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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to another episode

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Speaker 1: of Reasonably Shity. I am Gazelle Bryant. Hello, what's up everybody?

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Speaker 1: This is Robin Dixon, Robin Dixion Dixon, Robin dixox, Robin Dixon,

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Speaker 1: Robin Dixox. That doesn't sound right, Robin dixol Dix off. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I think I never want you to say that again. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. All right, so right before we started

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Speaker 1: this episode, Rob was talking about, you know, she's very

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Speaker 1: organized and she likes to be organized because like I

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Speaker 1: don't care at all. Well it's so I feel like

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Speaker 1: I win things, but I like to be organized. That's

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Speaker 1: one if you remember, like last week and we talked

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Speaker 1: about toxic traits, it's one of your toxic traits. That's

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Speaker 1: a good thing being organized. No, Robin, you have to

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Speaker 1: cross every tea and dot every eye before you make

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Speaker 1: a decision. All I know, I know, But that's not toxic.

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Speaker 1: That's beyond TOXI Well, I mean, we we need a

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Speaker 1: little bit more wiggle room. I give it. When you do,

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Speaker 1: when do you give the wiggle We have plenty of

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Speaker 1: wiggle room. Okay, all right, I just want y'all to

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Speaker 1: know we don't and Robin needs all the tease dotted, No,

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Speaker 1: the eyes dotted anyway. Um, this is our episode of

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Speaker 1: Reasonably Shady. We're so happy that y'all are here. November

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Speaker 1: I'm bringing my children are Yes, we're gonna have fun

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Speaker 1: a great weekend, and UM, if you can't make it

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Speaker 1: also to UM get a merch item, yes, a bundle,

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Speaker 1: a merch bund, merch bundle. Okay, we didn't talk about

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Speaker 1: like the It was kind of like, UM, a national holiday.

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Speaker 1: Do you want Do you want to give us your

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Speaker 1: reasonably shading, your shady moment? Oh I haven't done that yet.

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Speaker 1: Oh reasonably shady moment. Okay. So remember last week I

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Speaker 1: told y'all's Grace's birthday. So for my kids when it's

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Speaker 1: a birthday, I always get them, you know, a bunch

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Speaker 1: of big balloons. I was gonna say helium balloons, but

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Speaker 1: what other kind of balloons are there? Right? It's it? Okay,

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Speaker 1: so a bit like the big ones, right, I got

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Speaker 1: a bunch of those. Um, they're waiting for them as

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Speaker 1: soon as they open their eyes on their birthday. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So I'm in. I'm actually got this because I was rushing.

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Speaker 1: I didn't go to like a balloon store. I just

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Speaker 1: went to like safe for it and got what they

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Speaker 1: holding six humongous happy birthday balloons. The lady at the

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Speaker 1: counter says, so, is it somebody's birthday? So it wouldn't

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Speaker 1: is to me off, but I cannot stand stupid small talk. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that was that was she was trying to make small talk. Yes,

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Speaker 1: said no, no, it's no one's birthday. I'm just holding

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Speaker 1: six happy birthday below that are as bigger than my head. Okay, lady,

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Speaker 1: you're shady. Okay, Wait, is it possible that like the

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Speaker 1: don't talk to it. How about we just don't talk?

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Speaker 1: Does you do your job? I pay the money. I'm out.

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Speaker 1: That's hilarious. That's right. She should have said whose birthday

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Speaker 1: we're all your kids doing great? I was like, what,

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Speaker 1: I'm there all the time. Really, yes, has she waited

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Speaker 1: because she probably was excited, and she came up with

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Speaker 1: The twin's birthday? Is Grace's birthday? Like she should have

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Speaker 1: just been like, yeah, I know you, I know you,

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Speaker 1: reasonably shady moment? Oh my gosh, okay, y'all, I'm about

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Speaker 1: to turn in my parenting cards, just dropping it, turned

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Speaker 1: it in. What happened? Okay, so you know Corey broke

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Speaker 1: He was in a boot boot for you know whatever

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Speaker 1: Blah blah blah blah blah. Yeah. Carter broke his wrist

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, I'm like, Carter, it's crowded. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: did a two days prior. So I'm like, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: just making this up. A sword you get a swordthroat

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Speaker 1: when you when when your mommy doesn't take you to

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Speaker 1: tho't start hurt, that's okay, right, and ever your ailments, yes,

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Speaker 1: So I went in and even though it was a

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Speaker 1: was like you didn't You weren't just like sitting there

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Speaker 1: we were as smart, like two hours we were there. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: oh my god, to do this for another ten years? Right,

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Speaker 1: so now I have to. So now Corey, it's like

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Speaker 1: deal with this one. How did the boy break his

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Speaker 1: wrist just like fell embraced braced himself. He was chasing

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Speaker 1: how much? Okay? And then and then he's the type

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry he's going to milk. Oh, he's a milker.

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Speaker 1: Can you can you fix my play? That's Angel. Let's

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Speaker 1: Angel will melt the hell out of your ass. He's

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Speaker 1: of them, stay on that. Corey Dixon was so bad

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Speaker 1: this morning. He was like, wait a minute, so Carter

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Speaker 1: He's like, I'm supposed to stay home too. I said, Corey,

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Speaker 1: it's a new days. It's a new day. I said,

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Speaker 1: get your ass, get your dress, let's go. I mean

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Speaker 1: he we were late because he was dragging because he

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Speaker 1: was I was traveling for for work. I got home.

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Speaker 1: This was actually last night and Angel had called me

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Speaker 1: I mean my news is running and no, I just

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Speaker 1: I mean, and just imagine like the scenery, how beautiful

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00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:09,880
Speaker 1: that was, and the stories that they have to tell

420
00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:12,159
Speaker 1: about it, right, Yeah, that's awesome. And then when you

421
00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:15,040
Speaker 1: just think about like how small we are as a

422
00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:20,679
Speaker 1: human and climbing that the largest mountain in the world,

423
00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 1: like that is like, that's that's incredible. That's awesome. And

424
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,280
Speaker 1: so apparently you sit there they're doing some content for

425
00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:28,679
Speaker 1: it or something. So in this group of women, one

426
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:31,440
Speaker 1: of the other ladies was Malock Rock, who's Chris Rock's

427
00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:35,680
Speaker 1: ex wife. And you know, Erica knows people in these streets.

428
00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:41,560
Speaker 1: So own magazine, the journalists for them came with them

429
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:44,879
Speaker 1: and interviewed them along the way. So because it was

430
00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:47,440
Speaker 1: out there, Gayle got a wind of it, Gayl King,

431
00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 1: So they came back. They were interviewed on is that

432
00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:53,000
Speaker 1: Good Morning America? Is gayl Good Morning? Now? Gayl is

433
00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 1: girls like CBS CBS is Morning Show? Gayle interviewed them,

434
00:23:57,000 --> 00:23:59,639
Speaker 1: they run the Today Show being interviewed about it. Um,

435
00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:03,680
Speaker 1: they have like these beautiful medallions that they wear. Maybe

436
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:06,160
Speaker 1: they bought that themselves, Like who, who? Where the medallions

437
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:09,240
Speaker 1: come from? Erica? Maybe that's like a gift that that

438
00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:13,400
Speaker 1: who the mountain the mountain people give you? Who knows?

439
00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:17,280
Speaker 1: Clearly they but yes do. But because of the publicity

440
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:19,639
Speaker 1: of it, people have reached out to them for a

441
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:24,800
Speaker 1: potential movie, potential book. Um, and yeah, I want all

442
00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:28,439
Speaker 1: that to happen because I'm very interested in the bigger story.

443
00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:31,880
Speaker 1: Did Erica leave um the stories like on her highlights

444
00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:34,000
Speaker 1: on her page she might have. Yeah, let's see if

445
00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:35,880
Speaker 1: she did. Yeah, then you are you guys can visit

446
00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:39,040
Speaker 1: her page and look at it because it's really amazing. Yes, Um,

447
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:41,920
Speaker 1: so I was gonna meet her at the bottom. After

448
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:44,600
Speaker 1: they came back down, they went to the coast of

449
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:48,400
Speaker 1: Zanzibar and went to this beautiful resort and they all celebrated.

450
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:50,359
Speaker 1: So I was going to meet them for the celebration.

451
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:53,160
Speaker 1: But it's her page still private. I'm sorry, I don't

452
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 1: think it is okay. So if you go to her page,

453
00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 1: Eric allows Erica with a K L I L E

454
00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:02,160
Speaker 1: s um. She has it all in her her stories highlights. Yes,

455
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 1: so you can see the killerman jar right. I said, Hey,

456
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:09,680
Speaker 1: I have an idea. I'd like to climb Mount Kilimanjaro.

457
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 1: My dear friend Mulock and I have been talking about

458
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:14,679
Speaker 1: this for five years. Now, let's do it. It's my

459
00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 1: year of turning fifty and I have. But the Zanzibar

460
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 1: portion of it was in the middle of Bravo con

461
00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:24,280
Speaker 1: so clearly I couldn't do that. I don't know if

462
00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:27,639
Speaker 1: Andy Cohen would let me going over to Zanzibar and

463
00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 1: kick it. I mean, you could have chosen not to

464
00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:32,359
Speaker 1: go to Brabacon true story on Pats, but then all

465
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:34,920
Speaker 1: the people would have been so sad that they could

466
00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 1: see they were like rabbing. Were's that right? Where's that right?

467
00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 1: And they couldn't tell me that. You know, they named

468
00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 1: their cat after me. Yes, but we have we have

469
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:46,439
Speaker 1: news about cat's name Giselle. Yes, we have received at

470
00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:51,520
Speaker 1: least three people who have written into Reasonably Shady to

471
00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:54,919
Speaker 1: say that they have also named their cat Giselle. Okay,

472
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:57,480
Speaker 1: so did they do it after I made an announcement

473
00:25:57,520 --> 00:26:00,359
Speaker 1: that this woman named her catches up a week so

474
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 1: you talked about it on the podcast like maybe three

475
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 1: weeks ago, three or four weeks yes, and people literally

476
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 1: were like someone was like, yeah, I never write in,

477
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:11,120
Speaker 1: I never write into anybody, but I'm writing to tell

478
00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:17,679
Speaker 1: you that I also name my cat Giselle. Okay, that's weird,

479
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:21,120
Speaker 1: and I want to know why. Like, I don't look

480
00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:24,080
Speaker 1: at cats and be like, oh, we should name the

481
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:26,199
Speaker 1: cat Giselle. Like you look at a cat and you're like,

482
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:35,880
Speaker 1: oh fluffy, oh sneezy, um cinnamon, So Gizelle Giselle. Isn't

483
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:39,960
Speaker 1: there a cat species? Like that is a good zelle?

484
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:43,920
Speaker 1: That's no, that's a um not. That's not a cat species.

485
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 1: That's a antler, that's like a it's a deer gazelle. Yes,

486
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:53,880
Speaker 1: are you thinking lyon? No? No, I was thinking good.

487
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:59,160
Speaker 1: I thought that. Now that's okay. I'm honored that y'all

488
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:03,320
Speaker 1: are naming y'all cat after me. I just don't get it. Yeah,

489
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 1: well it's because you have green you have green eyes too.

490
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 1: But Robin is not a cute cat name. It's not whatsoever. No, Okay,

491
00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 1: So this lady, she said, Hi, Gizelle and Robin. First

492
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:19,880
Speaker 1: of all, I want to say that you two are iconic.

493
00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:22,760
Speaker 1: I love you both on the show, and your podcast

494
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:25,360
Speaker 1: is top tier. I want to address being. I want

495
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:29,240
Speaker 1: to address Giselle being shocked about a Bravo fan naming

496
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:32,800
Speaker 1: their cat after her. Well, Giselle, I'm here to tell

497
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:36,120
Speaker 1: you that my boyfriend and I named our cat after you.

498
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:42,680
Speaker 1: Do we have after you? It's not just coincidentally, right,

499
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 1: they named it after me. I think the cat's name

500
00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:46,879
Speaker 1: is Giselle Bryant. Okay, So she said that we have

501
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 1: a tortoiseshell cat and they are known for their green

502
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:55,119
Speaker 1: eyes and sassy behavior. Based on that description, we named

503
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:58,119
Speaker 1: her after the legendary Giselle Bryant, but we call her

504
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:01,240
Speaker 1: Gigi for short. Child Mary cute. Is that a picture

505
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 1: of the cat? What is this? No, but it didn't

506
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:08,359
Speaker 1: come out there it is okay, oh wow, Okay, in

507
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 1: the picture of the cats. Okay, so she said homeball

508
00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:16,159
Speaker 1: as well in the d M v um Lee Fate

509
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:21,120
Speaker 1: Cunningham the third thank you. I'm honored. At this point

510
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:23,240
Speaker 1: in time, I think I'm honored to be named after

511
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:27,680
Speaker 1: these cats. I think, yes, that's a compliment. It's a compliment. Okay,

512
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:30,800
Speaker 1: So no one's ever named anything after me. I've had

513
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 1: I know, I've seen people come up to one and

514
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:36,400
Speaker 1: say they've named their dogs after him. Yeah, they named

515
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 1: him like Dixon the Oh yeah, okay, that's like Maryland fans.

516
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:46,560
Speaker 1: Like Maryland fans, they've named their like Okay, Um, I

517
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 1: do want to before we get into some other things

518
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 1: I wanted lastly, I want to talk about um Deon Sanders.

519
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 1: Oh what about him? We love he's doing his things.

520
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 1: I was watching sixty Minutes or somebody told me that

521
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 1: he was on sixty minutes. I missed it. Yeah, And

522
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:05,960
Speaker 1: they talked about all the money that Jackson State is

523
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 1: now acquiring because of Dion for their program, for their

524
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 1: sports program. When he got there, like they literally practiced

525
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:17,480
Speaker 1: in the mud. They didn't have like an athletics center.

526
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 1: They would go to a high school and use their

527
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 1: athletics center. They didn't have a field. They don't they

528
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 1: have a field feel? But when it rained, it was mud.

529
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 1: Oh it was a hot So he's been able to

530
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:31,760
Speaker 1: pump all this money into the school and bring so

531
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:34,080
Speaker 1: much awareness to HBCUs. Y'all know, I went to Hampton,

532
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 1: so this is like very near and dear to me,

533
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 1: and I you know, I just want to give a

534
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:42,280
Speaker 1: little shout out to Den. He's doing great things. Slot

535
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:44,960
Speaker 1: of folks sit back on them twitter fingers and talk

536
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 1: about what they're gonna do, and and I wanted to go,

537
00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:52,080
Speaker 1: do it. Change the perspective of of HBCU football, make

538
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 1: everyone step up to the plate and do what's right

539
00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:58,120
Speaker 1: by these kids. I love what he's doing, want to

540
00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 1: so um like that's like is like idle in the

541
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 1: coaching world because Dion is at an HBCU and he's

542
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 1: very vocal about like speaking up for the lack of

543
00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:12,040
Speaker 1: resources and the inequality and and you know everything that

544
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 1: they need, and he kind of like, you know, like

545
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:18,240
Speaker 1: one is a very um he doesn't really use his

546
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 1: voice like that, although I believe that if he did,

547
00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:25,280
Speaker 1: he could be just as motivational and powerful, but he just,

548
00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 1: you know, he's just kind of like a low key guy,

549
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 1: like he's not really big on social media and stuff

550
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:31,720
Speaker 1: like that, but it would be great if he used

551
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 1: it for that. It would be it would be But

552
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:37,240
Speaker 1: he's just not really comfortable just being like in the

553
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 1: spotlight like that, you know what I mean, where Dion

554
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:46,040
Speaker 1: like he's been Dion neon Dion forever forever saying that's like, yeah,

555
00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:48,520
Speaker 1: he loves the attention, he loves that, and I think

556
00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:53,000
Speaker 1: that's awesome that he's using his voice that way. UM,

557
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:57,360
Speaker 1: and you know, hopefully, you know, I mean hopefully they

558
00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 1: hopefully it can bring awareness to all of the h

559
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 1: b c us because they all need support and they

560
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:10,920
Speaker 1: all need people to believe that these teams can win championships.

561
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 1: And I love the fact that Dion is now getting

562
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 1: his UM. He's getting the number one picksh. So it's

563
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:21,520
Speaker 1: it's it's it's so much more difficult when these HBCUs

564
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:24,360
Speaker 1: keep losing and keep losing and keep losing because nobody

565
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 1: wants to fund these losing teams. But Deon getting these

566
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:30,560
Speaker 1: number one picks UM changes the game. Yeah, I mean

567
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:32,440
Speaker 1: it's hard because it's like what comes first, the chicken

568
00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 1: or the egg. It's like they want you to win

569
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:36,320
Speaker 1: and then they'll put them, pump the money into it,

570
00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 1: but you can't win without the talent. And in order

571
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 1: to get the talent, you have to attract them with something,

572
00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 1: you know. And so it's really hard to compete with

573
00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 1: these major, these big institutions. But because Dion is so

574
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:55,320
Speaker 1: powerful and you know, so influential, people trust that he's

575
00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:57,560
Speaker 1: going to do right by their kids and you know,

576
00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 1: his son. I believe it's the quarterback and dance. Press

577
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 1: conferences are actually comedy Central, so I can I can

578
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:11,160
Speaker 1: recall to I'm gonna give you one once. Um, somebody

579
00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 1: asked him, you know, like, what what motivated you this

580
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 1: game for y'all to win? He was like, motivation, motivation.

581
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 1: I don't need no motivation. I woke up this morning.

582
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:24,560
Speaker 1: My eyes woke up this morning. That's all the motivation

583
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:26,360
Speaker 1: I need. Do you know where I come from? My

584
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 1: mama motivated me, Daddy motivated me, motivation motivated. I'm like,

585
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 1: oh my god, dear, he was just asking you about

586
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 1: this game, right, but you give us a solidoquy or motivation. Hilarious, hilarious.

587
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:43,480
Speaker 1: But it's awesome because it's bringing attention not just the

588
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:45,480
Speaker 1: den but to his school. It's like, you know, what

589
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 1: does he saying? Who is this? Like that is that's hilarious,

590
00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 1: It's so funny. But we're gonna do swack. Who is baby?

591
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:59,480
Speaker 1: I ain't swat? Okay? So swack is like what Southern

592
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 1: is its South Southwest Conference or something? Anyway, that's the

593
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 1: conference that Jackson State is in. Okay, So somebody another

594
00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:14,320
Speaker 1: coach tried to say that Dion wasn't really um, he

595
00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:17,880
Speaker 1: doesn't really, he's not doesn't represent the conference, yes, because

596
00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:21,200
Speaker 1: he's probably gonna be there for another to three years

597
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:24,360
Speaker 1: and he's out. So they were like, Deon's not swack

598
00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:26,640
Speaker 1: and he and it was Dion's turn for the mic.

599
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:30,360
Speaker 1: He was like swack Do you mean? Who white swack?

600
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:34,760
Speaker 1: If I ain't swack right right? I was like, what

601
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:39,960
Speaker 1: is happening? Who is swape? If ain't swag? Who is swage?

602
00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 1: If I ain't swat? Who is swat? Baby? Who is?

603
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 1: But But but the funny thing is he turned it

604
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 1: into like a positive because he got the whole Jackson

605
00:33:54,200 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 1: State fans chanton who is baby? Who is swack? Baby?

606
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 1: Like at the time, I didn't know what swack was,

607
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm swack. I want to be swacked.

608
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:11,640
Speaker 1: Please let me be swack. I was like, please, baby, please,

609
00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 1: I want to be crazy. He is. But that's awesome.

610
00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:18,279
Speaker 1: That's awesome for those kids and and I'm happy that

611
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:21,240
Speaker 1: he's able to get the talent and parents realized like, Okay,

612
00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: Dean has been there, done that. He cares about these

613
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:27,759
Speaker 1: kids and he's going to coach them like they're his

614
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 1: own son, you know, and he wants them to be successful.

615
00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:35,440
Speaker 1: It's not just about patting his pockets. It's about the kids.

616
00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:38,080
Speaker 1: And that's you know, and a little plug. You know.

617
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:40,680
Speaker 1: For one, he's a former professional athlete, has been there,

618
00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:44,800
Speaker 1: done that, He's won a national championship, and that he's

619
00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:48,360
Speaker 1: able to recruit talent to come to Copping State because

620
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 1: of that. But it's a it's an uphill battle. We

621
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 1: need one to do some press interviews like Dion, Oh

622
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 1: my god, I would I'm going to repost them if

623
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:00,200
Speaker 1: he could get up there and be like, Copping what

624
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:04,800
Speaker 1: you mean, I ain't coming, I'm coming state, I'd be

625
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:13,440
Speaker 1: like I want to be coming to right. I have

626
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 1: something to read from one of our lovely um listeners.

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Speaker 1: This is from Naomi Christine Lincolny. Y'all. I'm sorry, I'll

628
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Speaker 1: be saying I'll be saying your name is wrong. Okay,

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Speaker 1: here we go, Dear Robin and Gisell. I got my

630
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:31,320
Speaker 1: own shady moment listening to this week's episode when Giselle

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00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:36,439
Speaker 1: read the email from your Sweden based Norwegian listener, being

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00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:40,680
Speaker 1: all touched and wanting to frame the email. So she's

633
00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:44,640
Speaker 1: also from Norway, yes, and I think she's pretty much

634
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:47,880
Speaker 1: saying like you're not the only one bit. Oh okay, Okay,

635
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 1: I like this. You know I like that. That's kind

636
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:53,400
Speaker 1: of shady, Okay, she said, Because I'm a Norwegian living

637
00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 1: in France and I've been thinking of writing you guys

638
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:59,520
Speaker 1: for weeks. Oh, I like this, Okay, she's I'm a

639
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:02,319
Speaker 1: huge fan of r h OP and died when I

640
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:05,839
Speaker 1: discovered your podcast last winter. You had me hook since

641
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:08,399
Speaker 1: day one. So glad you are still part of the

642
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:12,960
Speaker 1: cast because Giselle's shade and Robin's way of nipping problems

643
00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:17,160
Speaker 1: in the bud are both super entertaining to watch, very

644
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 1: nice than. The reason I wanted to write you is

645
00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:21,920
Speaker 1: that during my pregnancy I had a beautiful baby boy

646
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:24,720
Speaker 1: in July. Listening to you guys joke around really cheered

647
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:27,360
Speaker 1: me up. I struggled with mixed emotions as I was

648
00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:31,839
Speaker 1: doing my last year of Masters, and my due date

649
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:34,560
Speaker 1: was around the time I had to write my thesis.

650
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:37,960
Speaker 1: So yeah, I coped with depression mainly by listening to

651
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:42,280
Speaker 1: you and laughing out loud while I was walking every day. Reasonly,

652
00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:46,080
Speaker 1: schey is the perfect cure for hormonal pregnant ladies, combined

653
00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 1: with lots of physical exercise. I love that laughing moms

654
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 1: give happy babies. Please please continue making excellent content and Giselle,

655
00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:58,719
Speaker 1: if ever back in Paris or Oslow, I didn't go

656
00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:02,440
Speaker 1: to Oslow, You've got a tour guide. Naomi's gonna keep

657
00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 1: my door guide. Lots of love from Naomi in Normandy.

658
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:10,359
Speaker 1: And she's an Italian Norwegian Dutch living in France with

659
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 1: her ivory in husband and two kids. Is that the

660
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:18,920
Speaker 1: same way of saying white ivory av cult. Yeah, so

661
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:23,840
Speaker 1: that would be okay, Okay, now Naomi, I think she

662
00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:26,719
Speaker 1: sent a picture of her baby so cute. Okay, Wait

663
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:31,520
Speaker 1: a minute, she said, ps. Shady plus hungry is shungry.

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Speaker 1: I love that. I like that too, because that's what

665
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:37,920
Speaker 1: you are right not today though, I think you eight.

666
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:41,120
Speaker 1: Did you eat today? No? No, not yet. But you

667
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:45,040
Speaker 1: you be shungry all the time. When Robin gets hungry,

668
00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:48,000
Speaker 1: that's when she gets shady. Otherwise she's reasonable. Is that right? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: You think so? Yes, indeed, sung that's cute. Okay, we

670
00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:57,120
Speaker 1: got a couple more emails. Yeah, um, okay, so this

671
00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 1: says high green eyed bandits and also Carly, whose eye

672
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:04,320
Speaker 1: color remains unknown to us. Carly's eyes are brown, yes,

673
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:06,839
Speaker 1: and not a green eye band. She's not a green

674
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 1: eye band And Carl still has not scheduled eminem for

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00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:16,719
Speaker 1: the record, shame on her. Yes, all right, um, this

676
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 1: is from Isabelle Angus. My partner and I are huge

677
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:23,160
Speaker 1: fans of you both and of your podcast. It is

678
00:38:23,200 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 1: actually the only podcast I ever listened to. Even though

679
00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:30,840
Speaker 1: I'm a millennial. We've got the young folks. So millennial?

680
00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:34,480
Speaker 1: Is is that like Ashley's age? She's dirty something millennials?

681
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 1: Because a millennial? Okay, so all right, all right, you

682
00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:41,279
Speaker 1: are both so funny. Whenever my girlfriend Megan and I

683
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:44,080
Speaker 1: have a couple's fight, one of us usually gets told

684
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 1: to go off and listen to Robin and Gizelle to

685
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 1: calm down again, What now, we're coming, we're calming the argument. Yes,

686
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:56,720
Speaker 1: it really works, and it's now becoming a defining pillar

687
00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:59,840
Speaker 1: of our relationship. Love it. She said, I'm the Robin

688
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:02,719
Speaker 1: and she's the Gizelle. Hence why I am writing this

689
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:06,800
Speaker 1: email so politely and with a proper greeting and salutation

690
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:10,040
Speaker 1: as specified by Robin. Thank you, Isabel, you know I

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00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:13,960
Speaker 1: appreciate that. Yes, So here are our questions. Number One,

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Speaker 1: if you had to cast any housewife on the next

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Speaker 1: season of r H O P from any other franchise,

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Speaker 1: current or previous, which housewife would you add to your

695
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:26,759
Speaker 1: cast and why would they be a good addition? Oh? Wow?

696
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:30,279
Speaker 1: Okay do we get asked this all the time? I

697
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:32,879
Speaker 1: feel like like or they'll say, like, what franchise would

698
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:34,960
Speaker 1: you want to be a part of? You know, who

699
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 1: would I want? Who? Who do we think would be good?

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00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:44,560
Speaker 1: A good mix for Potomac? Um? I don't know, it's

701
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:47,719
Speaker 1: like so many. I mean, I feel like you can

702
00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 1: throw so many different people in the mix and it'll

703
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:55,360
Speaker 1: just be interesting to see the dynamics. Um. I would

704
00:39:55,360 --> 00:40:02,600
Speaker 1: almost like a Brandy Glanville a type of situation. I'll

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Speaker 1: take a Tamera Tamra. Yes, because you know you're gonna

706
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Speaker 1: get just some drunken unnecessary nonsense, right, Because I think

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Speaker 1: Brandy and Tamara I put them in the same boat.

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Speaker 1: Do you really know? You don't know? Okay, I would.

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Speaker 1: I would because tam is not always drunken nonsense, that's true.

710
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:27,080
Speaker 1: And I feel like Brandy. Brandy always drunken. Okay, yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: Brandy come through. So I feel like Brandy just for

712
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:32,120
Speaker 1: like the entertainment value and just for like the like

713
00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:36,360
Speaker 1: the wild card value. Um. I also think of this

714
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:39,440
Speaker 1: is like kind of on the polar opposite like Kenya.

715
00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:46,760
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I think Kenya would have everybody on their toes. Yeah,

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00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:49,839
Speaker 1: I mean everyone like I'm not not like I think

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00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:57,080
Speaker 1: she would. She would make sure that nothing goes yes,

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00:40:57,400 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 1: um true. I think Porscha would be fun. Um you

719
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:05,239
Speaker 1: know she she would want to go, she would want

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Speaker 1: to work and and um, drink some Hennessy and just

721
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:14,960
Speaker 1: have fun. I'm trying to think of anybody in Jersy. No,

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Speaker 1: you know what I wouldn't mind taking just to see,

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00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 1: just to interact with her a little bit. Um a

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00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:25,880
Speaker 1: Lisa vander Pump right, Yeah, I would like miss her

725
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 1: like she's one of those people that, like, we haven't

726
00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 1: seen it so long, and it would be nice to see, like,

727
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:33,759
Speaker 1: see her on TV again, see on TV, see how

728
00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 1: she she would interact with our group. I would like

729
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 1: that Karen would want to be her best friend, of course,

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00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 1: and I would not let that happen. Nope, not happening.

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00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:46,480
Speaker 1: So yeah, okay, that's another question. Her second question, do

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Speaker 1: you think you'll ever come to Australia so that my

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00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:50,800
Speaker 1: girlfriend and I can meet you and hopefully somehow become

734
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:54,480
Speaker 1: your lesbian friends from down under? Don't let Michael Darby

735
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 1: give you a bad impression of us? All sees okay,

736
00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 1: but what did their sexuality have to do with um

737
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:04,440
Speaker 1: us being friends? I'm confused, but yes I have I

738
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:08,920
Speaker 1: have asked because um Ashley was married to Michael. I

739
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 1: have asked numerous times. Can are one of our trips

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00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:14,200
Speaker 1: to be to go to Australia because it would makes sense. Yeah,

741
00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:17,280
Speaker 1: we could meet, you know, some of Michael Darby's family.

742
00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:19,040
Speaker 1: We don't want to meet him at this We don't

743
00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 1: at this point and it's not happening. But you know,

744
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 1: it's Sydney or the other place. Was that the place?

745
00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:29,359
Speaker 1: Sydney and Melbourne? They say like, yeah, there, it's far

746
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 1: to get there, so we have to get there. We

747
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:33,839
Speaker 1: have to recoup from getting there, like I get our

748
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:37,319
Speaker 1: minds right, and then we got to film. That's a lot. Yeah,

749
00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:39,719
Speaker 1: But I mean I would love like Australia. I feel

750
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:42,239
Speaker 1: like as I get older there, I definitely want to

751
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:44,839
Speaker 1: explore more. So, like you know, filming for the show

752
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 1: or not, I would love to visit Australia. Yes, yea

753
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:53,160
Speaker 1: Ultimate Girls trip for Robin's in Australia. Yes, with Brandy

754
00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:55,839
Speaker 1: and Tamra. Yes, yes, yes, yes, Oh my god, Oh

755
00:42:55,880 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 1: that's funny. Another email, Um, this is a good question

756
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:04,600
Speaker 1: that maybe people could learn from. Hello, ladies. I'm currently

757
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:07,760
Speaker 1: listening to Robin's Shady moment on episode fifty five Shady

758
00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:09,799
Speaker 1: Girls Summer, and I have a comment about that. I'm

759
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:11,880
Speaker 1: not I can't remember what it was. Back at the

760
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:16,280
Speaker 1: end of February, I purchased an inexpensive self cleaning litter

761
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:18,239
Speaker 1: box off of a website that I thought was a

762
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:20,839
Speaker 1: good website. My payment went through and I got an

763
00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 1: order confirmation, but I never received the next email saying

764
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 1: my order was shipped. A few weeks went by, so

765
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:29,080
Speaker 1: I figured I would email the website and ask for

766
00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:31,879
Speaker 1: a status update on my order. I never heard back

767
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:34,359
Speaker 1: from them, and still to this day, I have not

768
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:37,080
Speaker 1: received my litter box nor an email saying they will

769
00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:39,200
Speaker 1: refund my money. There's no other way to get in

770
00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:42,200
Speaker 1: contact with them. I got scammed. Do you have any

771
00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 1: advice for situation like this? Love you ladies? Can't wait?

772
00:43:44,719 --> 00:43:47,240
Speaker 1: First Season seven premiere of this is older email. Okay,

773
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:50,560
Speaker 1: So honestly, when this happens, like, yes, your first thing

774
00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:53,560
Speaker 1: you should do is reach out to the company, give

775
00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:56,800
Speaker 1: them time to respond, and you know, see what happens.

776
00:43:56,800 --> 00:43:59,719
Speaker 1: I will say from experience as a business owner. It

777
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:05,800
Speaker 1: it it irritates me when people instantly file a grievance

778
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:08,480
Speaker 1: like they filed they go to like PayPal and file

779
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 1: a UM I can't remember the name, but like it'll

780
00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:14,239
Speaker 1: say like oh this like that, they're like filing the

781
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 1: same they they didn't get their product because a lot

782
00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:18,400
Speaker 1: of times it gets lost with like the post office.

783
00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 1: All right, and I'm like, so, don't instantly go to

784
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:24,839
Speaker 1: your your payment provider um, your credit card and file

785
00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:28,239
Speaker 1: a claim without reaching out to the company first. Good.

786
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:30,320
Speaker 1: That's good because they'll follow. And I'm like, if you

787
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:32,520
Speaker 1: had just email me, I would have been able to

788
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:34,520
Speaker 1: look it up, find your order, to find your tracking

789
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:37,359
Speaker 1: and giving you the information. And now I'm dealing with

790
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:39,880
Speaker 1: a fifteen dollar charge from the card company, you know

791
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:43,280
Speaker 1: what I mean. So the businesses get penalized when people

792
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:47,360
Speaker 1: file grievances. Anyway, she did the right thing. She reached

793
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:49,560
Speaker 1: out to them. So now when you when you reach

794
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 1: out to them and you don't hear back from them,

795
00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:53,719
Speaker 1: then then you can come form. Then go to your

796
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:56,600
Speaker 1: credit card company, call your bank whatever you know, however

797
00:44:56,680 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 1: you whatever you paid using, whether it's PayPal or your

798
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:01,880
Speaker 1: bank or your credit card, blah blah blah, go to

799
00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:05,000
Speaker 1: them and they will open up a case. Okay, case,

800
00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:07,440
Speaker 1: So they'll open up a case, they'll reach out to

801
00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:09,840
Speaker 1: the company, they'll give them time to respond to the case,

802
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:12,359
Speaker 1: and then they'll make a decision on, you know, whether

803
00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 1: or not you should get your money back. So is

804
00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:16,359
Speaker 1: there a dollar amount on opening up a case because

805
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:19,080
Speaker 1: it feels like you bought some bubble gum, Like are

806
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:21,360
Speaker 1: we opening a case for that? Like? Is there a

807
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 1: dollar amount? Not? Really? I mean no, one's opening up

808
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:29,760
Speaker 1: a case for bubble camp one bubble gum online anywhere.

809
00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:38,840
Speaker 1: But no, I mean, I don't I like what I like, right, okay,

810
00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:43,080
Speaker 1: So so, but companies might like create like a Visa Amex,

811
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:45,640
Speaker 1: they might have a limit like if it's not over

812
00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:49,320
Speaker 1: twenty dollars or something, you know, you can't file a claim,

813
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 1: I would assume. So I don't know. I don't think so.

814
00:45:51,640 --> 00:45:54,400
Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, it doesn't hurt to try. So like

815
00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 1: I would, I say, go to your card company, asked

816
00:45:57,120 --> 00:45:59,799
Speaker 1: them to reverse the charge. Um, they'll look into a

817
00:45:59,840 --> 00:46:02,719
Speaker 1: case that's that doesn't look good on the company. Also

818
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:05,120
Speaker 1: go to the Better Business Bureau put in a bad

819
00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:08,400
Speaker 1: comment on the company. It's unfortunate because there are a

820
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:11,399
Speaker 1: lot of these companies that this company actually might be

821
00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:15,200
Speaker 1: in China, and you're probably going to get it like

822
00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:17,719
Speaker 1: four months later, right. I remember one time I bought

823
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:22,160
Speaker 1: a light fixture and it was too big, I think

824
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:24,239
Speaker 1: or something, and I said I'm going to return it,

825
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:26,279
Speaker 1: and they hit me back and they were like no,

826
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:30,040
Speaker 1: like we would like for you to keep it because

827
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:35,919
Speaker 1: it's gonna So I was like, okay, but I don't

828
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:38,799
Speaker 1: want it. So then I don't know, we went back.

829
00:46:38,800 --> 00:46:40,920
Speaker 1: I don't know how we resolved it, but they were

830
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:43,120
Speaker 1: really like, we do not want to ship this back

831
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:45,799
Speaker 1: right Yeah yeah, so yeah, just just go to your

832
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 1: card company. But it is definitely a good good to

833
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 1: like just in general, just telling people like when when

834
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:53,600
Speaker 1: you don't get your product right away, like reach out

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Speaker 1: we're gonna read this last one. Then we got to

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Speaker 1: get out of here. Okay, so high Rid to Giselle,

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Speaker 1: this is from um Gerald. I love watching you two

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Speaker 1: on Potomac. I thank you both are. It's very inspirational

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Speaker 1: in your own unique ways. Robin because I feel like

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Speaker 1: you humanize the housewives and gave us an amazing glow

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Speaker 1: up story. Yes, you do glow up. You better glow up.

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Speaker 1: Better upgrade you. Okay, all right, that was too much.

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Speaker 1: And Giselle because you let nothing phase you and definitely

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Speaker 1: know how to keep it pushing. Yes. I wish nothing

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Speaker 1: but the best for your continued success. And I just

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Speaker 1: want you guys to know that the podcast has helped

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Speaker 1: me survive some extremely rough days. God bless and good luck.

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Speaker 1: And they said, ps, we do want Robin to shuck

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Speaker 1: and job. I don't even know what that means to

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Speaker 1: shuck and job you're supposed to. That's it was a

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Speaker 1: few weeks ago. I said on the podcast, like how

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Speaker 1: I don't I guess it was saying like, you know,

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Speaker 1: people call me boring and I'm like, what do you

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Speaker 1: want me sitting chucking? Job? Was like before m Okay, alright, no,

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Speaker 1: I don't want you to shock you. Okay, that's It's okay.

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Speaker 1: But we definitely appreciate all of the feedback. We definitely

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Speaker 1: appreciate when you guys give us like so much love

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Speaker 1: and you know, thanks for listening. It's like a beautiful thing.

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Speaker 1: It is. It's a beautiful thing. And what episode is this?

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Speaker 1: What number is this? Do we know? This is episode

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Speaker 1: sixty nine? And on that note, this is for your partner. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we see where Robbin's head is, okay, and that is

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Speaker 1: our episode. We absolutely love you guys. Don't ever forget

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Speaker 1: to live your life. Reasonable or Shady by Reasonably Shady

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Speaker 1: is a production of the Black Affect podcast Network. For

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Speaker 1: social media at Robin Dixon ten Giselle Bryant and reasonably

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