Speaker 1: We don't want him to bust too quick. It's lip service.
Speaker 1: I'm Angela Yee, I'm Stephanie Santiago, I'm g G McGuire,
Speaker 1: and Terence Jay is here. Terence doesn't normally do stuff
Speaker 1: like this because he's a Hollywood actor, but he does
Speaker 1: have his own movie out now. Well it's coming out,
Speaker 1: The Perfect Match. It's like an autobiographical story about Terence
Speaker 1: Jay's life. That's what I got from the trailer. Well,
Speaker 1: Obama is fucking bed and in real life and all that.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I wanted the film to look like that. Well,
Speaker 1: based on a truth story, the story, Yeah, yeah, I
Speaker 1: would say so. Yeah, alright, so you have maybe it
Speaker 1: says in the trailer you have some issues as far
Speaker 1: as once you get with the woman and you have
Speaker 1: sex with her, the challenge is gone on your board? No, no, no,
Speaker 1: is that? Is that what the takeaway from the trailer is.
Speaker 1: That's interesting you said that. So that that means I
Speaker 1: got to talk to marketing and make sure the next
Speaker 1: trailer we cut really shows with the movie because it's
Speaker 1: not that it's it's about a player who who who
Speaker 1: meets a girl. His boys basically bet him that he
Speaker 1: can't just chill with one girl, like really just data
Speaker 1: girl and be with her until one of my boy's wedding, right,
Speaker 1: so he has to stick with one girl to win
Speaker 1: his bet. And as he just spends time with the girl,
Speaker 1: he really falls in love. But she ends up breaking
Speaker 1: his heart and it's his first time getting his heartbroken,
Speaker 1: and and you know, he goes on a journey from there.
Speaker 1: But it's it's nothing like any other romantic comedy because
Speaker 1: it's it's not there's no ribbon on the end, like
Speaker 1: it's not like you know, they get back to like,
Speaker 1: it's it's a different type of No, it's not sad,
Speaker 1: it's it's just different. You gotta see it. You gotta
Speaker 1: see it. It's it's not like anything that you've seen before.
Speaker 1: So you wrote this movie. Um we did a page
Speaker 1: one rewrite, which means, uh, we had a great script.
Speaker 1: But um so, like the character in the original script
Speaker 1: on the Shoe Store, I changed this so that now
Speaker 1: he's he's an agent, and so you you you you
Speaker 1: change the dynamics of the character to make the story fit.
Speaker 1: And um I put in real personal situations in there
Speaker 1: as well. Well, we're gonna get into that because I
Speaker 1: sew us some personal things going down. But first we
Speaker 1: always start with our tip of the day. Now, the
Speaker 1: tip is, how do you know when a guy only
Speaker 1: want you for sex and nothing else? All right, you're
Speaker 1: gonna go last, Terence, because we're gonna ask the ladies
Speaker 1: what they think, and you tell us if we're on point,
Speaker 1: and then you'll give us your inside aspect. Stephanie, how
Speaker 1: do you know when a guy only wants you just
Speaker 1: for sex and nothing else? When he doesn't invite you out,
Speaker 1: he only wants to see you in the house. He's like,
Speaker 1: what you're doing? Come over? Yeah, come over? It's two am.
Speaker 1: That's even if no matter what time, because girls get
Speaker 1: excited when a guy calls him over at four pm
Speaker 1: or five pm. But if you're not going outside with him,
Speaker 1: he's just he's trying to suck you at four pm
Speaker 1: sex and maybe if you stay longer, he'll probably you're
Speaker 1: a gun at nine, you know six? All right? What
Speaker 1: do you say, g how do you know when a
Speaker 1: guy only wants you for sex and nothing else? That's
Speaker 1: pretty much it like when sex is all that you have,
Speaker 1: when you don't when you don't think anything else but
Speaker 1: meet up in hand sex, then it's really that's all
Speaker 1: he wants from you. Yeah, if he's not asking you
Speaker 1: like you know, like all up. Yeah, and another thing,
Speaker 1: even if his friends are around, it's still the same thing.
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter you only want sex. If a guy
Speaker 1: wants to get to know, he's gonna want to take
Speaker 1: you out. Yeah, he's gonna want to know about your
Speaker 1: interests and do things that make you happy. And um,
Speaker 1: if he doesn't do all of that, then if you're
Speaker 1: just bone in, then you're just and he's gonna send
Speaker 1: you like sweet text messages throughout the day and tell
Speaker 1: you he's gonna call you on the phone to talk
Speaker 1: and hear your voice and face time and all of that.
Speaker 1: If he's not doing things, just realize you don't know
Speaker 1: what's going on, and even don't know. But honestly, and
Speaker 1: guys even, um, I think even if they're calling you
Speaker 1: all day and texting you like, they're just trying to
Speaker 1: keep the pussy when I'm supposed to be to come back. Yeah, exactly,
Speaker 1: Because I feel like guys who only want sex only
Speaker 1: text you when they want you to come over, I
Speaker 1: don't know, or to set up the date for when
Speaker 1: they was right. They don't really call you just a chat.
Speaker 1: So how would your day? Let me tell you what
Speaker 1: happened today. That's like a more of a you know
Speaker 1: we're friends too, well, you tell less terrence now, you know.
Speaker 1: I just I think there are a lot of misconceptions,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like like like you were
Speaker 1: saying earlier, like because there's a lot of maintenance, right,
Speaker 1: So so so if you do just want to smash, sometimes
Speaker 1: you'll you'll just send those text messages to keep it
Speaker 1: in play, right, And then sometimes you'll call like and
Speaker 1: just have a conversation just so that you can separate
Speaker 1: you stuff like yeah, I even call you. I know
Speaker 1: these other dudes don't call you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So sometimes you you throw that in there just to
Speaker 1: keep it all in play. So, I mean, I just
Speaker 1: think it comes with tom and maturity. I think you
Speaker 1: know a woman, you'll be able to tell if a
Speaker 1: man has other intentions through his actions, and it's just
Speaker 1: across the board, because it's like even with the whole
Speaker 1: I won't introduce you to my friends, Like that's not true,
Speaker 1: Like I could just meet you at the club and
Speaker 1: and and then and be like yo, bread and shape
Speaker 1: for everybody, you know what saying. We all hang out,
Speaker 1: so it doesn't even like, well I met his friends,
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter if you meet his parents. Parents are
Speaker 1: down to no, no, no, I don't know about that.
Speaker 1: What you want to do? The girl you just with
Speaker 1: smashing it wasn't interested into your parents. My mom be
Speaker 1: falling in love with with chicks too much, like she'd
Speaker 1: be wanting them to be here. My mom wants a daughter.
Speaker 1: My mom, I'm convinced she wants like a daughter and grandkids.
Speaker 1: So if she even thinks that I could, she always
Speaker 1: likes them too much. So I try to like really
Speaker 1: save you know it got I gotta be like really
Speaker 1: dealing with somebody a long time. I don't think people
Speaker 1: just I don't. I don't know. I never know my
Speaker 1: real dad, but my stepdad, he don't be caring like
Speaker 1: he just he's cool. You can bring up an because
Speaker 1: I would think you're not gonna just bring some random
Speaker 1: chick though to meet your parents. I mean, my parents
Speaker 1: live in North Carolina, so so when they fly to me,
Speaker 1: it's like we just be spending you know, the weekend together.
Speaker 1: Like I just I don't want them to be anybody,
Speaker 1: all right, So what are some other tips that how
Speaker 1: do we know when a guy is interested? Then in
Speaker 1: that case, here's what you gotta understand is that with
Speaker 1: with the man, it's about time. Mean for us as men, right,
Speaker 1: we gotta go through the things in life, whether it's
Speaker 1: getting our career in order, getting getting our our our
Speaker 1: feelings and our oneness with ourselves. We gotta get all
Speaker 1: that in order before we can be a proper man
Speaker 1: to you. So by the time we meet you, it's
Speaker 1: already pred Like you, you might not know where we're at,
Speaker 1: but but we know where we are and when we're
Speaker 1: ready to accept the real woman in our life. And
Speaker 1: so like I could, I could be with a girl now,
Speaker 1: meet her the first night out, sleep with her the
Speaker 1: first night out, and have a three year relationship with her.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because I just look for
Speaker 1: different things now. So it's not Women sometimes think, oh,
Speaker 1: I gotta I gotta hold back to pussy before, you know,
Speaker 1: to make sure, like until he really proves like that's
Speaker 1: not even necessarily true. So you don't look at women
Speaker 1: differently if you sleep at them the first night. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: so it doesn't matter if she holds back Like listen.
Speaker 1: I was talking to Megan Good today and she was
Speaker 1: talking about being celibate because she wanted to find a
Speaker 1: husband and she didn't to just date anymore. So for
Speaker 1: a year she didn't have sex, and they she didn't
Speaker 1: have sex with her husband till they got married. He
Speaker 1: would tell it, but for ten years. So you don't
Speaker 1: think any of that. I mean, I think that's a
Speaker 1: you know, there's there's always you know, there's always extremes
Speaker 1: in every example. You know what I'm saying, Like him
Speaker 1: being that is admirable, you know, and I know divan
Speaker 1: and so you know, to go ten years and be selibrant,
Speaker 1: that's just a different type of as long as you
Speaker 1: go on Terence. After a breakup, I take time like
Speaker 1: I've gone like you know, a couple of months, like
Speaker 1: like six months where I just like really, yeah, yeah
Speaker 1: you will you remember like the real bad breakup he
Speaker 1: was around the one yeah, like when I was really
Speaker 1: fucked up, and then it was just like I didn't
Speaker 1: even want to date girls. It was like I needed
Speaker 1: something to be like prob. He didn't mean that he
Speaker 1: went in to date boys. I forget where I'm at
Speaker 1: and having bitches. See guys go through that too, because
Speaker 1: sometimes as women, we think when guys break up, all
Speaker 1: they do is go and a bunch of women. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they sometimes I think the women he did. Go ahead,
Speaker 1: say what you mean? Say girl, I just want to
Speaker 1: say he did. I think I think the women do that.
Speaker 1: I think the women, but I'm never gonna get over him.
Speaker 1: Let me call my axs and get fucked. I think
Speaker 1: the women do that, but don't let me. So you
Speaker 1: went for six months. You were the heartbroken that you
Speaker 1: couldn't have sex. I mean this was probably like six
Speaker 1: years ago. You did it like a little puppy. I
Speaker 1: felt so bad for you. But it was transformative time,
Speaker 1: like like I went literally from a board to him,
Speaker 1: Like the amount of money I made after that, because
Speaker 1: you know, I got focused on work. I changed and
Speaker 1: just you know, I got a self in Aalizatian moment,
Speaker 1: and like, y'all, I don't want to be this little
Speaker 1: corny dude, right, I want to I want to do this.
Speaker 1: I want to be and so it takes that time.
Speaker 1: I believe in life you gotta go through those snumbling
Speaker 1: box in order to build yourself. And I just think
Speaker 1: every relationship man, you're really in a relationship with yourself
Speaker 1: right Your your connection is with God. Everybody that you
Speaker 1: you you encounter in your life is just a mirror
Speaker 1: projection of the things you put out, you know, And
Speaker 1: so when people come to you with bad energy, I
Speaker 1: can't even it doesn't even phasee me because my energy
Speaker 1: right now is so good. I'm so at one. I
Speaker 1: know who I am, so it's like none of that
Speaker 1: can even funk with me, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So it's like when when you know who you are
Speaker 1: in a relationship and then you meet somebody else in
Speaker 1: they the same way. That's when when I think it works.
Speaker 1: And I think Megan, like in the Megan and Making
Speaker 1: that been through through things in her life that made
Speaker 1: her her wanting and she was She's such a good woman,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, And it worked. Now, it's
Speaker 1: interesting that you said that. I was just saying this earlier.
Speaker 1: With guys, I feel like you could be with the
Speaker 1: right woman, but if it's at the wrong time in
Speaker 1: your life, it's not gonna work. But it's like whenever
Speaker 1: you're ready to settle down. I kind of felt like
Speaker 1: sometimes with guys, whatever woman you're with or around that
Speaker 1: time that she's gonna be it. Timing is everything. That's
Speaker 1: what I said. Timing is before anything else. Man is everything,
Speaker 1: because you gotta be you gotta be ready to accept it.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You gotta be you gotta
Speaker 1: be built for it, you know. All right? Now, do
Speaker 1: you stay friends with your excess? You've just been talking
Speaker 1: about bad breakups and all of that, and I see
Speaker 1: Brandy's in the movie and we know y'all dated. Um,
Speaker 1: so how do you stay friends with your exces? And
Speaker 1: how your friends with? Would you say the majority of them,
Speaker 1: I would say, so yeah, I mean, yeah, I'm friends
Speaker 1: with with Brandy did me a solid on this movie
Speaker 1: because somebody dropped out and we needed somebody. I called
Speaker 1: Brandon like like five in the morning, was like, please,
Speaker 1: can you can you do this this role for for
Speaker 1: for the film. She was on set by like nine
Speaker 1: o'clock killed it. So so yeah, so you know, she
Speaker 1: she's fantastic. I would say the majority, like, like, are
Speaker 1: are really good? And then you know, like selfishly with
Speaker 1: some of them, I kind of it's it's weird, like
Speaker 1: I feel like women motivate me, you know, and I
Speaker 1: feel like we're relationships. Sometimes you need that that pain
Speaker 1: in order to to fuel. Like the most incredible artist
Speaker 1: like Pablo Picastle, his Blue Period was written when I mean,
Speaker 1: was was painted when he went through a really hard breakup,
Speaker 1: you know. And so I've always said, you know, I
Speaker 1: want to I want to be the biggest movie star,
Speaker 1: so I can put a billboard on such as such house,
Speaker 1: you know, on the side of her apartment building, petty
Speaker 1: petty as So. Yeah, so sometimes, you know, sometimes you
Speaker 1: need that separation. But I always try to keep you know, positive,
Speaker 1: and and and but if that right after you break up,
Speaker 1: can y'all still be friends? You think, because you know
Speaker 1: how some people break up and they try to still
Speaker 1: be cool, like, well, you know, we could still be friends.
Speaker 1: I think it all depends on the situation. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: that's a that's the type of It depends on what happened.
Speaker 1: It depends on how deep the womb, how deep the
Speaker 1: cut was, how worse the situation was. I feel like
Speaker 1: if it was a situation where it wasn't all of
Speaker 1: that bad, then yeah, that's just remain friends and moving
Speaker 1: especially when the children involved, right, you know, So what
Speaker 1: if you have a kid, right, and you break up
Speaker 1: with your man, but he was close with your daughter,
Speaker 1: is it? Are you still gonna have them hang out stuff? Yes? Well, whenever,
Speaker 1: when we broke up, my daughter still lived with him.
Speaker 1: So it's Harden meeting into the question on personal level. Right,
Speaker 1: But then y'all ended up. You knew he was gonna
Speaker 1: get back together at some point? Yeah, I knew the
Speaker 1: data that moved out that I was going to be
Speaker 1: moving back here. That's when I realized that I was
Speaker 1: slightly psychic Data I moved out. I was like, I
Speaker 1: love you. That that sounds stalker Rish, right, Well it
Speaker 1: was stalker Rish when he pushed me in the whatever.
Speaker 1: But yeah, never mind, too close to the situation, don't
Speaker 1: even all right? Um, Now, recently we saw this picture
Speaker 1: of Kim Kardashian and Amber Rose together and people are like, Okay,
Speaker 1: look at this, Kanye's X is hanging out with his
Speaker 1: current wife. What do you think about your girlfriend being
Speaker 1: friends with like an X? Oh? I mean, all that's cool, man.
Speaker 1: It's maturity, you know what I mean. It's it's you know,
Speaker 1: people or people when you can't you can't stop people
Speaker 1: from you know, build the friendships but is it weird
Speaker 1: to you? Because it's like, what do you think I
Speaker 1: must be immature as Because no, I don't want to
Speaker 1: be around any of my boyfriends anything that he ever
Speaker 1: touched like cool, I'm not sure. Enemy. I don't hate you,
Speaker 1: but when we're not friends, you don't you don't feel
Speaker 1: like you could gain insight. But like like no, no,
Speaker 1: I think sometimes she might have ulterior motives too. You
Speaker 1: have to get careful with that. You don't want your
Speaker 1: boyfriend's X trying to tell you stuff about him and
Speaker 1: giving you insight on my man because and then she
Speaker 1: might be doing stuff just to purposely. And then if
Speaker 1: it's okay for you to hang out with one of
Speaker 1: his acts, that means it's okay for him saying his
Speaker 1: ex and you don't know what's gonna go on behind
Speaker 1: your back, Like no, no, you can never trust somebody
Speaker 1: who has already to be like your boy used to be. No,
Speaker 1: oh my god, you can't trust a woman who's already
Speaker 1: how your boyfriend's taking their moufic. You just can't listen.
Speaker 1: I feel you. I don't know if I could trust
Speaker 1: the money unless it was the situation. It was like
Speaker 1: twenty years ago you know what I'm saying. You know,
Speaker 1: but I'm Puerto Rican. You know, I'm very possessive. I'm like, no, see,
Speaker 1: I believe everybody has amount rushmore right, like like you
Speaker 1: got your you know, like the top four presidents is on.
Speaker 1: So I feel like everybody got you know, the one
Speaker 1: or too you know, in life, I give you one
Speaker 1: or two, you know, maybe three that like really hold
Speaker 1: that space in your life, right And then for me,
Speaker 1: if it's anybody else besides that, I just really don't care,
Speaker 1: Like I just there's no level. I just it's not
Speaker 1: good or that. I just don't it's not part of
Speaker 1: my moment. No, I think it's a beautiful thing. You
Speaker 1: can be friends with your access. Your current girlfriend could
Speaker 1: be friends with your access. I think that's beautiful. God
Speaker 1: bless your guy. Like no, and then you know, I'm like,
Speaker 1: you know, you single right now, I'm single. I've been
Speaker 1: single for like six months. But she's I'm in a
Speaker 1: great time. I'm really happy. It's like the best time
Speaker 1: in my life. But she was in a relationship before that,
Speaker 1: so she was in a long term relationship. So now
Speaker 1: she's single, you know how it is the long term.
Speaker 1: My last relationship was like a year some change. I mean,
Speaker 1: but that's not like it wasn't that. It felt like
Speaker 1: felt like it felt like a very deep I felt
Speaker 1: like it felt like a decade. I felt real still
Speaker 1: over or he's in jail. There's no coming over. Yeah,
Speaker 1: there's no coming going. When it comes over, she'd be
Speaker 1: called the cops and turned his ass in, or she'll
Speaker 1: be aiding in her betting. Damn. Yeah, whatever, Terence, When
Speaker 1: it comes to dating, do you like girls that, if
Speaker 1: you had to choose, have a lot of followers or
Speaker 1: basically anonymous and no profile. If you had to pick,
Speaker 1: do you want to be like that power couple everybody
Speaker 1: knows her, y'all posting picks, or do you want her
Speaker 1: to be anonymous to the world. You know, I feel
Speaker 1: like for me today, you know, I don't. I don't
Speaker 1: want a relationship out there in the public. You know
Speaker 1: what I mean, I've done I've done it both ways
Speaker 1: and and you know, as as far as having a
Speaker 1: private relationship, have to clarify everything. I've had private private
Speaker 1: relationships and I've had public relationships. And when you have
Speaker 1: a public relationship, it's like it's three people in it
Speaker 1: is you the girl, and then the public people just
Speaker 1: comment on I saw Terrence going to the club, Oh
Speaker 1: he was flirty with you know, g G and Stephanie
Speaker 1: on the show. You know what I'm saying. And it's
Speaker 1: just like, I don't even want that energy, so so
Speaker 1: I just choose not to put it out. Now, whether
Speaker 1: she has a bunch of followers or not, you know
Speaker 1: that that's I mean, that's irrelevant, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So it's not intimidating to you, like if you're say
Speaker 1: you're with Stephanie. She's posting sexy pictures on the Graham
Speaker 1: and guys are leaving comments like I'll eat your ass
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. That went by you because I
Speaker 1: get it, and I'm sure she, I mean, she probably
Speaker 1: gets so much of that in her DM she's probably
Speaker 1: numb to it. First, all right, like you're probably And
Speaker 1: then I mean I always, whenever I'm in relationships, by default,
Speaker 1: I look at it from a business protective perspective. So
Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, you got all these followers, how can
Speaker 1: we monetize? Can you post the trailer for my movie?
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna have you hold this bottle. We're gonna
Speaker 1: do this some little messages. Who are you getting your
Speaker 1: you know, you got your fitness seed, you got this? Whatever?
Speaker 1: What are we doing? And and and build the brand
Speaker 1: and make money from it because now social media is
Speaker 1: just the business tools you know, you make, you make. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I feel the same way, like I don't want to
Speaker 1: have a relationship and I don't want to have a
Speaker 1: public relationship, but I do wanna. I do want to
Speaker 1: date somebody who you know, is in this business and
Speaker 1: understands like this is all normal for me, Like you
Speaker 1: know all the comments and the guys, So you want
Speaker 1: somebody in the business. Yeah, I mean I want to date.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm I'm not dating outside of entertainment. I'm not.
Speaker 1: I tried. It doesn't work, Like I don't feel like
Speaker 1: they don't have to stand. I mean, I just want
Speaker 1: to date somebody who can understand my lifestyle, understand that
Speaker 1: I might say that I have nothing to do this
Speaker 1: week and then I have to travel somewhere that's man
Speaker 1: got at last minute, or I have to or you know,
Speaker 1: I'm promoing this, I have to take a picture with
Speaker 1: this person. You know. I just need somebody to understand
Speaker 1: that my previous relationships it's been really hard, you know,
Speaker 1: like I just don't understand, like this is just normal,
Speaker 1: Like why is this person commenting that? I don't know
Speaker 1: that person the day to women that's not in the business,
Speaker 1: it doesn't understand certain things like why would you understand
Speaker 1: club along? Like why are you always busy? Women are
Speaker 1: innately smarter than men. So it's easier for me to
Speaker 1: find that might not be in the industry, that that
Speaker 1: understands or has empathy for for my career. Plus, I'm
Speaker 1: just older and I've been doing this literally for you know,
Speaker 1: ten fifteen years. So when I talk to him and
Speaker 1: even she's not in industry, I'm so respectful and so
Speaker 1: you know open that that usually I don't. I don't
Speaker 1: have that type of issue, But I mean that that
Speaker 1: becomes a gift in a curse with with sticking to
Speaker 1: you know, you don't want to limit your blessings you
Speaker 1: don't know where Oh no, I'm not. I mean if
Speaker 1: I find somebody who's not in the industry, gonna say
Speaker 1: that is um because you know, I still date. I
Speaker 1: still date, you know, guys who aren't in entertainment. I did,
Speaker 1: I'm dating guys who are in entertainment. You know, I'm
Speaker 1: just dating the day, But I honestly don't think um like,
Speaker 1: I don't want to be with somebody who's super famous.
Speaker 1: I don't not want to be with somebody who's super famous.
Speaker 1: I just, you know, want to be with somebody who
Speaker 1: could understand, who's not gonna get mad and every little thing. Yes, exactly.
Speaker 1: I don't want to be with somebody who I'm gonna
Speaker 1: take to a big event. And you know, there's a
Speaker 1: lot of industry people there and I'm you know, chit
Speaker 1: chatting with you know, X Y Z person and they're like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, why did you give them your number?
Speaker 1: Why are you talking to this person so long? Like
Speaker 1: because this business is a networking business, Like I have
Speaker 1: to do things like that. It's part of my job. Now,
Speaker 1: Terry's how much does that woman's past mad a to you?
Speaker 1: Now you're dating a girl And she's like and she's like, listen,
Speaker 1: I just want to keep it real. Like, you know,
Speaker 1: I got shipped on in Dubai because I needed to
Speaker 1: pay something. Oh my god, this is gonna sound crazy,
Speaker 1: and and Fred is laughing because it's it's true. I
Speaker 1: I swear that if the chemistry with you and and
Speaker 1: a girl is real enough, like the past doesn't matter
Speaker 1: for real, even if she got shipped on and d
Speaker 1: by even like like, I mean, that's a little that
Speaker 1: that so now that into integrity, like that that comes
Speaker 1: into like moral compass and integrity. But but as far
Speaker 1: as like if a girl that I meet used to date,
Speaker 1: you know, trade songs or something like that, or that's happening. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean listen, you know, or a girl used to
Speaker 1: date you know whoever. You know what I'm saying. It's
Speaker 1: not like I'm gonna be like, oh my god, you
Speaker 1: date it because especially in l A. I mean, it's
Speaker 1: just a small town and and with women like men
Speaker 1: with such good liars that it's like, you know, we
Speaker 1: we got. It's like you you might find yourself in
Speaker 1: a good two month situation with a dude before you
Speaker 1: even realize that it's complete bullshit, right you know, you know,
Speaker 1: so it takes it. I mean, and it's a growth,
Speaker 1: it's a learning curve. But if it nuds leaked online,
Speaker 1: does that matter? I mean, whose news aren't online? Right?
Speaker 1: A few people? I mean your news aren't online? New
Speaker 1: all right? I'm a post m you don't have no
Speaker 1: no nude pictures online. Now I'm just surprised because see
Speaker 1: but I don't, I mean you naked. I don't have
Speaker 1: anything you got you No, I never said. Then they
Speaker 1: get a picture of myself anywhere? So what you never
Speaker 1: done a pic? You're lying, Terry. Listen, I'm thirty three now,
Speaker 1: even without your facing it, you never send a picture
Speaker 1: of your dick. I escaped this like like remember Twitter,
Speaker 1: we debut Twitter on one on six and part like
Speaker 1: when I was like, twe you said on my instagment. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but by that time I was already like twenty six
Speaker 1: years old, so it's like I wasn't. But that's what
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. Text mess and people still send dick
Speaker 1: picks that you know, me and Selita was not gonna
Speaker 1: send each other, you know, like she never was like
Speaker 1: you know she was, she was in the industry. We
Speaker 1: both knew what was going We wasn't. You know, I've
Speaker 1: never because I always knew. I was like if I
Speaker 1: were on for president one day, I don't want anybody
Speaker 1: with that type of leverage in their phone. So you
Speaker 1: don't think Barack Obama ever sent Michelle dick pick? What
Speaker 1: why are you talking about you don't think he ever
Speaker 1: was sitting in in the White House, Like, Yo, this
Speaker 1: not even when you want any post they're married. I
Speaker 1: don't even be texting like that. You don't because why
Speaker 1: why are you scared some mine's gonna post it? Because man,
Speaker 1: it's just dirty. It's dirty out there. You cannot trust
Speaker 1: the cloud. You can't trust none of that, cannot trust ship.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna, I'm I'm really send you with my photos.
Speaker 1: I don't. I've always been I've seen too many people
Speaker 1: getting exposed pictures. I've seen pictures in your guys. Please
Speaker 1: I take the She's like, look at my pussy, isn't it?
Speaker 1: She's just pictures yet. But I'm saying, like I always say,
Speaker 1: you have to be like my daddy, Like you gotta
Speaker 1: be my like I've we've already seen each other. I've
Speaker 1: already made you come and probably made me come all
Speaker 1: for me to send you naked pictures. I don't send
Speaker 1: anybody naked pictures like I know, girl, Like sometimes I'll
Speaker 1: just meet a guy and I'll be talking to send
Speaker 1: me a picture. No, I mean, I just I don't
Speaker 1: like screenshot my Instagram and send this and like girls.
Speaker 1: Girls accidentally text me to screen grab of the conversation
Speaker 1: they having. Oh my god, that's embarrassing, and it's like
Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, I'm not I'm not taking the now
Speaker 1: professional Wait, somebody did that to you before I sent you? Yes,
Speaker 1: just happened screenshot about Yes. No, I don't remember what
Speaker 1: we were talking about. And I was like, oh, I
Speaker 1: don't know it once in the medical argument, and then
Speaker 1: I said, read what you just said. You sound so stupid,
Speaker 1: Like I meant this in that to you, right? I
Speaker 1: meant that. So you think that social media and texting
Speaker 1: and all that is ruining relationships? I mean, I wouldn't
Speaker 1: say that, but you know, I think it's a generational thing.
Speaker 1: I think the you know, like like a like a
Speaker 1: you know, I'm thirty three year old was just gonna
Speaker 1: have a different perspective of it because they grew up
Speaker 1: into it. They grew up in round it. Me. It
Speaker 1: was like, you know, I called girls like when I
Speaker 1: was sixteen years old, I had no choice. If I
Speaker 1: wanted to talk to you, I had to call your
Speaker 1: house and remember the phone number. You know, I don't
Speaker 1: nobody's I'm used to it. It's a regiment Over the years,
Speaker 1: you just you get used to actually talking to women,
Speaker 1: and so I can't text you like you know w
Speaker 1: y D, Like I don't even let girls do that
Speaker 1: to me. Like if we won't talk, we're gonna talk.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna go back and forth with you unless
Speaker 1: I've already smashed and I'm just doing maintenance. You like
Speaker 1: when girls saying your new picks to themselves. Though it's cool,
Speaker 1: but it's like, I'd rather just put put you on
Speaker 1: the plane. Just come to me, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like PJ, I ain't saying PJ said jet Blue. I
Speaker 1: said jet Blue more even more. You know they got
Speaker 1: the late flat bed. Now they got the first class
Speaker 1: and Jeff little super clean, that super clean. But no,
Speaker 1: I mean no, it's it's cool, but you know what, man,
Speaker 1: I really feel like it's become so accessible that you know,
Speaker 1: I value the conversation more if I'm talking to you, right,
Speaker 1: because because if I need to look at a photo,
Speaker 1: I can go to your Instagram real quick, and if
Speaker 1: your Instagram don't got nothing, I'll go to somebody else
Speaker 1: Instagram page, you know, like whatever, so you look at it.
Speaker 1: You said, if it don't got nothing. I'll go to
Speaker 1: somebody else's I'm saying, if you just want to be
Speaker 1: a freaking just look exactly exactly like I don't even
Speaker 1: want to check. I'm really dealing with like, I don't
Speaker 1: need that from me because we were trying to build
Speaker 1: something else, you know what I mean? Now, what is
Speaker 1: sex like with Terence J? What's that like? In the
Speaker 1: Do you want to hear some things that I heard? No?
Speaker 1: I do not. Next question like chocolate, chocolate? Who you
Speaker 1: know use foods and stuff and it? Oh who told you?
Speaker 1: That must have been like six years ago. Seven years ago,
Speaker 1: that's old news. So yeah, yeah, Now it's like because
Speaker 1: that that's sticky and messy. Now say you did used
Speaker 1: to do that fun stuff? Yeah, scolate the wrong. No,
Speaker 1: I did hear that. Terence is very thoughtful in the
Speaker 1: bedroom and he's you know, he's like the rose petals,
Speaker 1: let me pour food on you and chocolate and whipped
Speaker 1: cream and all that type of guy. Wonder who's talking
Speaker 1: to you? I'm more curious on who like. As soon
Speaker 1: as these mics are over, I want to with food.
Speaker 1: I don't like sex with food. Why it's messy? Sex
Speaker 1: is supposed to be messy sometimes and you're like you me, yes,
Speaker 1: and I hated it for me, I M, I I
Speaker 1: don't what, I don't I don't know what the word.
Speaker 1: I want to make sure that the woman is pleased
Speaker 1: before me, you know what I'm saying. So like like
Speaker 1: so like like even if if I blust too, I'll
Speaker 1: be embarrassed. I below my guy, and I like, I'll
Speaker 1: make sure to pull it back together for another round.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Yeah, or like I'm gonna go down
Speaker 1: it and eat until I can figure it out. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna have to come back because you know, I just
Speaker 1: you gotta perform up to some type of standard. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So sometimes you have been disappointed with yourself, like of
Speaker 1: courl we all have. You know what I mean? You know,
Speaker 1: I mean women, But they say women's take it as
Speaker 1: a compliment. If a guy bust too fast, I don't think, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's your fault. Well, then you're welcome, going to keep happening.
Speaker 1: I don't care how good it is feeling to you,
Speaker 1: Like work harder, think about baseball, don't come fast. I
Speaker 1: don't think it's a compliment. It's a waste of time,
Speaker 1: it's a waste of pussy. Would you ever eat a
Speaker 1: girl out and not have sex with her just to
Speaker 1: please her? Oh damn, that's pretty nice. Have you ever
Speaker 1: got blue balls? What's that? Well? You know blue bulls?
Speaker 1: You never heard the blue balls? Come on, anybody heard
Speaker 1: the blue bull I mean, is it a real thing?
Speaker 1: Like that saying? But people are telling me it's real,
Speaker 1: it is real that it wasn't no thing. Look said
Speaker 1: that we never have blue balls. But he's Luke and
Speaker 1: then you know he's probably all the time expert tell
Speaker 1: us something about blue Yeah, you know she was saying
Speaker 1: that females, there's a female version called turquoise something, turquoise overies,
Speaker 1: turquoise overes. Yeah, I think she just made that up.
Speaker 1: Because made that up. No, but blue balls. It's like
Speaker 1: when you when you get excited, you know, you're you know,
Speaker 1: all the blood is rushing, and then you know what
Speaker 1: that happens? Oh but then why don't you just but
Speaker 1: and you don't jerk off? So what happens is and
Speaker 1: get it out of here. You know what's gonna Listen,
Speaker 1: If it don't pop, then I'm gonna just go take
Speaker 1: a shower. It's gonna come out right. So you're not
Speaker 1: giving yourself a chance to get blue balls. Just I'm
Speaker 1: just trying to figure out the point, like why would
Speaker 1: you why would would you like? Why would you just know?
Speaker 1: But I think a lot of the young guys get
Speaker 1: it because you know, they're playing around, you know, like
Speaker 1: virgin play, and you know then they have to go
Speaker 1: home or you know, go where, So it takes them
Speaker 1: a while to even get to the shower or somewhere
Speaker 1: that where they will be able to release believe themselves. Well, Terence,
Speaker 1: who is the perfect match for you? What would you
Speaker 1: say right now? Being that you've gone through all this
Speaker 1: in your life, You've had some serious relationships, You've had
Speaker 1: some not so serious relationships, You've never had blue balls?
Speaker 1: Who is the perfect match for you? Would you say? Like? What?
Speaker 1: What woman is the perfect match? But if you could
Speaker 1: describe her? Yeah, you know, just Will Smith says, when
Speaker 1: he walks in the room with Jada, he feels exponentially
Speaker 1: more powerful than when he walks in by himself. And
Speaker 1: and just the woman that you know, when I'm with her,
Speaker 1: I feel powerful. You know, she she supports me, I
Speaker 1: support her. Um, I mean sex is important, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. The chemistry in the bedroom and and
Speaker 1: you know, just having the same values and wanting to
Speaker 1: to accomplish you know, the same things. You know, could
Speaker 1: you be with somebody and love them and be attracted
Speaker 1: to them, but not have sex with them. Because I
Speaker 1: have a couple of friends in this situation right where
Speaker 1: they're in relationships and for some reason they're not really
Speaker 1: having sex so much anymore, Like once a month they
Speaker 1: stopped having sex. Yeah, they used to, and now they're saying,
Speaker 1: my man's not having sex with me, I'm having sex
Speaker 1: with someone else. You think that's what that means automatically,
Speaker 1: I would think. So a month, yeah, with no sex,
Speaker 1: like sex once a month on the average. So a
Speaker 1: whole month with no sex. So if a guy is
Speaker 1: not having sex with you, he's definitely having sex with
Speaker 1: someone else. It couldn't be anything else. What else could
Speaker 1: it be? You got it? Well, unless you're just having
Speaker 1: fun in the shower. You said you're having sex every day. No,
Speaker 1: I don't have sex. We don't have sex every day. However,
Speaker 1: we're not going the whole month. We're not even going
Speaker 1: a week, because I'm gonna just take it like we're
Speaker 1: not doing it really, Yeah, I agree. A month A
Speaker 1: month is a very long time. Even one week is
Speaker 1: a long time. A month is a long and like
Speaker 1: even I feel like even that week of light week,
Speaker 1: you could do other things. You know he gonna put
Speaker 1: You have an anal sex? You've never tried it? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I've tried it. You don't like it? Why not? Is
Speaker 1: it messy? I don't know just what turns you off
Speaker 1: from it? What turns you off from anal sex? You
Speaker 1: know what's the what's the you know, what's the point.
Speaker 1: Why would you want to Why would you want to
Speaker 1: fucking ask when there's a pussy there, because it's tight
Speaker 1: and different. But the for anal is just like a
Speaker 1: whole asked is just a whole. There's like muscles and
Speaker 1: you know the vagina. Guess really, well, you've done analo
Speaker 1: and they just but you're suppose he's a lot of lubricante.
Speaker 1: I don't like to feel a woman come, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like girls can't coming there? Asked no,
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, even if they do, you can't feel
Speaker 1: the pulsations the way you can feel it in the
Speaker 1: we're coming down, you know what I'm saying, Like I
Speaker 1: want to be able to like feel it coming down? Well,
Speaker 1: so what are you gonna say? What did you do
Speaker 1: on your research and research on animal sex? And I
Speaker 1: found out that you have to clean your amus properly before.
Speaker 1: You don't need to do research to find out out
Speaker 1: you know, no, no, no, no no, don't clean the
Speaker 1: right way. I've done some research and I found out
Speaker 1: that you have to clean like a lot like my stuff,
Speaker 1: various process right, that's what into That's that's why I
Speaker 1: never research. I didn't. I just didn't want to bring
Speaker 1: up the fags. But I mean my gay friends, you
Speaker 1: know with hearings on the couch because hold me. But yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what I meant. Like, I talked to my gay
Speaker 1: friends and they told me, like, you gotta really it's
Speaker 1: like a whole half hour worth of well do you
Speaker 1: stick fingers in the butt and stuff like that. I
Speaker 1: don't do anything. But I don't don't because if a
Speaker 1: girl tries to put her tongue, no no, no, I
Speaker 1: don't like no fingers, but madden her is either you
Speaker 1: don't eat asks nothing nothing happens in the butt around me.
Speaker 1: So if you're eating the plusson, you're not gonna get
Speaker 1: down and get a whole little swap c the other direction.
Speaker 1: You're already going in the wrong direct. But what if
Speaker 1: she asked you to what if she say, put your
Speaker 1: finger in my ass? No girl, somebody asked Terence, where
Speaker 1: if a girl did ask you that, you're not gonna
Speaker 1: not do it? I don't think I would do I
Speaker 1: don't know. I mean, is not putting his thumb in her?
Speaker 1: But it's nice. Yeah, like it's it's okay because I'm
Speaker 1: I'm with you on that. Like I don't like anything happening,
Speaker 1: like even eating ass. I think it's kind of whack,
Speaker 1: but it's nice when you're like riding a nigger, like
Speaker 1: like doorgi sty reverse call girl or being in dorg
Speaker 1: Stag and he like grabs your ass that puts a thumb.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, there's a tip for you that you've
Speaker 1: never tried over. You should try it and let us
Speaker 1: know how it goes. It's and then you can feel her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like you hold it like short like that's gonna be nice.
Speaker 1: It doesn't mean you actually have and it looks like
Speaker 1: if you're recording it, it looks nice. He has a
Speaker 1: good hit. I'm like my nail scratched something in there,
Speaker 1: that's the next movie, the perfect, perfect You're not gonna scratch. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just I don't know, Yeah, not so much. But
Speaker 1: I like even that whole fat last year with to
Speaker 1: eat the booty like groceries bullshit, Like that's not like
Speaker 1: you can't come from a nigger look in your ass.
Speaker 1: It's kind of why some people can. I'm gonna tell
Speaker 1: you something. I don't gonna take me interview a tank
Speaker 1: on the Breakfast Club, and all he talked about was
Speaker 1: how much he loved getting his ass eaten. And he
Speaker 1: talked about the first time it happened to him and
Speaker 1: how much he enjoyed it, and he loved it. And
Speaker 1: I'm so glad that he admitting these days like this
Speaker 1: is like a real ass eating gen ration and people
Speaker 1: you have the je spot in there, like guys like
Speaker 1: I don't you know, we speak here, it comes, you know,
Speaker 1: we speak about this all the time. Like I don't
Speaker 1: think there's anything wrong with guys liking fingers in their ass, okay,
Speaker 1: because they can come like that. We can't, No, we can't.
Speaker 1: I think women we don't have He was married and
Speaker 1: has never told her husband that she loves ano sex
Speaker 1: and he's never done it to her and she loves it,
Speaker 1: but she's embarrassed to tell him and they've never had
Speaker 1: no she's bogging she should act like she's never done
Speaker 1: it's about to act like you never did it and
Speaker 1: just ask him to try it together. She's embarrassed to
Speaker 1: bring it up because he's kind of a prude. I
Speaker 1: think some girls they're just their assholes are just more
Speaker 1: stratchy than others, right the booty. All right, well, Terry Sa,
Speaker 1: we want to thank you so much for coming a
Speaker 1: perfect match in theaters March eleventh, Yes, and we're gonna
Speaker 1: be watching that was Did you have a lot of
Speaker 1: chemistry with Cassie on set? How important is that when
Speaker 1: you're filming, Like, it's very important? You know. The scenes
Speaker 1: were fun? She I mean she was she she really
Speaker 1: threw herself into the role, you know, and puff faced
Speaker 1: Tarmy we started shooting, I'm sure he did and was like, yo,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna send French out there. He's like, he's like,
Speaker 1: I'll be more mad if it if it looks whack,
Speaker 1: if it looks fake, and then I will be if
Speaker 1: it doesn't. You know. Yeah, So he's like, you know,
Speaker 1: grab her to do it for it. Yeah, so when
Speaker 1: you watch it, I mean the sex scenes, they're steamy,
Speaker 1: they're good. You get an erection during that. Yo, here's
Speaker 1: the thing. You're shooting a sex scene in front of
Speaker 1: all these people. Still, that could be a turn on too. Well,
Speaker 1: you got the first of all, it's hot and it's
Speaker 1: a lot of things. Yeah, but I mean yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean listen, I'm a man, but they make it hot
Speaker 1: so you can sweat. Yeah, it's a process. It just
Speaker 1: know it's hot because of the lights. There's so many
Speaker 1: and then you gotta got you have a thing over it, right,
Speaker 1: the cock sack. Yeah, so it's it's kind of it's
Speaker 1: just yeah, it's a lot going on. Okay, alright, interesting, Well,
Speaker 1: we'll be making sure that we check that out. And
Speaker 1: I can't wait. Is there going to be a part two?
Speaker 1: You think? Let's see how the first one does. I hope.
Speaker 1: So I can't well, I can't wait with Terry J.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Thank you guys, Thank you