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Speaker 1: The Bread Show is on. It's stay or go right,

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Speaker 1: Michelle is here. Hi, Michelle, good morning, Good morning Michelle.

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Speaker 1: What's going on with your husband? Stare go little group

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Speaker 1: therapy action here? Tell us what your scenario is, what

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Speaker 1: the situation is.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so.

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Speaker 3: I recently found out that my husband is helping his

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Speaker 3: coworker pay her rents after she fell on some hard times,

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Speaker 3: which feel you know.

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Speaker 1: Right, I mean, yeah, that does feel a little weird. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling weird about it, and I just learned what

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Speaker 1: about it? Yeah? Okay, So what I need some more here?

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Speaker 1: So you you've been with this guy, you've been married

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Speaker 1: to him for whatever a few years I'm guessing.

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Speaker 3: Right, yeah, yeah, about five years now.

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Speaker 1: Okay, And how do you find out that this guy

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Speaker 1: is paying his coworker's rent and then have you confronted him?

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Speaker 1: And what's the explanation?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So we were like at one of his work

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Speaker 3: parties and one of his other work friends was like, Oh,

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Speaker 3: it's so nice what he's doing for her, and I

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Speaker 3: was like, what do you mean? You know, So when

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Speaker 3: I confronted my husband about it, he was like, oh, well,

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Speaker 3: you know, she's a single mom. She fell on some

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Speaker 3: like she fell behind on bills after her ex left

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Speaker 3: her and her kids, and my husband was like, I

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Speaker 3: mean I had the money, so you know, I just

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Speaker 3: helped her really quick. And I was like, well, why

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Speaker 3: didn't you tell me anything? And he said he didn't

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Speaker 3: tell me anything because we keep our money separate, and

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Speaker 3: that it was a situation that he felt like he

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Speaker 3: needed to act fast on. But still, I don't know,

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Speaker 3: it felt a little too.

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Speaker 1: Secretive for me. Do you know how long it's been

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Speaker 1: going on? Did you mention? I mean one month? Is

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Speaker 1: it like a bridge loan? Is it multiple months? Has

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Speaker 1: it been a long time?

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Speaker 3: So I don't know. I don't know if he's like

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Speaker 3: telling me the truth or not. You know, but he

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Speaker 3: told me it's only been a couple months, So I

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Speaker 3: don't really know what a couple means to him. You know,

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Speaker 3: I don't know if that means like a couple too

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Speaker 3: or you know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, we didn't get these guys on here, and

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Speaker 1: let's morey this thing, and I want a DNA test

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Speaker 1: on this kid. Oh oh wow, I'm concerned. I'm worried

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Speaker 1: about this because that is not a normal thing to

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Speaker 1: do married or single. Just say, hey, let me pay

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Speaker 1: your bills for a while because you're going through a

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Speaker 1: hard time. It's a nice thing to do. But I mean,

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Speaker 1: I don't even know if as a single guy, I

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Speaker 1: would be comfortable with that. If somebody came to me

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Speaker 1: and were like, hey, I'm going through a hard time, like, oh,

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Speaker 1: let me just cover you for a while, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's a that's a very generous thing to do,

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Speaker 1: and it's hard to imagine there's not any kind of

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Speaker 1: emotion attached to that. And I suppose it could just

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Speaker 1: be that he's a nice person, but I would think

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Speaker 1: if there was nothing nefarious going on, that he would

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Speaker 1: tell you about it and come home and be like, hey, honey,

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Speaker 1: you know this, terrible things happened to my coworker, and

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Speaker 1: I feel compelled to help out. But it's the fact

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Speaker 1: that he's not he didn't communicate that to you ahead

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Speaker 1: of time that really worries me. Yeah, he hit it.

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Speaker 1: He hit it from her. Yeah, I mean, I think

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Speaker 1: that's something that even if it's his money, I think

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Speaker 1: if you're supporting another woman and her child, that you

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Speaker 1: would want to be as transparent about the process as

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Speaker 1: possible so that we don't ask questions like the ones

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Speaker 1: that we're asking.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, totally. And you know, it's like you said, even

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Speaker 3: if we, you know, keep our money separate, he's still

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Speaker 3: taking away money from our family. So it does confuse me.

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Speaker 1: I don't care if you have all the money in

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Speaker 1: the family. Well, I don't care if you have all

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Speaker 1: the money in the world. I still think, you know,

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Speaker 1: you need to you need to communicate to your wife

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Speaker 1: while you're helping out another woman. And I don't mean

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Speaker 1: just person in general. Yeah, you know, I would say

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Speaker 1: if money is coming up, But again, I mean, they

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Speaker 1: keep it separate, but it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 4: It's still our money. I keep mind separate from my husband.

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Speaker 4: We have no joint to cow it never will.

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Speaker 1: I had no money. It's probably why.

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Speaker 4: But either way, if he was to make a move

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Speaker 4: Like we're talking about this because we're a unit.

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Speaker 1: The Yeah, because if something were to happen and you

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Speaker 1: needed money and there wasn't, you know, as much as

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Speaker 1: you were expecting for an emergency or a health thing

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Speaker 1: or I don't know, air conditioning breaks or whatever, and

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Speaker 1: it's like, well, I don't have. I don't have as

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Speaker 1: much as you thought, because I've been I've been essentially

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Speaker 1: floating another human being. That would be something you'd want

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Speaker 1: to know ahead of tim. Do you do you think

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Speaker 1: there's more to the story? I mean, are you Are

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Speaker 1: you satisfied? I mean you're not you're calling us, But

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Speaker 1: are you somewhat satisfied that he's telling you the truth

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Speaker 1: and just trying to be a decent person?

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Speaker 5: Honestly?

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Speaker 3: No, because I feel like, you know, like you said,

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Speaker 3: I feel like if it wasn't that big of a deal,

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Speaker 3: he wouldn't have hit it from me. And even if

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Speaker 3: he did hide it from me, and there's nothing going on,

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Speaker 3: you know, we're married, so why are you hiding that

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Speaker 3: from me? You know, I don't I feel like he

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Speaker 3: that too.

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Speaker 1: And you know, I also think I wonder what this

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Speaker 1: woman thinks, or like what the terms are with her,

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Speaker 1: because I don't know if somebody were paying, if a

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Speaker 1: woman were paying all my bills, a married woman and

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Speaker 1: not telling her husband, I would assume that maybe there's

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Speaker 1: there's more interest from her, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Like why because otherwise why wouldn't you just tell everybody

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Speaker 1: involved that what you're doing to help me? Why would

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Speaker 1: you keep it a secret unless you knew your spouse

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Speaker 1: was going to be upset about it? And then why

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Speaker 1: would your spouse be upset about it? You know what

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Speaker 1: I mean?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, totally.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, yeah, no, go ahead, Michelle.

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Speaker 3: And then I was just going to say, you know,

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Speaker 3: like why did his Why did somebody else at work

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Speaker 1: You know, like who told her? That's another thing? Yeah? Why? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Why do what do people know? And now you yes, Kalin, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's weird. I don't know. I mean, I do know.

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Speaker 6: People that do nice things like this on the DL

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Speaker 6: because they know their spouse will be upset with the money.

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Speaker 6: I'm not saying it's right, but couldn't it Like, isn't

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Speaker 6: them and he's just a really nice person.

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Speaker 1: It is possible, But why wouldn't he just go right

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Speaker 1: to her and say, I don't want there to be

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Speaker 1: misunderstanding about what I'm doing here. I'm helping this woman

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Speaker 1: out at work because I feel for her, because she's

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Speaker 1: going through a hard time, and then Michelle could object

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Speaker 1: to it, but it still is his money. If somebody,

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Speaker 1: you know, somebody could say, well, it's his money and

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Speaker 1: if he's making well, this is what Lisa's going to say,

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Speaker 1: hang out a sick Michelle. I'm gonna take some phone

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Speaker 1: calls on this. I appreciate you calling. Have the radio.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about you behind your back, okay, and good.

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Speaker 3: Luck, Thank you so much, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Misch Charnie eight five nine one one three five. This

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Speaker 1: woman found out that from a cowork from her husband's coworker,

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Speaker 1: not even her husband, that he has been paying another

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Speaker 1: female coworker's rent to help her out during what I

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Speaker 1: guess he's calling sort of a precarious situation because her

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Speaker 1: ex left and she has kids and she needs help.

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Speaker 1: So he does this. She finds out from his coworker,

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Speaker 1: not even him, and now she's like, now wait a minute,

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Speaker 1: you know what, like what's going on here? Transparency would

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Speaker 1: be key in my opinion.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but I'm thinking if someone specifical who like knows

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Speaker 6: their wife is going to say no and he's paid

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Speaker 6: people out of his own pocket, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I just I don't know. Hey Lisa, Hey, hey Lisa,

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Speaker 1: good morning. Thank you for Colin, thanks for being part

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Speaker 1: of the thirteen. What do you want to say?

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Speaker 5: So?

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Speaker 7: I don't think she has much of a leg to

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Speaker 7: stand on if their money is separate, because if it's

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Speaker 7: not affecting their day to day life, then it's his money.

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Speaker 7: He can do what he wants with it. But at

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Speaker 7: the same time, to not have a conversation with her

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Speaker 7: and say, hey, I want to help out my coworker.

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Speaker 4: And financially we can do it, that's wrong.

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Speaker 2: That's not okay.

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Speaker 1: It's the hiding. It's a hide.

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Speaker 2: It's disrespectful.

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Speaker 1: But I don't like it at all. I again, I

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Speaker 1: think if you've got nothing to high, then you just say.

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Speaker 1: And if his wife Michelle had objected to it, well

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Speaker 1: then that's one thing that they can they can. You know,

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Speaker 1: maybe he chooses with his own money, assuming he's able

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Speaker 1: to fulfill all the other obligations he has, maybe he

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Speaker 1: chooses to do it anyway. But the fact he didn't

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Speaker 1: say anything. I don't like it, Lisa.

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Speaker 5: Right right, that's the problem. That's the problem here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, Lisa, have a great day. I love

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Speaker 1: you. You people are really on the text overwhelming response about

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Speaker 1: why are married people keeping their their finances separate? I

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Speaker 1: think a lot of married minors separate. Yeah, I think

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Speaker 1: a lot of people do that. Just we just do.

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Speaker 1: We just do it. I don't really believe in the

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Speaker 1: joint thing. I mean, I guess I do. If you're

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Speaker 4: A mortgage or something, right, it's coming out of an

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Speaker 4: account to pay bills.

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Speaker 8: But why are we putting it all together? Have my

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Speaker 8: own mind separate? We have a we have a joint

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Speaker 8: savings account like our text returns. Go into that and

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Speaker 8: he'll do that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, mister Nasty's here, mister Nasty.

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Speaker 2: Hello, that's not my radio family.

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Speaker 1: Man. We haven't heard from mister Nasty a while. Mister Nasty,

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Speaker 1: what say you?

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Speaker 7: What?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 1: What? What do you think? What? What's your take? Oh?

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Speaker 5: He's in it.

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Speaker 1: Mister Nasty says that that Michelle's husband is hitting it

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Speaker 1: and that's why he feels obligated to pay her rent.

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Speaker 2: Yep, absolutely, that's it's the only logic here.

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Speaker 1: That's the only possibility, says mister Nasty. Is the kid

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Speaker 1: is do you think let's just let's go out there?

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Speaker 2: Uh? You know, I would have to see the picture

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Speaker 2: of the boy.

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Speaker 5: I'd out to go from there.

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Speaker 2: But look, I know, for I don't even want to

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Speaker 2: pay rent for my wife.

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Speaker 5: I live with her, so I don't you know, and

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Speaker 5: I live with my wife, So there's no way he's

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Speaker 5: gonna be paying rent into different homes and just be

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Speaker 5: nice about it like that, or not even say hey,

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Speaker 5: there's no way.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, mister nasty. I hate to say that every situation

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Speaker 1: where a man does a nice thing for a woman

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Speaker 1: that there's something sexual. I hate to be that guy

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Speaker 1: because I don't believe that. But this is not This

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Speaker 1: is not like let me pay for subway for lunch today,

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Speaker 1: or you know, let me let me help you with

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Speaker 1: I don't know, clothing for your kids or food groceries.

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Speaker 1: And somebody we're talking about this guy's been paying her rent,

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Speaker 1: I mean thousands of dollars and not telling his wife.

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Speaker 1: That is not good.

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Speaker 5: Oh, especially not telling your wife that.

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Speaker 2: That's what makes it even worse.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, like my manth has been adding right up.

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Speaker 8: There, another coworker knew about it, Like why don't you

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Speaker 8: get all the co workers to help this woman out?

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Speaker 8: You know what I'm saying, Like start a fun like

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Speaker 8: everyone pitch in and help this woman out. Like that's

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Speaker 8: your co worker too, But only one coworker is helping

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Speaker 8: this woman out because he only want to hate.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, you guys.

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Speaker 5: The co workers.

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Speaker 2: A coworker might have been hating too. He might have

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Speaker 2: been like the friend from yesterday.

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Speaker 1: He was trying to get me you can't afford to

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Speaker 1: pay your rent, so she doesn't care about it. Only brilliant,

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Speaker 1: Thank you, mister Nancy. Good to hear from you. Have

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Speaker 1: a good day, all right, man, let's yeah. And then

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Speaker 1: somebody said I would love to know. I should Uh,

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Speaker 1: I should text my friend divorce attorney Morgan and see

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Speaker 1: if this is true. But even if you have separate

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Speaker 1: accounts and you're married, the money, according to the texture,

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Speaker 1: the money would still be partially hers. Yes, because in fairness,

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Speaker 1: that's great. I don't know how the law really is

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Speaker 1: on like separate accounts, but what I do know is,

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Speaker 1: you know, rufo, God forbid, you get a divorce just

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Speaker 1: because everything right, just because the money is in your account,

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Speaker 1: You're still going to have a lot of obligation. So technically,

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Speaker 1: if he's spending money that he might have to spend

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Speaker 1: on the family, on another person and not talking about it.

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Speaker 1: I think that's going to be a problem. Hey Salem, oh, hi, Hey,

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Speaker 1: what do you want to say? Good morning?

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Speaker 2: So I guess what I wanted to say is the

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Speaker 2: biggest thing is, like I guess, transparency. And you know,

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Speaker 2: if he wasn't upfront or transparent. I know my boyfriend

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Speaker 2: does a lot of wonderful things for people, probably one

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Speaker 2: of the reasons why I got with him. You know,

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Speaker 2: it's one thing if it's something that like he does

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Speaker 2: I said, my biggest thing is transparency, and if he

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Speaker 2: wasn't upfront with something like that, I feel like that's

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Speaker 2: a big red flag, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think that's the key here. The key

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Speaker 1: here is the fact that she had to find out

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Speaker 1: this way because without the co worker, she would still

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Speaker 1: not know.

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Speaker 2: Right exactly, you know, and like I don't know personally,

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Speaker 2: if it was something like that, I would like to

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Speaker 2: to come up, you know, because again, that raises a

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Speaker 2: lot of red flags. And I understand that you guys

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Speaker 2: have different bank accounts, but you know, you guys are

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Speaker 2: make sure that they meet their obligations. So yeah, hopefully

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Speaker 2: he's meeting his obligations and whatnot. But still it just

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Speaker 2: it interrupts me the wrong way. And I don't know,

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Speaker 2: having great day.

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Speaker 1: He's taking care of their family.

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Speaker 4: Their family.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm will missing nasty. There's no other way around.

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Speaker 1: There's no other scenario here. This man is up to something,

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Speaker 1: because if you weren't up to something, he would have

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Speaker 1: just told everybody what he was doing, right, and by everybody,

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Speaker 1: I mean his wife, right. And since he didn't his partner,

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Speaker 1: I want a DNA test on my desk, stat The

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