Speaker 1: The second d D what's the wildest thing that you've
Speaker 1: ever done on a first date? He first date? I know?
Speaker 1: For me, craziest first date was back in twenty sixteen
Speaker 1: when me and the mystery person did something I'll never forget.
Speaker 1: Dessert first. You dessert before the entrees, even before the appetizers, like, sir,
Speaker 1: you do know we haven't served? Yeah, I was almost
Speaker 1: kicked out. I'm that much of a wild car. I
Speaker 1: love that is playing this up for Someone else who
Speaker 1: throws caution to the wind is Emily, who emailed us
Speaker 1: for help. Well, she says she can't believe what she
Speaker 1: did on night one of meeting this guy. So let's
Speaker 1: talk to her about it. Emily, how you doing good? Good?
Speaker 1: How are you? Are you a real rebel like Jeffrey?
Speaker 1: You're saying, Okay, I get it. Yeah, who'd you go
Speaker 1: out with? Where do you mean him? Okay? So before
Speaker 1: I tell you what I did. He's really hot and
Speaker 1: haul he has tattoos on his forearm, and like I
Speaker 1: noticed him light away because we just had like this
Speaker 1: instant chemistry going on to like twenty minutes. Where were you? Where? Wait?
Speaker 1: Where were you? I met him at a bar okay,
Speaker 1: and does he have a name or yeah, his name's Jason, Okay. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So it sounds like Jason was so sexy that he
Speaker 1: brought the wildness out of you. I think, so nice.
Speaker 1: That is always a good thing if you can do
Speaker 1: that to it. Yeah, I have a feeling that things
Speaker 1: went pretty quickly if you're counting the twenty minutes of
Speaker 1: eye contact you made prior to Yeah, what happened with
Speaker 1: you and Jason? So? Well, Like, I'm just at the
Speaker 1: bar and I decide to approach him, Yeah, okay, nice?
Speaker 1: What'd you say? What was your line? And I was like, Hi,
Speaker 1: I've never met someone so hot and tall at the
Speaker 1: same time, hoping there's going to be some sort of
Speaker 1: smooth line delivery, but you just went with brutal, awkward honesty.
Speaker 1: And what happened? So we were just hanging out, like
Speaker 1: we're having a great time, and I go ahead and
Speaker 1: I was like, would you like to come home with me?
Speaker 1: After one drink? I was like, would you like to
Speaker 1: continue like having more drinks at my place? Are you
Speaker 1: sure you're not playing too hard to get here? And
Speaker 1: what did Jason say to that? So he agreed? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Did he stay the night. He actually stayed the entire weekend?
Speaker 1: What that too? Without permission? Yeah, leave would at least,
Speaker 1: but I didn't mind it of course. Okay, I have
Speaker 1: also hooked up with someone who is maybe in between houses.
Speaker 1: Do you think that? I mean a whole weekend? Nob? Oh,
Speaker 1: come on, he's too hot to be homeless? Yeah. I
Speaker 1: thought a TV series that we titled this one Too
Speaker 1: Hot to be home? Right? That one down? Okay, Now
Speaker 1: tell us how so how did your weekend long date
Speaker 1: with Jason end? So he didn't leave until Monday morning?
Speaker 1: What was it like? I mean, at that point you
Speaker 1: actually are really getting to know this guy. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: it was comfortable. It was an awkward wasn't weird? But
Speaker 1: that's always good. Yeah, you vibe and we need it.
Speaker 1: But I feel like we can do anything. So after
Speaker 1: he left Monday morning, have you tried to get in
Speaker 1: touch with him? What's happened since then? So she's left
Speaker 1: and she hasn't really been talking to me much, like
Speaker 1: maybe once or twice, and it's just like really dry,
Speaker 1: like he needs to hydrate after the weekend long experience. No,
Speaker 1: just I know what you mean. It's not the same.
Speaker 1: You don't feel the same who stays a weekend and
Speaker 1: then does that right. It's like because at first I'd
Speaker 1: be like, well, you had a one night stand and
Speaker 1: that's why this guy isn't calling you. But is there
Speaker 1: anything that you see, Emily that you think may have
Speaker 1: gone wrong or may have been a red flag? Yeah,
Speaker 1: so it's tell me that he was divorced. Oh are
Speaker 1: you thinking maybe he's not actually divorced, he's still married. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't know, because I have friends that have been
Speaker 1: with guys that said they were divorced, but then later
Speaker 1: found out that he was still married. You know. I
Speaker 1: had a friend who but then he would be like, well,
Speaker 1: it's not fine. Were separated. I mean we still live
Speaker 1: together and you know, have a shared bank account. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Just normally I wouldn't make predictions Emily on this, but
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go ahead and guess that he's currently
Speaker 1: hiding out in your crawl space as we speak, that
Speaker 1: he just hasn't left. Yeah, you know what, I could
Speaker 1: be wrong. That's why we're gonna play a song We'll
Speaker 1: come back, We'll call him run. We're gonna do it
Speaker 1: right after this second date. You're in the middle of
Speaker 1: a second date. Update, Update, We're gonna find out how
Speaker 1: the couple is doing right after you here Part two.
Speaker 1: You've heard of seven minutes in Heaven. Yeah, our listener,
Speaker 1: Emily says, that's child's play. Well, I do three whole
Speaker 1: days try and get me to come out. Yeah, because
Speaker 1: she met a guy named Jason at a bar, ended
Speaker 1: up taking him home within the first hour of meeting,
Speaker 1: and then he stayed the whole weekend. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: at her place, watching movies and doing other stuff. I'm
Speaker 1: sure what a great weekend. They had a great time.
Speaker 1: But after that, Jason seems to be avoiding her calls
Speaker 1: and her text messages and she doesn't know why. No, Emily,
Speaker 1: is there anything incriminating that you haven't told us yet,
Speaker 1: Like you didn't stalk him at his work or dress
Speaker 1: up like his mom and show up at a family
Speaker 1: get together. O. No, it shot doesn't work. I don't
Speaker 1: think this is on, Emily, Like, I think you're right
Speaker 1: on something. Like he said he's divorced. There's some sort
Speaker 1: of secret he's hiding that he doesn't want to reveal.
Speaker 1: Like I hate to say it, but it sounds like
Speaker 1: he had like a kid free weekend and was like weekend.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, Like if I find out that he's
Speaker 1: married and has kids, like, it's just gonna break my heart.
Speaker 1: I want to have kids with him. Deep breath. All right,
Speaker 1: there's a lot of pressure on this phone call right now,
Speaker 1: but let's just out this number right now, right, all right,
Speaker 1: I'll be right here in the corner. Okay, put yourself
Speaker 1: in the corner for a second. Why don't we all
Speaker 1: just look into the corner of the Yeah, just just
Speaker 1: make sure you don't say anything until I call you in.
Speaker 1: All right, here we go. Hello. Hey, um, is this
Speaker 1: Jason speaking? Just tall, sexy Jason with tattoos? Who is it? Sorry?
Speaker 1: My name is jeff I work on a radio show
Speaker 1: called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. What hey, Jason?
Speaker 1: What Hi? Why are you guys calling me? How did
Speaker 1: you get my number? We got a number from a
Speaker 1: girl who listens to our show that met you recently
Speaker 1: and she's been trying to get a hold of you.
Speaker 1: I'm not really sure what this is about right now.
Speaker 1: What is this? Well? This is this is a segment
Speaker 1: that we do called a second Date Update, and it's
Speaker 1: where we help our listeners get in touch with people
Speaker 1: after they've been on a date together, and you guys
Speaker 1: did a lot more than just a date, like a
Speaker 1: whole weekend. We're talking about a girl named Emily. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I remember that girl, but I would hope. So why
Speaker 1: why are we on the phone? Because she told us
Speaker 1: you guys met at a bar and hung out the
Speaker 1: whole weekend together. But after that, she's been trying to
Speaker 1: text you when you're not responding at all, and she's
Speaker 1: a little bit confused on what's going on. Listen, I
Speaker 1: didn't really ask for any of this to happen. I
Speaker 1: had a fun weekend with the girl, but I just
Speaker 1: moved into this city. I'm not really used to all
Speaker 1: this big attention like this, you know, Okay, I don't
Speaker 1: know that this has anything to do with the city.
Speaker 1: I think it, you know. I mean, she had a
Speaker 1: great time with you. You could understand, like, yeah, if
Speaker 1: it was a one night thing, I think she would
Speaker 1: have just chalked it up is just that. But you
Speaker 1: guys spent a lot of time together. You didn't leave
Speaker 1: till Monday morning, she said. I mean, look, when she
Speaker 1: asked me, I was surprised for sure to come back
Speaker 1: with her to the house. And then it turned into
Speaker 1: the weekend. I'm not really good at saying no to people,
Speaker 1: particularly the girls. I don't have too much experience with
Speaker 1: that type of stuff, so I just wasn't really sure
Speaker 1: what to do. What are you talking about? I feel
Speaker 1: like you're putting on this like country bumpkin stick thing, like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I came from a tiny town, doesn't even have a stoplight.
Speaker 1: I can handle myself. Okay, why haven't you slept with
Speaker 1: four hundred people like a real country person. It doesn't
Speaker 1: make sense. Like you're saying that you just didn't leave
Speaker 1: because you couldn't tell her that you wanted to go
Speaker 1: the bro Well, you know, I just wasn't really sure
Speaker 1: how to get out of there. You know, even at
Speaker 1: one point Saturday night, I think it was I told
Speaker 1: her I really needed to leave, but she just kept
Speaker 1: asking to watch movie after movie after movie. We watch
Speaker 1: so many musicals that weekend. I don't even like to wait.
Speaker 1: So you didn't want to stay with her for the weekend.
Speaker 1: I did like her. I did want to spend time
Speaker 1: with her, but I didn't know when or how necessarily
Speaker 1: to say no. Had I actually feel bad for you now? Okay?
Speaker 1: But I do so, But you haven't talked to her
Speaker 1: at all since you guys last saw each other on
Speaker 1: a little Monday. Well, we texted a little bit, but
Speaker 1: I don't really want to talk to her on the
Speaker 1: phone because I'm scared she's just gonna get me back
Speaker 1: into something again, into another weekend long day. There's Harry
Speaker 1: Potter marathon that's at least three days. Yeah, I'm actually
Speaker 1: worried about him in the city now, Like yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 1: It was the first bar that I went into since
Speaker 1: I moved here, and it crossed me to go home
Speaker 1: with her. I wasn't sure what to do those You
Speaker 1: should go to the bars more often. But before we
Speaker 1: can get you there, I do have to let you
Speaker 1: know some news that's probably gonna scare you a little bit.
Speaker 1: But uh, actually Emily's on the other line listening right now,
Speaker 1: and she's ready to talk to you. Oh boy, Yeah,
Speaker 1: Emily there are you? Are you still being tall and cute? Um? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm okay. How are you? I'm good? Um? I
Speaker 1: was just worried you haven't been talking to me much. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's I'm sorry about that. I've been a little busy,
Speaker 1: you know, with moving in and hearing everything. So, oh,
Speaker 1: do you need a hand with that? Now you're trying
Speaker 1: to take advantage of the poor boy he can't say no, Jason,
Speaker 1: do you need a hand? Yeah? I guess I could
Speaker 1: use some help. No, Jason, I'm uncomfortable. Is there like
Speaker 1: a surgery where we can in sort of backbone into Jason?
Speaker 1: I'm worry, Jason. I'm really worried for you, dude, if
Speaker 1: you can't say no to anything? Do you accept phone
Speaker 1: calls from people that are like, hey, would you like
Speaker 1: to sign up for a monthly subscription to like random services?
Speaker 1: Do you say yes? Oh? Listen where I'm Where I'm from,
Speaker 1: people are generally just, I guess a little bit more
Speaker 1: polite with each other and talking everybody and everything. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and start with all due respect. It sounds like some
Speaker 1: of the women that listen to your show are a
Speaker 1: little loose that you know, my mama told me about that.
Speaker 1: What did you step out of women who listen? But
Speaker 1: the women who work on the show, that's for sure. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. That's the guy who went home with a
Speaker 1: person an hour into meeting them and spend all weekends
Speaker 1: like I mean, I'm going pot and kettle here. That's true,
Speaker 1: sounds a little bit a bunch of flues. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: couldn't say no. I already told you that you didn't
Speaker 1: want to. Emily. It sounds like he's not necessarily ready
Speaker 1: to go out on another date with you. Not that
Speaker 1: he's not interested, he just needs a little time. I mean,
Speaker 1: let's know what I'm hearing. I'm hearing somebody that wants
Speaker 1: to hang out just try. Wow, this this whole city
Speaker 1: thing is crazy to me. You guys are talking, so
Speaker 1: this is all going so fast. This is a whole
Speaker 1: lot on a sexual talk and all these terms and
Speaker 1: nonsense here. Yeah, it's just like the show Sex in
Speaker 1: the City. That is true. What's happening right now, And
Speaker 1: except those ladies are like eighty Yeah, you're not far
Speaker 1: off and in keeping with the speed of what's going on, Jason,
Speaker 1: we would like to send you out on another date
Speaker 1: with Emily and we'll pay for it. Only say yes
Speaker 1: if you actually want to. Jason's right, Well, you know,
Speaker 1: I don't want to be ruini. If she see so
Speaker 1: much in me, you know, maybe I could give it
Speaker 1: another go. It's this is a lot right now. But okay, Emily,
Speaker 1: what's your reaction to hearing that. I mean, obviously I
Speaker 1: want to spend more time with him, and I think
Speaker 1: it's kind of fun that you can't say no to me.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Emily, you're listen. You're a nice girl and everything,
Speaker 1: but maybe we could take things a little bit smaller
Speaker 1: than we have been. If any couple needs a safe word,
Speaker 1: it's a solid yes from Emily, no matter what he says.
Speaker 1: All right, well, thank you very much then, guys. You
Speaker 1: know I'm new here, but sounds like you have a
Speaker 1: good show. You're generous people, so thank you. Yea and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning. All right, it's been a few months,
Speaker 1: but now Emily and Jason are both back to tell
Speaker 1: us what's been going on in their wild City lives.
Speaker 1: Oh man, I got it, just crazy. Welcome back to
Speaker 1: the show. Guys. How you been Oh you know you
Speaker 1: guys doing We're good. I'm worried that you're captive right now.
Speaker 1: Sounds like you guys are still together. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: it's it's been good. We've been going exclusively out of
Speaker 1: for the last couple of months here. You know, Emily,
Speaker 1: how's that going for you? Emily? What I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: not complaining, He's cute and I do whatever I want
Speaker 1: and he just kind of goes with it. No, woman's relationship.
Speaker 1: I mean, are you worried that that will get old? Oh?
Speaker 1: Of course. I mean obviously we realized you have a
Speaker 1: hard time saying no, So we've been working on like
Speaker 1: having some boundary. Okay, oh really yeah, so I actually,
Speaker 1: you know, I've been waiting to brag about this a
Speaker 1: little bit. Here. The other night, you know, we Emily
Speaker 1: wanted to go out and get enchiladas, but I wasn't
Speaker 1: in the mood, so I actually, you know, I said, no,
Speaker 1: we did not go out and get that Mexican food. Emily,
Speaker 1: did you make him sleep on the couch after that?
Speaker 1: That's really good. It sounds like you, guys are you
Speaker 1: know you're helping him and it's working in your relationship. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and well you know there is the other time too.
Speaker 1: She the other week, we wanted to go see a
Speaker 1: movie and I thought it might be a little bit
Speaker 1: too scary for me, so yeah, I suggested the Minions instead.
Speaker 1: We went and spot Good. That one not quite as Emily. Look,
Speaker 1: they've created a monster here. Yeah. I'm so proud of him.
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, baby steps and and he's doing
Speaker 1: well so far. Okay, like you have an actual baby
Speaker 1: that you're teaching. That's it's nice. I wouldn't give him toddler.
Speaker 1: Toddlers though, are pretty good at saying no. So oh yeah,
Speaker 1: it's been good. She's been good for me. She's been
Speaker 1: helping me get out my comfort zone, especially in the city.
Speaker 1: That's really sweet to see, like jumping off of curbs
Speaker 1: like I'm scared of cars. Yeah. But Jason, would you
Speaker 1: like to as a thank you, donate a couple thousand
Speaker 1: dollars to the rook and Jeffrey in the Morning Foundation.
Speaker 1: Oh um uh yeah. We still have some work to
Speaker 1: do family, but best of luck you two, and keep
Speaker 1: us updated on how your relationship goes. All right, Okay,
Speaker 1: good to talk to you guys. Music jeff Morning