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Speaker 1: All right, This is from Portie on Steve Harvey FM.

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Speaker 1: Porsche writes, my ex and I broke up after dating

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Speaker 1: for about a year because we both agreed that we.

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Speaker 2: Just weren't right enough for one another.

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Speaker 1: Then less than a year after that, my best friend

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Speaker 1: for the last twenty years started dating him. I thought

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Speaker 1: it was wrong for her to date him, and I

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Speaker 1: told her so. Now we haven't talked at all for

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Speaker 1: the last six months, and I'm starting, really, I'm really

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Speaker 1: starting to miss my friend. So should I forgive and forget?

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Speaker 1: Or has she done something that's unforgivable?

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Speaker 3: You starting to miss who her best friend friend?

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Speaker 2: She started her ex?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she's starting to miss who's her best sex friend?

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Speaker 3: One more tech, What makes you think that's your best friend?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, girl, coach broke that gurn broke all the ruins

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Speaker 4: to friendship, and you think that's your best friend.

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Speaker 3: That's not your friend?

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Speaker 5: No more.

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Speaker 3: People don't know how to move on. Listen, listen.

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Speaker 4: I know it was twenty years, y'all had twenty grede years.

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Speaker 4: But everything comes to an end. That's over, Okay, you

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Speaker 4: and Rachelle, y'all is through. Y'all are true, So yeah,

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Speaker 4: find you a new best friend, because that's not the friend.

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Speaker 4: You won't The last thing you want is that's your friend,

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Speaker 4: and she keep bringing him around. That's not gonna sit

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Speaker 4: well with you. You're not gonna be able to make it

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Speaker 4: through that. That's not a good friend. Nobody, nobody's best

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Speaker 4: friend steps behind them and start dating somebody that they dated.

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Speaker 4: Don't nobody do that? I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: She wants to know.

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Speaker 1: Should she forgive her and she should forget her?

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Speaker 4: Let's go past forgive, let's forget her.

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna keep telling y'all how to be pity.

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Speaker 4: I'm not gonna keep telling y'all how to it's exuberant,

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Speaker 4: it's exhausting, but to y'all gonna learn today though, you

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Speaker 4: forgive and you forget and you move on.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, jor no, none, this forgive with matter of fact,

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Speaker 5: two people you don't even like is together and you

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Speaker 5: got to see it.

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Speaker 2: She messes her, Oh it.

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Speaker 5: Was you broke up with them and it was less

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Speaker 5: than a year ay together?

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Speaker 2: Uh? Six months later.

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Speaker 5: Five and we all you don't forgive, and Carl, would

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Speaker 5: you forgive Carl?

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Speaker 1: Huh uh gots you know I'm pity.

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Speaker 2: All right, let's move on, we have time for another one.

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Speaker 1: This is from aunt on Steve Harvey FM and says

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Speaker 1: I'm tens of thousands of dollars in debt and none

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Speaker 1: of that debt is mine. For some reason, I decided

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Speaker 1: to check my credit score, which I have never done before,

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Speaker 1: and I discovered something horrifying. Over the last two years,

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Speaker 1: without my knowledge, my parents have opened six different credit

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Speaker 1: card accounts in my name and have racked up substantial debt,

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Speaker 1: all of which I'm apparently responsible for.

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Speaker 2: It gets worse, though.

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Speaker 1: I went to my bank about it, and they suggested

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Speaker 1: filing a police report for identity theft that would put

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Speaker 1: my parents in lead in serious legal trouble.

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Speaker 2: No matter what I do, I feel like I'm screwed.

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Speaker 5: What do I do?

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, Mama and them got the gone gone on. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: they case, They're going to jail, they finish, catch the case.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: You're gonna learn today, though, you're gonna learn today, y'all

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Speaker 4: gonna y'all. Y'all have took my social security and ran

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Speaker 4: up and got all these bills and ran my stuff. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry. I'm turning y'all asses in. I am yo.

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Speaker 2: Mama, God, you do it to your parents, though what.

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Speaker 4: I can't get a house, I can't get a car.

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Speaker 4: I can't do nothing because my mam and the got

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Speaker 4: me tens of thousands of dollars in debt. No, baby,

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Speaker 4: you and daddy find the pay y'all pay.

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Speaker 3: I told y'all, I'm petty.

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Speaker 4: They answer is going to jail at least for thirty days.

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Speaker 4: At least they gonna learn today, they're gonna get. They

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Speaker 4: gonna at least get an understanding about what.

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Speaker 3: They did to me. Junior.

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Speaker 5: No, no, just forgiving me. Matter of fact, two people

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Speaker 5: you don't even like is together, and you got to

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Speaker 5: see it.

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Speaker 2: She messes her.

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Speaker 5: It was you broke up with them, and it was

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Speaker 5: less than a year.

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Speaker 2: A togethern Uh six months later throw L five.

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Speaker 5: And you'll forgive and Carl, would you forgive?

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Speaker 4: Carl?

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Speaker 1: Uh huh, Gossie, you know I'm pity.

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Speaker 2: All right, let's move on. We have time for another one.

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Speaker 1: This is from Aunt and Steve Harvey at them and says,

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Speaker 1: I'm tens of thousands of dollars in debt and none

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Speaker 1: of that debt is mine. For some reason, I decided

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Speaker 1: to check my credit score, which I have never done before,

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Speaker 1: and I discovered something horrifying. Over the last two years,

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Speaker 1: without my knowledge, my parents have opened six different credit

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Speaker 1: card accounts in my name and have racked up substantial debt,

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Speaker 1: all of which I'm apparently responsible for.

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Speaker 2: It gets worst, though.

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Speaker 1: I went to my bank about it, and they suggested

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Speaker 1: filing a police report for identity theft that would put

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Speaker 1: my parents in serious legal trouble. No matter what I do,

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm screwed.

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Speaker 2: What do I do?

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, Mamma and them gone gone on. Yeah, they

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Speaker 3: going to jail, they finish, catch the case. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: You're gonna learn today, though, You're gonna learn today, y'all

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Speaker 4: gonna y'all.

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Speaker 3: Y'all have took my.

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Speaker 4: My social Security and ran up and got all these

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Speaker 4: bills and ran my stuff. Yeah, yeah, I'm sorry. I'm

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Speaker 4: turning y'all asses in.

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Speaker 1: I am yo, Mama, God you do it to your

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Speaker 1: parents though what.

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Speaker 3: I can't get a house, I can't get a car.

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Speaker 4: I can't do nothing because my mam and got me

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Speaker 4: tens of thousands of dollars in debt. No, baby, you

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Speaker 4: and daddy fend the pay y'all.

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Speaker 3: Pay. I told y'all, I'm petty.

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Speaker 4: They answer is going to jail at least for thirty days.

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Speaker 4: At least they learn today they're gonna get. They gonna

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Speaker 4: at least get an understand about what they did to me.

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Speaker 2: Junior, I want to hear this one.

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Speaker 5: I'm just shocked at six, six different credit cards, that's

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Speaker 5: all you worried about. I just got myself out of

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Speaker 5: there from my parents about two years ago. They've been

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Speaker 5: running bills up. I had a water bill. I had

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Speaker 5: a mortgage at nine. I had a mortgage at nine.

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Speaker 4: I didn't even know nothing about it, and you worried

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Speaker 4: about six different credit cards.

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Speaker 5: Boy, I had a light bill. Everything I was I

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Speaker 5: was learning multiplication with bill ibout at nine, I heard

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Speaker 5: about sex different credit cards.

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Speaker 2: That's nothing. That ain't nothing.

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Speaker 3: I love you.

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