WEBVTT - Second Date Update: The Good, the Bad & the Fugly

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<v Speaker 1>All right, it's your Second Date Update podcast, and today

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<v Speaker 1>we've got a woman who claims she's a one month Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>apparently it's a I don't know if it's a trend,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's what she does. She waits an entire thirty

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<v Speaker 1>days before they meet up again.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, I'm I'm not gonna believe why, but.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna get to that in Your Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>We always like to start, of course, the podcast with

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<v Speaker 1>some great comments because we have the most amazing listeners.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah we do, and including Espinoza, who commented and said,

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<v Speaker 3>damn it, y'all crack me up. My name is Arlene

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<v Speaker 3>and I listen to you guys every morning when I

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<v Speaker 3>go to work at five am.

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<v Speaker 4>Brooky love your girl.

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<v Speaker 5>You the man.

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<v Speaker 3>Jose you man, you rock. You remind me of myself

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<v Speaker 3>just a man version. Alexis girl, you in the back,

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<v Speaker 3>but you still count girl.

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<v Speaker 2>Love listening to you guys.

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<v Speaker 3>Keep it up. I love Arlene's energy.

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<v Speaker 2>That's awesome. Arlene.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, thank you everyone who comments, who subscribes to new Shares,

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<v Speaker 1>We love you and Lestlie Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks for making us laugh. All right, now it's our turn.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's get to the second day.

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<v Speaker 4>Second date of day. Dating online right now is like

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<v Speaker 4>being a contestant on a really stressful game show. At

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<v Speaker 4>least that's how our listener Sean felt, because he was

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<v Speaker 4>challenged recently by the lady he's interested in, and she

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<v Speaker 4>gave him one simple but agonizing question to answer. If

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<v Speaker 4>he got it right, there's a date and possibly a

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<v Speaker 4>new car. If he got it wrong, might never see

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<v Speaker 4>her profile picture again, and Steve Harvey would look at

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<v Speaker 4>him in shame and disgust. I am intrigued by this

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<v Speaker 4>new age of dating, and I can't wait to hear

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<v Speaker 4>what the question was. But first, Sean, tell us about

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<v Speaker 4>this mystery game show girl that you met. Who is she?

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<v Speaker 5>Her name is Janine and she is super hot?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god, super hot Janine?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, with really white teeth, Like, my god, their teeth

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<v Speaker 1>are so white.

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<v Speaker 4>And what was the question that Janine challenged you with?

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<v Speaker 5>The question was country or wrap? Which has to go Country?

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously? Country?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, yeah, rap, I mean I don't want to get

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<v Speaker 4>rid of either one if I'm a hard question. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 4>what did you say, Sean?

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<v Speaker 5>I said ditch country. But that picture of you drinking

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<v Speaker 5>champagne on the beach is the best picture on this app,

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<v Speaker 5>and I think that's what got her.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that was it felt like you didn't transition.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, ye did that compliment?

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<v Speaker 4>What did she say?

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<v Speaker 5>She said that I failed the main question.

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<v Speaker 4>That's the thing. Girls love country.

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<v Speaker 5>But I got bonus points for appreciating her pitch.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, so you got somewhere.

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<v Speaker 4>Smart to slip the compliment.

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<v Speaker 2>What did you guys end up doing?

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I ended up kind of going back and forth,

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<v Speaker 5>like within the app, I joked about zooming in on

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<v Speaker 5>the picture and she was like, what are you, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>like purving out. I mean I was like, no, zooming

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<v Speaker 5>in to see what kind of champagne's drinking. I want

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<v Speaker 5>to know if you're drinking the classy stuff, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, also I know your swim suit size now. But

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<v Speaker 4>what did you end up doing for your date?

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<v Speaker 5>Like?

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<v Speaker 4>Did you take her on a long drive down a

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<v Speaker 4>country road. She's a country.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl with the champagne of her choice.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he rents a pickup truck for the day.

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<v Speaker 5>I took her on a very short drive to a restaurant. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>A type of restaurant is Asian sushi like buffet kind

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<v Speaker 5>of restaurant.

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<v Speaker 4>Couldn't be less country than Asian.

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<v Speaker 2>Country.

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<v Speaker 5>So good, so delicious.

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<v Speaker 2>How was it? I mean that's I always think sushi

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<v Speaker 2>is a sexy date.

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<v Speaker 5>It is, Yeah, it was. It was great. And it

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<v Speaker 5>was one of these places that's kind of adjoining like

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<v Speaker 5>a shopping center, like a kind of mall type area.

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<v Speaker 5>It not hot.

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<v Speaker 4>This is taking in front of her eyes, but don't

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<v Speaker 4>give them that.

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<v Speaker 2>There's high end malls that have like high end.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, give us some highlights here from the day.

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<v Speaker 4>What are some good things that happened at sushi?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, it was good. Sushi was like pretty high end

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<v Speaker 5>and we had a great conversation. And you know the

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<v Speaker 5>best thing about that location is being close to the

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<v Speaker 5>shopping center is you have the opportunity to extend your date.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, oh, do you want to go build a bear together?

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<v Speaker 2>I forgot I'd like that. I was going to you

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<v Speaker 2>know your age.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not shocking at all, little cowboy add on.

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<v Speaker 2>So cute, it's actually good. And then you'd have a

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<v Speaker 2>little teddy better remember.

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<v Speaker 5>Is going to do this?

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<v Speaker 4>Is that what you did? Sean?

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<v Speaker 5>We actually she had a high school reunion coming up,

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<v Speaker 5>so she wanted to try on some clothes for that.

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<v Speaker 5>So I went over to a department store and she'd

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<v Speaker 5>try it on a bunch of stuff and showed it

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<v Speaker 5>to me, and I got to put my input in there,

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<v Speaker 5>and it was cute. It was fun.

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<v Speaker 3>That's how you know she's hot, though, because I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 3>closing riend of a guy.

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<v Speaker 2>It was so bad, you know, it's like a couple

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<v Speaker 2>thing to do.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you know she's literally going to ask you do

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<v Speaker 4>I look bad?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>You have to be prepared for that. Yeah, as a guy,

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<v Speaker 4>that doesn't sound very fun to me to watch women

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<v Speaker 4>put on a bunch of different outfits. But how was

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<v Speaker 4>it for you?

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<v Speaker 5>Sean? It was fun. We I think we really hit

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<v Speaker 5>it off. And at the end of the day she said, hey,

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<v Speaker 5>let's hang again soon and we kiss. You did, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>she initiated a case.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, she initiated a kiss.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, it was kind of. It was mutual, because.

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<v Speaker 2>How are you on the phone with us and not

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<v Speaker 2>just out on a date with her?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know. I asked her when she was free,

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<v Speaker 5>and she said a month from now town or something.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know. I thought she was joking. I laughed,

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<v Speaker 5>and then she didn't laugh, and I said, are you joking,

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<v Speaker 5>and she said no, I'm just super busy, but I

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<v Speaker 5>want to see you.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to see you in thirty one days.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's long, but it seems like a red flag,

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<v Speaker 4>like what what's going through your mind when you hear that, Sean.

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<v Speaker 5>She's dating other people, which is okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean that's obvious, right, or yeah, maybe already

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I was thinking. He goes out of town.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah all right, So has it been a month since

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<v Speaker 4>that date happened and now we're reaching out?

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<v Speaker 5>It's been closer to a week. But you know I'm

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<v Speaker 5>not going to wait a whole on her.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Rat Boy doesn't play by the rules. He just waits

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<v Speaker 4>a week and then calls that country girl.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean you just saying rat Boy shows.

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<v Speaker 6>My name is rat Boy.

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<v Speaker 4>Young and Jeffery is about to u drop the mic.

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<v Speaker 4>We're just gonna play a song, an old school song,

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<v Speaker 4>and then we'll come back. We'll call Janine for you

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<v Speaker 4>and try and get you a second date. All right,

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<v Speaker 4>all right, all right, hold on man.

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<v Speaker 6>Second yo, yo.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, this is the little rat Boy. I'm on the

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<v Speaker 4>mic because hip hop music is the stuff I like.

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<v Speaker 4>It's whack yet makes me yawn.

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<v Speaker 6>Rather do mansushi with my homeboy, Sean? Yeah, boy, why

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<v Speaker 6>like winky what Sean's my god?

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<v Speaker 2>To go ahead, Sean.

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<v Speaker 5>But deadly Sean, I don't know if I'm going to

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<v Speaker 5>top that. That was incredible.

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<v Speaker 4>That's a good answer little rap boys at the top

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<v Speaker 4>of his game.

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<v Speaker 2>Yea country.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know what is going on. We're talking to

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<v Speaker 4>Sean who's a big fan of rap music over country music.

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<v Speaker 4>But anyway, he recently went out with a girl that

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<v Speaker 4>he met online named Janine. They went to mal Sushi

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<v Speaker 4>together and.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a nice place.

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<v Speaker 4>It was a nice mall sushi, classy one. He even

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<v Speaker 4>went with her to the mall and helped her pick

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<v Speaker 4>out an outfit for her high school reunion that was

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<v Speaker 4>coming up. But afterwards, even though it ended with a date,

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<v Speaker 4>she said, we need to wait at least a month

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<v Speaker 4>before we see each other again, which is weird. I know,

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<v Speaker 4>is that what I said?

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<v Speaker 2>It was a date? Said, okay, I know what you meant.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know if everybody else did.

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<v Speaker 4>Still in that, you know, wrap mode hardcore rap. But anyway,

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<v Speaker 4>he is not waiting the full month. He wants us

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<v Speaker 4>to call just a week after that date to figure out.

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<v Speaker 4>Why does he have to wait so long?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. Maybe there's like like a waiting period.

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<v Speaker 4>She's like the d m V.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to take a number and come on. She's

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<v Speaker 2>got options man.

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<v Speaker 4>And Sean. You think that maybe the reason is that

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<v Speaker 4>she could already be involved with somebody else.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. Yeah, it could even be something serious if it's

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<v Speaker 5>that long.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, was she pregnant? Maybe she's about to get.

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<v Speaker 5>Sushi.

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<v Speaker 1>If she's pregnant, you can get the fried stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>We're just gonna assume that she's not pregnant, and we're

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<v Speaker 4>gonna call her and see what she has to say.

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<v Speaker 4>Why does Sean have to wait a full month to

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<v Speaker 4>go out with her? A madollar number? Right now here

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<v Speaker 4>we go? Hello, Hey, is this Jeanine? Yeah, yo, Jeanine?

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<v Speaker 4>What's up?

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<v Speaker 2>Country boy?

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<v Speaker 5>That's right?

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<v Speaker 4>What's up y'all?

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, Jeanine.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi.

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<v Speaker 4>This is jeff and Company from the morning show Brook

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<v Speaker 4>and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, my morning radio show, and.

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<v Speaker 4>We're calling because we have some questions for you about

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<v Speaker 4>one of our listeners that you went out on a

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<v Speaker 4>date with. The other day. I'm sorry, it's weird, weird.

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<v Speaker 4>I understand that, but we're reaching out on behalf of

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<v Speaker 4>our boy Sean, remember Sean. Yeah, yeah, so we've we

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<v Speaker 4>heard a little bit about your date and it sounded

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<v Speaker 4>good on our end, but he told us that afterwards,

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<v Speaker 4>you said that he had to wait a whole month

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<v Speaker 4>before he was allowed to see you again.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, they did.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so, I mean pretty long.

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<v Speaker 1>From my perspective, that just means you are not like

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<v Speaker 1>you're putting it off like why. I mean, if you

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<v Speaker 1>like somebody, you find time.

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<v Speaker 5>Unless you're going out of town. No, I'm not going

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<v Speaker 5>out of town.

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<v Speaker 7>I do want to see him again.

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<v Speaker 4>We uh, we thought that maybe there's a chance you

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<v Speaker 4>could already be in a relationship. Is that what's going on?

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<v Speaker 7>No, no, no, no, it's it's not anything like.

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<v Speaker 4>That now, okay, okay, but I mean you do sound

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<v Speaker 4>hesitant to talk about it with us.

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<v Speaker 7>It's just it's a little it's a little awkward. I'm

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<v Speaker 7>not sure how to get it.

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<v Speaker 4>We love awkward, yeah, we do.

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<v Speaker 1>And listen, I mean, you've got a guy that it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like you like, but he feels like it's not

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<v Speaker 1>being reciprocated. I mean, you've got to give him more

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<v Speaker 1>than just wait a month. I'll I don't know that

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<v Speaker 1>they'll stick around.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, we're here to try and help you, Jine.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it's just so I don't know. I don't know

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<v Speaker 7>what he told you or anything. But I have a

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<v Speaker 7>high school reunion coming up soon, and I was just

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<v Speaker 7>waiting to see him until after that was done.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't understand why. Why do you have to wait

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<v Speaker 4>until after the reunion with your day why?

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<v Speaker 7>But that's kind of a thing. I'll put it this way,

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<v Speaker 7>And he's totally boyfriend material, but I don't know if

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<v Speaker 7>he's like material that I would bring to like a

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<v Speaker 7>big event where I know a lot of people.

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<v Speaker 2>Does What are you embarrassed of him?

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<v Speaker 1>You call us like.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, you go to your high school reunion and you

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<v Speaker 7>kind of want to like show up a little bit right,

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<v Speaker 7>Like I look at me, I'm doing so well. I

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<v Speaker 7>just don't know if he's like like arm candy.

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<v Speaker 2>But you're attracted to him.

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<v Speaker 5>I am like, he's he's fine looking, fine out.

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<v Speaker 2>For material personality wise.

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<v Speaker 1>Am in the middle of the magazine just not on

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<v Speaker 1>the cover, and you want to bring the cover.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like one of those people of their personality makes

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<v Speaker 4>them way more attractive.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, why would that matter your reunion?

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<v Speaker 7>Like I said, you kind of want to go and

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<v Speaker 7>show off a little bit of these things.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like that's the point of that.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm just afraid if we start dating, he would expect

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<v Speaker 7>to be invited, and like, how do I tell him, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 7>you're not attractive enough to go with me to the sake?

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<v Speaker 1>Like you can't.

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<v Speaker 4>I could think of a great way that you can

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<v Speaker 4>tell him that this is already. Did tell him that

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<v Speaker 4>because he's listening right now.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you don't need to worry about inviting me to

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<v Speaker 5>this thing. Don't worry the line Okay, that's how this works.

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<v Speaker 4>We have them waiting on the other line so they

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<v Speaker 4>could hear the reason.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh I wish I was doing that before I said

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<v Speaker 7>my thanks. I'm hey, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I knew

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<v Speaker 7>that would sound bad, and that's why I didn't say

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<v Speaker 7>anything to you about it.

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<v Speaker 5>I do like you.

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<v Speaker 7>I do want to see you again. I mean, do

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<v Speaker 7>you kind of understand where I'm coming from? Maybe then

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<v Speaker 7>I would want to break someone off.

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<v Speaker 5>No, not at all. You put on a real performance

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<v Speaker 5>for me the other night. It feels like like and

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<v Speaker 5>you know, I don't know why you would assume that

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<v Speaker 5>I would want to go to your high school reunion anyway,

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<v Speaker 5>Like I don't want to high school reunions suck. I don't.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't even want to go to mine, So why

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<v Speaker 5>would I want to go to yours? You know, not

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<v Speaker 5>being arm candy, Like I'm not trying to be arm candy.

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<v Speaker 5>That's not what I'm about.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I think this whole thing, like its really weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Sean, Are you really over it?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she didn't mean to hurt your feelings, She's

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<v Speaker 1>being superficial. We all know the pressure that like a

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<v Speaker 1>reunion can bring around, right, especially if you're a dork

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<v Speaker 1>like me in high school, Like you want to show

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<v Speaker 1>up looking cool.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand her like desire to want to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that it's the right thing to do.

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<v Speaker 2>But I get it.

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<v Speaker 4>You're you're basically calling Sean a dor around house.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm saying she must have used to have been a

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<v Speaker 2>dork if she has to impress them with her.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, now you're calling both people.

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<v Speaker 1>On the That's exactly what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm saying it shouldn't matter. It won't matter in

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<v Speaker 2>the end. Don't like you, guys, vibe, you kissed, you

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<v Speaker 2>had a great time.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, you're taking this whole thing a Yorkgan brush. This

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<v Speaker 4>whole thing is about you and helping you out. How

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<v Speaker 4>do you feel in this moment?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm out, Like, I understand we put her on the spot,

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<v Speaker 5>but she just torched my ego and I don't I

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<v Speaker 5>don't need that in my life, you know. I also,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not interested in being arm candy. Like I'm a

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<v Speaker 5>good dude. Irock.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what we're gonna do, Sean. I'm not even

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<v Speaker 4>gonna ask Janine to get a second date. Wow, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>sorry that that happened.

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<v Speaker 5>Man, Can you hook me up with the second date

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<v Speaker 5>with somebody else? Because I do have other matches.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, all right, that sounds good. Sean calls back when

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<v Speaker 4>they ditch you coming up.

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<v Speaker 2>It is what the segment is.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't need it as a little boys.

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<v Speaker 5>That's right, Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 4>In the morning, our textports flooding with people right now

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<v Speaker 4>who want to be Sean's arm candy at the reunion.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, lease, can we set him up?

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<v Speaker 4>We should? I as his phone numbers and I guess

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<v Speaker 4>he'll have to sort out who's going to be hot

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<v Speaker 4>enough to make her jealous again. Alexis brings up a

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<v Speaker 4>good point. They both never went to that wander in.

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<v Speaker 2>You just say that your name, I don't know, Michael,

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<v Speaker 2>be a Michael.

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<v Speaker 1>There's like eight thousand Michaels every high school.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, there's a million of the conversations that's like hey

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<v Speaker 4>you yeah, familiar, bigger picture here.

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<v Speaker 5>You know.

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<v Speaker 4>What I really liked is how our community rallies around

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<v Speaker 4>somebody like shot. I mean, we do a charity drive

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<v Speaker 4>for needy cats, nobody shows up, a revenge call for

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<v Speaker 4>some Goo basically had to get an extra security guard

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<v Speaker 4>at the door because there's so many volunteers. A story

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