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Speaker 1: My girlfriend tried to exclude my brother from our new home,

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Speaker 1: so I chose him over her. Oh, I would always

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Speaker 2: Obligatory what nothing, never mind.

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Speaker 1: Obligatory throwaway, but might make it a shadow account because

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Speaker 1: I have a lot of family and people I know

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Speaker 1: post things. My original kept getting pulled by mods over

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Speaker 1: Amma the Ahole for their rules. I guess I'm too

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Speaker 1: upset to read through them properly, so a friend suggested

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Speaker 1: to post here. The quotes might not be spot on,

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Speaker 1: but it's how the conversation was headed. I thirty two,

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Speaker 1: Maile have a younger brother, Sam.

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Speaker 3: Is this about us?

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Speaker 1: Ten? Male? Fake name? He is from my dad's second

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Speaker 1: marriage after my mother passed away. My dad was a

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Speaker 1: good dad. He grieved with me and got me therapy.

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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from Waste Afternoon fifteen fifty

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Speaker 1: one on the Okay story Time, I'm subreddete. So he

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Speaker 1: waited years before dating and then waited until he was

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Speaker 1: sure it was something good before introducing me to my

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Speaker 1: brother's mother. He shut down her attempts at being overly

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Speaker 1: involved or motherly early on because I admitted to not

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Speaker 1: being comfortable with it. She seemed to understand. After they

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Speaker 1: married and had my brother, his wife suffered from PPD

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Speaker 1: and went eight wall. Dad says she left a letter

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Speaker 1: admitting to wanting to hurt Sam.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, oh oh.

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Speaker 1: She was saying, like, I was worried about the feelings

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Speaker 1: that I had where I wanted to hurt my child.

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Speaker 2: So I'm leaving, oh, because it was like postpartum.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: A year so later, Dad received court documents demanding a

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Speaker 1: divorce and terminating parental rights. She took nothing in the

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Speaker 1: divorce because she didn't want any more interactions than necessary.

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Speaker 1: According to her lawyer, she looked very guilty and ashamed,

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Speaker 1: and not in a good way. We haven't heard from

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Speaker 1: her in about eight years. What the hell was that

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Speaker 3: Way, like guilty, like where she knows what she's done

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Speaker 1: Dad sixty one male had a health scare during COVID.

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Speaker 1: He was hospitalized, and because he was now high risk

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Speaker 1: and a very bad situation of being in the hospital

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Speaker 1: with the COVID floor a slash wing, he asked me

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Speaker 1: to take in Sam until he was cleared. That turned

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Speaker 1: into a long talk about what would happen to Sam

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Speaker 1: if his condition got work worse, or something else happened.

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Speaker 1: I agreed to take in Sam and the paperwork was done.

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Speaker 1: What a big responsibility taking a child. Sam is a

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Speaker 1: good kid. I feel like we're similar in a lot

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Speaker 1: of ways, growing up without mothers, liking the same things.

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Speaker 1: Both are dog people and we have a strong connection.

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Speaker 1: Sam is well behaved and tries hard in school. Math

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Speaker 1: is his downfall, though, so I try to help with that.

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Speaker 1: We have the occasional weekend hangout or trip to the

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Speaker 3: This is super FUNO that, yes, all Sam's.

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Speaker 1: Are all Sam's are. It's made dating a little tricky.

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Speaker 1: I know, up front and honest. I always ask my

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Speaker 1: explain that I suspect I might be taking in my

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Speaker 1: brother in the next five years. Wow, oh, just to

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Speaker 1: kind of like know that your dad's not doing well

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Speaker 1: and you also might have to take in a child

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you could also say like, hey, I'll be

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Speaker 3: taking to this kid, but you know it won't be

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Speaker 3: that long. It only be like what five more years

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Speaker 1: No, I think it's like in the next five years,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but like how old is the kid going to

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Speaker 3: that's like three years of taking care of a kid.

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Speaker 1: He's like, what, you have to take care of a kid?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Oh oh, I see fifteen to eighteen.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's like three years.

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Speaker 1: If you have cut the dates short, which was understandable,

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Speaker 1: I mean, some people are like, I don't want to

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Speaker 3: But that's not like a kid, like that's that's like me.

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Speaker 3: That's like me taking care of you. Yeah, like after

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Speaker 3: you graduate from college, what because it's like because you're

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Speaker 3: like an adult, you're an adult. You could take care

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Speaker 3: taking care of me when I was ten. No, well,

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Speaker 3: but he has five years, so it would be like

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Speaker 3: which is hard. That's hard.

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Speaker 1: You're in college.

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Speaker 3: Well, I was just my argument was that it's not

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Speaker 1: He's just like my brother, he's my brother.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I feel like it's it would have

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Speaker 1: Yeah, seth Are, thank you for the fifty bucks all

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Speaker 1: hell the worm Queen, Happy early Thanksgiving, y'all. I love you.

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Speaker 1: You're amazing, You're incredible. You wow me. But there is

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Speaker 1: a little bit more. And we're also at another thirty minutes.

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Speaker 2: Yes, out of the thirty minutes, and I pinned the

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Speaker 2: Dona link and the new channel Let's freaking go.

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Speaker 1: Recently, I've been talking to this girl, Kayla twenty nine.

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Speaker 1: Female Kayla has been really understanding and she knows I

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Speaker 1: may have to take in my brother. She's kind and sweet.

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Speaker 1: She has no kids, but wants marriage and kids. I

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Speaker 1: we can figure out. I don't mind the idea of kids.

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Speaker 1: I think. And housing. We want to live together for

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Speaker 1: looking into houses already because of my situation with Sam,

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Speaker 1: she would have put towards rent for a down payment

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Speaker 1: property as a safety net, since this would be considered

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Speaker 1: pre marital assets. Even if she gets the house paid

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Speaker 1: up for the house itself if need be, just so

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Speaker 1: the house I want. I also told her she can

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Speaker 1: have free range to decorate the house. The room set

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Speaker 3: And so this room is set aside for Sam. But

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Speaker 3: he's not fully living with OP yet.

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Speaker 1: I think he might be very soon, but we don't.

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Speaker 1: It sounded like he might be because the dad was like,

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Speaker 1: I need you to take in Sam because I'm in

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Speaker 1: the hospital. So I think he might be living.

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Speaker 3: So it's so now they're living together, as I believe.

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Speaker 3: So unless I misunderstood, yeah, chat clear that up for

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Speaker 3: us if you can. But keep going.

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Speaker 2: This is where I might what Hannah, thank you for

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Speaker 2: the sixty dollars.

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Speaker 1: Comment.

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Speaker 3: Whoa silent Hannah.

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Speaker 1: Let's go over the holidays and we'll miss you too. Wow.

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Speaker 1: But there's a little bit more. This is where I

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Speaker 1: might be the a hole. She asked me room set

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Speaker 3: Okay, so it's just in case. So Sam's not living

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Speaker 1: I guess not.

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Speaker 1: That leaves us at least one for family growth in

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Speaker 1: It's and then she responds, it's all about Sam. Then

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Speaker 1: and easy for him in mind. Our possible future children

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Speaker 1: Like they're not I mean, it seems like they want

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Speaker 3: He's extremely up front. Yes, from the beginning, he's gonna

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Speaker 1: Like it is about Sam. This is a child that oh,

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Speaker 1: he's gonna have to take care of and you said

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Speaker 3: Were on board potentially. Potentially it's still up in the air,

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Speaker 3: it seems like. But still it's like you've been extremely

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll get it. I don't know why he's doing.

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Speaker 1: That now, Well what Jamin, It's ttok TikTok.

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Speaker 2: He just does it.

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Speaker 1: It's just is a thing. Sometimes our possible future children

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Speaker 1: well not be Our dad may very well not make

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Speaker 1: it to Sam's graduation. Sam's room wouldn't be permanent, and

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Speaker 1: I could pretty easily float the idea of a cool

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Speaker 1: mini loft apartment to a teen not so much atween

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Speaker 1: that dislikes quiet. So if our kids want the cool

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Speaker 1: mini apartment, then what oh and then sorry, the girlfriend says, So,

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Speaker 1: if our kids want the cool mini apartment, then what

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Speaker 1: Then they'll I don't know, they'll freaking get it. After

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Speaker 1: Sam graduates in eight years. Depends on if Sam is

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Speaker 1: he might already be moving rooms once. I'm not giving

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Speaker 1: him a second time, when I'll have put a lot

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Speaker 1: of effort into making it comfortable for him. She got

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Speaker 3: They don't even have kids.

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Speaker 1: She demanded to know what I would do if they

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Speaker 1: Also, these I imaginary kids She's like, what are kids

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Speaker 1: And then those kids, you know, and then by that

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Speaker 3: Well what was what are the visions that the Benajeese

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Well Sam and I just well Sam slept and

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Speaker 1: Riley and I watched the New Dune show. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: After the story, I would explain to them they can't

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 3: No, Op has been extreme so upfront, upfront about this

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Speaker 1: Also, it seems like they kind of just started dating.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and then she's already like, I need a bunch

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Speaker 1: No, so he said I'll buy it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, thank god. Yeah. I think she's like, I think

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Speaker 1: I think so too.

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Speaker 1: Uh and elliotta wait. No, Jellyba says, my sweater looks

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Speaker 1: comfy and not itchy. Is not itchy at all. It's

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Speaker 1: very comfy. But there's a little bit left for this.

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Speaker 3: This mom has one like that, that's kind of like that.

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Speaker 3: Does that new?

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Speaker 1: No, I've had it for a very long time.

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Speaker 3: I very much like it.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, I very much like it. And what if

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Speaker 1: they still want his room not to look alike his room,

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Speaker 1: says the girlfriend. Then I would say someone was filling

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Speaker 1: Most kids that young get scared of the dark or

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Speaker 1: We just didn't even know.

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Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure I don't recall this. You don't think

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Speaker 1: It would have been pre seven.

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Speaker 1: I think, oh, well, I had a bunk bed, but

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Speaker 1: I never I didn't know that you were.

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Speaker 2: You used I think a book that was used for

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Speaker 3: Sophia I'd just like to reiterate. I had a room

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Speaker 3: that was shared with my office and the dog. I

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Speaker 3: turned into a couch during the day, and Sophia had

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Speaker 1: But we must have we must have shared a room

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Speaker 1: pre pre that house.

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Speaker 3: We definitely shared a room.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm pretty I remember the way that we were

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this would have been before the Dawn po house.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we must have.

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Speaker 3: In Australia, I don't remember.

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Speaker 1: I was a baby. I was a toddler.

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Speaker 3: Were to toddler as in Australia. I was five, you

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Speaker 1: No, because I didn't go to kindergarten Australia.

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Speaker 3: Okay, but let's.

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Speaker 1: Get into this left of the story. Most kids that

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Speaker 1: they wouldn't give up their place closer to the parents

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Speaker 1: unless pushed. Sam was six when our dad had his

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Speaker 1: health scare. He was not keen on the guest room

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Speaker 1: in my apartment because it was still strange. But if

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Speaker 1: our kids just really wanted it, what would you do?

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Speaker 1: Would you pick them?

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Speaker 3: Oh? She's asking?

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Speaker 1: Would you pick me over years of would you pick.

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Speaker 3: Our kids over this? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: That's where it all comes down to. I might be

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Speaker 3: Op is not the ale the break up. This is

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Speaker 1: I'm also double checking how long this relationship has gone on, because.

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Speaker 3: I feel like it's only like a couple of years

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Speaker 1: Is it even that though?

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Speaker 3: No, I think we fast forward it in time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hold on, hold on, I'm double checking.

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Speaker 3: Dutchess Casana says this woman is delusional. One de millennial says,

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Speaker 3: what the f Lady Haley andabains Sam over hypothetical bratty,

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Speaker 1: I also want to point out that he said recently,

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Speaker 2: Oh what, Yeah, it didn't.

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Speaker 1: And then and then they both said, oh, we've talked

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Speaker 3: It seems like it doesn't seem longer than a year.

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Speaker 1: just exhausted. Yeah, Like I woke up and I was like,

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Speaker 1: I'm so tired, and so I tried to keep sleeping

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Speaker 1: and I couldn't go back to sleep.

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Speaker 3: That's how it happens. MJ grow. Thanks for the two bucks.

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Speaker 3: Does Dakota and Keon do they have official emojis?

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Speaker 1: I believe so.

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Speaker 2: I think Dakota is the hat and I am the

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Speaker 2: key emoji.

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Speaker 3: Yes, it's true. I'm not saying she deserved it. Welcome

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Speaker 3: to the Nights. We appreciate you coming on to our

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Speaker 3: members only little community, MJ grow. Thanks for the two bucks,

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Speaker 3: mg grow. Thanks for the five gifted memberships making the

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Speaker 3: our members only community a little bit larger. Three seven

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Speaker 3: nine twenty five. I think we read that, but I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna do it again. Thanks for the five gifted memberships.

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Speaker 3: We appreciate you.

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Speaker 2: And then I think that is it? What you? Which one?

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Speaker 2: Is that the pizza one?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 2: Is that? No? No?

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Speaker 3: No Facebook?

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Speaker 2: I was asking, I was asking, Sophia, is that the

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Speaker 2: pizza one is eating?

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Speaker 3: The pizza shapes the pizza? Oh, kind of a pizza shape.

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Speaker 2: I kind of want to try a pizza shape.

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Speaker 3: The best shape, the best shape. Mm hmmm, so good?

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Speaker 1: Are literally the best shapes?

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Speaker 3: Xx Gloom says, is your hair shorter from yesterday? No

472
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Speaker 3: meaning them, but I sprayed a little seawater.

473
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Speaker 1: Disordered from yesterday. It just keeps drinking.

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Speaker 3: Oh wait you uh huh, that's new. I feel like

475
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Speaker 3: I never used to see them.

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Speaker 1: No, well, the pizza shapes aren't. The pizza shapes aren't

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Speaker 1: shaped like Australia. They're just like kind of a shape shape,

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Speaker 1: kind of like a pizza. I suppose. I don't know

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Speaker 1: as four and twenty, I don't know. Uh one done,

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Speaker 1: Millennial says Sam. Did you Oh no, I can't read it. No,

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Speaker 1: did you get something chips from package I sent?

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Speaker 3: Hey, Fia, can you take this actual? Next story? So

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Speaker 3: I shouted to check something really quick I.

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Speaker 1: Can indeed, Sam, did you get any of the lotus

485
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Speaker 1: roots chips from the package I think sent? Did you

486
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Speaker 1: eat those?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: I didn't get the.

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Speaker 1: I don't believe we've got them, or maybe we did

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Speaker 1: and someone else at them.

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Speaker 2: Uh ifia, this one I'm looking at. This message was okay, okay, mmmmm.

492
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Speaker 1: Kalina says, there was one more fifty dollars. Donut do

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Speaker 1: we miss something.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna check. I think that was Breebree, and I

495
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Speaker 2: think Sam just read it.

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Speaker 1: We might have read that one. Oh yeah, we just

497
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Speaker 1: read that one. But if we missed anyone, let.

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Speaker 2: Us know and we'll get into I'm gonna keep going down,

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Speaker 2: just a double check.

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Speaker 1: No, that's aw, all right, let's get into this next story,

501
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Speaker 1: just me and Keon.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, we gotta get this one.

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Speaker 1: Ah Emo, we'rem Queen's Night. Thank you for being a

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Speaker 1: member for seven months. Can't believe it seven months. Love

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Speaker 1: you guys. I watch every live, even if it's as

506
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Speaker 1: a lurker, and we love you all. And George Taylor says, okay,

507
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Speaker 1: what are y'all eating earlier? If you just dreined the stream?

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Speaker 1: Caitlin Crosswell very kindly gifted us many.

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Speaker 2: Different Australia Autralia and treats and goodies.

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Speaker 1: Uh. And so we have shapes. This is my favorite

511
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Speaker 1: Australian snack and I haven't had it in like six years,

512
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Speaker 1: but they're the pizza shapes and I love them.

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Speaker 2: And we got jerky like weird, jerky like kangaroo Jerky

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Speaker 2: Crocodile and Emu Jerky and I'm again and I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: do this as a plug Milow. Yeah so good. Yeah,

516
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Speaker 2: we're gonna get sponsored by Milo. I'm calling gotta get

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Speaker 2: it and get Can you imagine? Can you imagine?

518
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Speaker 1: I would cry?

519
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Speaker 2: I would cry?

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Speaker 1: But let's continue with this story.

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Speaker 3: Oh right, Sam Wilton.

522
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Speaker 2: But it's gonna be us.

523
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Speaker 1: It just us. My boyfriend dumped me over a Facebook profile.

524
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Speaker 1: He mistook his mind.

525
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Speaker 2: What an idiot.

526
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Speaker 1: A few minutes ago, my boyfriend of three years dumped

527
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Speaker 1: me via text.

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Speaker 2: What a good start, what a what an opening hook line? Sinker, Wow,

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Speaker 2: that's n The story shocked me.

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Speaker 1: And his reasoning was that he found a Facebook profile,

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Speaker 1: that it was apparently mine it's it's not, and that

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Speaker 1: I was a line b who plays games, and that

533
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Speaker 1: we were done.

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Speaker 2: You know what he did, He just jumped to conclusions.

535
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Speaker 1: He jumped so far is he even on Earth anymore?

536
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Speaker 2: He jumped to the Sun.

537
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Speaker 1: He jumped to the Sun's We didn't even have to

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Speaker 1: put them in the tribute shad, He just did just

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Speaker 1: hill there what This clearly came out of left field.

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Speaker 1: Last we spoke, which was not even two hours ago,

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Speaker 1: everything seemed fine. Did he just go on Facebook and

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Speaker 1: see a girl who kind of looked like op and

543
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Speaker 1: he was like, well, I wanted to break up with her,

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Speaker 1: and I didn't know what a yeah?

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Speaker 2: Do you think is that an ice? Like a ICU?

546
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Speaker 3: I see you?

547
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Speaker 1: He just wanted to break up with her, and he.

548
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Speaker 2: Just I think so too? What he jumped to that

549
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Speaker 2: conclusion like it?

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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from Luna Love eighty nine

551
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Speaker 1: on the Okay Storytime Separate It. So I'm a few

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Speaker 1: hours away at the moment because I was visiting my

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Speaker 1: family from Father's Day. Also, I've been helping my dad

554
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Speaker 1: because a car accident that has left him to say,

555
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Speaker 1: it's been really hard for him, so I decided to

556
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Speaker 1: spend a weekend with him. So Opie's like literally caring

557
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Speaker 1: for her injured father and her boyfriend breaks up with

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Speaker 1: her overtext because he mistook her picture on Facebook. My

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Speaker 1: boyfriend had to stay behind because of work. My phone

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Speaker 1: was on vibrate and I woke up to a vibrating

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Speaker 1: somewhere in my room. He called twice in a row,

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Speaker 1: which is a little unusual, so I tried to call

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Speaker 1: him back. A part of me was worried something bad

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Speaker 1: happened because he never just calls seconds apart. He forwarded

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Speaker 1: my call to voicemail after one ring, and then I

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Speaker 1: got a string of enraged texts. First was a picture

567
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Speaker 1: of a profile of some woman who shares my name,

568
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Speaker 1: and the rest were filled with anger how I played

569
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Speaker 1: him for a fool and that he was done playing games. Firstly,

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Speaker 1: the woman in the picture looks nothing like me. She

571
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Speaker 1: has black hair and blue eyes. I have auburn hair

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Speaker 1: and green eyes. I also have a beauty mark above

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Speaker 1: my lip on the left inside, and this woman has nothing.

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Speaker 2: So the boyfriend just wanted to just that's what it

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Speaker 2: feels like, zero investigation, Like he that girl kind of

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Speaker 2: not even not even looks like my girl doesn't look

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Speaker 2: like OPI. Yeah, I guess it's close enough. It'll do

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Speaker 2: the job.

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Speaker 1: It's fine. Uh, Harriet Spagetti's boyfriend is probably cheating.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's using some dumb like this is like the

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Speaker 2: dumbest reason the brain one.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm thinking. Uh, my boyfriend blocked my number,

583
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:29,359
Speaker 1: Facebook and all that lovely stuff, and I'm at a loss.

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00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:31,919
Speaker 1: So OPI, he can even like call him up and

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Speaker 1: be like, hey, dude, that's not me. Uh, this is

586
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:38,679
Speaker 1: all very sudden, and all I feel is anger and pain.

587
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 1: I don't want my dad to hear me crying. He

588
00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:44,480
Speaker 1: has enough on his plate to deal with and it'll

589
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:46,240
Speaker 1: be still trying to be there for her dad.

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00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:48,880
Speaker 2: Yeah. Op, he's going through like the worst.

591
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:50,159
Speaker 1: Like the worst week.

592
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:50,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: A little background. My boyfriend cheated on me a few

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Speaker 1: months into the relationship.

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Speaker 2: And go inging ing ing ing ing, we found it

596
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Speaker 2: and I didn't learn.

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Speaker 1: About it until a year later, and they've been to

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Speaker 1: gather for three years now. I ended up forgiving him

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Speaker 1: and things seemed fine. He was remorseful and did his

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Speaker 1: dangdis to regain my trust. I can't help but wonder

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Speaker 1: if he did this because he did something wrong and

602
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:15,520
Speaker 1: wants an excuse for it, or he wanted to dump

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Speaker 1: me in order for him to cheat without cheating. That

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00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:20,439
Speaker 1: is what I was thinking, because there's no way that

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Speaker 1: someone's that dumb.

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Speaker 2: No, I mean there are some people that are that,

607
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 2: dar I read some stories here, Yeah, that people are

608
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Speaker 2: really dumb.

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Speaker 1: But I think that it feels like he just wanted

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Speaker 1: an excuse.

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00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 2: This is I get out of that exactly.

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00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, Darred says oh, pe, we need to judge your

613
00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 1: taste in men. How can you be with this idiot? Yeah,

614
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:44,600
Speaker 1: you should have dumped him f or he cheated on you.

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00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 1: Tomorrow is his birthday too. I wonder if he wants

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Speaker 1: to be free for that day. It just makes me cry.

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00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 1: I won't be taking aback No way in hell. He's

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Speaker 1: living in my house. Nothing is in his name. He

619
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Speaker 1: can f off right now. I'm kind of shattered at

620
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Speaker 1: the moment because I invested so much time and emotion

621
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Speaker 1: in this person. I forgave him when he cheated on me,

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00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 1: and now he's pulling random Facebook profiles out of his

623
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Speaker 1: butt to use to break up with me and say

624
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 1: I'm the shady one. What can I do to help myself?

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00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:17,360
Speaker 1: I am really at a loss right now. Thank you,

626
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:18,959
Speaker 1: and there is an update.

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Speaker 2: Dang, I already know what you can do. Just end

628
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:24,080
Speaker 2: it with him. You don't need to be with him, Yeah,

629
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 2: just be with your dad. Yeah, that's all you need

630
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:27,680
Speaker 2: be like.

631
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 1: Have some like spend time with your dad. And obviously

632
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 1: it's going to be painful. I mean you're with him

633
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 1: for three years, so you know, to give yourself some

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00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:38,560
Speaker 1: time and allow yourself to be sad. I mean, I

635
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 1: know that you're taking care of your dad, but you're

636
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:43,640
Speaker 1: also allowed to be hurt. But don't get back with

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00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:44,320
Speaker 1: him for sure.

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00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 2: No, don't do not Yep, not even a thought.

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00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 1: Dutch just Causada says, projecting so hard right now, and

640
00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 1: Armela Rosewood says, screenshots the screenshot the texts in case

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00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:57,960
Speaker 1: they're needed for later. Lisa, Marisa is living in your house?

642
00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 2: Throwouts yeah, yeah, do what the hat says, yeah, dump him.

643
00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:07,160
Speaker 1: Statham says, dump him. Um, thank you guys for your

644
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 1: encouraging words and wisdom. It helped out a lot. This

645
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 1: is the update. Sorry myself. At six other people went

646
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Speaker 1: to my house this morning, including my brothers and lawyer uncle.

647
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Speaker 1: You got a lawyer uncle?

648
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 2: Nice convenient.

649
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 1: My ex was sitting in his computer room playing a

650
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Speaker 1: League of Legends, seemingly oblivious that I came home and

651
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Speaker 1: anyone entered the room. I promptly tapped him on the

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Speaker 1: shoulder and asked him to turn off the game and

653
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Speaker 1: pack his stuff. That is crazy that he broke up

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Speaker 1: with her over text and lives with her, Like, what

655
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Speaker 1: did he think was gonna happen there? What was his plan?

656
00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 2: Again? We're going back to the route here that he

657
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Speaker 2: is stupid. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: He shrugged my hand off and continued to talk to

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Speaker 1: his teammates the through what I assume was Skype or

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Speaker 1: team speaking.

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Speaker 2: He's yelling, you gotta go to jungle, go through jungle. Oh,

662
00:30:57,800 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 2: my girlfriend's trying to break up with my lane.

663
00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:02,600
Speaker 1: My patience for his BS is in the negative. So

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Speaker 1: I bent down and unplugged the surge protector.

665
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 2: From the walls.

666
00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 1: Wa.

667
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:09,479
Speaker 2: Wait, that's wrong. One that got his attention.

668
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 1: Yes, my ex flung the head said that I bought

669
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 1: him off his head and it bounced off his monitor.

670
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 1: Oh my god, don't.

671
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 2: Rage stop the rage touch grass.

672
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:20,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is embarrassing for you.

673
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:21,280
Speaker 2: Uh huh.

674
00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 1: He stood up, screaming how that was a ranked game

675
00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 1: and that I was affinggob his stats or whatever he

676
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 1: was foaming about.

677
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,719
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I already knew he was toxic.

678
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 1: It's so unattractive.

679
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 2: Oh, I already knew he was toxic. That the fact

680
00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 2: that he was playing a ranked Legal Legends game. Sorry

681
00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:40,040
Speaker 2: to all my lole players, but you know, yeah, I'm

682
00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:41,200
Speaker 2: the same thing with Overwatch.

683
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 1: So even the Legal Legend players know.

684
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, we all know that's what I like.

685
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:48,280
Speaker 1: Literally all the arcane stuff I've heard about, you know,

686
00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:50,840
Speaker 1: all the league legends that players are like, don't play league.

687
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:52,960
Speaker 2: Don't play league. It's so toxic. So that's why I

688
00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:54,640
Speaker 2: can tell this man is toxic because he's playing a

689
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:55,760
Speaker 2: ranked league game.

690
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:58,360
Speaker 1: My brothers stepped between us and told him that he

691
00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 1: had ten minutes to pack his thing, and only his things,

692
00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 1: before we called the cops to have him removed. We

693
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 1: all stepped out of the room and watched him unplug

694
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 1: his computer and neatly stack his stuff. He tried to

695
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 1: take my Ethernet cable and I was like, nahh, that's

696
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 1: not yours, buddy, gets your paws off it. A friend

697
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 1: brought in a box and we watched him go through

698
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 1: the house taking the seldom things he owned, all the

699
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:24,920
Speaker 1: while texting away on his phone, probably text another girl,

700
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:27,960
Speaker 1: probably trying if someone said hobosexual, he's probably trying to

701
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:31,600
Speaker 1: get another place. That's my conspiracy theory.

702
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 3: I don't know.

703
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 2: I think those guy's just a dummy. I think that

704
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:35,440
Speaker 2: too big dumb a.

705
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:39,200
Speaker 1: I think those coexist. He turns out he was saying

706
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:43,360
Speaker 1: some ugly things on his Facebook, but whatever, that that

707
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:46,080
Speaker 1: is childish stuff and water off a duck's butt to me,

708
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 1: he tossed the box of clothes, sneakers, and DVDs such

709
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:52,760
Speaker 1: console games into the backseat of his crappy nineteen ninety

710
00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 1: five Honda, and then made it a process to take

711
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 1: his computer out. He was more concerned his Legal Budgeon game,

712
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:03,120
Speaker 1: about his Legal Edge game and his computer than me.

713
00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 1: He didn't make eye contact or speak to me. There

714
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 1: was just an air of hostility that I can't even explain.

715
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:13,240
Speaker 1: I can't comprehend how someone could just suddenly hold such

716
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:17,040
Speaker 1: animosity towards someone they apparently loved. I sat on the

717
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 1: stairs watching him go back and forth, my friend Jess

718
00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 1: recording the whole process on her cell phone just in case.

719
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 1: She's pretty clever. Lol. It was really hard. I felt

720
00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 1: anger brewing under the indifferent exterior. I was showing. A

721
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 1: part of me wanted to throw an egg at the

722
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 1: back of his stupid smughead. But I know that isn't

723
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:40,800
Speaker 1: worth it. He isn't worth any negative or positive energy. Yeah,

724
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 1: just just kick him out. He's a child, a manchild

725
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:50,560
Speaker 1: one hundred percent, and he's stupid and you deserve so

726
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 1: much better than this guy.

727
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:54,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I said, get him out. I didn't know

728
00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:56,440
Speaker 2: he was living with you. That's so weird that he's

729
00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 2: living I know.

730
00:33:57,320 --> 00:33:59,239
Speaker 1: And he broke up with the overtext.

731
00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 2: And he still has audacity. Man, this man still had

732
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:04,520
Speaker 2: the audacity, Like, oh yeah.

733
00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:06,120
Speaker 1: Cell Bell says, the term is douche. He's a douche.

734
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:07,080
Speaker 1: This is true.

735
00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:09,800
Speaker 2: Yes, I did see someone say I saw someone sorry

736
00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:12,600
Speaker 2: that we're talking about Arcane. Someone said I didn't watch

737
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:14,560
Speaker 2: Arcane because of how the League is so toxic.

738
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:16,280
Speaker 1: No no, no, no, no, no, so separate.

739
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:18,880
Speaker 2: It's separate. It's same world. It's like Sea, it's same world.

740
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:22,040
Speaker 2: That's fine, But watch Ourcane, watch our Harry Good has

741
00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:23,760
Speaker 2: nothing to do with the toxic people that play League

742
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:25,160
Speaker 2: as we can do really with the video game.

743
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:26,920
Speaker 1: Do you don't have to know anything about League?

744
00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 2: Yeah you don't.

745
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 1: I don't know anything about League.

746
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:31,520
Speaker 2: You can watch. I'm telling you right now, you're not.

747
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:32,760
Speaker 1: You have to watch Arcane.

748
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 2: Just the art style of Arcane.

749
00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 1: The best animated TV show ever.

750
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:38,839
Speaker 2: It's really good. And that is our that is our

751
00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:41,640
Speaker 2: little plug in there plug Arcae.

752
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 1: Okay, the whole process took about fifteen minutes, and we

753
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:47,640
Speaker 1: all watched on my lawn as he drove away. My

754
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:49,879
Speaker 1: uncle gave a big hug and left, and the rest

755
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:53,440
Speaker 1: of us ate pizza and watched some TV. As uneventful

756
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:56,799
Speaker 1: as it was, the whole experience was draining. I could imagine.

757
00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:01,080
Speaker 1: I mean, just having to deal with this baby is exhausted,

758
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:05,720
Speaker 1: slowly going through all of his stuff, and just like M'm.

759
00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:09,799
Speaker 2: Tiction on Facebook because you got i'fly to Facebook, maybe

760
00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 2: lose my rank game.

761
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:13,759
Speaker 1: It's easy when there are people around to talk to

762
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:16,360
Speaker 1: and occupy my mind, but when I'm alone what he

763
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:18,640
Speaker 1: did keeps popping into my head and I start to

764
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 1: get anxious. Oh, I feel you. I tossed all of

765
00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 1: my bedding and sprayed my couches and chairs with deodorizer,

766
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:27,880
Speaker 1: and the lame attempt of exercising whatever foul things he

767
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:32,120
Speaker 1: may have done. I know, irrational. Lol. Today I'm going

768
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:33,920
Speaker 1: to be heading to bed Bathroom Beyond to buy some

769
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:37,560
Speaker 1: new betting and treat myself. I realized that being with him,

770
00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:40,719
Speaker 1: I didn't really love myself. I was too preoccupied with

771
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:44,359
Speaker 1: appeasing him. Any actions I took and spoiling myself, whether

772
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:47,319
Speaker 1: it be new clothes, a game, or makeup, was met

773
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 1: with suspicion. It was all and is whacked out head

774
00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 1: like all of that was seen as maybe you're cheating

775
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:56,200
Speaker 1: or something. Is that what he's trying to say?

776
00:35:56,719 --> 00:35:59,280
Speaker 2: I just it sounds like it sounds like the boyfriend

777
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:03,400
Speaker 2: was very just yeah, very control, Like I said, connecting

778
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 2: the legal legends, very toxic.

779
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:09,000
Speaker 1: Being alone after being in a relationship for such a

780
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 1: long period of time is daunting. I know I'll be fine,

781
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 1: if not awesome, after getting that cancer out of my life. Yeah,

782
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:18,640
Speaker 1: I had to set up a rule with my friends

783
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:20,839
Speaker 1: and family to not talk about him to me because

784
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:23,000
Speaker 1: a friend texted how he was flooding his Facebook with

785
00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:26,279
Speaker 1: pictures of himself smiling and being happy. Why is your

786
00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:30,520
Speaker 1: friend telling you that? Sometimes I think friends just need

787
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:34,359
Speaker 1: to like not tell you things about your ex. We

788
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:35,920
Speaker 1: don't need the updates, you.

789
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:37,880
Speaker 2: Know, I'm I want it out. I don't want to

790
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:38,399
Speaker 2: hear about them.

791
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:41,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, like I've had other like friends talk about other friends.

792
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:43,759
Speaker 1: Is like, you know, like two degrees spill that tea,

793
00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:46,319
Speaker 1: and I'm like, or like telling the things. I'm like,

794
00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:48,560
Speaker 1: we don't need to tell them. We don't need to

795
00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:48,920
Speaker 1: tell them.

796
00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:49,399
Speaker 2: Spill the tea.

797
00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:53,800
Speaker 1: Sometimes sometimes you can spill teas. Sometimes just keep it yourself.

798
00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:54,439
Speaker 1: Keep that tea.

799
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:56,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, you just gotta read the room. Read the room.

800
00:36:57,520 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 1: If he's happy that is resident of his mom's base

801
00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:03,799
Speaker 1: and cheats on good women with gutterscum, then so be it.

802
00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 1: In Oh, wait, what is that say? If he's happy

803
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 1: that he's Oh, if he's happy that he is he,

804
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 1: If he's happy that he's a resident of his mom's

805
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:15,880
Speaker 1: basement and cheats on good women with gutterscum, then so

806
00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 1: be it. Snapped hoping in the end. WHOA, yeah, we're

807
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:26,080
Speaker 1: not ending, because we just got thirty more minutes. Thank

808
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 1: you Tina M for the twenty gifted memberships. WHOA, we're on.

809
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:35,239
Speaker 1: We got thirty five minutes of let's keep going. In

810
00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 1: the end, whether it be six months from now, a year,

811
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:41,600
Speaker 1: five years, whatever, something in his brain will click and

812
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:44,520
Speaker 1: he will realize the massive f up he did the

813
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 1: last few days.

814
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:47,880
Speaker 2: I don't think he will to be honest as long

815
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 2: as he's playing league, as long as he's in his

816
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:51,439
Speaker 2: games and he's you know.

817
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 1: Playing these games with you and online.

818
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:58,399
Speaker 2: A lost cause, Yeah, he's a lost cause. I don't

819
00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 2: think you need to waste your energy on oring him anymore.

820
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 1: No, leave him in the past yep. As crappy as

821
00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:06,760
Speaker 1: it sounds, I hope it makes him miserable, by the way,

822
00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 1: you know, it never makes me miserable. You guys joining

823
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 1: us live every weekday at three pm PSD on YouTube.

824
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:18,759
Speaker 1: Just tap our profile and yeah, Facebook and Twitch. I

825
00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:19,400
Speaker 1: forgot about that.

826
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:22,040
Speaker 2: It's okay, but there is.

827
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:24,400
Speaker 1: Another relevant update. But what what do you have to say?

828
00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:25,640
Speaker 1: Do you have any final thoughts?

829
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:28,120
Speaker 2: I think I just said my piece where you you know,

830
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:29,400
Speaker 2: you got him out.

831
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 1: Great him, exercised him from your house.

832
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, focus on yourself, know your self worth, and honestly,

833
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:39,520
Speaker 2: don't worry about him. He was a waste of your energy,

834
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:41,840
Speaker 2: waste of your space with your time, waste of everything

835
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:46,040
Speaker 2: You're doing the right thing, I say, don't worry about him,

836
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:46,720
Speaker 2: waste away.

837
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:47,080
Speaker 3: Yeah.

838
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:49,360
Speaker 2: If anyone brings him up, don't don't. I'm like that,

839
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 2: I don't want to hear it. Don't hear it.

840
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:52,000
Speaker 1: Be like, let's not talk about that.

841
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:53,520
Speaker 2: I'll throw an egg at your head.

842
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:55,879
Speaker 1: You don't even you can just be like that guy.

843
00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:58,239
Speaker 1: If you ever have to reference him, just don't even

844
00:38:58,440 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 1: say his name.

845
00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 2: Yeah. The fact that again block him on social.

846
00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 1: Media absolutely, I mean this is security. Did that.

847
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:06,439
Speaker 2: So, yeah, you're good, you did everything right way there. Yeah,

848
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 2: just what goes on you're dead.

849
00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:10,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I will be changing my locks despite taking his

850
00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 1: copy of his keys, and I think I will add

851
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:15,479
Speaker 1: extra security just in case. When he was a teen,

852
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:18,880
Speaker 1: he vandalized houses of people he didn't like, and judging

853
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 1: from his behavior, I wouldn't pass put it past him

854
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:25,479
Speaker 1: to do it again. Yeah, he hasn't grown up since then. Also,

855
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:27,839
Speaker 1: I'm going to the doctor tomorrow to get test done.

856
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:31,800
Speaker 1: That's so sad but smart. I don't feel anything wrong,

857
00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:34,400
Speaker 1: but I won't be taking chances. This whole thing has

858
00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 1: been a life experience. He hasn't ruined any future relationships

859
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:39,840
Speaker 1: for me. He did me a favor to up my

860
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:43,200
Speaker 1: standards and reinforce my self worth. I know what to

861
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:44,960
Speaker 1: look out for now and I know what kind of

862
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:48,240
Speaker 1: person I deserve. Thank you again, you guys, you brought

863
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:51,359
Speaker 1: a lot of great points and it helped tremendously. And

864
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 1: that's the end of that story.

865
00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:53,800
Speaker 2: Very nice, lovely.

866
00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:56,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I think. I mean, it doesn't seem like

867
00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:59,720
Speaker 1: OP necessarily had a lot of choices to make because

868
00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 1: kind of broke up with her, but kicking him out

869
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:05,480
Speaker 1: getting them out of your life is the right choice.

870
00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:07,879
Speaker 2: I saw a least comment. I think it's a I'm

871
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:10,560
Speaker 2: petty if they're miserable. I kind of want to know,

872
00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:12,279
Speaker 2: like like the.

873
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:17,600
Speaker 1: X, I think it's hmmm. I think it's depending. I

874
00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 1: think it's like what you said of reading the room.

875
00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:23,200
Speaker 1: Let's say it's been like a couple. You know, it's

876
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:25,800
Speaker 1: been months or it's been a year or something, and you're.

877
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 2: Good and you're in a good spot, like where you're like, oh,

878
00:40:27,640 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 2: I'm happy with myself, but.

879
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:30,520
Speaker 1: You're a little bit over it or something, and then

880
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:32,440
Speaker 1: someone's like, oh my god, did you hear that? Like

881
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 1: so your ex got broken up with and he's sobbing

882
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:37,799
Speaker 1: or whatever.

883
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 2: His league account got his league.

884
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:41,040
Speaker 1: Account got hacked.

885
00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:43,560
Speaker 2: And you'd be like, oh, that's amazing.

886
00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:46,520
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. But you know, if it's like a month

887
00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 1: and you're like, oh my god, did you hear what

888
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:49,799
Speaker 1: your ex is up to, it's like, no, I don't

889
00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 1: need to.

890
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:52,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I like that. Like it's kind of like,

891
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 2: I guess, in a way consensual, like oh, do you

892
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:56,840
Speaker 2: want to hear about so and so You're like.

893
00:40:56,920 --> 00:41:01,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, however, yes, I that is good. But it

894
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:04,120
Speaker 1: depends on the person, because sometimes I think people will

895
00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 1: be like, yes, I want to hear and it's like,

896
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:07,759
Speaker 1: probably not good for you to hear this right now.

897
00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:11,400
Speaker 2: Some people, I mean, it's it's your ears, your choice,

898
00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 2: it's your mental state.

899
00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 1: There is another story, But are there any donations?

900
00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:17,080
Speaker 2: I think there are.

901
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:20,320
Speaker 1: We're nineteen likes away from spinning that wheel. Yes, guys,

902
00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 1: so the next story you want to hould it up,

903
00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:26,000
Speaker 1: I haven't. I'll read you pull it up, my boyfriend.

904
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:28,200
Speaker 2: Nice. Let's see what we got like that.

905
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:31,439
Speaker 1: Listen money, thank you for the one gifted membership, Whoa

906
00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 1: and vix Mix, thank you for the five gifted memberships.

907
00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:36,000
Speaker 1: We just had a bunch of gifted memberships. Thank you

908
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:38,800
Speaker 1: so much. And everyone who just got gifted a membership

909
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:42,839
Speaker 1: say thank you. And the Chat and Jess Tours, thank

910
00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:46,839
Speaker 1: you for joining the Nights Welcome h m O Worm

911
00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:47,399
Speaker 1: Queen's Knight.

912
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:50,319
Speaker 2: Oh I think we read that one but one more time.

913
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:54,840
Speaker 1: Yes, Tina m your icon and got us another thirty minutes.

914
00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 1: Nicki Bordos says, I got the best. Do you know

915
00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 1: what you're ex Died says I'm trying to figure out

916
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 1: what the X was thinking was thinking? Oh, I was

917
00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:06,359
Speaker 1: thinking was gonna happen after breaking up with Ope while

918
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 1: living with her. I don't think he was thinking he was.

919
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 1: I don't think he was thinking. I'm we'd be honest

920
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:15,880
Speaker 1: with you, gay swan, thank you for the ten bucks.

921
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 1: Not ready for a full story time, but wanted to

922
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:22,120
Speaker 1: share a little petty after my cheating X moved flats

923
00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 1: Union Halls. I returned his ice blocks back to him

924
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:28,640
Speaker 1: through the letterbox. I hope they melted before he found them.

925
00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 2: Me too, And we just hit five hundred lights.

926
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:34,000
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness.

927
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:36,200
Speaker 2: Wow, you guys really are quick with it when we

928
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:36,680
Speaker 2: break it up.

929
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:38,360
Speaker 1: Okay, are we spinning that wheel?

930
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:39,440
Speaker 2: You want to spend that? Wee all you want to

931
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 2: read the story? Should we wait for Sam?

932
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:45,040
Speaker 1: We should probably wait for Sam. Okay, but we will

933
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:47,520
Speaker 1: spin that wheel the second he comes back. Only because

934
00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:50,720
Speaker 1: a lot of the things on the wheel, like trivia,

935
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 1: require more than just me unless you guys.

936
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:55,960
Speaker 2: We we we're still I think we're getting all the

937
00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:58,200
Speaker 2: data with one. We need a new wheel because that

938
00:42:58,239 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 2: wheel does lose a lot of pegs because we spin

939
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:05,439
Speaker 2: it way too hard because you guys love it so hard?

940
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:07,960
Speaker 1: What okay?

941
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 2: Okay, and we're getting more I guess options because m trivia.

942
00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:18,160
Speaker 2: Some of you guys like it, some of you guys

943
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 2: don't like it, so we're trying to see. Yeah, well

944
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:24,200
Speaker 2: it depends because sometimes everyone gets like we want more minutes,

945
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:25,719
Speaker 2: or like we want to do this, we want to

946
00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 2: do like someone was like, oh, Dakota does accents. We

947
00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:30,319
Speaker 2: want Dakota do we get an accent? So I think

948
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:35,040
Speaker 2: it depends. We'll figure it out knowing you guys. You

949
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 2: guys want cake on that trivia board or a wheel,

950
00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:41,799
Speaker 2: so we will figure it out. But again, send some

951
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:44,920
Speaker 2: suggestions in the discord please. We'll try and filter that

952
00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:50,200
Speaker 2: and get some feedback and hopefully get that that wheel

953
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:51,719
Speaker 2: spinning real soon.

954
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 1: But we will spin that wheel momentarily whenever Sam comes back,

955
00:43:58,680 --> 00:43:59,760
Speaker 1: so we'll read this story.

956
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:04,359
Speaker 2: Yep, you're good in a second, Okay, if you're gonna

957
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:06,000
Speaker 2: do it one second, Yeah, you can get that all

958
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 2: cleared out. I'm gonna go ahead and update the likes.

959
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:11,120
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm ready.

960
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:11,960
Speaker 2: One second.

961
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:16,200
Speaker 1: No, Kean's not ready, and Sam's back. I suppose we

962
00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:20,560
Speaker 1: could spin the wheel. Now, we can do it, guys

963
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:27,920
Speaker 1: spinning it over here? Who's been spinning the wheel? Uh?

964
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 1: One of you guys, Okay, you ready, we need a change.

965
00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:35,480
Speaker 3: We need a change.

966
00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:39,720
Speaker 2: That's what I said. See, I told I was literally

967
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:40,640
Speaker 2: just telling everyone does.

968
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:45,799
Speaker 1: Sam says, we're changing this wheel right now?

969
00:44:46,400 --> 00:44:50,480
Speaker 2: Okay? Also the wheels kind of broken, if missing, like

970
00:44:50,520 --> 00:44:54,600
Speaker 2: a couple of pegs missing, like three pegs.

971
00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:59,960
Speaker 1: Put you guys's suggestions in the chop right now. Right,

972
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:03,440
Speaker 1: I'm seeing some hard mode. I'm seeing some personality.

973
00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:07,320
Speaker 2: What's hard mode? What is hard mode? And adventure mode?

974
00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 2: What is hard mode and adventure mode? What is that?

975
00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:12,200
Speaker 2: What does that mean?

976
00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:14,680
Speaker 1: Adventure mode is when you get sent out of the

977
00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 1: room and you have to go on an adventure and

978
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:18,360
Speaker 1: hard mode is when you have to, at the beginning

979
00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:20,440
Speaker 1: of the story decide what your take is, like are

980
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:21,960
Speaker 1: they the a whole or not? And you have to

981
00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:22,520
Speaker 1: stick with it.

982
00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:25,480
Speaker 2: I kind of like that. That's actually really funny.

983
00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:28,880
Speaker 1: Except on one of our tiktoks they cut out the

984
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:30,640
Speaker 1: part where we said this was hard mode, so everyone

985
00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:32,040
Speaker 1: was like attacking us and they were like, I can't

986
00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:32,960
Speaker 1: believe you believe that.

987
00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:35,080
Speaker 2: Oh that's funny.

988
00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 3: All right, all right, all right, give me, all right,

989
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 3: what what what do we want? What do we want?

990
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:43,880
Speaker 3: So I'm taking out trivia.

991
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:46,920
Speaker 2: Leave one trivia in there, no taking it out.

992
00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:47,960
Speaker 3: People hate trivia.

993
00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:49,480
Speaker 2: Maybe you just suck at trivia.

994
00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:50,680
Speaker 1: I like trivia.

995
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 2: I like trivia too.

996
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:56,640
Speaker 3: Okay, so we're keeping fifteen more minutes taking taking out.

997
00:45:56,800 --> 00:46:01,480
Speaker 2: Just keep one trivia one trivia, the one trivia one.

998
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:07,960
Speaker 3: They hate it. They can't, okay, said accents.

999
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:09,120
Speaker 2: I don't.

1000
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:09,480
Speaker 3: I don't.

1001
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:10,520
Speaker 2: I don't know about that one.

1002
00:46:10,840 --> 00:46:16,279
Speaker 3: Sometimes yeah, maybe not maybe non problematic accents, all right,

1003
00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:19,840
Speaker 3: you could do.

1004
00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:22,680
Speaker 1: I can sometimes do a Scottish accent, depending on my mood.

1005
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:24,000
Speaker 3: Okay.

1006
00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:27,840
Speaker 1: A lot of people are saying, we love trivia accents.

1007
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 3: We've done too much trivia one? What else? Hard mode?

1008
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:34,520
Speaker 3: I'm gonna put hard.

1009
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:36,719
Speaker 2: Mode, I said. I said, go to discord and we'll

1010
00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:37,440
Speaker 2: do like, we'll do.

1011
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:40,920
Speaker 3: Something hard mode.

1012
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:45,040
Speaker 1: Just put one trivia. We're getting so many.

1013
00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:46,360
Speaker 2: Trivia one trivia?

1014
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:51,120
Speaker 3: What else we have? Hard mode? Accents? Person? Someone said,

1015
00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:54,040
Speaker 3: no accents, for the love of god, please no accents.

1016
00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:56,320
Speaker 3: Blind date with a fan.

1017
00:46:58,800 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 2: I like that hot tub. How are we going to

1018
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:04,799
Speaker 2: move this entire stream to the.

1019
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:06,560
Speaker 3: Hot I could do?

1020
00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:09,239
Speaker 1: Love you guys might submit My story of how I

1021
00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:15,440
Speaker 1: found my boyfriend of eight years was in a fourteen

1022
00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:17,880
Speaker 1: year old relationship with his high school sweetheart.

1023
00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 2: Oh that sounds hard.

1024
00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 3: Sorry, Oh you know what collar? We haven't done that collar.

1025
00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a collar.

1026
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:29,279
Speaker 3: A call in for a tub?

1027
00:47:29,320 --> 00:47:29,959
Speaker 1: What does that mean?

1028
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:31,160
Speaker 3: We do it from the hot tub.

1029
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:32,319
Speaker 1: I'm not going to the hot tub.

1030
00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:34,000
Speaker 3: I would I would go in the hot tub.

1031
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:36,080
Speaker 1: That would be so hard to set up.

1032
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:38,920
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm going to do this. I'm gonna do here, we.

1033
00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:40,799
Speaker 2: Go, Sam, be reasonable here right now?

1034
00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:44,279
Speaker 3: Oh shit, what I really thought this was a.

1035
00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:47,319
Speaker 2: Oh no, no, we can't change it. And now we

1036
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:48,360
Speaker 2: really need a new wheel.

1037
00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:53,520
Speaker 3: I really thought, all right, so it's a trivia. I

1038
00:47:53,600 --> 00:47:54,799
Speaker 3: really thought this was.

1039
00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:58,320
Speaker 2: A that we needed. We need, we need a new wheel.

1040
00:47:58,320 --> 00:48:03,279
Speaker 3: Anyway, it's fine, it's fine, Okay. So I'm doing We're

1041
00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:09,960
Speaker 3: doing the calling hot tub accents hard mode. We have memberships.

1042
00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:11,600
Speaker 3: We have fifteen more minutes.

1043
00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:14,880
Speaker 2: On pigtails.

1044
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:18,760
Speaker 3: Okay, I can do that for free. All right, hopefully

1045
00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:20,160
Speaker 3: it doesn't land on something that.

1046
00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:23,359
Speaker 2: Wait, why would you put hot tub?

1047
00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 1: Now?

1048
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:25,720
Speaker 2: Hot tubs not happening?

1049
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:29,800
Speaker 3: What I can? Can I not call you? All right? Well,

1050
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:40,120
Speaker 3: San just wants to go in the hot all right, ready, No,

1051
00:48:40,360 --> 00:48:44,960
Speaker 3: don't don't worry about it, permanent marker.

1052
00:48:47,120 --> 00:48:47,960
Speaker 1: Forever on there?

1053
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:53,440
Speaker 3: Now we got speaking of more bands is a good one.

1054
00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:54,440
Speaker 1: What's the fun?

1055
00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:55,279
Speaker 2: Did we read these?

1056
00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:56,840
Speaker 1: Listen? We did read that?

1057
00:48:56,920 --> 00:48:59,840
Speaker 3: Okay, where's our marker? We had a marker over here somewhere.

1058
00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:00,959
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1059
00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:05,640
Speaker 3: Who's to say wait here. Actually I want to fix

1060
00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:07,400
Speaker 3: this because we haven't. We haven't fixed this in a while.

1061
00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 1: The thing all right, I'm hitting another story while Sam

1062
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:13,880
Speaker 1: fixes something.

1063
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 2: Membership.

1064
00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:16,879
Speaker 1: We need to fix it right now.

1065
00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:20,919
Speaker 2: Okay, then Mi lowis all right?

1066
00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:25,560
Speaker 1: Ready, No, Sam's gonna listen from the room while he

1067
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:31,759
Speaker 1: fixes the board. Okay, you ready, Kean, I'm ready. Oh.

1068
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:35,640
Speaker 1: My boyfriend ignored me on his worth My boyfriend ignored

1069
00:49:35,640 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 1: me on his birthday, so I returned the gifts I

1070
00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:40,960
Speaker 1: got for him. You should have been more grateful. It's

1071
00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:41,359
Speaker 1: on him.

1072
00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:44,799
Speaker 2: This is so into it. Look at him. Oh, you're

1073
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:47,399
Speaker 2: just you're just erasing What are you erasing it?

1074
00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:51,560
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, this is long, but you need the whole story.

1075
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:54,279
Speaker 1: I've been dating a guy for around six years. Our

1076
00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:56,480
Speaker 1: birthdays are just a few weeks apart, and he just

1077
00:49:56,600 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 1: had his on Monday before his birthday. My best friend

1078
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:01,879
Speaker 1: he called me and asked if I could take her

1079
00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:04,239
Speaker 1: and my goddaughter out on my boat one day that

1080
00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 1: week before they moved my goddaughter my goddaughter into the

1081
00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 1: dorms for college. By the way, this comes from vandercat

1082
00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:13,560
Speaker 1: twenty three on the Okay Storytime Separate It. So, for

1083
00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:17,000
Speaker 1: numerous reasons, my friend and I haven't been able to

1084
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:20,080
Speaker 1: see each other regularly for a few years. So when

1085
00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:22,480
Speaker 1: she called and asked, I jumped at the chance to

1086
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:26,000
Speaker 1: spend some time together. We talked through schedules and it

1087
00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:29,680
Speaker 1: turned out that Wednesday was our only option. Wednesday was

1088
00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:35,440
Speaker 1: also his birthday. Wait, you're trying to hang out with

1089
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:39,880
Speaker 1: your friend on your boyfriend's birthday. One of the reasons

1090
00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:41,920
Speaker 1: I haven't seen as much of my friend is because

1091
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:45,439
Speaker 1: they don't like my boyfriend, so if he's around, they

1092
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:48,440
Speaker 1: don't want to be Anyway, I asked my boss if

1093
00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:51,040
Speaker 1: I could take a few hours off of a Wednesday afternoon.

1094
00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:53,840
Speaker 1: The plan was to spend those few hours with my

1095
00:50:53,920 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 1: friends and leave to celebrate him in the evening. I

1096
00:50:57,120 --> 00:50:59,359
Speaker 1: even told my friend about his birthday and that i'd

1097
00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:02,600
Speaker 1: have to be back around five thirty. Wednesday night is

1098
00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:05,040
Speaker 1: a typical date night anyway, since my son goes to

1099
00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:08,600
Speaker 1: his dad's on Wednesdays, I expected normal timing and me

1100
00:51:08,760 --> 00:51:11,960
Speaker 1: just celebrating him. So I got everything set up like

1101
00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:13,959
Speaker 1: it needs to be for making sure my son would

1102
00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:16,520
Speaker 1: get picked up from school and hand it off to

1103
00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:18,799
Speaker 1: his dad. Later. I took care of stuff at work

1104
00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:22,640
Speaker 1: with meetings and emails and got PTO approved. I confirmed

1105
00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:24,640
Speaker 1: with my friend we were going on a boat day,

1106
00:51:24,680 --> 00:51:29,040
Speaker 1: and I couldn't wait to see her. If Op's boyfriend

1107
00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:33,719
Speaker 1: doesn't know about this, that's kind of Doug's con a

1108
00:51:33,719 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 1: little bit messed up. I feel like it's it's not

1109
00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 1: necessarily like a bad thing to you know, if this

1110
00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:42,680
Speaker 1: is the only day that she can hang out with

1111
00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:45,400
Speaker 1: her friends. But I think I would like let the

1112
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:48,560
Speaker 1: boyfriend know. You know, I'll be like, I'll be hanging

1113
00:51:48,560 --> 00:51:49,880
Speaker 1: out with you in the evening. I just have to

1114
00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:51,520
Speaker 1: see my friends. I haven't seen them in so long.

1115
00:51:51,640 --> 00:51:55,240
Speaker 2: Guess what it stems from? What healthy communication?

1116
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:56,879
Speaker 1: Wow, we can't have that.

1117
00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:59,319
Speaker 2: In the Reddit story, No we can, and it makes

1118
00:51:59,320 --> 00:51:59,960
Speaker 2: me really apse.

1119
00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:02,600
Speaker 1: Heather Sawyer says, I feel like the bff set that

1120
00:52:02,680 --> 00:52:05,280
Speaker 1: up on purpose. I got it, That's what I'm thinking.

1121
00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:09,920
Speaker 1: Um My, boyfriend and I were texting later that morning,

1122
00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 1: so I told him that I was taking a few

1123
00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:14,279
Speaker 1: hours off from work. I told him the whole thing

1124
00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:16,400
Speaker 1: of why it had to be that timing, but that

1125
00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:18,080
Speaker 1: I let them know that I only had a few

1126
00:52:18,120 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 1: hours since I would need to get back for birthday

1127
00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:23,879
Speaker 1: date night with him. Okay, so she did tell him.

1128
00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 1: I also said that if he wanted to go out

1129
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:28,360
Speaker 1: on the boat, that we could eat at the marina

1130
00:52:28,440 --> 00:52:30,600
Speaker 1: and take the boat out for a sunset cruise, which

1131
00:52:30,640 --> 00:52:34,240
Speaker 1: he loves doing and we've done many times this summer.

1132
00:52:35,040 --> 00:52:37,000
Speaker 1: He got so angry with me that I would take

1133
00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:40,040
Speaker 1: time off work on that day and not spend that

1134
00:52:40,200 --> 00:52:41,520
Speaker 1: time off with him.

1135
00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:44,279
Speaker 2: Oh you see, because like again, if you did it

1136
00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:46,920
Speaker 2: the day of and it was his birthday, he probably

1137
00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:47,720
Speaker 2: made plans already.

1138
00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:48,280
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1139
00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:50,640
Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't want.

1140
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:55,640
Speaker 1: Maybe what would have been better is if OP had

1141
00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:58,359
Speaker 1: gone to him when she was asked about this day

1142
00:52:58,640 --> 00:53:02,279
Speaker 1: and been like, Hey, is it okay if I do this,

1143
00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:04,120
Speaker 1: rather than saying, oh, this is what's happening?

1144
00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:06,840
Speaker 2: Is yeah, telling him I would Yeah, especially he's probably

1145
00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:10,200
Speaker 2: a little bit hurt. Yeah, it's it's again technically not

1146
00:53:10,239 --> 00:53:11,640
Speaker 2: technically his day. It's his day.

1147
00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:12,200
Speaker 1: It's his day.

1148
00:53:12,280 --> 00:53:13,759
Speaker 2: It's his day, and you want to tell him what

1149
00:53:13,840 --> 00:53:14,759
Speaker 2: he's going to do on his day.

1150
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:18,279
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. It made him even more mad that I

1151
00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:20,040
Speaker 1: had said yes to the boat with them, because he

1152
00:53:20,200 --> 00:53:22,920
Speaker 1: likes it too when he's not invited. He said, only

1153
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:25,640
Speaker 1: you could do some dumb crap like this. I didn't

1154
00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:28,279
Speaker 1: really understand why he reacted that way when I'm the

1155
00:53:28,280 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 1: only one who had even mentioned seeing each other on

1156
00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:34,080
Speaker 1: his birthday up to this point, because well, I mean,

1157
00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:36,279
Speaker 1: he wants you know, sometimes people don't want to have

1158
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:38,840
Speaker 1: to plan all this stuff on their birthday. It's nice

1159
00:53:38,840 --> 00:53:40,960
Speaker 1: for like other people to be like, hey, I would

1160
00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:42,640
Speaker 1: love to spend time with you on your birthday.

1161
00:53:43,800 --> 00:53:46,319
Speaker 2: Again. Yeah, maybe he just wanted like a chill day

1162
00:53:46,400 --> 00:53:47,000
Speaker 2: with Opie.

1163
00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:49,279
Speaker 1: He probably wanted, like you to plan this stuff for

1164
00:53:49,320 --> 00:53:50,000
Speaker 1: his birthday.

1165
00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:52,239
Speaker 2: I kind of don't like op right now. I'm not

1166
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:54,720
Speaker 2: jumping to conclusions like one.

1167
00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:56,640
Speaker 1: Guy, that little bit a hole.

1168
00:53:57,600 --> 00:53:59,120
Speaker 2: You're kind of being a little a whole issue.

1169
00:53:59,160 --> 00:54:00,720
Speaker 1: Can we do? Can we you? Pole?

1170
00:54:01,320 --> 00:54:03,080
Speaker 2: Yeah? Do you want to do? Is op?

1171
00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:03,719
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1172
00:54:03,760 --> 00:54:04,000
Speaker 1: Ah?

1173
00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:04,440
Speaker 3: Or not?

1174
00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:09,239
Speaker 1: Kim Roberts says, how old are these people? And no,

1175
00:54:09,320 --> 00:54:12,200
Speaker 1: she doesn't need to ask for permission. I think it's

1176
00:54:12,320 --> 00:54:15,440
Speaker 1: less like a permission thing for me. I think it's

1177
00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:19,160
Speaker 1: your partner's birthday and you want to make sure that

1178
00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 1: they feel like acknowledged and everything. So I think it

1179
00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:27,400
Speaker 1: it's just like kind of nice to say, hey, is

1180
00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:29,319
Speaker 1: it okay if I do this with my friends just

1181
00:54:29,360 --> 00:54:34,080
Speaker 1: so they feel like appreciated in the know. But there

1182
00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:36,440
Speaker 1: is more to the story. Because I disagreed that I

1183
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:38,920
Speaker 1: had done anything wrong and stood my ground on that,

1184
00:54:39,160 --> 00:54:42,160
Speaker 1: I got called names. And then he decided that if

1185
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:44,400
Speaker 1: he couldn't come to stay at my house the night before,

1186
00:54:44,560 --> 00:54:47,200
Speaker 1: spend the entire day Wednesday together at my house even

1187
00:54:47,200 --> 00:54:49,719
Speaker 1: while I was at work, and celebrate on Wednesday night,

1188
00:54:49,840 --> 00:54:52,279
Speaker 1: then he didn't want me. Then he didn't want to

1189
00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:56,520
Speaker 1: see me at all. This seems also like a bit

1190
00:54:56,560 --> 00:55:01,600
Speaker 1: of a petty I think so too. I think someone

1191
00:55:01,640 --> 00:55:02,600
Speaker 1: said everyone sucks here.

1192
00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:05,759
Speaker 2: I agree with that. I hate how he's responding. He's

1193
00:55:05,800 --> 00:55:08,360
Speaker 2: responding like a very.

1194
00:55:07,480 --> 00:55:11,040
Speaker 1: Gratulate you could express, hey, I don't appreciate that, but not.

1195
00:55:10,960 --> 00:55:13,320
Speaker 2: With the name calling. I'm not going to talk to

1196
00:55:13,360 --> 00:55:15,560
Speaker 2: you anymore, like mind you.

1197
00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:17,400
Speaker 1: He had not mentioned us seeing each other for his

1198
00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:19,960
Speaker 1: birthday until this and now he wants the entire day

1199
00:55:20,040 --> 00:55:22,120
Speaker 1: because he found out I was making plans for a

1200
00:55:22,120 --> 00:55:25,239
Speaker 1: few hours with someone who wasn't him. I told him

1201
00:55:25,239 --> 00:55:27,200
Speaker 1: that there was nothing wrong with what I did, and

1202
00:55:27,239 --> 00:55:29,680
Speaker 1: I didn't want to cancel plans. So he lectured me

1203
00:55:29,719 --> 00:55:32,200
Speaker 1: on being in a relationship and what that means for

1204
00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:36,800
Speaker 1: far too long. Wednesday morning, I spoke to my boyfriend again.

1205
00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:38,960
Speaker 1: I told him happy birthday and asked if he was

1206
00:55:39,000 --> 00:55:41,000
Speaker 1: sticking to not wanting to see me, because I really

1207
00:55:41,040 --> 00:55:43,960
Speaker 1: wanted to celebrate with him. He told me I chose

1208
00:55:44,000 --> 00:55:48,440
Speaker 1: not to see him when I made other plans. Okay, whatever,

1209
00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:51,040
Speaker 1: it's his choice whether I agree with it or not.

1210
00:55:52,040 --> 00:55:53,960
Speaker 2: That's a that's a weird statement.

1211
00:55:55,600 --> 00:55:58,040
Speaker 1: There's a lot of weirdness going on on both sides

1212
00:55:58,080 --> 00:56:01,719
Speaker 1: of this. I think the day went on and it

1213
00:56:01,760 --> 00:56:05,680
Speaker 1: was a really good day. He texted me, wait that

1214
00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:07,759
Speaker 1: his birthday where you didn't have to see him was

1215
00:56:07,800 --> 00:56:11,160
Speaker 1: really good. This is us, says six years in, it's

1216
00:56:11,160 --> 00:56:12,959
Speaker 1: getting weird. That's the thing, Like, this is a six

1217
00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:15,719
Speaker 1: year relationship and just kind of a lot of lack

1218
00:56:15,760 --> 00:56:17,080
Speaker 1: of communication on both ends.

1219
00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:19,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, or bad to do that? Which end six years

1220
00:56:19,160 --> 00:56:21,279
Speaker 2: that's very odd. That's very head scratching, Like, oh, it's

1221
00:56:21,280 --> 00:56:23,640
Speaker 2: his birthday day. If I used goal have a good

1222
00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:26,600
Speaker 2: time without him, he's not gonna get upset. Yeah, but

1223
00:56:26,680 --> 00:56:27,920
Speaker 2: he loves doing that activity.

1224
00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:29,360
Speaker 1: He loves doing that, but he's not invited.

1225
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:30,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.

1226
00:56:31,320 --> 00:56:34,960
Speaker 1: I don't like that. Baby Wright says boat suck. Ask

1227
00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:37,040
Speaker 1: because it's his birthday, but obviously he should not be

1228
00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 1: rude about it.

1229
00:56:37,719 --> 00:56:40,799
Speaker 2: That's right, Yeah, exactly, that's both both suck.

1230
00:56:41,440 --> 00:56:43,960
Speaker 1: He texted me around the time I would have been

1231
00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:46,279
Speaker 1: seeing him if we had met up like normal, and said,

1232
00:56:46,400 --> 00:56:49,359
Speaker 1: I hope you enjoyed my birthday. I told him it

1233
00:56:49,400 --> 00:56:51,040
Speaker 1: was a good day and said I hope he has

1234
00:56:51,080 --> 00:56:53,640
Speaker 1: a good day too. He gusted me for a few

1235
00:56:53,640 --> 00:56:55,920
Speaker 1: hours after that, then set a picture of a sunset

1236
00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:58,959
Speaker 1: on the beach, which is five hours away. I said

1237
00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:00,360
Speaker 1: good for him that he got to go to the

1238
00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:03,160
Speaker 1: beach and asked who he was with. He didn't respond.

1239
00:57:03,560 --> 00:57:06,680
Speaker 1: I texted him the next morning and asked again who

1240
00:57:06,719 --> 00:57:10,439
Speaker 1: he was with, and he didn't answer. A few hours later,

1241
00:57:10,560 --> 00:57:12,520
Speaker 1: I asked him if he was treating me the same

1242
00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:15,880
Speaker 1: way he expects to be treated, and he finally responded

1243
00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:18,520
Speaker 1: that he didn't want to have a negative conversation and

1244
00:57:18,520 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 1: that he was with a guy friend we both know.

1245
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:24,240
Speaker 1: I decided not to initiate any contact with him at

1246
00:57:24,240 --> 00:57:27,880
Speaker 1: this point. I know I'll talk to him again, but

1247
00:57:28,200 --> 00:57:32,200
Speaker 1: not right now. He has sent me a random video

1248
00:57:32,400 --> 00:57:34,080
Speaker 1: from a fishing trip while they were on the boat,

1249
00:57:34,160 --> 00:57:35,840
Speaker 1: some picks, and then a video of a drink at

1250
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:38,520
Speaker 1: a bar and a sign saying all you need is

1251
00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:40,400
Speaker 1: love and tacos. So it seems like he had an

1252
00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:44,800
Speaker 1: okay birthday. And we have fifty six percent if you

1253
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:47,480
Speaker 1: say a hole and forty four percent say no. So

1254
00:57:47,560 --> 00:57:51,680
Speaker 1: it does seem somewhat split. Yeah, I either don't respond

1255
00:57:51,720 --> 00:57:53,360
Speaker 1: to them at all or heart them and move on.

1256
00:57:53,920 --> 00:57:56,240
Speaker 1: He keeps asking what I'm doing late at night. It's

1257
00:57:56,280 --> 00:57:59,720
Speaker 1: been while I was sleeping, so I don't respond when

1258
00:57:59,760 --> 00:58:01,760
Speaker 1: he's sent me a sleet well tax. Last night he

1259
00:58:01,840 --> 00:58:04,520
Speaker 1: sent kissy faces and a smileing emoji, like everything is

1260
00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:07,560
Speaker 1: just okay. I have his messages muted because I don't

1261
00:58:07,600 --> 00:58:10,040
Speaker 1: want to be too available to him right now. I

1262
00:58:10,080 --> 00:58:12,280
Speaker 1: don't know if he's home yet or still at the beach.

1263
00:58:12,400 --> 00:58:15,120
Speaker 2: I don't I don't understand this is this is. This

1264
00:58:15,280 --> 00:58:18,480
Speaker 2: is just like the biggest petty Like all of this.

1265
00:58:18,480 --> 00:58:20,880
Speaker 1: Feels so petty, Like your guys have been dating for

1266
00:58:20,960 --> 00:58:23,440
Speaker 1: six years. Call him up and have a freaking conversation.

1267
00:58:23,680 --> 00:58:25,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's his freaking birthday.

1268
00:58:25,840 --> 00:58:28,200
Speaker 1: Like this feels like behavior that you do when like

1269
00:58:28,240 --> 00:58:31,560
Speaker 1: a guy hasn't been messaging you or something after a couple.

1270
00:58:31,400 --> 00:58:34,960
Speaker 2: Of months, but then he's also doing like here's a picture.

1271
00:58:35,160 --> 00:58:36,480
Speaker 2: It's like, how petty can I be?

1272
00:58:36,600 --> 00:58:36,680
Speaker 3: Is?

1273
00:58:37,200 --> 00:58:38,919
Speaker 2: And it keeps getting petty your every time.

1274
00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:42,800
Speaker 1: Everyone sucks here. They're literally both being babies. Yeah, just

1275
00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:44,120
Speaker 1: talk to each other six.

1276
00:58:44,000 --> 00:58:45,920
Speaker 2: Years in too. If this was like six months in,

1277
00:58:46,200 --> 00:58:49,040
Speaker 2: I can see that, but six years in, come on,

1278
00:58:49,160 --> 00:58:50,520
Speaker 2: this is frustrating.

1279
00:58:50,600 --> 00:58:52,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know it's not frustrating what you guys

1280
00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:55,960
Speaker 1: joining us live every weekda at three pm PSD on YouTube,

1281
00:58:56,000 --> 00:58:59,360
Speaker 1: Facebook and TikTok. Just tap a profile, just tap it.

1282
00:59:00,240 --> 00:59:02,000
Speaker 1: But there's a little bit left. But do you have

1283
00:59:02,040 --> 00:59:06,600
Speaker 1: any any final thoughts on this frustration? I'm frustrated, frustrating,

1284
00:59:07,000 --> 00:59:08,040
Speaker 1: frustrating I.

1285
00:59:08,160 --> 00:59:11,520
Speaker 2: Break up that this is. I mean, this is like breakup.

1286
00:59:11,160 --> 00:59:13,600
Speaker 1: Because you guys can't seem to communicate effectively.

1287
00:59:13,840 --> 00:59:15,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is dumb.

1288
00:59:15,720 --> 00:59:18,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, Valkyrie says, don't want to don't want to appear

1289
00:59:18,720 --> 00:59:21,840
Speaker 1: too available. Oh, we're playing games, and that's what I'm saying. Like,

1290
00:59:21,840 --> 00:59:24,400
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying, You're too available. That feels like

1291
00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:26,600
Speaker 1: we just started dating, not six years in.

1292
00:59:26,840 --> 00:59:29,280
Speaker 2: You are six years in. Again, people are asking like,

1293
00:59:29,360 --> 00:59:31,120
Speaker 2: how long have they been dating? Like if you're six

1294
00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:33,919
Speaker 2: years in, six years, but how do we have an ah?

1295
00:59:34,080 --> 00:59:36,640
Speaker 2: Do we have an age? So uh, not that I

1296
00:59:36,680 --> 00:59:38,919
Speaker 2: know of, Okay, because everyone's like, did they start dating

1297
00:59:38,920 --> 00:59:41,160
Speaker 2: at the twelve? When they were twelve? Freaking because they

1298
00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:44,320
Speaker 2: sound like this sounds like the most childish argument I've

1299
00:59:44,320 --> 00:59:44,840
Speaker 2: ever heard of.

1300
00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:50,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't know what birthday it is, six years.

1301
00:59:51,320 --> 00:59:53,800
Speaker 1: I have no idea, but this does feel very childish.

1302
00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:56,120
Speaker 2: No, this is this is really stupid behavior.

1303
00:59:56,240 --> 00:59:59,400
Speaker 1: Man, old man. But there is a little bit left.

1304
00:59:59,560 --> 00:59:59,640
Speaker 3: Ye.

1305
01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:02,240
Speaker 1: So for his birthday, I bought him a few things

1306
01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:05,400
Speaker 1: he wanted Slash needed. It only totaled around one hundred

1307
01:00:05,400 --> 01:00:07,320
Speaker 1: and fifty dollars, But I really want to send the

1308
01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:08,000
Speaker 1: gifts back.

1309
01:00:08,680 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 2: You petty? Why are you doing this again? It's just

1310
01:00:12,280 --> 01:00:13,680
Speaker 2: what level of petty can we get to?

1311
01:00:13,800 --> 01:00:16,560
Speaker 1: I'm sorry if you're sending those gifts back, then break

1312
01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:20,600
Speaker 1: up because that that effectively that's leading to a like

1313
01:00:20,680 --> 01:00:24,200
Speaker 1: go break that's such a petty move. Yeah, I've started

1314
01:00:24,200 --> 01:00:26,760
Speaker 1: the return process for everything. I just need to drop

1315
01:00:26,800 --> 01:00:29,960
Speaker 1: them off at the ships and ship store. So am

1316
01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:32,960
Speaker 1: I the a hole if I send back his gifts? Yes?

1317
01:00:33,640 --> 01:00:36,400
Speaker 1: Or should I go drop them off when he comes

1318
01:00:36,400 --> 01:00:38,520
Speaker 1: back and expects that they're here? Is it just petty

1319
01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:40,919
Speaker 1: and starting drama to not have anything for him? Yes?

1320
01:00:40,960 --> 01:00:44,640
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, Oh my gosh, is it just petty?

1321
01:00:45,160 --> 01:00:48,160
Speaker 1: This is ridiculous. I mentioned my birthday at the beginning.

1322
01:00:48,240 --> 01:00:50,080
Speaker 1: It's a big birthday for me, and I already know

1323
01:00:50,240 --> 01:00:52,880
Speaker 1: he will do nothing. He's the guy who doesn't remember

1324
01:00:52,920 --> 01:00:54,960
Speaker 1: to buy his mom a card for Mother's Day unless

1325
01:00:54,960 --> 01:00:57,200
Speaker 1: I remind him he should. Then why are you dating him?

1326
01:00:57,680 --> 01:00:58,160
Speaker 1: Break up?

1327
01:00:58,320 --> 01:01:01,200
Speaker 2: This is dumb. Six years in six years.

1328
01:01:01,040 --> 01:01:04,400
Speaker 1: And he doesn't remember. Says, no way he remembers my birthday?

1329
01:01:04,560 --> 01:01:07,840
Speaker 1: Break up? I'm sorry. I don't think you can have

1330
01:01:07,880 --> 01:01:10,200
Speaker 1: the excuse. Oh I have poor memory, Like I can't

1331
01:01:10,200 --> 01:01:13,000
Speaker 1: remember people's We have freaking phones. Put in the calendar.

1332
01:01:13,120 --> 01:01:16,200
Speaker 2: Put in a calendar, making the micro easy.

1333
01:01:16,320 --> 01:01:17,680
Speaker 1: It's so easy these days.

1334
01:01:18,000 --> 01:01:20,400
Speaker 2: Or you can just like, hey, my birthday's coming up.

1335
01:01:20,560 --> 01:01:23,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, while I know it doesn't have to be equal

1336
01:01:23,280 --> 01:01:25,320
Speaker 1: as far as gifts go, it's not like he can

1337
01:01:25,320 --> 01:01:28,320
Speaker 1: complain too much about not getting not anything when he

1338
01:01:28,400 --> 01:01:32,160
Speaker 1: never gives gifts without being told to. And that is

1339
01:01:32,240 --> 01:01:33,600
Speaker 1: the end of that story.

1340
01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:36,320
Speaker 2: Who I want to do a poll and who's the

1341
01:01:36,360 --> 01:01:37,680
Speaker 2: stinkier a hole here?

1342
01:01:37,720 --> 01:01:39,240
Speaker 1: Because they're both pissing.

1343
01:01:39,520 --> 01:01:42,920
Speaker 2: Well, I was gonna say who's stinkier the op or BF,

1344
01:01:43,040 --> 01:01:44,400
Speaker 2: I'm gonna put do a pole. I want to see

1345
01:01:44,400 --> 01:01:45,080
Speaker 2: what the people say.

1346
01:01:45,120 --> 01:01:48,400
Speaker 1: Honestly, I feel like they're equal stinky for.

1347
01:01:48,360 --> 01:01:50,520
Speaker 2: Me, That's what I'm saying, because I hate both.

1348
01:01:50,760 --> 01:01:53,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm annoyed by both of them. Child Bell says

1349
01:01:53,760 --> 01:01:54,680
Speaker 1: they feed off each other.

1350
01:01:54,800 --> 01:01:57,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. It's like a petty it's a petition, it's

1351
01:01:57,600 --> 01:01:58,320
Speaker 2: a petty ladder.

1352
01:01:58,440 --> 01:01:59,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're both trying to win.

1353
01:02:00,160 --> 01:02:01,800
Speaker 2: Call it free falling because you know you're being a

1354
01:02:01,800 --> 01:02:02,880
Speaker 2: real tom petty m.

1355
01:02:04,400 --> 01:02:05,680
Speaker 1: So true, so true.

1356
01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:07,280
Speaker 2: I'm going to do a poll. I want to see

1357
01:02:07,320 --> 01:02:09,160
Speaker 2: a poll because I'm going to just set up.

1358
01:02:09,080 --> 01:02:11,000
Speaker 1: The next story for us. Well, you do that poll.

1359
01:02:11,080 --> 01:02:14,960
Speaker 2: Okay, Sam's back, guys to pull you guys, hold on, Sam,

1360
01:02:14,960 --> 01:02:16,880
Speaker 2: we make this Pole, The poll is going to be again,

1361
01:02:16,920 --> 01:02:18,800
Speaker 2: who's a bigger a hole here? Is going to be

1362
01:02:18,840 --> 01:02:23,720
Speaker 2: OPI or BF And this suck because both suck.

1363
01:02:23,920 --> 01:02:29,000
Speaker 1: Both freaking stink. Pole is people slots can run, says

1364
01:02:29,040 --> 01:02:32,120
Speaker 1: Equal tired. Everyone sucks here. I agree? Uh. San Guin

1365
01:02:32,240 --> 01:02:35,640
Speaker 1: Rose says, all three, OP, boyfriend and the best friend

1366
01:02:35,640 --> 01:02:38,880
Speaker 1: are the a hole. Dutchesss honest as I have everyone's

1367
01:02:38,880 --> 01:02:39,720
Speaker 1: birthday on my calendar.

1368
01:02:39,840 --> 01:02:40,200
Speaker 3: Me too.

1369
01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:42,600
Speaker 1: I'll like, even if I just started talking to you,

1370
01:02:42,640 --> 01:02:44,920
Speaker 1: if you tell me your birthday, I'm like put in

1371
01:02:44,960 --> 01:02:45,400
Speaker 1: the calendar.

1372
01:02:45,520 --> 01:02:45,720
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1373
01:02:46,000 --> 01:02:48,120
Speaker 1: Uh. Harriet Spaghetti says they don't even like each other.

1374
01:02:48,200 --> 01:02:49,240
Speaker 1: Why are they together?

1375
01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:51,520
Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean against six years? This is

1376
01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:53,280
Speaker 2: like if that's like an argument, I feel like I

1377
01:02:53,320 --> 01:02:54,960
Speaker 2: want to hear what their arguments were before.

1378
01:02:55,160 --> 01:02:58,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is this new. It feels like it can't

1379
01:02:58,480 --> 01:02:58,840
Speaker 1: be new.

1380
01:02:59,000 --> 01:03:00,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, you have something to say.

1381
01:03:00,920 --> 01:03:06,080
Speaker 3: Question for you guys. So I've redone the wheel. We

1382
01:03:06,120 --> 01:03:07,280
Speaker 3: have we have fifteen.

1383
01:03:07,080 --> 01:03:09,160
Speaker 1: More minutes handwriting I've ever seen you do?

1384
01:03:09,400 --> 01:03:14,680
Speaker 3: Thank you? Fifteen minutes, five memberships. We take a caller

1385
01:03:16,040 --> 01:03:18,920
Speaker 3: hard mode interpretive dance.

1386
01:03:19,120 --> 01:03:20,000
Speaker 1: What are we interpreting?

1387
01:03:20,240 --> 01:03:23,000
Speaker 3: It's like like when you were doing the story, you.

1388
01:03:22,640 --> 01:03:25,880
Speaker 1: You like, oh, so whoever's reading the story, and then

1389
01:03:25,880 --> 01:03:27,600
Speaker 1: the other person's doing an interpretive.

1390
01:03:27,200 --> 01:03:33,280
Speaker 3: Dance or you while you're reading the story, you intern interesting. Yeah,

1391
01:03:33,320 --> 01:03:35,920
Speaker 3: any how do we feel about that? Do we like?

1392
01:03:35,960 --> 01:03:38,440
Speaker 2: There's no trivia on there? There's no accents, people are

1393
01:03:38,440 --> 01:03:39,480
Speaker 2: gonna be upset.

1394
01:03:40,160 --> 01:03:43,800
Speaker 3: Well, people, The trivian accents are rather a controversial, rather

1395
01:03:43,920 --> 01:03:45,520
Speaker 3: controversial trivia.

1396
01:03:46,360 --> 01:03:49,880
Speaker 1: We have sixty four percent say oh p is the

1397
01:03:49,920 --> 01:03:52,760
Speaker 1: stinkier one and thirty eight percent.

1398
01:03:52,600 --> 01:03:54,520
Speaker 2: Say boyfriend like democracy.

1399
01:03:54,640 --> 01:03:56,400
Speaker 1: I also think that a lot of that is because

1400
01:03:56,400 --> 01:04:01,120
Speaker 1: we're getting oh pis per, you know, we're getting for perspective.

1401
01:04:00,720 --> 01:04:04,080
Speaker 2: That's Opie's perspective. I want to hear from the boyfriends

1402
01:04:04,200 --> 01:04:04,480
Speaker 2: the same.

1403
01:04:04,560 --> 01:04:06,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, what did you know? What did they agree on?

1404
01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:10,520
Speaker 1: But there is another story, Sam, Are you ready to

1405
01:04:10,520 --> 01:04:12,200
Speaker 1: read or are you going to keep fiddling.

1406
01:04:11,840 --> 01:04:12,040
Speaker 2: With the

1407
01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:15,160
Speaker 3: I am ready to read.