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Speaker 1: I took care of my mom all by myself, but

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Speaker 1: my sister is getting all of her savings.

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Speaker 2: Did she know that your sister's not you?

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Speaker 1: I think there was a mix up.

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Speaker 2: Are you twins?

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Speaker 1: My friends tell me I should give up on having

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Speaker 1: a relationship with my sister, should I me? Tea? Let's

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Speaker 1: call her.

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Speaker 2: Tia.

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Speaker 1: Tia forty four female has one sibling aama, Oh sorry,

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Speaker 1: forty six female. This is a bit of a long story,

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Speaker 1: so please bear with me. By the way, this comes

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Speaker 1: from aggravating pins seventeen forty five on the Okay Storytime

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Speaker 1: subvered it. So we had what I describe as not

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Speaker 1: the greatest of childhood's. My mom tried really hard to

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Speaker 1: be good mom, but she had some mental health issues.

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Speaker 1: She quit working when she had kids at my dad's request,

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Speaker 1: and from the stories, I think she had undiagnosed postpartum depression.

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Speaker 1: My parents had been married something like six years before

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Speaker 1: they had kids. My mom was smart and hard working

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Speaker 1: and had worked for a brokerage firm on Wall Street.

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Speaker 1: I think my dad was intimidated that she made more

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Speaker 2: He sucks, Yeah, I mean it's a you know, your

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Speaker 2: little coward.

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Speaker 1: You can't handle a strong woman. Get back in the kitchen, dude, I.

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Speaker 2: Think, well, okay, hey, yes, ma'am.

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Speaker 1: Mom quits working and my dad almost immediately turned to

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Speaker 1: heavy drinking as a raging at a raging booziec level.

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Speaker 1: He was caught DWI several times, but in the seventies

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Speaker 1: slash eighties, there were no consequences.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow.

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Speaker 1: He even crashed his car into an NYC bridge.

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Speaker 2: Wait, actually, wasn't that Yeah, it wasn't illegal at some point?

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Speaker 2: What yeah, Oh, like drinking and driving became illegal in

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Speaker 2: like the seventies.

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Speaker 1: Maybe yeah, I think. So left his car, walked home

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Speaker 1: and nothing happened to him. He ended up causing a

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Speaker 1: grease fire in our apartment when we were toddlers and

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Speaker 1: my mom had to pull us out. Wow. Things like

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Speaker 1: this carried on for years, and my mom got paranoid

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Speaker 1: wasted basically every night.

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Speaker 2: Oo. Man, that's rough.

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Speaker 1: My sister didn't deal with our home situation well. She'd

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Speaker 1: argue with my dad and make things worse, while I

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Speaker 1: always try to de escalate everything. My mom filed for

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Speaker 1: divorce in nineteen ninety six. And things got ugly. My

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Speaker 1: dad was cheating at that point several times, including with

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Speaker 1: a lady at our church. Not very not very religiously

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Speaker 2: You, Yes, not very, And I have to correct myself.

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Speaker 2: I was wrong about that drinking and driving was illegal

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Speaker 2: in the early nineteen hundreds. I just kind of like

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Speaker 2: the seventies that every state it had a law. So

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Speaker 2: I think the last state was like Tennessee or Kentucky

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Speaker 1: Um so Opie's dad was gambling, doing substances several kinds

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Speaker 1: and yes, still a raging Booziak. Mom suspected her first

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Speaker 1: divorce attorney of sleeping with him and eventually gave up

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Speaker 1: on the divorce, but got court ordered spouse's support to

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Speaker 2: What WHOA why whoa?

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Speaker 1: Her divorceitory was sleeping with her ex.

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Speaker 2: Husband your father objection.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry that seems like a conflict of interest.

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Speaker 2: Objection might be in a court of law considered maybe

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Speaker 1: He still lived with us, but also had an apartment

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Speaker 1: out as soon as she finished college, got married and

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Speaker 1: I couldn't leave her alone with him. He was verbally

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Speaker 1: My dad paid all but my last semester of undergrad

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Speaker 1: I had one hundred K and student loans from law school,

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Speaker 1: At the time, you could only donate to age thirty.

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Speaker 1: I mean, like it's not abnormal to sell your eggs

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my mom didn't have a job, but I had

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Speaker 1: the idea to refinance the mortgage and use the equity

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Speaker 1: Mortgage, student loans, utilities, food, et cetera. Without consolidating. It

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Speaker 1: This was before the financial crisis. Yeah, this was two

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Speaker 2: What an absolute hurricane of circumstances.

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Speaker 1: So we got lucky that the bank accepted my application.

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Speaker 1: I didn't make enough on paper to cover the payments.

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Speaker 1: She needed radiation, a spinal fusion, and weekly chemo.

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Speaker 2: Oh my ghosts.

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Speaker 1: I worked it out with my job so that I

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Speaker 1: I never asked my sister for help. In twenty sixteen,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Oh we can't catch a break.

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Speaker 2: Go back to bazucud. Like the last story we read,

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Speaker 2: off the soap operas. Life isn't that complex.

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Speaker 3: It's like life is complex, Yeah, it is, clearly. Also,

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Speaker 2: Now it's not the time to come in talking about

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Speaker 3: He's gonna start donating and make us stay here forever.

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Speaker 1: We'll make you guys, stay forever. In twenty sixteen, I

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Speaker 2: Dude, break this story. Why is going on?

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Speaker 1: This can't be real. Despite that his infidelity wasn't my

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Speaker 1: She shouldn't have passed away so young at sixty eight.

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Speaker 1: Before she passed, my sister Ava, who is the reason

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Speaker 2: Oh God.

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Speaker 1: During that visit, my mom planned to give her all

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Speaker 2: Why why is this happening? What could you have possibly

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Speaker 1: Why, with the mom whatever, give all of that money

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Speaker 2: Well, she's probably like at this point, the mental faculties

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Speaker 1: It made my mom feel better that she has a

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Speaker 1: so it wasn't a big deal. I'm sorry she was

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Speaker 1: But then she started throwing things away that she didn't

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Speaker 1: I really hope it's not true.

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Speaker 2: No one has possibly ever gotten this bed of a break.

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Speaker 1: Fast forward to twenty twenty one. My sorry excuse for

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Speaker 1: I love my nephews, even though I haven't seen them

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Speaker 1: I had asked my brother in law for my younger

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Speaker 2: Be it, I would hope. So that's right. If you

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Speaker 1: And now you're a big time lawyer.

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Speaker 2: Now house was foreclosed and you had a hundred people

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Speaker 1: She put me down, was rude and obnoxious, accused me

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Speaker 2: No, I don't. It's stupid. It's why I'm asking.

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Speaker 1: I shipped everything I thought you wanted, including things you

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Speaker 2: But I would never ignore.

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Speaker 1: You guys listening to full episodes with stories like this,

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Speaker 2: This one's special.

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Speaker 1: This is an outlier. But go to Okay story Time

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Speaker 2: Just search it up, dude, search that up and.

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Speaker 1: Uh, there's a little bit more to this story.

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Speaker 2: Hey op, take a breath, take a breath, and get

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Speaker 1: You deserve better. Please take better because you deserve it.

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Speaker 1: And this is terrible.

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Speaker 2: Do not communicate with your sister her off, cut her off,

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Speaker 2: I don't like calling into question the real We can.

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Speaker 1: Already give our advice on the story that we see,

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Speaker 2: I just don't imagine that a lawyer, right. A lawyer

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Speaker 2: there's outliers. Sure, this person's reading like they don't have

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Speaker 1: And it also seems like, oh, he's like a fairly

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Speaker 2: Now, right, if she's been making enough money.

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Speaker 4: Of what type of lawyer she is, It's just it's

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Speaker 4: just I hope, I hope, I hope, I hope then

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Speaker 4: none of this happened.

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Speaker 1: Please, But there is a little bit more to this.

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Speaker 1: I take story Tobie's tale the saga. On December fifteenth,

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Speaker 1: now the thirty first. I keep trying, and every time

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Speaker 1: not understanding what I ever did to her to make

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Speaker 1: her hate me so much? Should I just give up

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Speaker 1: or keep trying? Since what my mom would have wanted?

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Speaker 1: Is there any hope here? Was I that much of

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Speaker 1: an a hole that I deserve this? Should I have

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Speaker 1: sold our house and split it with my sister? Am

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Speaker 1: I the ale girl? Cut her off? Cut her off.

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Speaker 2: I'd like cut her off like way better years ago.

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Speaker 2: You should have cut her.

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Speaker 5: Off as soon as she tried to take You should

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Speaker 2: Whenever she tried to convince social services you were poisoning

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Speaker 2: also when she's not allowed around the family again.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, man, man, oh man, what a freaking tail?

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Speaker 2: Well? Where is it? Show me?

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Speaker 5: I upgraded it because that one was a really bad one.

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Speaker 2: You have another one? Is there another one of those?

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Speaker 6: Ah?

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Speaker 2: I like the axe a lottle better. And it's not

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Speaker 1: Guys, everyone, just like, take a breath, take a deep breath.

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Speaker 5: Look at the look at the kitten and the puppy.

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Speaker 2: You have a duck, race.

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Speaker 1: Your bets.

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Speaker 2: I want to know what his voice would sound like.

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Speaker 2: Oh goshhe you heard high, I heard lo hell. All right, maybe.

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Speaker 5: So we're going back to the duck race. That's all fixed.

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Speaker 5: Now I'm gonna pull up a hole just to see

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Speaker 1: Wow, whoo, I'm beating that duck.

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Speaker 2: Wow. I we as Dakota. If my duck loses, then but.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna close that and again one for Sofia, two

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Speaker 5: for Dakota. This is for a duck race because you

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Speaker 5: percent for Sofia and Sofia wins, we get fifteen more minutes.

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Speaker 2: But if you voted for Dakota, I see, if you

443
00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:30,320
Speaker 2: voted for Dakota, you don't get anything.

444
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:33,560
Speaker 1: So everyone's voting for who the duck.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So if so, if your duck wins, then a

446
00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:40,920
Speaker 2: horse race.

447
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Speaker 5: Yeah, horse race. So I'm gonna close. I'm not going

448
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:46,560
Speaker 5: to close the poll. I'm just gonna hide it so

449
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Speaker 5: we don't.

450
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Speaker 1: Thank you for the five bucks you guys give me life.

451
00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:53,240
Speaker 1: Please never stop streaming.

452
00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:56,520
Speaker 2: Yes, all right, you guys ready, Yes.

453
00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:56,960
Speaker 1: I'm ready.

454
00:22:57,080 --> 00:23:01,760
Speaker 2: We will never stop, literally never that what's up? Impossible?

455
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Speaker 1: It is, let's do I want my duck to be

456
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Speaker 1: a different color to that?

457
00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:10,159
Speaker 2: Sucks? Okay, all right, we're gonna start it done. A

458
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Speaker 2: lot of these three two one, Come on, duck, come on,

459
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Speaker 2: what are you doing?

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00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:19,439
Speaker 1: Yeah? All right, you got this.

461
00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:22,720
Speaker 2: And Sophia's duck takes an early lead, Sophia's duck in

462
00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 2: the first ten seconds, which, if you know anything about

463
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Speaker 2: duck races, is a bad sign. Voters falling to quotas

464
00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:30,200
Speaker 2: duck is falling back. And that's me And Sophia's.

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Speaker 7: Duck has a full head of steam and.

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Speaker 2: Here it goes, but here we go. It's the last

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Speaker 2: ten seconds.

468
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Speaker 4: He's magnimized on the move.

469
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Speaker 2: And that's the game. And you guys, that's when you

470
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Speaker 2: guys had one hundred and five votes for Sophia.

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Speaker 4: But you know, you know, that's what happens when you

472
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Speaker 4: don't believe in my duck.

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Speaker 1: We may have lost, but I appreciate that you guys

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Speaker 1: love me. Yeah, and that's my takeaway. We may lost,

475
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:03,960
Speaker 1: but we won the war. We won the war.

476
00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:07,560
Speaker 2: You didn't. The war has just begune And.

477
00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 1: Because you guys, love me so much. I'm gonna leave

478
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:15,000
Speaker 1: because it's just too much, like take it in.

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Speaker 2: It's I like how people are still voting like we could,

480
00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:21,440
Speaker 2: we could change it, right, we could change it, but

481
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:25,159
Speaker 2: they're still voting for stuff after she lost nice.

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Speaker 6: I can give you no.

483
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Speaker 2: I think I'm good. I can keep going food.

484
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:37,399
Speaker 5: But that's about give you a break, Okay, give one

485
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Speaker 5: of your break.

486
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Speaker 2: I'm solid.

487
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Speaker 5: I'm good, honestly.

488
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:49,960
Speaker 2: And then okay, okay, awesome, got it? Yeah, okay, just

489
00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:55,439
Speaker 2: get read the guys.

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Speaker 6: I have a special guest we got in here that

491
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Speaker 6: is crashing in the dream.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Nope, I would like water water.

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00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:08,120
Speaker 1: I think it might be good.

494
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:11,240
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, we'll text you, yeah, text me wherever you go.

495
00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 6: But we got Angie on stream.

496
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Speaker 2: Guys.

497
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Speaker 1: Hey, guys, what's freaking up?

498
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Speaker 7: I heard lots of yelling.

499
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:18,680
Speaker 2: I don't know what's going on. We're getting loud. We're

500
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:19,680
Speaker 2: playing ducks.

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Speaker 1: Alright. I like it. I like it.

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00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:28,840
Speaker 2: There's my other magnifying glass. Now let's go. I saw

503
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:31,639
Speaker 2: a comment from four we get Can you pull that

504
00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:33,320
Speaker 2: up in the super chat really quick because it's about

505
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 2: our last story. Oh yes, yes, yes, yes, down and

506
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:39,240
Speaker 2: down at the bottom. Yeah, let's read these donos. Let's

507
00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:41,359
Speaker 2: go down down first, so we can just say this

508
00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:44,040
Speaker 2: because it's still Dakota as apparently this is from Loucy Ford.

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00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:46,639
Speaker 2: Thank you for the seven dollars Dakota. As a paralegal,

510
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:48,640
Speaker 2: I can tell you that a lot of lawyers have

511
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 2: no backbone when it comes to their issues, only for

512
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Speaker 2: their clients, which is interesting.

513
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:57,160
Speaker 1: I would never think that exactly.

514
00:25:57,440 --> 00:26:00,640
Speaker 2: We have a very it was a hard story. Yeah,

515
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 2: this person just had like the worst just everything bad

516
00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:06,359
Speaker 2: kept happening, and then we were like, is.

517
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:06,920
Speaker 1: This even real?

518
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 2: Because I feel like if she was a lawyer, she'd

519
00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:11,440
Speaker 2: be more like, dang assertive.

520
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:13,399
Speaker 3: It's kind of like maybe it's kind of like how

521
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:15,920
Speaker 3: all therapists still need to go to therapy too.

522
00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, all therapists have a therapy.

523
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Speaker 3: Or actually I actually heard recently that they should have

524
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Speaker 3: therapy therapists, but they don't.

525
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Speaker 2: Let me read some more of these donuts we've got Rnati.

526
00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:33,159
Speaker 2: Welcome to the Nights, Evincent, thank you for the five

527
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:37,320
Speaker 2: gifted memberships. I always love that Max randomly donating six

528
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 2: bucks in the super chat. Gomez I know him, Yeah,

529
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Speaker 2: we know, we know Max Gomez let's go on.

530
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Speaker 7: Such a little cute little pictures that you got there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah Uh. Vix Max, thanks for the five gifted memberships.

532
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:55,359
Speaker 2: We always appreciate. Uh, we appreciate it.

533
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Speaker 1: Uh n uh.

534
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Speaker 2: Natasha Reyes made it to the end. But love you guys.

535
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 2: Thanks for the two bucks. Dakota puppies deserve love.

536
00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:05,800
Speaker 1: I they do.

537
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 2: I didn't say they didn't deserve love. I just wanted

538
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:14,159
Speaker 2: an axe lotto reset. I needed more. That's all I needed,

539
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:18,080
Speaker 2: all right? Is that all of them? I think that's

540
00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 2: all I'm gonna say. Natasha rey Is again, thanks for

541
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:24,320
Speaker 2: the five bucks. You guys give me life, never stop streaming.

542
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:27,680
Speaker 2: And vix Mix, thanks for the five bucks. I left

543
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:29,479
Speaker 2: the stream for a while, so I don't know if

544
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 2: you got my last don't know. But my bride best

545
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:35,119
Speaker 2: friend is taking me on a cruise in March for

546
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:36,920
Speaker 2: my birthday as a thank you for being her maid

547
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 2: of honor. My god, I'm so excited. It's my first

548
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 2: cruise ever.

549
00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:42,720
Speaker 7: That's an amazing thank you gift.

550
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 2: Congratulations on your first ever cruise. So exciting, nis Mix,

551
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:52,400
Speaker 2: I hope it's a real good one. Yeah uh and

552
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:58,199
Speaker 2: is that? And Cora I don't Cora, thank you for

553
00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 2: the ten bucks more time, thank you? We it now

554
00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 2: is the time for that? Yes, and I believe that

555
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:12,960
Speaker 2: is that. Whoa, so we are now caught. Oh wait up,

556
00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 2: all right, yes, let's do it. I think all right,

557
00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:18,120
Speaker 2: just let.

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Speaker 6: Us know we're gonna get into the next story we've got.

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00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:24,600
Speaker 7: Oh, it's right here. Okay, which one did you guys?

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Speaker 2: Do we have? Uh here? Wait, do you want to

561
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Speaker 2: go to?

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00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:28,199
Speaker 1: Do you know?

563
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 7: Sorry, that might be just easier for you to look out.

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00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:34,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, that's uh here, Let's let's go over here.

565
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:36,560
Speaker 7: Let's see.

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00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 2: I think that was the first step. We just finished

567
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Speaker 2: the first episode, first one. Okay, go to two, four

568
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Speaker 2: eighty two, fourteen eighty two.

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Speaker 3: This mix is going to the BAHAMASO exciting, super super exciting.

570
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 2: Oh to the Bahama, Bahama.

571
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 3: Mama Heidi Vincent, She says, Dakota, I put my puppy

572
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Speaker 3: in the discord.

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Speaker 7: Don't show the code of that.

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00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:03,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't show me that. I'm gonna hate it. I

575
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:07,800
Speaker 2: need there's uh sometimes one of the roommates, uh that

576
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 2: the dog is here named Chip's here now. And I

577
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 2: love Chippy so much, and I need video evidence that

578
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 2: I love chippy, I guess that can go into the district. Yeah,

579
00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:27,440
Speaker 2: with love, we read embrace. I believe, so actually hold

580
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Speaker 2: on almost.

581
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Speaker 1: Snacking things up.

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Speaker 2: I'm re uh reaffirming my just had to remind everybody

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Speaker 2: who I really am. Jamhan.

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Speaker 7: I use elf eyeliner. It's super cheap, like five bucks.

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Speaker 2: Are you ready to koda? Yes, I am going no

586
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 2: contact with my sisters, even though I promised I wouldn't,

587
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 2: because they are freeloaders.

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Speaker 3: Listen, sometimes you can break promises. That's fine, that's okay.

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00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:05,760
Speaker 2: And for for for this is a direct okay storytime

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Speaker 2: story no way, ye, no way from the Subriday.

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Speaker 7: If you're in the comments, please let us know.

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Speaker 2: Yes, that would be amazing. So for context, the sisters

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Speaker 2: in question all fake names are Darcy twenty five and

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Speaker 2: Luan eighteen, both unemployed. Darcy has two cats, Luwan has

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Speaker 2: three cats, and I twenty four female have eight. Oh oh,

596
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Speaker 2: it just comes from I know whose story this is.

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Speaker 2: By the way, this comes from user you be two

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Speaker 2: thousand and If you want to submit your own stories,

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Speaker 2: go to the r slash Okay storytime Subbreaday.

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Speaker 1: Yes, so.

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Speaker 2: They moved back in late August of this year. After

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Speaker 2: repeatedly telling us they'd go they'd be going back to

603
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Speaker 2: their own homes soon. They never went back. Before they

604
00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:58,520
Speaker 2: lost their home, Luwan had me promise to never leave her. However,

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00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:02,000
Speaker 2: much has changed since I made that promised. I'm also

606
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 2: two months post sepsis diagnosis, currently still in recovery, yes,

607
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 2: which is incredibly rough. The thing is going. No contact

608
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 2: with Darcy would be a piece of cake with buttercream frosting,

609
00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 2: easy and oh so sweet. She steals my food, my clothes,

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00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:24,160
Speaker 2: and even my laundry detergent. She tried convincing me I

611
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 2: used half the container in a month, even though when

612
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:28,600
Speaker 2: I got home from the hospital I couldn't even lift

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00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:31,520
Speaker 2: it off of the shelf with the laundry sauces. Trying

614
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:35,440
Speaker 2: to gaslights about laundry sauce right now, what flavor of

615
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 2: laundry sauce do you guys use? I use the blue flavor,

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Speaker 2: blue and white. She's also highly immature mentally and emotionally,

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Speaker 2: and goes to extremes when she's upset. We get into

618
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Speaker 2: arguments a lot. I've worked almost every single day since

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Speaker 2: just two weeks after coming home from the hospital after

620
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Speaker 2: nearly passing away, and I'm trying my best will manage

621
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Speaker 2: to get some packing done here and there as I'm

622
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Speaker 2: finally moving out next month. Let's go. Yay, we know

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Speaker 2: who you are. Please drop the addie in the chat

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00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 2: right now. This is Stella. We know this is Stella.

625
00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:19,040
Speaker 2: This is Stella.

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00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:20,720
Speaker 7: Sella h Stella, Stella.

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Speaker 1: Is she here? Hopefully she's there.

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00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:30,920
Speaker 2: Look she's right there there she goes, Yeah, oh my gosh.

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Speaker 7: Yay, yay, Hello, Okay. Continue.

630
00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 2: However, Darcy stays at home all day, sleeps through most

631
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Speaker 2: of it, but claims she's cleaning the house while I

632
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:45,719
Speaker 2: sit on my behind when I'm home and can tribute nothing.

633
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 2: This is total bs, considering I'm the only one financially

634
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 2: caring for all thirteen cats. On top of refilling their water,

635
00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:58,160
Speaker 2: Luan just dumps their food on paper plates on the floor,

636
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Speaker 2: despite me reminding her several I've bought numerous bulls they

637
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 2: can use. Darcy doesn't do anything for the cats, not

638
00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 2: even just scooping the litter boxes. Darcy is the sister

639
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 2: I stole a cat from, though, so so her doing

640
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 2: the bare minimum for the cats is not surprising. Yeah,

641
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:20,080
Speaker 2: by the way, the ruse is still going strong. I

642
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:22,080
Speaker 2: am not tapped into that all the way, but I

643
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:25,600
Speaker 2: think I vaguely remember Stella saying that she basically rescued

644
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:28,160
Speaker 2: a cat from her sister because her sister couldn't is

645
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 2: not good at taking care the rescue, and I'm, yeah,

646
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:37,520
Speaker 2: you can steal it. You upgraded your cat's big time.

647
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:42,000
Speaker 2: The mental gymnastics I've had to perform to keep up

648
00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 2: the lie that Freddie is actually Freddie is actually Freddy's son.

649
00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:49,440
Speaker 2: Fred should earn me a gold medal. I am assuming

650
00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:52,239
Speaker 2: that is the cat. Yeah, It's like it's like, no, no, no,

651
00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:55,560
Speaker 2: this isn't Freddy, This isn't your cat. This is the

652
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Speaker 2: son of Freddy, right, son of Frederick. Of course he's

653
00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:02,000
Speaker 2: still clings to me and is still very much my

654
00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 2: cuddle buddy. I buy the food, the litter, and I'm

655
00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 2: on water duty because I have the most cats, also

656
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:10,719
Speaker 2: because I'm the only one who seems to notice and

657
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Speaker 2: or care when the bulls are empty.

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Speaker 5: Boy.

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Speaker 2: I'm also packing my stuff, which includes a great deal

660
00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 2: of sorting and cleaning. I asked Darcy what she had

661
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:22,239
Speaker 2: done besides laundry recently, and she mentioned a room she

662
00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:25,120
Speaker 2: had cleaned two weeks prior. That was it.

663
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:29,719
Speaker 7: I mean, what one room in two weeks, that's impressive.

664
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:32,000
Speaker 2: I mean eventually, in a couple of years, you'll be

665
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 2: able to clean the whole house. Wow, that was it.

666
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:40,800
Speaker 2: During one argument, she got close and breathed in my face.

667
00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:44,200
Speaker 2: She had bronchitis and was aware of it, and I've

668
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:47,040
Speaker 2: been struggling with it for two weeks now. My breathing

669
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:48,839
Speaker 2: at night sounds like a dog toy.

670
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 3: No, just like like that one squeaky toy from a toy, Yes.

671
00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:57,080
Speaker 2: The squeaky Yeah. This is his name, Pete or something.

672
00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:59,120
Speaker 3: No, it has something to do with his voice. I

673
00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:01,880
Speaker 3: think it was like rasp bears.

674
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:04,840
Speaker 2: I don't know. Is that penguin dude? My duck is

675
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:09,719
Speaker 2: still going strong? Look at that dude? That is a champion. Yeah,

676
00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 2: what's it? What's his name?

677
00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:16,000
Speaker 4: Easy, wheezy yeezy.

678
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:17,799
Speaker 2: Yeah.

679
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:19,719
Speaker 7: Yeah, Yeah, that's a great impression.

680
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:25,440
Speaker 2: If I can help it, I'd rather not be around

681
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:29,720
Speaker 2: her or anyone like her. Luan is a different story.

682
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 2: She was the only person who helped me when I

683
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:35,279
Speaker 2: got home from the hospital. My mom eighty six did

684
00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:37,879
Speaker 2: not grasp how serious it was that I had gone

685
00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:41,880
Speaker 2: into septic shock. Briefly, but still, and my body needed

686
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 2: to recover. Darcy acted like I was acting entitled for

687
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:47,839
Speaker 2: asking for help with things like getting drinks, making some

688
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:50,640
Speaker 2: buttered toast, and getting to the bathroom. These were things

689
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:54,759
Speaker 2: I genuinely could not do myself for the first week.

690
00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:59,720
Speaker 2: Like I said, Luan was still Luan was very helpful

691
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:03,120
Speaker 2: to me then and the most empathetic, But the difference

692
00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:07,400
Speaker 2: a month and a half can make is astounding. After

693
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 2: that first week, Luwan started having severe chest pains from

694
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:15,279
Speaker 2: severe anxiety. However, she and Darcy went around telling people

695
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:18,000
Speaker 2: that Luwan had a tear in her heart and had

696
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:21,279
Speaker 2: to relax more so it wouldn't remove her from this

697
00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:30,680
Speaker 2: mortal plane. So, okay, who lies about that? Yeah?

698
00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:31,319
Speaker 1: Why would you?

699
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:31,719
Speaker 2: Wow?

700
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:32,000
Speaker 3: Yeah?

701
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:35,880
Speaker 2: Who lies about that? That's absurd?

702
00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:36,560
Speaker 1: Crazy.

703
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 6: That's a very complex line too, because I don't know,

704
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:41,200
Speaker 6: do you want all that to get attention?

705
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 2: Maybe, yeah, I have a I have a tear in

706
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 2: my heart. It's like, maybe lie about something a little simpler,

707
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:51,760
Speaker 2: like yeah, I don't know, I haven't ulcer, I don't know.

708
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:54,799
Speaker 3: Right, It's just like I would only believe that that's

709
00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:57,880
Speaker 3: a lie. Someone like lies all the time about crazy stuff,

710
00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:00,680
Speaker 3: But I really doubt that this is situation.

711
00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 2: Stella would never Yeah, maybe they picked They picked that

712
00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 2: one because it's like, people aren't gonna be like, is

713
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:07,239
Speaker 2: your heart really torn? Though, They're gonna be like, oh

714
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:09,319
Speaker 2: my god, I'm so sorry. They're not even mean.

715
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:11,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, that means that's crazy.

716
00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 2: So she went to two different ers and neither of

717
00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:20,239
Speaker 2: them ever mentioned a tear in her heart. Luwan still

718
00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 2: used that excuse as to why she couldn't do more

719
00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:26,560
Speaker 2: than just lay in her in Darcy's room. It felt

720
00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:29,800
Speaker 2: offensive considering everything I had been through, and it stung

721
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:33,239
Speaker 2: that she was being coddled for this imaginary tear when

722
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:36,839
Speaker 2: I couldn't even get much support. Darcy is very much

723
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 2: responsible for the majority of Luan's coddling. Luwan uses her

724
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:44,000
Speaker 2: anxiety and stress as an excuse to not get a job.

725
00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 2: She was put on medication, but took herself off it

726
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 2: because she said it didn't feel like the same medicine anymore.

727
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 2: Darcy reassures her that she doesn't have to get a

728
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 2: job until she's ready. But I'm lazy for taking a

729
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 2: day off after having an emotional breakdown from three panic

730
00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:03,600
Speaker 2: at in one day. Yeah, there's always gonna it sounds

731
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 2: like there's a little golden child thing going on here

732
00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:10,359
Speaker 2: with Luan. Yeah, it's also the youngest. No, so it's

733
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 2: like I'll do it, said, that'll do it. The emotional

734
00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:18,799
Speaker 2: pain seeing the contrast of treatment day by day is

735
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:21,480
Speaker 2: just too much for me to sustain. I know it

736
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:23,879
Speaker 2: doesn't seem fair to cut contact for something that isn't

737
00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:27,320
Speaker 2: entirely her fault, but it's not just the coddling she gets.

738
00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:31,160
Speaker 2: For the past month, Luan just hasn't seemed interested in

739
00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:34,120
Speaker 2: staying in my life. She hardly comes out of her room,

740
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:35,799
Speaker 2: and when I ask if she'd like to go to

741
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:37,880
Speaker 2: the store with me or to look at houses, she

742
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 2: says no. Granted I always chose house tours earlier in

743
00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:44,680
Speaker 2: the morning because my grocery shopping job is very much

744
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:47,880
Speaker 2: a time is money job, it still hurts that, given

745
00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:50,279
Speaker 2: she has nothing else to do in the day, she

746
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:53,479
Speaker 2: chose not to just go to sleep earlier and come

747
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:57,279
Speaker 2: with me. She also contributes nothing to the house like

748
00:38:57,600 --> 00:39:00,840
Speaker 2: at all. She doesn't clean or do lawn, she doesn't

749
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:03,759
Speaker 2: wash dishes unless she's about to use one. She just

750
00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 2: sleeps and plays games all day. She claims she needs

751
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 2: to rest for her mental health. When she gets some

752
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 2: money by delivering food with her mom, she spends it

753
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:16,720
Speaker 2: on herself. But I'm a leech for not contributing every

754
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:19,840
Speaker 2: month to bills. I do when I can, an agreement

755
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 2: I made with my mom. Even though I pay for

756
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:24,640
Speaker 2: all of the cats and for all of my.

757
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:26,920
Speaker 7: Stuff, that's a lot of cats to pay for it.

758
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:30,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is a lot like that is not a

759
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:37,880
Speaker 2: small investment at all, a lot. It's just yeah, double

760
00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 2: triple standards in the household, it seems absolutely. Another issue

761
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:45,759
Speaker 2: I have with my sisters is that they are still

762
00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:48,280
Speaker 2: on good terms with the family members who have gone

763
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:52,000
Speaker 2: after and threatened me. The most current threat is that

764
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 2: if I'm not moved out by January first, their mother

765
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:58,520
Speaker 2: and grandmother are coming over attacking me and physically forcing

766
00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:02,040
Speaker 2: me out, something they can not legally do. They have

767
00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:05,520
Speaker 2: also intentionally tried to ostracize me in the house. Their

768
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:09,000
Speaker 2: mother has bought everyone but me food, shirts, and water,

769
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:11,279
Speaker 2: et cetera, and told them I was not allowed to

770
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:15,239
Speaker 2: have any of it. Ugh, stella, get out of there

771
00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:19,480
Speaker 2: as fast as you can sell. Their grandmother has done

772
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:22,040
Speaker 2: the same. They did this knowing at the time, I

773
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:25,080
Speaker 2: did not have the resources to get much food or water.

774
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:28,520
Speaker 2: When Darcy, Luan and my mom get invited to holidays,

775
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:32,279
Speaker 2: they're explicitly told I'm not allowed. I haven't shown up

776
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:35,120
Speaker 2: to a family holiday function in over six years since

777
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:40,319
Speaker 2: I cut them off. But it's still clear what they're doing.

778
00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:43,760
Speaker 2: What's crazy is they're mad at me for an incident

779
00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:46,719
Speaker 2: all three of us were involved in. They claim it

780
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:50,040
Speaker 2: was all me and I was the mastermind who manipulated

781
00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:52,480
Speaker 2: the others into following my plan. Oh my god, no,

782
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 2: I cannot elaborate further for legal purposes. My sisters know

783
00:40:56,840 --> 00:40:59,520
Speaker 2: they are equally at fault, but still allow my mistreatment.

784
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:01,960
Speaker 2: I move out. I want it to be a fresh start,

785
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:05,480
Speaker 2: a release from all the toxicity and attacks I've been under.

786
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:07,960
Speaker 2: I'm worried I won't have that if I allow them

787
00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:10,480
Speaker 2: to stay in my life. I'm also somewhat worried that

788
00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:13,960
Speaker 2: when the crap hits the fan and they and their

789
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:18,120
Speaker 2: anger is focused on them for causing my mom to

790
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:21,520
Speaker 2: spend her fixed income on them, and also without me

791
00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:24,279
Speaker 2: as the scapegoat, they'll try and fork their cats over

792
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:27,080
Speaker 2: to me. Also, with me gone, Luan will have to

793
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:29,479
Speaker 2: spend her money on cat food and litter, and knowing

794
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:32,480
Speaker 2: that her manipulative mother may cut her off because she's

795
00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:36,440
Speaker 2: been wanting Luan to live with her again. When that happens,

796
00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:39,960
Speaker 2: it will be a crapstorm because my mom cannot provide

797
00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:42,560
Speaker 2: for five cats. I don't want to be involved in that.

798
00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:45,360
Speaker 2: But my sisters have a habit of pulling me into drama.

799
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:48,600
Speaker 2: I want no part of Unlike their family. I run

800
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:55,160
Speaker 2: on cartoons, music and okay, story time not drama.

801
00:41:55,480 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 7: Yeah, at least not your drama. Not what else is drama?

802
00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 2: And uh and by the way, uh you can take

803
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:09,279
Speaker 2: that drama over and uh listen to full episodes with

804
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:14,280
Speaker 2: stories like this. Just go to Spotify or Apple podcasts

805
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:18,680
Speaker 2: wherever you listen to podcasts and search okay, story time,

806
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:21,319
Speaker 2: and there you will find us, Yes, and there we

807
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:21,839
Speaker 2: will be.

808
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 3: H.

809
00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 2: So we do have a little bit, a little bit

810
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:29,719
Speaker 2: more of the story here. But I think before I

811
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:34,279
Speaker 2: think it's clear, like, uh, Stella, you gotta get out

812
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:34,520
Speaker 2: of there.

813
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:36,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, But I mean instead at the beginning that she

814
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:39,200
Speaker 3: got a new place, is this is this looking she's

815
00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:42,160
Speaker 3: looking she's in the process of Okay, Okay, I'm not

816
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:47,840
Speaker 3: sure if it's a have you have you Stella, have

817
00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 3: you found that new place or you in the new place?

818
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 2: Let us let us know in the comments. But like,

819
00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:55,279
Speaker 2: clearly these people are it's gone so far south. And

820
00:42:55,320 --> 00:42:57,040
Speaker 2: I don't think that you would be the a hole

821
00:42:57,080 --> 00:42:59,840
Speaker 2: for for also breaking it off with Luan, because I

822
00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:02,319
Speaker 2: think at this point, like you know, they're not in

823
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 2: a place where they can be there for you, and

824
00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:07,040
Speaker 2: they're also probably going to get the hooks put in

825
00:43:07,080 --> 00:43:10,600
Speaker 2: them from the rest of the family and and eventually

826
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:14,879
Speaker 2: just get on the Stella bashing train. So I think

827
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 2: you can just remove yourself entirely from the equation and

828
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:23,520
Speaker 2: go thrive. Yes, without this, you know, these bild monkeys

829
00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:25,160
Speaker 2: on your back, right, because roommates.

830
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:25,520
Speaker 7: Are hard enough.

831
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 3: I mean speaking as someone who doesn't have roommates except

832
00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:31,320
Speaker 3: for my family, but like I've heard so many.

833
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:35,160
Speaker 2: Stories the family is basically core roommates.

834
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:37,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess so, but but I've lived with them

835
00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 3: long enough in like default roommate's so busy that I'm

836
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:43,160
Speaker 3: like not home enough to like have it be a problem.

837
00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:47,600
Speaker 3: But you know, roommates are always tough, and if like

838
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 3: this is just like an extra level of difficulty with

839
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:54,839
Speaker 3: these roommates of them just like actually just bashing on

840
00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:58,359
Speaker 3: you now, and so just get yourself away from that.

841
00:43:58,360 --> 00:44:00,680
Speaker 3: That will make things better and it might save your

842
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:02,760
Speaker 3: relationship with some of these people too, just distance.

843
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:07,640
Speaker 2: But they're also her sisters. Correct, Yes, yes, well I

844
00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 2: have heard that.

845
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:09,759
Speaker 3: Like I've had a lot of friends who had like

846
00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:13,200
Speaker 3: you know, you know, difficulties with their family and like

847
00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 3: just not getting along with their siblings and stuff. But

848
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 3: then they move away to college or something like that,

849
00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 3: and then it's like so much better, which sounds like

850
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:20,759
Speaker 3: magical thing.

851
00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:25,799
Speaker 2: Things have just gone down. Yeah, but like Darcy and

852
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:28,399
Speaker 2: then like Darcy and now Luan are both I think

853
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:30,839
Speaker 2: Luan was good, but now it's like low key there's

854
00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:33,799
Speaker 2: the influence for the rest of the family. Yeah tough.

855
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 7: I'm so sorry.

856
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, hey, good news is is that you can

857
00:44:37,640 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 2: totally get out of there. The tricky thing is gonna

858
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:42,200
Speaker 2: be like especially with like the cats, like I know,

859
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 2: you're probably gonna feel like obligated, but it's like you can't.

860
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 2: You gotta be. You gotta start this new phase by

861
00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:52,000
Speaker 2: just looking out for yourself. Yes, look out for you.

862
00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:58,759
Speaker 2: Some more hearts in the chat for Stella hearts for chat. Yes,

863
00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:02,319
Speaker 2: cry those tears sella the good tears, good tears, good

864
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:08,080
Speaker 2: supporting tears. Anyway, let's finish the story every time I

865
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:10,120
Speaker 2: bring it up to prepare them when they start making

866
00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 2: plans for the future with me in it. They at

867
00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:15,080
Speaker 2: one point plan to host Christmas dinner at my new

868
00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:17,759
Speaker 2: home and invite the sister I'm still pissed at for

869
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:20,919
Speaker 2: Steelee my cat and degrading his health with Darcy's aid

870
00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 2: without even asking me. Lucy gets upset and reminds me

871
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:28,440
Speaker 2: about the promise. I am not a breaker of promises,

872
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:31,240
Speaker 2: but I need the chance to actually recover from everything

873
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:34,640
Speaker 2: I've been through mentally and physically, and I don't see

874
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 2: that happening with them still in my life. So would

875
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:39,640
Speaker 2: I be the a hole if I broke my promise

876
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:43,080
Speaker 2: and went no contact? So I hear. And when it

877
00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:45,759
Speaker 2: comes to that too, because I did kind of it

878
00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:48,520
Speaker 2: slipped my mind the promise from the beginning of the story, right,

879
00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 2: I think you just need to have You need to

880
00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:54,640
Speaker 2: have a sit down and heart to heart with with Luan,

881
00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 2: with your sister and just tell her where you're at

882
00:45:57,600 --> 00:46:01,200
Speaker 2: and be like, you know, I don't want to leave

883
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 2: because it sounds like you really don't. It sounds like

884
00:46:03,080 --> 00:46:06,239
Speaker 2: you think no contact has to happen for you to

885
00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:08,799
Speaker 2: be able to have like a clean break now that

886
00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:12,200
Speaker 2: she's kind of begun to switch up. But I think

887
00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:14,440
Speaker 2: if you go to her and just like have a

888
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:17,919
Speaker 2: person like heart to heart sister's sister talk and be like, look, yeah,

889
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:21,360
Speaker 2: I'm not like doing this because you can go no

890
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:23,360
Speaker 2: kind if you really feel like you need to be

891
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:26,880
Speaker 2: alone away from your family, I think you can do that. Yeah,

892
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:29,000
Speaker 2: but you should let her know. It's like it's this

893
00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:33,200
Speaker 2: is not your fault, right, It's like it's just everything

894
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:35,880
Speaker 2: has gotten so messy. I need I need to wipe

895
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:36,279
Speaker 2: the slate.

896
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:36,719
Speaker 1: I need to.

897
00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 3: Reset, right, because you can't you don't know what's gonna

898
00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:41,359
Speaker 3: happen in the future. And so like you can make

899
00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:44,560
Speaker 3: that promise and you're probably in a bit of a

900
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:47,440
Speaker 3: better situation at that point, you know. So it's like

901
00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 3: if at that point it seems probably probably easy to

902
00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:53,360
Speaker 3: be like, no, I promise I won't go no contact,

903
00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:54,360
Speaker 3: Like that's not gonna happen.

904
00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:55,480
Speaker 7: Love you guys, you know what I mean.

905
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:59,839
Speaker 3: And but at a certain point, you know, things get worse,

906
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:01,440
Speaker 3: like you were saying, you just need to look out

907
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:04,440
Speaker 3: for yourself and if they've pushed you to that point

908
00:47:04,520 --> 00:47:06,719
Speaker 3: where that's going to help, then that's what you gotta do.

909
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:08,840
Speaker 7: I you gotta do.

910
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:12,720
Speaker 2: I can definitely see the concern for the the younger

911
00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:15,480
Speaker 2: the younger sister though, especially because she's like, I mean,

912
00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 2: eighteen is a hard age to like figure it out,

913
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:20,520
Speaker 2: and like, yeah, it extent You're like, yeah, she's she's

914
00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 2: sleeping a lot, or she's in a room a loge.

915
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:25,560
Speaker 2: She's just kind of like isolating. It's like sounds like,

916
00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:28,239
Speaker 2: you know, it sounds like there's a lot going on

917
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 2: for everybody. But yeah, I would definitely say not the ale,

918
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 2: just you just have a condo, have the comma, do

919
00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:38,120
Speaker 2: what you gotta do for yourself.

920
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:38,879
Speaker 7: Not at all.

921
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:42,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, And but that is the end.

922
00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:43,200
Speaker 1: That is the end of that.

923
00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:45,400
Speaker 3: So glad you're here when we got to read Yeah, though,

924
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:48,240
Speaker 3: that's amazing and that everyone is supporting you in the chat.

925
00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:51,719
Speaker 3: If you, guys, anyone else has any other problems or

926
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:55,000
Speaker 3: crazy situations, just go to our slash okay storytime, separate

927
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:57,640
Speaker 3: it yes type of man, and we'll do this exact thing.

928
00:47:58,120 --> 00:47:59,360
Speaker 1: I'm going to read it for you.

929
00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:03,040
Speaker 2: We will. That's exactly what we're.

930
00:48:02,640 --> 00:48:03,560
Speaker 1: Here for you, guys.

931
00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:04,359
Speaker 2: We love yall.