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Speaker 1: All right, it's your Second Date Update podcast, and today

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Speaker 1: we've got a woman who claims she's a one month Yeah,

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Speaker 1: apparently it's a I don't know if it's a trend,

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Speaker 1: but it's what she does. She waits an entire thirty

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Speaker 1: days before they meet up again.

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Speaker 2: I know, I'm I'm not gonna believe why, but.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna get to that in Your Second Date Update.

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Speaker 1: We always like to start, of course, the podcast with

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Speaker 1: some great comments because we have the most amazing listeners.

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Speaker 3: Yeah we do, and including Espinoza, who commented and said,

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Speaker 3: damn it, y'all crack me up. My name is Arlene

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Speaker 3: and I listen to you guys every morning when I

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Speaker 3: go to work at five am.

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Speaker 4: Brooky love your girl.

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Speaker 5: You the man.

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Speaker 3: Jose you man, you rock. You remind me of myself

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Speaker 3: just a man version. Alexis girl, you in the back,

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Speaker 3: but you still count girl.

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Speaker 2: Love listening to you guys.

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Speaker 3: Keep it up. I love Arlene's energy.

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Speaker 2: That's awesome. Arlene.

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Speaker 1: Hey, thank you everyone who comments, who subscribes to new Shares,

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Speaker 1: We love you and Lestlie Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for making us laugh. All right, now it's our turn.

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Speaker 2: Let's get to the second day.

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Speaker 4: Second date of day. Dating online right now is like

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Speaker 4: being a contestant on a really stressful game show. At

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Speaker 4: least that's how our listener Sean felt, because he was

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Speaker 4: challenged recently by the lady he's interested in, and she

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Speaker 4: gave him one simple but agonizing question to answer. If

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Speaker 4: he got it right, there's a date and possibly a

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Speaker 4: new car. If he got it wrong, might never see

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Speaker 4: her profile picture again, and Steve Harvey would look at

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Speaker 4: him in shame and disgust. I am intrigued by this

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Speaker 4: new age of dating, and I can't wait to hear

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Speaker 4: what the question was. But first, Sean, tell us about

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Speaker 4: this mystery game show girl that you met. Who is she?

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Speaker 5: Her name is Janine and she is super hot?

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Speaker 2: Oh god, super hot Janine?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, with really white teeth, Like, my god, their teeth

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Speaker 1: are so white.

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Speaker 4: And what was the question that Janine challenged you with?

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Speaker 5: The question was country or wrap? Which has to go Country?

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Speaker 2: Obviously? Country?

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, rap, I mean I don't want to get

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Speaker 4: rid of either one if I'm a hard question. Okay, Well,

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Speaker 4: what did you say, Sean?

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Speaker 5: I said ditch country. But that picture of you drinking

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Speaker 5: champagne on the beach is the best picture on this app,

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Speaker 5: and I think that's what got her.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that was it felt like you didn't transition.

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Speaker 2: Well, ye did that compliment?

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Speaker 4: What did she say?

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Speaker 5: She said that I failed the main question.

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Speaker 4: That's the thing. Girls love country.

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Speaker 5: But I got bonus points for appreciating her pitch.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, so you got somewhere.

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Speaker 4: Smart to slip the compliment.

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Speaker 2: What did you guys end up doing?

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Speaker 5: You know, I ended up kind of going back and forth,

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Speaker 5: like within the app, I joked about zooming in on

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Speaker 5: the picture and she was like, what are you, you know,

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Speaker 5: like purving out. I mean I was like, no, zooming

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Speaker 5: in to see what kind of champagne's drinking. I want

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Speaker 5: to know if you're drinking the classy stuff, you know.

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Speaker 4: Okay, also I know your swim suit size now. But

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Speaker 4: what did you end up doing for your date?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 4: Did you take her on a long drive down a

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Speaker 2: Girl with the champagne of her choice.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he rents a pickup truck for the day.

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Speaker 5: I took her on a very short drive to a restaurant. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: A type of restaurant is Asian sushi like buffet kind

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Speaker 4: Couldn't be less country than Asian.

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Speaker 2: Country.

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Speaker 5: So good, so delicious.

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Speaker 2: How was it? I mean that's I always think sushi

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Speaker 5: It is, Yeah, it was. It was great. And it

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Speaker 5: It not hot.

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Speaker 4: This is taking in front of her eyes, but don't

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Speaker 2: There's high end malls that have like high end.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, give us some highlights here from the day.

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Speaker 4: What are some good things that happened at sushi?

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Speaker 5: Well, it was good. Sushi was like pretty high end

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Speaker 5: best thing about that location is being close to the

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Speaker 5: shopping center is you have the opportunity to extend your date.

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Speaker 4: Like, oh, do you want to go build a bear together?

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Speaker 2: I forgot I'd like that. I was going to you

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Speaker 2: know your age.

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Speaker 1: It's not shocking at all, little cowboy add on.

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Speaker 5: Is going to do this?

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Speaker 4: Is that what you did? Sean?

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Speaker 5: We actually she had a high school reunion coming up,

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Speaker 5: so she wanted to try on some clothes for that.

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Speaker 5: So I went over to a department store and she'd

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Speaker 5: to me, and I got to put my input in there,

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Speaker 5: and it was cute. It was fun.

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Speaker 3: That's how you know she's hot, though, because I wouldn't

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Speaker 2: It was so bad, you know, it's like a couple

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know she's literally going to ask you do

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Speaker 4: I look bad?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: You have to be prepared for that. Yeah, as a guy,

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Speaker 4: that doesn't sound very fun to me to watch women

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Speaker 4: put on a bunch of different outfits. But how was

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Speaker 5: Sean? It was fun. We I think we really hit

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Speaker 5: it off. And at the end of the day she said, hey,

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Speaker 5: let's hang again soon and we kiss. You did, Yeah,

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Speaker 5: she initiated a case.

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Speaker 2: Well, she initiated a kiss.

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Speaker 5: Well, it was kind of. It was mutual, because.

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Speaker 2: How are you on the phone with us and not

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I asked her when she was free,

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I thought she was joking. I laughed,

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Speaker 5: and then she didn't laugh, and I said, are you joking,

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Speaker 5: and she said no, I'm just super busy, but I

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Speaker 2: I want to see you in thirty one days.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's long, but it seems like a red flag,

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Speaker 4: like what what's going through your mind when you hear that, Sean.

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Speaker 5: She's dating other people, which is okay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's obvious, right, or yeah, maybe already

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Speaker 2: That's what I was thinking. He goes out of town.

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Speaker 4: Yeah all right, So has it been a month since

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Speaker 4: that date happened and now we're reaching out?

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Speaker 5: It's been closer to a week. But you know I'm

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Speaker 5: not going to wait a whole on her.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Rat Boy doesn't play by the rules. He just waits

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Speaker 4: a week and then calls that country girl.

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Speaker 2: I mean you just saying rat Boy shows.

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Speaker 6: My name is rat Boy.

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Speaker 4: Young and Jeffery is about to u drop the mic.

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Speaker 4: We're just gonna play a song, an old school song,

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Speaker 4: and then we'll come back. We'll call Janine for you

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Speaker 4: and try and get you a second date. All right,

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Speaker 4: all right, all right, hold on man.

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Speaker 6: Second yo, yo.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this is the little rat Boy. I'm on the

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Speaker 4: mic because hip hop music is the stuff I like.

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Speaker 4: It's whack yet makes me yawn.

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Speaker 6: Rather do mansushi with my homeboy, Sean? Yeah, boy, why

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Speaker 6: like winky what Sean's my god?

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Speaker 2: To go ahead, Sean.

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Speaker 5: But deadly Sean, I don't know if I'm going to

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Speaker 5: top that. That was incredible.

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Speaker 4: That's a good answer little rap boys at the top

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Speaker 4: of his game.

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Speaker 2: Yea country.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what is going on. We're talking to

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Speaker 4: Sean who's a big fan of rap music over country music.

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Speaker 4: But anyway, he recently went out with a girl that

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Speaker 4: he met online named Janine. They went to mal Sushi

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Speaker 2: It was a nice place.

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Speaker 4: It was a nice mall sushi, classy one. He even

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Speaker 4: went with her to the mall and helped her pick

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Speaker 4: out an outfit for her high school reunion that was

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Speaker 4: coming up. But afterwards, even though it ended with a date,

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Speaker 4: she said, we need to wait at least a month

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Speaker 4: is that what I said?

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Speaker 2: It was a date? Said, okay, I know what you meant.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know if everybody else did.

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Speaker 4: Still in that, you know, wrap mode hardcore rap. But anyway,

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Speaker 4: he is not waiting the full month. He wants us

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Speaker 4: to call just a week after that date to figure out.

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Speaker 4: Why does he have to wait so long?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Maybe there's like like a waiting period.

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Speaker 2: You have to take a number and come on. She's

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Speaker 4: And Sean. You think that maybe the reason is that

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Speaker 4: she could already be involved with somebody else.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah, it could even be something serious if it's

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Speaker 2: Okay, was she pregnant? Maybe she's about to get.

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Speaker 5: Sushi.

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Speaker 1: If she's pregnant, you can get the fried stuff.

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Speaker 4: We're just gonna assume that she's not pregnant, and we're

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Speaker 4: gonna call her and see what she has to say.

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Speaker 4: Why does Sean have to wait a full month to

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Speaker 4: go out with her? A madollar number? Right now here

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Speaker 4: we go? Hello, Hey, is this Jeanine? Yeah, yo, Jeanine?

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Speaker 4: What's up?

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Speaker 2: Country boy?

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Speaker 5: That's right?

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Speaker 4: What's up y'all?

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Speaker 2: Hi, Jeanine.

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Speaker 1: Hi.

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Speaker 4: This is jeff and Company from the morning show Brook

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Speaker 4: and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, my morning radio show, and.

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Speaker 4: We're calling because we have some questions for you about

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Speaker 4: one of our listeners that you went out on a

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Speaker 4: date with. The other day. I'm sorry, it's weird, weird.

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Speaker 4: I understand that, but we're reaching out on behalf of

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Speaker 4: our boy Sean, remember Sean. Yeah, yeah, so we've we

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Speaker 4: heard a little bit about your date and it sounded

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Speaker 4: good on our end, but he told us that afterwards,

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Speaker 4: you said that he had to wait a whole month

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Speaker 4: before he was allowed to see you again.

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Speaker 5: Yes, they did.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so, I mean pretty long.

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Speaker 1: From my perspective, that just means you are not like

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Speaker 1: you're putting it off like why. I mean, if you

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Speaker 1: like somebody, you find time.

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Speaker 5: Unless you're going out of town. No, I'm not going

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Speaker 7: It's just it's a little it's a little awkward. I'm

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Speaker 4: We love awkward, yeah, we do.

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Speaker 1: And listen, I mean, you've got a guy that it

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Speaker 4: I mean, we're here to try and help you, Jine.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's just so I don't know. I don't know

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Speaker 4: I don't understand why. Why do you have to wait

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Speaker 2: Does What are you embarrassed of him?

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Speaker 1: You call us like.

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Speaker 7: Okay, you go to your high school reunion and you

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Speaker 2: But you're attracted to him.

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Speaker 5: I am like, he's he's fine looking, fine out.

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Speaker 2: For material personality wise.

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Speaker 4: It's like one of those people of their personality makes

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Speaker 2: Yeah, why would that matter your reunion?

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Speaker 7: I'm just afraid if we start dating, he would expect

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Speaker 1: Like you can't.

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Speaker 4: I could think of a great way that you can

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you don't need to worry about inviting me to

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Speaker 7: Oh I wish I was doing that before I said

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Speaker 7: that would sound bad, and that's why I didn't say

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Speaker 5: I do like you.

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Speaker 7: I do want to see you again. I mean, do

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Speaker 7: you kind of understand where I'm coming from? Maybe then

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Speaker 5: No, not at all. You put on a real performance

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Speaker 5: I would want to go to your high school reunion anyway,

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Speaker 5: Like I don't want to high school reunions suck. I don't.

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Speaker 5: I didn't even want to go to mine, So why

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Speaker 5: That's not what I'm about.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I think this whole thing, like its really weird.

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Speaker 2: Sean, Are you really over it?

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Speaker 1: I mean, she didn't mean to hurt your feelings, She's

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I understand her like desire to want to do that.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that it's the right thing to do.

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Speaker 2: But I get it.

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Speaker 4: You're you're basically calling Sean a dor around house.

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Speaker 2: I'm saying she must have used to have been a

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Speaker 4: Okay, now you're calling both people.

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Speaker 1: On the That's exactly what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: But I'm saying it shouldn't matter. It won't matter in

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Speaker 4: Okay, you're taking this whole thing a Yorkgan brush. This

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Speaker 5: I'm out, Like, I understand we put her on the spot,

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Speaker 5: but she just torched my ego and I don't I

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Speaker 5: don't need that in my life, you know. I also,

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Speaker 5: I'm not interested in being arm candy. Like I'm a

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Speaker 5: good dude. Irock.

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Speaker 4: You know what we're gonna do, Sean. I'm not even

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Speaker 4: gonna ask Janine to get a second date. Wow, I'm

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Speaker 4: sorry that that happened.

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Speaker 5: Man, Can you hook me up with the second date

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Speaker 5: with somebody else? Because I do have other matches.

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Speaker 4: Hey, all right, that sounds good. Sean calls back when

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Speaker 4: they ditch you coming up.

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Speaker 2: It is what the segment is.

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Speaker 4: I didn't need it as a little boys.

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Speaker 5: That's right, Jeffrey.

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Speaker 4: In the morning, our textports flooding with people right now

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Speaker 4: who want to be Sean's arm candy at the reunion.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, lease, can we set him up?

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Speaker 4: We should? I as his phone numbers and I guess

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Speaker 4: he'll have to sort out who's going to be hot

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Speaker 4: enough to make her jealous again. Alexis brings up a

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Speaker 4: good point. They both never went to that wander in.

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Speaker 2: You just say that your name, I don't know, Michael,

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Speaker 1: There's like eight thousand Michaels every high school.

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Speaker 4: Right, there's a million of the conversations that's like hey

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Speaker 4: you yeah, familiar, bigger picture here.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 4: What I really liked is how our community rallies around

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Speaker 4: somebody like shot. I mean, we do a charity drive

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