1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:04,120 Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio 2 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast. Hello everyone, 3 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: we are scrubbing it. 4 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 2: Yep, all right. 5 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 3: Sometimes she sometimes she wants to say something. Sometimes she 6 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:24,320 Speaker 3: doesn't know. 7 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 1: I decided I saw more scuttle button in the Facebook group, 8 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 1: and I decided I can't anymore more scuttle butt, more 9 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:34,480 Speaker 1: scuttle About the intro, I was like, I just can't 10 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:35,520 Speaker 1: know what I've realized. 11 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 3: But you don't know, doesn't hurt you? 12 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 2: Just a group I like going into. 13 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 3: But if I I mean just social media in general, 14 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:46,839 Speaker 3: when it's something I read brings me down, I go 15 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 3: why I didn't need to know that. 16 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 1: I was like, you know, this isn't just this is 17 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:53,519 Speaker 1: this is something I just I don't need. So if 18 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:56,280 Speaker 1: everybody prefers it this way, fine by me. 19 00:00:56,840 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 3: Okay, great. It hasn't been long since our last podcast, 20 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 3: but Mark is back. 21 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:05,399 Speaker 2: Hi, Mark is back, Welcome. 22 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:07,959 Speaker 4: Back to the podcast. Thank you so much is gone. 23 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:10,920 Speaker 3: But one thing about us, we keep trucking. 24 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 2: That we do. 25 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 1: You don't have a podcast for eight years if you 26 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 1: don't keep trucking. 27 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:20,759 Speaker 2: I'll say it again, say it again. 28 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:23,919 Speaker 3: You say it again. You don't have a podcast. 29 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 2: If you don't keep trucking right yours? 30 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, speaking of Lady World, happened this weekend? 31 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 4: It did? 32 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 2: Did you text them? 33 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:34,120 Speaker 3: I don't have that relationship with them. I mean I 34 00:01:34,160 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 3: did comment on their stuff. I did comment on the 35 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 3: Lady Gang. The Lady Gang put on what I can't 36 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:44,600 Speaker 3: even imagine how stressful and overwhelming and how. 37 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 2: Much work that took. 38 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:49,640 Speaker 3: I was blown away. It was literally like a festival. 39 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 2: It was. It was a festival for podcasts. 40 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 3: It was incredible. We didn't get invited to be a part, 41 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 3: but you know what, sometimes you support. Sometimes it's nice 42 00:01:57,600 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 3: to support from afar. 43 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 2: I was sad we were not invited. 44 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 1: However, it did not deter my support and enthusiasm for them. 45 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:08,920 Speaker 1: I was like liking everything. I sent them all a 46 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 1: text saying good luck this weekend. 47 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:13,359 Speaker 3: You know what it made? It made me go like it. 48 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 3: I just feel like they've been such an og podcast 49 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:21,359 Speaker 3: for so long, and I felt this sense of pride 50 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 3: that these incredible women that were friends with do that 51 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 3: on this like full on weekend long festival. 52 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: I know, And like, I don't know if you saw 53 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:31,959 Speaker 1: Mark probably didn't say this. 54 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 3: I'm gonna guess. 55 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 1: Kelty ran a portion where they basically like wrote down 56 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 1: things that they wanted to get rid of, and then 57 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:41,799 Speaker 1: they all walked into the water while she was playing 58 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 1: All too Well the ten minute Taylor's version and like 59 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 1: and like release them into the ocean, and she was 60 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 1: ps it was biodegradable water or about credible paper, so like, 61 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 1: don't get on me, I didn't litter or whatever. And 62 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:53,799 Speaker 1: I was like, that is so Tanya coated, like I 63 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 1: would love that, just seeing like a sea of women 64 00:02:56,320 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 1: walking into the ocean releasing the things that do not 65 00:02:58,440 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 1: serve them. 66 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I thought the manifestation portion was 67 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 3: very you. Yeah, but they had podcast guests, they had 68 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:12,280 Speaker 3: musical guests like Otown performs, Yeah, who else? Kaitlin performed, 69 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 3: Kaylin Bristow performed like live for the first time. Yeah, 70 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 3: I think at least in a crowd, a huge crowd. 71 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 2: Huge crowd. 72 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 1: So we just want to give it up for our girls, 73 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 1: our girls, Kalti, Becca and Jack. 74 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 2: We love you, keep on going girls. 75 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:31,520 Speaker 3: It was. It looked incredible and I would love to 76 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:33,640 Speaker 3: have them on to talk about it because I can't 77 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 3: even imagine what went into that. 78 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 1: I'm sure they need to put their feet up for 79 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 1: a minute, but we'll give them some time. We give 80 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 1: them some time and not too much time, no, because. 81 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 3: We need we need the the nitty gritty. Yeah, what'd 82 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 3: you do this weekend? Speaking of. 83 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 2: Tended this little wedding. 84 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 3: That was wedding that happened. 85 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 1: Uh No, but I went to Selena Gomez and Benny 86 00:03:58,360 --> 00:03:59,120 Speaker 1: Blanco's wedding. 87 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 3: Can I ask a questions? Yes, so you get invited 88 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 3: to that? 89 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 2: Yes? 90 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 3: Was it casual? Did you get an invitation? 91 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 5: Like? 92 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 3: What was the process? And did you think you were 93 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 3: going to get invited? 94 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:16,360 Speaker 1: I did not think that I was going to get invited, 95 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:21,279 Speaker 1: but I think it was a different type of invites 96 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 1: because they were everything was kind of kept. So I 97 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 1: honestly have I don't even know where I went so 98 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 1: like that location. 99 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:31,479 Speaker 2: No, I have no idea. I just knew when to 100 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:33,040 Speaker 2: get on the shuttle and where do you know what 101 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:33,360 Speaker 2: I mean? 102 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:39,600 Speaker 5: So did they put over your head like I could have. 103 00:04:40,240 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 1: I could have known where I was, But at that point, 104 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 1: it's just like I don't care, do you know what 105 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:47,920 Speaker 1: I mean? Like I'm yeah, like I just show up, 106 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:49,600 Speaker 1: get on this shuttle. And it's going to take me 107 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 1: where I need to go. That's all I need to know. 108 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 1: But I think the thing that we can all appreciate, 109 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 1: especially about Selena Gomez, is how vulnerable and open she's 110 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:10,120 Speaker 1: been her entire life, and so getting to see just 111 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 1: how happy and joyful and love filled she and Benny are, 112 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 1: it's like it just feels so nice, you know what 113 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 1: I mean. 114 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:24,680 Speaker 2: Like it's just I feel. 115 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 1: Like every wedding you feel that you feel the love 116 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 1: in the room and you feel this energy, but I 117 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:33,640 Speaker 1: feel like with her, it just hits different. And so 118 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:35,920 Speaker 1: it was just really beautiful to see. I mean, like 119 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 1: they were just smiling the whole time, like it was 120 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:39,360 Speaker 1: just it. 121 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 2: Was a real life fairy tale. 122 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 1: I feel like people have been saying like it was 123 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:45,040 Speaker 1: a fairy tale, and it really just felt like that. 124 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 3: I really feel like people have been rooting for her 125 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:50,840 Speaker 3: so much, like not only in her love life, but 126 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 3: just in general, her career, her personal life, her wellness, everything, 127 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:58,839 Speaker 3: And so I think people are so excited to see 128 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 3: her with someone who like adores her. 129 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's the thing, Like he adores her, you 130 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:09,600 Speaker 1: know what I mean, and she adores him, yeah, And 131 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 1: it's that's just that's that's the goal, do you know 132 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 1: what I mean, Like, that's that's what you want. And 133 00:06:14,080 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 1: so anyways, I didn't talk about obviously, I didn't talk 134 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:19,840 Speaker 1: about being invited before the wedding because I didn't want to. 135 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:21,160 Speaker 1: I mean, they were trying to keep it under wraps. 136 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 1: Although it was not under wraps, I feel like I 137 00:06:23,800 --> 00:06:26,919 Speaker 1: was just seeing it everywhere, and out of like respect 138 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:30,599 Speaker 1: for them as a couple, I also don't want to 139 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:33,120 Speaker 1: like share intimate details because I feel like, when it's 140 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 1: your wedding, you want to be able to share that 141 00:06:35,160 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 1: when you want, how you want, you know what. 142 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:41,479 Speaker 3: I mean, Come on, we don't want to take the 143 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:45,799 Speaker 3: stage away from her. But it's well anytime, yeah, anytime. 144 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 1: So that's why it's like, I don't, you know, I 145 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 1: don't want to share the intimate details because I feel 146 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 1: like that's on that's on them as a couple. But 147 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:57,839 Speaker 1: it was really really fun, like just so much fun 148 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:02,479 Speaker 1: and uh, just so much love in the room, Like 149 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:06,599 Speaker 1: everybody was just happy. And I love weddings and this 150 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:08,279 Speaker 1: wedding was epic. 151 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 3: Were you on the shuttle with anyone, Like, were you like, 152 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:13,200 Speaker 3: oh my gosh, they're so and so in the shuttle. 153 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 2: No, oh really? Uhuh the shuttles were smaller, like smaller shuttles. 154 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, so the shuttles. But you were with Paulina 155 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 3: and Sophia. Yes, correct, So you weren't just like a 156 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 3: lone ranger going into this correct. Correct. 157 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 5: Oh, Robbie wasn't there. 158 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 2: No, I was like a girl's weekend. Oh I know that, Yeah, 159 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:29,680 Speaker 2: you were. 160 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 3: It was in southern California. Correct, They announced that, so 161 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 3: knew you knew where you were in that regard. 162 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:36,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, And like that's the thing. 163 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 1: I if I wanted to, I could have watched the 164 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 1: road and known where I. 165 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 3: Was going, But I just I don't think I would know. 166 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what. 167 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 1: You do when you go to a wedding and there's shuttles. 168 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:49,880 Speaker 1: You just get on the shuttle trust that you're going. 169 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, so you get into the wedding. Did you see 170 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 3: Was it like celebrities everywhere? Was it like people? Was 171 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 3: it just like friends and family that people that you 172 00:07:58,320 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 3: didn't recognize. 173 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:01,840 Speaker 1: I mean, there was definitely a lot of people I recognized, 174 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 1: but then there's a lot of people that I didn't recognize. 175 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 3: It was big yeah, yeah, Okay, yeah, that's really cool. 176 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 3: I know, who are the big ones? 177 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 2: I don't know. 178 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 3: Back up, I don't know some of them. And you 179 00:08:14,320 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 3: just see, let me know if you can we. 180 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 5: Talk about what we talked about this morning or no. 181 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean there was one big one that I 182 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 1: spoke to. 183 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:25,560 Speaker 5: You've had a moment with this person, and now Tanya 184 00:08:25,640 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 5: has had a moment with this person. 185 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:31,600 Speaker 2: But I'll tell you about it when we come back. 186 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, an early break. 187 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:55,760 Speaker 4: It works though, all right, we're back. 188 00:08:55,840 --> 00:08:58,560 Speaker 3: So it's it's kind of hard to imagine there being 189 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:03,840 Speaker 3: celebrities bigger. I mean, you think about Selena Gomez is like, 190 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 3: isn't she the most followed person on Instagram or something 191 00:09:06,559 --> 00:09:08,600 Speaker 3: that doesn't refer at a certain point. 192 00:09:08,720 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 2: She's up there. I don't know, but. 193 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:13,680 Speaker 3: I mean, she herself is massive. So obviously the people 194 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:16,840 Speaker 3: invited to such an event are the heavy hitters. 195 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 5: Yes, just so you know, it's all soccer players right now. 196 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:22,800 Speaker 5: Number one Ronaldo. 197 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 2: That's what I was saying. I don't think she's number one. 198 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 5: But then Lionel Messi then Selena. 199 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:29,520 Speaker 3: Go see, I knew she was up there. Three's pretty impressive. Okay. 200 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 3: Some of the people included Steve Martin just apot him 201 00:09:32,920 --> 00:09:33,440 Speaker 3: in the crowd. 202 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, these are all reported to be there. 203 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:39,559 Speaker 3: So I'm asking if you saw them. 204 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:42,679 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I definitely there was somebody there. I saw them. 205 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:45,400 Speaker 2: It wasn't like oh that big Oh yeah. 206 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 5: Did you have a moment with Steve Martin or no? 207 00:09:47,280 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 2: No cheering? 208 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, what about Paul Did you have a moment with 209 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:54,720 Speaker 5: Paul rud No moment with that cheering? 210 00:09:55,440 --> 00:09:55,680 Speaker 3: Uh? 211 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:57,199 Speaker 2: No, Camilla? 212 00:09:57,400 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 3: You know Camilla? Did you say did you say hello 213 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 3: to her? Okay? Yes, cfs. 214 00:10:01,480 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. 215 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:04,079 Speaker 3: It's always funny when you go to events with Tanya 216 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:06,320 Speaker 3: and the people that run up to her and say hey, 217 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:09,960 Speaker 3: and it's just casual and you're just standing there like okay. 218 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:13,440 Speaker 1: Huh, well like a Camilla I've known forever. 219 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 2: I've literally known her since she was like fifteen or something. 220 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:20,959 Speaker 3: It's just like a young teen so crazy Taylor Swift. 221 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:26,079 Speaker 2: Yes, Yes, in fact I did. 222 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:32,680 Speaker 1: And so again in these settings, I feel as though 223 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:36,840 Speaker 1: I just want to, like you just want to respect everybody, 224 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:40,560 Speaker 1: their their space, their space, do your own thing. She's 225 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:43,199 Speaker 1: a guest, She's a very. 226 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:44,559 Speaker 2: Prominent guest, like letter, you know. 227 00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 1: Somehow Paulina becomes friends with her in this brief window 228 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:53,920 Speaker 1: of time and we're just like casually walking by her. 229 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:56,160 Speaker 1: And so Paulina was the one that was like, oh, Taylor, 230 00:10:56,200 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 1: you have to meet my best friend. 231 00:10:57,360 --> 00:10:58,800 Speaker 2: Tanya's only walking by. 232 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:02,319 Speaker 3: You're not casually walking by Taylor Swift talking to Paulina. 233 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 1: No no, no no, I'm with Paulina and we will 234 00:11:05,080 --> 00:11:06,200 Speaker 1: walk by Taylor. 235 00:11:07,520 --> 00:11:10,200 Speaker 2: Does that make sense? So they had already met, they 236 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 2: had already messed. 237 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:12,360 Speaker 5: Was what was Taylor doing? 238 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:14,199 Speaker 2: I don't know. She was just like walking somewhere. 239 00:11:14,200 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 1: I'm getting to the dance lord, because that's where we 240 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:19,760 Speaker 1: were going, and she goes, this is my best friend, Tonna. 241 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:21,640 Speaker 1: She walked down the aisle to one of your songs 242 00:11:22,120 --> 00:11:23,520 Speaker 1: and I was like, well, actually it was my first 243 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 1: dance and. 244 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:25,600 Speaker 2: I walked down the aisle to it. 245 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:32,560 Speaker 1: And again I'm so calm, Like I'm just like trying 246 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 1: to be calm because I love her, but also I'm 247 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:35,400 Speaker 1: trying to be respectful. 248 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:35,640 Speaker 3: Right. 249 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 1: She was so kind, She like loved it. She asked 250 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:45,960 Speaker 1: me what song and she was like that means so much. 251 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:54,840 Speaker 1: I cannot explain to you how magical, regal, genuine, present, 252 00:11:56,360 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 1: locked in, I know, invested and normal I was like, 253 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:07,840 Speaker 1: this is the craziest thing, like the craziest experience, Like 254 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 1: I had to let her think in I did see it, 255 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 1: and I audibly gasped like. 256 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:14,559 Speaker 5: Can we hear what that sounded? 257 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 3: Like that's pretty mild for you. 258 00:12:21,679 --> 00:12:24,800 Speaker 1: And Sophia were like, I'm so proud of like how 259 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:27,439 Speaker 1: cool and calm you were. And I was like, at 260 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:30,200 Speaker 1: the end of the day, like you're a business woman, 261 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:32,920 Speaker 1: I'm a business woman, and I because I was like 262 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 1: I could go on and on and tell her how 263 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 1: much her songs have meant to me in the past, 264 00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 1: how many hours I've spent crying to her music, how 265 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:41,319 Speaker 1: many songs got me through breakups. 266 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:44,239 Speaker 2: Like I could have gone down a deep. 267 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:48,079 Speaker 1: Deep lore for her, and I chose not to, because 268 00:12:48,120 --> 00:12:53,479 Speaker 1: again she just here and enjoying her friend's wedding. Yeah, 269 00:12:53,559 --> 00:12:57,319 Speaker 1: but I will say she's a magical unicorn of a 270 00:12:57,440 --> 00:13:00,560 Speaker 1: human being and I'll never forget it. 271 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:04,079 Speaker 5: It's so interesting because she's got to be the most 272 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:08,680 Speaker 5: famous famous person in the world. It has to be 273 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:12,200 Speaker 5: King Charles, like, I'm trying to think of anyone who 274 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:15,120 Speaker 5: would be at her level of known I guess, but 275 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:18,000 Speaker 5: I'm even thinking beyond pop culture is there anyone in 276 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:20,480 Speaker 5: the world more known than Taylor Swift? 277 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:20,959 Speaker 3: I guess. 278 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:27,160 Speaker 5: Saidel lionel Messi. And she's a billionaire, and so it's 279 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:30,120 Speaker 5: so interesting to have that combination and just be like, hey, 280 00:13:30,120 --> 00:13:31,599 Speaker 5: how's going, Like I don't know, I don't know what 281 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:33,080 Speaker 5: that would do to a person, but I guess it 282 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:33,880 Speaker 5: hasn't done it to her. 283 00:13:34,679 --> 00:13:38,040 Speaker 1: I mean, I guess yeah, because she was just so 284 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:41,840 Speaker 1: a present is like the best way to describe it. 285 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:44,880 Speaker 3: Because I said that I described that way too, because 286 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 3: you don't you would expect her to kind of be 287 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:51,160 Speaker 3: like head on a swivel, where's my security? 288 00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:56,920 Speaker 2: Especially when I was like but no, like at all, 289 00:13:57,400 --> 00:13:59,719 Speaker 2: just and just genuine. 290 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:05,080 Speaker 1: There's not a there is not one bone of inauthenticity 291 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:06,280 Speaker 1: in her. 292 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:11,360 Speaker 3: It's what it's what separates her into her own category. 293 00:14:11,679 --> 00:14:13,720 Speaker 2: She makes me want to be a better person. Like 294 00:14:13,800 --> 00:14:17,120 Speaker 2: I'm not even joking. I left that conversation. 295 00:14:18,080 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 1: I left that conversation being like wow, like I want 296 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 1: to make people feel like that, do you know what 297 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 1: I mean? 298 00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:25,400 Speaker 2: You like when I'm talking to. 299 00:14:25,320 --> 00:14:28,600 Speaker 1: Them, like really engage and talk like I think sometimes 300 00:14:28,640 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 1: I can look at my phone or. 301 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:32,520 Speaker 3: Like, yeah, that's what you were at the bar. I mean, 302 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:35,040 Speaker 3: my first impression of you was not who I know 303 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 3: you to be, because you were just like who else 304 00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 3: is coming? Don't care about her? 305 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 2: No, she would not, she would not like. 306 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 3: I genuinely feel like you make people feel that way. 307 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:52,800 Speaker 1: She made me want to be a better person in 308 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:57,160 Speaker 1: that brief encounters. So moving forward, you will see a 309 00:14:57,200 --> 00:15:01,120 Speaker 1: more locked in present Tanya. 310 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:03,320 Speaker 5: Was she taller or shorter than you expected? 311 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 2: She was exactly what I expected, but taller than you? 312 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 5: Yes, yes, okay substantially. 313 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:12,440 Speaker 2: Well, my heels were quite I would imagine would. 314 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, but she was exactly what 315 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:18,480 Speaker 3: I remember feeling like she was smaller than I like, 316 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:22,000 Speaker 3: I felt like she was taller in my head. She's tall, 317 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:24,600 Speaker 3: but she wasn't as tall as she was in my head. 318 00:15:24,640 --> 00:15:28,960 Speaker 2: Oh really yeah? Yeah, she was exactly how I exactly 319 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:29,920 Speaker 2: how I pictured her. 320 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:34,080 Speaker 3: How was her hair down or up? 321 00:15:35,360 --> 00:15:35,840 Speaker 4: I don't know? 322 00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:36,840 Speaker 3: Oh my god, I know. 323 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 2: If people keep asking me, like what did everybody wear? 324 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:40,960 Speaker 2: I literally have no. 325 00:15:41,080 --> 00:15:44,720 Speaker 1: I literally couldn't tell you. Well, I know what she 326 00:15:44,760 --> 00:15:46,240 Speaker 1: was wearing, but I don't want to share her because 327 00:15:46,240 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 1: it's like. 328 00:15:46,680 --> 00:15:49,240 Speaker 3: That's like we'll see pictures if they yeah, yeah, yeah, 329 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 3: did did y'all dance together? 330 00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 2: I would say no, I don't wouldn't say it was like, 331 00:15:58,080 --> 00:16:01,720 Speaker 2: could you imagine? I'm just trying to be respectful of people. 332 00:16:02,360 --> 00:16:06,320 Speaker 3: I really appreciate you sharing and also being respectful to 333 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 3: the to the people's privacy. 334 00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:08,600 Speaker 2: Thank you. 335 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:11,760 Speaker 1: I mean, and that's the thing, Like Taylor is super 336 00:16:12,000 --> 00:16:16,200 Speaker 1: private and I respect that. It's like, I mean, I'm 337 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 1: just like a changed human being from that experience. 338 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:21,760 Speaker 3: I need a yes or no question. It's reported people 339 00:16:21,840 --> 00:16:24,800 Speaker 3: reported that Taylor and Ed both gave speeches. Did you 340 00:16:24,880 --> 00:16:25,640 Speaker 3: hear the speeches? 341 00:16:26,400 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 2: Well, I cannot confirm her. 342 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 5: Sounds like she would have just hypothetically, if it's a 343 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:33,000 Speaker 5: smaller wedding, she would have heard. 344 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:40,000 Speaker 3: That you were there for that part. Let's go with that. Well, 345 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:43,040 Speaker 3: her new album does come out this weekend. 346 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:45,280 Speaker 2: It's just so serendipitous. 347 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:51,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, any details coming out a couple of days. 348 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:54,240 Speaker 5: You could have said to her, knowing that I'm a 349 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:57,080 Speaker 5: massive invisible string fan, what is my favorite song going 350 00:16:57,120 --> 00:16:59,000 Speaker 5: to be off the album? That would have been a 351 00:16:59,040 --> 00:16:59,520 Speaker 5: good question. 352 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:03,560 Speaker 1: I know, I know in hindsight, there was many things 353 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:06,880 Speaker 1: I wish I would have shared, But I think it 354 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:07,880 Speaker 1: was better. 355 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:10,000 Speaker 2: That I collected myself. 356 00:17:10,320 --> 00:17:13,439 Speaker 3: Was when you told Robbie about meeting her, was he like, 357 00:17:13,920 --> 00:17:17,320 Speaker 3: did he care that he missed that opportunity? No, he was. 358 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:20,879 Speaker 2: So happy for me. Oh my gosh. She was so 359 00:17:21,040 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 2: cute about it. Oh yeah, really really cute. 360 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:27,120 Speaker 3: I mean it's so iconic. Yeah, it's amazing. Can see 361 00:17:27,119 --> 00:17:28,280 Speaker 3: her ring kept close. 362 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 2: I just can't like, it's just. 363 00:17:30,760 --> 00:17:34,880 Speaker 3: Well, I'm so happy for Selene. Selena looked like an angel. 364 00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:36,960 Speaker 2: Yes, not even angel. 365 00:17:37,080 --> 00:17:39,320 Speaker 1: It was like a theory out of this world, like 366 00:17:39,400 --> 00:17:42,720 Speaker 1: she really she looked so so good. 367 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:44,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, she looked amazing. 368 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:49,040 Speaker 2: Happiness and love. Uh look good on people, you know. 369 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:50,919 Speaker 3: Hmm, that's good. 370 00:17:51,280 --> 00:17:53,480 Speaker 1: Makes you blow from the inside out, that's it. That's 371 00:17:53,480 --> 00:17:55,800 Speaker 1: a that's a that's a look. That's priceless, you know. 372 00:17:56,160 --> 00:17:58,119 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah yeah, I can't put it. Can't put a 373 00:17:58,119 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 3: price on that. No, Wow, so pretty epic. We can. 374 00:18:02,760 --> 00:18:04,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. So I'm gonna retire. 375 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:07,439 Speaker 3: Okay, So her album is coming out this week. I 376 00:18:07,440 --> 00:18:10,560 Speaker 3: feel like it would be. I've really been revisiting the 377 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:13,000 Speaker 3: Midnights album Interesting. 378 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:14,280 Speaker 2: I've been going back to Red. 379 00:18:14,920 --> 00:18:18,520 Speaker 3: Interesting. That's a nice fall intro. Red is a fall 380 00:18:18,560 --> 00:18:22,399 Speaker 3: intro album for some reason. I feel like Midnights we 381 00:18:22,520 --> 00:18:25,400 Speaker 3: kind of just moved on too fast because we got 382 00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:27,960 Speaker 3: it in the w Is that because we got it 383 00:18:27,960 --> 00:18:31,040 Speaker 3: in the fall of twenty twenty two and then twenty 384 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:36,080 Speaker 3: twenty three she released Tortured Poets Apartment. 385 00:18:36,160 --> 00:18:38,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, so it just felt like rushed. 386 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:39,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. 387 00:18:39,600 --> 00:18:40,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, so. 388 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:46,800 Speaker 3: I'm really excited about this album. I would like to 389 00:18:46,800 --> 00:18:49,639 Speaker 3: predict what we think our favorite song is gonna because 390 00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:53,439 Speaker 3: I think we did that for Tortured Poets Department, and 391 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:54,000 Speaker 3: I don't know. 392 00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:59,040 Speaker 2: How accurate we were, Okay, but I'm just. 393 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:03,040 Speaker 3: Gonna simply off of if I like the title or not. 394 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:07,119 Speaker 3: Oh wow, Okay, I think Oldest Daughter is gonna be 395 00:19:08,040 --> 00:19:12,680 Speaker 3: It's track number five, So something tells me I'm gonna 396 00:19:12,760 --> 00:19:17,479 Speaker 3: like that one interesting and weirdly, I feel like Honey 397 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 3: Honey is gonna be one that I love. 398 00:19:19,840 --> 00:19:22,520 Speaker 1: M So I think The Life of a show Girl 399 00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:25,720 Speaker 1: is gonna be my favorite first of all featuring Sabrina, 400 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:28,240 Speaker 1: and second of all, my favorite song on the Tortured 401 00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:30,440 Speaker 1: Poets Department was the Tortured Poets Department. 402 00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:33,760 Speaker 3: There's no way, Yeah, that's your favorite song on the 403 00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:34,960 Speaker 3: Torture Poets Department. 404 00:19:35,080 --> 00:19:37,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it. Don't Sleep On It. No, I 405 00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:41,200 Speaker 1: love that album Don't Sleep on It? Okay, So I tend. 406 00:19:41,119 --> 00:19:41,919 Speaker 2: To like the title. 407 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:43,359 Speaker 5: Oh sorry. 408 00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:48,600 Speaker 2: Read is also my favorite song on off Red Wow, yes, 409 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:50,880 Speaker 2: not all too well no Red? 410 00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:52,679 Speaker 3: Oh okay, okay, So. 411 00:19:52,880 --> 00:19:55,639 Speaker 2: I think that it's a strong contender for my favorite. 412 00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:59,760 Speaker 3: Okay, it's gonna be poppy or yeah, poppy okay. 413 00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:03,600 Speaker 2: And I also think I'm gonna like ruin the friendship. 414 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:08,240 Speaker 3: Hmmmm, it sounds like a revenge type of song. Or 415 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:09,720 Speaker 3: do you think it's gonna be a sad song? 416 00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:12,639 Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be a like a like a 417 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:16,520 Speaker 1: Oh I like someone that's my friend, but I don't 418 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:20,399 Speaker 1: want to ruin the friendship. Oh, you're thinking it's that 419 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:24,400 Speaker 1: and not the Blake Lively distract, Like, Yeah, I don't 420 00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:25,080 Speaker 1: think it's gonna be that. 421 00:20:25,119 --> 00:20:27,240 Speaker 2: I think everybody's just saying that. I think it's gonna 422 00:20:27,280 --> 00:20:27,560 Speaker 2: be like. 423 00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:29,880 Speaker 3: Oh, I haven't even thought of another way of looking. 424 00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be like I like you, but 425 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:34,359 Speaker 1: I don't like you, but I don't want to ruin our friendship. 426 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:36,119 Speaker 2: Should I ruin our friendship? Or should I like not? 427 00:20:36,400 --> 00:20:39,000 Speaker 3: I love that thing. I like that better than a 428 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:46,520 Speaker 3: ruined friendship. Yeah, it's more like not so revengeful. Yeah, 429 00:20:46,840 --> 00:20:49,200 Speaker 3: I also think is it opal lte? Is that how 430 00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:49,560 Speaker 3: you say that? 431 00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:50,240 Speaker 5: True? 432 00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:53,440 Speaker 3: I think I'm gonna like that one. It's feeling cool. 433 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:59,560 Speaker 5: I'm concerned about canceled with the exclamation usually a red flag. 434 00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:03,440 Speaker 2: It's giving me or Florida or Florida Florida. 435 00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:06,880 Speaker 5: I mean it's fine because they needed the explanation point 436 00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:08,400 Speaker 5: in the title. I think that's a sign. 437 00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:11,040 Speaker 3: I'm concerned about wishless with the dollar signs. 438 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:14,920 Speaker 2: Oh, it's giving reputation. 439 00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:19,400 Speaker 3: It does have a feeling. Yeah, I'm excited. I'm excited 440 00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:19,679 Speaker 3: for it. 441 00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:21,360 Speaker 2: I'm so excited for it. 442 00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:26,160 Speaker 1: I actually you know they announced who's doing the super 443 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:27,040 Speaker 1: Bowl halftime show? 444 00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:29,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, bad Bunny. Yeah huh. 445 00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:31,840 Speaker 2: I was so convinced it was going to be Taylor. 446 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:35,280 Speaker 3: I know you did a full thing on the podcast. 447 00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 2: I was so convinced. 448 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:39,600 Speaker 5: But you know what it may have been because there 449 00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:41,360 Speaker 5: was a report last week and I don't know who 450 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:45,399 Speaker 5: this blogger is, but every legit news organization kind of 451 00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:47,600 Speaker 5: picked it up, so he must be somebody decent. He 452 00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:49,720 Speaker 5: says that that was almost a done deal, but she 453 00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:52,600 Speaker 5: made demands where she wanted commercial time before and after it, 454 00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:54,919 Speaker 5: and the NFL said, we're not going to do that 455 00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:58,120 Speaker 5: because Taylor knows that they need her a lot more 456 00:21:58,160 --> 00:21:59,720 Speaker 5: than she needs them. So I think she asked for 457 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:02,080 Speaker 5: the movie and they said they put a stop to it, 458 00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:04,360 Speaker 5: and they're going with Bad Bunny. I think he's second choice. 459 00:22:04,520 --> 00:22:07,360 Speaker 3: Well, Bad Bunny posted a photo. Was that his official 460 00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:10,040 Speaker 3: account that he posted a photo with Taylor Swift? 461 00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 5: I don't know. 462 00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:16,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna probably not, because everything is AI. Hold on, 463 00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:22,320 Speaker 1: everything is I saw photos that like Adele was going 464 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:24,879 Speaker 1: to be the Super Bowl halftime performed, like everything's AI, Like, 465 00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:25,919 Speaker 1: how do you know what to believe? 466 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:29,800 Speaker 2: These days? It's too it's too unfortunate, and not him 467 00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:30,399 Speaker 2: that posted that. 468 00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:38,680 Speaker 3: Okay, I got dupe scammed, Boomered got boommered. Yeah, they're 469 00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:42,639 Speaker 3: saying I don't follow I don't follow Bad Bunny. So 470 00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:45,359 Speaker 3: as a suggested account, it had like over a thousand 471 00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:49,360 Speaker 3: comments and normally, you know, that feels like a legit account. 472 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:50,160 Speaker 3: So there's an. 473 00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:55,080 Speaker 5: AI actress, now do you see that? Tilly nor would Yeah, yeah, 474 00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:57,679 Speaker 5: oh yeah, there's a new AI actress. So you know, 475 00:22:58,200 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 5: is that the first time you're gonna get dupe, not 476 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:02,000 Speaker 5: the last, and there she is. That's Tilly Norwood, the 477 00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:03,040 Speaker 5: new AI actress. 478 00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:06,200 Speaker 3: It's freaky, it's like weird. 479 00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:09,080 Speaker 1: It's just like so freaky, because then why why be 480 00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:09,880 Speaker 1: an actor anymore? 481 00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:10,720 Speaker 3: Why do anything? 482 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:13,159 Speaker 2: Literally, there's a computer in AI me. 483 00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:18,760 Speaker 3: Soon we'll bring her in for the pod with my 484 00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:19,760 Speaker 3: AI actor. 485 00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:22,080 Speaker 2: No, I don't want them to take over. 486 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:25,080 Speaker 3: No, we don't. But it's like all we saw these 487 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:28,560 Speaker 3: movies that were predicting all this stuff and we were like, oh, 488 00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:33,399 Speaker 3: that feels crazy. Not in our generation. We have fully 489 00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:34,840 Speaker 3: signed AI actor. 490 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:38,119 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's kind of getting weird, getting little nutty. 491 00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:40,080 Speaker 1: You're about to say something about bad Buddy and Taylor 492 00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:41,119 Speaker 1: and then we sidetracked. 493 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:44,480 Speaker 3: Well, it wasn't a thing because it's not a real account. 494 00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:46,679 Speaker 3: Because I was thinking, isn't that weird? He posted a 495 00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:48,560 Speaker 3: photo with her, and then I was like, wait, was 496 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,720 Speaker 3: that real? Let me look, and it certainly was not. Yeah, 497 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:55,440 Speaker 3: but okay. So I asked Taylor Banks this question this morning. 498 00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 3: If you had to convince someone who wasn't a Taylor 499 00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:00,639 Speaker 3: Swift fan to become a Taylor swif f, what are 500 00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:02,200 Speaker 3: the three songs you would show them? 501 00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:03,480 Speaker 5: All? 502 00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:05,320 Speaker 2: Too? Well? Ten minute version. 503 00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:07,960 Speaker 3: Okay, really make them sit there. 504 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:10,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're gonna give me your time, and you're gonna 505 00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:11,240 Speaker 1: give me a lot of it. 506 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:13,640 Speaker 3: You're gonna give her a chance. Yeah, ten minutes worth. 507 00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:18,119 Speaker 2: Shoot, this is the hard question. Do you have your 508 00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:18,800 Speaker 2: three mind ups? 509 00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:21,639 Speaker 3: So my pop was I wanted to give them a 510 00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:25,880 Speaker 3: pop song, which was Cruel Summer. And then see, this 511 00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:28,320 Speaker 3: isn't necessarily one of my favorites, but I think it 512 00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:31,840 Speaker 3: would be a reason to get someone emotionally invested. Would 513 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:36,920 Speaker 3: be Marjorie Oh yeah, because the lyrics are like really emotional. 514 00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 3: And then Champagne Problems. 515 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:43,040 Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah, three unexpected tracks. 516 00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:43,439 Speaker 5: I know. 517 00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:46,399 Speaker 3: But I'm like, just you, you're not going in with 518 00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:50,120 Speaker 3: your favorites. You're you're trying to show them the genius 519 00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:51,159 Speaker 3: lyricists that she is. 520 00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:54,520 Speaker 1: I feel like, all too well, you can't. 521 00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 2: You cannot not appreciate that. 522 00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:57,240 Speaker 5: I'm with you on that. 523 00:24:57,480 --> 00:24:59,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, So that feels solid. I go, is it over? 524 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:04,320 Speaker 3: That wasn't that was? That was my top five. 525 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:07,000 Speaker 1: Because it just sends you on a journey, and that's 526 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:08,720 Speaker 1: a good journey to go on. And then I know 527 00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:11,800 Speaker 1: this is going to be very controversial because whatever, but 528 00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:13,560 Speaker 1: New Romantics. 529 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:19,800 Speaker 3: It's fun. Yeah, i'd give it to you for the pop. 530 00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:20,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. 531 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:22,240 Speaker 3: My other one was Out of the Woods piano version 532 00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:24,439 Speaker 3: at the Grammy Museum, but you can only find it 533 00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:27,120 Speaker 3: through a deep detailed search on YouTube. 534 00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:27,440 Speaker 5: Wow. 535 00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:29,880 Speaker 3: And I didn't want to get there like hopes up 536 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:31,720 Speaker 3: and not be able to find it. Yeah, so I 537 00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:34,520 Speaker 3: didn't try that to them later on, what are yours? 538 00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:35,000 Speaker 1: Well? 539 00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:37,160 Speaker 5: I like a cruel summer is great. I like that, 540 00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:38,760 Speaker 5: So go with yours and I'm gonna going with your 541 00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:40,520 Speaker 5: all too well. Thank you, And you know I'm a 542 00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:43,560 Speaker 5: big fan. I could have should have because there's three 543 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:46,920 Speaker 5: separate solid hooks in that song and a killer bridge. 544 00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:49,320 Speaker 5: How that didn't get more love or at least placement 545 00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:52,159 Speaker 5: on a legitimate album is shocking to me. 546 00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:52,960 Speaker 2: I agree. 547 00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:56,280 Speaker 5: And also just the lyrics are so powerful, especially when 548 00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:59,440 Speaker 5: you give that this new person the backstory of John 549 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:02,760 Speaker 5: Mayer or whatever it is, it's so much more powerful. 550 00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:07,040 Speaker 5: Give me back my girlhood it was mine first. Yeah, 551 00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:07,840 Speaker 5: those are my three. 552 00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:09,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I thought about. Is it over? 553 00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:10,000 Speaker 3: Now? 554 00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:10,119 Speaker 5: Like? 555 00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:12,359 Speaker 2: How I how did that not make that album? 556 00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:13,200 Speaker 3: Yeah? 557 00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:13,680 Speaker 5: I know. 558 00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,480 Speaker 1: And there's a couple on Red too, like Babe and 559 00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:18,879 Speaker 1: Message in a Bottle like I love those. 560 00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:23,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I love messaging, but babe doesn't really like get 561 00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:25,520 Speaker 3: me going love? And how does this not make the 562 00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:26,919 Speaker 3: actual Oh you're losing me? 563 00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:28,040 Speaker 2: That's why, you know. 564 00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:31,920 Speaker 3: If you've gone through a breakup? 565 00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:34,399 Speaker 2: What's still track from nineteen? 566 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:34,760 Speaker 4: Yeah? 567 00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:35,520 Speaker 5: I know? 568 00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:36,640 Speaker 2: But is it from nineteen nine? 569 00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:40,240 Speaker 3: I actually think it's for mid uh Lover? No, it's 570 00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:42,800 Speaker 3: some it's a I want to say it's a. 571 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:46,040 Speaker 2: Is it over Now Deluxe? No, we're a vault. 572 00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:48,520 Speaker 3: It's a deluxe or vault track. I want to say 573 00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:49,600 Speaker 3: it's Midnight's DeLux. 574 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:52,080 Speaker 4: No, Mark, I'm on it. 575 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:54,280 Speaker 3: Anyways, that one's really good too. 576 00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:57,280 Speaker 5: It was released as part of the nineteen eighty nine 577 00:26:57,400 --> 00:26:58,560 Speaker 5: re recording. 578 00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:03,840 Speaker 2: All Yeah, what did you do this weekend? 579 00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:05,639 Speaker 3: What did I do this week? 580 00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:08,200 Speaker 5: Whatever we did is gonna pale compared to your. 581 00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:12,920 Speaker 3: With that we did. We did throw Haley's mom a 582 00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:16,320 Speaker 3: surprise party, and it was our like we literally what 583 00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:17,120 Speaker 3: he died? Ever? 584 00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:19,080 Speaker 2: Mind I have a story about your party? 585 00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:24,919 Speaker 3: My party? Yeah, Okay, So we we're still like rented, 586 00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:27,800 Speaker 3: like doing all of our construction stuff, so nothing's actually 587 00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:30,080 Speaker 3: fully done, but we were like, yeah, it's good enough 588 00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:33,320 Speaker 3: to throw the party. So the night before I'm getting 589 00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:37,879 Speaker 3: like landscaping done. Haley's had someone come hanging string lights. 590 00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:41,400 Speaker 3: We're like renting tables and chairs all the things, and 591 00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:47,840 Speaker 3: it turned out beautiful. She was so surprised. It was, uh, 592 00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:50,399 Speaker 3: Haley's niece. We got she got to use our like 593 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:53,359 Speaker 3: jacuzzie all the things. It was really fun. What are 594 00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:54,080 Speaker 3: you gonna say? 595 00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:59,000 Speaker 1: So I we decided that we were hosting Thanksgiving this year, 596 00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:02,240 Speaker 1: and so we have a friend who helps us. She 597 00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,080 Speaker 1: like does event planning, and we don't have like the 598 00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:07,200 Speaker 1: tables and the chairs, so she helps kind of like 599 00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:10,280 Speaker 1: organize when we have events. And so I reached out 600 00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:12,600 Speaker 1: to her this weekend, I think it was this weekend 601 00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:15,679 Speaker 1: and just said like, hey, heads up, we're planning Thanksgiving 602 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:16,000 Speaker 1: this year. 603 00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:16,760 Speaker 2: Can you help us? 604 00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:17,879 Speaker 3: Da? Da da? 605 00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:21,240 Speaker 1: And she responds and she's like, yeah, I'm loading in 606 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:24,359 Speaker 1: Becca's event and I'll text you like later tonight. And 607 00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:30,120 Speaker 1: I was like, Becca's event? What event is having that 608 00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:35,800 Speaker 1: I'm not invited to? Turns out it was something for 609 00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:37,120 Speaker 1: Haley's mom, and which. 610 00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:41,280 Speaker 3: Is the same thing. I was like, yeah for setting 611 00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:43,280 Speaker 3: up for the party. And I just assumed like maybe 612 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:46,000 Speaker 3: Haley had told her, and she was like what party. 613 00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:50,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like, oh god, Becca's event a question mark, 614 00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:55,200 Speaker 2: question mark question mark. I was like, yeah, yeah, don't worry, 615 00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:57,719 Speaker 2: don't worry. You would be worry for like ten minutes. 616 00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:03,080 Speaker 1: You had other plans, I was, I was previously engaged. 617 00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:06,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, you would have been imagined I had thrown a 618 00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:08,920 Speaker 3: party and you said yes to me before you said 619 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:11,040 Speaker 3: yes to that, what would you have done? 620 00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:16,080 Speaker 1: Okay, if you were throwing a party and I said 621 00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:18,680 Speaker 1: yes to your party before I got invited to their wedding, 622 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:20,280 Speaker 1: I would have gone to your party. 623 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:22,040 Speaker 5: No, yeah, no way. 624 00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:25,640 Speaker 3: And then Paulina and Sofia are like, by the way, 625 00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:28,360 Speaker 3: we like just hung out with Taylor st at the 626 00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:29,480 Speaker 3: What would you do. 627 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:32,560 Speaker 2: My friendship is I'm more loyal? 628 00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:34,080 Speaker 5: You're not telling the truth. 629 00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:36,480 Speaker 4: By the way, let's. 630 00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:41,240 Speaker 5: A friend of yours wedding is going to outweigh a 631 00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:45,040 Speaker 5: birthday party? Right, don't you think on the hierarchy of things, Well, 632 00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 5: we have to just find what Becca's party was. 633 00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:50,440 Speaker 1: What I would do is I would approach Becca and say, 634 00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:55,360 Speaker 1: my friend is getting married on this day, depending if 635 00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:57,320 Speaker 1: it was local, I would try to make it to both. 636 00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:03,000 Speaker 1: If I was already committed to you, but I think 637 00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:06,760 Speaker 1: I would be able to predict Becca and she would say, like, I. 638 00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:07,680 Speaker 3: Really want you to be here. 639 00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:13,080 Speaker 2: No, the wedding, Yeah, the wedding, yeah, I would have four. 640 00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:15,680 Speaker 3: Henceforth I would. 641 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:16,440 Speaker 2: Have gone to the wait is that true? 642 00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:18,120 Speaker 5: I don't am I wrong in that? I feel like 643 00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:21,040 Speaker 5: a wedding like in poker, you know, a full house 644 00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:22,720 Speaker 5: beats two pair. I feel like a wedding beats a 645 00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 5: birthday party. I think there's a hierarchy of social events. 646 00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:29,880 Speaker 2: I agree, because the wedding is once in a lifetime. 647 00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:30,720 Speaker 5: Exactly right. 648 00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:33,720 Speaker 3: But what if it's like a fortieth or thirty, Like, 649 00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:36,120 Speaker 3: what if it's a big birthday or you're having like 650 00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:41,040 Speaker 3: a like a full party, which is essentially a wedding, 651 00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:41,320 Speaker 3: is like. 652 00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:43,200 Speaker 4: A big party right now, right right right? 653 00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:44,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, don't worry. 654 00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:47,280 Speaker 3: I don't think I'll put you in that position. But 655 00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:48,920 Speaker 3: you can invite it to Taylor's wedding. 656 00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:55,160 Speaker 5: But oh yeah, we've heard. By the way, there's rumors 657 00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:56,680 Speaker 5: of the date of that. I know. 658 00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:58,680 Speaker 3: I saw it on TikTok, and I feel like it's 659 00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:01,080 Speaker 3: this big rumor going around I think is legit, though 660 00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:03,400 Speaker 3: you do, I do, I don't know. 661 00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:06,320 Speaker 5: I also know someone with firsthand knowledge, the same as that. 662 00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:10,080 Speaker 2: Heres get started. 663 00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:11,880 Speaker 3: But it's all the same thing. A friend of a 664 00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:14,800 Speaker 3: friend whose friend works at the venue, A. 665 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:16,840 Speaker 2: Friend of a friend whose friend works. 666 00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:18,800 Speaker 5: With his friend I know is from that state and 667 00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:19,680 Speaker 5: so she knows. 668 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:22,240 Speaker 1: People like, do we know everything that happens in California? 669 00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:23,840 Speaker 5: I do? No, you do not? 670 00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:25,200 Speaker 4: I do? 671 00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:30,880 Speaker 3: I do not. Well, whenever the date is, I'm sure 672 00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:35,640 Speaker 3: it'll be stunning, a stunning venue, lots of security. You 673 00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:39,080 Speaker 3: won't be able to get into that one without a 674 00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:42,480 Speaker 3: secure invite. You might need to wear like certain contacts 675 00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:44,560 Speaker 3: to get in. They scan your eyes or something. 676 00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:46,280 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, that'd be cool. 677 00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:49,120 Speaker 3: That would be really that's listen, we have an AI actress. 678 00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:52,920 Speaker 3: It's not that far fetched. Okay, wait, have you ever 679 00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:54,840 Speaker 3: watched The Golden Bachelor any of the seasons? 680 00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:56,200 Speaker 2: I tried. 681 00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:00,160 Speaker 3: It was just, oh yeah, you got sad, because there's 682 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:03,600 Speaker 3: like it was like just sad. The first season was 683 00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:07,240 Speaker 3: like tear jerk or something. Yeah. Well, the new season 684 00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:10,520 Speaker 3: started and he had like a controversy leading up to it. 685 00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:13,720 Speaker 3: And it's regardless of you if you watched the first episode. 686 00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:16,320 Speaker 3: It's something I want to talk about. But we're gonna 687 00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:40,000 Speaker 3: take a break, all right. So the new Golden Bachelor, 688 00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:45,120 Speaker 3: he's like a former NFL football player or something, and yeah, 689 00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:46,880 Speaker 3: for like the rant, like, yeah. 690 00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:50,120 Speaker 1: I wonder if probably knows him, well, he's older, he's like, 691 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:53,360 Speaker 1: he knows him, knows of him, he knows all these 692 00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:55,600 Speaker 1: like people who are in like the Rock of Fame and. 693 00:32:55,560 --> 00:33:02,240 Speaker 2: Stuff, Rock of Fame, Fame, Hall of Fame, into sports, 694 00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:03,320 Speaker 2: Like you know a lot about these? 695 00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:05,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't. I don't know. 696 00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:07,320 Speaker 1: Like how he was trying to tell me the story 697 00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:11,160 Speaker 1: this weekend about some Hall of Famer whose son plays 698 00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:13,000 Speaker 1: now and just did something. 699 00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:14,200 Speaker 2: This is ringing a. 700 00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:19,720 Speaker 3: Bell for anybody, which also brings me to what's the 701 00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:21,920 Speaker 3: other show where they're trying to like live like our 702 00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:23,920 Speaker 3: Marine people Special Forces. 703 00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:24,800 Speaker 2: It's back. 704 00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:29,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a new season. It's Jesse Decker, Sean Johnson, Jesse, 705 00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:34,360 Speaker 3: James Decker, Jesse j Decker, Teresa from House lives in 706 00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:40,560 Speaker 3: New Jersey and her daughter jud Uh huh no, I'm 707 00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:45,640 Speaker 3: trying to think who uh, Brittany Cartwright from. 708 00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:47,520 Speaker 2: Lander p that's a good cast. 709 00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:49,560 Speaker 3: It's pretty good. Yeah, I just love the show. 710 00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:50,440 Speaker 2: I like the show too. 711 00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:55,360 Speaker 3: Anyways, So the Golden bachelor on the podcast, like back 712 00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:59,320 Speaker 3: in June, he said his ideal age of the woman 713 00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:01,560 Speaker 3: he'd want to date would be forty five to sixty. 714 00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:03,600 Speaker 2: Okay, he's sixty six. 715 00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:05,160 Speaker 3: I think some. 716 00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:07,080 Speaker 2: People are like forty five. 717 00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:11,360 Speaker 3: It's like crazy, like why you know? But in my 718 00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:13,680 Speaker 3: mind I'm like, of course, like he's a man, of 719 00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:17,239 Speaker 3: course he's gonna go like as low as he sorry, But. 720 00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:20,440 Speaker 1: Also, like he said, forty five to sixty, like they 721 00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:21,640 Speaker 1: can't be his age. 722 00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:23,719 Speaker 3: Right, He's like, forty five to sixty would be his 723 00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:25,160 Speaker 3: ideal age for a woman that. 724 00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:26,640 Speaker 2: He is so annoying. 725 00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:29,400 Speaker 3: So of course they've cast these women who are forty 726 00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:33,040 Speaker 3: five to sixty. No, they're older. They're in that his 727 00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:37,000 Speaker 3: age range, which is what I think. They're like sixty 728 00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:38,520 Speaker 3: to seventy Oh is like. 729 00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:40,920 Speaker 5: There the current season fifty eight to seventy seven. 730 00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:44,520 Speaker 3: Oh wow, okay, fifty seventy seven and he's sixty six? 731 00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:45,040 Speaker 3: Is that right? 732 00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:45,879 Speaker 5: He is sixty six? 733 00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:50,439 Speaker 3: Okay. So there's this element now of all these women 734 00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:53,360 Speaker 3: who heard the podcast and they like they're like, so 735 00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:56,080 Speaker 3: what was that about? And now there's this element of 736 00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:59,040 Speaker 3: them like almost feeling like they have to prove that 737 00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:02,479 Speaker 3: they're good enough for him. I hate that that, no, 738 00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:07,319 Speaker 3: but the women are amazing and I'm hoping he like 739 00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:09,880 Speaker 3: warms up a little bit. He's a little like stiff 740 00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:15,800 Speaker 3: so far. But the women are like beautiful and successful 741 00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:19,000 Speaker 3: and just like you can tell they're all like girl. 742 00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:21,960 Speaker 3: You know, there's that like girls girl vibe. But it's 743 00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:24,239 Speaker 3: a good I would say, try it. It's not as 744 00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:28,080 Speaker 3: sad yet. I'm sure the stories are talking about that. 745 00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:30,520 Speaker 1: I'm very busy because the new season of this of 746 00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:35,160 Speaker 1: Survivor forty nine just started, so just ended. 747 00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:37,400 Speaker 3: I thought you just watched a finale. 748 00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:38,799 Speaker 2: I'm glad you ask. 749 00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:42,960 Speaker 1: I just watched Australia Versus the World, which was an 750 00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:47,600 Speaker 1: Australian Survivor with World players. 751 00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:50,640 Speaker 2: I'm in deep. You know you're in deep when you're 752 00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:56,359 Speaker 2: watching other show. Yes, So I just finished that. 753 00:35:56,760 --> 00:36:01,960 Speaker 1: But this is the USA Jeff Probes season Official Survivor USA. 754 00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,600 Speaker 1: So this is forty nine, and the next season is fifty, 755 00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:06,640 Speaker 1: which is the one they're bringing everybody back for, which 756 00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:07,040 Speaker 1: is going to. 757 00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:08,560 Speaker 2: Be like epic. 758 00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:11,879 Speaker 1: So I'm really excited for a season fifty, but I'm 759 00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:13,040 Speaker 1: obviously gonna watch forty nine. 760 00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:15,759 Speaker 3: It's forty nine just new people, like people you haven't 761 00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:16,160 Speaker 3: met yet. 762 00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:19,120 Speaker 2: Correct, Okay, yeah, Normy's Normy. 763 00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:22,560 Speaker 3: And then fifty they'll bring back like poverty like Rob. Oh, 764 00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:23,240 Speaker 3: it's parverty. 765 00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:24,399 Speaker 2: I don't think it's coming back up. 766 00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:26,120 Speaker 5: For fifty yours Rob. But they haven't been an All 767 00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:26,920 Speaker 5: Star season. 768 00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:27,880 Speaker 2: At all since forty. 769 00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:29,680 Speaker 1: I think forty was the last one, so it's been 770 00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:32,080 Speaker 1: ten seasons. Wow, not that I'm counting. 771 00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:32,480 Speaker 2: No. 772 00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:34,120 Speaker 1: I love when they bring back the oji's, but I 773 00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:37,160 Speaker 1: think like Ozzie's coming back, Mike White. 774 00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:39,200 Speaker 2: Who did White Lotus. 775 00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:42,920 Speaker 1: They're bringing back a lot of iconic players, and I 776 00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:43,760 Speaker 1: cannot wait. 777 00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:45,560 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, you know who. 778 00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:48,160 Speaker 5: I'm excited. Sorry, I can't make fun of my guess. 779 00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:50,239 Speaker 5: Think there's always to mock Tanya when I can. But 780 00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:53,400 Speaker 5: I'm as into Survivor. I'm just not as caught up. 781 00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:57,240 Speaker 5: We're still on forty eight. But Stephanie's coming back. Stephanie 782 00:36:57,280 --> 00:37:01,080 Speaker 5: le Grosser. Remember she was her own tribe. Every other 783 00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:03,239 Speaker 5: person on her tribe was eliminated. She was the last 784 00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:04,000 Speaker 5: person standing. 785 00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:06,399 Speaker 4: Nope, Okay, we don't care them. 786 00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:06,920 Speaker 3: She's not that. 787 00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:09,880 Speaker 1: Survivor is actually one of those I saw her face. 788 00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:12,640 Speaker 1: The names the names go in and out. If I 789 00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:13,799 Speaker 1: saw the face, I would know. 790 00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:16,080 Speaker 5: Then I'll bring up her face. The face that's Stephanie. 791 00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:18,879 Speaker 2: Oh oh yes, forever ago. 792 00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:23,680 Speaker 5: She's coming, sheers, Oh yeah she was. Yeah, No, she's probably. 793 00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:25,600 Speaker 5: If my wife and I had to name a favorite 794 00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:27,319 Speaker 5: survivor contestant is probably. 795 00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:28,000 Speaker 2: Robbie loves her as well. 796 00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:28,560 Speaker 5: She's great. 797 00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:29,600 Speaker 2: Robbie loves her as well. 798 00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:34,799 Speaker 3: This is great news for everybody's Anatomy is coming back. 799 00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:38,200 Speaker 3: I think this week. 800 00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:41,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, this week we're going to the cake cutting. 801 00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:44,799 Speaker 5: Yeah it is not this week. 802 00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:46,760 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, what. 803 00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:48,680 Speaker 5: It's October ninth, So it's a week from thirteen. 804 00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:50,520 Speaker 3: Why do I feel like we've been waiting for this 805 00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:58,080 Speaker 3: premiere forever? Okay, So Brittany Escoto are from Brittany. Yeah, 806 00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:01,319 Speaker 3: she's watching Grayce and and Me the very beginning for 807 00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:05,319 Speaker 3: the very first time. Oh wo And she's just had 808 00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:08,000 Speaker 3: a baby about a month ago, and so she like 809 00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:11,040 Speaker 3: watches What at night while she's up and she's in deep. 810 00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:14,000 Speaker 3: So today I get a text and don't give any 811 00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:16,480 Speaker 3: spoilers when I tell you this, that she goes she 812 00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:18,759 Speaker 3: was on the House of Candles episode you know. 813 00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:20,239 Speaker 2: Oh, he asked her to marry him. 814 00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:22,279 Speaker 3: You remember when he's like with Rope, No, he didn't 815 00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:27,839 Speaker 3: ask her to marry Come on, It's like I think 816 00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:29,680 Speaker 3: tis in four finale. 817 00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:31,240 Speaker 4: Freedom. 818 00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:33,080 Speaker 5: It's not called House of Candles. 819 00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:36,320 Speaker 3: I know, but references the House of Candles. She's like, 820 00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:38,360 Speaker 3: oh my gosh, she has to go break up with Rose. 821 00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:40,920 Speaker 3: Please tell me he doesn't get in a car accident. 822 00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:43,479 Speaker 3: I need you to prepare me. And I'm like, man, 823 00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:46,880 Speaker 3: getting to watch that show in some of those episodes 824 00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:49,400 Speaker 3: with fresh eyes is a gift. 825 00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:53,040 Speaker 1: So I have been telling I want Robbie. Robbi's never 826 00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:54,920 Speaker 1: seen an episode of Grey's Anatomy, and I'm like, I 827 00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:58,120 Speaker 1: think he would really enjoy it watching it from yes, 828 00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:00,839 Speaker 1: from the beginning, right like season at least season one 829 00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:01,239 Speaker 1: through nine. 830 00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:03,920 Speaker 5: It's just such a commitment, like, Hey, you want to 831 00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:05,120 Speaker 5: watch Breaking Back. 832 00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:12,480 Speaker 1: Australia, sixty episodes of Love Island UK, USA Australia. 833 00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:15,080 Speaker 5: But if you asked me to start a full length, 834 00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:17,560 Speaker 5: twenty two episode a season show from the start, I'd 835 00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:19,439 Speaker 5: be like, I gotta I gotta live my life. 836 00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:21,680 Speaker 2: I want him to just commit the first eight seasons. 837 00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:23,799 Speaker 5: I would he's not going to finish that before he's 838 00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:24,560 Speaker 5: fifty years old. 839 00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:27,920 Speaker 2: No way, we could finish that, they watched. We can 840 00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:29,560 Speaker 2: finish that, like ice cream on a Sunday. 841 00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:34,239 Speaker 3: We could like ice cream Sunday or ice cream. 842 00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:36,040 Speaker 2: Ice cream on a Sunday, just finish it. 843 00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:39,600 Speaker 3: I had ice cream on a Sunday yesterday. 844 00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:40,920 Speaker 2: I know, And I saw your ice cream and it 845 00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:43,760 Speaker 2: made me want ice cream, and I love ice cream. 846 00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:45,680 Speaker 2: I'm so sick. 847 00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:49,120 Speaker 1: Okay, I see Beca sends me this picture of her 848 00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:50,080 Speaker 1: like dairy queen. 849 00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:53,400 Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh my god, yeah on a Sunday. 850 00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:54,879 Speaker 2: Then I jump on. 851 00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:57,320 Speaker 1: Robbie and I'm like, so, I'm kind of craving something, 852 00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:02,480 Speaker 1: but I don't know what it is. Can you help me? 853 00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:04,600 Speaker 1: Because I wanted him to say, like, let's go get 854 00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:10,680 Speaker 1: you ice cream. He goes, He goes, We have parmesan chunks, 855 00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:13,239 Speaker 1: we have olives, like he was just naming off all 856 00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:14,640 Speaker 1: the stuff in our fridge and I was like, no, 857 00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:16,399 Speaker 1: I don't really want that. I don't really want that. 858 00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:19,160 Speaker 1: We have peanut butter and jelly. Do you want peanut 859 00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:21,000 Speaker 1: butter and je No, I don't really want that. 860 00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:22,440 Speaker 5: Why are you playing this game? 861 00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:24,360 Speaker 2: I don't know? And he never got to where I 862 00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:25,960 Speaker 2: wanted him to why you. 863 00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:27,960 Speaker 5: To say, Robbie, I am grabbing ice cream. Let's go 864 00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:28,600 Speaker 5: get some ice cream. 865 00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:31,239 Speaker 2: Because we were like in bed and like ready to 866 00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:31,920 Speaker 2: go to sleep. 867 00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:34,359 Speaker 3: It was at seven o'clock at night. 868 00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:37,440 Speaker 2: We were in bed and ready to sleep. At six thirty, 869 00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:38,399 Speaker 2: I looked at. 870 00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:41,120 Speaker 3: Haley and I go, I really want dary. I want 871 00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:43,719 Speaker 3: a dipped cone. That's what I really wanted. But like 872 00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:46,160 Speaker 3: I didn't want to leave the house because dairy Queen's 873 00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:47,439 Speaker 3: in a mall and it was like Park. 874 00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:49,440 Speaker 2: I was just like, uh yeah, and She's like, well 875 00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:50,160 Speaker 2: they have blizzards. 876 00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:52,799 Speaker 3: I was like, all right, it'll do. 877 00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:53,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. 878 00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:58,279 Speaker 1: So I walked down downstairs the kitchen eate my set 879 00:40:58,280 --> 00:40:59,880 Speaker 1: step son's ice cream. 880 00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:02,239 Speaker 3: Oh good, Yeah, okay, you got some ice cream? I 881 00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:03,680 Speaker 3: did What kind was it? 882 00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:04,479 Speaker 2: Cookies and cream? 883 00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:04,920 Speaker 3: Oh? 884 00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:06,360 Speaker 5: Great? 885 00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:09,400 Speaker 3: What brand? 886 00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:11,640 Speaker 2: Not sure? 887 00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:17,040 Speaker 5: Let me ask you this ice cream frozen yogurt, gelato, custard, 888 00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:19,040 Speaker 5: which is the best? 889 00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:23,240 Speaker 2: So good? I think Gelatto. 890 00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:25,080 Speaker 5: I think you might be right. 891 00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:26,560 Speaker 3: I think I love gelotto too. 892 00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:29,560 Speaker 5: I went for gelato last night with my daughter and 893 00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:30,480 Speaker 5: it was phenomenal. 894 00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:34,279 Speaker 2: Yeah. Something just about ice cream is hit. 895 00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:35,680 Speaker 5: Yes, I love like. 896 00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:38,240 Speaker 3: A soft serve, like Dairy Queen's song that could. 897 00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:39,080 Speaker 5: Be another category. 898 00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:42,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that really hits. Just like a vanilla cone. 899 00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:44,680 Speaker 3: Sometimes all you need dipped in chocolate. If it's dipped 900 00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:45,280 Speaker 3: in chocolate. 901 00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:46,719 Speaker 4: Bonus Play, they have one. 902 00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:48,399 Speaker 5: This is not for everybody, but they have the Mister 903 00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:50,879 Speaker 5: Misty Kiss at Dairy Queen. It's like a red It's 904 00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:53,160 Speaker 5: like a cherry slushy and then they put a vanilla 905 00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:56,560 Speaker 5: soft serve right through the middle of it. Man, that 906 00:41:56,719 --> 00:41:57,400 Speaker 5: is heaven to me. 907 00:41:57,680 --> 00:41:58,719 Speaker 2: I don't think I need that. 908 00:41:58,800 --> 00:42:01,719 Speaker 5: I know you don't, but I I do. 909 00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:04,800 Speaker 3: Love anything cherry though, and the cherry mixes with the 910 00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:06,399 Speaker 3: vanilla so well. 911 00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:09,279 Speaker 1: I do love like a creamsicle, like an orange grecle 912 00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:11,040 Speaker 1: where it's like orange and vanilla. 913 00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:12,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, I do enjoy that. 914 00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:19,160 Speaker 3: I can't imagine wanting ice cream and someone suggesting pan 915 00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:23,880 Speaker 3: and all this. Yeah, I would just walk on that. 916 00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:26,520 Speaker 3: K No, I'm out, I'm out of here. 917 00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:31,560 Speaker 1: I was just like wanting that camaraderie, you know, like 918 00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:32,600 Speaker 1: my partner being like. 919 00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:34,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, let's go get ice cream, and he just like. 920 00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:36,359 Speaker 4: It to me that type. 921 00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:40,000 Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, I'm just gonna walk myself down 922 00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:40,759 Speaker 1: the stairs. 923 00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:43,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, your dessert love is somewhere where you and Robbie 924 00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:46,120 Speaker 3: are not quiet, you're not alive, Yeah at all. I 925 00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:49,839 Speaker 3: understand sometimes you just miss miss each other on those things. Yeah, 926 00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:54,200 Speaker 3: you know. Should we end with some sentences that change 927 00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:56,839 Speaker 3: people's lives just so they can leave this podcast feeling 928 00:42:56,920 --> 00:43:01,160 Speaker 3: and encourage and inspired love it? This is according to Busfeed. 929 00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:04,839 Speaker 3: Is Busfeed still likes to read bus Feed all the time. 930 00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:06,279 Speaker 5: I don't think it is what it was, but it's 931 00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:06,800 Speaker 5: still there. 932 00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:08,960 Speaker 3: Quizes I loved a BuzzFeed Yeah. 933 00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:12,279 Speaker 5: Agreed, all right. Well, BuzzFeed rounded up some readers life 934 00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:17,040 Speaker 5: changing sentences from friends or therapists or strangers, and here 935 00:43:17,080 --> 00:43:19,840 Speaker 5: are some of them. Everyone you meet knows something that 936 00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:25,640 Speaker 5: you don't facts this person says. A coworker once told me. 937 00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:28,600 Speaker 5: Nobody on their deathbed says, I wish I had worked more. 938 00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:32,560 Speaker 3: I think people need to hear that because we live 939 00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:37,120 Speaker 3: in a society that's like grind, hustle, work until you're dead. 940 00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:40,080 Speaker 3: And you go to other places in the world and 941 00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:42,759 Speaker 3: they don't live like that, and you're like, wow, this 942 00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:45,000 Speaker 3: is when you go on vacation to places that don't 943 00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:47,680 Speaker 3: live like that, you can feel your body shift, not 944 00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:49,759 Speaker 3: only because you're on vacation, but you can feel like 945 00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:53,680 Speaker 3: no one's in a rush. Everyone's just like they they sleep. 946 00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:57,480 Speaker 1: They's a vacation to places where everything shuts down. Every 947 00:43:57,480 --> 00:43:59,440 Speaker 1: store is shut down on a Sunday. You need a 948 00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:01,640 Speaker 1: little medicine on a Sunday, you ain't going anywhere. You 949 00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:04,800 Speaker 1: better stock up on Saturday because it is a bad example. 950 00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:06,920 Speaker 5: Medicine in it. 951 00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:08,520 Speaker 2: Now, I know, but you can't get it. 952 00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:10,600 Speaker 5: You stuck up for every medicine. 953 00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:12,200 Speaker 1: I'm just saying you can't get it. Like it was 954 00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:13,760 Speaker 1: like everything we're shut down on Sunday. 955 00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:16,040 Speaker 2: I was like, wow, that is so crazy. 956 00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:18,480 Speaker 5: My parents used to ask me will this matter in 957 00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:21,160 Speaker 5: ten years when I was upset. It was annoying at 958 00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:22,799 Speaker 5: the time, but it put things into perspective. I do 959 00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:24,560 Speaker 5: that with my daughters. A year from now. 960 00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:27,080 Speaker 3: This is meaningless to you, Yeah, not even a year. 961 00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:30,959 Speaker 5: Depends on what it is. Just because you spent years 962 00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:33,279 Speaker 5: making the same mistake doesn't mean you have to keep 963 00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:38,600 Speaker 5: making it. Cycles regarding exercise, you can treat it as 964 00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:40,919 Speaker 5: something you have to get through, or you can treat 965 00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:45,120 Speaker 5: it as an opportunity to do something hard. In terms 966 00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:52,080 Speaker 5: of relationships, stop watering dead and fake plants. My best 967 00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:54,640 Speaker 5: boss said, I don't care what you screw up, learn 968 00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:55,759 Speaker 5: from it and don't do it again. 969 00:44:57,520 --> 00:44:58,520 Speaker 3: Tough. 970 00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:01,879 Speaker 5: But here's one you're going to be fifty anyway from 971 00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:04,319 Speaker 5: a friend of mine because I was hesitant about going 972 00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:06,440 Speaker 5: back to college to get a degree because by the 973 00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:09,280 Speaker 5: time I graduated, I would be fifty. And they said, 974 00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:12,040 Speaker 5: but you're going to be fifty anyway. Oh So I 975 00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:14,880 Speaker 5: did it, and I started an amazing second chapter of 976 00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:15,440 Speaker 5: my life. 977 00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:19,959 Speaker 3: That's so inter that is, that's impactful. That is because 978 00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:22,319 Speaker 3: you like, don't do things because you're scared of like, well, 979 00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:24,160 Speaker 3: I'm going to be this old, but you're going to 980 00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:25,120 Speaker 3: get that old anyway. 981 00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:29,240 Speaker 5: Right, it's socially acceptable to have an unexpressed thought. Tania 982 00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:30,840 Speaker 5: is not aware of this, but it is. 983 00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:34,719 Speaker 3: Excuse me, Tanya did it this weekend. I'm sure she 984 00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:36,600 Speaker 3: had a lot of unexpressed thoughts. 985 00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:38,480 Speaker 1: I had a lot of things going through my head 986 00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:41,080 Speaker 1: that I did not express. Thank you very much, more 987 00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:42,360 Speaker 1: so because I was just in shock. 988 00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:45,400 Speaker 5: H I remember my dad saying, if you're going to 989 00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:47,680 Speaker 5: give me roses, do it while I'm alive, because I 990 00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:50,880 Speaker 5: can't smell them when I'm dead, meaning don't waste chances 991 00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:52,160 Speaker 5: to show people you love them. 992 00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:52,760 Speaker 3: Wow. 993 00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:57,520 Speaker 5: And uh, as someone who was often guilty of catastrophizing, 994 00:45:58,040 --> 00:46:00,279 Speaker 5: one thing that helps. If I'm worried about something, What 995 00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:02,080 Speaker 5: if it goes wrong with the switch it instead too? 996 00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:03,200 Speaker 2: What if it goes right? 997 00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:07,560 Speaker 5: Well? And the last one, which you've said before, the 998 00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:10,040 Speaker 5: things you're not changing you are jues. 999 00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:13,120 Speaker 2: That's my favorite. 1000 00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:17,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm reading a book right now and believe it 1001 00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:22,160 Speaker 3: or not, and they were one of my favorite quotes 1002 00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:26,000 Speaker 3: is like the difference of bravery and courage. And we've 1003 00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:29,040 Speaker 3: talked about this before. When I remember it specifically of 1004 00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:32,080 Speaker 3: when I came out publicly with Hailey and it was 1005 00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:36,600 Speaker 3: like feeling like scared and it's like courage is being 1006 00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:40,000 Speaker 3: scared and doing it anyway changed my perspective on like 1007 00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:44,160 Speaker 3: that feeling of being scared to try something new, you know, 1008 00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:47,920 Speaker 3: something challenging. So there you go. I hope that was 1009 00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:51,680 Speaker 3: inspirational for the rest of your week till Thursday when 1010 00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:54,000 Speaker 3: we'll be back. We will be back with a Dear 1011 00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:58,359 Speaker 3: Bonia episode. I know you've missed our advice column, so 1012 00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:00,480 Speaker 3: we'll be back on Thursday to give the people what 1013 00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:01,000 Speaker 3: they want. 1014 00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:02,319 Speaker 2: We love you so much. 1015 00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:05,960 Speaker 3: We love you so much. Have a wonderful day. Love you, 1016 00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:06,920 Speaker 3: continued B