1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:03,960 Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? It's your girl lex Peak and. 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:06,520 Speaker 2: It's sugar Ol Dre and the call and you. 3 00:00:06,519 --> 00:00:11,079 Speaker 3: Are tuned into another episode of four Minds. We're a 4 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:14,480 Speaker 3: drunk mind speaks sober thoughts. I forgot that was my cue. 5 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:16,079 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Okay. 6 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:18,280 Speaker 3: First of all, let me just say we had a 7 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:22,439 Speaker 3: lot going on yesterday. We actually got drunk accidentally. I 8 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:23,320 Speaker 3: think it was an accident. 9 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:26,760 Speaker 1: How do you accidentally do that on purpose? We were 10 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 1: on the podcast yesterday. I'm rating unruly. 11 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 3: Shout out to them. It was actually a really good podcast. 12 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:33,480 Speaker 3: It was Did you have fun? 13 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 1: I did? Yeah, I enjoyed. Shout out to them. We 14 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:37,960 Speaker 1: had a good time. It was cool. 15 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 3: So look, I'm not ignoring you, but we're gonna get 16 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:46,559 Speaker 3: to you and say, yes, ladies, we got something for 17 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 3: y'all today. But hold on, let me do a little update, Dre. 18 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:51,199 Speaker 3: What's been going on your past week? 19 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:52,960 Speaker 1: What's up? Hmm? 20 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 3: Indeed, I had a good week for the most part. 21 00:00:57,440 --> 00:01:00,240 Speaker 3: You know, I started working, oh a working, and it 22 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 3: was fucking trash. 23 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 1: Okay, I hate it here. So you didn't like being 24 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 1: at work? No, why not? It's ghetto? Okay, So what happened? Nothing, 25 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 1: and that's the problem. Did you make some money up? No, 26 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 1: So I'm like, why the fuck am I here? Are 27 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 1: you going back? 28 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 3: I'm going back, you know, for the time being. But 29 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 3: I got a plan. You already know my plan. I 30 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 3: can't say it because you don't never know who watch it, 31 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:26,600 Speaker 3: But yeah, I got a plan. So I mean, you know, 32 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:29,479 Speaker 3: I'll be there for a little a little while long. 33 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 3: I think you should give it some time because you know, honestly, 34 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 3: right now it's cold, it's winter. People aren't outside like that, 35 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:36,399 Speaker 3: so it's about to get warm and a little it's 36 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:36,759 Speaker 3: about to. 37 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 1: Get warm in a bit. So I feel like once 38 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 1: the weather gets a little bit nicer, it's gonna be 39 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 1: it's gonna be busier. So you can, you can. You 40 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:45,480 Speaker 1: should stick it out for how long? 41 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 3: I would say, at least till spring, at least still 42 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 3: spring anyway, and. 43 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 1: Make your money, bitch, don't let it make you okay, 44 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 1: you know what? 45 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 3: No, I just feel like, I don't know. I just 46 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 3: feel like I've outgrown this stage in my life. I 47 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 3: feel like sometimes we be trying so hard to make 48 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 3: puzzle pieces feet where they don't fit no more. I 49 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 3: feel like I kind of missed working, you know, because 50 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 3: I feel like sometimes I would be bored. 51 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 1: But I really feel like it's been so long. I 52 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: just don't like it anymore. It's not for me. 53 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 2: Like the girls are fucking annoying and lame as fuzzed. 54 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 1: I don't give a damn what they gonna do. Beat 55 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: me up. 56 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 3: I can't fight, Actually you Can't'm gonna have to call 57 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 3: you a who can fight. It don't even matter if 58 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 3: you can't fight, you big, So they gonna be scared. 59 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 3: It's like when you bring your big It's like when 60 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:40,360 Speaker 3: you bring your It's like when you bring your big 61 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:45,120 Speaker 3: sister to school. I think that would be scared somebody. 62 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 3: I think that would be scared off the walk in, 63 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:51,240 Speaker 3: Like you wouldn't even have to say this, especially with 64 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:59,360 Speaker 3: that my lord, my niece when she felt And nobody 65 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:00,959 Speaker 3: probably knows what song they came. 66 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 1: Everybody knows that fucking song or a song thank you? 67 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 3: I mean, I mean yeah, but I feel like everybody 68 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 3: doesn't know that. Did you know what song they came from? 69 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:13,640 Speaker 1: Exactly? I proved my point anyway, So we're gonna move on. 70 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 1: My week was, uh, it was cool. 71 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:18,800 Speaker 3: I moved into a new apartment I know, y'all know 72 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:20,639 Speaker 3: my show. I have a show called Jazz and Lex 73 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 3: Where to next? So me and my co host Jazz 74 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:25,279 Speaker 3: got a two bedroom. It's really nice, it's really spacious. 75 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 3: I'm excited. I realized I'm a person that doesn't like 76 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:29,679 Speaker 3: to live alone. I lived alone for two years and 77 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 3: I really did not like it at all. So I 78 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 3: have a two bedroom and it's really nice. It's like 79 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 3: all hardwood floors. We got the stainless steel appliances, and 80 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 3: I'm just really really happy to be you, alight. 81 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 1: I'm so happy. Yes, you saged it already, Jazz saged 82 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 1: it for us. Okay, this sages. So we're gonna have 83 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 1: a housewarming and in like in like two weeks. So 84 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 1: I'm really excited. I'm excited too. Y'all gonna have a caterer. 85 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 1: A caterer? Hell no, because no Jazz can cook. Bitch, 86 00:03:56,560 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 1: Why are you trying to put me on blaze? I 87 00:03:58,680 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 1: was just wondering who was gonna cook. 88 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 3: I could cook a mean because then I was gonna say, 89 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 3: maybe y'all gotta eat first, then. 90 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 1: Come, bitch, fuck you don't come in. Don't come. 91 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 3: I mean, that's fine, I'll stay my money, don't have 92 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 3: to get you no gives. 93 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 1: I didn't even say y'all have to bring gives. 94 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 3: That's what a house warming party is to me. Who 95 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 3: comes to a house warming party without it? 96 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 1: You know? 97 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:16,200 Speaker 3: I just feel like, I mean, y'all, y'all can bring 98 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 3: something if you want, but I'm not gonna be like, 99 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 3: bring something for the house because you know I got everything. Oh, 100 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 3: you better than me, because she's beach. I'm gonna have 101 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 3: a motherfucking basket at the door. Is gonna drop no gifts, drag, 102 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 3: gonna be like I need a vacuum TV on TV stand. 103 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 3: I might have a reggilar Ima have a registreet like 104 00:04:33,839 --> 00:04:37,040 Speaker 3: I just had a baby. Okay, So anyways, were gonna 105 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:38,679 Speaker 3: go ahead and get into it, y'all. 106 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 1: We have a special guest. We do because the topics. 107 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 3: That we're talking about today we definitely needed a guest for. 108 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:47,719 Speaker 3: So introduce yourself and tell the people who you are. 109 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:49,600 Speaker 4: And what's up, y'all. My name is Jay Copp. I'm 110 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:51,920 Speaker 4: originally from Baltimore, Maryland. I've been out in a land 111 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 4: about ten years now. 112 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:57,839 Speaker 3: Okay, how do you say you yeah, I'm day? 113 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:01,239 Speaker 1: How do you say two? 114 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 3: Yeah? Have the worst accident. Yeah, oh my gosh, are 115 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:10,839 Speaker 3: you about to get on. 116 00:05:10,839 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 1: My nerves this whole time? Okay, so we're gonna get 117 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:20,279 Speaker 1: into it. We're not gonna pick on you too much. 118 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:23,039 Speaker 3: So the topic I wanted to talk about is because 119 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 3: I've never had this conversation with someone who was an 120 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:26,599 Speaker 3: actual Greek. 121 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 1: I wanted to talk. 122 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:29,840 Speaker 3: About Greek life, Like it's been a lot going on 123 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 3: in the media with like Little Boosy lately, and there's 124 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 3: stuff that's been going on in the past, Like there 125 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:37,280 Speaker 3: was a girl on Twitter one time she was like, 126 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 3: if I'm strolling, I don't care if Sasha Obama is 127 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 3: standing in front of me, I'm pushing her out the way. 128 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 3: Like her account got deleted because they were like they 129 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:47,719 Speaker 3: took that as a threat to the president. Yeah, but 130 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 3: I feel like sometimes I feel like Greek life is 131 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:50,920 Speaker 3: really a joke. 132 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna walk to you, I'm not gonna lie. 133 00:05:52,839 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 1: I'm being honest and what are you? 134 00:05:55,640 --> 00:06:00,720 Speaker 2: Okay, I like Alpha, I don't think there is corny no. 135 00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:02,920 Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, Kampus are a little extreme, but I 136 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 3: just feel like Greek Okay, So let me tell you 137 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:07,920 Speaker 3: my opinion on Greek life Okay. I just feel like 138 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:11,719 Speaker 3: it's just something that you're like, you're basically paying for friends. 139 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 1: I feel like they're paying for friends. And I just. 140 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 3: Feel like the brotherhood stuff, I feel like it's and 141 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 3: y'all have to go through so much to even be 142 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 3: in there. Like I was dating somebody at the time 143 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 3: and he was getting haze and I'm telling you, they 144 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:28,640 Speaker 3: calling him like three o'clock in the morning, Come wash 145 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 3: my car, come bring me. 146 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 1: I remember that, shi It is stupid. 147 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:38,840 Speaker 3: That's a lot like what are the pros of being involved, 148 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:42,679 Speaker 3: like being involved in like a Greek sorority, fraternity, whatever. 149 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 4: It's a lot of pros. I mean, you got the 150 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:47,360 Speaker 4: network right when you're approached to when you get into 151 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:50,279 Speaker 4: the real world. You know a lot of people Black 152 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:54,040 Speaker 4: African Americans and positions typically they a lot of them 153 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 4: are Greek Greek affiliated, right, So it's just it's it's 154 00:06:57,640 --> 00:07:00,920 Speaker 4: that other lane of networking to get to tap into 155 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:04,279 Speaker 4: really right, but the issue really arise, And of course 156 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 4: I'm Greek myself, so I have a little bias as 157 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:09,720 Speaker 4: far as towards how a lot of Greeks act. It's 158 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 4: a lot of Greeks that do the most when it 159 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 4: comes to the ship, right, what you will find is 160 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:17,160 Speaker 4: a lot of people weren't really who they are who 161 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 4: they are post crossing before they cross. So a lot 162 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 4: of people eat that ship up right, so they get 163 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 4: they cross, they get letters speaking for guys, all of 164 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 4: a sudden, they getting a girl that they couldn't get. 165 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 4: They get that it wasn't used to. So a lot 166 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 4: of people wrung with that and just let it go 167 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 4: to their head. But I mean, you got some people 168 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 4: that just real cool about the ship, right. You got 169 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:39,760 Speaker 4: niggas that was getting pussy before. You got niggas that 170 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 4: had attention before. 171 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 1: So yeah, new to them. 172 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 4: So it's a fine line that you gotta that you straddle. 173 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 4: But a lot of people do. I I can agree 174 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 4: to an extent with you guys that a lot of 175 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 4: people do take it overboard when it comes to that 176 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 4: social you feel me. But outside of that, you gotta 177 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 4: really use it for what's worth. I use it personally 178 00:07:57,560 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 4: when I'm you know, I'm a businessman. So when I 179 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 4: tap into these business meetings with other people who are 180 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 4: African American, a lot of the times they are Greek, right, 181 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:07,800 Speaker 4: and they may not necessarily be the same organization as me. 182 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 4: But it's something we could talk about, something we can 183 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 4: relate to business. It's all about the relationship. So get 184 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 4: somebody on your side with that. Pretty much wrong with it? 185 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 3: Okay, So let me ask you a question though, So 186 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:23,120 Speaker 3: as an alpha, like if Boosy would have did something 187 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:26,120 Speaker 3: like more Alpha sweatshirt, well that would have made you mad. 188 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 4: I don't know. I'm a Boosy fan at the end 189 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 4: of the day. 190 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 3: Love. 191 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 4: It was coming from a place because let's be real, 192 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 4: if you really listen to Boosie, I'm talking about back 193 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:37,959 Speaker 4: to I was listening to Boosy at twelve thirteen years 194 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 4: old in West Baltimore. Yeah, I was. 195 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 1: I was a bad child. 196 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 4: No, But like Boosy is a hood nigga. If you're 197 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:47,679 Speaker 4: from the hood and you know hood niggas, you know 198 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:50,959 Speaker 4: when they do ship like that, it's not a place 199 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:53,440 Speaker 4: out of malice. It's like these niggas just don't know. 200 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 1: They just don't care. 201 00:08:55,160 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 4: They don't give a fuck, right, right, So I was like, 202 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:58,840 Speaker 4: I was watching Boosie with the whole cap a thing 203 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 4: went down. I seen that he was talking about. He 204 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:04,520 Speaker 4: posted on line like y'all gotta teach me to dance. 205 00:09:05,559 --> 00:09:08,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, that ship was funny. 206 00:09:08,880 --> 00:09:13,320 Speaker 4: Hell mind you was just going crazy so pissed. 207 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:15,400 Speaker 3: I think that's what we don't understand. And I think 208 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 3: that's why she said to herd to a certain extiti 209 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 3: just time. 210 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:21,000 Speaker 1: It's kind of lame because it's like, why are you 211 00:09:21,240 --> 00:09:22,719 Speaker 1: that fucking upstate? Right? 212 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 4: And I agree to the defense because I guess it's 213 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:28,840 Speaker 4: the organization and plays the organization. You know, it's kind 214 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:31,680 Speaker 4: of seen it disrespect. But to me, as a Boosy fan, 215 00:09:31,960 --> 00:09:34,240 Speaker 4: as an Alpha, I would have took it as it 216 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 4: was a joke. Yeah, Like like if you because just 217 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:41,040 Speaker 4: be clear, like a lot of dudes that cross fraternities, 218 00:09:41,320 --> 00:09:42,840 Speaker 4: a lot of them got stores, a lot of them 219 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 4: from the hoods, a lot of them relate to a 220 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 4: lot of the ship that a lot of like Webby 221 00:09:46,559 --> 00:09:49,720 Speaker 4: rap about. So if you see if me personally, if 222 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 4: I've seen Boosie doing an Alpha stroll or talking about 223 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 4: or when in an Alpha sweat at a heart tame, 224 00:09:54,160 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 4: I would think it was funny because he don't know 225 00:09:57,679 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 4: like I got I gotta do when I go. 226 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:02,280 Speaker 3: Back to But he didn't go to college, first of all, 227 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:04,720 Speaker 3: was not at nobody college. You don't know what the 228 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:06,839 Speaker 3: fuck Greek life is about, you know what I mean? 229 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 3: And how serious niggas really take this. 230 00:10:08,600 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 4: Shit exactly, Like even when I go home in Baltimore, 231 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 4: like I still got niggas to this day around my 232 00:10:12,440 --> 00:10:14,199 Speaker 4: way where I grew up. How much it costs to 233 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:14,600 Speaker 4: do what. 234 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:15,000 Speaker 5: You do, Like. 235 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:20,320 Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, it's not like that, they don't know why, 236 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:23,000 Speaker 3: But why is it such a serious thing? Like why 237 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:25,160 Speaker 3: is it like, oh my gosh, I'm an outpha and 238 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:28,600 Speaker 3: you can't do that. And another thing too, you know, 239 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:30,760 Speaker 3: like well, when I was in college, you know, they 240 00:10:30,800 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 3: would have like the people that will pledge, and then 241 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 3: I guess after university and after what is it? What's 242 00:10:39,520 --> 00:10:42,200 Speaker 3: after you go to the four year I forgot grad school. 243 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 3: After grad school, if you get on in a fraternity 244 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:50,440 Speaker 3: or sorority, you're on paper. And they take that serious too, 245 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:52,680 Speaker 3: like the difference between people who are like on paper 246 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:54,240 Speaker 3: and the people who really really. 247 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 1: Had to pledge. 248 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:57,480 Speaker 3: And I guess I don't really understand the difference with 249 00:10:57,559 --> 00:10:59,560 Speaker 3: that too, cause it's like if I'm I mean, if 250 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 3: I'm an a k and u a ka beach, I 251 00:11:01,800 --> 00:11:03,959 Speaker 3: mean we both steal a kaa. What's the difference is 252 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:06,520 Speaker 3: I'm on paper and you had to pledge. 253 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:07,599 Speaker 4: Right, So I'm gonna break it down for y'all. This 254 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 4: is me speaking as a Greek. It's not me speaking 255 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:11,839 Speaker 4: to me right. So when people go into undergrad and 256 00:11:11,840 --> 00:11:14,319 Speaker 4: they pledge to undergrade, they typically go through a process 257 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 4: where they to quote unquote and they let us right. 258 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:20,719 Speaker 3: When you get your ass beat, that's when you get 259 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:22,560 Speaker 3: like Spain, a lot of our. 260 00:11:22,480 --> 00:11:26,920 Speaker 1: Cabins don't talk each other gigs. I heard that too, 261 00:11:27,640 --> 00:11:30,520 Speaker 1: and that means true. That means it's true. 262 00:11:30,520 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 4: I'm gonna need some cab I. 263 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 1: Heard that too. No, yeah, we we need to know the. 264 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 3: Show that no ship kind of sound that shouldn't be 265 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:41,960 Speaker 3: real about to destroy you when. 266 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 4: And this should come out God but no, like so, 267 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:47,800 Speaker 4: like you know, with that, like undergrade typically pledge, you 268 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:49,679 Speaker 4: go through a process to get to let us right. 269 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:53,320 Speaker 4: But in grad it's seen as you typically it's not 270 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:57,480 Speaker 4: as stringent, it's as much of a process to be respected. 271 00:11:57,480 --> 00:11:59,720 Speaker 4: It's like, okay, I am my letters. In this organization, 272 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:03,360 Speaker 4: it's not it's literally it's physical shit you go through, 273 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:04,760 Speaker 4: but a lot of it's meant to as well. 274 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:06,319 Speaker 3: Do you think it's maybe like a little bit of 275 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 3: a hating thing because you know, sometimes people be feeling like, oh, 276 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:12,520 Speaker 3: you got this ship easy and I had to really 277 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:13,199 Speaker 3: really work for. 278 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:14,840 Speaker 4: A lot of people feel like that. Yeah, a lot 279 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:15,719 Speaker 4: of people feel like that. 280 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:18,720 Speaker 1: A lot of your dumb as. You're supposed to work smarter, 281 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:20,239 Speaker 1: not harder. 282 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 3: Because that's wait to get my paper because at the 283 00:12:23,360 --> 00:12:24,920 Speaker 3: end of the day, about to be my ass. 284 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 4: Because at the end of the day, though, like once 285 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:30,200 Speaker 4: you like when you cross undergrad versus grad, yeah, something 286 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 4: you know, discrepancies between the two. At the end of that, 287 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:37,760 Speaker 4: you look like it's all about the work you do 288 00:12:37,880 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 4: at the organization because when people cross grad, he's a 289 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:43,360 Speaker 4: grown ass woman like doctors, lawyer's business. 290 00:12:43,559 --> 00:12:45,840 Speaker 1: They be older the the ones you want. 291 00:12:45,679 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 4: To position yourself with, right, right, So I mean it 292 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 4: comes down to like a social construct of like, Okay, 293 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 4: I'm an undergrad. I players undergrade this, this and that. 294 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 4: But honestly, it's really about the work that you do 295 00:12:57,200 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 4: for the organization, right to whether you cross you know, 296 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:03,480 Speaker 4: you actually pledged, or you went through something that's not 297 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:05,960 Speaker 4: as strenuous, it doesn't really mad. It's all by the. 298 00:13:05,960 --> 00:13:06,800 Speaker 1: Work, right, Okay. 299 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:08,680 Speaker 3: See when I was in college, you know it was 300 00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:11,000 Speaker 3: lit like you know if you was dating somebody that 301 00:13:11,120 --> 00:13:11,839 Speaker 3: was a Greek. 302 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:12,840 Speaker 1: Like, oh yeah, absolutely. 303 00:13:12,920 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 3: But I guess now as an adult, like when I 304 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:15,840 Speaker 3: be in the club and I'll. 305 00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:16,560 Speaker 1: Be seeing people. 306 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:21,600 Speaker 3: Club you okay, so we ain't gonna never see you 307 00:13:21,640 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 3: strolling in. 308 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:25,200 Speaker 4: The club ever, I bet my last Dollarum. 309 00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:29,560 Speaker 3: Okay, Well why do like, why do they do that? 310 00:13:29,720 --> 00:13:31,559 Speaker 4: Because honestly, and I'll be honest with you, a lot 311 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:33,439 Speaker 4: of the times when you catch a group of guys 312 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 4: or a group of women stolen in the club, A 313 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:39,120 Speaker 4: lot of the times they just crossed. I crossed about 314 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 4: ship nine years. 315 00:13:40,679 --> 00:13:43,160 Speaker 1: Ago, if you don't mind me. 316 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:48,480 Speaker 4: Asking twenty eight this ship. So like a lot of 317 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:51,880 Speaker 4: the times those dudes, those women, they they had just crossed. 318 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 4: They just got their letters. So they like hype about 319 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:56,200 Speaker 4: this ship. But it's nothing wrong, Like you work with 320 00:13:56,280 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 4: something you woulded opportunity have added. But I feel like 321 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:02,080 Speaker 4: it's a time and a place of everything. So if 322 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:04,960 Speaker 4: I'm in compound in my section, I don't want to see, Yeah, 323 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 4: go on past my section. I do it all because 324 00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:09,160 Speaker 4: I'm on the Atlanta's seen a lot, you feel me, 325 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:10,839 Speaker 4: So I see it all the time when a lot 326 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:12,560 Speaker 4: of dudes be in the club stro and it's like 327 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 4: all these women. 328 00:14:13,720 --> 00:14:18,000 Speaker 3: In here, you'd be killing I like get secondhand embarrassment. 329 00:14:18,200 --> 00:14:21,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like, what are you doing? I mean, it's intense. 330 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:24,000 Speaker 3: I mean and for me, like I actually used to 331 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:25,800 Speaker 3: want to be in a sorority. 332 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:29,120 Speaker 2: I wanted to be an AKA because my family. 333 00:14:29,240 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 3: I have like a lot of akas in my family 334 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 3: on my mom's side, so and they were like pressuring 335 00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:35,560 Speaker 3: me when I went to college, Like I was like, 336 00:14:35,600 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 3: what you gonna pledge? And then my best friend Jazzmine, 337 00:14:38,400 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 3: a lot of people in her family are AKA too, 338 00:14:40,960 --> 00:14:43,240 Speaker 3: so we both had said when we went to college, 339 00:14:43,280 --> 00:14:45,760 Speaker 3: we was gonna pledge AKA. But then once I got 340 00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:49,000 Speaker 3: to college, I changed my mind. And also when I 341 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:51,280 Speaker 3: was in high school, we had like in Houston, we 342 00:14:51,360 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 3: had like high school yeah, we had like high school 343 00:14:54,600 --> 00:14:59,120 Speaker 3: sororities in high school for turn yeah. And so when 344 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 3: I was in high school, I pledged this high school 345 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 3: sorority called Mademoiselle's Mademoiselle Girl shut the fuck up. 346 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:13,160 Speaker 2: So look, so look this how is so fucking annoying. 347 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 1: I can't even get. 348 00:15:18,080 --> 00:15:22,040 Speaker 3: I can't even get the fucking story it was red 349 00:15:22,080 --> 00:15:22,520 Speaker 3: and white. 350 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:26,160 Speaker 1: Y'all was like the baby cap gra we was he 351 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:27,320 Speaker 1: had jackis and everything. 352 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:32,480 Speaker 3: Yes, so I had to pledge or whatever for like 353 00:15:32,800 --> 00:15:38,200 Speaker 3: eight weeks. And on the night of our initiation or whatever, 354 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:40,440 Speaker 3: they threw an egg in my eye. 355 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 1: Yes, they were. 356 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 3: They were throwing eggs at It's like and it happened 357 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:47,320 Speaker 3: to hear me in my eye and it broke a 358 00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:49,800 Speaker 3: blood vessel in my eye. And after that, she and 359 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:52,080 Speaker 3: I mean I crossed, but then after that I was like, 360 00:15:52,120 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 3: I'm done with this. She so it was like I 361 00:15:53,680 --> 00:15:55,480 Speaker 3: was one, but I stopped going to all the events 362 00:15:55,480 --> 00:15:57,000 Speaker 3: and she because I was just like this ain't for me. 363 00:15:57,520 --> 00:16:02,480 Speaker 3: Like y'all literally injured me to get it, and it's 364 00:16:02,520 --> 00:16:04,760 Speaker 3: like to get into this ship and like what the 365 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 3: FuG they paddled us in all types of sheet. 366 00:16:07,800 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it was high school. 367 00:16:09,520 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 3: I know you can't talk about the hazing process like right, 368 00:16:12,760 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 3: but why do they go so hard? Like why did 369 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:18,960 Speaker 3: hazing For a moment it was like really really dangerous. 370 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 3: I do scaled back a lot due to all the 371 00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:23,880 Speaker 3: deaths that were happening, but why is the. 372 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:28,480 Speaker 1: Hazing process so like crazy and dangerous. 373 00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 4: Just to be on record a lot of divine organizations. 374 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 3: I'm dead, I'm dead to be and see that's why 375 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:39,480 Speaker 3: I was scared, because I was like, if I went 376 00:16:39,520 --> 00:16:41,720 Speaker 3: through this in high school, I don't want to see 377 00:16:41,720 --> 00:16:43,800 Speaker 3: what it's like on a college scale, you know what. 378 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:46,040 Speaker 4: I mean, it's different when you get to college skill. 379 00:16:46,040 --> 00:16:47,640 Speaker 4: A lot of the time it's really mental, right, You've 380 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 4: been putting in situations where you really think about something 381 00:16:51,680 --> 00:16:54,440 Speaker 4: so drastically that it can really alter your whole mindself. 382 00:16:55,920 --> 00:16:57,800 Speaker 4: I think about this. It may be something that's going 383 00:16:57,800 --> 00:17:03,120 Speaker 4: on consistently every night or an extent, but you know, 384 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:05,199 Speaker 4: it's one of those things where it's just all mental. 385 00:17:05,280 --> 00:17:08,120 Speaker 4: It's just all there's a lot of the things are 386 00:17:08,160 --> 00:17:11,720 Speaker 4: designed to really test the mental state and mental capacity 387 00:17:11,760 --> 00:17:14,560 Speaker 4: because a lot of people aren't mentally stable. Right. But 388 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:18,600 Speaker 4: even with that, with my speaking on my process, a 389 00:17:18,600 --> 00:17:19,920 Speaker 4: lot of things I went to that was a lot 390 00:17:19,920 --> 00:17:22,560 Speaker 4: of that was mental and physical. I applied that their 391 00:17:22,600 --> 00:17:27,359 Speaker 4: real life, even with the like you know, tear people 392 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:31,640 Speaker 4: down mental just mental ship that you gotta go through 393 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:36,040 Speaker 4: try just trials and tribulations and all types of ship 394 00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:38,000 Speaker 4: like that. You know, like if you players, you you're 395 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:41,520 Speaker 4: pretty much you're not an experience being broke, being honest, 396 00:17:41,520 --> 00:17:43,840 Speaker 4: because you know the broken nigga in Atlanta when I 397 00:17:43,880 --> 00:17:44,800 Speaker 4: was on line at one point. 398 00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 1: So see that's college. 399 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:49,479 Speaker 4: That's just college. So imagine you broke, you broke college, 400 00:17:49,480 --> 00:17:51,400 Speaker 4: you know, and you're pleasant at the same time. That's 401 00:17:51,480 --> 00:17:53,960 Speaker 4: just like you owe everybody money, you know what I'm saying. 402 00:17:53,960 --> 00:17:55,960 Speaker 4: But at the same time, like the ship you go through, 403 00:17:56,760 --> 00:18:00,000 Speaker 4: it really just me personally off with what I can 404 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:01,960 Speaker 4: speaking prepared you for a lot of the things that 405 00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:06,480 Speaker 4: you face, like postgrad mental stuff. You can think back 406 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:08,639 Speaker 4: if you had the right process, because a lot of 407 00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 4: people go through process they just getting asked what they 408 00:18:10,880 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 4: just It's a lot of things that just going. But 409 00:18:14,119 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 4: if you go through the right process, you look back 410 00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:20,119 Speaker 4: on certain things where you can just think like, Okay, 411 00:18:20,280 --> 00:18:23,359 Speaker 4: I can apply this to w I'm at now to 412 00:18:23,359 --> 00:18:27,080 Speaker 4: take shit to heart full under certain conditions. 413 00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 1: Right right. 414 00:18:27,520 --> 00:18:31,679 Speaker 3: So to wrap this topic up, do you ever like 415 00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:32,800 Speaker 3: regret pledging? 416 00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:34,280 Speaker 1: Like ever at all? 417 00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:37,440 Speaker 4: Me personally, I don't because I was very rough when 418 00:18:37,480 --> 00:18:38,920 Speaker 4: I came out of Baltimore, Like I grew up in 419 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:41,439 Speaker 4: West Baltimore, so I came down to Atlanta. I was 420 00:18:41,760 --> 00:18:46,400 Speaker 4: a totally different person spokedress. Everything was just a totally 421 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:49,200 Speaker 4: different niggas so be pleasuring. I wouldn't say it played 422 00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:50,520 Speaker 4: a part in that because I'm a hustle at the 423 00:18:50,560 --> 00:18:52,000 Speaker 4: end of the day, so I was gonna always make 424 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:54,320 Speaker 4: sure I'm good. But certain things that came along with 425 00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:57,119 Speaker 4: that process kind of polished me a little bit, you know, 426 00:18:57,200 --> 00:18:59,480 Speaker 4: to really get me to pint. Like I got my 427 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:01,800 Speaker 4: first when I was in college. I went to school 428 00:19:01,840 --> 00:19:04,760 Speaker 4: for accounting. I got my first internship from a fraternity 429 00:19:04,800 --> 00:19:08,399 Speaker 4: brother that I didn't if I didn't you know, I 430 00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:11,560 Speaker 4: had that relationship with Yo. If I didn't know him 431 00:19:11,600 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 4: at all, I probably wouldn't have got that, And that 432 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:17,680 Speaker 4: sparked my whole professional transitioning into entrepreneur you know path 433 00:19:17,720 --> 00:19:21,440 Speaker 4: for real. So I don't regret it, Yeah, I don't. 434 00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:22,640 Speaker 4: I don't regret it at all. 435 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:24,960 Speaker 3: Well, I feel like you're using it for the right reasons, 436 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:26,919 Speaker 3: because I feel like a lot of guys and some 437 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:29,080 Speaker 3: females like they use it going in trying to get. 438 00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:30,240 Speaker 4: Cloud cloud and people. 439 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:32,560 Speaker 3: You know, you'll have people that were straight losers in 440 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:34,520 Speaker 3: high school and then they be like, oh, I'm gonna 441 00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:36,720 Speaker 3: reinvent myself, and they pledge and may be like, oh 442 00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:37,200 Speaker 3: I'm the man. 443 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:40,399 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, you still lame, You're still a loser. 444 00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:42,800 Speaker 4: And I can say that because, like I said, like 445 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:45,280 Speaker 4: even though I'm Greek, you know I'm around at the time, 446 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:47,320 Speaker 4: I was around a lot of Greeks. It was like 447 00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:51,159 Speaker 4: I had I've been had classes high school like this 448 00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:55,680 Speaker 4: is one thing. But no, but I get around like 449 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:58,639 Speaker 4: so I crossed, you know, I found like other Greeks. 450 00:19:58,680 --> 00:20:02,720 Speaker 4: It's like bro am as fun bro Yeah, you cross, 451 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 4: but it's one of the things. You recognize that and 452 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:06,680 Speaker 4: me personally, I don't fuck with them type of people. 453 00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:08,840 Speaker 4: I fuck with people that's cool before and after. 454 00:20:09,040 --> 00:20:12,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, with your line brothers. 455 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:15,160 Speaker 4: I am like, we cool. Yeah, we definitely cool. I talked, 456 00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:16,760 Speaker 4: I talked, I checked in them from time to time. 457 00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 4: But you know, everybody, everybody growing, everybody in their own ship. 458 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:23,120 Speaker 4: A lot of people got families, married, people got businesses. 459 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:27,400 Speaker 4: So everybody not as like anybody and close knit. 460 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 1: How we because life is real. 461 00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:32,240 Speaker 4: Life happen once you walk across that graduation. 462 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:35,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, we know. To t me where y'all. 463 00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:39,359 Speaker 3: I went to Stephen F. Austin stat University Eastern Texas 464 00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:40,080 Speaker 3: and Acadochi. 465 00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:43,840 Speaker 1: I went to Texas Southern University. You know. 466 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:51,040 Speaker 3: Me too, So, lady, you never wanted to flinch ever, No, 467 00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:54,479 Speaker 3: never know. When I went to school, I was like, 468 00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:56,560 Speaker 3: I had my boyfriend and I was that bitch. 469 00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:57,880 Speaker 1: I was working at Dreams. Bitch. 470 00:20:57,880 --> 00:21:01,560 Speaker 3: I don't want to Oh yeah, I was, yeah, that bitch, 471 00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:03,520 Speaker 3: like I was the girl at dream Now, but that 472 00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:04,360 Speaker 3: was that waitress. 473 00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:05,480 Speaker 1: I didn't want to I didn't want to do. I 474 00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:08,000 Speaker 1: didn't even have nothing to do with college. 475 00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:09,919 Speaker 3: Like I would like, go to my class and then 476 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:11,480 Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm going to the club. 477 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:13,760 Speaker 1: I want to make money. Yeah, So I'm not saying 478 00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:16,359 Speaker 1: nothing's wrong with that, but I wasn't on that stuff. 479 00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:18,080 Speaker 4: And I'm gonna be honest with you. When I first 480 00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:20,560 Speaker 4: came to Baltimore, like I ain't really have no it 481 00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:24,360 Speaker 4: wasn't no Greek life. Thegs ain't care about me. Like yeah, yeah, 482 00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:26,160 Speaker 4: I got down the ball. I got down Atlanta. 483 00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:28,240 Speaker 3: I'm like, in the South people care about Oh yeah, 484 00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:29,680 Speaker 3: in Texas it's a thing. 485 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:30,720 Speaker 1: It's a big deal. 486 00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:32,840 Speaker 4: So I gotta do Atlanta. I'm like, man, who is 487 00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:35,280 Speaker 4: these niggas on the camp? They cool? They with all 488 00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:37,399 Speaker 4: the texts or whatever, but they also want their ship 489 00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:40,560 Speaker 4: right and you feel me that's the particular you know 490 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:44,000 Speaker 4: what what you me into that organization. Can I can 491 00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 4: be that social butterfly. I can party an or whatever. 492 00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:48,679 Speaker 4: But at the same time, I can be up at 493 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:50,960 Speaker 4: eight am for eight am class. 494 00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:51,240 Speaker 3: Not me. 495 00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:53,040 Speaker 1: That's why I feel too classes. 496 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:56,240 Speaker 2: Partying too hard. 497 00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:59,480 Speaker 3: So yes, let us know what's y'all think about Greek life. 498 00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:02,400 Speaker 3: I hope nobody gets offended by the things that I said. 499 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:05,040 Speaker 1: What I said, and I mean, you know what. 500 00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:12,479 Speaker 2: I mean, opinions, Yeah right, I agree. 501 00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 3: So the next topic was actually, uh, somebody had tagged 502 00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:18,800 Speaker 3: me in a comment because there's like a clothing line 503 00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:22,439 Speaker 3: and the girl was like, I'm making clothes for taller 504 00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:27,240 Speaker 3: women and you know, because like the bell bottoms are 505 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:30,200 Speaker 3: back in. Yeah so, but for tall women, I can't 506 00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:33,800 Speaker 3: find jeans like bill bottom jeans. I can't because, yeah, 507 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:36,119 Speaker 3: you know, I'm five nine. I'm not extremely tall, but 508 00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:36,920 Speaker 3: I'm tall for a girl. 509 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:37,399 Speaker 1: Yeah. 510 00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:41,439 Speaker 3: So somebody had tagged me in at a poor Mind's listener. 511 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I can't remember your name, but she was 512 00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:45,600 Speaker 3: just like, this is the bullshit I be talking about. 513 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:49,680 Speaker 3: Like I just hate when the business owners aren't aware 514 00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:53,000 Speaker 3: of you know, their audience and what's really going on 515 00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:53,560 Speaker 3: out here. 516 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:54,439 Speaker 1: So I wanted to. 517 00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:55,840 Speaker 3: Talk to you because I ain't got no basiness because 518 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:57,560 Speaker 3: you know I ain't shit. But you know you've had 519 00:22:57,560 --> 00:22:59,840 Speaker 3: a store before, you're relaunching your store, and you have 520 00:22:59,880 --> 00:23:03,840 Speaker 3: a businesses. So I feel like in twenty twenty, people 521 00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:06,320 Speaker 3: are being more conscious trying to support. 522 00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:08,640 Speaker 1: Black businesses, but a lot I don't want to say 523 00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:10,840 Speaker 1: black people, just black people. You know, a lot of 524 00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:12,879 Speaker 1: times we do be kind of unprofessional. 525 00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:15,920 Speaker 3: So I just wanted to get y'all's views on like 526 00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:18,960 Speaker 3: supporting black businesses, and it is a little tougher to 527 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:22,320 Speaker 3: do that. So like, how can we as black people 528 00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:24,480 Speaker 3: become better at being business owners? 529 00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:28,800 Speaker 1: I feel like number one, just stop. 530 00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:31,320 Speaker 3: People got to stop trying to start businesses because they 531 00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:34,639 Speaker 3: feel like that's what you're supposed to do. Everybody is 532 00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:37,440 Speaker 3: not meant to be a business owner, that's number one. 533 00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:39,919 Speaker 3: So first of all, people who do not have a 534 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:43,840 Speaker 3: business mindset and are not responsible and can't run a business, 535 00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:45,840 Speaker 3: stop trying to be a business owner just because you 536 00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 3: see everybody on Instagram and on social media doing that shit. 537 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:51,640 Speaker 3: Because it's a lot more that goes into it other 538 00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:53,280 Speaker 3: than what you see on social media. 539 00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:54,840 Speaker 1: Behind the scenes, that shit is hard. 540 00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:57,240 Speaker 3: That's why I had to take a break from and 541 00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:00,400 Speaker 3: I do feel like I meant to be a business owner, 542 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:02,800 Speaker 3: but sometimes you have to be honest with yourself and 543 00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:04,679 Speaker 3: I had to step back, and that's why I stopped 544 00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:06,520 Speaker 3: running my store for a while, because I had so 545 00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:09,520 Speaker 3: many other things going on. It just wasn't my first 546 00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:12,160 Speaker 3: priority because it wasn't bringing in enough income. 547 00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:13,000 Speaker 1: That I needed at the time. 548 00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:15,119 Speaker 3: So I had to take a step back because I 549 00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:18,639 Speaker 3: felt like I wasn't being a good business owner, you 550 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:20,320 Speaker 3: know what I mean, because I had a lot of 551 00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:22,440 Speaker 3: shit going on, and sometimes it would be like I 552 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:24,560 Speaker 3: would get orders and then it would be like two 553 00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:26,520 Speaker 3: days and I still had to shift it out, and 554 00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:28,160 Speaker 3: it's like, you can't run a business like that. It's 555 00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 3: never going to become successful like that. So sometimes you 556 00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:32,760 Speaker 3: also got to recognize too, when you got a lot 557 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:34,320 Speaker 3: of shit going on in your life, maybe you're not 558 00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:36,760 Speaker 3: in a mental capacity to be running the business. I 559 00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:39,120 Speaker 3: just think people want to do shit so much now 560 00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:41,960 Speaker 3: because of the Internet, because it's popping and because it 561 00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 3: sounds good to have it in your bios in your bio. 562 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:47,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, in your bio. 563 00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:51,800 Speaker 3: CEO. I see that shit all day on Instagram, CEO 564 00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:53,760 Speaker 3: of so and so business, And then I go and 565 00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:55,800 Speaker 3: click on the Instagram page and go to the fucking 566 00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:58,920 Speaker 3: website and shit, and it's like bullshit or the website 567 00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:03,159 Speaker 3: or the website down right, it's just like what people 568 00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:05,880 Speaker 3: like to have that ship in their bio. People feel 569 00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:08,199 Speaker 3: like it makes them sound important things that if you 570 00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:11,280 Speaker 3: got bitches who can't even dress on their boutiques, that 571 00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:11,800 Speaker 3: would be me. 572 00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:13,720 Speaker 1: But I'm just being honest. 573 00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:16,119 Speaker 3: You have people who I feel like anything that you 574 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:17,960 Speaker 3: do you need to be passionate about. 575 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:20,600 Speaker 2: And that's that's the only reason why I said that. 576 00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:23,720 Speaker 3: You got girls who really literally have no swags and 577 00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:27,080 Speaker 3: can't dress, but they have boutiques because they felt like, oh, 578 00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:28,760 Speaker 3: this is something that I just need to start. They 579 00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:30,960 Speaker 3: need to gave them some money to start something, and 580 00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:32,520 Speaker 3: they was like, Okay, let me just start this. But 581 00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:34,600 Speaker 3: it's not even something you're passionate about. The clothes on 582 00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:37,240 Speaker 3: your website it is weak. Who the fuck wear that shit? 583 00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:40,520 Speaker 3: Do something that you're really passionate about if you are 584 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:43,320 Speaker 3: going to start a business, Because that's the only way 585 00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:45,000 Speaker 3: you're gonna get a process from because if it's some 586 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:47,160 Speaker 3: ship you're just doing just to say you got some ship, 587 00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:49,240 Speaker 3: you it's not gonna never get nowhere because you're not 588 00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:50,480 Speaker 3: putting enough into it. 589 00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:51,840 Speaker 4: You gonna have fast the whole time. 590 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:54,239 Speaker 1: What kind of business? What business do you do? 591 00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:54,560 Speaker 3: So? 592 00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:56,320 Speaker 4: I got my hand in a couple of things for real, 593 00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:58,120 Speaker 4: So I awt my own account of business. 594 00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:01,320 Speaker 1: Cover tax, accounting, kids, Okay. 595 00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:05,159 Speaker 4: Tax preparation for businesses and the individuals, as well as bookkeeping, 596 00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:08,160 Speaker 4: business development. The whole nine also invest in real estate. 597 00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:10,760 Speaker 4: So about real estate in my neighborhood. I grew up 598 00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:14,520 Speaker 4: in West Baltimore eight housing. Oh, that's I got my 599 00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:15,080 Speaker 4: hand coach. 600 00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:18,680 Speaker 1: Look, it's a bad b y'all. Y'all know we'll be 601 00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:19,320 Speaker 1: talking about. 602 00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:24,479 Speaker 3: Y'all being alert. 603 00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:31,000 Speaker 1: So now if y'all see him out, y'all know what y'all. 604 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:33,639 Speaker 1: We're putting y'all on the niggas this year. Okay, are 605 00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:38,520 Speaker 1: you okay? Y'all, he's single. Don't fuck it up. Don't 606 00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:40,880 Speaker 1: say we never gave y'all. I'm talking to them. Don't 607 00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:41,439 Speaker 1: fuck it up. 608 00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:43,679 Speaker 2: We're putting y'all on one. 609 00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:44,680 Speaker 1: Okay, So let me get back to. 610 00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:48,800 Speaker 3: So do you feel like as a black man, like 611 00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:50,639 Speaker 3: it's hard for you to get business or for people 612 00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:51,520 Speaker 3: to take you serious? 613 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:53,880 Speaker 4: Hell yeah, man, you gotta go twice as hard bro. 614 00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:55,720 Speaker 1: And you young, and I'm young. 615 00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:58,480 Speaker 4: So a lot of people think I'm one incompetent and 616 00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,720 Speaker 4: I'm very competent with what I know. Then it's just 617 00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:05,400 Speaker 4: of a liability issue, you feel me. Like, one thing 618 00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:07,800 Speaker 4: I've learned was to do what you say you're gonna 619 00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:11,919 Speaker 4: do and always deliver on your promises, be punctual, and 620 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:16,560 Speaker 4: be efficient. But you know, the game as a whole, 621 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:18,639 Speaker 4: the game has just been so fucked up, just for 622 00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:20,520 Speaker 4: the culture. You know, a lot of people got this 623 00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:25,040 Speaker 4: stigma that black business professional, it's sound reliable or they 624 00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:29,399 Speaker 4: gonna short you, when that's not the case for everybody personally. 625 00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:32,520 Speaker 4: I started my business when I graduated, like literally the 626 00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:36,880 Speaker 4: I graduated in May and my legal paperwork by August. 627 00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:39,720 Speaker 4: So I started my business as soon as I walked 628 00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:42,480 Speaker 4: into Corporate America. Right, So I took work in the 629 00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:46,320 Speaker 4: Corporate America, the resources that they gave me, the professionalism 630 00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:49,000 Speaker 4: that they taught me down to the communication, and built 631 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:51,359 Speaker 4: it into my own thing. But I mean it's still hard. 632 00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:53,520 Speaker 4: You know, you gotta gotta fight through that stigma. But 633 00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:55,439 Speaker 4: I think I do well for myself, you know. I 634 00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:58,679 Speaker 4: just people buy into you as the person at the 635 00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:00,400 Speaker 4: end of the day. So if you put if you 636 00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:04,159 Speaker 4: are a solid person, a general, a genuine person, people 637 00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:06,040 Speaker 4: going buy into that and what you got going on. 638 00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:09,760 Speaker 3: But you do feel like it's hard being like a 639 00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:14,199 Speaker 3: black man like you gotta competett. 640 00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:14,720 Speaker 4: You gotta compete with so many people that because you 641 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:16,800 Speaker 4: think about like this one thing about me, I got, 642 00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:19,320 Speaker 4: I got all mine out the mud. So I'm dealing 643 00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:22,520 Speaker 4: with people who had parents and positions to really give 644 00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:25,840 Speaker 4: them his fifty thousand dollars to start your business. I 645 00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:27,480 Speaker 4: don't know what the fuck they're going with it. It's 646 00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:30,000 Speaker 4: got fifty recks in their pocket r versus a nigga 647 00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:31,880 Speaker 4: like me. I had to hustle up fifty thousand dollars 648 00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:34,280 Speaker 4: in the mind and play. But the benefit is I 649 00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:36,040 Speaker 4: know what to do with it. But it is harder 650 00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:39,120 Speaker 4: because I don't got that hair start like everybody else, 651 00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:40,960 Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying, Like the rich parents or 652 00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:44,360 Speaker 4: my dad's the CEO. So he just hand down, he 653 00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:46,880 Speaker 4: walked me into a conversation with his golf buddy, and 654 00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:50,720 Speaker 4: now I got a manufacturer for my business for free. 655 00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:54,000 Speaker 4: So it definitely is a lot that go into you know, 656 00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:56,400 Speaker 4: being a black man going in the business for yourself. 657 00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:58,680 Speaker 4: But you know, I like the pressure you feel me 658 00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:00,840 Speaker 4: and give me something to live up really said the 659 00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:01,880 Speaker 4: standard for everything. 660 00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:05,160 Speaker 3: So I know, like a lot of like black business 661 00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:07,440 Speaker 3: owners like they feel like they have to turn it 662 00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:09,280 Speaker 3: on and turn it off. Like you know how we 663 00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:11,360 Speaker 3: sit here talking and we just talking like with our 664 00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:14,080 Speaker 3: regular voices. Like do you feel like you have to 665 00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:16,720 Speaker 3: be like talk a certain way? And like why can't 666 00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:20,120 Speaker 3: it feel like we can just be ourselves in professional cities. 667 00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:24,320 Speaker 4: That's that's a good question. When I first went into 668 00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:25,800 Speaker 4: business for myself, I thought I had to have this 669 00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:28,160 Speaker 4: image where people thought I should be right, but after 670 00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:30,920 Speaker 4: while I wasn't happy. And then after while I realized 671 00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:33,720 Speaker 4: I don't give a fuck people going people going to 672 00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:36,520 Speaker 4: buy into me regardless, right, So for a while I 673 00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:38,640 Speaker 4: went in When I first went into business, I was 674 00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:41,920 Speaker 4: shooting tied everywhere, talking proper like, and that's not me. 675 00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:44,840 Speaker 4: That's something I learned to become once I moved from Baltimore, 676 00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:48,360 Speaker 4: which was cool, but I felt more comfortable in myself. 677 00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:51,080 Speaker 4: And what I found was the people who responded to 678 00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:54,120 Speaker 4: me when I was myself like I can just shoot 679 00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:55,680 Speaker 4: the shit with you and just connect with you on 680 00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:59,320 Speaker 4: something totally different, you know, And you're like, I fuck 681 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:01,280 Speaker 4: with him here, what are y'all going on? I'm gonna 682 00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:03,280 Speaker 4: support him. The first I came into you is that 683 00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:04,760 Speaker 4: if I came in here right now as a suit 684 00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:07,240 Speaker 4: and tied guy talking on proper, the vibe would be 685 00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:10,360 Speaker 4: so different vibe probably against what I got going on. 686 00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:12,840 Speaker 1: And I don't know, I just feel like to that 687 00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:13,920 Speaker 1: ship don't matter. 688 00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:16,800 Speaker 3: It's about like, at the end of the day, you 689 00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:20,080 Speaker 3: could go into meetings or whatever being proper with your 690 00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:22,000 Speaker 3: suit and tie and all of that shit, but it's 691 00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:26,800 Speaker 3: not about that. It's about your capability as a person, 692 00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:28,240 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. 693 00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:30,960 Speaker 2: And some people just ain't capable, you know what I mean. 694 00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:32,600 Speaker 3: And they could put on the face and they could 695 00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:35,000 Speaker 3: put on the outfit and shit, but you still ain't capable. 696 00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:37,040 Speaker 1: It's about what's in you, not on you. 697 00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:39,080 Speaker 4: And that's what and that's what I pride myself on 698 00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:40,600 Speaker 4: when I meet with people. When I meet people, the 699 00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:43,600 Speaker 4: first time. I'm all about quality of work, you feel 700 00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:45,520 Speaker 4: me like, right, Like I said, like you said, people 701 00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:48,240 Speaker 4: can just up in the suit. Yeah. Image, it's an 702 00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:51,560 Speaker 4: image that's all in Atlanta. A lot of business owners 703 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:54,000 Speaker 4: and an image business owner an image that's a big 704 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:57,080 Speaker 4: thing in Atlanta, and oftentimes fuck people up because they 705 00:30:57,200 --> 00:30:58,800 Speaker 4: so focused on an image and then. 706 00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:00,360 Speaker 1: People really ain't got shit going. I don't know a 707 00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 1: lot of stuff, not. 708 00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:04,520 Speaker 4: Even knowledgeable in this subject of expertise. With me, I 709 00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:07,800 Speaker 4: prob myself of being knowledgeable. I prove myself with being personal, 710 00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:10,479 Speaker 4: and people gonna rock with me a quord them right. 711 00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:12,360 Speaker 3: And I think that's a lot of things. I feel 712 00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:13,960 Speaker 3: like as black people, I want us to know that 713 00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:16,720 Speaker 3: and understand that because I feel like we try so 714 00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:19,680 Speaker 3: hard to like fit in with Susie and Eric and 715 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:21,360 Speaker 3: this and that It's like we don't have to fit in, 716 00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:23,960 Speaker 3: Like we can be ourselves in a professional settings and 717 00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:25,040 Speaker 3: it's still professional. 718 00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:26,040 Speaker 1: Absolutely. 719 00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:28,840 Speaker 3: I feel like you remember, like when you was younger and 720 00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:30,440 Speaker 3: your mom will get on the phone, You're like, Mama, 721 00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:31,240 Speaker 3: why are you talking like. 722 00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:34,560 Speaker 1: You put in your white person about car like I 723 00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:36,040 Speaker 1: do not do. I used to do that. 724 00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:38,880 Speaker 3: I definitely did because I've worked in corporate before. I 725 00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:39,960 Speaker 3: don't do that shit no more. 726 00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:41,840 Speaker 2: I mean, like, I ain't gonna lie. 727 00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:44,120 Speaker 3: Sometimes you kind of just fall back into it, like 728 00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:46,640 Speaker 3: you sometimes when you're on the phone, you're like, well, 729 00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:47,280 Speaker 3: you're on the phone. 730 00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:48,080 Speaker 1: Are you talking on? 731 00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:50,640 Speaker 3: Like maybe you call your credit card company or something 732 00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:53,280 Speaker 3: like that. I think sometimes you just naturally fall into 733 00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:54,040 Speaker 3: that voice. 734 00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:56,680 Speaker 1: Because it's I hait right hard that we were raised on. Like, 735 00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:57,440 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. 736 00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:59,600 Speaker 3: Like last night, like I said, i just moved to 737 00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:01,480 Speaker 3: my new I have to call my internet people to 738 00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:02,840 Speaker 3: set my sh up, but I'm just talking to somebody. 739 00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:06,800 Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, like you're gonna do either, You're gonna 740 00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:09,280 Speaker 3: still do it either way. Talking nice and talking proper 741 00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:12,280 Speaker 3: ain't gonna affect my credit score. It's not gonna do nothing, 742 00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:14,080 Speaker 3: because that's what matters when you try to get your 743 00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:15,960 Speaker 3: internet is. 744 00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:16,520 Speaker 4: And I think for me it's I think it's the 745 00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:18,920 Speaker 4: time and place for everything. Like me, for the most part, 746 00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:21,080 Speaker 4: ninety five percent of the times I'm talking like I'm 747 00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:24,040 Speaker 4: talking right, But when I'm on the phone with a client, 748 00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:27,040 Speaker 4: I won't say I'm necessarily talking white, but I'm more 749 00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:29,560 Speaker 4: well spoken, right, I not saying my words. 750 00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:31,760 Speaker 1: I'm not I do that as well. 751 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,800 Speaker 4: Yeah you know, I'm not with you. Like it's I 752 00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:38,160 Speaker 4: think it's to the extreme when people try to overcompensate. 753 00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:39,240 Speaker 1: Billy. 754 00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:40,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, like that's what. 755 00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:44,040 Speaker 2: Bro Okay, First of all, who the fuck is talking 756 00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:44,360 Speaker 2: like that? 757 00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:46,840 Speaker 1: Yeah? Exactly? 758 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:48,720 Speaker 3: No, Yeah, who the fuck is talking like that? She 759 00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,280 Speaker 3: be so damn dramatic, Drew. 760 00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:54,920 Speaker 1: I know black people. 761 00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:56,840 Speaker 4: I know a couple of people like that. But I 762 00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:58,600 Speaker 4: know a couple of people and I can tell, like, bro, 763 00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:00,760 Speaker 4: like I was, I was at this so like, I 764 00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:02,680 Speaker 4: like to do a lot of weird ship like outside 765 00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:03,120 Speaker 4: of just. 766 00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:05,760 Speaker 1: Y'all would be good for ends. 767 00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:08,840 Speaker 4: So look, I went to a conference and I met 768 00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:11,280 Speaker 4: a guy. I met a guy. He was it was 769 00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:13,240 Speaker 4: a counter conference. I met a guy he was just 770 00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:17,040 Speaker 4: like me, but he he was like he was just talking. 771 00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,280 Speaker 4: So and I don't want I hate to say they 772 00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:21,800 Speaker 4: sound white what yeah, but. 773 00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:23,480 Speaker 1: Before white void. 774 00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:27,040 Speaker 3: But let me say this, because people confused with talking 775 00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:32,000 Speaker 3: white and being it's different if I'm speaking clear so 776 00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:34,320 Speaker 3: you can understand me, but still talking in my voice. 777 00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:36,280 Speaker 3: I'm still talking in my voice, but I'm talking clear, 778 00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:38,480 Speaker 3: so you can understand every word that I'm saying, but 779 00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:39,520 Speaker 3: it's different from me, like. 780 00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:42,280 Speaker 1: Oh my god, yeah, like what this is so nice 781 00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:45,560 Speaker 1: in here, right, I'm bringing me here. It's a different. 782 00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:47,000 Speaker 4: And that's what messed me up because I met you. 783 00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:49,240 Speaker 4: He was like he's like North Philly or something like that, 784 00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:54,840 Speaker 4: and I got homeboys out of North like that, like, bro, 785 00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:58,000 Speaker 4: and the crazy thing is as somebody that does business. 786 00:33:58,080 --> 00:34:01,280 Speaker 4: It actually turned me off them, Like, Bro, you're not 787 00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:02,040 Speaker 4: being yourself. 788 00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:02,640 Speaker 1: Right. 789 00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:05,440 Speaker 4: It's different when you talking or dressing a certain way 790 00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:07,120 Speaker 4: with money on the table, right. But if I just 791 00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:09,239 Speaker 4: met you and you acting like that, Bro, I can't 792 00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:12,279 Speaker 4: trust you because yeah, I don't know what you're working 793 00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:13,160 Speaker 4: with right, right. 794 00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:15,120 Speaker 3: And I feel like sometimes a lot of people, a 795 00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:17,719 Speaker 3: lot of especially black business owners, like I love the 796 00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:20,440 Speaker 3: fact that we try to, you know, go out and 797 00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:22,640 Speaker 3: get other races to buy our products, of course, but 798 00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:25,800 Speaker 3: I feel like we also underestimate the power of a 799 00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:26,759 Speaker 3: black dollar. 800 00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:29,160 Speaker 1: Market yourself towards black people. 801 00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:32,680 Speaker 3: Do we underestimate the power of the black dollar or 802 00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:36,640 Speaker 3: do sometimes black people just don't support other black people 803 00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:39,799 Speaker 3: and would rather spend their money with white people are 804 00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:43,560 Speaker 3: established businesses. No, No, I agree, honestly, I agree, and 805 00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:46,200 Speaker 3: I also am guilty of that. I'm gonna be honest, like, 806 00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:48,919 Speaker 3: it's like it be shit that be on fashion Nova, 807 00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:52,440 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. And then it's another girl 808 00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:55,160 Speaker 3: on Instagram who's selling the same shit, but maybe she 809 00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:57,040 Speaker 3: charging ten dollars more, and I'm like, oh, well, she 810 00:34:57,120 --> 00:34:58,680 Speaker 3: charging ten dollars more, let me just go buy it 811 00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:01,920 Speaker 3: from fashion over when reality, I could just buy it 812 00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:03,600 Speaker 3: from her and support her business. 813 00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:05,640 Speaker 1: What is ten extra dollars? 814 00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:07,080 Speaker 3: I mean, it may not be a lot to you, 815 00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:08,640 Speaker 3: but to some people that tend doll to be like 816 00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:09,120 Speaker 3: I don't want to. 817 00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:09,560 Speaker 1: They want to. 818 00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:11,680 Speaker 3: They go in be like I want to spend fifty dollars. 819 00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:13,520 Speaker 3: They're not trying to spend sixty. I mean, and I 820 00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:16,400 Speaker 3: do understand it, but sometimes I also just feel like 821 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:19,239 Speaker 3: it's just that sometimes black people look at other black 822 00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:21,920 Speaker 3: people and don't want to support them. They want to 823 00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:25,520 Speaker 3: support the business that's already flourishing. And that's why a 824 00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:28,240 Speaker 3: lot of black businesses sometimes because let's not because earlier 825 00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:30,640 Speaker 3: we were talking about, you know, people just not being 826 00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:33,160 Speaker 3: capable of running the business, but what about people that 827 00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:35,319 Speaker 3: are capable of running the business, and people just don't 828 00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:39,759 Speaker 3: support them, so they businesses never get too flurried. I 829 00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:42,920 Speaker 3: agree to a certain extent because, like I said, I 830 00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:45,960 Speaker 3: do feel like like the girl you did a photo 831 00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:46,319 Speaker 3: shoot for. 832 00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:49,600 Speaker 1: You know, yeah, I follow her on Twitter. 833 00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:51,799 Speaker 3: I always seen her talking about business a lot like 834 00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:55,120 Speaker 3: she does, but I feel like she focuses on her 835 00:35:55,160 --> 00:35:58,040 Speaker 3: black market and she's very successful, you know what I'm saying. 836 00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:00,600 Speaker 3: I feel like you can focus on the black market 837 00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:04,399 Speaker 3: and get that black dollar and you can be successful. Now, 838 00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:06,440 Speaker 3: of course you are going to have the people who 839 00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:07,880 Speaker 3: are hating, who don't want to support. 840 00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:09,000 Speaker 1: But I'm telling you. 841 00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:11,560 Speaker 3: How do we know that it's How do we know 842 00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:16,759 Speaker 3: truly that it's really successful. I mean, she's she But 843 00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:20,319 Speaker 3: the thing I like about you numbers, and she talks 844 00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:22,800 Speaker 3: about numbers because I think that's the reason why a 845 00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:25,600 Speaker 3: lot of black people aren't successful, because we always try 846 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:27,719 Speaker 3: to hide how much money we make, and we don't 847 00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:29,520 Speaker 3: like to tell people, oh, hey, I'm at this job 848 00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:30,200 Speaker 3: making this much. 849 00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:31,399 Speaker 1: You need to ask for this much. 850 00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:33,440 Speaker 3: We like me and you could be working side to 851 00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:36,520 Speaker 3: side for a long time and I'm making seventy K 852 00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:38,319 Speaker 3: and you can be making fifty K. When we can 853 00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:39,960 Speaker 3: just have a conversation. I'm be like, you need to 854 00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:42,880 Speaker 3: ask for twenty thousand more dollars. You know white people 855 00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:44,120 Speaker 3: be having these conversations. 856 00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:46,400 Speaker 1: Yea, they do. We as black people, we like to 857 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:47,839 Speaker 1: hide how much money that we're making. 858 00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:50,239 Speaker 3: So people being buried, people being bared, and that's why 859 00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:51,120 Speaker 3: we never grow. 860 00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:53,200 Speaker 1: That's why we never go We're supposed to share this 861 00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:53,680 Speaker 1: shit with you. 862 00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:56,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, people know, Hey, you need to ask for more 863 00:36:56,440 --> 00:36:58,759 Speaker 3: money or this is what you should be making. Like 864 00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:01,239 Speaker 3: she always talks about what's her name? Can we shout 865 00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:01,920 Speaker 3: her out real quickly? 866 00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:02,239 Speaker 1: Yeah? 867 00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:06,239 Speaker 3: Her her I mean her Twitter name is street C 868 00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:11,000 Speaker 3: S t R E E T S y Okay, Yeah, yeah, 869 00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:13,200 Speaker 3: I'll follow her. She has like jewelry and yeah, she 870 00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:15,840 Speaker 3: sells jewelry and stuff. I forgot the name of the website. 871 00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:18,799 Speaker 3: I'm sorry because I was shout out to the website. Yeah, 872 00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:21,920 Speaker 3: but she sells like personalized jewelry and stuff like that. 873 00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:22,720 Speaker 1: It's really cute. 874 00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:24,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like she markets towards black people, but 875 00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:27,320 Speaker 3: she always makes sure she's she tries to teach people 876 00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:29,920 Speaker 3: about the industry and being a business owner. And I 877 00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:31,640 Speaker 3: think that's important as black people, Like we need to 878 00:37:31,680 --> 00:37:33,080 Speaker 3: start talking numbers with each. 879 00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:35,440 Speaker 4: Other and talking realities. A lot of people like painting 880 00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:38,239 Speaker 4: fact like everything was easy to get point when it 881 00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:40,480 Speaker 4: really is not. It's not because when you own some ship, 882 00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:43,000 Speaker 4: it's a lot of sacrifice and a lot of losses 883 00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:43,960 Speaker 4: that you take along the way. 884 00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:47,399 Speaker 3: Absolutely lex So why do you feel like you've never 885 00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:49,680 Speaker 3: like started a business because that ain't me. 886 00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:50,840 Speaker 1: It's just not for you. 887 00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:54,799 Speaker 2: I respect that. I wish more people would be like that, 888 00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:56,320 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. 889 00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:58,759 Speaker 3: Versus just trying to start some sheet because everybody else 890 00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:01,319 Speaker 3: doing it and you just not good addie. Now the 891 00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:02,960 Speaker 3: thing is with me, it's like I don't want to 892 00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:04,880 Speaker 3: sell items like I don't want to sell a product 893 00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:07,799 Speaker 3: like eventually I would love to have like like once 894 00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:10,080 Speaker 3: I get established in media, I do want my own 895 00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:12,719 Speaker 3: production company, right so I would love to produce things 896 00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:14,920 Speaker 3: for different people, Like I'd be having so many ideas 897 00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:16,440 Speaker 3: of things that I want to do. So more so, 898 00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:18,920 Speaker 3: I'm providing a service. It's not a product, yeah, not 899 00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:21,000 Speaker 3: a product like, cause I can't I'm not about to 900 00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:23,080 Speaker 3: sit here and package this up and package that up 901 00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:23,759 Speaker 3: and market this. 902 00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:25,560 Speaker 1: I'm not good at that, you know what I'm saying. 903 00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:26,600 Speaker 1: But I know what I'm good at. 904 00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:28,319 Speaker 3: I know my strengths and I know my weakness, but 905 00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:32,080 Speaker 3: opening like a store or something like that, Like I'm sure. 906 00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:34,799 Speaker 1: I feel like for me, I could be a brand back. 907 00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:37,040 Speaker 3: Because you wanted to start a candle business, yes, I 908 00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:38,520 Speaker 3: did for a while, and I was like I was 909 00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:41,239 Speaker 3: looking because I love candle and I look like I know. 910 00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:43,440 Speaker 3: When people were always walk in my apartment, they'd be like, Oh, 911 00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:45,160 Speaker 3: this smells so good. I'm like, you know, I need 912 00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:47,680 Speaker 3: to sell can. I was always like that with my nails, 913 00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:49,920 Speaker 3: my lashes. We had Savvy lash for Yeah. 914 00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:51,359 Speaker 1: We had a lash bit, but I'm just like, wow, 915 00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:52,480 Speaker 1: but this is not for me. 916 00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:54,759 Speaker 3: I feel like my lane as far as products go, 917 00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:57,239 Speaker 3: would be like a brand ambassador, you know, like I'll 918 00:38:57,280 --> 00:38:59,719 Speaker 3: cut a deal service. Yeah, I'll cut a deal with 919 00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:01,400 Speaker 3: somebody because I'm a ware the funk out your lashes 920 00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:03,480 Speaker 3: and people gonna buy that shit, you know, like with 921 00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:05,640 Speaker 3: my hair company, like with celebrity fashion hair, like I'll 922 00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:07,160 Speaker 3: wear her hair all day and I'll promote it all 923 00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:09,359 Speaker 3: day because I'm good at that, you know, like I'm not. 924 00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:12,520 Speaker 3: Some girls will get products and companies will have to 925 00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:13,880 Speaker 3: hit them up three four times. 926 00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:16,160 Speaker 1: Can you post the product? Can you. I'm not like that. 927 00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:18,359 Speaker 3: If you send me a product, I'm gonna use it, 928 00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:20,160 Speaker 3: I'm gonna post it, and I'm gonna make sure I'm 929 00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:22,319 Speaker 3: doing what I'm supposed to do as your brand ambassador. 930 00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:24,680 Speaker 1: I am because you know I'm like that. Except for 931 00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:32,640 Speaker 1: that one time, one time, that one time wild fashion Over, 932 00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:36,799 Speaker 1: I didn't want to say the business over y'all be 933 00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:38,520 Speaker 1: bullshitting with the bullshit. 934 00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:40,239 Speaker 3: Y'all be asking for two fucking mine gonna lie. 935 00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:41,000 Speaker 1: I fuck with my. 936 00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:43,279 Speaker 3: Little situation with fashion Over too, because it was just like, 937 00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:45,000 Speaker 3: what the fuck did they be harassing? 938 00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:48,839 Speaker 1: Harassing you off? For real? They be harassing Hell yeah 939 00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:50,320 Speaker 1: them clothes. 940 00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:52,800 Speaker 3: I would get like three fucking emails a week for 941 00:39:54,160 --> 00:40:02,520 Speaker 3: talking about excuse me, no, God damn le a tard girl, 942 00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:06,160 Speaker 3: get the fuck and girls, can we talk about that 943 00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:10,120 Speaker 3: real quick? Pressed a girl be pressed to be a 944 00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:12,400 Speaker 3: nova baby. But half of them don't even get paid? 945 00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:16,040 Speaker 3: Can we please talk about that? Half the girls on 946 00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:19,800 Speaker 3: Instagram that are fashion No doing fashion Nova hashtag ads, 947 00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:22,080 Speaker 3: they don't get paid. 948 00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:23,360 Speaker 1: They get free cloth. 949 00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:25,000 Speaker 3: Let me tell you I know for a fact they 950 00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:26,440 Speaker 3: don't get paid because when I was talking to the 951 00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:28,600 Speaker 3: lady that was coordinating with me. She was. She basically 952 00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:30,680 Speaker 3: let me know that the people that have a million 953 00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:33,040 Speaker 3: followers and up, those are the people that are getting paid. Well, 954 00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:35,319 Speaker 3: I don't agree with that because I was getting paid 955 00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:38,200 Speaker 3: from Fashion Nova and I've gotten paid from others like 956 00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:42,200 Speaker 3: okay for you, But I'm the girls do get paid well, No, 957 00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:44,880 Speaker 3: I'm not talking about getting paid like a little bit. 958 00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:47,920 Speaker 3: I'm talking about they're getting like deals, Oh yeah, absolutely, 959 00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:50,800 Speaker 3: like monthly. I'm talking about the real money. There's people 960 00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:53,560 Speaker 3: that are literally living off of Fashion Nova as. Yeah. Absolutely, 961 00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:55,400 Speaker 3: that's what I'm talking about. I mean, getting paid for 962 00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:57,680 Speaker 3: a post, that's cool. But the girls that if you're 963 00:40:57,760 --> 00:41:00,200 Speaker 3: under a million followers and you're posting for fashion over, 964 00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:01,720 Speaker 3: you're not getting. 965 00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:05,719 Speaker 1: You're not getting no real ship. Yeah that's what I mean. 966 00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:07,520 Speaker 3: And they just be crazy to me. How I press 967 00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:10,080 Speaker 3: people be just to post for free sheet. But I 968 00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:12,439 Speaker 3: will say this, I don't feel but I don't even 969 00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:15,319 Speaker 3: feel like it's about the free sheet. I just think 970 00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:20,160 Speaker 3: it's about looking important, like looking like I have deals 971 00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:22,040 Speaker 3: or I have something going on. 972 00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:23,759 Speaker 4: A lot of people want to look big instead of 973 00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:24,640 Speaker 4: actually being big. 974 00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:27,000 Speaker 1: And that's why now right, No, that's why. 975 00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:28,960 Speaker 3: Now even with me having an amount of followers that 976 00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:31,520 Speaker 3: I have on Instagram, I don't really do promotion and 977 00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:33,719 Speaker 3: stuff no more because I it's like, if you're not 978 00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:36,520 Speaker 3: trying to pay me some real lucrative money, I don't 979 00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:38,719 Speaker 3: give a fuck about getting no free clothes or getting 980 00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:41,480 Speaker 3: some flat on my heat that I probably gonna never dream. 981 00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:43,960 Speaker 3: Let's be real, because I did that ship before and 982 00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:45,600 Speaker 3: I did get paid for it in the past, but 983 00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:46,640 Speaker 3: I ain't drink that sheep. 984 00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:48,160 Speaker 1: I'm just promoting it. 985 00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:50,920 Speaker 3: Like the thing about brand am bastards and influencers, we 986 00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:52,400 Speaker 3: kind of got to a different topic. But I can 987 00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:55,840 Speaker 3: say this, but I will say, your word is so important. 988 00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:59,799 Speaker 3: So if I promote everything that people email me my work, 989 00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:02,480 Speaker 3: I'm gonna have people just buying sheep. But they're not 990 00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:05,000 Speaker 3: gonna trust you. They're gonna like, well, Drayon promotes everything 991 00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:05,919 Speaker 3: that people send her. 992 00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:07,479 Speaker 1: If I'm promoting something on. 993 00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:09,759 Speaker 3: My page, it's a product that I actually use and 994 00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:12,200 Speaker 3: I actually fuck with, right, I feel like people will 995 00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:15,000 Speaker 3: be like, oh, somebody sent me this and I'm getting 996 00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:16,719 Speaker 3: paid two hundred dollars, so let me just post it. 997 00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:18,279 Speaker 1: And what is two hundred dollars? I mean? 998 00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:19,759 Speaker 3: And I'm not trying to be funny because I mean, 999 00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:22,360 Speaker 3: I guess if you kind of down and out and 1000 00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:24,759 Speaker 3: you need two hundred dollars, two hundred dollars easy, big deal. 1001 00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:27,800 Speaker 3: But for me personally, I just be feeling like I 1002 00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:29,480 Speaker 3: don't give a fuck, Like two hundred dollars is not 1003 00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:31,440 Speaker 3: life changing to me to promote some sheet that I 1004 00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:34,520 Speaker 3: really feel like. But we have a brand now, and 1005 00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:36,160 Speaker 3: we have a platform now, so we have to be 1006 00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:38,319 Speaker 3: careful what we promote, what we're saying, what we do. 1007 00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:40,560 Speaker 1: So I feel like that's you know it, Carris a 1008 00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:42,000 Speaker 1: little wait, so people care what we say? 1009 00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:44,400 Speaker 4: Because do you feel like it's a fine line between 1010 00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:47,280 Speaker 4: influencer and brand and Bessa? 1011 00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:50,200 Speaker 1: Of course I feel yeah, I feel like I do. 1012 00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:51,640 Speaker 1: Like I think it's different. 1013 00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:57,279 Speaker 3: I think being an influencer, people really fuck with your 1014 00:42:57,320 --> 00:43:00,200 Speaker 3: word and they fuck with you really like those out 1015 00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:02,359 Speaker 3: to people who can like post some shep and then 1016 00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:04,719 Speaker 3: an hour later like nobody was buying that sheit and 1017 00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:07,399 Speaker 3: then an hour later the she is. So about being 1018 00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:10,800 Speaker 3: a brand ambassador, anybody could be a brand ambassador. Anybody 1019 00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:13,200 Speaker 3: with followers can be a brand ambassador because you're just 1020 00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:15,839 Speaker 3: promoting the brand, right but that doesn't mean that people 1021 00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:18,600 Speaker 3: don't actually really buy this sheet because of you, you know, 1022 00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:24,480 Speaker 3: and influences. Being an influencer is way bigger to me, 1023 00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:27,320 Speaker 3: Like it takes so much more to be an influencer. 1024 00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:30,000 Speaker 3: I really respect people who can influence a group of 1025 00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:32,319 Speaker 3: people to do some sit you know what I mean. 1026 00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:35,240 Speaker 3: That's a lot of power, very much it is. Okay, 1027 00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:37,680 Speaker 3: so let us know how y'all feel about black owned 1028 00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:41,080 Speaker 3: businesses and are y'all planning to support them more in 1029 00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:42,360 Speaker 3: twenty twenty? 1030 00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:44,880 Speaker 1: Okay, So this is this is topic I'm being mean 1031 00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:46,880 Speaker 1: to get to. So we're gonna get Is this a 1032 00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:49,880 Speaker 1: big no? It's I was excited, my horny. 1033 00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:54,279 Speaker 3: So we're gonna talk about black men dating outside their race. 1034 00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:55,960 Speaker 1: I feel like we've talked about this before, but we. 1035 00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:57,960 Speaker 3: Never had a mass Oh yeah, you never had a 1036 00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:00,920 Speaker 3: man's point of view. So for the relations ship topic today, 1037 00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:04,680 Speaker 3: we're gonna talk about the appeal of quote unquote foreign women, 1038 00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:08,759 Speaker 3: the exotic, the exotics, y'all like the call? Are men 1039 00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:12,720 Speaker 3: so obsessed with having exotic women? 1040 00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:15,479 Speaker 1: Are foreign women? Are you know? The Latina girls? Are 1041 00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:19,399 Speaker 1: you know the the Middle Eastern women? Is it Ablazians? 1042 00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:22,240 Speaker 4: What is it be honest with y'all. They own candy. 1043 00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:26,000 Speaker 3: Okay, why black women, why regular black women can't be 1044 00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:26,600 Speaker 3: arm candy? 1045 00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:29,160 Speaker 4: And they are. But you know a lot of the times, 1046 00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:29,520 Speaker 4: you know. 1047 00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:37,080 Speaker 1: I look at Lake, look at that evil right. 1048 00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:39,719 Speaker 4: So a lot of the times with guys, you know 1049 00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:41,479 Speaker 4: a lot of the times guys go for like quote 1050 00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:44,720 Speaker 4: unquote form women because it's arm candy. They got something 1051 00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:47,319 Speaker 4: that don't look like everybody else, you know, like you 1052 00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:52,759 Speaker 4: gotta chick that's Areachian or she from Panamania, go head down, 1053 00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:54,120 Speaker 4: ass it's gonna be. 1054 00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:55,799 Speaker 1: Like I mean, I got a forty inch wig too. 1055 00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:59,360 Speaker 4: Ain't with it? But no, So it's just it's just 1056 00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:02,000 Speaker 4: one of those things. Way, just it's just what it is. 1057 00:45:02,640 --> 00:45:05,840 Speaker 4: A lot of the guys just like form women. Me personally, 1058 00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:08,279 Speaker 4: I like black women and even down to everything I do. 1059 00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:10,480 Speaker 4: I employed, I got a whole staff of black women. 1060 00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:12,200 Speaker 4: So that's just my preference. 1061 00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:14,759 Speaker 3: But I got trying to get BDB trying to get 1062 00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:17,200 Speaker 3: cool points like staff. 1063 00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:19,839 Speaker 1: I got staff to you, but I. 1064 00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:22,560 Speaker 4: Got I got homes and athletes. I got homeless of 1065 00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:28,839 Speaker 4: athletes and homeboys entertainness. Really yeah, I'm just speaking. I 1066 00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:30,560 Speaker 4: see so like a lot of the times, it's just 1067 00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:34,000 Speaker 4: arm candy for them. It's just like, oh, you walk 1068 00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:36,160 Speaker 4: in with this chicken's like damn, who is that? Right? 1069 00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:37,840 Speaker 1: But I don't feel like it's just arm candy. 1070 00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:39,160 Speaker 3: Like if you look a lot of at a lot 1071 00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:42,239 Speaker 3: of the athletes, like I'm all all of them. But 1072 00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:45,359 Speaker 3: I know what you're about to say, and I already agree, no, no, no, no, wait, 1073 00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:47,040 Speaker 3: let me finish, because I don't think I am about 1074 00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:48,640 Speaker 3: to say what you think I'm about to say. But 1075 00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:51,440 Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of athletes are married to 1076 00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:54,040 Speaker 3: black women. But there's a lot of athletes that are 1077 00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:57,920 Speaker 3: married to white women, Spanish women, like you know, a 1078 00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:02,040 Speaker 3: lot that are what because we talked about this before. 1079 00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:04,400 Speaker 3: I remember, okay, so that's what I thought she was 1080 00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:06,320 Speaker 3: about to say, because we had a conversation about this 1081 00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:10,080 Speaker 3: a few weeks ago. A lot of athletes and not 1082 00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:12,960 Speaker 3: to be like shallow, but not even just athletes, but 1083 00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:15,160 Speaker 3: I'm about to be shallow. You know, people always say 1084 00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:16,719 Speaker 3: not to be before they were about to do some shit. 1085 00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:19,360 Speaker 3: So not to be shallow, but being a little shallow. 1086 00:46:19,640 --> 00:46:22,600 Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of athletes be married to 1087 00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:25,640 Speaker 3: like because you're saying about arm candy. Right, So that's 1088 00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:26,839 Speaker 3: the topic that we're talking about. 1089 00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:29,720 Speaker 4: I'm not saying black women can't be candy. 1090 00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:31,440 Speaker 1: No, I don't know, no, no, I know that. 1091 00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:33,200 Speaker 3: I'm just saying we're on the topic of it because 1092 00:46:33,200 --> 00:46:35,160 Speaker 3: you said a lot of the time dudes be wanting 1093 00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:37,480 Speaker 3: those type of women because they feel like they're arm candid. 1094 00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:40,320 Speaker 3: But a lot of athletes, and I'm talking about high 1095 00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:43,840 Speaker 3: paid athletes like top in the fucking game, they wives 1096 00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:45,280 Speaker 3: be trash as fuck, bro. 1097 00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:49,440 Speaker 2: And they be of other races, but they be trashed. 1098 00:46:50,239 --> 00:46:52,759 Speaker 3: And I think sometimes we all be looking like what 1099 00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:56,759 Speaker 3: the fuck, Like how the fuck this bitch get that nigga? 1100 00:46:57,120 --> 00:46:59,160 Speaker 3: And then it's like, Okay, yeah, you white, but bitch, 1101 00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:00,640 Speaker 3: you damn trained more arm. 1102 00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:03,040 Speaker 1: Candy than me. I'm just keeping it one, honey. 1103 00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:04,960 Speaker 4: And that's so to go on that point. Right. So, 1104 00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:07,719 Speaker 4: like I said when I said candy, I doesn't necessarily 1105 00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:16,040 Speaker 4: mean that black women fine as right right now. A 1106 00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:17,840 Speaker 4: lot of it's a lot for a lot of guys, 1107 00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:20,960 Speaker 4: I think, is like that social thing that they look for, Right, 1108 00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:23,080 Speaker 4: I got a white woman, I'm in those I'm in 1109 00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:23,840 Speaker 4: those rooms. 1110 00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:26,680 Speaker 3: Because the mouse being built like a cannoby ski terrible 1111 00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:30,280 Speaker 3: like they do they out. 1112 00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:30,960 Speaker 1: Side of the looks. 1113 00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:33,360 Speaker 3: Do you think it's because white women and other women 1114 00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:34,960 Speaker 3: of other races are more submissive? 1115 00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:37,719 Speaker 4: I think so. Yeah, because me personally. 1116 00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:40,200 Speaker 3: Because happy, because I ain't been through as much as 1117 00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:42,560 Speaker 3: we have. Sometimes I can speak. 1118 00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:44,600 Speaker 4: I can speak with a personal experience because I dated black 1119 00:47:44,680 --> 00:47:46,960 Speaker 4: chickens out daily, chicks that were like mixed or whatever. 1120 00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:51,920 Speaker 4: A lot those chicks are definitely more submissive. They're definitely 1121 00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:56,040 Speaker 4: more of like happy, go lucky. You can go with 1122 00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:58,600 Speaker 4: the flow, you can do whatever. And I'm not gonna 1123 00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:01,719 Speaker 4: say ship because you are quote unquote who you are, 1124 00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:03,399 Speaker 4: and you got going on what you got going on. 1125 00:48:04,280 --> 00:48:06,759 Speaker 4: The black woman she ain't going for nothing. Hell no, 1126 00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:10,560 Speaker 4: Like my my last relationship was a black woman like 1127 00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:14,200 Speaker 4: she wasn't with none of no dumb shit, any ounce 1128 00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:17,440 Speaker 4: to disrespect, any ounce of she feeling less. 1129 00:48:17,239 --> 00:48:18,880 Speaker 2: Than we could disrespect me a little bit. 1130 00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:26,160 Speaker 1: I mean, you can not any other disruy. I'm not 1131 00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:27,440 Speaker 1: tolerating any other disrus. 1132 00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:27,680 Speaker 3: Girl. 1133 00:48:27,800 --> 00:48:29,480 Speaker 1: You're lying, You'll be lying. 1134 00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:33,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, So it's like you know. 1135 00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:35,600 Speaker 1: You might speak up on it. But this is the thing. 1136 00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:39,640 Speaker 3: Tolerating something does not to me doesn't necessarily mean Okay, Like, 1137 00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:41,680 Speaker 3: if it happens, I'm speaking out on it. You got 1138 00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:43,920 Speaker 3: me fucked up, whatever, But if I still continue to 1139 00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:47,600 Speaker 3: fuck with you, I'm tolerting me, right, that's tolerting some shit. 1140 00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:49,520 Speaker 3: If you don't really cut a nigga off after he 1141 00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:52,239 Speaker 3: do something that's disrespectful to you, you're tolerating. 1142 00:48:52,320 --> 00:48:54,040 Speaker 1: You might have fuck up on it and had your 1143 00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:54,800 Speaker 1: little attitude. 1144 00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:56,960 Speaker 3: But like, if you're still fucking that nigga, fucking with 1145 00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:59,200 Speaker 3: that nigga, you're toright. But I feel like a lot 1146 00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:02,080 Speaker 3: of men want women to be submissive, but they don't 1147 00:49:02,080 --> 00:49:03,600 Speaker 3: even know what it takes to be a leader. Like 1148 00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:05,520 Speaker 3: if you're if you have a woman that's submissive, that 1149 00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:08,080 Speaker 3: doesn't mean you're taking advantage of her and treating her 1150 00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:10,440 Speaker 3: however you want to treat her, you know what I'm saying. 1151 00:49:10,200 --> 00:49:12,200 Speaker 4: Like, but not that's to cut you off a lot. 1152 00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:14,239 Speaker 4: But why is it that a lot of women when 1153 00:49:14,239 --> 00:49:18,240 Speaker 4: they hear or being submissive men and the guy's control, 1154 00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:19,959 Speaker 4: and why is that the immediate reaction? 1155 00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:22,359 Speaker 3: Because I don't think though, I don't think that because 1156 00:49:22,400 --> 00:49:25,000 Speaker 3: I honestly people never believe me when I say this, 1157 00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:27,840 Speaker 3: But when I'm in a relationship. I'm actually very submissive, 1158 00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:29,880 Speaker 3: and we've talked about this on the past show, Like 1159 00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:32,880 Speaker 3: I but I love to be submissive. I'm not submissive 1160 00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:35,000 Speaker 3: to every man because every man can't handle that. But 1161 00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:37,560 Speaker 3: I think women take it back to controlling because men 1162 00:49:37,600 --> 00:49:40,879 Speaker 3: who don't know how to be a leader, they take, Oh, 1163 00:49:41,160 --> 00:49:43,239 Speaker 3: my woman is submissive, so I have to control her. 1164 00:49:43,480 --> 00:49:45,919 Speaker 3: I feel like women think that because that's how men 1165 00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:48,120 Speaker 3: do you know what I mean, Like, that's what they 1166 00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:51,120 Speaker 3: give off. So women automatically think that when that's not 1167 00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:54,920 Speaker 3: what it is at all. But so do you feel 1168 00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:56,800 Speaker 3: like do you feel like black women can be submissive? 1169 00:49:57,600 --> 00:50:01,080 Speaker 4: I feel like they can and this I feel like 1170 00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:04,520 Speaker 4: they I feel like it, but it's only because it 1171 00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:07,480 Speaker 4: depends on the guy. So I feel like black women 1172 00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:12,040 Speaker 4: need something to be submissive too, like a lot of guys, 1173 00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:15,839 Speaker 4: like black guys, they got to give black women something 1174 00:50:15,840 --> 00:50:18,280 Speaker 4: to be submissive to, like you got to feel fulfill 1175 00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:20,680 Speaker 4: everything that they need and looking for before they can 1176 00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:23,279 Speaker 4: be like I'm all about this, nigga, right. So I 1177 00:50:23,280 --> 00:50:25,239 Speaker 4: think it's possible, but I think it's a little bit 1178 00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:27,600 Speaker 4: more harder to get on that side with black. 1179 00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:28,960 Speaker 1: Women versus other races. 1180 00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:31,040 Speaker 4: Women, And it's nothing against black women. It's just like 1181 00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:33,000 Speaker 4: y'all know what y'all y'all stand for something, y'all know 1182 00:50:33,040 --> 00:50:34,879 Speaker 4: what you want and want accept you know what I'm saying. 1183 00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:37,239 Speaker 1: So have you dated outside your race before I have? 1184 00:50:37,880 --> 00:50:41,680 Speaker 3: And like what's the difference, Like what's the biggest difference, 1185 00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:43,799 Speaker 3: Like what did you enjoy about dating outside of your 1186 00:50:43,840 --> 00:50:46,080 Speaker 3: race versus black women? Like what was it about her 1187 00:50:46,480 --> 00:50:48,680 Speaker 3: that you liked over black women? You can be honest 1188 00:50:48,719 --> 00:50:51,120 Speaker 3: when you're gonna cut your head off, just. 1189 00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:54,920 Speaker 4: The thought to say like that she formed, she formed. 1190 00:50:55,440 --> 00:50:57,279 Speaker 4: But when it comes down to like going through some 1191 00:50:57,280 --> 00:50:59,439 Speaker 4: ship and holding a nigga down? Can no black women 1192 00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:01,239 Speaker 4: hold a black man? 1193 00:51:01,320 --> 00:51:04,600 Speaker 3: Damn? How you know you're saying nobody can hold a 1194 00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:07,000 Speaker 3: black man down like a exactly. 1195 00:51:06,640 --> 00:51:08,640 Speaker 4: So like the only the only claim to fame was 1196 00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:10,600 Speaker 4: like I walked in with a chick that was half 1197 00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:13,960 Speaker 4: Japanese and black. It's like, damn, yeah, you see, she's cold. 1198 00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:15,680 Speaker 4: But at the end of the day, if I'm going 1199 00:51:15,719 --> 00:51:17,279 Speaker 4: through some ship, if I can relate to some ship 1200 00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:18,560 Speaker 4: like we probably. 1201 00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:20,960 Speaker 1: Come from similar, Yeah, absolutely. 1202 00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:25,200 Speaker 4: The chill not licks, But that's another Like the chick 1203 00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:28,480 Speaker 4: that's Spanish or like Pandamania or Puerto Rican probably ain't 1204 00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:32,719 Speaker 4: come from where I You can't relate to some of 1205 00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:35,239 Speaker 4: the ship I went through. So the only, like I said, 1206 00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:36,920 Speaker 4: the only claim the fan will probably be like, oh 1207 00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:38,200 Speaker 4: she formed right. 1208 00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:39,439 Speaker 1: Well, I'm not gonna lie. 1209 00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:42,759 Speaker 3: I feel like I'm just now realizing this about myself. 1210 00:51:43,080 --> 00:51:44,479 Speaker 1: Like nothing against American guys. 1211 00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:46,600 Speaker 3: But I think that's why I love Nigerian men so much, 1212 00:51:46,640 --> 00:51:49,520 Speaker 3: because they love Black women. And I feel like, I mean, 1213 00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:52,479 Speaker 3: but I feel like sometimes that's the thing too. It's 1214 00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:55,160 Speaker 3: like black women, some black women get so tired of 1215 00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:58,040 Speaker 3: like the decent respects and not being treated right by 1216 00:51:58,120 --> 00:52:01,680 Speaker 3: like American black guys. Yet so then a lot of 1217 00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:06,200 Speaker 3: the time black women start dating like Nigeriating white guys. 1218 00:52:06,200 --> 00:52:08,800 Speaker 1: Are they start dating you know, yes. 1219 00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:12,960 Speaker 3: I don't stand for white men because I'm not saying 1220 00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:14,600 Speaker 3: I'm not saying that you do what I feel like, 1221 00:52:14,640 --> 00:52:17,799 Speaker 3: it's kind of it's kind of a similar narrative to me. 1222 00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:18,319 Speaker 1: Like this. 1223 00:52:18,480 --> 00:52:20,520 Speaker 3: I hate when I see black women trying to be like, 1224 00:52:20,560 --> 00:52:22,000 Speaker 3: oh I'm going to give me a white man, baby, 1225 00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:24,279 Speaker 3: they gonna disrespect you way worse. If you're gonna date 1226 00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:26,960 Speaker 3: I'll saw Joe race or whatever. Don't run the white 1227 00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:29,520 Speaker 3: men because they ain't much better. And I can attest 1228 00:52:29,520 --> 00:52:31,839 Speaker 3: today because I dated a white guy before in child. 1229 00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:33,920 Speaker 1: We don't even talk about it today. 1230 00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:37,880 Speaker 4: Of course, what is black women's thing? 1231 00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:41,680 Speaker 1: Well, first of all, let me go first. 1232 00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:45,640 Speaker 3: Let me go first, because I let me go first 1233 00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:48,400 Speaker 3: because I am a black woman who I don't like Nigeria. 1234 00:52:48,400 --> 00:52:52,759 Speaker 3: I mean again, so I'm on the whole opposite spectrum 1235 00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:55,439 Speaker 3: from everybody else because I don't fuck with Nigerian guys. 1236 00:52:55,440 --> 00:52:56,080 Speaker 1: They annoy me. 1237 00:52:56,920 --> 00:52:59,240 Speaker 3: I don't like their accents, say be I can't barely 1238 00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:00,960 Speaker 3: understand what they be saying a lot of the time. 1239 00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:03,439 Speaker 3: It's so for me, it's a language barrier thing because 1240 00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:06,000 Speaker 3: I'll be okay. Well, so for example, Nex days to 1241 00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:08,759 Speaker 3: God right now, and he's Nigerian, but he doesn't have 1242 00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:12,719 Speaker 3: an accent because he's Americanized. So I can deal with 1243 00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:15,120 Speaker 3: I mean, and he does, but not to you, because 1244 00:53:15,120 --> 00:53:20,160 Speaker 3: it does he doesn't he get sassy. Okay, well, but 1245 00:53:20,200 --> 00:53:22,480 Speaker 3: at least he doesn't have it all the time. I 1246 00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:26,040 Speaker 3: can deal with an Americanized Nigerian, but I can't deal 1247 00:53:26,080 --> 00:53:29,120 Speaker 3: with like a Nigerian guy from Nigeria because I really 1248 00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:33,320 Speaker 3: don't be understanding. They accent and as fuck and annoying, 1249 00:53:33,360 --> 00:53:36,480 Speaker 3: and they be whining all the themn time. That's not begging. 1250 00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:39,759 Speaker 3: No like Keith Swag, not with Nager. I feel like 1251 00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:43,799 Speaker 3: that's with any person. No, No, that's no, Absolutely the 1252 00:53:43,840 --> 00:53:46,640 Speaker 3: fuck not American niggas, regular niggas. 1253 00:53:46,719 --> 00:53:50,360 Speaker 1: I'm talking about Atlanta niggas, Houston niggas, New York niggas. 1254 00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:52,880 Speaker 3: I deal with all types of niggas. Them niggas do 1255 00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:56,080 Speaker 3: not be fucking whining, not the fu they don't. Maybe 1256 00:53:56,160 --> 00:53:58,360 Speaker 3: your niggas be whinding, be dealing with real niggas. My 1257 00:53:58,440 --> 00:54:02,879 Speaker 3: niggas don't be whining. They do not be fucking wining. 1258 00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:05,560 Speaker 3: So to talk to me, and you know, it's just like, well, 1259 00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:07,960 Speaker 3: for me, I would say this, please on the good 1260 00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:10,480 Speaker 3: end of it, Like I said, I felt like they 1261 00:54:10,560 --> 00:54:12,080 Speaker 3: just treated me different and. 1262 00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:13,320 Speaker 1: The act didn't make it worse. 1263 00:54:13,680 --> 00:54:18,279 Speaker 3: I'll say this for me, I got treated with respect. 1264 00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:20,680 Speaker 3: I felt like I was the beautiful, most beautiful girl 1265 00:54:20,680 --> 00:54:23,640 Speaker 3: in the world. They take He takes me wherever I 1266 00:54:23,680 --> 00:54:26,480 Speaker 3: want to go. He treats me like a fucking princess, 1267 00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:28,399 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. And I feel like, don't 1268 00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:30,680 Speaker 3: get me wrong. I have had American black men treat 1269 00:54:30,719 --> 00:54:33,080 Speaker 3: me like that before, don't get it twisted. But it's 1270 00:54:33,160 --> 00:54:36,160 Speaker 3: just a different level of respect. Like he literally treats 1271 00:54:36,160 --> 00:54:38,520 Speaker 3: me like I'm his fucking queen, like you know what 1272 00:54:38,560 --> 00:54:41,200 Speaker 3: I mean. And I, like I said, I've dated American 1273 00:54:41,280 --> 00:54:43,200 Speaker 3: men that have treated me like, you know, like this 1274 00:54:43,280 --> 00:54:43,800 Speaker 3: is my bitch. 1275 00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:45,400 Speaker 1: Is she cool? You know? I like being called a 1276 00:54:45,400 --> 00:54:46,920 Speaker 1: little bitch because I'm a bitch, you know what. 1277 00:54:47,880 --> 00:54:49,960 Speaker 3: But it's just different, Like when I went to the 1278 00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:53,440 Speaker 3: Legos with my little boo, like it was just a 1279 00:54:53,480 --> 00:54:55,280 Speaker 3: life like experience of a lifetime. 1280 00:54:55,600 --> 00:54:56,600 Speaker 1: I travel a lot. 1281 00:54:57,040 --> 00:54:59,920 Speaker 3: I never talk about a trip like after I had 1282 00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:02,279 Speaker 3: people be like, oh, take me back, Like I hate 1283 00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:04,640 Speaker 3: when people do this because just go somewhere else where 1284 00:55:04,680 --> 00:55:07,120 Speaker 3: I go again, That's what I said, But I still 1285 00:55:07,200 --> 00:55:09,880 Speaker 3: I went to Legos in December and I still talking 1286 00:55:09,920 --> 00:55:13,400 Speaker 3: about that trip because he just showed me like I 1287 00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:15,240 Speaker 3: ain't never been on a trip like that with somebody 1288 00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:16,360 Speaker 3: like who just. 1289 00:55:16,400 --> 00:55:18,760 Speaker 1: Made sure like he rolled out the red fucking carpet 1290 00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:19,000 Speaker 1: for me. 1291 00:55:19,440 --> 00:55:21,400 Speaker 3: And I feel like that's the way he was raised, 1292 00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:24,720 Speaker 3: like his mother taught him. This is like Nigerian parents 1293 00:55:24,840 --> 00:55:25,800 Speaker 3: raised their kids different. 1294 00:55:25,840 --> 00:55:26,359 Speaker 1: They really do. 1295 00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:28,080 Speaker 3: I'm not saying that it's a good thing because I 1296 00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:30,840 Speaker 3: know a lot of people that have you know, African 1297 00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:32,840 Speaker 3: parents and they say it's hard no, but I just 1298 00:55:32,840 --> 00:55:34,839 Speaker 3: feel like they I don't know, he just treats me. 1299 00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:37,000 Speaker 3: But let me say this, I do feel like Nigerian 1300 00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:40,840 Speaker 3: men are very attentive and they love to pamper their women. 1301 00:55:41,239 --> 00:55:43,239 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna never take that away from him because 1302 00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:45,440 Speaker 3: I then dated a few Nigerians, especially you know me 1303 00:55:45,520 --> 00:55:48,280 Speaker 3: being from Houston. It's a lot of Nigerians in Houston, 1304 00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:52,080 Speaker 3: So I've dated Nigerian mean, and I definitely feel like 1305 00:55:52,120 --> 00:55:55,000 Speaker 3: every guy I've ever dated, they have always been pampering 1306 00:55:55,160 --> 00:55:56,319 Speaker 3: and all that type of shit. 1307 00:55:56,600 --> 00:55:59,400 Speaker 1: They just not for me though they too needy. I 1308 00:55:59,440 --> 00:56:01,959 Speaker 1: am not really wants against the wall. 1309 00:56:02,160 --> 00:56:05,799 Speaker 3: No, No, I don't want that either because I've never 1310 00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:09,120 Speaker 3: been in an abusive relationship before, thank God, knock on wood. 1311 00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:11,759 Speaker 3: Like I've never had an abusive relationship, so I don't 1312 00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:15,000 Speaker 3: like that either. But I just don't want no nigga, 1313 00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:17,600 Speaker 3: that's all up on me. Like I'm not I'm not 1314 00:56:17,640 --> 00:56:20,160 Speaker 3: a very emotional person and I really got to fuck 1315 00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:23,920 Speaker 3: with you to be emotional. So the clinginess, the texting me, 1316 00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:27,160 Speaker 3: all of like I was dating this guy. I wouldn't 1317 00:56:27,200 --> 00:56:29,040 Speaker 3: even say dating him. We were just talking. Like he 1318 00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:33,799 Speaker 3: started following me on Instagram. I followed him back. Yes, 1319 00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:36,000 Speaker 3: I mean but yeah, but I mean but for me, 1320 00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:40,120 Speaker 3: that's how all of my transactions and relationships with them 1321 00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:43,520 Speaker 3: have win. So yeah, so anyways, I was talking to 1322 00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:46,880 Speaker 3: this guy. He started following me on Instagram. Follow him 1323 00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:48,560 Speaker 3: back because I scrolled his page. You know, I've seen 1324 00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:52,160 Speaker 3: he had a little money whatever. Well, well we don't 1325 00:56:52,200 --> 00:56:53,520 Speaker 3: know if he a BDB because. 1326 00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:55,440 Speaker 1: I never got to dig. He just had the last bat. 1327 00:56:55,480 --> 00:56:57,040 Speaker 1: He was a ball Yeah, he was a baller. 1328 00:56:57,360 --> 00:57:02,280 Speaker 3: So so we try to follow each other. We exchanged numbers, 1329 00:57:02,320 --> 00:57:05,359 Speaker 3: you know, we was texting, We was facetiming on face time. 1330 00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:07,000 Speaker 1: He would just well we would be texting. 1331 00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:08,719 Speaker 3: He would always want to face time me and I 1332 00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:10,440 Speaker 3: would be like, no, I don't want to FaceTime, and 1333 00:57:10,440 --> 00:57:11,279 Speaker 3: he would still call. 1334 00:57:11,520 --> 00:57:12,560 Speaker 1: And then he would call like. 1335 00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:16,560 Speaker 3: Five times, six times, and it's just like what the fuck, 1336 00:57:16,840 --> 00:57:18,280 Speaker 3: I don't want to talk to you right now. Then 1337 00:57:18,280 --> 00:57:20,400 Speaker 3: he then when I will finally answer the face time, 1338 00:57:20,960 --> 00:57:23,200 Speaker 3: it would be like he on the FaceTime big and 1339 00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:25,840 Speaker 3: to see my tds, and she well, have you seen 1340 00:57:26,120 --> 00:57:28,080 Speaker 3: your titties are nice? 1341 00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:31,120 Speaker 1: You post the Instagram pictures and your little nipples be 1342 00:57:31,160 --> 00:57:38,280 Speaker 1: showing your nipples always hard right now looking at dress. 1343 00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:41,560 Speaker 3: Let me say this, You're an idiot if you DM 1344 00:57:41,600 --> 00:57:43,600 Speaker 3: Dre and you get her number and you don't ask 1345 00:57:43,600 --> 00:57:48,400 Speaker 3: to see her t I know, right, but it was 1346 00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:49,760 Speaker 3: just like, what the fuck? So I'm not gonna lot 1347 00:57:49,760 --> 00:57:50,160 Speaker 3: of y'all. 1348 00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:52,840 Speaker 2: So me and him was texting and I asked him 1349 00:57:52,840 --> 00:57:54,040 Speaker 2: for five hundred dollars, like I. 1350 00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:55,680 Speaker 1: Was like, oh, I need five hundred dollars. 1351 00:57:55,520 --> 00:57:55,800 Speaker 3: To do this. 1352 00:57:55,920 --> 00:57:57,760 Speaker 2: So he paipalty to me and I never talked to 1353 00:57:57,800 --> 00:57:58,240 Speaker 2: him again. 1354 00:57:59,280 --> 00:58:09,720 Speaker 1: He livesa face this jo I'll say this, but he 1355 00:58:09,840 --> 00:58:12,920 Speaker 1: was annoying in that situation. He was annoying. 1356 00:58:12,960 --> 00:58:16,360 Speaker 3: But in my personal experiences, I've never I feel like 1357 00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:19,280 Speaker 3: all men are annoying, and I feel like I just 1358 00:58:19,360 --> 00:58:22,400 Speaker 3: I guess I've just lucked out with my Yeah, but 1359 00:58:22,480 --> 00:58:24,440 Speaker 3: even like with football Bay, like football Baby. 1360 00:58:24,320 --> 00:58:26,760 Speaker 1: Treats me so fucking nice. And he's American as fuck. 1361 00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:28,840 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Like he's nice and he 1362 00:58:28,920 --> 00:58:30,200 Speaker 1: does you know what I need him to do. 1363 00:58:30,280 --> 00:58:32,640 Speaker 3: So but I feel like I could deal with that. 1364 00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:34,720 Speaker 3: That's the point that I making. Doesn't have an accent 1365 00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:38,760 Speaker 3: that Yeah, Honestly, if you told me before that you 1366 00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:40,720 Speaker 3: wanted to have a baby with a Middle Eastern nigga, 1367 00:58:40,800 --> 00:58:41,680 Speaker 3: so their accent is. 1368 00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:44,920 Speaker 2: Okay, I like the accent, and I like that a rap. 1369 00:58:44,840 --> 00:58:50,240 Speaker 1: Money, get the fuck getting a money just like these niggas. 1370 00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:52,720 Speaker 1: There's like something just like it because it's not black. 1371 00:58:52,760 --> 00:58:56,840 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, and they make beautiful babies. Honestly, black people don't. 1372 00:58:56,920 --> 00:58:58,880 Speaker 2: Absolutely I want first of all. 1373 00:58:59,520 --> 00:59:02,680 Speaker 1: First of all, but you have self hate. Now you 1374 00:59:02,800 --> 00:59:08,120 Speaker 1: hate yourself, bitch, not even do that, bitch, don't even bitch, 1375 00:59:08,240 --> 00:59:09,400 Speaker 1: don't even fucking do that. 1376 00:59:09,480 --> 00:59:11,680 Speaker 3: The niggas I date, I want to have a fucking 1377 00:59:11,720 --> 00:59:13,680 Speaker 3: black baby. 1378 00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:16,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to have a black baby. I love 1379 00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:17,240 Speaker 1: Black people. 1380 00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:20,640 Speaker 3: I think we're beautiful. However, if it don't pay out 1381 00:59:21,360 --> 00:59:24,000 Speaker 3: with a nigga, I'm going I'm about to get that 1382 00:59:24,040 --> 00:59:27,400 Speaker 3: a ram money and have a little foreign, little Middle 1383 00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:31,040 Speaker 3: Eastern and black yourself, and then niggas like these gonna 1384 00:59:31,080 --> 00:59:37,240 Speaker 3: want to date hud she's exoeted. So do you feel 1385 00:59:37,360 --> 00:59:40,360 Speaker 3: like when you get married, you're gonna marry a black woman? 1386 00:59:40,640 --> 00:59:42,600 Speaker 3: Or you just are you a person that's like love 1387 00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:45,360 Speaker 3: is love, love is no color, Like, how are you 1388 00:59:45,400 --> 00:59:45,840 Speaker 3: with that? 1389 00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:48,360 Speaker 4: I think I'm a married black one. Yeah, yeah, I 1390 00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:50,800 Speaker 4: talked my ship, whatever I did, who I date in between, 1391 00:59:50,840 --> 00:59:52,880 Speaker 4: But I know I'm a married black one. 1392 00:59:53,000 --> 00:59:56,160 Speaker 1: Same Yeah, I'm married with a black man at the 1393 00:59:56,200 --> 00:59:57,840 Speaker 1: end of the day. Like I don't know, I just 1394 00:59:57,920 --> 00:59:58,840 Speaker 1: not not that. I don't. 1395 00:59:59,040 --> 01:00:01,120 Speaker 3: I feel like not did. I feel like these men 1396 01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:04,360 Speaker 3: are sellouts. But I'm just like having a conversation with 1397 01:00:04,440 --> 01:00:06,880 Speaker 3: some of these women, like women that are like mixed 1398 01:00:06,960 --> 01:00:08,720 Speaker 3: or women that are foreign, Like I'll be around them, 1399 01:00:08,760 --> 01:00:10,360 Speaker 3: it's Atlanta, you know, and I'll be talking to them. 1400 01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:13,080 Speaker 3: I'm like, girl, you don't have nothing to offer. You 1401 01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:14,320 Speaker 3: can even hold a conversation. 1402 01:00:14,600 --> 01:00:15,400 Speaker 1: They just be cute. 1403 01:00:15,400 --> 01:00:17,520 Speaker 3: You don't have nothing to relate with these men. So 1404 01:00:17,560 --> 01:00:20,280 Speaker 3: I'll be like, damn, this shit is crazy. Like some 1405 01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:22,560 Speaker 3: niggas just really don't want a person with substance. And 1406 01:00:22,600 --> 01:00:24,320 Speaker 3: I'm not saying they're all like that and they don't 1407 01:00:24,360 --> 01:00:26,840 Speaker 3: have substance, but I just be like, how can you 1408 01:00:27,120 --> 01:00:28,520 Speaker 3: and this black man relate? 1409 01:00:28,720 --> 01:00:30,520 Speaker 4: But a lot of niggas don't they A lot of 1410 01:00:30,600 --> 01:00:32,560 Speaker 4: niggas just want their women just to look good, and 1411 01:00:32,600 --> 01:00:36,480 Speaker 4: I say nothing, right, niggas is like at more than that. 1412 01:00:36,840 --> 01:00:39,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, so let us know how y'all feel about 1413 01:00:39,880 --> 01:00:40,240 Speaker 3: day now. 1414 01:00:40,240 --> 01:00:42,480 Speaker 2: Oh I'm excited. Okay, son, it's time for the big 1415 01:00:42,760 --> 01:00:44,320 Speaker 2: b bi. 1416 01:00:48,160 --> 01:00:52,520 Speaker 1: Okay. So you know I didn't always have TDS. Congratulations 1417 01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:53,920 Speaker 1: on the purchase. 1418 01:00:54,520 --> 01:00:58,560 Speaker 3: Right, so now I got some, but this still ain't 1419 01:00:58,560 --> 01:01:02,000 Speaker 3: my thing. So like, how do you feel? How do 1420 01:01:02,080 --> 01:01:05,440 Speaker 3: y'all feel about titty fucking? Because you've always. 1421 01:01:05,000 --> 01:01:06,919 Speaker 2: Had big ass teat, always had big titty. 1422 01:01:07,000 --> 01:01:09,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, so do you titty fuck? Absolutely? 1423 01:01:09,600 --> 01:01:11,640 Speaker 3: The first time I titty fucked, I was like sixteen, 1424 01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:14,360 Speaker 3: What you know, you was that white boys then? So 1425 01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:16,840 Speaker 3: that's always that like a white people thing I think 1426 01:01:16,880 --> 01:01:18,720 Speaker 3: it is. I mean, I've been titty fucked by a 1427 01:01:18,760 --> 01:01:21,919 Speaker 3: black man before, like rap, I never been titty fuzz 1428 01:01:22,040 --> 01:01:24,160 Speaker 3: rapper back. Definitely titty fucking because I was on my 1429 01:01:24,240 --> 01:01:26,480 Speaker 3: period and you know that's what he wanted to do. 1430 01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:29,560 Speaker 1: But I feel like titty fucking is amazing. Now we're 1431 01:01:29,560 --> 01:01:30,840 Speaker 1: about to bring wis a Kelly. 1432 01:01:30,880 --> 01:01:31,160 Speaker 3: Y'all. 1433 01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:33,760 Speaker 1: All you have to do is sit there and do this, 1434 01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:36,200 Speaker 1: lazy bitches, this is our time. 1435 01:01:36,440 --> 01:01:42,840 Speaker 3: Moran morane. Have you ever titty fucked a girl before? 1436 01:01:44,200 --> 01:01:46,040 Speaker 1: What have you ever titty fucked the girl before? 1437 01:01:46,280 --> 01:01:51,120 Speaker 4: Honestly once? But really it's not though, like, okay, you're 1438 01:01:51,200 --> 01:01:51,840 Speaker 4: right to it, but. 1439 01:01:52,160 --> 01:01:54,000 Speaker 1: Why I mean, but what but you don't like the 1440 01:01:54,080 --> 01:01:54,880 Speaker 1: way it feels. 1441 01:01:54,960 --> 01:01:59,000 Speaker 3: It's just like it's just it's different from so morane. 1442 01:01:59,200 --> 01:02:04,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, what's show? What's tea? Dude? You did it before? 1443 01:02:04,800 --> 01:02:04,960 Speaker 4: Though? 1444 01:02:05,040 --> 01:02:05,960 Speaker 1: Who's done it before? 1445 01:02:06,040 --> 01:02:11,640 Speaker 3: Okay, I've definitely done it before, but choose head, give 1446 01:02:11,680 --> 01:02:12,160 Speaker 3: me the head? 1447 01:02:12,240 --> 01:02:19,160 Speaker 1: Well for me, bit titty fuck me? Really, you don't 1448 01:02:19,200 --> 01:02:21,160 Speaker 1: have to do ship, but sit here and do this. 1449 01:02:21,520 --> 01:02:22,040 Speaker 1: Please city. 1450 01:02:23,120 --> 01:02:27,360 Speaker 4: If you offer titty first one you got that city, the. 1451 01:02:27,480 --> 01:02:30,600 Speaker 3: Pussy might be well you don't let me always saying 1452 01:02:30,680 --> 01:02:32,480 Speaker 3: Garfield trash. 1453 01:02:32,960 --> 01:02:34,920 Speaker 4: So she first. 1454 01:02:35,360 --> 01:02:37,240 Speaker 1: Excuse me, sir? Would you like little titt. 1455 01:02:39,040 --> 01:02:42,600 Speaker 2: No, like y'all, it's just not for me, Like I can't. 1456 01:02:42,920 --> 01:02:43,280 Speaker 1: I can't. 1457 01:02:43,600 --> 01:02:45,800 Speaker 3: Somebody has asked me to do it before, but I'm 1458 01:02:45,840 --> 01:02:49,360 Speaker 3: just like, what the all this pussy right here, all 1459 01:02:49,440 --> 01:02:52,880 Speaker 3: this ass, all this mouth you and you want to 1460 01:02:52,920 --> 01:02:53,320 Speaker 3: fuck me? 1461 01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:55,520 Speaker 1: You want to fuck my titties? 1462 01:02:55,560 --> 01:02:55,720 Speaker 4: Bro? 1463 01:02:56,640 --> 01:02:59,120 Speaker 1: You have it ain't no little or nothing like? So 1464 01:02:59,320 --> 01:03:00,520 Speaker 1: what it is supposed to put. 1465 01:03:00,920 --> 01:03:04,360 Speaker 3: Titties do not create lube. That's what I'm saying. Something right, 1466 01:03:04,920 --> 01:03:06,720 Speaker 3: But it's like, how stupid do I love? 1467 01:03:09,200 --> 01:03:10,080 Speaker 1: Nobody mean. 1468 01:03:13,880 --> 01:03:17,280 Speaker 3: Gum like not oiling my titties up and shit, so 1469 01:03:17,280 --> 01:03:19,360 Speaker 3: I can lay here, like, let me say this, dra 1470 01:03:19,520 --> 01:03:21,360 Speaker 3: are you dumb? I have nice boobs and you have 1471 01:03:21,400 --> 01:03:24,880 Speaker 3: big boobs, but your boobs aren't very like that's way. 1472 01:03:24,960 --> 01:03:28,720 Speaker 3: I got nice ass titties, but my pussy better. That's 1473 01:03:29,080 --> 01:03:32,080 Speaker 3: and my head is tool and my booty. You have 1474 01:03:32,200 --> 01:03:34,240 Speaker 3: fake titties, so you know it don't feel the same 1475 01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:35,160 Speaker 3: as my titties. 1476 01:03:35,520 --> 01:03:39,160 Speaker 1: You know, I actually think natural boobs feel better. That's 1477 01:03:39,200 --> 01:03:42,360 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So my titties donna feel different than 1478 01:03:42,400 --> 01:03:43,080 Speaker 1: your titties. 1479 01:03:43,200 --> 01:03:46,520 Speaker 3: But my titties are softy, they feelfore, they feel real 1480 01:03:46,920 --> 01:03:53,160 Speaker 3: like these titties, bitch between pussy head. 1481 01:03:53,000 --> 01:03:56,480 Speaker 1: Or titt We want the pussy, We want the head. 1482 01:03:57,920 --> 01:04:01,200 Speaker 3: You can have these cities, like, oh, bro, what is 1483 01:04:01,240 --> 01:04:02,800 Speaker 3: wrong with you? 1484 01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:03,360 Speaker 1: I like it? 1485 01:04:05,880 --> 01:04:11,240 Speaker 3: Don't want Yeah, So in twenty twenty, bro, you still 1486 01:04:11,320 --> 01:04:13,560 Speaker 3: titty fucking nigga. You know what I mean when you 1487 01:04:13,640 --> 01:04:16,320 Speaker 3: let a niggas city because you my man want to do. 1488 01:04:16,400 --> 01:04:18,920 Speaker 3: But I mean my niggas got good dick, so it's like, 1489 01:04:19,200 --> 01:04:20,440 Speaker 3: of course I want to fuck them. 1490 01:04:20,280 --> 01:04:22,640 Speaker 1: But like sometimes when I didn't feel like fucking. 1491 01:04:22,360 --> 01:04:25,040 Speaker 2: Rapper bang, he just but he liked it, and what 1492 01:04:25,120 --> 01:04:26,200 Speaker 2: is the position for that? 1493 01:04:26,560 --> 01:04:28,120 Speaker 1: So I would like how we would do it. 1494 01:04:28,120 --> 01:04:29,400 Speaker 3: I would just be on my back and I would 1495 01:04:29,440 --> 01:04:30,840 Speaker 3: just hold my titties and he would be on top 1496 01:04:30,840 --> 01:04:38,920 Speaker 3: of me, just fucking my titties. Okay, Wade, Okay, okay, okay. 1497 01:04:39,000 --> 01:04:41,520 Speaker 3: So you laying back, just like you laying back and 1498 01:04:41,600 --> 01:04:42,640 Speaker 3: he's fucking your mouth and. 1499 01:04:42,640 --> 01:04:43,240 Speaker 1: You hauled us. 1500 01:04:43,240 --> 01:04:45,040 Speaker 3: How you laying back and you hauling your cities and 1501 01:04:45,160 --> 01:04:48,439 Speaker 3: you like this and then he on top of you 1502 01:04:49,320 --> 01:04:53,440 Speaker 3: and it's going like this. Yes, yes, So basically his 1503 01:04:53,560 --> 01:04:56,360 Speaker 3: belly button is like on your forehead. 1504 01:04:59,040 --> 01:05:00,760 Speaker 1: So your last peak in the way. 1505 01:05:01,000 --> 01:05:03,680 Speaker 3: And I'm tweeting, texting you seeing how your dad going. 1506 01:05:03,880 --> 01:05:05,680 Speaker 1: How you texting me? But you because you got a 1507 01:05:05,720 --> 01:05:15,320 Speaker 1: hold of I got a long just like that. No, yes, girl, 1508 01:05:15,320 --> 01:05:17,200 Speaker 1: you better get with the program, y'all better work. 1509 01:05:17,280 --> 01:05:20,439 Speaker 4: Let me my Heart'll get enjoyment out of that. Though. 1510 01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:24,120 Speaker 1: No, I just told you I ain't doing that, dumb ass. 1511 01:05:24,120 --> 01:05:26,760 Speaker 3: She No, I got asked, I got a mouth I 1512 01:05:26,760 --> 01:05:27,960 Speaker 3: got a fucking pussy. 1513 01:05:28,200 --> 01:05:30,920 Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not fucking titty for I will I 1514 01:05:31,000 --> 01:05:32,640 Speaker 1: will be. I won't mis this. 1515 01:05:32,800 --> 01:05:37,640 Speaker 3: It is kind of awkward because absolutely, and you gotta. 1516 01:05:37,520 --> 01:05:41,120 Speaker 1: Oil your you have to. You have to oil your titty. 1517 01:05:41,200 --> 01:05:45,480 Speaker 1: The first supposed to be sexy with me, not the Rannie. 1518 01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:50,600 Speaker 3: I'm rubbing them over. I'm getting ready, bitch, I'm getting ready. 1519 01:05:50,680 --> 01:05:55,400 Speaker 3: It's real sexy, like turn on that key sweat. Oh 1520 01:05:55,720 --> 01:05:59,800 Speaker 3: my fucking guy, I'm so fucking mad right now because 1521 01:05:59,800 --> 01:06:00,240 Speaker 3: I'm sad. 1522 01:06:00,240 --> 01:06:02,720 Speaker 2: That's fucking visual if you getting titty fucks. 1523 01:06:02,760 --> 01:06:06,960 Speaker 3: Oh my god, you're so dramatic, bro, I did know 1524 01:06:07,000 --> 01:06:08,320 Speaker 3: how y'all feel about titty fucking. 1525 01:06:08,400 --> 01:06:10,080 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say I like it because we don't 1526 01:06:10,120 --> 01:06:12,640 Speaker 1: get nothing. That's what you just said. To be honest, 1527 01:06:12,640 --> 01:06:14,840 Speaker 1: you're doing it. I do not mind doing it. You 1528 01:06:14,880 --> 01:06:16,280 Speaker 1: don't so but you like it. 1529 01:06:16,440 --> 01:06:19,880 Speaker 3: You just basically said that this whole fifteen minute conversation. 1530 01:06:20,000 --> 01:06:22,520 Speaker 3: I don't mind it because I don't have to do nothing. Nah, 1531 01:06:22,600 --> 01:06:24,760 Speaker 3: this said that it is awkward, but I'm not gonna lie. 1532 01:06:24,840 --> 01:06:27,840 Speaker 3: I don't get any sexual stimulation or pleasure from it, 1533 01:06:27,880 --> 01:06:30,680 Speaker 3: Like why would I get pleasure from that, but I said, 1534 01:06:30,680 --> 01:06:33,000 Speaker 3: I don't mind it. But I told y'all I've said 1535 01:06:33,000 --> 01:06:34,920 Speaker 3: this before in the past. Whatever my nigga want to do, 1536 01:06:34,960 --> 01:06:37,320 Speaker 3: I'm down for it. Like I'll be whatever you want 1537 01:06:37,320 --> 01:06:39,800 Speaker 3: to do in the bed. Let's get to it, you 1538 01:06:39,840 --> 01:06:42,120 Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. For the most part, I am too. 1539 01:06:42,360 --> 01:06:45,280 Speaker 3: But that's just dumb to me. Why you want to 1540 01:06:45,320 --> 01:06:49,200 Speaker 3: fuck my titties? I mean why, I mean it's a 1541 01:06:49,240 --> 01:06:51,480 Speaker 3: good point because I'm down for whatever too. It's like, 1542 01:06:51,520 --> 01:06:53,440 Speaker 3: we could do some way more free here, ship. I 1543 01:06:53,480 --> 01:06:56,600 Speaker 3: can let me, let me entite you. We can do 1544 01:06:56,720 --> 01:06:58,400 Speaker 3: some way more freak here shit. Other than you have 1545 01:06:58,560 --> 01:07:01,160 Speaker 3: to realize some people be in when Carlie Red staid 1546 01:07:01,240 --> 01:07:03,800 Speaker 3: the law back like she had, like gave young Jacka 1547 01:07:04,320 --> 01:07:05,439 Speaker 3: a hand job, but with her. 1548 01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:06,320 Speaker 1: Feet like a foot job. 1549 01:07:06,800 --> 01:07:09,520 Speaker 3: People have foot fetishes. They want to fuck people feet. 1550 01:07:09,560 --> 01:07:12,440 Speaker 3: You put your little feet together like this. If you 1551 01:07:12,440 --> 01:07:14,360 Speaker 3: can create a whole, niggas gonna fuck it. 1552 01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:17,040 Speaker 2: Not if you can create a whole niggas come. 1553 01:07:17,240 --> 01:07:19,600 Speaker 3: I mean, we bitch titties ain't even a hole, and 1554 01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:20,600 Speaker 3: niggas still fuck that. 1555 01:07:21,000 --> 01:07:22,640 Speaker 1: It's just a little slid, you know what I'm saying. 1556 01:07:22,680 --> 01:07:24,800 Speaker 1: Little if they can stick. They dicking and they're gonna 1557 01:07:24,800 --> 01:07:27,760 Speaker 1: fuck it. So that's bro that shit. Let me know 1558 01:07:27,800 --> 01:07:31,720 Speaker 1: how y'all feel about it. Ain't that bad? Goddamn goddamn. 1559 01:07:31,760 --> 01:07:34,520 Speaker 3: Okay, so you wanna so y'all know every week you 1560 01:07:34,520 --> 01:07:35,360 Speaker 3: want to do the questions? 1561 01:07:35,440 --> 01:07:39,560 Speaker 1: Or should we do the bob? We could do? You 1562 01:07:39,640 --> 01:07:42,160 Speaker 1: want to? I be so confused. 1563 01:07:42,760 --> 01:07:45,240 Speaker 3: It's a fucking dumb because we do this ship every 1564 01:07:45,240 --> 01:07:47,880 Speaker 3: week and we never fucking know the order of the 1565 01:07:47,960 --> 01:07:49,240 Speaker 3: bop and the question. 1566 01:07:49,360 --> 01:07:51,200 Speaker 1: Okay, so let's do. Let's do a question first. This 1567 01:07:51,320 --> 01:07:52,240 Speaker 1: are the questions. Okay. 1568 01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:55,400 Speaker 3: So, as always, if you want your question answered on 1569 01:07:55,440 --> 01:07:58,680 Speaker 3: the show, make sure you email us at the Ship, 1570 01:07:58,880 --> 01:08:02,080 Speaker 3: Ask poor Minds, ask p O. You are in my 1571 01:08:02,240 --> 01:08:05,440 Speaker 3: nds at gmail dot com. So I'm gonna read the 1572 01:08:05,440 --> 01:08:08,520 Speaker 3: first one. She said, Hi, my name is China. I 1573 01:08:08,600 --> 01:08:10,880 Speaker 3: was wondering if in your next podcast, could you talk 1574 01:08:10,880 --> 01:08:12,880 Speaker 3: about giving oral sex for the first time. 1575 01:08:13,200 --> 01:08:14,240 Speaker 1: I need some pointers. 1576 01:08:14,320 --> 01:08:16,840 Speaker 3: Me and my boyfriend been together for three years and 1577 01:08:16,880 --> 01:08:19,200 Speaker 3: he told me to wait until I'm ready. I've tried 1578 01:08:19,240 --> 01:08:21,519 Speaker 3: getting drunk, but i'm but I didn't do it, and 1579 01:08:21,560 --> 01:08:23,160 Speaker 3: I don't want to push him away. I feel like 1580 01:08:23,200 --> 01:08:25,559 Speaker 3: he really deserves to get his dick sucked. But my 1581 01:08:25,640 --> 01:08:27,680 Speaker 3: fear is not knowing if I'll be good at it. 1582 01:08:27,920 --> 01:08:30,320 Speaker 3: I want to try the haul or ice because he's 1583 01:08:30,360 --> 01:08:33,639 Speaker 3: never had that experience. Could you talk about your experience 1584 01:08:33,720 --> 01:08:35,080 Speaker 3: with giving oral sex on the god? 1585 01:08:35,280 --> 01:08:35,439 Speaker 1: Well? 1586 01:08:35,439 --> 01:08:36,760 Speaker 3: First of all, well, first of all, I beat you. 1587 01:08:36,800 --> 01:08:39,080 Speaker 3: I'll watch your born. No, don't put no candy or 1588 01:08:39,080 --> 01:08:40,840 Speaker 3: nothing in your mouth. That's a little two eggs. Well, 1589 01:08:40,880 --> 01:08:44,920 Speaker 3: I do think, I think, honestly, I think using all 1590 01:08:44,920 --> 01:08:47,080 Speaker 3: of them gadgets and shit, we'll not gadgets, but like 1591 01:08:47,120 --> 01:08:49,920 Speaker 3: how people be doing pop rocks and balls and shit, 1592 01:08:49,960 --> 01:08:51,000 Speaker 3: that's immature moves. 1593 01:08:51,000 --> 01:08:52,680 Speaker 1: That's because you don't know how to suck deeds and 1594 01:08:52,720 --> 01:08:53,759 Speaker 1: then you're trying to distress. 1595 01:08:53,920 --> 01:08:56,400 Speaker 3: If you know how to suck DEGs, you really don't 1596 01:08:56,439 --> 01:09:00,759 Speaker 3: need none of that. She honestly, one of my homework Rols, recently, 1597 01:09:00,920 --> 01:09:03,400 Speaker 3: had told me to use a fruit roller to suck 1598 01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:06,320 Speaker 3: deep and I tall Legs about it, and I told 1599 01:09:06,360 --> 01:09:08,360 Speaker 3: Legs about it, and let's just like miss that ship dumb, 1600 01:09:08,600 --> 01:09:11,240 Speaker 3: but me just being dumb ass me, I wanted. 1601 01:09:11,040 --> 01:09:11,879 Speaker 1: To try it. 1602 01:09:11,960 --> 01:09:14,479 Speaker 3: So I tried it anyways, and it was stupid as 1603 01:09:14,479 --> 01:09:16,040 Speaker 3: fuzz because it. 1604 01:09:16,600 --> 01:09:19,320 Speaker 2: And it was even more work for my jaws to like. 1605 01:09:20,800 --> 01:09:23,439 Speaker 3: That ship off. It's like that should be amateur ship. 1606 01:09:23,439 --> 01:09:25,439 Speaker 3: And niggas really don't care about this ship. We got 1607 01:09:25,439 --> 01:09:27,360 Speaker 3: two men right here, right now that's not in their 1608 01:09:27,400 --> 01:09:28,799 Speaker 3: heads to everything that I'm saying. 1609 01:09:29,200 --> 01:09:31,960 Speaker 2: Because as long as if you know how to suck dick. 1610 01:09:32,080 --> 01:09:34,120 Speaker 3: You don't need no pop rocks, you don't need no 1611 01:09:34,200 --> 01:09:41,400 Speaker 3: fucking halls, you don't need no ice. Absolutely, Because then 1612 01:09:41,400 --> 01:09:43,080 Speaker 3: I had to wipe that's another thing. So then I 1613 01:09:43,120 --> 01:09:45,840 Speaker 3: had to wipe the dick off with a towel and 1614 01:09:45,920 --> 01:09:49,080 Speaker 3: soap after I used the fruit roller, because I'm not 1615 01:09:49,080 --> 01:09:50,320 Speaker 3: trying to get no yeast in fish. 1616 01:09:50,880 --> 01:09:52,519 Speaker 1: That's just extra. Let me give you. 1617 01:09:52,680 --> 01:09:55,599 Speaker 3: Let me give you a tip, homegirl. So first of all, 1618 01:09:55,760 --> 01:09:57,599 Speaker 3: you just got to make sure you got that wet mouth. 1619 01:09:58,120 --> 01:09:59,800 Speaker 3: So to day you know you're about to get, drink 1620 01:10:00,040 --> 01:10:01,800 Speaker 3: lot of water. When I tell you, the day you 1621 01:10:01,800 --> 01:10:03,400 Speaker 3: know you're about to fuck. If you drink a lot 1622 01:10:03,400 --> 01:10:05,519 Speaker 3: of water, that's just gonna make It's gonna make your 1623 01:10:05,560 --> 01:10:07,639 Speaker 3: pussy wet, and it's gonna make your mouth wet. 1624 01:10:07,640 --> 01:10:09,040 Speaker 1: Like if you drink a lot of water. That's a 1625 01:10:09,080 --> 01:10:10,200 Speaker 1: little tip to all the ladies. 1626 01:10:10,240 --> 01:10:13,559 Speaker 3: Out there. I mean, yeah, you can do the sheet 1627 01:10:13,600 --> 01:10:16,120 Speaker 3: orgasms because they definitely work. Yeah, you definitely definitely work. 1628 01:10:16,200 --> 01:10:18,400 Speaker 3: But I'm saying like, if you drink a lot of water, 1629 01:10:18,439 --> 01:10:19,760 Speaker 3: your mouth gonna be extra action. 1630 01:10:19,840 --> 01:10:21,280 Speaker 1: I'm not talking about like twenty minutes before. 1631 01:10:21,280 --> 01:10:23,120 Speaker 3: I'm talking about wake up in the morning and have 1632 01:10:23,280 --> 01:10:24,840 Speaker 3: you some water all damn day. 1633 01:10:25,080 --> 01:10:26,280 Speaker 1: As long as your mouth is wet. 1634 01:10:26,320 --> 01:10:28,040 Speaker 3: I feel like you can watch a little porn, get 1635 01:10:28,080 --> 01:10:30,600 Speaker 3: some tips, and you know. I feel like it's a 1636 01:10:30,680 --> 01:10:33,040 Speaker 3: learning experience. Y'all been together for three years. Y'all are 1637 01:10:33,080 --> 01:10:35,439 Speaker 3: comfortable with each other at this point. I feel like 1638 01:10:35,479 --> 01:10:37,439 Speaker 3: he needs to understand if it's your first time, it's 1639 01:10:37,479 --> 01:10:39,679 Speaker 3: not gonna be the best head ever. But I feel 1640 01:10:39,680 --> 01:10:42,400 Speaker 3: like it's gonna come with practicing time. So I feel 1641 01:10:42,400 --> 01:10:44,800 Speaker 3: like y'all just need to get in the groove of, 1642 01:10:45,000 --> 01:10:47,599 Speaker 3: you know, trying it and him telling you what he 1643 01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:48,760 Speaker 3: likes and what he doesn't like. 1644 01:10:49,240 --> 01:10:50,920 Speaker 1: Just don't use your teeth and you'll be fine. 1645 01:10:51,160 --> 01:10:53,120 Speaker 3: And I can't believe this nigga been fucking with you 1646 01:10:53,160 --> 01:10:54,920 Speaker 3: for this long and you ain't gave him no head. 1647 01:10:55,000 --> 01:10:58,479 Speaker 2: He probably he loved her getting here, y'all. I don't 1648 01:10:58,479 --> 01:11:00,600 Speaker 2: listen to her queen, she needs listen to me. 1649 01:11:00,760 --> 01:11:03,000 Speaker 3: He getting head, so she needs to go ahead and 1650 01:11:03,080 --> 01:11:05,559 Speaker 3: hit that head because that nigga already getting something from 1651 01:11:05,600 --> 01:11:08,120 Speaker 3: that work. Some men don't like it, but he do 1652 01:11:08,240 --> 01:11:10,400 Speaker 3: love you, because for a nigga to fuck with you 1653 01:11:10,479 --> 01:11:12,400 Speaker 3: for three years and you ain't gave him no head. 1654 01:11:12,240 --> 01:11:14,719 Speaker 1: But she definitely love you for sure. 1655 01:11:15,040 --> 01:11:16,640 Speaker 3: Like what do you like because I ain't fucking with 1656 01:11:16,640 --> 01:11:18,599 Speaker 3: a nigga for two weeks and he don't get me head? 1657 01:11:18,960 --> 01:11:20,599 Speaker 3: What do you like when a woman gives you head? 1658 01:11:20,640 --> 01:11:22,040 Speaker 3: Like what do you look for? 1659 01:11:23,320 --> 01:11:27,280 Speaker 4: It's all in the skill for real. Got one hand, 1660 01:11:27,320 --> 01:11:30,320 Speaker 4: two hands, just gotta be leak for real. You can't 1661 01:11:30,320 --> 01:11:32,439 Speaker 4: really you can't. Like you know how when you was 1662 01:11:32,479 --> 01:11:34,320 Speaker 4: a kid and you want and your parents made you 1663 01:11:34,360 --> 01:11:35,800 Speaker 4: eat ship, you didn't want to eat it, so you 1664 01:11:35,920 --> 01:11:42,240 Speaker 4: just don't do that. You gotta go all. So yeah, 1665 01:11:42,280 --> 01:11:43,639 Speaker 4: that's what you're. 1666 01:11:43,520 --> 01:11:46,639 Speaker 1: Just like confidence really like you know what you're doing. 1667 01:11:48,520 --> 01:11:50,880 Speaker 4: I don't fuck with like that candy ship now it's 1668 01:11:50,880 --> 01:11:53,120 Speaker 4: just too much. Ain't en up. You got do like 1669 01:11:53,200 --> 01:11:55,080 Speaker 4: I got cleaned up before I had sex with you? 1670 01:11:55,720 --> 01:11:56,120 Speaker 1: Too much? 1671 01:11:56,120 --> 01:11:58,360 Speaker 3: And this is and this is off topic, but you 1672 01:11:58,360 --> 01:12:00,400 Speaker 3: know we always get off topic. I want to know 1673 01:12:00,520 --> 01:12:04,439 Speaker 3: from them from marine and yeah, I want to know 1674 01:12:05,479 --> 01:12:07,439 Speaker 3: do y'all? Is it a turnoff when women get up 1675 01:12:07,439 --> 01:12:12,640 Speaker 3: to speak, Like if a girl, like, if you're not 1676 01:12:12,800 --> 01:12:15,840 Speaker 3: in a girl mouth, if she get up to speak, I. 1677 01:12:15,760 --> 01:12:18,000 Speaker 4: Wouldn't say it's a turnoff. It's just like, all right, 1678 01:12:18,280 --> 01:12:20,800 Speaker 4: she gotta dotta she want to swallow it? All right? Cool? 1679 01:12:21,760 --> 01:12:22,680 Speaker 1: How do you feel about it? 1680 01:12:22,720 --> 01:12:22,960 Speaker 4: Marin? 1681 01:12:23,360 --> 01:12:25,599 Speaker 1: Same? I mean, she don't got to swallow it as 1682 01:12:25,640 --> 01:12:30,519 Speaker 1: long as I got off the straight. No, I'm me too. 1683 01:12:31,040 --> 01:12:36,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, now she's swallowed, you'd be like, oh, you know, like. 1684 01:12:36,760 --> 01:12:38,160 Speaker 1: They don't mind if you go. I feel like they 1685 01:12:38,160 --> 01:12:38,719 Speaker 1: don't mind. 1686 01:12:38,560 --> 01:12:40,280 Speaker 3: If you're gonna spit, but if you swallow it, they're like, 1687 01:12:40,880 --> 01:12:43,840 Speaker 3: and that's another tip of China. And that's another tip 1688 01:12:43,880 --> 01:12:47,240 Speaker 3: of China. You gotta swallow and then still suck it. 1689 01:12:47,840 --> 01:12:48,519 Speaker 4: That's different. 1690 01:12:48,760 --> 01:12:52,719 Speaker 1: That's different, I know different. But that's what I'm saying. 1691 01:12:52,760 --> 01:12:56,080 Speaker 3: That's what I'm telling China that if you're really trying 1692 01:12:56,080 --> 01:12:57,519 Speaker 3: to get that nigga for real. 1693 01:12:57,360 --> 01:12:59,960 Speaker 4: Cis that's gonna get you the flight come for me. 1694 01:13:01,560 --> 01:13:03,800 Speaker 3: And we know all about the flight, we know all 1695 01:13:03,840 --> 01:13:07,160 Speaker 3: about the flight conpromation. But Yeah, let us know if 1696 01:13:07,240 --> 01:13:10,320 Speaker 3: y'all have any tips for China and giving oral sex 1697 01:13:10,360 --> 01:13:11,240 Speaker 3: and all that good stuff. 1698 01:13:11,320 --> 01:13:12,240 Speaker 1: So read the next one. 1699 01:13:12,360 --> 01:13:14,880 Speaker 3: Okay, so the next one is from April. She said, 1700 01:13:14,920 --> 01:13:17,760 Speaker 3: I need friends. Hey, ladies, I love the show. I 1701 01:13:17,840 --> 01:13:19,800 Speaker 3: just need some help from my favorite podcast. 1702 01:13:19,920 --> 01:13:20,240 Speaker 1: Okay. 1703 01:13:20,280 --> 01:13:22,559 Speaker 3: So I just graduated college and I live in Atlanta. 1704 01:13:22,840 --> 01:13:24,600 Speaker 3: I have a few friends from school, but none of 1705 01:13:24,680 --> 01:13:28,280 Speaker 3: them live in Atlanta. They live in rural areas in Georgia, 1706 01:13:28,439 --> 01:13:31,240 Speaker 3: like three plus hours away. I want to start going 1707 01:13:31,240 --> 01:13:33,519 Speaker 3: out and exploring the city and doing sit in the clubs, 1708 01:13:33,520 --> 01:13:36,599 Speaker 3: et cetera. But I don't have any friends here. How 1709 01:13:36,640 --> 01:13:39,040 Speaker 3: can I make real friends living here because y'all know, 1710 01:13:39,120 --> 01:13:42,000 Speaker 3: bitches be weird? Laughing my ass off? Or should I 1711 01:13:42,120 --> 01:13:45,479 Speaker 3: just go to the clubs and restaurants alone? By the way, Lex, 1712 01:13:45,600 --> 01:13:47,519 Speaker 3: I love when you sing and I love how thick 1713 01:13:47,600 --> 01:13:51,320 Speaker 3: Drea EXI is laughing my ass off. Thank ladies, love 1714 01:13:51,360 --> 01:13:53,400 Speaker 3: you both. You posted to see they was really mad 1715 01:13:53,439 --> 01:13:56,240 Speaker 3: at you last week because I kept trying to ask 1716 01:13:56,280 --> 01:13:58,519 Speaker 3: you to see how what you gonna see this weed? 1717 01:13:58,600 --> 01:14:01,439 Speaker 1: I don't know. I got a request, go ahead. I'm dead. 1718 01:14:01,760 --> 01:14:04,439 Speaker 3: So I feel like making friends. People are definitely weird. 1719 01:14:04,520 --> 01:14:06,600 Speaker 3: So I feel like, don't wait on people first of all, Like, 1720 01:14:06,640 --> 01:14:07,960 Speaker 3: if you want to go eat, you want to go 1721 01:14:08,000 --> 01:14:09,320 Speaker 3: to a happy hour, just go. 1722 01:14:09,479 --> 01:14:11,680 Speaker 1: You might meet people there, but I'm not gonna lie. 1723 01:14:11,680 --> 01:14:14,720 Speaker 3: I feel like social media can be weird, but for me, 1724 01:14:15,400 --> 01:14:17,680 Speaker 3: like outside of Drea, because I knew Drea before I 1725 01:14:17,720 --> 01:14:18,880 Speaker 3: moved here, but Drea. 1726 01:14:18,680 --> 01:14:20,000 Speaker 1: Was my only friend when I moved here. 1727 01:14:20,160 --> 01:14:22,839 Speaker 3: So now I met Jazz, I met my friend Diamond, 1728 01:14:22,880 --> 01:14:25,080 Speaker 3: and I met them from Twitter and they're actually like 1729 01:14:25,080 --> 01:14:28,040 Speaker 3: my really really close friends now. Like I feel like 1730 01:14:28,080 --> 01:14:31,120 Speaker 3: I hit people up and I've met people outside and 1731 01:14:31,400 --> 01:14:33,000 Speaker 3: they like follow me, you know what I'm saying, Like 1732 01:14:33,040 --> 01:14:35,600 Speaker 3: we follow each other. So I feel like Instagram is 1733 01:14:35,600 --> 01:14:37,840 Speaker 3: a little different. But on Twitter, people are on there 1734 01:14:37,880 --> 01:14:39,800 Speaker 3: all day and you're talking with people and you build 1735 01:14:39,800 --> 01:14:41,280 Speaker 3: a rapport with them. So I feel like if you 1736 01:14:41,280 --> 01:14:44,240 Speaker 3: have a Twitter account, you know, follow people from Atlanta 1737 01:14:44,280 --> 01:14:45,760 Speaker 3: and kind of get on the scene like that if 1738 01:14:45,760 --> 01:14:47,679 Speaker 3: you don't feel comfortable going out by yourself. 1739 01:14:47,800 --> 01:14:49,479 Speaker 1: But I feel like social media is a good tool 1740 01:14:49,520 --> 01:14:50,599 Speaker 1: to meet friends. Honestly. 1741 01:14:51,000 --> 01:14:52,880 Speaker 3: I am a I've met a lot of good people 1742 01:14:52,880 --> 01:14:55,799 Speaker 3: off of social media, honestly, But I like I said before, 1743 01:14:55,880 --> 01:14:58,120 Speaker 3: I don't be scared to go out and start strike 1744 01:14:58,160 --> 01:15:01,439 Speaker 3: conversations with people, you know, Like I always meet people 1745 01:15:01,439 --> 01:15:03,599 Speaker 3: like my uber girl. I got my uber that dropped 1746 01:15:03,600 --> 01:15:05,760 Speaker 3: me off last night. I got her number, girl, and like, not, 1747 01:15:05,880 --> 01:15:08,800 Speaker 3: see that's some friendly ass shit, that's some bullshit. But no, 1748 01:15:09,000 --> 01:15:12,000 Speaker 3: she was from New Orleans and she lived in Houston, 1749 01:15:12,120 --> 01:15:14,080 Speaker 3: so no, but she was just saying the same thing. 1750 01:15:14,160 --> 01:15:15,360 Speaker 1: She was like, I don't have any friends. 1751 01:15:15,400 --> 01:15:16,760 Speaker 3: So it's like if me and Diamond, or me and 1752 01:15:16,800 --> 01:15:19,080 Speaker 3: you or me and Jazzman go to a happy hour, 1753 01:15:19,160 --> 01:15:19,680 Speaker 3: ain't nothing to be. 1754 01:15:19,680 --> 01:15:22,560 Speaker 1: Like, hey, we're here, you and DOMI not me. I 1755 01:15:22,600 --> 01:15:23,600 Speaker 1: don't want to go nowhere with that. 1756 01:15:23,800 --> 01:15:25,880 Speaker 3: All I'm saying is just talk to people. It's not 1757 01:15:26,040 --> 01:15:27,080 Speaker 3: bad to talk to people. 1758 01:15:27,360 --> 01:15:28,440 Speaker 1: So let me intercheck. 1759 01:15:28,520 --> 01:15:32,920 Speaker 3: From my perspective, Atlanta halls are weirdest fuck all of them, 1760 01:15:33,439 --> 01:15:36,439 Speaker 3: like bitches who be out and all that shit, bitches 1761 01:15:36,439 --> 01:15:39,680 Speaker 3: who got Instagram followers who on Instagram. 1762 01:15:39,200 --> 01:15:40,800 Speaker 1: And all that talking about that she's just talking about. 1763 01:15:40,840 --> 01:15:43,320 Speaker 3: But I'm saying, okay, and I'm talking about people in 1764 01:15:43,360 --> 01:15:46,519 Speaker 3: general in general. Atlanta halls is weird. Even if a 1765 01:15:46,520 --> 01:15:49,000 Speaker 3: bitch don't got a bunch of followers, she wont them 1766 01:15:49,640 --> 01:15:52,599 Speaker 3: majority of the time experience with the women, So even 1767 01:15:52,640 --> 01:15:54,760 Speaker 3: if a bitch ain't dating a big, big baller, she 1768 01:15:54,840 --> 01:15:58,840 Speaker 3: wont one, and she might want yours because she might 1769 01:15:58,880 --> 01:16:01,439 Speaker 3: want yours if you meet and you start hanging with 1770 01:16:01,439 --> 01:16:03,519 Speaker 3: her and she gets to know you. These hoes out 1771 01:16:03,560 --> 01:16:05,720 Speaker 3: here is weird as fuck. I feel like you need 1772 01:16:05,760 --> 01:16:07,720 Speaker 3: to find people who have a like mind as you, 1773 01:16:08,080 --> 01:16:09,760 Speaker 3: who are trying to do the same shit that you're 1774 01:16:09,760 --> 01:16:10,240 Speaker 3: trying to do. 1775 01:16:10,680 --> 01:16:13,679 Speaker 1: Who are y'all have things in common? 1776 01:16:13,720 --> 01:16:16,120 Speaker 3: For example, yeah, Lex was my friend before she moved here, 1777 01:16:16,120 --> 01:16:17,760 Speaker 3: that's why we're friends. But the friends that I have 1778 01:16:17,960 --> 01:16:21,639 Speaker 3: now in Atlanta, we have things in common. We all 1779 01:16:21,640 --> 01:16:23,800 Speaker 3: trying to do similar shit and we all trying to 1780 01:16:23,800 --> 01:16:26,519 Speaker 3: reach the same goal. I'd have made the mistake of 1781 01:16:26,600 --> 01:16:28,599 Speaker 3: making friends with be shits that I just met out 1782 01:16:28,720 --> 01:16:30,360 Speaker 3: or met because they was cute and was like. 1783 01:16:30,280 --> 01:16:32,479 Speaker 1: Oh, let's think go because we're both cute. Yeah, oh yeah, 1784 01:16:32,520 --> 01:16:34,040 Speaker 1: I never did that. I've never done that. 1785 01:16:34,520 --> 01:16:38,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I have no you right cause anyways, So 1786 01:16:39,280 --> 01:16:44,240 Speaker 3: I just feel like, I don't know, like, just don't 1787 01:16:44,280 --> 01:16:45,639 Speaker 3: make friends for their reason. 1788 01:16:46,280 --> 01:16:48,599 Speaker 1: That's the wrong reason to make and just talk. 1789 01:16:48,400 --> 01:16:50,599 Speaker 3: To people and see what they're into, like you know, 1790 01:16:50,720 --> 01:16:52,920 Speaker 3: and cause I feel like and then if you work 1791 01:16:52,960 --> 01:16:55,280 Speaker 3: somewhere and you have a job and you're like talk 1792 01:16:55,320 --> 01:16:57,160 Speaker 3: to talk to your coworkers, like you never know, you 1793 01:16:57,200 --> 01:16:59,600 Speaker 3: may end up being cool with your coworkers. I feel like, 1794 01:16:59,680 --> 01:17:01,800 Speaker 3: just talk to people, like that's the best advice I 1795 01:17:01,840 --> 01:17:02,200 Speaker 3: can get. 1796 01:17:02,280 --> 01:17:04,519 Speaker 1: But don't be making friends with people in your uber. 1797 01:17:05,040 --> 01:17:06,679 Speaker 3: No, and I didn't say we were gonna be friends, 1798 01:17:06,720 --> 01:17:08,760 Speaker 3: but like she, like I said, she ended up telling 1799 01:17:08,760 --> 01:17:11,920 Speaker 3: me like she's a photographer and you know. 1800 01:17:11,960 --> 01:17:12,559 Speaker 1: She lived. 1801 01:17:12,600 --> 01:17:14,439 Speaker 3: She was from New Orleans, she had moved to Houston. 1802 01:17:14,439 --> 01:17:16,639 Speaker 3: So we was talking about Houston being that I'm from Houston, 1803 01:17:16,840 --> 01:17:18,040 Speaker 3: and she was just saying she didn't have a lot 1804 01:17:18,040 --> 01:17:19,320 Speaker 3: of friends out here. So I was like, you know, 1805 01:17:19,320 --> 01:17:21,080 Speaker 3: you want to come catch a drink with us. I've 1806 01:17:21,120 --> 01:17:23,400 Speaker 3: done that before I've met I told him, has they 1807 01:17:23,439 --> 01:17:25,800 Speaker 3: really has it ever really turned into a friendship? Yeah, 1808 01:17:25,840 --> 01:17:27,320 Speaker 3: that's how me and Diamond ended up being friends, and 1809 01:17:27,400 --> 01:17:29,280 Speaker 3: me and Jasmine and Jasmine roommates. 1810 01:17:29,320 --> 01:17:29,439 Speaker 5: You know. 1811 01:17:29,640 --> 01:17:31,960 Speaker 3: Like, but I will say I've had had instances where 1812 01:17:31,960 --> 01:17:34,479 Speaker 3: people ended up being weird, Like me and Domond had 1813 01:17:34,520 --> 01:17:36,760 Speaker 3: met a guy he was a gay guy and we 1814 01:17:36,800 --> 01:17:38,200 Speaker 3: told him to come have drinks with us, and he 1815 01:17:38,240 --> 01:17:40,519 Speaker 3: just ended up being a complete weird though, So sometimes 1816 01:17:40,520 --> 01:17:42,639 Speaker 3: it does happen, like you know, people end up being weird. 1817 01:17:42,640 --> 01:17:44,439 Speaker 3: But I feel like, for the most part, just talk 1818 01:17:44,479 --> 01:17:44,880 Speaker 3: to people. 1819 01:17:45,640 --> 01:17:47,800 Speaker 4: What do you have to no, I agree, you feel me. 1820 01:17:47,880 --> 01:17:49,920 Speaker 4: Just talk to people. Chop it out with people. You 1821 01:17:50,000 --> 01:17:52,080 Speaker 4: never know really who you're talking to. You know, you 1822 01:17:52,160 --> 01:17:55,240 Speaker 4: might be you might see somebody that's quote unquote lit. 1823 01:17:55,280 --> 01:17:59,599 Speaker 4: You might want to fuck with them, thinking ship moving right? 1824 01:17:59,760 --> 01:18:02,120 Speaker 4: Then got an average motherfucker that look real regularly, ain't 1825 01:18:02,160 --> 01:18:06,080 Speaker 4: that's look key out the way right, everything going and 1826 01:18:06,160 --> 01:18:08,920 Speaker 4: could possibly put you in a position. So I would say, you. 1827 01:18:08,880 --> 01:18:11,320 Speaker 1: Know, right, And that's why I said seek friends. 1828 01:18:11,360 --> 01:18:13,599 Speaker 3: For the most part, they just have a like minded 1829 01:18:13,680 --> 01:18:16,240 Speaker 3: you and y'all have shit in common, like don't want 1830 01:18:16,280 --> 01:18:19,400 Speaker 3: to be friends with people for social statues and all 1831 01:18:19,400 --> 01:18:21,000 Speaker 3: that type of shit, because a lot of the time 1832 01:18:21,080 --> 01:18:23,960 Speaker 3: them be the most fucked up people and. 1833 01:18:23,920 --> 01:18:25,439 Speaker 4: A lot of egos. A lot of people like that, 1834 01:18:25,560 --> 01:18:27,719 Speaker 4: a lot of social hell yeah, a lot of egos, 1835 01:18:27,760 --> 01:18:30,240 Speaker 4: and they tend to like and I've ran into people 1836 01:18:30,280 --> 01:18:33,200 Speaker 4: like that. They tend to treat people like shit because 1837 01:18:33,280 --> 01:18:36,479 Speaker 4: they not necessarily quote unquote where they think they are. 1838 01:18:36,439 --> 01:18:37,760 Speaker 2: And they're in it for themselves. 1839 01:18:37,840 --> 01:18:39,559 Speaker 3: A lot of time, a lot of time, people like 1840 01:18:39,640 --> 01:18:42,080 Speaker 3: that be all be wanting to be friends with you 1841 01:18:42,439 --> 01:18:44,360 Speaker 3: for what they can gain from the relationship. 1842 01:18:44,680 --> 01:18:47,559 Speaker 1: I don't want to be and I do always say this. 1843 01:18:47,760 --> 01:18:50,360 Speaker 3: I feel like every relationship in your life does need 1844 01:18:50,439 --> 01:18:53,200 Speaker 3: to be beneficial to some capacity, you know what I mean, 1845 01:18:53,240 --> 01:18:58,320 Speaker 3: whether it's whatever, financial, emotional, spiritual, whatever the case may be, 1846 01:18:58,360 --> 01:19:01,080 Speaker 3: it needs to be a reason why you friends with people. 1847 01:19:01,360 --> 01:19:04,040 Speaker 3: But also I feel like you don't need to seek 1848 01:19:04,120 --> 01:19:08,280 Speaker 3: out relationships for certain reasons. Okay, so we go. We 1849 01:19:08,320 --> 01:19:10,840 Speaker 3: gotta keep it moving on, yeah, over time. Okay, so 1850 01:19:11,240 --> 01:19:12,439 Speaker 3: we're gonna do the Bop of the. 1851 01:19:12,400 --> 01:19:15,040 Speaker 1: Week, Dre. You want me to go first? You want 1852 01:19:15,080 --> 01:19:16,000 Speaker 1: to go first? 1853 01:19:16,120 --> 01:19:17,720 Speaker 3: So my Bop of the week, y'all know, I've kind 1854 01:19:17,720 --> 01:19:19,679 Speaker 3: of been into like the R and B vibes lately. 1855 01:19:19,760 --> 01:19:21,439 Speaker 3: Like last week, my Bop of the week was started 1856 01:19:21,479 --> 01:19:24,679 Speaker 3: up by Alex Moley. So my Bop of the week 1857 01:19:24,760 --> 01:19:26,719 Speaker 3: this week is by a new artist. 1858 01:19:26,760 --> 01:19:28,040 Speaker 1: Her name is Elaine Well. 1859 01:19:28,080 --> 01:19:29,720 Speaker 3: I don't know if she's new new, but this is 1860 01:19:29,720 --> 01:19:32,240 Speaker 3: the first song I've heard from her. Her name is 1861 01:19:32,280 --> 01:19:35,120 Speaker 3: Elaine and the song is called Changes. It's just like 1862 01:19:35,160 --> 01:19:38,360 Speaker 3: a really emotional love song. I've just been into slow, 1863 01:19:38,479 --> 01:19:42,240 Speaker 3: emotional love songs lately, so she can really really sing. 1864 01:19:42,280 --> 01:19:43,080 Speaker 1: She's really talented. 1865 01:19:43,160 --> 01:19:45,719 Speaker 3: I've been really into like artists that are actually creating 1866 01:19:45,880 --> 01:19:49,799 Speaker 3: art lately and actually making good music and telling a story. 1867 01:19:50,320 --> 01:19:53,600 Speaker 3: So yeah, so shout out to Elaine Changes. That's my 1868 01:19:53,640 --> 01:19:55,000 Speaker 3: bop of the week. It's like I said, it's a 1869 01:19:55,040 --> 01:19:56,679 Speaker 3: slow song, so if you like R and B, you'll 1870 01:19:56,720 --> 01:19:57,040 Speaker 3: like it. 1871 01:19:58,920 --> 01:20:02,240 Speaker 2: So today i Eca has a new song, Pussy Fiery. 1872 01:20:02,680 --> 01:20:03,519 Speaker 1: I don't like it. 1873 01:20:04,479 --> 01:20:08,080 Speaker 3: Y'all know, LEX do not like Janey and I don't 1874 01:20:08,120 --> 01:20:10,400 Speaker 3: know why. And I hope she never watches the show 1875 01:20:10,439 --> 01:20:13,120 Speaker 3: because Mitch Well, I hope she does because y'all sad. 1876 01:20:14,520 --> 01:20:17,680 Speaker 2: Don't like her, but her I love you. 1877 01:20:17,680 --> 01:20:21,080 Speaker 1: You know, I already did my Jennico impression. So it's like, 1878 01:20:21,120 --> 01:20:23,840 Speaker 1: I just I can't get into it, but I feel 1879 01:20:23,880 --> 01:20:26,519 Speaker 1: like she how though, because I. 1880 01:20:26,439 --> 01:20:31,080 Speaker 5: Said, my pussy is good, let's get high, let's do it. 1881 01:20:32,840 --> 01:20:38,599 Speaker 5: Let's do it. You're toxic, you're high, my pussy is good. 1882 01:20:39,560 --> 01:20:43,680 Speaker 5: I got that web Now that's how she in my 1883 01:20:43,760 --> 01:20:45,960 Speaker 5: line in my line. 1884 01:20:46,160 --> 01:20:52,080 Speaker 3: Okay, first of all, she gonna watch you listen to this. 1885 01:20:52,120 --> 01:20:54,280 Speaker 1: She's gonna come out with a song called you Your Toxic. 1886 01:20:56,280 --> 01:21:01,120 Speaker 3: First of all, Okay, I I feel like she talks 1887 01:21:01,160 --> 01:21:02,599 Speaker 3: about real shit in her song. 1888 01:21:02,720 --> 01:21:07,880 Speaker 1: So she talks about shit that's relatable. Is good, that's relatable. 1889 01:21:09,240 --> 01:21:13,000 Speaker 1: But that's all she says. That is not all she says. 1890 01:21:13,360 --> 01:21:15,919 Speaker 1: How many songs name name. 1891 01:21:15,800 --> 01:21:17,120 Speaker 2: For a Jane Ego song? 1892 01:21:17,240 --> 01:21:21,000 Speaker 3: No? Seriously, okay, so I actually like a jennea Ego 1893 01:21:21,080 --> 01:21:21,639 Speaker 3: song name. 1894 01:21:21,920 --> 01:21:24,639 Speaker 1: Look, that's not what I asked you name for, so 1895 01:21:24,880 --> 01:21:25,680 Speaker 1: you versus them? 1896 01:21:25,800 --> 01:21:30,040 Speaker 3: Was actually like a song that I actually really really liked, Sativa. 1897 01:21:30,400 --> 01:21:32,519 Speaker 1: That's a good song. Sativa is a good song. I 1898 01:21:32,520 --> 01:21:36,120 Speaker 1: do like that one. What's another one? Can I name 1899 01:21:36,160 --> 01:21:37,799 Speaker 1: pussy Fairy? No bitch? 1900 01:21:37,840 --> 01:21:41,240 Speaker 3: Because that just came out yesterday or the day before yesterday, 1901 01:21:41,320 --> 01:21:44,519 Speaker 3: or whenever the fuck it came out. No, you don't 1902 01:21:44,600 --> 01:21:48,800 Speaker 3: know for so, and that's fine. So you can't make 1903 01:21:48,840 --> 01:21:51,800 Speaker 3: a generalized statement about somebody if you don't listen to 1904 01:21:51,840 --> 01:21:54,040 Speaker 3: their music. If I've listened to your music and I've 1905 01:21:54,040 --> 01:21:55,600 Speaker 3: gave it a shot and I don't like it, I 1906 01:21:55,640 --> 01:21:58,200 Speaker 3: can have an opinion on it. Absolutely you can but 1907 01:21:58,280 --> 01:22:00,760 Speaker 3: you can't say that every song is about that when 1908 01:22:00,760 --> 01:22:03,200 Speaker 3: you literally only know two songs. 1909 01:22:02,760 --> 01:22:04,720 Speaker 1: I've listened to. I listened to her whole the whole 1910 01:22:04,760 --> 01:22:06,040 Speaker 1: album that she had with Big Sean. 1911 01:22:06,439 --> 01:22:08,479 Speaker 3: I listened to it, okay, and that was not the 1912 01:22:08,560 --> 01:22:11,000 Speaker 3: album you should have listened to, if we're being honest. No, 1913 01:22:11,360 --> 01:22:13,320 Speaker 3: but I'm saying I've listened to a lot of her music. 1914 01:22:13,439 --> 01:22:14,880 Speaker 3: Every time she drops a song. That's how I know 1915 01:22:14,960 --> 01:22:16,080 Speaker 3: you were talking about Pussy. 1916 01:22:15,840 --> 01:22:18,479 Speaker 2: Fairy because you just saw you listen to Pussy Fairy and. 1917 01:22:18,400 --> 01:22:19,000 Speaker 1: You didn't like it. 1918 01:22:19,120 --> 01:22:21,640 Speaker 3: Because I am into music. When an artist drops a 1919 01:22:21,720 --> 01:22:22,040 Speaker 3: song and. 1920 01:22:22,040 --> 01:22:24,960 Speaker 1: People saying I'm going to yeah, every. 1921 01:22:24,840 --> 01:22:28,040 Speaker 2: Time I listen to you, it's about my pussy, I'm toxic. 1922 01:22:29,640 --> 01:22:35,559 Speaker 3: Good, Well, I'm not gonna yeah, yeah, that's it. 1923 01:22:35,600 --> 01:22:37,080 Speaker 1: So she just doesn't do it for me. 1924 01:22:37,160 --> 01:22:40,280 Speaker 3: I like that she's very into you know who she is, 1925 01:22:40,400 --> 01:22:43,080 Speaker 3: and I think that's cute. Maybe that's the problem, but 1926 01:22:43,120 --> 01:22:45,160 Speaker 3: maybe that's why I don't Maybe that's why I can't 1927 01:22:45,160 --> 01:22:48,639 Speaker 3: believe you don't like her, because we both toxic speak 1928 01:22:48,680 --> 01:22:52,880 Speaker 3: for your you a toxic ass, your relationship. We're not 1929 01:22:53,040 --> 01:22:55,800 Speaker 3: This is about the BAP of the week, right, I 1930 01:22:56,640 --> 01:22:58,160 Speaker 3: can't believe you don't like her? 1931 01:22:58,320 --> 01:22:59,240 Speaker 1: What's the week? 1932 01:23:00,240 --> 01:23:05,400 Speaker 4: I think I'm still rich Man. Yeah, I think I'm still. 1933 01:23:05,680 --> 01:23:10,439 Speaker 3: The Box is the one we ago what y'all think 1934 01:23:10,479 --> 01:23:11,200 Speaker 3: about war Baby? 1935 01:23:11,320 --> 01:23:12,160 Speaker 1: I like war Baby? 1936 01:23:12,240 --> 01:23:15,040 Speaker 4: I like I like he bought in the Choiry. 1937 01:23:15,200 --> 01:23:17,960 Speaker 1: Yes, I feel like war Baby is like really like 1938 01:23:18,040 --> 01:23:19,559 Speaker 1: up there. I feel like people don't talk about war 1939 01:23:19,600 --> 01:23:25,000 Speaker 1: Baby as much as they do the Box. War It really? 1940 01:23:25,280 --> 01:23:28,519 Speaker 1: What's only because I feel like the Box is the single? Well, yeah, 1941 01:23:28,560 --> 01:23:31,360 Speaker 1: it's like the club. Yeah, so I mean war Baby 1942 01:23:31,439 --> 01:23:32,600 Speaker 1: might be the next single. 1943 01:23:32,360 --> 01:23:35,040 Speaker 3: Though, Yeah, war Baby hard shout out to Roddy Rich 1944 01:23:35,160 --> 01:23:37,040 Speaker 3: Like I said, I don't like the fact that Selena 1945 01:23:37,120 --> 01:23:39,960 Speaker 3: and Justin and all them been like begging for streams 1946 01:23:40,000 --> 01:23:41,439 Speaker 3: because they want to be number one. 1947 01:23:41,960 --> 01:23:44,040 Speaker 1: You we talked about this, Yeah, we. 1948 01:23:43,960 --> 01:23:46,000 Speaker 3: Talked about this on the Unrated Unruly podcast. But I 1949 01:23:46,040 --> 01:23:47,960 Speaker 3: feel like let Roddy Ridge get his shine. He's a 1950 01:23:47,960 --> 01:23:49,200 Speaker 3: new artist and he's he's good. 1951 01:23:49,600 --> 01:23:52,000 Speaker 1: But when you say begging for streams, what do you 1952 01:23:52,560 --> 01:23:56,439 Speaker 1: they're literally telling like can y'all stream? Justin Bieber was 1953 01:23:56,439 --> 01:23:59,160 Speaker 1: like please, yummy, yummy, hummy. I wanted to be number 1954 01:23:59,240 --> 01:24:01,679 Speaker 1: one and it didn't happen. So how do y'all feel 1955 01:24:01,680 --> 01:24:05,439 Speaker 1: about yummy yummy girl? You got that yum? I feel 1956 01:24:05,439 --> 01:24:07,439 Speaker 1: like Justin Timberlake, I mean justin. 1957 01:24:07,720 --> 01:24:10,680 Speaker 2: Don't do don't bring y'all bring j T into this. 1958 01:24:11,200 --> 01:24:15,120 Speaker 3: I just feel like Justin bieber he's not making good 1959 01:24:15,200 --> 01:24:17,280 Speaker 3: music anymore. I feel like he's trying too hard to 1960 01:24:17,280 --> 01:24:20,320 Speaker 3: be urban and fit in and he's trying too hard 1961 01:24:20,360 --> 01:24:23,240 Speaker 3: to do what the black artists are doing and just 1962 01:24:23,280 --> 01:24:24,960 Speaker 3: staying your lane. You're a white boy that got a 1963 01:24:24,960 --> 01:24:27,400 Speaker 3: little swag, make your pop music with a little swag 1964 01:24:27,439 --> 01:24:28,040 Speaker 3: and leave it at that. 1965 01:24:28,240 --> 01:24:30,360 Speaker 1: Is he still something? Is he still with the money scene? 1966 01:24:31,760 --> 01:24:33,519 Speaker 3: I don't know, but I know he was like, uh 1967 01:24:33,760 --> 01:24:36,400 Speaker 3: with Usher something he had to deal with Usher or something. Well, 1968 01:24:36,400 --> 01:24:38,400 Speaker 3: he that's how he started off with him. Remember he 1969 01:24:38,600 --> 01:24:40,400 Speaker 3: was like with Floyd Mayweth. He was like with the 1970 01:24:40,439 --> 01:24:40,920 Speaker 3: money scene. 1971 01:24:41,040 --> 01:24:43,000 Speaker 2: Oh, I don't know, he had a chain and everything. 1972 01:24:43,320 --> 01:24:45,040 Speaker 3: Did I don't know, but I feel like, you know, 1973 01:24:45,200 --> 01:24:47,280 Speaker 3: but that ship is just it was just for Cloud 1974 01:24:47,320 --> 01:24:49,960 Speaker 3: because he was cool at the time. So yeah, he 1975 01:24:50,000 --> 01:24:51,280 Speaker 3: was a cool He was a cool white boy at 1976 01:24:51,320 --> 01:24:52,880 Speaker 3: the time. But he's not the cool white boy no more. 1977 01:24:52,920 --> 01:24:55,280 Speaker 1: So y'all not fucking with yummy and me, I'm not 1978 01:24:55,320 --> 01:24:57,559 Speaker 1: fucking with I didn't even listen to Selena Goldman song. 1979 01:24:57,840 --> 01:24:59,200 Speaker 1: What song does she have she got? 1980 01:24:59,280 --> 01:25:01,639 Speaker 3: I guess you have a the album or something. But 1981 01:25:01,800 --> 01:25:03,200 Speaker 3: she doesn't make good music, So. 1982 01:25:04,840 --> 01:25:07,880 Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't think that the heart wants 1983 01:25:07,880 --> 01:25:10,240 Speaker 1: what the heart One's what it wants was a fucking 1984 01:25:10,320 --> 01:25:16,200 Speaker 1: bop bro name enough name forks Selena gomad songs. Name them, 1985 01:25:17,000 --> 01:25:17,960 Speaker 1: name them. 1986 01:25:17,720 --> 01:25:24,320 Speaker 3: Well, I name them, name them since you want to 1987 01:25:24,360 --> 01:25:29,679 Speaker 3: play bitch. First of all, I did not necessarily say 1988 01:25:29,720 --> 01:25:32,320 Speaker 3: that she's had like a great career. 1989 01:25:33,600 --> 01:25:35,679 Speaker 1: I just was saying the heart One what it wants 1990 01:25:35,800 --> 01:25:36,519 Speaker 1: is a good song. 1991 01:25:36,840 --> 01:25:40,559 Speaker 3: You try to diminish Jane I Echo's whole career it 1992 01:25:40,680 --> 01:25:43,719 Speaker 3: existence because you don't know for a song. 1993 01:25:43,880 --> 01:25:44,920 Speaker 1: I have listened to more. 1994 01:25:45,000 --> 01:25:47,320 Speaker 3: I've listened to enough songs that I just I don't 1995 01:25:47,320 --> 01:25:49,439 Speaker 3: know the name of them. I've listened to her music. 1996 01:25:49,560 --> 01:25:52,040 Speaker 3: But that's not We're not gonna get there. But what 1997 01:25:52,080 --> 01:25:54,639 Speaker 3: I'm saying is Selena Gomez does not make good music. 1998 01:25:55,080 --> 01:25:57,559 Speaker 1: I don't think. I'm not disagreeing with you all. I'm 1999 01:25:57,600 --> 01:26:00,240 Speaker 1: not saying that. I never said Janay I Echo, y'all, 2000 01:26:00,240 --> 01:26:01,240 Speaker 1: I'm not disagreeing. 2001 01:26:01,280 --> 01:26:03,759 Speaker 3: So now I really feel like she makes good music. 2002 01:26:03,800 --> 01:26:06,559 Speaker 3: It's just not for me like her. I'm not saying 2003 01:26:06,560 --> 01:26:07,519 Speaker 3: that her music is bad. 2004 01:26:08,040 --> 01:26:11,479 Speaker 1: I just your taxi like pussy is fi up. That's 2005 01:26:11,479 --> 01:26:14,960 Speaker 1: not me. That really sounds like you though. 2006 01:26:15,000 --> 01:26:18,880 Speaker 3: That's why it's crazy, because it really sound like you 2007 01:26:18,920 --> 01:26:19,519 Speaker 3: could relate. 2008 01:26:19,880 --> 01:26:24,879 Speaker 1: Do you have an item of the week? Sis, call me, sir, bitch, 2009 01:26:25,400 --> 01:26:28,320 Speaker 1: whatever you want me to call you. What's your item 2010 01:26:28,320 --> 01:26:32,439 Speaker 1: of the week, bitch? I don't think I have one. 2011 01:26:33,160 --> 01:26:34,560 Speaker 1: This is bell Air Rose. 2012 01:26:34,720 --> 01:26:38,000 Speaker 3: Okay, So I'll talk about it week so and y'all 2013 01:26:38,000 --> 01:26:40,040 Speaker 3: can see, I'm natural hair mommy today. 2014 01:26:40,240 --> 01:26:42,120 Speaker 1: So usually when I take. 2015 01:26:41,960 --> 01:26:43,920 Speaker 3: My wigs off, I'll go buy me a fake puff, 2016 01:26:44,000 --> 01:26:46,000 Speaker 3: right because my hair all used to be ball headed, y'all. 2017 01:26:46,280 --> 01:26:48,400 Speaker 3: So I haven't seen my hair like eight months, bitch. 2018 01:26:48,720 --> 01:26:51,200 Speaker 3: So I took my hair down and I went and 2019 01:26:51,240 --> 01:26:52,640 Speaker 3: bought me a little puff so I could put my 2020 01:26:52,680 --> 01:26:54,360 Speaker 3: little fake puff in so I could be natural. 2021 01:26:54,400 --> 01:26:56,799 Speaker 1: And I put and my this is my real hair, y'all. 2022 01:26:57,200 --> 01:26:59,400 Speaker 1: So I thought it was the draw strings. 2023 01:26:59,479 --> 01:27:01,840 Speaker 3: I usually do drawstream puff because my hair don't be 2024 01:27:01,880 --> 01:27:03,760 Speaker 3: long enough y'all, because I was ball hairded like I said, 2025 01:27:03,760 --> 01:27:05,120 Speaker 3: I ain't seen my hair in eight months. 2026 01:27:05,200 --> 01:27:06,719 Speaker 1: So when I brushed it out and I put my hair. 2027 01:27:06,640 --> 01:27:08,679 Speaker 3: In a pony, I said, oh shit, bitch, I did 2028 01:27:08,760 --> 01:27:10,880 Speaker 3: thought when I was on FaceTime with you yesterday, I 2029 01:27:10,920 --> 01:27:12,400 Speaker 3: did not know that that was your hair. 2030 01:27:12,439 --> 01:27:13,760 Speaker 2: I thought that was the pony. 2031 01:27:13,960 --> 01:27:16,360 Speaker 3: So my item mother week is my hair and shout 2032 01:27:16,360 --> 01:27:18,920 Speaker 3: out to the now bitch what No, I'm saying no 2033 01:27:19,080 --> 01:27:21,400 Speaker 3: because I want I said in twenty twenty, I'm gonna 2034 01:27:21,400 --> 01:27:23,400 Speaker 3: do a better effort in taking care of my hair, 2035 01:27:23,880 --> 01:27:26,240 Speaker 3: like honestly, like, but give us a product. You're talking 2036 01:27:26,280 --> 01:27:27,760 Speaker 3: about the item of the week is my hair? 2037 01:27:28,080 --> 01:27:30,320 Speaker 1: I mean it's no. I feel like I use products 2038 01:27:30,320 --> 01:27:30,960 Speaker 1: that work for me. 2039 01:27:31,080 --> 01:27:33,680 Speaker 3: Of course, you know what I'm saying, Like, but I 2040 01:27:33,760 --> 01:27:36,040 Speaker 3: haven't been wearing I'm about to start wearing my natural 2041 01:27:36,040 --> 01:27:39,280 Speaker 3: hairre I'm letting you guys know that's my outem of 2042 01:27:39,280 --> 01:27:40,760 Speaker 3: the week because this is what I'm doing right now, 2043 01:27:40,880 --> 01:27:42,759 Speaker 3: Like this is my little, my mini journey. 2044 01:27:42,760 --> 01:27:44,320 Speaker 1: Of course, I'm gonna get my hair done soon. 2045 01:27:44,800 --> 01:27:47,439 Speaker 3: But I feel like I'm trying to take better care 2046 01:27:47,479 --> 01:27:49,200 Speaker 3: of my hair because bitch, these. 2047 01:27:49,080 --> 01:27:51,200 Speaker 1: Edges on this side, not this side. This side good. 2048 01:27:51,200 --> 01:27:53,040 Speaker 1: But it's a little thing over here, y'all can't. That's 2049 01:27:53,080 --> 01:27:53,840 Speaker 1: because of the frontal. 2050 01:27:53,960 --> 01:27:56,599 Speaker 3: That's because of the fucking front So so we had 2051 01:27:56,600 --> 01:27:59,320 Speaker 3: a conversation about this not that long ago, and you 2052 01:27:59,360 --> 01:28:02,080 Speaker 3: say you felt like fronnels don't be affecting your edges 2053 01:28:02,160 --> 01:28:04,799 Speaker 3: like that, But now you see it has. 2054 01:28:04,840 --> 01:28:07,639 Speaker 1: I haven't seen my hair in eight months, okay. 2055 01:28:07,200 --> 01:28:09,240 Speaker 3: So now I see my front I mean, it ain't 2056 01:28:09,320 --> 01:28:11,439 Speaker 3: bad because I still got hair, but it's it's. 2057 01:28:11,280 --> 01:28:13,160 Speaker 1: A little thing. It's a little it's a little thing, 2058 01:28:13,200 --> 01:28:14,360 Speaker 1: but it's all right. It's gonna come back. 2059 01:28:14,400 --> 01:28:17,120 Speaker 3: So do you think you're gonna start doing glueless. I 2060 01:28:17,160 --> 01:28:22,160 Speaker 3: think I'm gonna start doing maybe like bix and sewing 2061 01:28:23,280 --> 01:28:26,280 Speaker 3: or just hairstyles where my perimeter is gonna be out. 2062 01:28:26,479 --> 01:28:28,360 Speaker 3: He likes this shit going over my head. I don't 2063 01:28:28,360 --> 01:28:30,120 Speaker 3: know what the fuck y'all time by now I know 2064 01:28:30,160 --> 01:28:32,760 Speaker 3: it's okay, it's okay. I told you though, I think 2065 01:28:32,800 --> 01:28:35,240 Speaker 3: you should try glueless frontals because I mean, they be 2066 01:28:35,320 --> 01:28:36,599 Speaker 3: looking good when I'm. 2067 01:28:36,520 --> 01:28:37,719 Speaker 1: A good frontal thold baby. 2068 01:28:37,800 --> 01:28:41,120 Speaker 3: But I'm saying glueless what I mean? But I heard 2069 01:28:41,160 --> 01:28:44,160 Speaker 3: the band heard the I'm not getting a hair that, y'all. Yeah, 2070 01:28:44,840 --> 01:28:46,479 Speaker 3: big so I don't know what I'm gonna do. I'm 2071 01:28:46,520 --> 01:28:48,200 Speaker 3: just still thinking on it. But for now I'm natural 2072 01:28:48,200 --> 01:28:49,280 Speaker 3: hair mommy for a little bit. 2073 01:28:49,400 --> 01:28:50,840 Speaker 1: Okay, I like you though. 2074 01:28:50,880 --> 01:28:53,960 Speaker 2: I always love your natural hair like I do. 2075 01:28:54,120 --> 01:28:56,160 Speaker 1: I always told you that before. 2076 01:28:56,000 --> 01:28:59,960 Speaker 3: You question for my song, like get out of here. Okay, 2077 01:29:00,160 --> 01:29:02,679 Speaker 3: so wait before I'm a same life. 2078 01:29:03,560 --> 01:29:07,080 Speaker 1: But you haven't lugging so long? Can you give us? Like? 2079 01:29:07,120 --> 01:29:09,760 Speaker 1: Where can we find you on social media? Your business? Like, 2080 01:29:10,040 --> 01:29:12,320 Speaker 1: just promote yourself, so tell people where they can. 2081 01:29:12,200 --> 01:29:14,280 Speaker 4: Find you over sure, you can find me on Instagram 2082 01:29:14,280 --> 01:29:17,800 Speaker 4: at j Cark at j c A r P. My 2083 01:29:17,840 --> 01:29:21,040 Speaker 4: business Instagram is at Carp text Co c A r 2084 01:29:21,160 --> 01:29:24,639 Speaker 4: P t A X c oh on there you'll find 2085 01:29:24,640 --> 01:29:27,599 Speaker 4: out my websites, all the work I'm doing in the community, everything. 2086 01:29:27,840 --> 01:29:28,719 Speaker 1: Do you have a Twitter? 2087 01:29:29,040 --> 01:29:32,639 Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, Twitter Twitter the Yeah, that's. 2088 01:29:32,520 --> 01:29:34,920 Speaker 3: Why I asked you will be on Twitter too. I 2089 01:29:34,920 --> 01:29:37,360 Speaker 3: don't tweet as much as her, but i'd be like scrawling. 2090 01:29:38,400 --> 01:29:40,360 Speaker 4: I'm on Twitter way more so. My Twitter name is 2091 01:29:40,400 --> 01:29:43,360 Speaker 4: j Carp j C A r P. Underscore for one. 2092 01:29:43,400 --> 01:29:47,439 Speaker 3: Oh okay, okay, we're gonna find you and he's BDB certified. Y'all. 2093 01:29:48,479 --> 01:29:50,799 Speaker 2: We give him the stamp of approval, so we're. 2094 01:29:50,640 --> 01:29:53,280 Speaker 1: Gonna put all his information in the bio as well. Dre, 2095 01:29:53,439 --> 01:29:54,639 Speaker 1: do you have anything to add? 2096 01:29:56,800 --> 01:30:00,519 Speaker 2: Hopefully hopefully soon we. 2097 01:30:00,479 --> 01:30:05,640 Speaker 3: Have legs not yeah, I'm giving you back, okay, So 2098 01:30:06,200 --> 01:30:08,960 Speaker 3: hopefully next week or the week after we have like 2099 01:30:08,960 --> 01:30:10,320 Speaker 3: a little banner in the background. 2100 01:30:10,360 --> 01:30:11,479 Speaker 1: But yeah, we got like a lot of. 2101 01:30:11,479 --> 01:30:14,400 Speaker 3: Guests coming for y'all, This coming for y'all soon. This year, 2102 01:30:14,880 --> 01:30:17,160 Speaker 3: we want to start, you know, having more conversations with 2103 01:30:17,240 --> 01:30:22,720 Speaker 3: other people outside of us. So yeah, that's really all 2104 01:30:22,720 --> 01:30:25,439 Speaker 3: I have to add. Thank y'all for tuning. It's been 2105 01:30:25,520 --> 01:30:27,680 Speaker 3: real and take it away. 2106 01:30:29,240 --> 01:30:33,519 Speaker 1: Like I got me Blackmail and the family your three 2107 01:30:33,800 --> 01:30:37,920 Speaker 1: year shout out to y'all. Big Mama, you're not doing that. 2108 01:30:38,200 --> 01:30:42,400 Speaker 1: I ain't getting done. I get lie. I thought I 2109 01:30:42,479 --> 01:30:50,360 Speaker 1: was live, live, live, all right. We'll see y'all next week. 2110 01:30:50,400 --> 01:30:51,839 Speaker 1: Thank you so much, by y'all.