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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Alex is on the phone today for our first Date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Riley. So in

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Speaker 2: a second we'll call her and see if she's house,

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Speaker 2: why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him another date.

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Speaker 2: But first, Alex, how long has it been since you

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Speaker 2: heard from Riley?

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Speaker 3: It's been about ten days?

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Speaker 4: Okay, now that you're counting, yeah, have you how many

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Speaker 4: times have you reached out to her in that time.

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Speaker 5: I've sent a few texts, but it's it's been nothing crazy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we'll tell us about the date.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well, we went to an underground concert and it

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Speaker 5: was so much fun.

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Speaker 3: I thought it would be.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was actually on the ground, it.

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Speaker 5: Was it was in like the basement of the back

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Speaker 5: of this cool It was actually it was pretty cool.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And I thought it was.

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Speaker 5: Gonna be like this perfect combination of low pressure but

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Speaker 5: still not so fun, you know.

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Speaker 3: And we had we had a few drinks.

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Speaker 5: We were viving in the music and she was even

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Speaker 5: dancing a little bit. And I gotta say she's like

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Speaker 5: super cool too, Like she doesn't even have to try.

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Speaker 5: She's one of those she's just so cool and she

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Speaker 5: knows her music. She wasn't just like oh, I like everything.

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Speaker 5: She had opinions and I respect that, you know, yeah yeah.

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Speaker 5: And then then I ended with us grabbing some late

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Speaker 5: night pizza and there was a kiss and it was

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Speaker 5: in the moment and the music was still in the

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Speaker 5: background and everything, but it was kind of cinematic.

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Speaker 3: It felt like it was right out.

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Speaker 1: Of the movie.

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Speaker 4: It feels really good to hear guys romanticize these kisses too.

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Speaker 3: It felt like it was perfect.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, what do you think is the reason she's

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Speaker 2: ghosting you?

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Speaker 5: Then I might be overthinking it, but I might have

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Speaker 5: gotten a little bit too into the concert.

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Speaker 4: What does that mean though?

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Speaker 2: Like a mosh pit?

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Speaker 3: Well kind of.

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Speaker 5: I mean like I jumped up on the stage, but

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Speaker 5: like the band invited me. They were like, who's ready

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Speaker 5: to rock? And I just I took initiatives.

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Speaker 2: You know, you're like, I am sir.

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Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, And and then maybe there was like I

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Speaker 5: also there was this one moment that I spilled my

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Speaker 5: drink on a guy who like definitely looked like he could.

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Speaker 3: Throw me across the room. Okay, so it was a

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Speaker 3: pretty pretty big guy. But that's all I can think about.

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Speaker 3: I mean, like I said, I think I'm overthinking it.

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Speaker 2: Something happened because of the spilling the drink.

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Speaker 5: Or I mean the guy just looks kind of angry,

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Speaker 5: but like he, like I said, he was a pretty

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Speaker 3: Like he's kind of intimidating. So I backed off pretty easily.

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Speaker 2: But it was alcation no, no, no, okay, maybe that's why

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Speaker 2: maybe she wants you to fight him.

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Speaker 4: Some people are like that, you're joking, but there are

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Speaker 4: some people like that and that's a red flag though.

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Speaker 4: So for you, though, what was she doing while you

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I kind of lost her in the

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Speaker 3: crowd at that point. I was kind of you know,

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Speaker 3: it was like adrenaline was high. I lost in the

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Speaker 2: She became a peasant.

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Speaker 4: In the crowd.

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Speaker 3: No, I wanted her to come up. I thought she

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Speaker 3: was gonna come up with me, but she didn't.

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Speaker 6: Okay.

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Speaker 4: So then what you said, you kissed? Who did it first?

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Speaker 2: You were her?

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Speaker 3: I mean it was I felt like I think it

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Speaker 3: was mutual. You know, it was like that moment where

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Speaker 5: Like like the conversation kind of died, and it kind

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Speaker 5: of like it was like a moment where we were

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like I felt right, you know, Alex, remind us

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Speaker 2: about your day again.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Well, I took her to an underground concert sort of thing.

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Speaker 5: I thought it would be fun and we had a

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Speaker 5: great time, like she was dancing. We we we really

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Speaker 5: hit it off. It felt like we even just at

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Speaker 5: the end of the night, she said she wanted to

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Speaker 5: see me again, but I don't know. I've been going

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Speaker 5: over my mind maybe why.

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Speaker 3: She hasn't reached out again or responded.

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Speaker 5: And there was just a couple of incidents like I

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Speaker 5: jumped up on stage after they invited me, and.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I was just five and I was

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Speaker 3: having a good time. But I was super into it,

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Speaker 3: and it seemed like she was really into it too.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well we'll see if we can figure it out

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Speaker 2: for you. Then are you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 6: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hi is this Riley? Hey Riley, how are you? This

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Speaker 2: is the Jubil Show. It's a radio show.

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Speaker 4: Hi Riley. My name is Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria and

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Speaker 4: my name is Jubil. How's it going the Jubil Show.

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Speaker 6: No, this is some kind of joke.

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Speaker 2: Great, No, have you listened to the show before?

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Speaker 6: I haven't. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fine. No, it's fine. Well, don't worry about it.

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Speaker 2: Maybe now you'll check it out because you're actually on

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Speaker 2: the show. We do a segment on the show. It's

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Speaker 2: called the First Date follow Up. It's where if you

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Speaker 2: go out on a date with somebody and you ghost them,

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Speaker 2: that person can email us to get you on the

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Speaker 2: phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So, can you

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Speaker 2: think of anybody who want to email us about you?

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Speaker 6: I'm Ben I guess is it Alex?

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Speaker 2: You are correct? Yeah, Alex emailed us and told us

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Speaker 2: about your date. He said, it's been like ten days

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Speaker 2: and he hasn't heard anything from you, and he's confused

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Speaker 2: because he thought you really liked him, and even at

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Speaker 2: the end of your day, he said, you want to

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Speaker 2: see him again?

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, of course, Alex, something like this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I ghosted him, Okay, so why? Yeah? Can you

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Speaker 2: tell us?

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Speaker 1: Because he embarrassed me so much, I couldn't I couldn't

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Speaker 1: deal with him anymore.

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Speaker 6: He was so embarrassing.

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Speaker 2: Why why is the embarrassing?

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Speaker 1: So he took me to this concert and like he

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Speaker 1: just like full on jumped on stage and like.

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Speaker 6: Tried to take the mic. Like the band had to stop.

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Speaker 2: He told us about that, and he said that the

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Speaker 2: band like asked him to get on stage.

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Speaker 1: No, it wasn't like he was not like corny cocks,

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Speaker 1: Like they didn't like pull him up out the crowd.

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Speaker 1: Like he like jumped on the stage on his own

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Speaker 1: and tried to take the bikes from the singer and they.

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Speaker 2: Had just whoa, it's been a little confused.

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Speaker 4: Different stories.

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Speaker 2: And they said that they saw him having fun and

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Speaker 2: they were like get up on stage with us.

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Speaker 1: No, like he said, dude, like maybe like some other

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Speaker 1: like maybe they were talking to some like cute girl

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Speaker 1: or but he went for it.

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Speaker 6: Like they were not wanting him on the stage.

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Speaker 4: Oh that's funny. Oh maybe he was standing next to

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Speaker 4: some hot girl and got confused.

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Speaker 2: He didn't tell us that they kicked him off the stage.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like security had to like escort him off the stage.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, we missed that part.

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Speaker 2: Okay, is that is that the reason you're ghosting him?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Well it was just yeah, he just had like no awareness,

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Speaker 1: like it was just everything.

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Speaker 6: I feel like it was just like so embarrassing.

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Speaker 3: Hey, hey, can I say something now?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yes you can, Alex. Hey, Riley, that's Alex. He's

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Speaker 2: actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 6: His he's on the phone right.

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Speaker 2: Now, wants to say something now.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. So I just want to clarify this. Nobody nobody

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Speaker 3: helped me. I mean nobody.

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Speaker 5: Nobody kicked me off the stage. They just helped me

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Speaker 5: off the stage.

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Speaker 6: They like escorted you back, like off of the stage.

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Speaker 5: I don't know what concert you were at, Riley, because

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Speaker 5: that's not what happened.

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Speaker 3: The security guard literally gave me his hand to help

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Speaker 3: me down. I'm sure it's just a stafety.

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Speaker 2: I can picture that.

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Speaker 6: No, that's not that's not what happened. Like are you

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Speaker 6: are you crazy?

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Speaker 1: Like they literally like escorted you off the stage like

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Speaker 3: They didn't stop, they didn't have to stop. They just

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Speaker 3: wanted you what.

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Speaker 6: Are you talking about?

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Speaker 1: They asked this delete like we got like kicked out,

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Speaker 1: got pizza or.

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Speaker 5: They weren't kicking us out. They asked us to leave

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Speaker 5: because like I was up on the stage. People were

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Speaker 2: Me from for autographs, her pictures.

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Speaker 4: That's funny.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean the crowd went crazy when I went

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Speaker 6: They were crazy and they were mad you interrupted the shovel.

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Speaker 3: That's not how iamy.

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Speaker 6: They thought some was gonna murder you. How are you

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Speaker 6: confusing this the security guard instead? You guys are eighty

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Speaker 6: stakes that you cannot come back here.

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Speaker 2: Ever, it sounds like you got kicked out. Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: had you miss that one.

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Speaker 3: That's not how I thought we did.

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Speaker 6: We got kicked out.

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Speaker 2: How do you not know me?

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Speaker 3: Listen? I mean he and I then me and that

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Speaker 3: security guard we like this pumped on the way in.

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Speaker 3: I thought we were buddies. I thought he was just

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Speaker 6: They this bump everyone.

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Speaker 2: Well, Riley, would you like another day with Alex? Will

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Speaker 2: pay for it?

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Speaker 6: No? No, thank you.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I know everyone wants to like a viral,

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Speaker 1: but not for the wrong reasons.

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Speaker 5: Well that really sucks because I thought we were really

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Speaker 5: vibing together.

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Speaker 3: At the whole concert.

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Speaker 6: Well, I'm sorry, I guess that just shows like how

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Speaker 6: unaware you are.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, and that's your loss. I guess. No, Autographs

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Speaker 3: for You.

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Speaker 2: Juble's first date follow up