 00:08:15,320 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 1: I had chips and guacamole twice with brin Like it's 159 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 1: just a garbage day. But it doesn't mean that I 160 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 1: binged or ate as much as caloric wise as another day. 161 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 1: It just means that I felt like a garbage can 162 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 1: just because it's gross. But then I can just eat healthy, 163 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:32,800 Speaker 1: not because of weight, meaning I have all these green 164 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:35,360 Speaker 1: juices and smoothies and as i e bowls and chia 165 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 1: and all this stuff in my fridge. But that's more 166 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 1: caloric than the fried Brussels sprouts. I ate in small quantities, 167 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:42,880 Speaker 1: But it's just because I'm doing because I want to 168 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:44,840 Speaker 1: feel good about my body. I wanted to be drinking 169 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 1: alcohol this week because I want to just feel like 170 00:08:46,760 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 1: my skin and my sleep and my eyes will be better. 171 00:08:49,840 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 1: So the thing is, make better choices in the moment 172 00:08:53,679 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 1: based on your actual reality. It just shouldn't be so extreme. 173 00:08:57,320 --> 00:08:59,839 Speaker 1: Let's try. Let's stry for some balance. It's just like 174 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 1: you're never gonna happy having sex, be tan, be rich, 175 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 1: working hard, being a good parent, getting to everything on time, 176 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:11,560 Speaker 1: being organized, um and looking good. You know, at the 177 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:14,080 Speaker 1: same time, all this stuff isn't gonna happen. But you 178 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 1: start for some balance today. You know, last night I 179 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 1: slept well and I had an Asia bowl today. Uh, 180 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:23,200 Speaker 1: but maybe work is stressful. Like try to just achieve 181 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:25,360 Speaker 1: some balance. I think that's a good sort of way 182 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:27,880 Speaker 1: to go into the new year. It just is bigger 183 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 1: than just the tightness of like I'm gonna work out tomorrow. 184 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this and I'm gonna change my life. 185 00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:33,200 Speaker 1: And I saw this diet and I ripped it out 186 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 1: and it makes me feel like I have hope and 187 00:09:34,360 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 1: I'm going to join a gym or go to boot 188 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:38,560 Speaker 1: camp or it just there's no way to sustain that 189 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:40,679 Speaker 1: in any other way. You have to. There's no other 190 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 1: way if you were like, I'm gonna be a perfect 191 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 1: parent January two by January nine to be screaming at 192 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 1: your kids and then beating yourself up about it. So 193 00:09:47,640 --> 00:09:48,920 Speaker 1: just try to be like, I'm gonna do the best 194 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:51,680 Speaker 1: I can, and when I'm not great, I'll apologize about 195 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 1: it and keep it moving. So that's how I feel 196 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 1: about all areas of life, just to have a little 197 00:09:56,520 --> 00:10:00,120 Speaker 1: bit more balance. And I was on vacation. We don't 198 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:02,680 Speaker 1: to realize until we get into times of stress if 199 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:06,120 Speaker 1: we are changing. And my therapist says, when you go 200 00:10:06,200 --> 00:10:08,960 Speaker 1: through something or when you get crazy or activated, or 201 00:10:10,160 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 1: let's say with food you binge, or with shopping you binge, 202 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 1: or with clutter you're not good or whatever your thing is, 203 00:10:16,440 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 1: are you snap at your family instead of beating yourself 204 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:21,200 Speaker 1: up for it or having a reaction or trying to 205 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:24,959 Speaker 1: solve it, to just identify it. A lot of meditation 206 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 1: is that a lot of meditation is identifying something, just 207 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 1: noticing it. Then letting it float away, versus strangling it, 208 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:33,640 Speaker 1: versus being mad at it, versus being mad at yourself. 209 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 1: You sort of just saying okay, So I was. It 210 00:10:37,960 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 1: took me seventeen hours to get home from Colorado. It 211 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:42,920 Speaker 1: was planes, trains, and automobiles. I woke up in the 212 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:45,199 Speaker 1: morning with my daughter, went from Aspen to Veil in 213 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 1: a two hour car ride, three and a half hours 214 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:51,320 Speaker 1: in the airport, flight got canceled. Decided to be moving 215 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:54,000 Speaker 1: forward towards Denver because it's an easier airport to get 216 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:56,080 Speaker 1: out of. They said that the roads would be closed 217 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:58,520 Speaker 1: two hours. You were standing still. We were outside of 218 00:10:58,559 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 1: the car two hours before we even started moving. So 219 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 1: then it was probably like five hours to get to Denver. 220 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:06,600 Speaker 1: I'm not great at math whatever. By the time we 221 00:11:06,600 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 1: got home, which became this crazy planes, trains and automobiles 222 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 1: rom calm where my daughter was like, are we gonna 223 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:14,199 Speaker 1: get home and make Santa? And she was like, I 224 00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 1: want to be home with my babies and my doggies 225 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:18,920 Speaker 1: and my mom on Santa and Paul and done Christmas. Even. 226 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 1: We got home at one in the morning, and we 227 00:11:21,080 --> 00:11:23,880 Speaker 1: did beat Santa. It took us seventeen hours and she 228 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:26,960 Speaker 1: was upset, but you know, we ended up making it comedic. 229 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 1: I wasn't that worked up. I wasn't worked up in 230 00:11:30,760 --> 00:11:32,960 Speaker 1: the car. I wasn't worked up in the airport. I 231 00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:35,880 Speaker 1: wasn't freaking out. I just didn't have that feeling when 232 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:37,960 Speaker 1: my shoulders are my neck and there was no reason 233 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 1: We're in the middle of a pandemic. There was no 234 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 1: reason I wouldn't be freaking out. I just wasn't. So 235 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 1: that means that whatever I'm doing in all these other 236 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:48,040 Speaker 1: areas is better, because you don't really realize how you 237 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:50,440 Speaker 1: are or check in with yourself until the ship hits 238 00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 1: the fan. And I was proud of myself because lately 239 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:56,800 Speaker 1: it's just my perspective. Things happened. I'm like, that's okay, 240 00:11:56,960 --> 00:11:58,560 Speaker 1: that's all right. It's just I don't know if it's 241 00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 1: age or if it's balanced, but something is working. So 242 00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 1: that was and also seeing the glass half full. We 243 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:08,240 Speaker 1: made it home for Santa, and it felt like an 244 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:11,760 Speaker 1: adventure and we were together. I learned that in relief 245 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:14,839 Speaker 1: work that when ever I saw people, they had their 246 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:20,880 Speaker 1: that that had had horrific, catastrophic, disastrous things happened to them, 247 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:23,320 Speaker 1: lost their home, or there there was water to their 248 00:12:23,360 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 1: ankle in sewage with vermin, like horrible in Puerto Rico, 249 00:12:28,520 --> 00:12:31,439 Speaker 1: Like poverty like you've never seen, devastation like you've never 250 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:34,840 Speaker 1: seen having actually nothing besides your faith and your religion. 251 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:38,000 Speaker 1: And these people just they have a calmness because they're 252 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:41,040 Speaker 1: with their their babies are alive. So whenever I'm with 253 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:43,840 Speaker 1: brit it doesn't matter how crazy it is, We're okay. 254 00:12:43,960 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 1: No one, no one died, We're okay. TikTok is for braggers. 255 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:05,720 Speaker 1: What the actual fuck? Two kinds of people on TikTok 256 00:13:05,800 --> 00:13:08,080 Speaker 1: Right now, when it comes to looks goods, half of 257 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:10,920 Speaker 1: the people are opening up fake boxes from China with 258 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 1: fake products showing you about it. I can't believe it's illegal. 259 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:16,120 Speaker 1: Is it not illegal to buy fake bags? You can 260 00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:18,679 Speaker 1: talk about that you ordered from d H Gate and 261 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:21,199 Speaker 1: from other places in China you ordered. I saw a 262 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 1: girl yesterday she had a bag it was from It 263 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 1: looked like she had a fake bag from Rolex, like 264 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:29,079 Speaker 1: the paper bag. It looked fake to me because I'm 265 00:13:29,080 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 1: a watch collector, but like the fake box from Rolex, 266 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:35,319 Speaker 1: the fake logo and the fake watch, Like isn't someone 267 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:38,520 Speaker 1: cancer of control this, like is that okay? Every people 268 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:40,320 Speaker 1: are like the fake Chanel and the fake this and 269 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:43,480 Speaker 1: the fake glue Utan and then those showing like it's 270 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 1: just it's it's it's shocking, like we've never seen this before. 271 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 1: Like I don't like it. I feel like it's so 272 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:51,960 Speaker 1: tacky and it's sort of showing people how to be criminals. 273 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:55,080 Speaker 1: I do not like it. It's so weird. It's a lot, 274 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:56,839 Speaker 1: don't you see it. It's a lot like we've never 275 00:13:56,840 --> 00:13:59,720 Speaker 1: seen this before, Like everything fake. So I don't like it. 276 00:13:59,800 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 1: The fucking luxury brands must be freaking out me who 277 00:14:02,960 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 1: has real stuff. I don't like it either. It's really uncomfortable. 278 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:08,560 Speaker 1: I don't like it. And then the other half of 279 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:11,959 Speaker 1: people are just showing off like brand. My daughter noticed it, 280 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:14,040 Speaker 1: and I was so glad she did. People doing this 281 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:18,120 Speaker 1: not so humble brag of like Christmas, like all I 282 00:14:18,200 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 1: want for Christmas with the songs and the jingle bells 283 00:14:20,160 --> 00:14:22,320 Speaker 1: in the background and just opening up your stuff. We're 284 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:24,640 Speaker 1: in the middle of the pandemic. People have no money, 285 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:28,320 Speaker 1: people are I'm literally doing relief work for the homeless, 286 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:31,480 Speaker 1: and people onlines, thousands of people onlines to get survival 287 00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 1: kids in Kentucky after tornado, and these assholes bragging, subtly bragging. 288 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 1: This is some my christmasays, it's such a now blinged 289 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:43,080 Speaker 1: out bag, or this is you know what the funk 290 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 1: is wrong with people? The bragging is insane. It is. 291 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:48,160 Speaker 1: It used to shock me that people could show their 292 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 1: bodies and be like, look at me in a bikini 293 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:52,440 Speaker 1: and look how good I look at this and thirst trap, 294 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:54,960 Speaker 1: you know, being the humble bragg for I'm just showing 295 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:57,520 Speaker 1: you how good I am. Look. That used to shock me. 296 00:14:57,560 --> 00:14:59,480 Speaker 1: But now people been like, look at everything I got. 297 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:02,840 Speaker 1: It's everything. We don't want to teach our kids everything 298 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 1: everything is. Look at what I got? How is that good? 299 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:08,360 Speaker 1: That's gonna make someone else feel bad about themselves or 300 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 1: make someone who doesn't have feel insecure, or I just 301 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 1: think it's disgusting. Get on TikTok and watch how people 302 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:21,440 Speaker 1: are bragging about their bag, about their car, and they 303 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:24,040 Speaker 1: do it in this humble bragg vile way of like, 304 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 1: oh my god, so much romance, so romantic, my boo 305 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 1: bought me. It looks good handbag like, but they do 306 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:34,920 Speaker 1: multiple things. I got this tennis bracelet and I got 307 00:15:34,920 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 1: this bag, and I got this watch, and I got 308 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:39,400 Speaker 1: these shoes, and I got and I went to this vacation. 309 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:41,560 Speaker 1: And there's a whole other thing on TikTok about like 310 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:44,920 Speaker 1: hot girls get whatever, and hot girls aren't basic, and 311 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:49,960 Speaker 1: hot girls eat baratta and hot girls get truffles and diamonds, 312 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 1: and you know what, these are stupid girls, Okay, stupid 313 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:57,840 Speaker 1: gold digger girls that take bags from guys are They're 314 00:15:57,880 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 1: just fucking stupid. If you're gonna be a hooker, get 315 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 1: the money, because people fuck guys. Get the bags, then 316 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:06,000 Speaker 1: sell them. Be a straight hooker and get the money 317 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:08,640 Speaker 1: from the guy, or ask them for a goddamn stock. 318 00:16:09,240 --> 00:16:13,480 Speaker 1: Getting a bag to get laid is just fucking stupid. 319 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:17,160 Speaker 1: But all these girls are bragging about it all over TikTok, 320 00:16:17,840 --> 00:16:21,520 Speaker 1: looking like desperate losers, and I just find it shocking, 321 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:24,040 Speaker 1: and I just I want my daughter to not be 322 00:16:24,080 --> 00:16:26,840 Speaker 1: looking at that kind of stuff, because I'd rather see nudity, 323 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 1: which effectively she's seeing. But then seeing people bragging about 324 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:33,520 Speaker 1: everything they've got, it just makes me so uncomfortable and 325 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 1: it's terrible. I don't know if anyone else seeing what 326 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 1: I'm seeing. Is anyone else seeing this this bragging. It's 327 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:42,040 Speaker 1: it's okay to have everything fake and copying, and I 328 00:16:42,080 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 1: don't know, it's just disgusting to me. It's bothering me. 329 00:16:51,880 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 1: I would like to talk about something very important, and 330 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:57,960 Speaker 1: it is cracked pepper, crushed pep, cracked pepper, fresh pepper pepper, 331 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:01,840 Speaker 1: six bottles of peppercorn or eleven dollars and so I 332 00:17:01,800 --> 00:17:03,480 Speaker 1: didn't go to have it. But that's like two dollars 333 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:06,920 Speaker 1: a peppercorn, a little less tax shipping. We got it, Okay. 334 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:10,000 Speaker 1: Every time we go to the restaurant, the guy comes by, 335 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:13,879 Speaker 1: he's got the long wood peppercorn thing. I don't know 336 00:17:13,880 --> 00:17:16,560 Speaker 1: why salt doesn't get the love the peppercorn gets. Salt 337 00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:19,280 Speaker 1: also gets ground. Salt wasn't born like in a shaker, 338 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 1: so salt gets ground. But they would you like the 339 00:17:22,080 --> 00:17:24,119 Speaker 1: fresh pepper? Every time I say it, you feel like 340 00:17:24,119 --> 00:17:26,040 Speaker 1: you have to say yes. You're not sure. I don't know, 341 00:17:26,119 --> 00:17:28,400 Speaker 1: did you pepper before? Do we have a pepper conversation? 342 00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:31,760 Speaker 1: You're suggesting it. It's like cheese on pasta. Sure, am 343 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:35,240 Speaker 1: I supposed to say yes? So I always say yes pepper. Also, 344 00:17:35,280 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 1: I think it's like a blood cleanser or purifiers, so 345 00:17:37,359 --> 00:17:40,280 Speaker 1: like why not, sure? But it also can mess with 346 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:43,880 Speaker 1: your something, your taste buds, or there's some other problem 347 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:46,600 Speaker 1: with pepper. But I'm a pepper person. I always salt 348 00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:48,760 Speaker 1: and pepper my food. Why not? The guy comes over, 349 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:50,639 Speaker 1: excuse me, you're in the middle of a conversation. Hi, 350 00:17:50,760 --> 00:17:53,200 Speaker 1: excuse me? Would you like the sure? Sure? Okay, let 351 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:55,920 Speaker 1: me know when. All right, that's two interactions, also in 352 00:17:55,960 --> 00:17:58,120 Speaker 1: the middle of the pandemic. We don't know we're interacting 353 00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:00,720 Speaker 1: twice over pepper. But it's not about COVID, it's just 354 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:04,440 Speaker 1: about pepper, saying like all right, sure, excuse me, yes, 355 00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:06,720 Speaker 1: I'd like the pepper. Hold on, hey, anyway, I got 356 00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:10,720 Speaker 1: the test back? Yes, oh, hi, okay, excuse me again, yes, sir, yeah, okay, 357 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 1: Now that's enough. I don't know when's enough, don't you 358 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 1: know you're the pepper guy. Second of all, peppercorns are 359 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:18,760 Speaker 1: two dollars, Like, like, why is it a whole thing? 360 00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:21,000 Speaker 1: Put the peppercorn fucking shake around the table, Give me 361 00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:23,240 Speaker 1: a small one. I could choose my own pepper. Why 362 00:18:23,359 --> 00:18:26,840 Speaker 1: is pepper in a totally different category of salt? Salt 363 00:18:27,080 --> 00:18:28,680 Speaker 1: is like more of a gourmet thing, and I don't 364 00:18:28,680 --> 00:18:30,960 Speaker 1: know why salt doesn't come ground. I just don't understand 365 00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:36,880 Speaker 1: the whole pepper conversation and the whole pepper like program. 366 00:18:36,920 --> 00:18:38,840 Speaker 1: It's just like labor. You're paying that guy an hour. 367 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:40,639 Speaker 1: I know it doesn't only do pepper, but I just 368 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:43,280 Speaker 1: I want someone to tell me. The meaning of the 369 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:46,880 Speaker 1: Pepper program just occurred to me, and I just don't 370 00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:50,160 Speaker 1: understand it any Does any be on this podcast understand 371 00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:52,000 Speaker 1: the Pepper program the reason for it to be so 372 00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:55,440 Speaker 1: separate from salt or grind some basil get crazy grind, 373 00:18:55,520 --> 00:18:58,400 Speaker 1: some garlic pepper grind, some crushed red pepper. Why why 374 00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 1: is pepper its own v I P. Long Wood Shaker program? 375 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:21,639 Speaker 1: Next topic, covid and oh Macrod have taken a turn. Um, 376 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:24,840 Speaker 1: and I said last night on Twitter or a couple 377 00:19:24,880 --> 00:19:28,040 Speaker 1: of days ago on Twitter. Um, it breaks my heart 378 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:30,240 Speaker 1: to see the kids in schools of masks and the elderly, 379 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 1: and of course the trolls. Well, really, would you rather 380 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:35,320 Speaker 1: said dying or being un a ventilator? No, you fucking 381 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:37,639 Speaker 1: dumb funk. I would not rather someone dying or being 382 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:40,159 Speaker 1: an eventilator. I just we didn't grow up in a 383 00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:42,080 Speaker 1: world where we were wearing masks, and you see ninety 384 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:45,520 Speaker 1: year old who have bad posture and our like hunchbacks 385 00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 1: wearing masks, and you're like, they don't have enough going 386 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:49,640 Speaker 1: on in their life to just deal with this world. 387 00:19:49,720 --> 00:19:52,960 Speaker 1: It's just a commentary on the fucking world. And I 388 00:19:53,040 --> 00:19:55,719 Speaker 1: did say in the very beginning, I want to say 389 00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:59,200 Speaker 1: in the very beginning, when we got twenty million dollars 390 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:01,359 Speaker 1: of PPEAT all off the States, so I was masked. 391 00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:07,520 Speaker 1: Queen designers were selling and sewing masks and designer logos 392 00:20:07,560 --> 00:20:09,199 Speaker 1: were all over masks, and I thought it was so 393 00:20:09,320 --> 00:20:11,280 Speaker 1: tacky and I couldn't believe it was sort of beingcoming 394 00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:15,000 Speaker 1: a designer thing. And I guess I was ahead of 395 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:17,439 Speaker 1: my time, or you know, didn't realize that people were 396 00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:19,560 Speaker 1: trying to make it a fashion statement because it's they're 397 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:22,360 Speaker 1: here to stay. But now they're saying it's all has 398 00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:24,119 Speaker 1: to be k and ninety five masks, which is what 399 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:25,600 Speaker 1: I was saying in the beginning. I was like, wait, 400 00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:27,840 Speaker 1: these are not the masks that thought doctors would wear, 401 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:30,119 Speaker 1: so why wouldn't you wear the proper mask? And then 402 00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:31,880 Speaker 1: all of a sudden I became part of cloth mask 403 00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:34,360 Speaker 1: Generation two, as people semi masks, and they sold them 404 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:37,280 Speaker 1: at you know, the drug store, and now they're coming 405 00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:39,679 Speaker 1: back saying they have to be K and nine masks. 406 00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:41,919 Speaker 1: Back to when I was saying, what the funk designers 407 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:45,000 Speaker 1: are making masks? It seemed ridiculous. And it's little kids 408 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:47,320 Speaker 1: schools they're saying, and the letters to home, if your 409 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:49,480 Speaker 1: kid isn't wearing a mask properly, they'll be asked to 410 00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 1: leave the room and taken to the principle. It's like, 411 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:53,280 Speaker 1: it just makes me feel sad. So I'm allowed to 412 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:57,160 Speaker 1: say I feel sad. And having allocated and distributed twenty 413 00:20:57,160 --> 00:21:00,119 Speaker 1: million dollars with the PPE, I've had my share of 414 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:06,119 Speaker 1: mask integration, so I feel like I'm qualified to comments 415 00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:10,840 Speaker 1: on the topic. Uh, and I stand behind the fact that, 416 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:15,160 Speaker 1: you know, the rules seems so arbitrary. Okay, the rules 417 00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:19,440 Speaker 1: seems so arbitrary. Stand up, put the mask on, sit down, 418 00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:21,720 Speaker 1: take the mask off. Way it just comes over, no mask. 419 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:25,600 Speaker 1: You know. It feels like we're all playing like this 420 00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:29,000 Speaker 1: weird game, like we're doing the Madonna Vogue dance, Like 421 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:30,879 Speaker 1: mask off, mask on, put the mask up, hang the 422 00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:32,600 Speaker 1: mask on the ear, put the mask over, put the 423 00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:34,720 Speaker 1: mess down. Oh, I'm walking by someone, put the mask. Oh, 424 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:36,479 Speaker 1: I'm walking by someone and they see me, So let 425 00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:37,840 Speaker 1: me put my mask up, or let me put my 426 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:39,560 Speaker 1: sweater by my face so I look like my person 427 00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:41,520 Speaker 1: who really cares about the mask? Oh? Should I walk? Oh? 428 00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:43,840 Speaker 1: I'm sorry if I got my mask because COVID. If 429 00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:46,239 Speaker 1: you say sorry, I forgot my mask, COVID nos COVID Like, Oh, 430 00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:48,560 Speaker 1: I'll give you a hall pass you over there without 431 00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:51,600 Speaker 1: the mask. I'm COVID. You just said it, you acknowledge it. 432 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:53,040 Speaker 1: You look me in the ice, said I forgot my mask, 433 00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:56,040 Speaker 1: and then we're cool. It's like and then my friends 434 00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:59,239 Speaker 1: who haven't gotten vaccinated, one of them who has an 435 00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:02,239 Speaker 1: autistic chi old, which was a very controversial comment from 436 00:22:02,280 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 1: Jenny McCarthy years ago about not believing in vaccinations because 437 00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:08,200 Speaker 1: of her autistic son. My friend who has an autistic 438 00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 1: child didn't get vaccinated. And I have another friends who 439 00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:13,240 Speaker 1: didn't get vaccinated, and they said they've been like trolled 440 00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 1: and bullied and they feel a little bit of a 441 00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:19,639 Speaker 1: sense of vindication because everyone's getting it now. But then 442 00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:23,000 Speaker 1: the argument is that the symptoms are not as bad, 443 00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:28,280 Speaker 1: and the point is cloth masks were okaye, All of 444 00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:31,280 Speaker 1: a sudden, all the schools now nine masks something I 445 00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 1: said a long time ago. But I still know nothing 446 00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:36,360 Speaker 1: more than anyone else. No one knows anything, and it's 447 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:38,480 Speaker 1: just such a joke. And then you go into these 448 00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:40,120 Speaker 1: restaurants where they're like, oh no, no no, no, we don't 449 00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:42,720 Speaker 1: care about the masks in here. It's a half half 450 00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:45,560 Speaker 1: sucking half and half like we what We're not all 451 00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:48,440 Speaker 1: doing the same thing. Everyone's doing their own goddamn thing. 452 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:50,480 Speaker 1: You don't want to get COVID. You gotta sit home 453 00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:53,120 Speaker 1: in your fucking house and stay around nobody. But like, 454 00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:56,920 Speaker 1: everyone is doing exactly what they want and just scamming 455 00:22:57,040 --> 00:23:00,440 Speaker 1: all day long. Just walk into the restaurant, masks, sit down, 456 00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:03,520 Speaker 1: take the mask off, go into the plane. On the plane, 457 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:06,239 Speaker 1: you know. And my fiance is very serious. He has 458 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:08,320 Speaker 1: someone in his family that's had very high risk and 459 00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:10,400 Speaker 1: so he's very serious about it. Of course, So I'm 460 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:11,800 Speaker 1: eating on the plane. I'm like, but I look at me. 461 00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:15,240 Speaker 1: He's a sucking scam I'm eating now. COVID does not 462 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:17,960 Speaker 1: come by, Hi, could you just get me? I have 463 00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:20,239 Speaker 1: do not disturb sign on COVID. I'm eating at this 464 00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:22,600 Speaker 1: time I'm eating, So COVID just do me a favorite, 465 00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:25,440 Speaker 1: take a seatback someone, because oh I know why because 466 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:28,359 Speaker 1: someone walked past us on the plane and had no 467 00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:31,439 Speaker 1: mask on, and Paul was like, oh, I go okay, 468 00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:33,480 Speaker 1: he just walked past us. So no no matter, I I ate, 469 00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:36,159 Speaker 1: I had no mask. What if I'm a raging alcoholic 470 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 1: and I had forty I had two bloody Marors on 471 00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:41,159 Speaker 1: the plane. I mean I drank. I'm pretty fast, but 472 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 1: I sucked that ice like it was my job. So 473 00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:45,879 Speaker 1: for that whole duration of that time, I was a 474 00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 1: no mask person. So that man who walked by us, 475 00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:51,560 Speaker 1: Paul was like, oh, you know that guy and he's 476 00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:53,080 Speaker 1: a walk No. I'm like, god, I was just drinking 477 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:55,119 Speaker 1: bloody Marors, no mask, and I ate with no mask. 478 00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:58,520 Speaker 1: I had snacks, Brent had a snack. We were COVID 479 00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:02,199 Speaker 1: knows that I'm snacking, I'm bloody Mary's and you know 480 00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:03,840 Speaker 1: and that, and that guy had to peace. So he 481 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:06,720 Speaker 1: told COVID. He called COVID, he made an appointment. He 482 00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:08,920 Speaker 1: told that fucking guy, he's so sorry to be roode 483 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:12,160 Speaker 1: to COVID. He told the COVID, I don't want COVID 484 00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:13,440 Speaker 1: to funk with me. I'm not trying to get canceled 485 00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:15,960 Speaker 1: by COVID. So he told Covid he was walking to 486 00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:17,639 Speaker 1: the bathroom. He had to go so badly. He had 487 00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:20,840 Speaker 1: chronic diarrhea, he has ibs. He couldn't put his mask 488 00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:25,760 Speaker 1: on fast enough. Covid gave him a pass. It's just like, really, 489 00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:27,879 Speaker 1: we're doing the best. We're all doing the best that 490 00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:30,400 Speaker 1: we can. But also I know people who are like, no, 491 00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:32,479 Speaker 1: we're not doing that. We're not doing Oh you're we're 492 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:34,840 Speaker 1: gonna go to dinner at their house. Oh oh they're 493 00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:36,760 Speaker 1: having fifteen people over. I can't do that. And then 494 00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:38,840 Speaker 1: like I gotta go go into a go into a 495 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:41,320 Speaker 1: giant's game. What are you talking about? Well, it's outside, 496 00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:42,760 Speaker 1: I know. Do you have to don't you have to 497 00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:45,760 Speaker 1: get to outside? Are you flying there? Are you an eagle? 498 00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:48,560 Speaker 1: You're going off the roof and flying outside onto the field? 499 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:50,840 Speaker 1: Don't you have to fucking go up? The escalator? Passed? 500 00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:52,159 Speaker 1: Everybody don't have to go to What if you to 501 00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:53,520 Speaker 1: go to the bathroom, but you gonna hold it in 502 00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,280 Speaker 1: you have a catheter, So like I don't understand. So 503 00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:58,240 Speaker 1: that part, so that person is right because they're going 504 00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:01,080 Speaker 1: outside to a football game. But they're not going to 505 00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:04,679 Speaker 1: the dinner because it's it's more than it's twelve point 506 00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:08,479 Speaker 1: to five people. If it was thirteen, you know, if 507 00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:11,399 Speaker 1: it's eleven, I could do it. It's just like and 508 00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:13,280 Speaker 1: you hear these rules and you're just like, you just 509 00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:15,280 Speaker 1: shut the funk up. And so I got to the 510 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:19,360 Speaker 1: point where I'm like, listen, I'm doing COVID the way 511 00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:22,240 Speaker 1: that I'm doing COVID. Okay, I got the K ninety 512 00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:24,840 Speaker 1: five masks. Sometimes I sunk up. I'm drinking Margarita Is 513 00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:27,680 Speaker 1: on the plane or a Bloody Mary's. We're at the ocean. 514 00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:30,480 Speaker 1: At the ocean, we went to the banana boat. I 515 00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:35,600 Speaker 1: passed people. COVID doesn't go outside at all. COVID's not outside. 516 00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:37,159 Speaker 1: Because what about all those people that were in the 517 00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:41,119 Speaker 1: on the beach in the beginning member Florida, everyone was 518 00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,239 Speaker 1: like on the beach, spring break cap and we're all 519 00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:46,040 Speaker 1: Daytona beach. Everybody got COVID, but my beach. They knew 520 00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:49,320 Speaker 1: in Boca because they're wealthy people in Boca, COVID didn't come. 521 00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:51,760 Speaker 1: We paid, so COVID didn't come. I mean, it is 522 00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:56,200 Speaker 1: all so fucking crazy. Skiing's okay, but toboggin ng isn't. 523 00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 1: I mean, it is a fucking ship show. Nobody knows 524 00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:03,760 Speaker 1: what they're doing, and myself included COVID. Just hold on 525 00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:05,480 Speaker 1: a second. I'll be right out. I know you're gonna 526 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:06,720 Speaker 1: wait for me because I don't have my mask on 527 00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:09,040 Speaker 1: him in my office. I'll come out. We could get together, 528 00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:11,080 Speaker 1: and I can risk my life when I come out. 529 00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:12,120 Speaker 1: But don't make no big deal.