1 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:03,280 Speaker 1: So you only follow pretty people? 2 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:05,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, like I only like to see pretty stuff on 3 00:00:05,559 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 2: my timeline, ugly people on my timeline. Like it like 4 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 2: it triggers like oh God, I'm like, why so huts 5 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:14,920 Speaker 2: you again? 6 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 3: Yes? 7 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 4: Fred show is on Miss Monday, Secember fifteen. It's a 8 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:23,480 Speaker 4: fread show. 9 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 1: Hi Kailin, Hi. Jason Brown pulling us out today. Kiki 10 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 1: yea Shelby Shelley. 11 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:32,160 Speaker 4: Belahamine eight five five five nine one one three five 12 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 4: context the same number. Kiki's Court is next by I'm 13 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:35,920 Speaker 4: bomb girl. 14 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:37,480 Speaker 1: What are you doing here? 15 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 4: The biggest stories of the day, headlines, fun fact and 16 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 4: the entertainment of work coming up this hour. 17 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 1: What's in their case? 18 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 5: I'll tell you about the youngest person ever to win 19 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 5: an Emmy Order. 20 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 1: It's a fread show. 21 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:52,919 Speaker 4: It's Kiki's Court, all right, The Honorable Kikilik is here. 22 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 4: Judge Kiki eight, take it away. 23 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 5: Wait all right, let's get into the court room. 24 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 2: The gabble has been and hits all right, It says 25 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 2: Heiki Key, am I wrong for refusing to let my 26 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 2: ex husband bring his former mistress to our child's birthday party. 27 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 2: I've been divorced for three years and since the divorce. 28 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:15,679 Speaker 2: My ex and I have always celebrated our kids' birthdays 29 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 2: together as a family. It's the only day of the 30 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 2: year that we keep it cordial for our kids. Well, 31 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 2: my ex decided to marry his former mistress at the 32 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 2: beginning of the year, and now his new wife is 33 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 2: demanding to attend my daughter's birthday party and Kiki, it 34 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 2: was an absolute no for me. However, my ex decided 35 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:39,559 Speaker 2: to bring her to the party anyway, and it completely 36 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 2: ruined my daughter's party. I had to have both of 37 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:45,480 Speaker 2: them removed from the party and it caused a big scene. 38 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 2: Now some of my family is saying that I overreacted, 39 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 2: but I don't think I deserve to have to eat 40 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 2: cake with a woman that ruined my family. 41 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:55,280 Speaker 5: Am I wrong? 42 00:01:55,600 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 1: M judge Kiki? All right, I say you, you know, at. 43 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 2: First, you know I always want to take the woman's side. 44 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 1: This is what I do. 45 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 2: But I had to really think about this, and I 46 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 2: think both of you are selfish, the ex husband and 47 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:11,920 Speaker 2: and you. You know, I feel like you are selfish 48 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 2: as well, because in that moment, I told my ex 49 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:16,959 Speaker 2: not to bring the lady to the party. So he's 50 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 2: selfish for bringing her because he should have just suggested 51 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:21,519 Speaker 2: in that moment, Okay, well we need to start having 52 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:23,679 Speaker 2: separate birthday parties. I'm not going to ask this man 53 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 2: to disrespect his new wife, you know what I'm saying. 54 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 2: I can understand him wanting her to be there whatever. 55 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 2: Then if he if he was mature, I feel like 56 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 2: he would have said, okay, well we need to start 57 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:35,640 Speaker 2: having separate birthday parties if you're not going to allow 58 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 2: my wife to attend Boom. 59 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 4: This is especially precarious though, because of the of the 60 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 4: cheating element. 61 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:41,840 Speaker 5: Exactly. 62 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 4: This isn't like they broke up and then went their 63 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:46,520 Speaker 4: separate ways and met different people and then those different 64 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:48,799 Speaker 4: people aren't allowed to be there. I mean this, he 65 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 4: was cheating with this woman, So it's a slap in 66 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 4: the face. It's also run However, Judge Kiki, it is 67 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 4: not about them. It is about the kid exactly. That 68 00:02:59,080 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 4: needs to behave. 69 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 2: In my opinion, when she arrived to my daughter's birthday party, 70 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 2: I would have tried to keep my coup and so 71 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 2: after the party, like, I wouldn't have caused the scene 72 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 2: had them removed, I would have like, you know what, 73 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:12,400 Speaker 2: I'm gonna eat this today for my kid. But after this, 74 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 2: I'm gonna deal with both of y'all. You know, that 75 00:03:14,200 --> 00:03:16,920 Speaker 2: would have been my mentality towards it. But I feel 76 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:18,800 Speaker 2: like he could have also just suggested that they have 77 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:21,639 Speaker 2: separate birthday parties because he knew how she felt about 78 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 2: this before the party. 79 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:23,239 Speaker 1: So I think they're both. 80 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:27,359 Speaker 4: Selfish eight five five three five context the same number 81 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 4: you guys are the jury. Yeah, yeah, I think if 82 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 4: the family dynamic is such that everybody can't get along 83 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 4: and the guy married the mistress, which means she's the 84 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 4: stepmom now and she's going to be around for the 85 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 4: foreseeable future, then they either have to agree to cooperate 86 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 4: or they have to have separate events. Because I mean, 87 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 4: for how long can you mean the mistress part and 88 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 4: the cheating part is unfortunate, but for how long can 89 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 4: you say this woman you married cannot be a part 90 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 4: of this little unit over here? Like how long can 91 00:03:57,480 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 4: you keep her out? You know what is done? 92 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. 93 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 2: And you want to say, you know, be the bigger 94 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 2: person for your kids, But like you said, it's a 95 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 2: sensitive situation. She was the mistress. She you know, she 96 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 2: played a part in my family falling apart. You're entitled 97 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 2: to that. But when you're at your kid's birthday party, like, 98 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 2: come on, let's all be adults until this is over 99 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 2: with and then we can fight in the parking. 100 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:23,720 Speaker 1: Lot, you know, like like adults. You know, yeah, like 101 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 1: like civilized like normal people. Yeah, take it outside, well, 102 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:29,039 Speaker 1: because the kid's. 103 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 4: Gonna remember this now, you know, the kids go people 104 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 4: getting the drug out of parties and all this stuff. 105 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 1: You don't forget stuff like that. 106 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I mean you expressed that to your ex 107 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 2: before you told him no. 108 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:40,599 Speaker 5: He clearly doesn't listen. 109 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 2: But I feel like he's selfish because he could have 110 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:45,280 Speaker 2: just said, Okay, well, my wife wants to be there, 111 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 2: so we will celebrate another time. 112 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 6: Right, But at some point too, like when can he 113 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:52,599 Speaker 6: take responsibility for like what he's done in the past 114 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:55,600 Speaker 6: and maybe oblige his ACX a little bit, Like you 115 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 6: messed up, but at least you know, you're supposedly happy 116 00:04:58,000 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 6: now you're with the mistress, like you can go on 117 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:03,040 Speaker 6: and live of your life, but like for your acts, 118 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:05,039 Speaker 6: like maybe the mother of your kids, like maybe just 119 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:07,360 Speaker 6: oblige her because you were a dirty dog. 120 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 2: Right, you know, But then he has to go home 121 00:05:09,200 --> 00:05:11,840 Speaker 2: to the new wife. And she's like, you're telling me 122 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 2: I can't come somewhere with you. 123 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 1: I'm your wife. You know that can be a whole thing. 124 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:21,159 Speaker 4: So, yeah, it's messy, Yeah it is. Hey Michelle, Hey, hey, 125 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 4: so do you you've lived this? You know these stories? 126 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:23,920 Speaker 7: I lived it? 127 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:25,559 Speaker 5: Yes, I lived this story. 128 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:26,360 Speaker 1: What happened? 129 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:31,720 Speaker 8: Dad cheated on my mom. Mom found out and gave 130 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:35,359 Speaker 8: him ultimatum. Dad chose to leave, and so at that 131 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 8: point then there was they separated, and then he's been 132 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 8: with her now for thirty years, and so she's the 133 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:47,840 Speaker 8: first probably five years is a little bit hectic. But 134 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:50,599 Speaker 8: then Mom receiated and she's like, I'm not gonna, you know, 135 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:54,840 Speaker 8: ruin my children's birthdays and holidays because this. 136 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:55,839 Speaker 6: Woman ruined stuff. 137 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 7: I'm going to be a bigger person. 138 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:03,480 Speaker 8: And Mom did talk to her, but everybody was invited 139 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:04,000 Speaker 8: to everything. 140 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:07,359 Speaker 4: Yeah, no one's asking anyone to be friends here, you know. 141 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 4: And I realized that when you're not involved, it's easy 142 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 4: to say, but at some point it's about the kid 143 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 4: or kids or whatever. And so you know, either you 144 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 4: you have to choose to accept it and and and 145 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 4: just keep your distance and cooperate or or I don't know, 146 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:24,239 Speaker 4: what the alternative is. Everything's divisive and and and there's 147 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:27,599 Speaker 4: never any semblance of mom and dad getting along ever again. 148 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:29,919 Speaker 4: And I don't know. I mean, maybe that's better than this, 149 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 4: but yeah, what do you say? 150 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:34,559 Speaker 8: I see that the past thing was was my parents 151 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 8: still got along, but the new. 152 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:39,000 Speaker 7: Wife didn't like the fact that they got along. 153 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 4: A minute, you're a mistress, you'd a mistress, and that 154 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:46,440 Speaker 4: you complaining about the nahha. You don't get a vote 155 00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 4: in this. No, you don't get a voting in the 156 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:51,600 Speaker 4: functionality of a relationship that failed because there was infidelity. 157 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:52,719 Speaker 1: You don't get a vote in this. 158 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 5: Exactly who I mean those little metal mistresses? 159 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:00,919 Speaker 1: Oh now you're insecure. 160 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:02,760 Speaker 4: Oh wait a minute, So you weren't insecure when you were, 161 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 4: when you were part of the demise of a relationship. 162 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:07,839 Speaker 4: But now they're insecure because they get along because you 163 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:09,800 Speaker 4: know that your lot Flosi. 164 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 1: If she knew right, we'll care the other. 165 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 4: To give it a bit of another day. Thank you, Michelle, 166 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 4: A good day. Thank you for suaring. Now I want 167 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:21,280 Speaker 4: to go live to Hadley Man. Now Hadley is eleven, 168 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 4: Hadley Hadley, Yes, you are a little young to be 169 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 4: chiming in on this, but I'd still like to hear 170 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 4: what you have to say. 171 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 9: Okay, so I agree with Kei Key. I think that 172 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 9: even though the ex wife said don't bring her and 173 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 9: he decided to bring her is selfish, but also kicking 174 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 9: them out is also selfish. But it shouldn't matter what 175 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 9: the parents want. It should matter what the kids want 176 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 9: because it's the kid's party, not the parents party. 177 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 10: Thank you. 178 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 4: That is a very mature perspective of a situation. I 179 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 4: hope that you do not fully understand at eleven years old. Okay, 180 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 4: yeah you are Hey, you are welcome here anytime. Handley, 181 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:09,840 Speaker 4: have a good day. Thank you, thank you, thank you 182 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 4: so much. A teachable moment right there. Okay, we gotta 183 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 4: we talk about how adults do stupid things and kids 184 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 4: oftentimes have to play the stupid games and get the 185 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 4: stupid prizes because the adults did stupid stuff. 186 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 1: Hey, Chrizly, Chris, what's up? 187 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:25,080 Speaker 3: Bray? 188 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 1: How you doing? Hey, what's going on? Brother? What do 189 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 1: you think in Kiki's court? 190 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:32,440 Speaker 3: Well, listen, I feel for the lady. 191 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:35,560 Speaker 10: I feel for the mom who's hosting the party, but 192 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 10: if she's trying to be a control freak, the man, 193 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 10: look the past is the past. 194 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:43,400 Speaker 3: When you get married, that person's won. It's a package deal. 195 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 10: We see a lot of times where people try to 196 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:47,319 Speaker 10: control situations. 197 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 1: Because they don't like the result. And further, if it were. 198 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 10: Reversed or if she were married at the time as well, 199 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:54,320 Speaker 10: she wouldn't. 200 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 9: Have a problem. 201 00:08:56,080 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 1: Yeah. 202 00:08:57,440 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it's easier said than done, man, because 203 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 4: you know now you I looked as woman in the 204 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:04,959 Speaker 4: eye who was part of the demise of your family. 205 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 4: And again, I don't know the whole situation here. It's 206 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:09,400 Speaker 4: never really as cut and dry as one person just 207 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 4: teaches it. 208 00:09:09,920 --> 00:09:11,600 Speaker 1: It's very rarely and dry. 209 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:16,600 Speaker 10: Yeah, but they're always listen, it's a divorce, so you know, 210 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 10: somebody's not going to be happy. But at the end 211 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 10: of the day, you cannot control the other person when 212 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 10: you're that's half this kid, when you're no longer married 213 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 10: to them. It's just that's how it is. So you know, 214 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 10: that's that's the type of thing that does the kid wrong. 215 00:09:34,360 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 10: How did your child learn how to manage conflict if 216 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:39,000 Speaker 10: that's what they see. 217 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 4: No, you're you're right, No, you're right, Thank you, man, 218 00:09:42,080 --> 00:09:45,319 Speaker 4: have a good day. I'm glad you called him, all right, No, 219 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 4: it's true. I mean, it is true. 220 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:47,840 Speaker 5: Get over it. 221 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:50,199 Speaker 4: Well, like the adult's got to be adults, and it's 222 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:53,000 Speaker 4: it's so hard to do. Like no one's saying that's easy. No, 223 00:09:53,160 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 4: but the adults got to be adults, right, Hey all though. 224 00:09:57,400 --> 00:09:58,600 Speaker 1: Hey, hey, how you do a man? 225 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 4: Kiky scoring? So just just to recap here and make 226 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 4: sure I get this right, judge Kiki. But basically, a 227 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:07,520 Speaker 4: woman and her ex husband, they were in a relationship, 228 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:08,199 Speaker 4: they had a kid. 229 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:09,280 Speaker 1: He cheated. 230 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 4: Now he's married to the woman with whom he cheated, 231 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:16,040 Speaker 4: and they have birthday parties every year and the former 232 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:18,559 Speaker 4: husband and wife get together, you know, to celebrate the 233 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 4: kid's birthday, and they're cordial. Now the mistress showing up 234 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 4: the actually it was now the wife. Ye now she's 235 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 4: showing up too. It's making a whole thing uncomfortable. And 236 00:10:25,480 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 4: there was an altercation and people were drug out and 237 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 4: it was a whole thing. 238 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:29,800 Speaker 1: What do you think. 239 00:10:31,760 --> 00:10:34,760 Speaker 3: I think that the new wife, who has nothing to 240 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 3: do with the kid, shouldn't come now that it happened 241 00:10:38,360 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 3: once that sort of it's already happened. And I agree 242 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:46,880 Speaker 3: the kid wasn't thought of by either parent and that issue. 243 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 1: But going forward. 244 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:50,960 Speaker 3: Hey, look, if you want your new wife to have 245 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 3: a party with your daughter, fine, but not with me. 246 00:10:56,160 --> 00:11:00,040 Speaker 3: You know, it's that's simple, and it's simply because I 247 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:02,920 Speaker 3: think mom's a little warm right now. A couple of 248 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:07,480 Speaker 3: years down the road, she'd probably calmed down. It's not 249 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:12,280 Speaker 3: like the daughter doesn't see this new woman when she 250 00:11:12,360 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 3: goes visit her father. We're just talking about the birthday. 251 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree with that. 252 00:11:16,480 --> 00:11:19,160 Speaker 4: I think this is a situation where maybe that woman 253 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:22,040 Speaker 4: doesn't need to be included in this particular event. You know, 254 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 4: you're not saying you can't have a relationship with her, 255 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:26,600 Speaker 4: because you're right. When you go over to his house, 256 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 4: you're gonna meet this woman and develop a relationship hopefully 257 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 4: or whatever. But for this particular thing, maybe she doesn't 258 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 4: need to be there. Maybe this is just mom and 259 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:38,440 Speaker 4: dad handling this so that there's everyone's comfortable. 260 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 1: I agree. Although, thank you, have a good day. You're 261 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:43,080 Speaker 1: too glad you called. Thank you for listening. 262 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:47,280 Speaker 4: A lot of people have lived this, Hey, Lindsey, Yes, Hey, 263 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:47,760 Speaker 4: good morning. 264 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 1: What do you think? 265 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:52,599 Speaker 7: Well, So, being someone that has sort of lived this, 266 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:55,720 Speaker 7: my ex husband and I would do the same thing 267 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:58,960 Speaker 7: for the kids. Celebrate their birthdays together. But once I 268 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 7: started dating some one who I'm now currently married to. 269 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:06,560 Speaker 7: I just got married last Friday. Thank you, thank you, 270 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 7: thank you. I st we've just stopped. You like, once 271 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:15,439 Speaker 7: someone else is involved, I mean, regardless of cheating or 272 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 7: cordially separating, whatever it is, once you have a significant 273 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:22,640 Speaker 7: other or another spouse or I don't feel there's any 274 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 7: reason to have to blend all of it together. Sure, 275 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:29,080 Speaker 7: in passing, kids take up switching weekends, whatever it is, great, 276 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:31,839 Speaker 7: be cordial, Hi, how are you see you later? But 277 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:34,800 Speaker 7: families said there's no reason for it out of respect 278 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:38,959 Speaker 7: for everyone involved. That's uncomfortable. Some people can do it great, 279 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 7: But given the circumstances that he cheated at and she 280 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:48,400 Speaker 7: now the little mistress home wrecker wants to be like 281 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:51,080 Speaker 7: the white or the mom's sot eat cake with the 282 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:55,600 Speaker 7: girl that ruined their family. Absolutely unacceptable. So everyone needs 283 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 7: to be an adult, do the things separately, and the 284 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:02,360 Speaker 7: kids can have three freaking birthday parties. Yeah, you don't 285 00:13:02,440 --> 00:13:04,200 Speaker 7: have to sit face to face with the person that 286 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:05,840 Speaker 7: stirred your whole world up. 287 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, because as a kid, I lived a thing where 288 00:13:08,800 --> 00:13:11,240 Speaker 4: people were trying to force the family unit it's like, well, 289 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:12,960 Speaker 4: these you know, this is your step mom now, and 290 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 4: this is your these are your step brothers. And it's like, no, no, no, 291 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:17,120 Speaker 4: I why do I have to accept? I don't have 292 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:17,760 Speaker 4: to accept this? 293 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 1: Like I don't. I don't. I didn't want any of this. 294 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:22,720 Speaker 1: I don't have Why do I have to like this lady? 295 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:23,480 Speaker 1: Like I didn't. 296 00:13:23,559 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 4: I didn't pick her. You did, and you picked her 297 00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 4: with your pecker. Yeah, so so there, so get her 298 00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:30,080 Speaker 4: out of here and she'll be gone soon anyway. And 299 00:13:30,120 --> 00:13:32,839 Speaker 4: she was thank you, livesey, you have a good day. 300 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:34,679 Speaker 3: Yeah don't. 301 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:35,040 Speaker 1: I don't. 302 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 4: I don't like the whole forced family unit thing. It's like, well, 303 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:39,240 Speaker 4: but she's here now, so you have to accept that. 304 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:39,400 Speaker 4: I know. 305 00:13:39,520 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 1: I don't. 306 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:43,520 Speaker 4: I got a mom and I got a dad's entertainment report. 307 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:44,840 Speaker 1: He's on the Pread show. 308 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 11: Ed Cheron says he has an album called Eject written 309 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:52,440 Speaker 11: into his will now. Remember he dropped a new album 310 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 11: called Play on Friday and shared that he has plans 311 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:59,400 Speaker 11: for four more called Pause, Fast Forward, Rewind, and Stop. 312 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:03,640 Speaker 5: That man loves a group of albums that have a theme. 313 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:06,640 Speaker 5: Remember he used to do math symbols for his name. 314 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:07,680 Speaker 5: The YEP subtract. 315 00:14:08,320 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 11: When asked if Stop would be his final full length release, 316 00:14:11,520 --> 00:14:13,760 Speaker 11: he responded by saying he has one more written into 317 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 11: his will, like I said, called Eject and set up 318 00:14:16,480 --> 00:14:19,720 Speaker 11: where his wife Cherry Cherry Sebone would get to choose 319 00:14:19,760 --> 00:14:22,600 Speaker 11: the songs that go on that final album. He said 320 00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 11: that even if God forbid he dies tomorrow, this album 321 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:28,480 Speaker 11: would be ready to go, and don't worry if you're 322 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:31,400 Speaker 11: a fan. He did say that getting to the release 323 00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 11: of that album Stop is going to take a long time, 324 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 11: but he really does love a theme for a group 325 00:14:36,760 --> 00:14:40,120 Speaker 11: of album names. Fifteen year old Owhen Cooper became the 326 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:43,239 Speaker 11: youngest man to win an Emmy last night, taking. 327 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:45,640 Speaker 5: Home the trophy for his work on Adolescence. 328 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:48,960 Speaker 11: When Adolescents dropped earlier this year, it broke all kinds 329 00:14:48,960 --> 00:14:51,800 Speaker 11: of records for Netflix and I feel. 330 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:53,560 Speaker 5: Like everyone was talking about it. But if you have not. 331 00:14:53,640 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 11: Seen it, it's that movie that was filmed with no cuts, 332 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:58,840 Speaker 11: so it was one take, I believe and followed a 333 00:14:58,920 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 11: dad after his son, played mad by Owen Cooper, was 334 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:03,880 Speaker 11: arrested for the murder of a female school friend. 335 00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 5: Did you watch it? 336 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:05,440 Speaker 1: I did see that? 337 00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:06,880 Speaker 5: Was it good? I haven't watched it. 338 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it was okay, you're not convincing. 339 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 1: Well, I don't know I was. I wasn't. I don't know. 340 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:15,840 Speaker 4: I was kind of like, that's it, okay. I just 341 00:15:15,840 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 4: remember thinking at the end, like, oh oh so it's okay. 342 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 4: I don't want to say too much better. Oh oh yeah, 343 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:23,920 Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't know. 344 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 11: He won an award for it, so you know, yeah, good, yeah, 345 00:15:27,640 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 11: good for Owen, Right, his first ever Emmy and he's 346 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:34,520 Speaker 11: the youngest man. But his counterpart broke that record a 347 00:15:34,520 --> 00:15:37,600 Speaker 11: while ago, Roxanna Zell, who has since left Hollywood. She 348 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:40,000 Speaker 11: was fourteen when she won her first Emmy for Something 349 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:43,080 Speaker 11: About Amelia in nineteen eighty four, so she holds the 350 00:15:43,240 --> 00:15:46,400 Speaker 11: record of all time. Elsewhere at the Emmys, Vince Gill 351 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:49,080 Speaker 11: and Leanie Wilson performed Go Rest High on That Mountain 352 00:15:49,160 --> 00:15:52,800 Speaker 11: during the in Memoriam segment. Their rendition of the song 353 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:56,360 Speaker 11: was particularly significant as it featured a newly added verse 354 00:15:56,600 --> 00:15:59,400 Speaker 11: marking the song's thirtieth anniversary. But I'm just waiting for 355 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:01,840 Speaker 11: us to figure out who was missing, because I feel 356 00:16:01,840 --> 00:16:04,480 Speaker 11: like every year they miss someone in that damn segment 357 00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 11: and then everyone gets upset. Ago Moodom who Jason loves especially, 358 00:16:09,040 --> 00:16:12,000 Speaker 11: and now she's leaving SNL after seven seasons. 359 00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:13,480 Speaker 5: I Go joined in twenty eighteen. 360 00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 11: Became known for her impressions and original characters like Lisa 361 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:21,080 Speaker 11: from Temecula. My favorite is when she would play Dion Warwick. 362 00:16:21,160 --> 00:16:23,880 Speaker 11: It cracked me up every time. Her departure is part 363 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:25,800 Speaker 11: of a bigger cast shake up ahead of the show's 364 00:16:25,840 --> 00:16:30,040 Speaker 11: fifty first season, with other exits like Heidi Gardner, Michael Longfellow, 365 00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:32,440 Speaker 11: Devin Walker, and Moore's So I don't know what's going 366 00:16:32,440 --> 00:16:34,800 Speaker 11: on over there, but I'm a little concerned for them. Also, 367 00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 11: you guys liked my recommendation of Unknown Number the High 368 00:16:39,040 --> 00:16:41,800 Speaker 11: School Catfish, so I have another one for you that 369 00:16:41,840 --> 00:16:44,560 Speaker 11: I started, The Girlfriend on Prime. 370 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 5: It's called The Girlfriend. 371 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 11: It is about a mom who's a little close with 372 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:53,000 Speaker 11: her son, who is suspicious about her son's new girlfriend 373 00:16:53,000 --> 00:16:55,600 Speaker 11: who comes around. Is it real or is it a drama? 374 00:16:55,760 --> 00:16:58,200 Speaker 11: It is not real. I don't know if it's based 375 00:16:58,200 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 11: on something real, but it's a drama. It's good. It 376 00:17:00,800 --> 00:17:03,280 Speaker 11: kind of reminds me like really good music, kind of 377 00:17:03,320 --> 00:17:07,200 Speaker 11: reminds me a little bit of weight Lotus. But it's 378 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 11: very good. 379 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:10,159 Speaker 5: It'll get you right away, so highly recommend. I have 380 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:15,680 Speaker 5: not finished it, but it's I is it a series series? Yeah, 381 00:17:16,640 --> 00:17:20,679 Speaker 5: so you're gonna need a little taken move situation. I know, 382 00:17:21,119 --> 00:17:22,679 Speaker 5: I know it's not This is a good one. 383 00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:27,120 Speaker 4: And the unknown number thing is just disgusting. It's just disgusting. Yeah, 384 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:30,560 Speaker 4: it's yeah. If you know, even if you know the 385 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:32,879 Speaker 4: ending because we've talked about it or it's been you know, 386 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:36,199 Speaker 4: well sort of publicized, you got to just watch it 387 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:38,159 Speaker 4: because it's the way people are acting on this thing. 388 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:39,359 Speaker 1: It's like what on earth? 389 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:42,320 Speaker 11: Yeah, and even acting afterwards is like pretty upsetting. By 390 00:17:42,359 --> 00:17:43,720 Speaker 11: the way, if you missed any part of our show, 391 00:17:43,720 --> 00:17:45,440 Speaker 11: you want to catch up, it's all up there. Type 392 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:47,440 Speaker 11: the French one demand and if you could, it really 393 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 11: helps set us as a preset. 394 00:17:51,160 --> 00:18:01,200 Speaker 1: Fread's fun fact Fred fund so much. 395 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:05,880 Speaker 4: I'm not sure if it's useful information because it's not 396 00:18:05,960 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 4: my job to didn't have to be useful. 397 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:09,280 Speaker 1: It's just called fun fact. It's not called it's not 398 00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:10,440 Speaker 1: called useful fun fact. 399 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:10,719 Speaker 8: Right. 400 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:14,200 Speaker 1: But certain types of sharks. 401 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:18,520 Speaker 4: Will enter a state of tonic immobility due to shock 402 00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:21,680 Speaker 4: if you flip them over. So flipping over a shark 403 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:23,560 Speaker 4: will render it temporarily immobile. 404 00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:24,360 Speaker 1: Wow. 405 00:18:24,600 --> 00:18:28,480 Speaker 4: Some killer whales have been recorded to exploit this weakness 406 00:18:28,680 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 4: and purposefully flip it over. 407 00:18:31,040 --> 00:18:35,000 Speaker 2: Yes, I like this because you know, everybody's scared of 408 00:18:35,040 --> 00:18:37,040 Speaker 2: a shark. But like, if I just flip you over, bro, 409 00:18:37,200 --> 00:18:37,879 Speaker 2: you worthless. 410 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:40,800 Speaker 4: Yea, because if a shark is that close to me, obviously, 411 00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:42,359 Speaker 4: the first thing I'm gonna do is touch it. 412 00:18:42,600 --> 00:18:45,920 Speaker 2: Yeahs, come here, I'm gonna just flip you on your back. 413 00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:47,639 Speaker 4: Yeah, And then it just passes out, and then you 414 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:49,480 Speaker 4: just go ahead and little swim away, you know, just 415 00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:51,720 Speaker 4: go ahead and just you know, look a couple of apps, 416 00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:53,000 Speaker 4: and then before long you're fine. 417 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:55,439 Speaker 1: Simple flip it over. 418 00:18:56,320 --> 00:18:58,080 Speaker 4: The same is true with me, by the way, if 419 00:18:58,080 --> 00:19:04,240 Speaker 4: you flip me over, I become a tonically immobile depending 420 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:07,800 Speaker 4: on how much of heavy more Fredshell next