WEBVTT - Don't assign it if you won't do it

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio. Good Morning,

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<v Speaker 1>This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. Today's

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<v Speaker 1>tip is that you shouldn't assign yourself tasks that you

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<v Speaker 1>aren't actually going to do. It's better to be honest

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<v Speaker 1>about what you plan to get done, so you can

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<v Speaker 1>treat your to do list as a contract with yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>In years of talking about productivity, I know some people

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<v Speaker 1>take pride in having a lengthy to do list. There

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<v Speaker 1>are like a thousand items on it, ten thousand, or

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<v Speaker 1>it stretches for eight pages in a word document, or

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<v Speaker 1>it has long and nebulous items on it, like right book,

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<v Speaker 1>to which I say, that is not a to do list.

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<v Speaker 1>It might be a list of something, but it is

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<v Speaker 1>not a to do list. A to do list is

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<v Speaker 1>a list of things you actually intend to do in

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<v Speaker 1>a defined period of time. It could be a weekly

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<v Speaker 1>to do list or more commonly, a daily to do list.

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<v Speaker 1>But the key thing is that whatever length of time

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<v Speaker 1>you are choosing, the only things that should go on

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<v Speaker 1>this list are things you actually intend to do in

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<v Speaker 1>that time. In other words, don't assign yourself work if

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<v Speaker 1>you won't do it. There is no virtue in putting

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<v Speaker 1>something on a to do list and then not doing it,

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<v Speaker 1>it is just as not done as if you never

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<v Speaker 1>put it on the list in the first place, only

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<v Speaker 1>now you feel bad about it too, which is even

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<v Speaker 1>worse of an outcome. Ideally, a to do list is

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<v Speaker 1>a contract with yourself. When you put something on it,

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<v Speaker 1>you are telling yourself that you will in fact do it.

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<v Speaker 1>In the time your to do list covers, you develop

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<v Speaker 1>the discipline of knowing exactly what you can do and

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<v Speaker 1>doing whatever you say you will do. That way, you

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<v Speaker 1>can feel confident putting an item on a future to

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<v Speaker 1>do list knowing you will do it. Then you don't

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<v Speaker 1>feel panicked about assigning a thing that is due Friday

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<v Speaker 1>to Wednesday instead of Tuesday, because you know whatever you

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<v Speaker 1>assigned to Tuesday will happen Tuesday, and whatever you assigned

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<v Speaker 1>to Wednesday will happen Wednesday. Now. Of course, whenever I

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<v Speaker 1>say this, people point out the obvious, what if something

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<v Speaker 1>comes up, what if life happens, to which I say,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, things are going to come up. Life never

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<v Speaker 1>goes exactly as planned. Your to do list needs to

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<v Speaker 1>reflect things that you will do, even when the normal

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<v Speaker 1>emergencies happen. A kid is sick, the babysitter is late,

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<v Speaker 1>you get stuck behind an accident on the way to work,

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<v Speaker 1>a colleague's plane is delayedid you get a big last

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<v Speaker 1>minute request from a top client. While these things might

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<v Speaker 1>not all be normal, none of them are out of

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<v Speaker 1>the realm of possibility. You don't need to prepare for

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<v Speaker 1>things that are let's say, a one out of a

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<v Speaker 1>thousand chance or less. If a meteorite strikes your office building,

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<v Speaker 1>everyone will have bigger problems than that client proposal being late,

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<v Speaker 1>but they're being extra Traffic when it's raining isn't some

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<v Speaker 1>sort of crazy unknown. You want to be sure that

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<v Speaker 1>even if these normal, abnormal things happen, the items on

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<v Speaker 1>your to do list should be things you will get through.

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<v Speaker 1>The obvious conclusion from that is that the list needs

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<v Speaker 1>to be short. Clearly, if you'd need to pick up

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<v Speaker 1>a sick kit at one PM and the power would

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<v Speaker 1>go out in your house for eight hours, you would

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<v Speaker 1>not be able to get to a huge number of things.

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<v Speaker 1>Most people can only choose about three, maybe five major

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<v Speaker 1>things beyond the hard landscape of the day. But that

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<v Speaker 1>is okay because the act of creating a to do

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<v Speaker 1>list should be the act of choosing. When you create

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<v Speaker 1>a to do list, you are saying that these are

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<v Speaker 1>the things that are most important for me to do today.

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<v Speaker 1>These are the things that even if everything else goes wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to complete the act of choosing forces prioritization,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is not a bad thing. If the sun

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<v Speaker 1>is shining and the world is good, and you get

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<v Speaker 1>through your to do list by ten am, by all

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<v Speaker 1>means go find some more things to do. I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>you have a running list somewhere. That's that ten thousand

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<v Speaker 1>item lists that people are so proud of. But to

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<v Speaker 1>do means today. So don't assign yourself work if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't actually intend to do it. You will find yourself

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<v Speaker 1>much more productive if you are honest about this. In

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<v Speaker 1>the meantime, this is Laura. Thanks for listening, and here's

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<v Speaker 1>to making the most of our time. Thanks for listening

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<v Speaker 1>to Before Breakfast. If you've got questions, ideas, or feedback,

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<v Speaker 1>you can reach me at Laura at Laura vandercam dot com.

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