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Speaker 1: It is time now to ask the CLO. This is

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Speaker 1: from Andrea and Troy. Andrea says, there is an open

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Speaker 1: field near our house. It used to be the practice

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Speaker 1: field for a football team. My husband goes there and

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Speaker 1: sits on the old bleachers for hours.

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Speaker 2: He said.

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Speaker 1: He goes there to think, does this sound normal? Should

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Speaker 1: I be worried about him?

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Speaker 3: No, he's going there to think, Yeah, men do that?

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Speaker 4: You think? I think?

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Speaker 3: When you do, though, it's just ask your husband and

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Speaker 3: say he thinks you can help him with as he

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Speaker 3: will to talk about it. Because because a lot of

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Speaker 3: the time men are taught to be Brazilian hold your

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Speaker 3: head up, man up and me and men.

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Speaker 4: Go through a lot.

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Speaker 3: And so if I were you out telling him how

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Speaker 3: much you appreciate him, and ask him if you could

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Speaker 3: help with anything, but let him have that time over

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Speaker 3: there on then bleed.

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Speaker 2: I think it's for hours. That's bothering her?

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Speaker 3: Right, Well, you don't as long as you don't go

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Speaker 3: over there and sit down there with him.

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Speaker 4: That's not what he had showed him. Won't do that.

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Speaker 3: You go over there and he come back to Marrow

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Speaker 3: wanting be no bleachers at that old.

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Speaker 4: Don't go over there city.

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Speaker 3: I won't that he didn't ask you to go down

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Speaker 3: there with him because he needs some time to hisself.

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Speaker 2: Hours.

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Speaker 4: Hours, yeah out, yes, hours?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 4: Okay? Yeah, all right.

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Speaker 2: Moving on to Rashida and Bronsville.

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Speaker 1: Rashida says, I casually dated a guy for three months.

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Speaker 1: He ghosted me and I found out he got married.

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Speaker 1: I confronted him, but I remained friendly with him. We

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Speaker 1: never had sex. So is it cool to talk to

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Speaker 1: him and meet for drinks occasionally? Or should I ignore him?

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Speaker 3: Wait a minute, I don't understand you. You you jumped around.

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Speaker 3: You never said he was reaching out to you. You

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Speaker 3: you seem the disappointment that he ghosted you, that you

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Speaker 3: all casually date. Now all of a sudden, did he

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Speaker 3: reach out to you? You're not saying that, or you

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Speaker 3: are really? What I think it is is you are

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Speaker 3: now he getting married. You want some clothes, so you

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Speaker 3: want to have drinks so you can find out what happened.

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Speaker 4: Well, nothing happened.

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Speaker 3: Y'all ain't had sex. Y'all casually dated. Now he's getting married.

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Speaker 3: Why don't you just walk away and leave it alone.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's already married. He's already already married.

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Speaker 3: You meeting with him, meet with that conversation, Finna be yeah,

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Speaker 3: you already know what that is, little girl married. Stop

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Speaker 3: stop acting stupid because you already know. You already know

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Speaker 3: what you gonna meet and talk about. Yeah, what could

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Speaker 3: have been, might have been, should have been, had a been,

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Speaker 3: and what it can be. Yeah that's all all you can.

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Speaker 3: You ain't, Finna talk about the good times?

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Speaker 4: None of that. Stop playing little girl, go home leading

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Speaker 4: all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Emmanuel in Columbus. Emmanuel says, my wife

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Speaker 1: is the breadwinner, so she gets her props for holding

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Speaker 1: me down. But I hate when she throws stuff in

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Speaker 1: my face, like how much she spends on my clothes

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Speaker 1: or how she's paying for our child's private school. If

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Speaker 1: the roles were reversed, I wouldn't brag a brag so much.

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Speaker 2: How do I get her to stop flexing on me?

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Speaker 3: Hey, dog, you need to get a job, Yeah, Doug,

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Speaker 3: I don't know what tell you. Twig quick, dog, you

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Speaker 3: got to get a job. You got to start making contribution.

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Speaker 4: She the bread.

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Speaker 3: When she flexing on you, you don't want to flex

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Speaker 3: it on you flex back. You got to get a job, though,

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Speaker 3: I don't know what to tell you. I'm not finna

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Speaker 3: sit here and let that happen. That's not gonna happen.

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Speaker 2: You mean as a man, not Yeah, No.

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Speaker 4: Now, I'm not letting no woman take care of me.

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Speaker 4: I'm just not gonna do it. Now.

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Speaker 3: That's old school. Call it what you want to call it.

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Speaker 3: But I got a job to do. I know my role.

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Speaker 3: My father taught it to me. I'm gonna go do

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Speaker 3: my job. Shouldn't I'm finna go make you money. No,

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Speaker 3: he shouldn't have had time to write in He should

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Speaker 3: have been trying to find a job rightly.

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Speaker 4: This year. How much she's spending on my clothes?

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Speaker 3: So she buying you clothes man, and putting the baby

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Speaker 3: boy boy. And I'm gonna tell you right now, she's

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Speaker 3: getting tired of it. Yeah, I'm just gonna let you know.

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Speaker 2: She getting rolls. Were reversed, he wouldn't be bragging.

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Speaker 3: Well, then you better, okay, reverse them and let's see.

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Speaker 3: So wow, I think that laid your clothes out for church,

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Speaker 3: had him on when I come back.

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Speaker 2: That's not I bought him. This is what I want

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Speaker 2: you to hear that I thought.

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Speaker 4: Good morning, baby, what's going on? Work going on? That's

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Speaker 4: what's going on. Ain't nothing going on.

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Speaker 3: But I gotta go down here to Ralse and get

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Speaker 3: you something else to put on.

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Speaker 4: I'll be back. No, my damn man, what you.

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Speaker 2: Getting ready to say?

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Speaker 3: You know, I'm tell you right now, I'm not.

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Speaker 4: I'm not doing that. Yeah, I'm gonna get out to

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Speaker 4: hear something. No, just not man. If you're a man,

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Speaker 4: that's your job. I'm sorry. I look, man, you can

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Speaker 4: call it old fashioned. I got it.

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Speaker 2: It's different now. It is different.

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Speaker 3: It is not different. It is different now because people

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Speaker 3: say it's different. It ain't really different. It's different now

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Speaker 3: because people people have moved the norm to a new norm.

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Speaker 4: I mean, y'all can save all this mess right here.

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Speaker 4: This ain't how I work.

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Speaker 3: Ask that lady that keep telling him you know how

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Speaker 3: much private school costs? That she buys his clothes since

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Speaker 3: its changed something. Yeah, the yellow shirt go with the

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Speaker 3: blue pants.

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Speaker 2: I should know, because a bottom?

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Speaker 4: What is you standing in that refrigerator?

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Speaker 3: Don't fall close it just now.

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Speaker 4: You ain't wanting nothing nothing. I just feeled up the tank.

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Speaker 3: Okay, why do I hear the car starting outside?

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Speaker 2: You can't do nothing. I wish she stopped braging so much.

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Speaker 4: I had to cut back. I turned your cell phone off.

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Speaker 2: Randomly s if I was working. You can't talk to

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Speaker 2: me like that.

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Speaker 4: Good, ain't no need of you going down there to

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Speaker 4: plant fitness. I had to counsel your membership that you

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Speaker 4: find for unemployed walking around here?

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Speaker 1: Fine, all right, Last one unless you guys are still going.

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Speaker 2: Last one. This is from Touty in Jacksonville.

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Speaker 1: Tooty says, I'm in love with a man that won't

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Speaker 1: give me the time of day until it's time to

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Speaker 1: have sext I know it, and I because I've been

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Speaker 1: dealing with him for eight years. I'm forty three and

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Speaker 1: I need more. Can I give him an ultimatum? Or

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Speaker 1: have I waited too long?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, no no no.

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Speaker 3: You could give him the ultimatum, But guess what, it's

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Speaker 3: gonna be open. You've set the standard for what you

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Speaker 3: will accept. Now you want to say you don't want

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Speaker 3: to accept it. You ever heard of saying you can't

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Speaker 3: change horses in the middle.

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Speaker 4: Of the stream.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so you've settled for this for eight years.

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Speaker 4: Now you want to change it? Okay? The only way

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Speaker 4: to change it? Did you get somebody else? Because he don't?

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Speaker 4: Won't you clearly and stop you. Yeah, when it's just

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Speaker 4: time for sex, that's it. You don't know it.

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Speaker 2: And she says she's accepted it for eight years.

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Speaker 4: Okay, cool, all right, going there and try it.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Celo, we gotta go.

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