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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at adocusla dot com.

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Speaker 2: Melissa is on the phone today for our first Date

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Speaker 2: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Austin.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and

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Speaker 2: see if you'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe

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Speaker 2: get her another date. But first, Melissa, how long has

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Speaker 2: it been since you heard from Austin.

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Speaker 3: It's been about a week.

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Speaker 4: So did you try to reach out to him?

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Speaker 3: I have, Yeah, I mean I just kind of distinct

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Speaker 3: him for a wonder full time, and I would love

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Speaker 3: to do it again soon. And I haven't heard of anything.

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Speaker 3: But I thought, you know, our date was really solid,

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Speaker 3: so I'm I'm really surprised.

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Speaker 4: Sure, why don't you tell us about the date?

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Speaker 3: Sure? Okay, Well, we met on bumble. You know, I

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Speaker 3: was instantly attracted to him, just to set you up,

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Speaker 3: you know, just to know the backstory a little bit

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Speaker 3: before the date, Like, you know, we had talked for

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Speaker 3: a couple of weeks and and you know, we had

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Speaker 3: some really great phone conversations, so like the anticipation to meet

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Speaker 3: in person was like super high. We met at an

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Speaker 3: indoor mini golf arcade place, and we like kissed right away.

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Speaker 3: It was it felt like we were magnets.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's hot.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I really haven't felt like something like this before.

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Speaker 3: Starts were flying. The date was just super hot and exciting,

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Speaker 3: so yeah, I didn't want the night to end. And

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Speaker 3: we went back to Austin. We started talking about life

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Speaker 3: while we're staring at the sky from the falcony, and

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Speaker 3: we hooked up. Okay, so yeah, like the chemistry was

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Speaker 3: just crazy.

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Speaker 4: Kissed right away. Describe like what happened there.

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Speaker 3: So, since we were talking for a couple of weeks

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Speaker 3: and it was building up, I already felt really familiar,

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Speaker 3: like I've known him. So when I saw him waiting

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Speaker 3: for me at the front, I just like instantly like

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Speaker 3: ran up to him and he like scooped me up,

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Speaker 3: and it was like out of a movie.

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Speaker 4: Like wow, okay, sounds like yeah.

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Speaker 3: It was like that dirty dancing scene, you know, like

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Speaker 3: were you you know, and it just felt so spontaneous

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Speaker 3: and we just instantly felt super comfortable.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 3: It was really sweet. So anyway, I left in the morning,

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Speaker 3: and you know, I told him verbally like can't wait

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Speaker 3: to see him again, and you know, I joked that,

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Speaker 3: you know, he better call me, and he said, of course,

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Speaker 3: and that was it. And I'm so confused.

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Speaker 4: Did anything happen like that would have made him not

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Speaker 4: call you back?

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Speaker 3: I mean, the only thing that I can think about

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Speaker 3: was like, I do have a kid, and I wasn't

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Speaker 3: completely upfront with him, but like I needed to know,

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Speaker 3: like that something was really there, that it really was

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Speaker 3: real and being met like I knew that it was.

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Speaker 3: It's just like a hard thing to slip in when

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Speaker 3: you're on an amusing leet. But as I was leaving,

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Speaker 3: I told him I I need to get home to my.

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Speaker 4: Kids, and okay and.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, and I kept it light. I didn't like

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Speaker 3: really want to get into it, just because I really

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Speaker 3: was like processing that news as I was leaving. I

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Speaker 3: don't know, he seemed like he internalized it, but it

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Speaker 3: seemed like we you know, I did say, let's talk

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Speaker 3: about it next time, and it seemed like that was

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Speaker 3: definitely a conversation, like I'm open to having NFLT, like

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Speaker 3: he's someone that would also be open having that conversation.

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Speaker 3: That's just why I'm just surprised because he seems like

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Speaker 1: Well you could be processing though, because you know, if

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Speaker 1: real feelings are starting to develop at that point, then

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Speaker 1: you really have to ask yourself, like, Okay, you know

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Speaker 1: what role am I going to play with somebody that

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Speaker 1: has a child? Like, how does that work?

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Speaker 4: We'll see.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song come back, and then call him

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Speaker 2: and seefa tell us why he's ghosting, maybe get you

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Speaker 2: another date?

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, all right, this sounds good.

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Speaker 2: All right, we'll play a song come back, get your

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Speaker 2: first a follow up next. Right in the middle of

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Speaker 2: your first date follow up, if you're just joining us,

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Speaker 2: Melissa is on the phone and Melissa is getting ghosted

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Speaker 2: by Austin. So we're about to call him and see

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Speaker 2: if he'll tell us why is ghostinger and maybe get

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Speaker 2: her another date? But first, Melissa, why don't you catch

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Speaker 2: us up on your situation?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? So I met this incredible guy off of Bumble.

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Speaker 3: We talked for a couple of weeks, went on this

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Speaker 3: like mind blowing date. We hooked up. The chemistry was

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Speaker 3: off the chart, and lo and behold, I listen when

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Speaker 3: I'm walking out the door, I get home to my kid,

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Speaker 3: and I feel like I sleepd him out and I

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Speaker 3: haven't heard from him since, and it's been a week.

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Speaker 4: Because that was the first time that you told him

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Speaker 4: that you had a kid, was when you were leaving.

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Speaker 3: Yes, but I do feel like we, you know, coming

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Speaker 3: in hot with our chemistry. I just felt like it

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Speaker 3: wasn't ever the right time to really unpass that. But

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Speaker 3: I feel like that's what a second seat would before.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 3: Yes? Please?

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Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. I man speak to Austin. Please, Yeah, Austin,

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Speaker 2: what's up?

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Speaker 5: Man?

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Speaker 4: This is Jewbil. I'm calling from a radio show. It's

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Speaker 4: called The Jewbil Show. Hi, Austin, I'm Nana also on

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Speaker 4: the show. Hi, I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 5: I've been overwhelming.

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Speaker 4: How are you good?

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Speaker 5: Good? So I'm on the call with three people here.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Have you ever listened to The Jewel Show before?

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Speaker 3: I believe so.

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Speaker 4: Well.

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Speaker 2: We do a segment on the show it's called the

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Speaker 2: First Aid follow Up. That's where if you go out

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Speaker 2: on a day with somebody and then you end up

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Speaker 2: ghosting them, that person can ask us to email you

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Speaker 2: and ask why you're ghosting. And we got an email

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Speaker 2: about you Austin, Okay, you have any idea who it

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Speaker 2: would be, I feel like you do.

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Speaker 5: I feel like it's probably Melissa.

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Speaker 4: You are correct, sir, So you're intentionally ghosting her.

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Speaker 5: I don't know if I would use the word ghosting.

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Speaker 5: I kind of yeah, I did put some space there

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Speaker 5: and then call her.

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Speaker 4: Do you mind telling us why she wants to know?

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Speaker 5: Oh? Man, it's kind of complex. I feel like when

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Speaker 5: people want to get together that they should have a

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Speaker 5: clean space for each other.

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Speaker 3: You know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: Clean space.

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Speaker 5: So she's got a whole situation going on with her.

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Speaker 5: I don't know if she's if she lives with her,

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Speaker 5: she has, she had a kid. I always say this

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Speaker 5: without putting any So we we stay stayed together at

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Speaker 5: my place, and it was like in the morning, I'm

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Speaker 5: half asleep because we you know, we have some drinks.

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Speaker 5: We had a good time, and her phone's going off

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Speaker 3: Like, is that my phone? No?

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Speaker 5: No, no, oh, it's hers, okay, and you know she's

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Speaker 5: texting and doing whatever. And then she picks up the phone.

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Speaker 5: She thinks I'm asleep, I'm sure, and she's like whispering,

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Speaker 5: but she's like she sounds really tense, like someone's barking

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Speaker 5: at her on the phone, and I hear her saying like, oh, no, no, no,

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Speaker 5: I have too much to drink, so I'm staying at

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Speaker 3: And I was like, like what.

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Speaker 5: And then before she hangs up, I could hear it

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Speaker 5: just said I love you, right, And so I'm standing

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Speaker 5: there like like what up. I don't know if I

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Speaker 5: can cuss on the radio, but like, you know, waiting

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Speaker 5: you have a kid. I don't know why you're telling

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Speaker 5: me now, and you didn't tell me earlier, but I mean,

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Speaker 5: it's not going to make me ghost you. But then

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Speaker 5: I'm waiting there for her to explain further. But then

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Speaker 4: And what a baby daddy?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: She said something about a baby daddy like I'm oh,

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Speaker 5: I'm so sorry my baby daddy for waking you up

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Speaker 5: answering the phone from your baby daddy. Clearly you're going

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Speaker 4: But a kid though.

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Speaker 5: No, the conversation that she was happy, I couldn't make

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry, I no, no, I've just got drunk. I'm

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Speaker 5: staying at her friend's I'll be home soon. I heard

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Speaker 5: I had a great time with her, and it was

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Speaker 3: I was shocked.

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Speaker 5: I said, wow, so you're getting involved with me, but

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Speaker 4: Well, thanks for telling us. I appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: And now I'll let you know that she's actually on

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Speaker 2: the phone listening to you.

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Speaker 3: Hi, Austin. Yeah, I'm happy to hear it. Yeah. I mean,

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Speaker 3: this was my idea to have you on the radio,

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Speaker 3: so I wanted to hear your side of the story.

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Speaker 3: All I can say is that, yes, my child's father,

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Speaker 3: you know, he is still in love with me and

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Speaker 3: I just felt like it's best right now to keep

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Speaker 3: I play along, but we are definitely not together.

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Speaker 4: So he thinks you're together.

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Speaker 3: For our kids, you know, because we want to have

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Speaker 3: a family unit for him. And it's not scared our kid. Yes,

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Speaker 3: because we didn't work out that we have a divided

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Speaker 4: You're with him.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, like I said, like it's for our kid

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Speaker 3: right now, it's a temporary situation until it changes.

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Speaker 5: Well, listen, listen. Obviously we have a great time and

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Speaker 5: we connect at a very deep level physically, we're drawn

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Speaker 5: It's very noble that you put your child first, but

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Speaker 5: at the end of the day, you basically have a boyfriend.

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Speaker 5: He thinks that all you have to do is work

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Speaker 5: It is just so dramatic.

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Speaker 3: It's like, like, for what it's worth, he knows that

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Speaker 5: That's what you say, and with all due respect, men

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Speaker 5: don't see it like that. They see it as you're

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Speaker 3: And at the end of the day.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 5: I know you say you're playing along, but obviously he

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Speaker 3: So no matter what, you yeah, I'm the person I'm.

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Speaker 1: In love with you, because that's going to be an

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Speaker 5: I think if you clean up your situation, it takes

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Speaker 5: the relationship is with him, Like if you're not with him,

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Speaker 5: me ask you one question. Do you do you sleep

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Speaker 3: Melissa, I'm not gonna lie to you. Yes, but it's

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Speaker 5: Okay, So you have no business even talking to me.

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Speaker 5: And that sucks to say because I had a great

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Speaker 3: No body too. I just know that I won't find

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Speaker 4: So you know I tried, Well, Austin, would you like

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Speaker 4: to go out? Wasn't Melstena again? We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 5: I can't do that right now. I mean, in a year,

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Speaker 5: if things change, call me back up, give us a

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Speaker 3: But right now I respect that, and you know, I'll

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Speaker 3: clean up my situation and I hope you don't meet

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Speaker 3: someone else, and I'll call you however long it takes.

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Speaker 3: You know, i'll circle back.

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Speaker 4: Good luck, guys, Thank you. The First Date follow up