1 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:13,040 Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and camera Judge. Hi, guys, 2 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 1: welcome to another episode of Two Teas in a Pod 3 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 1: with myself, Teddie Mellencamp and camera Judge. And we were 4 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 1: surrounded by fame to night at the Wind Casino in 5 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 1: Las Vegas. We have Eddie Judge, we have Shane Simpson, 6 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:32,560 Speaker 1: we have Emily Simpson. Like it is, what about edimin Off? 7 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because, oh my god, I would never forget 8 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:41,600 Speaker 1: about you. I'm all broken. You were over the top 9 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:46,159 Speaker 1: famous that I didn't even We're on another level. You 10 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:49,320 Speaker 1: are another evel. So I'm gonna I'm always straight to 11 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 1: the point. So I'm gonna ask each of you one question, 12 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:53,479 Speaker 1: and I need you to answer. It's gonna be shaded. 13 00:00:53,560 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna throw that out. I'm gonna need you 14 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 1: to answer it as real as you possibly can. If 15 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 1: there was one thing that each of us could sell 16 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 1: un only fans, our best quality, best item for sale, 17 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:11,560 Speaker 1: what is it? I want to go first? Okay, your 18 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:20,399 Speaker 1: organization skills, Oh god, a huge market that is not 19 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:27,200 Speaker 1: sexy at all, Edwin, I'm going to challenge, do you 20 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:31,120 Speaker 1: think I don't know that? Ed one. My question to 21 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 1: you is for you, what is the thing that you 22 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 1: it's about you? What the ed one could sell? I'm 23 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:46,400 Speaker 1: only fans. Yeah what is it? Oh yeah six pack? 24 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you're let me. Technically it's kind of a 25 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:54,560 Speaker 1: twelve pack. Okay, whatever, it's my organization skills, and I 26 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 1: can I ask you as a as a fitness enthusiasts, 27 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 1: whatever you want to call it. You have six pack, 28 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 1: you have a twelve pack? How do you keep it? Chips? 29 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:14,520 Speaker 1: So seriously, no visualization. I used to have, Uh, what's 30 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 1: the movie with Brad Pitt that he did? I had 31 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 1: that picture forever, and yeah, that is that's important to you. 32 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 1: Back then it was Yeah, now it's just two relaps 33 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 1: of strash. But now but is it now like a lifestyle? Fifestyle? Yeah, 34 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 1: so you discipline, you eat healthy, you work out. It's 35 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 1: a lifestyle. You don't like if somebody says, here's a cupcake, 36 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:45,320 Speaker 1: you eat it? I do, of course. Yeah. He eats everything. Yeah, 37 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:47,799 Speaker 1: I like an ice cube and I gained seven pounds. Well, 38 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:51,840 Speaker 1: my husband. That's why I asked that, because Edwin is 39 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 1: the epitome of health and my husband is exactly the 40 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 1: same way. He could eat Eddie and I have a 41 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 1: lot of things in come. Yeah yeah, how you didn't 42 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:06,840 Speaker 1: add Shane Simpson and to that real that my one 43 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:10,919 Speaker 1: thing that I can sell on freaking only fans is 44 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 1: my organization. We can make it work. It's two for 45 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:18,519 Speaker 1: two d an Inner and Outer that I heard you 46 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 1: talk about in the last podcast. Oh my god, Shane, 47 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:25,640 Speaker 1: what would you sell of Emily and I could sell 48 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:31,920 Speaker 1: of Emily? Yeah? No, someone else shake carptal lecture. Now 49 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 1: I've moved on from Edwin after a shitty response. But 50 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 1: what do you feel like you can sell? Um? Is 51 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 1: there a fetish for Kirby women snoring and sleeping? Yeah? Ok, yeah, 52 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 1: why that's not Why do you Why can't you just 53 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 1: say like my ass or something? You have to talk 54 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 1: about me because that's for me. Oh my god. I oh, 55 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 1: I'm sure I got someone names that. I'm like, I'm 56 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 1: sure I drool and snore? Yeah, I gotta ask Eddie. 57 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 1: Do I drool or snore or any of those part? 58 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 1: You fart and you snore? Now wait I fart? Yeah, 59 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 1: you fart and you snore? Okay, So what do you 60 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 1: think Tamra's thing is for only fans? Her? Yes? Oh 61 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: she does have a good ass. You could sell that ass, 62 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 1: you know what. That's the way to freaking answer a question. 63 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 1: Because it's for me. It's not for the public. No, 64 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:37,600 Speaker 1: but yeah, it has thought. It's not like I was 65 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 1: actually going to go out and start an only fans literally, Emily, today, 66 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:44,159 Speaker 1: I am it's going to be organization day. Do you 67 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 1: want to see my notebooks? You a dollar, I'll show you. 68 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:52,280 Speaker 1: I'll show you my summer. Do you want to see 69 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:58,480 Speaker 1: my different highlights? Yes? So she tells me the other 70 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 1: day that she's sick. All right, cool, In the middle 71 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:06,160 Speaker 1: of the night, she literally coughs in my face, like 72 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 1: she wakes up at three in the morning. She's like 73 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:12,040 Speaker 1: in my face. I got so upset. I wanted to 74 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:15,040 Speaker 1: say something. I'm just gonna turn around and stay quiet. 75 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:17,559 Speaker 1: But I'm like, if you know you're sick, why would 76 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 1: you cough on your husband? Oh my god, amazing that 77 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 1: you said that, because my husband is the same thing. 78 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 1: I needed him to know that I was ill. No, 79 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:29,840 Speaker 1: you're not in your face when I cough in your 80 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:33,200 Speaker 1: face all the time. By the way, I just need 81 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 1: to hear that from you today because as Teddy's I mean, 82 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 1: I feel like Teddy's one of my best friends. Yeah, 83 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:46,919 Speaker 1: and I got to take on her reflex. I have 84 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:50,160 Speaker 1: anxiety all these things. I chose about to get her 85 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 1: period back. By the way, I love her a thousand percent. 86 00:05:55,640 --> 00:05:58,479 Speaker 1: But she's a lot. She's a lot. But I have 87 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 1: a question. I have a for you, Edwin. Could you 88 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 1: do one of the things that you do right now 89 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 1: without me? Now? What is one of the things? Any work? How? 90 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:16,120 Speaker 1: Any freaking thing? He asked me to do everything, and 91 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:17,840 Speaker 1: that's the true doesn't mean he can't do it. It's 92 00:06:17,839 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 1: called delicate asking you to do it. See how you 93 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:22,679 Speaker 1: have a twelve pack because you have time because Teddy 94 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:27,720 Speaker 1: does everything? Teddy, do you cook? So I'm not that organized? 95 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:32,480 Speaker 1: And yeah, so yeah, Well Teddy sold me on the 96 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 1: fact that she could cook, because when we first aiding, 97 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 1: she would cook up these like amazing. I don't cook. 98 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:40,200 Speaker 1: I would just uber and then I would put it 99 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:43,400 Speaker 1: on a plate and pretend I come. And then when 100 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:49,480 Speaker 1: we got married, Edwin, I need information from the ring 101 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 1: that you're wearing right now. Well, okay, guys, everybody's party's 102 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 1: this is disgusting. It's like a gold nugget. I think 103 00:06:57,240 --> 00:07:01,279 Speaker 1: it's it's Cartier. The only person that okay this ring 104 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 1: was Kyle Richards, and I honestly said, I was like, 105 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:08,360 Speaker 1: I go, this is okay, this is the Erica Jayne ring. 106 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 1: When the ring is bigger than your freaking hand, it's 107 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 1: not a good sign for you. Special occasions. It's Vegas, 108 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 1: Eddie and I. Can we talk about a sex chair? Yeah? Okay. 109 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 1: So I'm going to be honest with our relationship. We've 110 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:27,840 Speaker 1: been together for thirteen years and ten years, we're almost 111 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 1: married ten years. I'm going to be honest and say, 112 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:34,880 Speaker 1: like sexty climbs at ten years, like when we first met, 113 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 1: we were boning in like teenagers Lars style. Yeah, and 114 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 1: now I really feel comfort in him just holding me 115 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 1: and cuddling with me and being loving to me and 116 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 1: being thank you. I meant in that though, I can 117 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 1: look at his face and I know, do you like 118 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 1: being cuddled? Emily? Do you feel like huddling? Thing? No? 119 00:07:57,080 --> 00:08:01,360 Speaker 1: Who's okay? Who's a baker spoon you? Sha? Physically I'm 120 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 1: the biggest Okay, I'm clearly the big number. Don't say that. 121 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:13,560 Speaker 1: I'm just saying, are you taking Yeah? I don't think 122 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 1: Shane and I cuddle a lot. I think not as 123 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 1: much anymore. No, and then that's that goes have dogs 124 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 1: and they get in the way. All right. What was 125 00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:35,319 Speaker 1: each of your biggest worries when your wives were asked 126 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 1: to be on the show, Like, was there one thing 127 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 1: that you were like, oh, shoe, what was it? This 128 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:42,320 Speaker 1: is gonna be We weren't married when you were asking 129 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:44,839 Speaker 1: the show. No, but yeah, but like when you take 130 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:47,079 Speaker 1: it back to me being re asked to be on 131 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 1: back on the show, would you have any concerns? Yeah, 132 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:54,680 Speaker 1: but you were happy that that a certain somebody. The 133 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 1: cast this year was good. I really enjoyed everybody. I 134 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 1: think it was a good good um symphony, if you will. 135 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 1: Everybody worked well together. Nobody was making up fake stories. 136 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 1: Nobody was talking trash that didn't exist. Yeah, any of 137 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:12,199 Speaker 1: you could remove one person? Who would it be? From 138 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 1: where from Orange County season? Yeah? None? None? Okay, who's 139 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:20,439 Speaker 1: your favorite husband other than Shane? Because he's here, um, 140 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 1: Eddie Judge, he's here too, Shane. Who's your favorite husband? Like? 141 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 1: Is there anybody you'd hang out? Yeah? Is there anybody 142 00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:34,400 Speaker 1: you'd hang out with? Off? Travis is cool? I do 143 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 1: like Terry, you know, if I was on a deserted 144 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:39,920 Speaker 1: island and I could only hang out with one couple 145 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:44,320 Speaker 1: from Orange County. Yeah, and it can't be you because 146 00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:48,680 Speaker 1: like it's too much cross you mean as a couple. Yeah, 147 00:09:48,760 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 1: like if I have to be with one person and 148 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 1: I really go through it and I think, Okay, So 149 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 1: I've got Gina and her dude. I don't really know. 150 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:58,560 Speaker 1: I need more information on her dude. I fell he's 151 00:09:58,679 --> 00:10:01,400 Speaker 1: very quiet. I feel like there's not a lot they don't. 152 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 1: Here's the thing I need to see. This is what 153 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:05,920 Speaker 1: I miss about Gena. I'm not being a dick. I 154 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:10,079 Speaker 1: miss her being fun. I don't. I think she takes 155 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:13,520 Speaker 1: herself so serious. Now yeah, and I agree, but Gina 156 00:10:13,679 --> 00:10:16,200 Speaker 1: is really fun. Do you pay attention to what you're 157 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:19,600 Speaker 1: what people say about your significant other on social media? 158 00:10:19,720 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 1: So let's start with Edwin because I get the most 159 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 1: hate I think of everybody. What do you think when 160 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:29,040 Speaker 1: people come from me? Do you find me annoying in 161 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 1: general or on the podcast? I don't. I learned after 162 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:35,560 Speaker 1: being on the show not to engage, although I know 163 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:40,480 Speaker 1: it's really bad when they come after me on my Instagram, Yeah, 164 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:43,320 Speaker 1: basically talking about the wife. I'm like, then I gotta 165 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 1: go ask Teddy, Teddy, what'd you do? But let me 166 00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:48,520 Speaker 1: ask you, let me ask you a question edwin. When 167 00:10:48,520 --> 00:10:53,439 Speaker 1: Teddy says things on the podcast that are controversial and 168 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:57,640 Speaker 1: it might trickle down to you, do you engage in that? 169 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 1: Do you ignore it? Do you look at her and 170 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 1: say shut the fuck up? Never? I don't Teddy's gonna 171 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 1: hate I say this, but I've only listened to the 172 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:11,480 Speaker 1: first one. Okay, but he would never And could you 173 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 1: ever say to her, like just level it out? No, 174 00:11:16,600 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 1: She's good at wishing. Do you have appreciation for who 175 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 1: she is? I think her her wits at a Do 176 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 1: you not agree with me in the sense like her 177 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:34,840 Speaker 1: ability to be like transparent in being like who she 178 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 1: is on the podcast is the most amazing thing ever 179 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:41,560 Speaker 1: because I feel like she is Yeah, but that's true. 180 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 1: But when when she acts like that, she's gonna get 181 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:44,960 Speaker 1: hate and you just I feel like there's like a 182 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:47,200 Speaker 1: seventy two hour window where you're just gonna get a 183 00:11:47,200 --> 00:11:52,400 Speaker 1: lot of shit. And like, yeah, I think because I 184 00:11:52,440 --> 00:11:56,800 Speaker 1: trust her one hundred percent, I'm like, she knows I 185 00:11:56,840 --> 00:12:00,400 Speaker 1: won't ever as extremist I'm gonna be. I I still 186 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:03,520 Speaker 1: think about the bigger picture, like our family, our life, 187 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:06,720 Speaker 1: or whatever I love about you, I will always push it. 188 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:09,440 Speaker 1: I want people to fucking talk shit. That's my dream 189 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 1: because I love having conversations where all of us will 190 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:14,640 Speaker 1: sit around at a lunch table and be like, who 191 00:12:14,679 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 1: are you gonna pick? Shannon Badour or Vicky gon Wilson, 192 00:12:17,520 --> 00:12:20,560 Speaker 1: Like that's who I am now? And you were so 193 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:23,800 Speaker 1: amazing at it, But was so amazing. That's how I've 194 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:27,040 Speaker 1: been as a little kid, like I want all the information. 195 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:31,319 Speaker 1: But what I appreciate about Edwin is like he knows 196 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:34,439 Speaker 1: that I'm never gonna do anything to derail our family. No, 197 00:12:34,679 --> 00:12:38,160 Speaker 1: you would never, And I don't have any skeletons. Any skeletons. 198 00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:41,280 Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you guys type Am I controlling? 199 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 1: Am I an ass? So you guys have such a 200 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:46,480 Speaker 1: strong relationship, but it wasn't always strong. It was terrible, 201 00:12:46,559 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 1: my friend. We didn't need to hear that, but it's true. 202 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:51,760 Speaker 1: That's the reality. That's the way it works. Yeah, our 203 00:12:52,160 --> 00:12:56,440 Speaker 1: our first season on Housewives, he said the most terrible thing. 204 00:12:56,640 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 1: Put as an outsider, I look at you guys and 205 00:12:59,120 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 1: think that you have them a strong relationship. Ever, I 206 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:07,559 Speaker 1: mean a lot A lot of marriages on the show 207 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 1: don't last. But what gives you the impression they have 208 00:13:10,400 --> 00:13:13,840 Speaker 1: the perfect marriage. I just look at Teddy as a 209 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 1: friend and think they had the perfect marriage. I don't 210 00:13:16,360 --> 00:13:18,440 Speaker 1: think anything it's perfect. I think they just are strong 211 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:20,160 Speaker 1: and they made it through. I mean, I feel like 212 00:13:20,160 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 1: Shane and I came out stronger. I think it's a 213 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:25,000 Speaker 1: make or break type of thing when you go on 214 00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:29,400 Speaker 1: the show. I think relationships either make it through and 215 00:13:29,440 --> 00:13:32,840 Speaker 1: they're stronger, or they it's a demise. And Shane and 216 00:13:32,840 --> 00:13:34,400 Speaker 1: I were the lucky ones, and I think you and 217 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:36,320 Speaker 1: Eddie are also and that I think that's probably why 218 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:38,480 Speaker 1: we all connect and why the two of you respect 219 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:40,520 Speaker 1: each other so much is because we were the fame. 220 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:43,880 Speaker 1: We took the Housewives and we used it as a 221 00:13:43,920 --> 00:13:48,920 Speaker 1: tool to make us stronger. Where most couples the Housewives 222 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 1: becomes it breaks them up. And I think a lot 223 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 1: of times because the women go on Housewives and they think, 224 00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:56,880 Speaker 1: well I'm a star, now I'm I'm I'm the shit, 225 00:13:57,040 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 1: I can do better And I never thought that. I 226 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:03,200 Speaker 1: always thought of Shane and me together as a team 227 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:05,720 Speaker 1: and how can we get through this together? And after 228 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:08,640 Speaker 1: five years. We have a stronger marriage because of Housewives. 229 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:11,199 Speaker 1: And that's why I never regret being on the show. 230 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:14,719 Speaker 1: Because if I got fired tomorrow and someone said, what 231 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:17,800 Speaker 1: did you take away from Housewives? I would say, Shane 232 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 1: and I have a better marriage because I was on 233 00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:22,400 Speaker 1: the show, and I will take that away. Same with me. 234 00:14:22,440 --> 00:14:24,720 Speaker 1: But we when we started the show, I was in 235 00:14:24,760 --> 00:14:28,680 Speaker 1: a much weaker position. Why because Teddy. I'm just gonna say, 236 00:14:28,880 --> 00:14:32,320 Speaker 1: to your point, Emily, when we first started on the show, 237 00:14:32,760 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 1: we were in a very bad place. Shane and I 238 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:40,080 Speaker 1: were too, but what do you mean get into the details, 239 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:41,680 Speaker 1: but we were in a very bad like it was 240 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:45,840 Speaker 1: the darkest eet We were ready to just we were done. 241 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 1: And to your point, to your point, Emily, um, we 242 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 1: the show actually instead of everybody said, hey, it's going 243 00:14:54,800 --> 00:14:58,400 Speaker 1: to divide you, yeah, instead it actually united us. Because 244 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 1: it's the importance of when you actually work on your marriage, 245 00:15:03,640 --> 00:15:06,360 Speaker 1: you'll you'll remember how much you love it, right if 246 00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:08,480 Speaker 1: you don't, If you don't do something for a long time, 247 00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:12,280 Speaker 1: you start to dislike it. And you know, I was, 248 00:15:12,560 --> 00:15:15,080 Speaker 1: I was. I didn't work on my marriage for a while, 249 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 1: so I was starting to dislike it and and the 250 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:21,800 Speaker 1: show made me work on it. Why why did the 251 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 1: show make you work on it? Because I think it's 252 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:26,440 Speaker 1: I had my kids right, and I wanted to make 253 00:15:26,440 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 1: sure that. Like I was like, wait a minute, I 254 00:15:28,760 --> 00:15:32,520 Speaker 1: need like you can't. When you go on the show, 255 00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:37,680 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, eyes and ears are everywhere right, 256 00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:41,120 Speaker 1: and it just makes you realize what's important in life. 257 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 1: And when we went on when I at least when 258 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:46,960 Speaker 1: I went on the show, it, I mean, to your point, Emily, 259 00:15:47,040 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 1: our relationship stronger than it's ever been. But when we started, 260 00:15:51,880 --> 00:15:55,960 Speaker 1: I remember my first day, I honestly was like, fuck, 261 00:15:56,200 --> 00:15:58,800 Speaker 1: at what point do I tell everybody that I'm getting 262 00:15:58,800 --> 00:16:02,760 Speaker 1: a divorce? Like when do I do this? Wow? Like 263 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:08,520 Speaker 1: we are at our worst, absolute face because truthfully, for us, 264 00:16:08,560 --> 00:16:11,440 Speaker 1: it was really about a power struggle. And we were 265 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 1: always kind of equals when we were together, and I 266 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:15,960 Speaker 1: rode horses and I was competitive, and I was all 267 00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:17,640 Speaker 1: of these things. And then all of a sudden I 268 00:16:17,640 --> 00:16:20,480 Speaker 1: couldn't get pregnant naturally, I did all these ivfs, and 269 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 1: then all of a sudden he was in charge of 270 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 1: our finances, and I had never been that. I'd never 271 00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 1: not had my own money I'd been working since I 272 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:31,360 Speaker 1: was seventeen, and then I just started hating him for everything, 273 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:33,320 Speaker 1: Like he would say, what are you doing today? And 274 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:36,680 Speaker 1: I would be like, I'm with our kids, and then 275 00:16:36,760 --> 00:16:38,680 Speaker 1: maybe I'm gonna have to get my nails done, Like 276 00:16:39,240 --> 00:16:43,520 Speaker 1: anything would freaking set me off. And it took us 277 00:16:43,760 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 1: like kind of seeing that. But then also it kind 278 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:49,920 Speaker 1: of gave me the confidence to go, Teddy, you can 279 00:16:49,960 --> 00:16:53,760 Speaker 1: get your life back. And then once I started loving 280 00:16:53,760 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 1: myself again, we could start loving each other again, because 281 00:16:57,360 --> 00:17:01,040 Speaker 1: when I don't love myself, don't love each other. What 282 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:03,600 Speaker 1: I'm hearing here is that you guys actually spent time 283 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:07,639 Speaker 1: working on your relationship irrelevant of what's going on around you, 284 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:10,320 Speaker 1: like the show, the celebrity, the money and all that. 285 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:14,720 Speaker 1: So it's the effort that you've set forth to stay 286 00:17:14,800 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 1: together so that you don't look like assholes on TV. Yeah, 287 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:19,600 Speaker 1: but I think that's the point. I mean, I think 288 00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:21,840 Speaker 1: so many of us are on a television show and 289 00:17:21,920 --> 00:17:25,760 Speaker 1: we do the best to be the influences to do whatever. 290 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:28,320 Speaker 1: But the truth is not one of us can sit 291 00:17:28,359 --> 00:17:30,520 Speaker 1: here and look at each other and go every year 292 00:17:30,640 --> 00:17:34,000 Speaker 1: our relationships are perfect. There hasn't been a time, like 293 00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:36,239 Speaker 1: if there hasn't been a time when you were on 294 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:39,359 Speaker 1: the show you felt like your relationship was at its 295 00:17:39,440 --> 00:17:42,800 Speaker 1: worse my first two seasons. I felt like our relationship 296 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:45,680 Speaker 1: was at its worse my first two seasons. Our relationship 297 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:52,920 Speaker 1: and honestly makes me right, it really does. Why it 298 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:56,120 Speaker 1: just breaks my heart the two seasons that you were 299 00:17:56,160 --> 00:17:59,520 Speaker 1: on the show that you felt like your relationship was 300 00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:02,440 Speaker 1: at worse. Why. I can tell you that first year, 301 00:18:03,520 --> 00:18:05,639 Speaker 1: I can say my first season, all I thought was, 302 00:18:06,119 --> 00:18:09,960 Speaker 1: thank god I have this show because when we break up, 303 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:11,760 Speaker 1: but I'll have something I don't even know what I 304 00:18:12,119 --> 00:18:16,760 Speaker 1: know break because you did that with Simon. Yeah, so 305 00:18:16,760 --> 00:18:19,919 Speaker 1: so my thought was we can get through the first season. 306 00:18:20,040 --> 00:18:23,280 Speaker 1: She's gonna have a good purpose. And I'm out, well, 307 00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:26,679 Speaker 1: why but why it was your relationship so bad? It 308 00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:29,960 Speaker 1: wasn't bad, it was me. It was I had had 309 00:18:30,160 --> 00:18:33,880 Speaker 1: what was your goggles? It's just sometimes the adversary attack attacks. 310 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 1: Even now I look at like, what the hell was 311 00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 1: I thinking? Like I was ready terrible. I was I 312 00:18:39,320 --> 00:18:44,240 Speaker 1: was ready to live to leave everything. Why no, just 313 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:47,239 Speaker 1: you don't see like now I see and I'm like, 314 00:18:47,280 --> 00:18:50,520 Speaker 1: what the budge was I thinking about? I have different 315 00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:55,320 Speaker 1: goggles now. It's just it's just um, yeah, sometimes you 316 00:18:55,440 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 1: just you. I'm not trying to be really, I think 317 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:00,920 Speaker 1: he always thought there was going to be something better. 318 00:19:02,359 --> 00:19:03,959 Speaker 1: So here it is, did you ever feel that way 319 00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:07,919 Speaker 1: that she would think there's something better or that you like, 320 00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:09,879 Speaker 1: did either of you guys ever think there's going to 321 00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 1: be something better? Now? I think. I think when you 322 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:15,520 Speaker 1: question your marriage, you always have the idea that there 323 00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:18,240 Speaker 1: could be something better. But I always I feel like 324 00:19:18,280 --> 00:19:21,560 Speaker 1: I always come back to reality and think that there's not. 325 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:24,760 Speaker 1: Because if Shane and I got divorced, I'm a forty 326 00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:26,920 Speaker 1: seven year old woman in Orange County with three kids. 327 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:28,600 Speaker 1: What am I going to do date someone in their 328 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:31,040 Speaker 1: forties or fifties who has an ex wife who has kids. 329 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:32,800 Speaker 1: All I'm gonna do is trade in a set of 330 00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:35,440 Speaker 1: problems for a whole new set of problems. That's how 331 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:38,879 Speaker 1: I feel. And at the end of the day, Shane's loyal, 332 00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:43,320 Speaker 1: he's never cheated on me, he's honest, he's a good dad. 333 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:45,760 Speaker 1: And so whatever problems that we have where I get 334 00:19:45,760 --> 00:19:47,720 Speaker 1: irritated with him or he gets irritated with me, or 335 00:19:47,760 --> 00:19:50,399 Speaker 1: we don't have sex and now or whatever like, I 336 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:52,160 Speaker 1: feel like those are things that we need to sit 337 00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:55,040 Speaker 1: down and talk about and work through because the alternative 338 00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:57,919 Speaker 1: is not much fucking better. It's not better, and it's 339 00:19:57,960 --> 00:20:01,159 Speaker 1: probably way worse and all, Like I said, like, what 340 00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:03,199 Speaker 1: am I going to do date someone else in Orange County? 341 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:05,200 Speaker 1: First of all, men in Orange County don't date women 342 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:07,239 Speaker 1: that are forty seven with three kids. Yeah, but then 343 00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:09,359 Speaker 1: you're but then you're kind Then you're kind of saying 344 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:12,680 Speaker 1: you're staying with me because there's not really much out there. No, 345 00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:15,480 Speaker 1: I know it. I know it sounds like that, but 346 00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:17,240 Speaker 1: that's not really it. I'm just saying when I get 347 00:20:17,240 --> 00:20:19,280 Speaker 1: in those really here saying the grass isn't really green 348 00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:22,120 Speaker 1: one and when I get in those heated moments where 349 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:24,879 Speaker 1: I think, well I could do better, I can do better. 350 00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:28,400 Speaker 1: I have an amazing husband. So then I ground myself, 351 00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:31,160 Speaker 1: come back to reality and think I have to be better. 352 00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:33,080 Speaker 1: I have to be a better wife, Tohm, I have 353 00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:35,680 Speaker 1: to do better. I have to do better for my children. Well, 354 00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:38,840 Speaker 1: here's here's my take on this. And this is actually 355 00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:41,040 Speaker 1: something that my wife learned taught me, you know, and 356 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:46,840 Speaker 1: in our relationship together. And that's that if you don't fight. 357 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:51,200 Speaker 1: If you don't have disagreements, if you don't um talk 358 00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:53,760 Speaker 1: and argue about things that are going on, you're not 359 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:57,320 Speaker 1: going to grow as couples. So whenever you, you know, 360 00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:59,399 Speaker 1: put it under the rug and you don't deal with 361 00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:02,160 Speaker 1: the issues, eventually it becomes a bigger problem. And then 362 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:05,439 Speaker 1: that's when relationships goes out. So the fact that you 363 00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:09,240 Speaker 1: work through the hard shit. We've worked through some hardships before, 364 00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:12,760 Speaker 1: which to my point, there's been a couple of times 365 00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:14,000 Speaker 1: where we got in a fight and I'm like, I'm 366 00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:16,560 Speaker 1: over this, and she's like, no, you're not. We're gonna 367 00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:18,840 Speaker 1: talk about this. We're gonna get through this. And she 368 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:23,320 Speaker 1: taught me that, and that has made our relationship even stronger. 369 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:26,320 Speaker 1: I'd love her even more for it, and I never 370 00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:28,480 Speaker 1: thought that was going to be a possibility. Like we 371 00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:31,639 Speaker 1: just keep getting stronger and closer together and and you know, 372 00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:34,640 Speaker 1: you we look forward to the future and whatever problem 373 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:37,200 Speaker 1: that crosses our path, we're able to handle it now 374 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:40,719 Speaker 1: because we've been through some shit in our Really, who hasn't, though, right, 375 00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:42,680 Speaker 1: But but I think that's for those of you guys 376 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:45,400 Speaker 1: listening that think like you're gonna wake up and every 377 00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:48,280 Speaker 1: day is perfect, and you're gonna have this, You're gonna 378 00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:52,640 Speaker 1: have this amazing relationship. I think here's here's really a marriage, 379 00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:55,760 Speaker 1: and you guys, stop me if I'm incorrect. Some days 380 00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:57,800 Speaker 1: you're going to be madly in love with your person 381 00:21:58,320 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 1: and you're going to have the best days them and 382 00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:02,760 Speaker 1: you're gonna have so much fun, and they're gonna bring 383 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:04,880 Speaker 1: up the best in you, and you're gonna bring out 384 00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:07,719 Speaker 1: the best in them, and life is good. And then 385 00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:10,520 Speaker 1: they're gonna be some days where they freaking breathe and 386 00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 1: you want them dead. But then you remember, like we 387 00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:19,120 Speaker 1: created this life together for a reason. I chose you. 388 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:22,400 Speaker 1: I chose you to be my person. And then if 389 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:24,919 Speaker 1: you have those moments where you say I chose you, 390 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:28,840 Speaker 1: then you fight for them. And that's what I always 391 00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:31,360 Speaker 1: tell him. Listen, I'm not perfect, You're not perfect. We're 392 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:34,840 Speaker 1: both assholes, we're both inconsiderate. Sometimes we both do whatever 393 00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:36,639 Speaker 1: it is that we're gonna do. But at the end 394 00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:38,439 Speaker 1: of the day, what my dad said to me, and 395 00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:40,879 Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not dropping my dad name, it's just 396 00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 1: he could be any dad. But he said, when you 397 00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:48,520 Speaker 1: look around your room at your family, how proud are you. Yeah, 398 00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:53,720 Speaker 1: he goes, you never got to have that. You never 399 00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:57,120 Speaker 1: got to look around your room and say, there's my mom, 400 00:22:57,200 --> 00:22:59,399 Speaker 1: there's my dad. That's true because I never had that 401 00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:01,480 Speaker 1: growing up. So there are so many times at night 402 00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:04,359 Speaker 1: where Shane he does legos with the kids, or he 403 00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:06,040 Speaker 1: plays chess with the kids before they go to bed, 404 00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:09,639 Speaker 1: and I'll sit on the couch and it makes me 405 00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:11,879 Speaker 1: so emotional because I never had that growing up. I 406 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 1: never had a mom and a dad. How does that? 407 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:16,960 Speaker 1: At the same time, it's amazing, And yeah, there was 408 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,680 Speaker 1: a point though, you would be mad at me for that. Yeah, 409 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:22,840 Speaker 1: like you maybe you didn't know it, but you were 410 00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 1: jealous or mad or that wasn't fair. And then I 411 00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:29,280 Speaker 1: get I get heat for it. Yeah, and I would 412 00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:31,800 Speaker 1: admit to that because I think it's very difficult to 413 00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:34,159 Speaker 1: I think it's difficult to have a blended family, and 414 00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:37,160 Speaker 1: we have a blended family, so it's it's not just 415 00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:40,080 Speaker 1: a traditional family. So there are times when I feel 416 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:43,240 Speaker 1: jealous when I couldn't have children, when he spent time 417 00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:45,360 Speaker 1: with his children. I mean, that's a whole other conversation. 418 00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:47,359 Speaker 1: We talk about that for hours and hours, But some 419 00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:50,119 Speaker 1: of those other valid I understand, but that that was 420 00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:52,159 Speaker 1: what we had to go. Shane has always been an 421 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:54,159 Speaker 1: amazing dad. Yeah, and he has. And that was one 422 00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:57,000 Speaker 1: of the reasons why I married him because we didn't 423 00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:59,320 Speaker 1: we didn't date or really anything, but I knew he 424 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:01,720 Speaker 1: was a good dad. And so I didn't have a 425 00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:03,280 Speaker 1: dad growing up, and I didn't have a dad that 426 00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 1: was present. I didn't have a dad that was in 427 00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:08,399 Speaker 1: the home. So I really, you know, committed to Shane 428 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:10,399 Speaker 1: because I thought, I'm going to provide my children with 429 00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:12,000 Speaker 1: a better life than I had. And I think as 430 00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:14,520 Speaker 1: parents that's our number one goal. We're just always working 431 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:18,639 Speaker 1: towards giving our children better than what we have. And 432 00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:21,560 Speaker 1: I knew with Shane that they were always going to 433 00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 1: have a better life than what I had growing up. 434 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:27,240 Speaker 1: And before we get back into shit talking, something that 435 00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:31,520 Speaker 1: somebody said to me that's always resonated, does this person 436 00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 1: make you more happy than they make you sad? And 437 00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:38,200 Speaker 1: and that's a point what I think about, like does 438 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:41,080 Speaker 1: this person make me more miserable than they make me happy. 439 00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:44,000 Speaker 1: If that's the case, then maybe this isn't something to 440 00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:46,159 Speaker 1: fight for. But if you can look at it and 441 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:49,159 Speaker 1: you're like, listen, this person makes me just as happy 442 00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:52,840 Speaker 1: as they make me sad. Then it's about internal work 443 00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:55,240 Speaker 1: and figuring out what works for you, and which is 444 00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:57,720 Speaker 1: why we have to play our next game before we 445 00:24:57,760 --> 00:25:03,399 Speaker 1: get I would say, anytime you're trying to build some 446 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:07,800 Speaker 1: great whether it's a business, whether it's a relationship, you're 447 00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:10,399 Speaker 1: gonna want to quit. If you don't want to quit, 448 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:14,600 Speaker 1: you're not trying to build some great Yeah, that's right, right, right, right, 449 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:18,400 Speaker 1: right right. Relationship, business, it's no different, no different. There's 450 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:20,119 Speaker 1: one more thing I wanted to say about this, and 451 00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:22,400 Speaker 1: it dawned on me earlier when you were talking about 452 00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:26,720 Speaker 1: how the show major relationship stronger and you came out 453 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:30,159 Speaker 1: of it. Um. I think the most of this is 454 00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:33,080 Speaker 1: just my opinion, but the common denominator is is that Shane, 455 00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:36,840 Speaker 1: myself and even ted or ed Um I call you 456 00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:44,560 Speaker 1: Teddy because Instagram and I finally have my own because 457 00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:47,840 Speaker 1: the season one. So yeah, do the math. What I 458 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:51,800 Speaker 1: wanted to say is that, Um, we didn't get involved 459 00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:53,720 Speaker 1: in the drama. We didn't get involved in the show. 460 00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:57,119 Speaker 1: We didn't become part of the fabricated or the real 461 00:25:57,240 --> 00:26:00,760 Speaker 1: drama that was going on. And I think that's where 462 00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:03,520 Speaker 1: it made sense for us, like, this is theirs job, 463 00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:06,399 Speaker 1: this is what they do. Let him get crazy, let 464 00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:09,399 Speaker 1: him get stupid, let him get naked. Um, you know, 465 00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:12,320 Speaker 1: hold on, I heard Tam getting gets naked again this 466 00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:19,440 Speaker 1: season every season. Just Tequila, what you've been hanging out 467 00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:23,880 Speaker 1: with her? To them, I might have worn a Scrappla's 468 00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:30,199 Speaker 1: bathing suit. Yeah again, it's it's I don't want to 469 00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:35,280 Speaker 1: stop you from you know, uh, being who you are, 470 00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:38,560 Speaker 1: being what you want to be, and just exploring what 471 00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:41,000 Speaker 1: you can be. So I never want to stop you 472 00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:43,480 Speaker 1: from doing any of that. And yet we've talked about 473 00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:45,480 Speaker 1: you getting naked on the show, and it does bother me, 474 00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:48,520 Speaker 1: but it does the day. Yeah, Um, I respect you 475 00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:52,880 Speaker 1: and I love you, and I know you're doing it show. 476 00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,040 Speaker 1: I know you're not doing it for attention. I know 477 00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:57,000 Speaker 1: you're not doing it to get some guy, you know, 478 00:26:57,040 --> 00:27:00,439 Speaker 1: to give you his number to. I know she's the 479 00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:04,960 Speaker 1: most fun, but so is Emily. Like there is a 480 00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:07,320 Speaker 1: big difference. There is a big difference between him not 481 00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:11,800 Speaker 1: liking something and controlling you. You know, he doesn't like it, 482 00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:15,240 Speaker 1: so elaborate, but he's not controlling you. What I'm just saying, 483 00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:16,919 Speaker 1: He's not controlling you and telling you what to do 484 00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:18,359 Speaker 1: and what notot based on what he just told me. 485 00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:20,959 Speaker 1: He's also not saying you can't talk to this person 486 00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:23,160 Speaker 1: or be around this person. That's when you start seeing 487 00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:27,080 Speaker 1: narcissistic behavior, right, Like I would say, Shane's pretty similar too, 488 00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:28,560 Speaker 1: Like he'll tell me, like, I don't like it when 489 00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:30,000 Speaker 1: you drink a lot and act like that. But he's 490 00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:33,440 Speaker 1: never told me don't hurry, don't act like this, don't 491 00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:36,760 Speaker 1: act a certain way. He'll just say, well, I wish 492 00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:39,520 Speaker 1: you didn't do that or whatever. But yeah, in the hindsight, 493 00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:42,879 Speaker 1: this was versus Emily, don't do this, don't do that. 494 00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:56,639 Speaker 1: You're not allowed to do this. Guys, everybody get your 495 00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:59,920 Speaker 1: signs because we're gonna play one game of agree or disagree. 496 00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:04,040 Speaker 1: Do you understand these two words? Funny? Yes? Okay, all right, 497 00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:09,160 Speaker 1: So the first one is your wife wears the pants 498 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:12,960 Speaker 1: and the relationship. Do you agree or disagree what your 499 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:16,120 Speaker 1: wife wears the pants in the relationship? Do you think 500 00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:20,120 Speaker 1: you wear the pants in the relationship. It's not even 501 00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:23,160 Speaker 1: like say it, say it when you okay, hold it up, 502 00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:25,399 Speaker 1: hold it up. Your wife holds the pants in the 503 00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:27,760 Speaker 1: relations Say it when you hold it up. I disagree, 504 00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:35,000 Speaker 1: y'all are living and freaking denough crazy? Really? Uh, it's 505 00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:37,119 Speaker 1: okay to have sex when the kids are awake in 506 00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:39,720 Speaker 1: the house. Agree or disagree? Oh my god, we do 507 00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:43,560 Speaker 1: that all the time. What if it's not okay but 508 00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:46,160 Speaker 1: we do it? What do you mean you think we 509 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:48,520 Speaker 1: have sex only when the kids are asleep? No, I'm 510 00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:51,000 Speaker 1: freaked out if we're having sex, I know, but answer 511 00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:56,320 Speaker 1: what we actually do? What is the questions when the 512 00:28:56,400 --> 00:29:01,840 Speaker 1: kids are away? Put some music on? Okay? No, all right, 513 00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:04,040 Speaker 1: Eddie wants to do He doesn't want to have sex 514 00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:07,160 Speaker 1: in the house when the kids are there. He thinks 515 00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:11,040 Speaker 1: they're hearing it. There, you're gonna walk in on us. Yeah, 516 00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:13,680 Speaker 1: he's very worried about that. Shane's not worried at all. 517 00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:19,440 Speaker 1: The shames it beggars can't be choosers. Take what I 518 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:23,160 Speaker 1: can get. You initiate sex more than you're a partner. 519 00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:35,680 Speaker 1: You either agree or disagree on this lately? Yes? Wait? Wait? Really? Okay? 520 00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:40,320 Speaker 1: Oh fine, okay? You should have your partner's passwords to 521 00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:43,400 Speaker 1: their phone and their social I don't want your passwords. 522 00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:49,560 Speaker 1: Oh really, do you agree you can have anything? I 523 00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:51,680 Speaker 1: think you should have access, but that doesn't mean any 524 00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:54,320 Speaker 1: go through it. And Scrutiny has never asked me. But 525 00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:58,760 Speaker 1: I would give it to right now, you would get it. Right. 526 00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:01,320 Speaker 1: What if he said, can I see your phone right now? 527 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:04,600 Speaker 1: You'd get it? Yeah, there's nothing If if he wouldn't 528 00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:06,880 Speaker 1: give me his phone when I asked, I would fucking 529 00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:10,160 Speaker 1: lose my gord. Yeah, but I don't How often do 530 00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:12,520 Speaker 1: I ask? Never? You used to all the time. I 531 00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:15,520 Speaker 1: used to all the time for Emily too, And now 532 00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:18,760 Speaker 1: I realized no, because I was probably concerned about what 533 00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:20,760 Speaker 1: she was thinking and what she was doing, and she 534 00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:24,680 Speaker 1: was confusing. And how long ago, well like five years ago, 535 00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:31,400 Speaker 1: six seven years afore she got on the show. No time, Yeah, beginning. Now, 536 00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:33,280 Speaker 1: I don't want to know what's on her phone. That's 537 00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:36,280 Speaker 1: her space. But yeah, I asked her, you know, like 538 00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:39,080 Speaker 1: everything she does is gonna be nothing you could do. Okay, 539 00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:43,000 Speaker 1: Next one, it's okay to track your partner's location on 540 00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:46,960 Speaker 1: their phone. You better say, are because I have access 541 00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:51,760 Speaker 1: to her? I okay, Well I track you? So sorry? Okay. 542 00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:54,600 Speaker 1: So Eddie's the only one who disagrees with that. But 543 00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:57,880 Speaker 1: there's no reason there is track. The only time I 544 00:30:57,960 --> 00:30:59,760 Speaker 1: have you tracked me is when I'm riding my bike 545 00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:01,560 Speaker 1: by myself, and I send you a link so you 546 00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:03,400 Speaker 1: can see where on that. But the question was, was 547 00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:07,440 Speaker 1: it okay not? Should you do it all the time? Okay, fine, 548 00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:11,000 Speaker 1: we're gonna make things a little lighter, are you Okay, 549 00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:14,320 Speaker 1: it's okay. If your wife parts in front of you, 550 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:23,600 Speaker 1: he's gonna say, disagree, agree, Yeah. Is like he's like, 551 00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:27,800 Speaker 1: I always peep at the bathroom door. Shut the door. 552 00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:31,640 Speaker 1: I don't need to see PI shit. I far wait 553 00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:37,960 Speaker 1: till I turn eighty, my husband, Do you guys think 554 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:41,200 Speaker 1: that your wife throwing wine on somebody's face is taking 555 00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:44,560 Speaker 1: it too far? Or it's okay, it's a show too far? 556 00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:49,560 Speaker 1: Is that answering too far? Yeah? You know, okay, fine, wine, 557 00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:54,720 Speaker 1: it happens. Okay. You think that you have the right 558 00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:56,880 Speaker 1: amount of kids right now? Or you should have more? 559 00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:01,400 Speaker 1: I mean I kind of to mout, I kind of 560 00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:03,640 Speaker 1: wish that Ed and I had a kid together. We 561 00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:06,360 Speaker 1: did it was a robot and you killed it. Okay, 562 00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:09,920 Speaker 1: you agree or disagree disagree? Did the show make your 563 00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:14,360 Speaker 1: marriage better or worse? That's a hard one because I 564 00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:16,920 Speaker 1: that's all I know with my I don't think it 565 00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:19,840 Speaker 1: did anything for me, but Emily does. I do. I 566 00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:22,120 Speaker 1: think I said you do. I just don't. Sorry, Eddie, 567 00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:25,640 Speaker 1: I too, Okay, agree or disagreed? You have better hygiene 568 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:34,880 Speaker 1: than your partner, honestly, I will fucking Eddie has better hydraine, hydraine, 569 00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:39,760 Speaker 1: a better hydraine. I'm very happy Emily looks better than me. 570 00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:44,040 Speaker 1: But I agree. Eddie's already like brushing his teeth and 571 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:47,520 Speaker 1: flossing his balls and all that his ball. Yeah, he 572 00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:52,400 Speaker 1: flosses his ball. What is your thought on house husband's 573 00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:58,880 Speaker 1: going on trips? Do you agree or disagreeps? Well, our 574 00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:04,080 Speaker 1: husbands are Yeah, I don't think anyone wants. Okay, so 575 00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,600 Speaker 1: we're gonna end over over a couple of small things. 576 00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:09,040 Speaker 1: We're gonna do mary fuck kill just the group of us. 577 00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:12,520 Speaker 1: It'll never go any further. Yeah, I just reported on 578 00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:20,360 Speaker 1: a podcast, but nobody no. Shane, shit, calm your tits, 579 00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:25,960 Speaker 1: all right, calm your calls, Shane. Okay, these are your choices, Shane, Okay, 580 00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:33,680 Speaker 1: we're happening is happening now, so your new options are Um, Gina, 581 00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:41,520 Speaker 1: I actually hate even saying her best friends me off. Okay, Gina, Tamera, 582 00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:50,760 Speaker 1: fuck you or Noela. Oh Mary, fuck kill h Mary Futi, 583 00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:57,400 Speaker 1: I would Mary Tamera. Yeah, it's a good Then I 584 00:33:57,440 --> 00:34:02,560 Speaker 1: would kill Noela and I would screw Gina. Yeah. I 585 00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:06,160 Speaker 1: think that's a good choice. Okay, So Eddie, your choices are. 586 00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:07,960 Speaker 1: We're going to take you over to Beverly Hills. Now 587 00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:13,840 Speaker 1: you don't you don't know, Kyle, that's okay, all right, 588 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:15,880 Speaker 1: So then we're gonna all then I'm gonna take it. 589 00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:17,800 Speaker 1: Then I'll take it back. I'll take it to girls 590 00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:21,640 Speaker 1: try for you. You've got Taylor Armstrong, okay, You've got 591 00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:27,200 Speaker 1: Vicki gun Wilson, and you've got Shannon Badoor. Okay, so 592 00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:32,399 Speaker 1: go I kill all of them. Saved me from having 593 00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:36,440 Speaker 1: to shag Marriam. No, you don't get that. Be ready, 594 00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:40,640 Speaker 1: come on? No, okay, kill for Vicky, Um shag what 595 00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:44,760 Speaker 1: was the first one? Taylor? Shannon and and Mary Shannon? 596 00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:50,359 Speaker 1: You'd marry Shan? Yeah? Shag Taylor? Okay, yours Edwin are 597 00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:54,160 Speaker 1: I only know the Beverly Hills will find them? Look 598 00:34:54,200 --> 00:35:02,320 Speaker 1: up the pretty mask. She stepped up her game, okay, Erica, Jane, 599 00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:07,040 Speaker 1: Lisa Arenna and Tarmra Judge. So my favorite was the 600 00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:18,319 Speaker 1: red No Okay, I'm trying to No, no, we're not. 601 00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:23,759 Speaker 1: We're giving you three offs. Okay, yeah, let's start over. 602 00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:26,240 Speaker 1: I ten you to detail. It's not fucking on point. 603 00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:30,280 Speaker 1: Start over. What's the question? Erica Jane Okay, Lisa Arenna 604 00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:34,520 Speaker 1: and Tarmra Judge okay, So okay, Mary, all right, I 605 00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:37,480 Speaker 1: got oh. I thought it was just who's hot? No, Edwin, 606 00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:40,759 Speaker 1: we were running out of time. I don't want to 607 00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:45,359 Speaker 1: kill any Mary. It doesn't matter. He's a humanitarian. I'm 608 00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:49,120 Speaker 1: actually gonna kill you after this interview. It'll be it'll 609 00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:53,279 Speaker 1: be a damn the easy way. Um. Lisa Arenna, I 610 00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:57,759 Speaker 1: had a crush on when she was when I was younger. Sherry, 611 00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:00,880 Speaker 1: she's married or fuck? This is a new question for 612 00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:04,920 Speaker 1: most people. Very fun. We'll start with who I can fun. 613 00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:13,560 Speaker 1: That's of course you're right now. Thank you for joining 614 00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:16,240 Speaker 1: us for another episode of Two Teas in a Pot 615 00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:20,439 Speaker 1: and that's a rapid We'll see you Tuesday. We'll talk 616 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:22,120 Speaker 1: about growth trap. Oh my god.