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Speaker 1: morning everybody you are listening to the voice, Come on

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Speaker 1: dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a

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Speaker 1: radio show. Man o man o, man Hey, you know

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Speaker 1: The title is very simple, and that is it's been

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Speaker 1: just kept thinking that this morning, that it's all been

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Speaker 1: is this relationship that I have with my heavenly father,

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Speaker 1: it's been worth it to me. I can't even tell

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Speaker 1: you the value that it has had in my life.

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Speaker 1: I can't tell you how it's helped me to understand

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Speaker 1: not only my purpose, but to better understand my past.

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Speaker 1: That's that's that's critical. Man, because I'm grateful for that,

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Speaker 1: because so many people can't get beyond their past and

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Speaker 1: event a set of circumstances, some calamity that besets them.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's been grief something, but it ties so many

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Speaker 1: it's it's been worth having someone to go to when

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Speaker 1: Hey man, keep your head up. All of that. But

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Speaker 1: I gotta tell you, man, you get yourself in some

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Speaker 1: one can help you but God, When the only person

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Speaker 1: The only person that I'll sit there with you through

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Speaker 1: It's been worth it to me, man, It's it's been

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Speaker 1: has been the most beneficial thing to me. You know

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Speaker 1: these things you read in your in your in your

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Speaker 1: You know when you when you read scriptures and things

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Speaker 1: that's amazing. That is amazing to me. That. I mean,

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Speaker 1: That's amazing, man. That's why, my spiritual walker, it's just

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Speaker 1: because if you're sitting out there and you're tripping like

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Speaker 1: It is here to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Us upon us.

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Speaker 1: Now listen to me today. I've made a conscientious decision

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Speaker 1: interject a level of humor that would be a very

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Speaker 1: Strawberry callin for real, Mississippi, Monica, Junior kill Space, a nephew,

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Speaker 1: this morning? You know, I was thinking about something. You know,

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Speaker 1: starting a little feel permanent, and I started, you know,

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Speaker 1: This is starting to feel permanent. You need to get out.

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Speaker 1: Call Marjorie, make sure you still got a home. Yeah, yeah, No,

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Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now

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Speaker 1: to start your morning off with run that prank back

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Speaker 1: and the Nephew Nephew? What you got for us today, Sharlette,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach your sister. This is how you doing.

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Speaker 1: Good good evening to you, ma'am. I don't mean to

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Speaker 1: but I I am the new youth minister. I haven't.

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Speaker 1: My name is Sean Williams over at Missionary Baptist Church,

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Speaker 1: which mine is new youth. What happened to um? He's

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Speaker 1: no longer with the church anymore? Man? No, well, I'm

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Speaker 1: But listen, let me let me get down to some

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Speaker 1: more business. Because I've spoken with the pastor. Uh we spoke, yes, Bishop, Yes, man,

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Speaker 1: the deacons. We're in on this meeting as well, but

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Speaker 1: port at the end of the seven days. Do you

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Speaker 1: think this going girl? Come and hang out and party

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Speaker 1: with me. Ain't now what I'm saying. Stop all this

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Speaker 1: singing on this boat. Let me give you another life.

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Speaker 1: Come and hang out with us on this boat. Let

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Speaker 1: me see if you can slide into my cabin. I'm

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Speaker 1: almost gonna do something with you. But when I get

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Speaker 1: off this boat, I got to get back to this

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Speaker 1: damn family life I got. That's right, That's right, all right,

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Cello. Coming up at the top of the hour,

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Speaker 1: we'll have some entertainment news for you. Right after this,

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Speaker 1: you're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show. Well as

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Speaker 1: if this weekend's Oscars weren't star study enough, Queen Bee

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Speaker 1: herself may join the festivities. Variety reports that Beyonce is

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Speaker 1: in talks to perform her Best Original Song nominee be

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Speaker 1: Alive from the film King Richard, about Venus and Serena,

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Speaker 1: William's father. There are rumors floating around that Beyonce's performance

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Speaker 1: may actually happen at a tennis court in Compton, California,

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Speaker 1: where Venus and Serena got their start. There's talks that

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Speaker 1: may even open the show. The twenty twenty two Academy Awards,

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Speaker 1: hosted by Regina Hall, Wanda Sykes, and Amy Schumer. Is

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Speaker 1: this Sunday on a b C. All right, we are

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Speaker 1: be watching for that? Yeah? The Oscars? The Oscars? Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: what is William Packer host? Here's the produce? He's producing

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Speaker 1: the Oscar. Oh he's producing? Oh I thought hosting. Yeah No, no,

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Speaker 1: he's produced. No, he's definitely produced. That's big and that's

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Speaker 1: you gradual, that's real big. Yeah yeah yeah yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: You ever hear somebody get some new hear somebody get

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Speaker 1: some good news, and you'd be trying to plug yourself

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Speaker 1: into it, like what Steve Amy shooting up? You know,

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Speaker 1: you know, you start trying to plug yourself in you know,

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Speaker 1: because I was sitting how the hair. They're gonna ask

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Speaker 1: Will packing a host of damn Oscar and you're sitting

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Speaker 1: here he's producing it. Steve. Oh yeah, you gotta sit

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Speaker 1: back because you don't know how to really how to

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Speaker 1: know how to produce a damn thing business host it

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Speaker 1: because you ain't no woman. They're doing all National Women's

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Speaker 1: History Month. That part, that part all right. Russell Wilson

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Speaker 1: and see Era are already making an impact in their

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Speaker 1: new city. The future Denver Bronco quarterback and his wife

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Speaker 1: see Era made a surprise visit to the children's hospital

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Speaker 1: in Aurora. The couple, who are passionate about uplifting our youth,

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Speaker 1: met with the kids, signed autographs, and read their new book,

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Speaker 1: Why Not You. Sierra also uploaded a video clip from

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Speaker 1: the day on the Graham Truly a special day and

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Speaker 1: I will never forget it doing good things. I love

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Speaker 1: that already away. Beautiful beautiful couple, Yes, beautiful family. All right, yep, yep,

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Speaker 1: you um not what you what you say? Him and

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Speaker 1: Kanye just going do it the futures, not posting at

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Speaker 1: least right now. We look up, man. They do wonderful

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Speaker 1: things and to a more serious story. Now, guys, what

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Speaker 1: is the problem. In Kenosha, Wisconsin, There's been another alleged

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Speaker 1: incident of excessive force by a police officer caught on video.

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Speaker 1: This one involves Wisconsin police officer who was moonlighting as

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Speaker 1: a school security guard. Surveillance video caught him kneeling on

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Speaker 1: the neck of a twelve year old girl while attempting

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Speaker 1: to restrain her after a fight Kenosha police officer. This

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Speaker 1: officer has resigned from his position with the Kenosha Unified

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Speaker 1: School District following the release of the video from the

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Speaker 1: March fourth incident at link In Middle School. His attorney,

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Speaker 1: The attorney who was representing the young girl. The child

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Speaker 1: and her father sat in a news conference last week.

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Speaker 1: This mirror the same maneuver that Derek Chauvin used to

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Speaker 1: murder George Floyd. The officer continued to push his knee

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Speaker 1: into my daughter's neck as she told him she couldn't

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Speaker 1: breathe boyd wow, was illegal. You don't you know? They

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Speaker 1: all all of these tactics are taught in training. That's

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Speaker 1: the knee on the neck, at the top of the spine.

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Speaker 1: The base of the skull is how you put the

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Speaker 1: most pressure to mobilize a person because it affects their

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Speaker 1: breathing and ability to move right. So this is a

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Speaker 1: practice and taught technique. For here's what makes me sick though,

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Speaker 1: with a lot of these damn police officers. And I

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Speaker 1: say a lot of them because it is a lot

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Speaker 1: of them. It's not the small number we thought it,

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Speaker 1: but it's a lot of them. They want to try

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Speaker 1: these techniques out as soon as they can. But it

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Speaker 1: happens to always be on some some young person or

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Speaker 1: some person of color. Yeah, I don't know what twelve,

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Speaker 1: you're a little girl. I can't restrain. I just don't

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Speaker 1: you know, you know, a bad hood something. Yeah, just

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Speaker 1: grip your arms around them something that that right there

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Speaker 1: is excessive. And you know, I got you resigned from

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Speaker 1: the school position, the moonlight job, but this should have

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Speaker 1: you steal a police officer paid to U bolder law

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Speaker 1: and protect and serve. And this is just not the

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Speaker 1: way it's done it. And you know, and once again

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Speaker 1: here we go again. I just want to say to

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Speaker 1: everybody listening to the show that's not African American, why

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Speaker 1: is it that this all ways happens to one of us?

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00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:07,840
Speaker 1: It happens to us, it happens to Latinos, it happens

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Speaker 1: to uh, every somebody, but you got color on your skin,

515
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 1: it's gonna happen to you. Why is that? Unfortunately, and

516
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:21,920
Speaker 1: until it starts happening to people who are not of color,

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00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:25,160
Speaker 1: they just sit there and watch it like it's so.

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Speaker 1: If we didn't if we've went in front of pandemic

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Speaker 1: and we didn't have video footage this, the whole George

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Speaker 1: Floyd thing, would have gone saw that that's absolutely true,

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Speaker 1: would have got away with it, absolutely absolutely. Yeah. All right,

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Speaker 1: we'll be watching that story and keeping you posted. Coming

523
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Speaker 1: up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll talk about

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Speaker 1: the judge Katangie Brown Jackson confirmation hearing right after this

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Speaker 1: you're listening to. Okay, So Lindsey Graham, I'm gonna tell

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Speaker 1: you guys something that everybody he already knows. Lindsey Graham

527
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 1: and Ted Cruise are whack, both of them. Okay. The

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Speaker 1: Senate hearing, Uh yeah, this is this Senate hearing for

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Speaker 1: the Supreme Court justice nominee Katanji Brown Jackson. Is not

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Speaker 1: about her qualifications. It's just all about them. Lindsey Graham,

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Speaker 1: Ted Cruise Lindsey Graham and his questions. He asked her

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Speaker 1: about faith. Uh, what does that have to do with

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Speaker 1: doing her job? Kay? Her faith? About her faith? Yeah?

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00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:34,400
Speaker 1: About her faith? Yeah, did we ask about faith? Did

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Speaker 1: aswer the cav Oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: Uh what does that have to do with doing her job?

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Speaker 1: But but you know, one thing we can say about

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Speaker 1: Judge Brown Jackson is that, you know, she's very classy.

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Speaker 1: She's very smart, very smart. She knew how to answer

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Speaker 1: the questions, uh, very calmly, you know, and just she

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Speaker 1: gave it right back to them. You know, he's not

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00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:01,919
Speaker 1: take a classy and until way, No, she's not. She's

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Speaker 1: absolutely not. Really really well, that's the one that she

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Speaker 1: is over. Yeah, I'm actually watching. I watched a couple

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Speaker 1: hours of it, even early early this morning, which is

546
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Speaker 1: very different from me. But I've just watched her handle herself.

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Speaker 1: I've watched her mother and father sit there off to

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Speaker 1: the side, very dignified, educated people who have raised their

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Speaker 1: daughter to be and she's handling this thing really really well.

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Speaker 1: She was. That was really amazing to be was Ted

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Speaker 1: Cruise's line of line of questioning about racism, allowing it

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Speaker 1: to be taught that, and she she looked flustered, and

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Speaker 1: then she just snapped and said, no, I haven't read

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00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 1: anything that that doesn't fall into the guidelines of my

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Speaker 1: jailed ship. And she was just burying his coward ass.

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Speaker 1: And you know, I wish I was there because I

557
00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:03,759
Speaker 1: really wouldn't go hold on since I got this right here,

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00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:11,160
Speaker 1: you chicken sugar hunting iced tea sitting up in here,

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Speaker 1: questioning this sicker with your cowardice, asked telling you, right,

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Speaker 1: Tarr crews can't say nothing to me. He's just the

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00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:20,440
Speaker 1: worst human being. When you all were going through that

562
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 1: storm in Texas and loads of all that power, and

563
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 1: he set up there and got his ass on the plane,

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Speaker 1: got busted, didn't tried to come back after that. Here,

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Speaker 1: I'm dropping my family off. You don't drop your family

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Speaker 1: off and can't cool on a commercial flight. And then

567
00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 1: set up here and let this man, Donald Trump publicly

568
00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 1: degrade your wife and talk about your beloved deceased father.

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Speaker 1: And you did nothing, nab Bro, you put talking to

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Speaker 1: me about anything. Show coward ass? Did look make you look? Mitchell?

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Speaker 1: I think it's a disguise coming up at thirty four

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Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. We're gonna check Steve's voicemail at

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Speaker 1: eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve. Right after this you're

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Speaker 1: listening to all right, guys, it is time to check

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Speaker 1: Steve's voicemail and if you would like to leave Steve

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Speaker 1: a voicemail, callum eight seven seven twenty nine Steve. You

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00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 1: could hear your message on the air with us. Let's go, Steve,

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Speaker 1: you're ready. Absolutely, April left a message about your your

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Speaker 1: hit show, Judge Steve. Hi, Steve, this is Apro. I

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Speaker 1: want to say I'm absolutely good with hearing what I

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Speaker 1: have to say on the radio because i want the

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Speaker 1: world to know that the Judge Steve Harvey Show is awesome.

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Speaker 1: And I'm screaming like that because of my excitement that's

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Speaker 1: the show got a second season. And I want to

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00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:52,440
Speaker 1: say I really appreciate and love your inspirational words and

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Speaker 1: the prayers that you give us every day, and you

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00:39:56,840 --> 00:40:00,239
Speaker 1: keep me uplift dating. I used to work for the

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00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:03,800
Speaker 1: government and I was a court advocate and the look

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00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:08,480
Speaker 1: that you give and the words and everything that you

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Speaker 1: do in the court is that's awesome. If I were

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Speaker 1: a judge, low and behold, that would be the look

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Speaker 1: that I would want to incident, So Steve, keep doing

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Speaker 1: it for us all. I want you to continue your

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Speaker 1: growth and if there's something greater than being the Judge there,

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Speaker 1: then cal found it. I want you to climb up

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Speaker 1: to that ladder and do it again and do more.

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Speaker 1: God bless and thank you for everything. And I love

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Speaker 1: the morning show. I live in the valley and it's

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Speaker 1: hard to get a signal, so thank you for the

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Speaker 1: app because Google brings it to me just the way

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Speaker 1: I need it. All right, have a wonderful day, God glad. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much. Auto. Yes, if you live in

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Speaker 1: the valley, doesn't go over there because we're on the station,

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Speaker 1: wonderful station having the station out there, my main man,

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Speaker 1: Stevie wonder on the station. But if there are a

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Speaker 1: lot of birds in the ad box, they signal from

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Speaker 1: going down the hill. Like you said, our heart app

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Speaker 1: is the way to get it. For that. Also dealing

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Speaker 1: with your concerning that you love the Judge. Thank you

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Speaker 1: so much, darling. I will hopefully continue down the road

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Speaker 1: in the path of that there is more for me.

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Speaker 1: I shall want to see what it is, because this

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Speaker 1: a lot as we speak right now, So thank you,

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Speaker 1: Thank you for calling you started April girl, Look what

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Speaker 1: you started? All right, Let's go to Marcus out of Gary, Indiana. Hey, Steve,

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00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:55,319
Speaker 1: this is Marcus out in Gary. I'm at work right now,

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Speaker 1: driving in this land, and you got me dying laughing out.

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00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:02,799
Speaker 1: How you lay on your stomach and raise that leg

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Speaker 1: up and that funk come rattling up out your butt. Crack,

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Speaker 1: I'm delly. They don't understand. Man, Hey, as a man,

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Speaker 1: you understand when you don't get your butt in that shower,

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Speaker 1: that funk gonna go ratzing up to us. Man, your

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Speaker 1: wife coming and be mad as ill. But I appreciate

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Speaker 1: the last this morning, brother, But you are correct. Man.

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Speaker 1: They love you. Man. Well, I'll let you later. Market.

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Speaker 1: That's true statement. Every every man been there all you

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Speaker 1: might see things about me. You're hitting every man. Put

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Speaker 1: it on your stomach and raise that knee off. Think

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Speaker 1: about a minute, Market, slow rolling fun. I'm telling you

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Speaker 1: that call. It's like dry coming over the edge of

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Speaker 1: a bucket. You can see it come of, look scary,

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Speaker 1: it's creeping, But it's the same fall. Though we don't

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Speaker 1: lose it in distant it ticity. It's the same thickness. Okay,

634
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:16,680
Speaker 1: we got it, Steve, we got it. Uh, this caller

635
00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:23,640
Speaker 1: is from Detroit. Let's go hey, yo, let's Steven looks

636
00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:28,960
Speaker 1: want to man, I have a good time enjoy y'all

637
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:31,839
Speaker 1: every morning when I'm on my way to work. Man,

638
00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:35,880
Speaker 1: y'all making me laugh with this clank own cars and

639
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 1: everything else. Man, But I mean it's Anthony. I'm out

640
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:45,120
Speaker 1: of Detroit. I love all y'all energy, man, I love

641
00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:49,120
Speaker 1: all y'all spirits. Just keep it up, man, All right, Anthony,

642
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:51,800
Speaker 1: we appreciate you. Man. That's ninety two point three to

643
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:55,440
Speaker 1: mix out of Detroit. You understand special feeling for that

644
00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:59,799
Speaker 1: city right there. I love it D time yo, always yeah,

645
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:04,680
Speaker 1: all right. Coming up next to it's a prank phone

646
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:07,960
Speaker 1: call with the nephew. Right after this, you're listening to

647
00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:13,279
Speaker 1: the morning show. Coming up at the top of the hour.

648
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:16,279
Speaker 1: Right about four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today,

649
00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:19,960
Speaker 1: and the subject is the crazy Cookie Lady. We'll get

650
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:23,799
Speaker 1: into that in just a bit, right, but right now

651
00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:26,920
Speaker 1: it is the nephew with today's prank phone call. What

652
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:29,200
Speaker 1: you got first, nephew, Well, sir, let me take a

653
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:31,799
Speaker 1: stab at being stupid looking for a home run here,

654
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:36,160
Speaker 1: Yeah you can. The title is can you hear me? Now?

655
00:44:37,320 --> 00:44:42,959
Speaker 1: Can you hear me? Man? Cat dog? Let's go Hello.

656
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:48,439
Speaker 1: I'm trying to speak to sister Lauren. Please vegan, Sister Lauren.

657
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:50,120
Speaker 1: This is a brother David's from the church. I don't

658
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:51,920
Speaker 1: know if you know me. You might know me when

659
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 1: you see me, but I don't know if you just

660
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:55,960
Speaker 1: know me because we don't really interact that much at

661
00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 1: the church. But I wanted to give you a call.

662
00:44:57,640 --> 00:45:00,520
Speaker 1: We got a bit of a problem going on. Okay,

663
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:02,759
Speaker 1: you got you get Do you have a minute to talk? Well?

664
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:06,719
Speaker 1: Apparently all right? Now, how long have you been doing

665
00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 1: uh the sign you in the you know you in

666
00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:12,239
Speaker 1: the ministry where you do the sign language for the church?

667
00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:15,279
Speaker 1: And um, you know I noticed you up there at

668
00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:18,879
Speaker 1: least two Sundays out of a out of the month.

669
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:20,960
Speaker 1: You've been doing it quite a while, am I right?

670
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:23,560
Speaker 1: So yes, I've been doing it for over ten years.

671
00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:28,240
Speaker 1: But I'm really confused as to why you're calling about

672
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:30,880
Speaker 1: this time. I'm just really be confused. I don't know

673
00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:33,120
Speaker 1: who you are. You say that I see your faith.

674
00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:36,040
Speaker 1: I may know you, but what does this have to

675
00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:38,920
Speaker 1: do with anything? Is how long I've been doing sign language.

676
00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:41,520
Speaker 1: I know. Okay, so I've been doing it for years?

677
00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:46,279
Speaker 1: So how how man help you with this? Do you want? Okay? So, no, no,

678
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:48,960
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to learn any sign language. Do you do?

679
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:51,440
Speaker 1: You know miss everybody call him Miss murder Do you

680
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:56,480
Speaker 1: know Miss Murdle? Oh yeah, sure you okay, so Miss Murdle,

681
00:45:56,680 --> 00:46:00,200
Speaker 1: that's that's that's that's that's one of my aunties, right yeah,

682
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 1: Miss murder li is okay, And she gave me my

683
00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:06,680
Speaker 1: number to call me. I'm what what do you need

684
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 1: for me? Did she get? No? That's what I'm getting that.

685
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:12,040
Speaker 1: So so you know, you know my you know, my

686
00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:16,960
Speaker 1: honors is deaf. You know she's hearing that, you know that? Right? Okay? Yeah, okay,

687
00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:20,960
Speaker 1: So so here's a problem. Ain't Murderles is telling us

688
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:24,840
Speaker 1: that you're not doing the sign language right, doing the

689
00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:28,120
Speaker 1: service and like you're missing some things in the scripture

690
00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 1: or something. No, no, no, that's incorrect. I've been doing

691
00:46:33,200 --> 00:46:35,440
Speaker 1: this for a very long time and I know what

692
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:38,480
Speaker 1: I'm doing. So how do you so she told you

693
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 1: for me to tell me that I'm not doing this

694
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:44,719
Speaker 1: silanguage correctly? Let me say, let me say this to

695
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 1: you let me. I don't want us to get off

696
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 1: on the wrong foot. Let me just say this to you.

697
00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:50,320
Speaker 1: Once my once my murder told us what was going on.

698
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:54,040
Speaker 1: You know. We then went to one of the deacons

699
00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:55,759
Speaker 1: and asked him, you know, is that way we can

700
00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:58,879
Speaker 1: uh have a meeting, you know, with with with sister

701
00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:00,640
Speaker 1: Lawrence so we can try to get just taking care

702
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:02,840
Speaker 1: of and talk about it. He said, well, won't you

703
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:05,279
Speaker 1: just won't you just call and y'all can just work

704
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:09,640
Speaker 1: it out. And that's how I'm calling you now. I hope.

705
00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:11,640
Speaker 1: I don't know if you're at work or whatever. I apologize,

706
00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:13,239
Speaker 1: but I'm just trying to get to the bottom of Now.

707
00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:16,279
Speaker 1: Let me gonna say this. If my ain't murders say

708
00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:20,479
Speaker 1: that you ain't signing right, then my ain'tie ain't lying.

709
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:25,400
Speaker 1: That means your excuse me, that means you ain't signing right. Really,

710
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:28,880
Speaker 1: so the pastor couldn't come to me, but he but

711
00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:31,239
Speaker 1: you figured you would just call me and tell me

712
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:34,960
Speaker 1: that your auntie says I'm doing it incorrectly. That doesn't

713
00:47:34,960 --> 00:47:36,480
Speaker 1: make sense to me. How did she tell you that?

714
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 1: Did she sign it to you? She signed language to

715
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:42,400
Speaker 1: her daughter. Listen, you ain't got to worry about who

716
00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:44,759
Speaker 1: she's signing too. What you need to worry about is

717
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:48,840
Speaker 1: getting your getting your stuff together all right, and learning

718
00:47:48,880 --> 00:47:50,719
Speaker 1: how to do this the correct way so that my

719
00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:53,080
Speaker 1: Ain'tie can get You know, my anti needs to be

720
00:47:53,160 --> 00:47:55,000
Speaker 1: getting the word like everybody else getting the word, but

721
00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:57,919
Speaker 1: she not getting it because you the words getting lost

722
00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 1: in your hands. All I'm hearing is your voice is

723
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:03,640
Speaker 1: getting very loud and you need to match my tone,

724
00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:07,240
Speaker 1: young man. Okay, let's start with that. Which I mean, mann?

725
00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:13,320
Speaker 1: Is that match my tone because you're getting very loud

726
00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:16,799
Speaker 1: and I can't hear through all of that. All right, Okay, okay,

727
00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:22,840
Speaker 1: I am praid situation. You called my phone. Correct. You

728
00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:25,000
Speaker 1: have a problem that you're discussing with me, but you're

729
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:27,279
Speaker 1: getting more anger than anything else. How am I going

730
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:29,840
Speaker 1: to resolve this problem? I am trying to be a

731
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:33,080
Speaker 1: court where you resolve this problem. Is Carr yours back

732
00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:35,080
Speaker 1: to science school so you can learn what you need

733
00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:37,560
Speaker 1: to so my Anie can get the word. My Antie

734
00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:40,400
Speaker 1: can't get out the gospel because you're messing it up.

735
00:48:40,920 --> 00:48:44,600
Speaker 1: God anointed me to do style language at that church,

736
00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:46,279
Speaker 1: and I've been doing it for a long time, and

737
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:49,320
Speaker 1: I will continue to do so. So don't call my

738
00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:52,120
Speaker 1: phone telling me that I'm not doing something right? You know?

739
00:48:52,320 --> 00:48:55,080
Speaker 1: But do God know that you're not doing it right?

740
00:48:55,520 --> 00:48:58,919
Speaker 1: Do God know that? Does God know that my ain't

741
00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:02,600
Speaker 1: myrtle not get the word because of you? Named young man?

742
00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:06,040
Speaker 1: Jesus please give me the strength to continue on with

743
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:09,160
Speaker 1: this conversation. But you know what, Lord, I'm gonna be

744
00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:12,880
Speaker 1: right back. Little. Let me tell you something. Don't you

745
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:15,960
Speaker 1: ever call my mother freaking phone telling about I ain't

746
00:49:16,040 --> 00:49:18,760
Speaker 1: doing something? Man? If I see you in the street,

747
00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:22,000
Speaker 1: this can't I have is gonna go upside your goddamn head?

748
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:25,400
Speaker 1: Did I make my stuff player? I cannot believe you

749
00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:27,719
Speaker 1: talking to me like this? Oh now you want to

750
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 1: be calm? Now you calm? Now? You match my tone.

751
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:33,640
Speaker 1: I can't believe you just got through talking to me

752
00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:36,680
Speaker 1: like that. Are we done here? So you think it's

753
00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:40,319
Speaker 1: cool for you to tell the Lord? I be right back,

754
00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:43,399
Speaker 1: Thank you, Lord. I needed a moment. You right, we've

755
00:49:43,440 --> 00:49:45,320
Speaker 1: been on the stone this Lord, you've been on skiing

756
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:48,520
Speaker 1: at me. I told you to match my tone. Match

757
00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:53,759
Speaker 1: my tone. I am matching your tone? Now? Can I say?

758
00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:56,680
Speaker 1: Can I? Can I give you something else in this tone?

759
00:49:57,120 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 1: Do you mind if I say something in this tone? Here?

760
00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:02,480
Speaker 1: A click in the dog real quick, go ahead, kill you.

761
00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:05,440
Speaker 1: I just want to tell you in this tone that

762
00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:09,320
Speaker 1: your friend Vonda Taylor got me to prank phone call you.

763
00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:12,600
Speaker 1: I am nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

764
00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:19,200
Speaker 1: In your tone, who does oh Lord, have mercy you? Bonda,

765
00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:24,799
Speaker 1: Bonda Taylor, Bonda Taylor, tell me you bet I put

766
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:30,759
Speaker 1: this on the radio. Put on the radio in Jesus name,

767
00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:35,560
Speaker 1: amen radio. I'm not playing any game time me. I

768
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:38,680
Speaker 1: think it's funny, but it thinks this is my job here. Listen,

769
00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 1: everything is fine? Are you having going there? I had

770
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:44,520
Speaker 1: to tell Jesus give me a minute because you was

771
00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:48,000
Speaker 1: about to be my pressure of Lord, have mercy. I

772
00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:49,680
Speaker 1: don't even want to hear this, but I will be

773
00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:53,000
Speaker 1: calling Bonda because I have some mercy. Oh Lord, Lord,

774
00:50:53,680 --> 00:50:58,040
Speaker 1: Lord Father, please forgives me. Okay, you gotta you gotta

775
00:50:58,080 --> 00:51:00,440
Speaker 1: do this for me in my tone, in my tone,

776
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:03,680
Speaker 1: tell me in your tone, what is the baddest radio

777
00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:11,560
Speaker 1: show in the land? In your tone? In my tone,

778
00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:18,040
Speaker 1: baby man, that I picked up from that prank that

779
00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:20,839
Speaker 1: she was She asked the Lord to forgive her when

780
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:23,840
Speaker 1: she cussed. You want to start doing that? Oh no,

781
00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:34,120
Speaker 1: that'd be all day, enough hours in the day. I

782
00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 1: stopped doing that. I wondered, maybe I should try to

783
00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 1: Remember we had the jaw when you put the money,

784
00:51:41,160 --> 00:51:43,640
Speaker 1: and we tried that for a while. We tried it

785
00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:46,720
Speaker 1: for an hour. Remember that he couldn't do it for hour.

786
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:51,000
Speaker 1: Well I did it for an hour, but your jaw

787
00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:57,920
Speaker 1: was full. Yeah, it was full life savings five grain

788
00:52:00,800 --> 00:52:04,560
Speaker 1: paper in now. And it was his idea to not

789
00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:08,840
Speaker 1: cut for a day. It was his idea. It sure was.

790
00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:12,000
Speaker 1: You know what messed it up though they talked about

791
00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:13,719
Speaker 1: it was my idea. You know what messed it up?

792
00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:21,839
Speaker 1: They started talking to me, so we can't regular conversation.

793
00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:32,600
Speaker 1: I thought they were gonna be quiet behind that, just

794
00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:42,439
Speaker 1: talking and talking without talking to you as good. Thank

795
00:52:42,480 --> 00:52:46,480
Speaker 1: you match my tone? Young man? Yeah, young man? Can

796
00:52:46,600 --> 00:52:51,160
Speaker 1: you hear me now? I take let's let's give let's

797
00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:53,120
Speaker 1: give a big ups to everybody out there to do

798
00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:55,200
Speaker 1: sign language at the church, because that's a that's an

799
00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:59,359
Speaker 1: incredible job they do every Sunday. They deliver the word.

800
00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:01,640
Speaker 1: What they hand is that's something I know. I can't

801
00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:04,480
Speaker 1: do the word be so wrong if you had me

802
00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:11,440
Speaker 1: up there, you can't deliver it with your mouth. Okay, okay,

803
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:16,919
Speaker 1: all right, nephew, thank you. Coming up next Strawberry Letter,

804
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:21,440
Speaker 1: subject the Crazy Cookie Lady, The Crazy Cookie Lady. We'll

805
00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:24,560
Speaker 1: get into it right after this. You're listening to the

806
00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:29,759
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now for today's Strawberry Letter.

807
00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:33,480
Speaker 1: And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

808
00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:36,759
Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM

809
00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:39,800
Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be

810
00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:42,920
Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

811
00:53:42,920 --> 00:53:46,000
Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, Pop pop, right now.

812
00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:48,960
Speaker 1: You never know, it could be yours. You never know.

813
00:53:49,320 --> 00:53:51,120
Speaker 1: Bugle love and hold on type. We got it for you.

814
00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:55,000
Speaker 1: Here it is Strawberry Letter. Thank you, nephew. Subject the

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00:53:55,120 --> 00:53:58,640
Speaker 1: Crazy Cookie Lady. Dear Stephen Shirley. I am a twenty

816
00:53:58,719 --> 00:54:01,319
Speaker 1: nine year old single woman. My mom had me when

817
00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:04,680
Speaker 1: she was forty two, so she's considerably older than my

818
00:54:04,800 --> 00:54:08,440
Speaker 1: friend's parents. I've always been around older women, and I

819
00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:11,080
Speaker 1: heard a lot of conversations that I shouldn't have heard

820
00:54:11,480 --> 00:54:14,920
Speaker 1: before I was of age. My mother and her friends

821
00:54:14,960 --> 00:54:18,480
Speaker 1: were all single moms, and they've always been crazy about men.

822
00:54:18,920 --> 00:54:21,839
Speaker 1: When I grew up, I was boy crazy. Now I'm

823
00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:24,840
Speaker 1: older and still single, I can see how crazy my

824
00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:28,960
Speaker 1: childhood and teenage years were. My mother had different men

825
00:54:29,120 --> 00:54:32,320
Speaker 1: for different occasions, and they all showered her with gifts

826
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:35,520
Speaker 1: and money. I thought it was what men were supposed

827
00:54:35,520 --> 00:54:37,959
Speaker 1: to do, so I grew up looking for this type

828
00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:42,919
Speaker 1: of arrangement. An older gem date me, and he told

829
00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:44,640
Speaker 1: me up front that I have to give up the

830
00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:47,720
Speaker 1: honey to get the money. I stayed away from dirty

831
00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:50,239
Speaker 1: old men, and I joined a church and started going

832
00:54:50,320 --> 00:54:53,839
Speaker 1: to Bible study regularly. I met a nice man at

833
00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:57,920
Speaker 1: this church, and I thought he was the one. We

834
00:54:58,080 --> 00:55:00,400
Speaker 1: weren't in a hurry to have sex and took me.

835
00:55:00,920 --> 00:55:03,840
Speaker 1: He took his time getting to know me. It was

836
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:06,879
Speaker 1: four months into our relationship when we decided to meet

837
00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:09,640
Speaker 1: each other's parents. He brought his dad to church, and

838
00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:12,400
Speaker 1: I took my mom to church. My mother saw his

839
00:55:12,560 --> 00:55:15,319
Speaker 1: dad from a distance and didn't want to meet him.

840
00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:18,800
Speaker 1: His dad called my mom's name and she hurried away.

841
00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:21,839
Speaker 1: I asked how he knew her name, and he said,

842
00:55:22,000 --> 00:55:25,720
Speaker 1: that's crazy cookie ladies. He said, that's what the guys

843
00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:28,200
Speaker 1: call her now because she still thinks she's got it

844
00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:31,399
Speaker 1: and she's still trying to pass it out. I told

845
00:55:31,480 --> 00:55:34,719
Speaker 1: him that my mom. I told him that was my mom,

846
00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:38,680
Speaker 1: and he apologized but was still laughing. I broke up

847
00:55:38,719 --> 00:55:41,560
Speaker 1: with the guy because of his dad, uncle Stephen, and

848
00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:45,279
Speaker 1: Shirley Is. They're a way to get my old and

849
00:55:45,440 --> 00:55:51,319
Speaker 1: not so sexy mother to chill out. I just got

850
00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:53,920
Speaker 1: to ask you, what do you think you're gonna tell

851
00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:56,440
Speaker 1: your mom at this late date? I mean, what do

852
00:55:56,520 --> 00:55:58,120
Speaker 1: you think you can tell her. If you think you

853
00:55:58,200 --> 00:56:00,360
Speaker 1: can tell her something, go ahead, but I doubt it.

854
00:56:00,440 --> 00:56:03,960
Speaker 1: You're twenty nine, you know. I don't think this is

855
00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:07,400
Speaker 1: gonna work. You're older now, but still your mom is

856
00:56:07,480 --> 00:56:10,080
Speaker 1: who she is. This has been going on since you

857
00:56:10,120 --> 00:56:14,080
Speaker 1: were a little girl, so much so that you took

858
00:56:14,160 --> 00:56:17,759
Speaker 1: your life in an entirely different direction. That's how much

859
00:56:17,920 --> 00:56:21,320
Speaker 1: you didn't want to be like your mom. But my

860
00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:24,440
Speaker 1: advice to you is to live your life because your

861
00:56:24,480 --> 00:56:27,799
Speaker 1: mom is doing mom. Okay, you might be embarrassed by

862
00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:31,040
Speaker 1: your mom, but you are not responsible for her crazy

863
00:56:31,120 --> 00:56:35,920
Speaker 1: cookie lady behavior. You've also you're also not obligated to

864
00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:39,960
Speaker 1: tolerate her boyfriend's dad disrespect of your mom, and although

865
00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:42,200
Speaker 1: it wasn't his fault, you did break up with your

866
00:56:42,239 --> 00:56:44,560
Speaker 1: man behind it. I don't think you should have done

867
00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:47,279
Speaker 1: that necessarily. He sounded like a decent guy. I mean

868
00:56:47,320 --> 00:56:49,800
Speaker 1: he should have checked his dad or else he wouldn't

869
00:56:49,800 --> 00:56:51,920
Speaker 1: have had wanted you to meet his parents in the

870
00:56:52,040 --> 00:56:55,239
Speaker 1: first place. But all your concerned with is your mom

871
00:56:55,360 --> 00:56:58,040
Speaker 1: at this point, and I mean that's a good concern,

872
00:56:58,600 --> 00:57:01,640
Speaker 1: but there's nothing you can do about mama. Mama's grown

873
00:57:01,840 --> 00:57:04,640
Speaker 1: and living her life. You need to get your man

874
00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:07,760
Speaker 1: back and live yours just like your mom is doing. Steve,

875
00:57:09,480 --> 00:57:13,759
Speaker 1: you know, I don't really want to do this letter.

876
00:57:14,760 --> 00:57:18,760
Speaker 1: M hmm, I really don't. I'm I'm protesting this letter.

877
00:57:19,560 --> 00:57:23,080
Speaker 1: And why why don't you want to do? You know what? What?

878
00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:26,760
Speaker 1: What can we say exactly? You know what? I mean?

879
00:57:26,840 --> 00:57:30,520
Speaker 1: You tried to say something, but try You know, your

880
00:57:30,560 --> 00:57:38,320
Speaker 1: mama's semny one seventy one what she can't even meet

881
00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:43,400
Speaker 1: nobody at church, causing her reputation crazy cookie lady. So

882
00:57:43,560 --> 00:57:48,400
Speaker 1: now you can't take your mama know where. I don't

883
00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:55,520
Speaker 1: even want to go through the letter. I'm protesting this letter. Yeah,

884
00:57:55,840 --> 00:57:57,840
Speaker 1: you know, so I'm doing something I've never done before.

885
00:57:57,840 --> 00:58:02,160
Speaker 1: I'm protesting this strawberry letter. But I mean, but you

886
00:58:02,240 --> 00:58:04,840
Speaker 1: can ask me questions about it, Sherley or call or

887
00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:07,040
Speaker 1: anybody else. Y'all can ask me questions about it. But

888
00:58:07,520 --> 00:58:09,800
Speaker 1: I don't have anything for this now. I'm in protests.

889
00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:13,080
Speaker 1: Go ahead, But do you think the daughter. I don't

890
00:58:13,160 --> 00:58:15,760
Speaker 1: think she's responsible and she shouldn't feel that way. But

891
00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:19,640
Speaker 1: do you think she is feeling responsible for her mom's behavior. Well,

892
00:58:19,800 --> 00:58:23,760
Speaker 1: she's embarrassed by her mother, embarrassed. She then broke up

893
00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:27,200
Speaker 1: with this young guy because of the young guys daddy's comments.

894
00:58:27,800 --> 00:58:30,800
Speaker 1: Like you said in your response, that don't make no

895
00:58:31,000 --> 00:58:35,000
Speaker 1: sense because the guy did nothing wrong. Yeah, I don't

896
00:58:35,040 --> 00:58:37,560
Speaker 1: think y'all we should have broken up with him going along,

897
00:58:37,640 --> 00:58:39,920
Speaker 1: and then you're gonna break up with him because her daddy,

898
00:58:40,400 --> 00:58:49,160
Speaker 1: his daddy recognize your mama, Your mama seventy one, still

899
00:58:49,400 --> 00:58:54,520
Speaker 1: passing it out? Now you call her told the old

900
00:58:54,760 --> 00:58:59,120
Speaker 1: the crazy cookie lady. But what is she passing out?

901
00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:06,720
Speaker 1: Knock writing? I probably just chrome, oh maybe a cookie dope.

902
00:59:09,440 --> 00:59:12,280
Speaker 1: It might even be cooking batter. At this point, I

903
00:59:12,440 --> 00:59:17,480
Speaker 1: don't know. I haven't been there. I'm headed. Now I'm

904
00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:21,200
Speaker 1: hoping it remains the same. It looks like it probably will.

905
00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:28,080
Speaker 1: But when you didn't use so much of it. But

906
00:59:29,120 --> 00:59:33,080
Speaker 1: how about when when she saw her daughter's boyfriend's dad,

907
00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:36,240
Speaker 1: she went the other way, so she knows her mom,

908
00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:38,880
Speaker 1: she knows something is up. I mean, you know, she

909
00:59:38,920 --> 00:59:40,800
Speaker 1: didn't even want to meet the dad. You know what

910
00:59:40,880 --> 00:59:42,800
Speaker 1: I'm saying. She didn't even gonna want to meet him.

911
00:59:42,920 --> 00:59:45,320
Speaker 1: She wanted to be out of there, So maybe there's out.

912
00:59:45,400 --> 00:59:49,600
Speaker 1: When the daddy said, hey, that going old crazy cookie lady,

913
00:59:50,320 --> 00:59:54,320
Speaker 1: Oh jeez, she had to tell him whold up? Now

914
00:59:54,360 --> 00:59:59,640
Speaker 1: that's my mama. Yea, she should have. Yeah, I'm so sorry.

915
01:00:00,800 --> 01:00:03,760
Speaker 1: I'm not mad, as she should have defended her mom

916
01:00:03,960 --> 01:00:07,960
Speaker 1: for sure. Yeah yeah. All right, Well, we'll come back

917
01:00:08,040 --> 01:00:10,080
Speaker 1: and try to make something out of this letter if

918
01:00:10,120 --> 01:00:13,640
Speaker 1: we can. At twenty three minutes after the hour. The

919
01:00:13,720 --> 01:00:17,640
Speaker 1: subject of today's Strawberry letter the crazy Cookie Lady. We'll

920
01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:22,320
Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening show,

921
01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:24,960
Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's try to make some

922
01:00:25,080 --> 01:00:27,600
Speaker 1: sense out of the Strawberry letter today. The subject is

923
01:00:27,640 --> 01:00:32,200
Speaker 1: the crazy cookie lady. All right, So since we can't

924
01:00:32,240 --> 01:00:34,880
Speaker 1: make any sense about this this woman, this mother had

925
01:00:34,920 --> 01:00:38,520
Speaker 1: her lady life at forty two. The girl is currently

926
01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:41,480
Speaker 1: twenty nine years old writing this letter. So she's writing

927
01:00:41,520 --> 01:00:46,120
Speaker 1: a letter about her mother, who's seventy one. Now they've met.

928
01:00:46,800 --> 01:00:49,360
Speaker 1: She had problems with guys her whole life because her

929
01:00:49,400 --> 01:00:51,760
Speaker 1: mama had been dating me and that's been gifting her

930
01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:54,440
Speaker 1: stuff her whole life, and so she thought that's how

931
01:00:54,520 --> 01:00:58,080
Speaker 1: I would go. And so she started dating an older

932
01:00:58,160 --> 01:01:02,120
Speaker 1: man and the man told, huh, I don't give you

933
01:01:02,240 --> 01:01:05,680
Speaker 1: no money without no honey. So she decided that's not

934
01:01:05,840 --> 01:01:07,800
Speaker 1: the life. She won't. She turns her life around. She

935
01:01:07,920 --> 01:01:12,000
Speaker 1: started going to church. She met this wonderful man, seemed

936
01:01:12,040 --> 01:01:14,200
Speaker 1: to be everything. It's been going really well, and it's

937
01:01:14,240 --> 01:01:17,680
Speaker 1: going so good for so long that her and the

938
01:01:17,760 --> 01:01:21,240
Speaker 1: guy she's met in dating been taking her time, ain't

939
01:01:21,280 --> 01:01:23,640
Speaker 1: forcing her, ain't pressing her for sex, and none is

940
01:01:23,640 --> 01:01:26,600
Speaker 1: going just right. They decide that their parents should meet.

941
01:01:27,280 --> 01:01:30,800
Speaker 1: So he bought his father to church, and she bought

942
01:01:31,600 --> 01:01:33,880
Speaker 1: her mother to church. At the end, they were about

943
01:01:33,920 --> 01:01:37,160
Speaker 1: to introduce him, the guy blurts out, now that her

944
01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:39,400
Speaker 1: mama sees the man and try to turn the other way.

945
01:01:39,720 --> 01:01:43,680
Speaker 1: The man blurts out Hey, that's a crazy cooking lady. Hey,

946
01:01:44,480 --> 01:01:46,840
Speaker 1: my mama, not in the whole of First he said,

947
01:01:46,880 --> 01:01:49,960
Speaker 1: we recall a cooking lady because she still she thinks

948
01:01:50,000 --> 01:01:52,080
Speaker 1: she still got it and still trying to pass it

949
01:01:52,160 --> 01:01:54,880
Speaker 1: out like a trade, you know what. I'm like, Hey,

950
01:01:55,160 --> 01:02:01,479
Speaker 1: that's my mama. But he's still laughing though, right yeah,

951
01:02:01,680 --> 01:02:05,080
Speaker 1: So here we go. This is a re enactment. Oh,

952
01:02:07,520 --> 01:02:14,040
Speaker 1: Tommy's gonna be the crazy cookie lady in denial. I'm

953
01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:17,080
Speaker 1: gonna be one of the guys or several of the

954
01:02:17,200 --> 01:02:19,520
Speaker 1: guys that see hub. But she always in de Now

955
01:02:19,680 --> 01:02:26,120
Speaker 1: right here we go, look at him. Sec what's up? Hey? Baby?

956
01:02:26,280 --> 01:02:30,880
Speaker 1: Do I know you from soon? Cec Come on now,

957
01:02:31,760 --> 01:02:36,880
Speaker 1: come on, Oh, hold on, hold on you. Oh oh

958
01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:43,360
Speaker 1: you don't remember I don't really remember you. Baby. What

959
01:02:43,560 --> 01:02:55,800
Speaker 1: is your name? You wasn't worried about my name back then? Either? Well, well,

960
01:02:56,640 --> 01:02:59,000
Speaker 1: remind me of your name. I don't. I just don't

961
01:02:59,120 --> 01:03:08,760
Speaker 1: remember me who you are, Curtis. Oh you don't remember that, Curtis.

962
01:03:10,680 --> 01:03:13,080
Speaker 1: Remember that time you Remember that time before I came over,

963
01:03:13,160 --> 01:03:14,760
Speaker 1: I had to stop at the store and buy you

964
01:03:14,880 --> 01:03:19,800
Speaker 1: all for them or panty holes in the eggs. Remember

965
01:03:19,840 --> 01:03:25,680
Speaker 1: the man I had to buy four Curtiss, Curtis, I

966
01:03:25,800 --> 01:03:30,200
Speaker 1: bought you four eggs over to the house. Panty holes

967
01:03:30,240 --> 01:03:34,280
Speaker 1: in the tube that look like eggs that I cook

968
01:03:34,360 --> 01:03:42,960
Speaker 1: you some eggs, baby in the eggs. I had to

969
01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:51,919
Speaker 1: get your queen size that side. I don't remember anything, okay, okay,

970
01:03:51,960 --> 01:03:55,320
Speaker 1: Well how about this right here? How about that time

971
01:03:56,240 --> 01:03:58,600
Speaker 1: you wouldn't come see me unless I gassed up your

972
01:03:58,680 --> 01:04:06,640
Speaker 1: car and changed the older that music. Now you drove

973
01:04:06,840 --> 01:04:10,120
Speaker 1: my car, you had my car, took it right down

974
01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:14,680
Speaker 1: to Jiffy Loup, my cutless Supreme you had that you

975
01:04:14,800 --> 01:04:23,920
Speaker 1: had with Yeah, I had white and dard wheel padded

976
01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:27,400
Speaker 1: wrap on it. I had the white steering wheel. I

977
01:04:27,560 --> 01:04:32,320
Speaker 1: do remember that? Uh not okay? And you say you

978
01:04:32,480 --> 01:04:35,760
Speaker 1: gassed it and put all in it. I changed your

979
01:04:35,800 --> 01:04:39,040
Speaker 1: oil a Jiffy Lou and gassed it up right next

980
01:04:39,120 --> 01:04:43,919
Speaker 1: door at quick trip, A quick trip. Yeah that's down

981
01:04:44,000 --> 01:04:48,720
Speaker 1: the street, quick trip. And you and you as Curtis,

982
01:04:48,840 --> 01:04:58,520
Speaker 1: you say, right, Curtis, Curtis, Curtis with a Curtis. I

983
01:04:58,640 --> 01:05:01,200
Speaker 1: know your mama, Curtis, dude, I know your man. No,

984
01:05:01,400 --> 01:05:07,919
Speaker 1: you don't know my mama. I'm saving hell. You're gonna

985
01:05:07,960 --> 01:05:16,320
Speaker 1: know my mama. Oh this Curtis. I'm seventy eight. Cur

986
01:05:17,280 --> 01:05:21,680
Speaker 1: Now you're saying we had relations, CURREDI oh, you're gonna

987
01:05:21,680 --> 01:05:28,440
Speaker 1: play dumb now, Curdy, we had relations? When did we had? What?

988
01:05:32,720 --> 01:05:36,000
Speaker 1: I don't. I had the room for four hours, twelve

989
01:05:36,080 --> 01:05:40,280
Speaker 1: of four hour, I know I ain't had nothing room

990
01:05:40,360 --> 01:05:43,920
Speaker 1: for the bed of a draw on the floor. I no,

991
01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:46,920
Speaker 1: Miss Cook wouldn't go nowhere like that. You think you think,

992
01:05:46,920 --> 01:05:49,520
Speaker 1: miss Cook, it went somewhere like that. Women hold hold

993
01:05:50,600 --> 01:05:52,680
Speaker 1: had to go out and gasped up the car on

994
01:05:52,840 --> 01:05:55,560
Speaker 1: a change your hall. I had a car wash for you,

995
01:05:56,560 --> 01:05:58,800
Speaker 1: and I put a brand new white stare we will

996
01:05:58,840 --> 01:06:02,120
Speaker 1: wrap on it. And had a little pair of baby

997
01:06:02,160 --> 01:06:04,600
Speaker 1: shoes you had in now wipe them off and made

998
01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:07,960
Speaker 1: them look like baby shot. All right, listen, post your

999
01:06:08,000 --> 01:06:15,120
Speaker 1: co Strawberry Letter, No, post your comments on today Strawberry

1000
01:06:15,200 --> 01:06:17,680
Speaker 1: Letter and Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook, and

1001
01:06:17,760 --> 01:06:21,240
Speaker 1: check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand coming up

1002
01:06:21,280 --> 01:06:24,080
Speaker 1: in forty six minutes after the hour Curtis and the

1003
01:06:24,160 --> 01:06:28,240
Speaker 1: Cookie Crazy Cookie Lady back. No, it's Junior in Sports Talk.

1004
01:06:28,680 --> 01:06:33,880
Speaker 1: Right after that, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show

1005
01:06:34,520 --> 01:06:37,480
Speaker 1: Time now for junior and sports talk. What you got

1006
01:06:37,600 --> 01:06:40,920
Speaker 1: Junior Will Shirley. But just remember Dallas is coming up

1007
01:06:40,920 --> 01:06:43,680
Speaker 1: in less than ten days. All right, April first, We're

1008
01:06:43,680 --> 01:06:46,600
Speaker 1: gonna be right there in Dallas at the Texas trust

1009
01:06:46,720 --> 01:06:51,720
Speaker 1: Theater April Fools, Comedy Jam, Earthquake, Bruce Bruce, Bill Bellamy, myself,

1010
01:06:51,880 --> 01:06:55,600
Speaker 1: Ryan Davis, and Chantey Ways, Texas Trusty the ticketmaster dot Com.

1011
01:06:55,680 --> 01:06:57,400
Speaker 1: Go ahead and get your tickets. We're gonna just gonna

1012
01:06:57,400 --> 01:06:58,720
Speaker 1: be a health of the show. Go have a good time.

1013
01:06:58,960 --> 01:07:02,000
Speaker 1: All right. Let's y'all know something that the girls basketball

1014
01:07:02,080 --> 01:07:04,320
Speaker 1: tournament is going on to March. Man. This their games

1015
01:07:04,400 --> 01:07:07,920
Speaker 1: be going on tomorrow night. All right, all four number ones.

1016
01:07:07,960 --> 01:07:10,560
Speaker 1: It's still in the tournament on the ladies side. North

1017
01:07:10,640 --> 01:07:14,320
Speaker 1: Carolina State stand for Louisville and South Carolina also the

1018
01:07:14,440 --> 01:07:17,440
Speaker 1: one to leave out South Carolina. Man, that's why I'll

1019
01:07:17,480 --> 01:07:19,640
Speaker 1: put up for him. Man, I'm pulling for him. And

1020
01:07:19,760 --> 01:07:22,560
Speaker 1: you know what, up? The girls game is good? Do

1021
01:07:22,640 --> 01:07:30,760
Speaker 1: you hit me? Man, They've be pauling them girls. I'm

1022
01:07:30,800 --> 01:07:34,200
Speaker 1: telling you right now, some of the best shooters. H

1023
01:07:34,200 --> 01:07:36,360
Speaker 1: I'm talking about pure shooters, man. And the girl I've

1024
01:07:36,360 --> 01:07:37,960
Speaker 1: been watching, I said, Man, I love that, so I'm

1025
01:07:37,960 --> 01:07:42,240
Speaker 1: gonna be watching that Friday night. Man. Also, Man, Jamal Crawford, Man,

1026
01:07:42,680 --> 01:07:45,160
Speaker 1: one of my favorite NBA players, is calling it quits.

1027
01:07:45,240 --> 01:07:47,440
Speaker 1: He retired up to twenty seasons. Man one of the

1028
01:07:47,560 --> 01:07:51,200
Speaker 1: best ball handlers in the league. He's the only beside

1029
01:07:51,240 --> 01:07:53,800
Speaker 1: him and Lou Williams, the only three times six Man

1030
01:07:53,960 --> 01:07:56,680
Speaker 1: of the Year. Man. So great career, That's all I

1031
01:07:56,760 --> 01:07:59,160
Speaker 1: can tell you. Man, that boy can make it. He

1032
01:07:59,160 --> 01:08:02,560
Speaker 1: could shoot, he could dribble, create his own shot. He did. Man,

1033
01:08:02,600 --> 01:08:04,840
Speaker 1: he had a great career. So I'm not mad he'd leave, Man,

1034
01:08:04,920 --> 01:08:06,600
Speaker 1: but I just gonna miss him. Man. He just one

1035
01:08:06,640 --> 01:08:08,760
Speaker 1: of those players you root for, you just want to play,

1036
01:08:08,840 --> 01:08:11,720
Speaker 1: you just root for. Also in other news, Trey Young

1037
01:08:12,400 --> 01:08:14,440
Speaker 1: drop forty five. I know you won't get no sports

1038
01:08:14,440 --> 01:08:16,120
Speaker 1: over the US. I'm just trying to keep you a breath.

1039
01:08:16,280 --> 01:08:18,760
Speaker 1: You ain't seen none of it, You ain't seen none

1040
01:08:18,800 --> 01:08:21,160
Speaker 1: of this. But the other night, Man Trey Young drop

1041
01:08:21,360 --> 01:08:24,600
Speaker 1: forty five, and Maddison Square Garden to beat the That

1042
01:08:24,800 --> 01:08:27,920
Speaker 1: boy took the Hawks over the Knicks one seventeen to one.

1043
01:08:27,960 --> 01:08:32,400
Speaker 1: Of the forty five. Just Raining trays good bad hell

1044
01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:41,439
Speaker 1: who says yeah, yeah, but it's it's it Maddison Square Garden,

1045
01:08:41,960 --> 01:08:44,840
Speaker 1: the home of basketball and then also man in other

1046
01:08:44,880 --> 01:08:48,160
Speaker 1: sports news Man, the Rams are making it known that

1047
01:08:48,280 --> 01:08:50,840
Speaker 1: they won't ob j Man. They won't Odell Beckham Junior

1048
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Speaker 1: back to play for the Rams. You know he towards

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01:08:53,240 --> 01:08:56,479
Speaker 1: ACL in the Super Bowl. Uh. They said that he

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01:08:56,520 --> 01:08:58,080
Speaker 1: probably won't be back for the start of the season,

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01:08:58,120 --> 01:09:00,200
Speaker 1: So it's gonna affect his contract and probably have give

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01:09:00,200 --> 01:09:02,360
Speaker 1: a contract like he had when he first got there

1053
01:09:02,400 --> 01:09:04,960
Speaker 1: in the middle of seed from Cleveland Brown. But I

1054
01:09:05,160 --> 01:09:07,040
Speaker 1: really want him to make it, man, I really root

1055
01:09:07,080 --> 01:09:09,600
Speaker 1: for Odell Beckel Junior to stay there in Los Angelesinia.

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01:09:09,680 --> 01:09:14,000
Speaker 1: Boy cole him he got that ring now he was

1057
01:09:14,120 --> 01:09:24,200
Speaker 1: rooting for the Sean was we don't have to happen.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. Stop telling yourself,

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01:09:31,400 --> 01:09:34,600
Speaker 1: be the lies about your happiness. We'll talk about it

1060
01:09:34,800 --> 01:09:41,439
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to show Well, you've heard

1061
01:09:41,479 --> 01:09:45,240
Speaker 1: it before, and it's true. You are your own worst enemy.

1062
01:09:46,040 --> 01:09:48,160
Speaker 1: The world is hard enough on you, but the stories

1063
01:09:48,160 --> 01:09:50,920
Speaker 1: you tell yourself inside your head can make it a

1064
01:09:51,040 --> 01:09:53,800
Speaker 1: lot harder to deal with the stress life throws at you.

1065
01:09:54,320 --> 01:09:57,240
Speaker 1: So steve here, a few lies we believe in moments

1066
01:09:57,280 --> 01:10:00,680
Speaker 1: of stress that take away our joy and happiness. What

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01:10:00,880 --> 01:10:03,360
Speaker 1: can we do today, I should say, to stop getting

1068
01:10:03,360 --> 01:10:06,879
Speaker 1: in the way of our own happiness, like, for instance,

1069
01:10:06,960 --> 01:10:10,519
Speaker 1: saying things like we don't deserve it, Like when something

1070
01:10:10,600 --> 01:10:14,080
Speaker 1: good happens. You know, we could be a bigger jerk

1071
01:10:14,160 --> 01:10:16,519
Speaker 1: to ourselves than we would ever be to our best

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01:10:16,600 --> 01:10:20,840
Speaker 1: friend or to our child. If you have unrealistic expectations

1073
01:10:21,080 --> 01:10:24,120
Speaker 1: or keep judging yourself too harshly, stop and enjoy the

1074
01:10:24,200 --> 01:10:27,000
Speaker 1: good things when they come along. You do deserve it.

1075
01:10:27,080 --> 01:10:30,040
Speaker 1: In other words, so don't tell yourself the opposite. Well,

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01:10:30,080 --> 01:10:32,400
Speaker 1: I've said that before. I don't deserve it in front

1077
01:10:32,439 --> 01:10:34,840
Speaker 1: of people. As soon as I walk away, whatever they game,

1078
01:10:34,920 --> 01:10:36,640
Speaker 1: I put it in my pocket. I go with it

1079
01:10:41,880 --> 01:10:46,320
Speaker 1: after I see. What did Snoop say when he got

1080
01:10:46,400 --> 01:10:49,200
Speaker 1: the holly he got the star on Hollywood Walk of Fame.

1081
01:10:49,280 --> 01:10:51,439
Speaker 1: He said, I'd like to thank God, I'd like to

1082
01:10:51,520 --> 01:10:56,400
Speaker 1: thank my family and me. I'd like to thank me. Okay, yeah,

1083
01:10:56,520 --> 01:10:59,560
Speaker 1: the same thing, all right, we should we Yeah, we

1084
01:10:59,680 --> 01:11:02,759
Speaker 1: tell ourselves we shouldn't enjoy it because it won't last.

1085
01:11:03,240 --> 01:11:06,599
Speaker 1: I mean, good things come along, many don't last forever.

1086
01:11:06,920 --> 01:11:09,519
Speaker 1: But instead of using that as a reason to not

1087
01:11:09,640 --> 01:11:12,160
Speaker 1: to enjoy the good things when they come. They should

1088
01:11:12,240 --> 01:11:17,640
Speaker 1: make you more focused on enjoying it instead, if you

1089
01:11:17,720 --> 01:11:21,439
Speaker 1: work harder. I mean, nothing lasts forever, but there's no

1090
01:11:21,640 --> 01:11:26,360
Speaker 1: need of you regretting the end, and the end ain't here, right, yeah, right,

1091
01:11:27,000 --> 01:11:31,920
Speaker 1: Enjoy the moment, Enjoy the journey. Yeah yeah. Or these

1092
01:11:31,960 --> 01:11:33,800
Speaker 1: are some of the things you tell yourself. We can't

1093
01:11:33,880 --> 01:11:40,439
Speaker 1: have joy until unreasonable unreasonable expectations keep popping up, don't they.

1094
01:11:41,080 --> 01:11:44,560
Speaker 1: So high achievers will tell you to delay your gratification

1095
01:11:44,760 --> 01:11:48,760
Speaker 1: until you've reached all of your goal. Now is that realistic?

1096
01:11:49,280 --> 01:11:52,920
Speaker 1: We just said enjoy the journey. Yeah, that's not true.

1097
01:11:53,520 --> 01:11:55,439
Speaker 1: What do you mean? And that's what keeps most people

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01:11:55,600 --> 01:11:58,800
Speaker 1: unhappy and behind the eight ball. I've said it a

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01:11:58,880 --> 01:12:02,240
Speaker 1: million times. If your goal is to make a million dollars,

1100
01:12:03,760 --> 01:12:06,080
Speaker 1: but you've been making twenty five thousand dollars a year,

1101
01:12:07,120 --> 01:12:09,240
Speaker 1: and then you look up and you're making a hundred

1102
01:12:09,280 --> 01:12:12,000
Speaker 1: thousand dollars a year, but you still mad because you

1103
01:12:12,120 --> 01:12:15,479
Speaker 1: ain't a millionaire yet he's making twenty five thousand dollars

1104
01:12:15,520 --> 01:12:17,599
Speaker 1: a year. You're not make a hundred. You don't see

1105
01:12:17,640 --> 01:12:20,200
Speaker 1: the joy in that. Then a little bit later on,

1106
01:12:20,360 --> 01:12:22,120
Speaker 1: you make a quarter of a million dollars a year.

1107
01:12:22,200 --> 01:12:25,000
Speaker 1: Now you still mad. I'm working all this hard, I

1108
01:12:25,080 --> 01:12:28,080
Speaker 1: still ain't a millionaire. You got a quarter million dollars.

1109
01:12:28,160 --> 01:12:32,920
Speaker 1: You don't see that that lack of gratitude keeps you

1110
01:12:33,120 --> 01:12:39,479
Speaker 1: forever disgruntled and unhappy. That's right, be grateful. What about

1111
01:12:39,560 --> 01:12:44,320
Speaker 1: this one? Our joy depends on someone else or something else.

1112
01:12:46,080 --> 01:12:48,840
Speaker 1: You know a lot of people think that they need

1113
01:12:48,920 --> 01:12:51,320
Speaker 1: someone else to make them happy instead of being happy

1114
01:12:51,400 --> 01:12:54,679
Speaker 1: within themselves. A lot of people believe that. Some people

1115
01:12:54,800 --> 01:12:58,840
Speaker 1: put that. Bishop Jakes told me something one time. He said,

1116
01:12:58,960 --> 01:13:02,160
Speaker 1: it's not your job to make another person happy, nor

1117
01:13:02,280 --> 01:13:06,240
Speaker 1: should you make it. Don't make out your job, because

1118
01:13:06,240 --> 01:13:08,960
Speaker 1: I'm telling you that's a job you cannot win. Because

1119
01:13:08,960 --> 01:13:10,880
Speaker 1: if they ain't happy with themselves, I don't give a

1120
01:13:10,960 --> 01:13:14,799
Speaker 1: damn what you do right now. If people need things

1121
01:13:14,920 --> 01:13:23,160
Speaker 1: to make them have joy, that's not joy, that's fun. Yeah,

1122
01:13:23,240 --> 01:13:28,240
Speaker 1: there's a difference between joy and fun. There is, absolutely right.

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01:13:29,160 --> 01:13:31,080
Speaker 1: And what is the difference? Go ahead, since you brought

1124
01:13:31,120 --> 01:13:33,160
Speaker 1: it up. Well, The difference is some of joy is

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01:13:33,200 --> 01:13:37,400
Speaker 1: something that abides and resides within you. It's a comfortability

1126
01:13:37,520 --> 01:13:40,680
Speaker 1: factor and a peace that you are perfectly fine with

1127
01:13:40,800 --> 01:13:43,040
Speaker 1: who you are and right where you are, and you

1128
01:13:43,160 --> 01:13:46,560
Speaker 1: find contentment in it, and it gives you a resounding

1129
01:13:46,760 --> 01:13:50,240
Speaker 1: piece of joy. A relationship with God gives you joy.

1130
01:13:51,560 --> 01:13:56,040
Speaker 1: Fun is manufacted. You have to go somewhere and be

1131
01:13:56,280 --> 01:14:00,240
Speaker 1: doing something to interject this feeling of fun you. But

1132
01:14:00,280 --> 01:14:04,080
Speaker 1: if you keep having fun too long, fun is an acronym.

1133
01:14:04,360 --> 01:14:08,599
Speaker 1: Everybody that has fun too long. It's an acronym. Fun

1134
01:14:08,760 --> 01:14:14,320
Speaker 1: actually stands for it's eft up now coming up in

1135
01:14:14,439 --> 01:14:18,840
Speaker 1: twenty minutes after the hour March Madness. The sectomes are

1136
01:14:19,040 --> 01:14:22,280
Speaker 1: still a thing. Wow, we'll talk about it right after this.

1137
01:14:22,960 --> 01:14:29,200
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Stay Morning Show. Okay, so guys

1138
01:14:30,040 --> 01:14:32,000
Speaker 1: talking to the guys, and I want you to know,

1139
01:14:32,200 --> 01:14:37,439
Speaker 1: guys that guys are still scheduling their vasectoms around March Madness,

1140
01:14:37,920 --> 01:14:41,400
Speaker 1: and this year was no different. Urologists across the country

1141
01:14:41,479 --> 01:14:46,080
Speaker 1: have reported that up to a fifty percent increase is

1142
01:14:46,160 --> 01:14:49,479
Speaker 1: going on in vasectomes that we're scheduled leading up to

1143
01:14:49,560 --> 01:14:53,640
Speaker 1: the tournament. Timing is everything. Of course, getting snipped as

1144
01:14:53,720 --> 01:14:57,599
Speaker 1: the tournament gets rolling makes an unpleasant procedure into something

1145
01:14:57,680 --> 01:15:01,280
Speaker 1: of a four day vacation with all that basketball to

1146
01:15:01,479 --> 01:15:05,880
Speaker 1: watch what they do. That's what they get it done.

1147
01:15:05,960 --> 01:15:08,720
Speaker 1: And then they get a bag of frozen piece and

1148
01:15:08,920 --> 01:15:11,080
Speaker 1: just keep sitting on them and ride it out. That's

1149
01:15:11,120 --> 01:15:13,960
Speaker 1: how you do it. And watch the game. No, I

1150
01:15:14,040 --> 01:15:16,280
Speaker 1: just ain't done. But I've heard about it. I don't

1151
01:15:16,320 --> 01:15:17,640
Speaker 1: have to be that sure that. I just heard the

1152
01:15:17,680 --> 01:15:24,639
Speaker 1: TV and watch and surgery. This is something I've never done. Man,

1153
01:15:26,600 --> 01:15:31,040
Speaker 1: you never contected me. I can't. I wasn't trying to

1154
01:15:31,080 --> 01:15:36,320
Speaker 1: handle kids. No, damn way all my kids. Wasn't announcement.

1155
01:15:38,160 --> 01:15:40,040
Speaker 1: But I guess it's a great time to have him.

1156
01:15:40,040 --> 01:15:42,360
Speaker 1: You could be at home just watching the game if

1157
01:15:42,400 --> 01:15:45,160
Speaker 1: you're scheduled to have one. Yeah, who knew that was

1158
01:15:45,240 --> 01:15:48,880
Speaker 1: a thing. Sure, I didn't. I really didn't. Yeah, ain't. No,

1159
01:15:49,000 --> 01:15:52,719
Speaker 1: I got weird about No. I don't think my girl

1160
01:15:52,800 --> 01:15:59,120
Speaker 1: can handle kids right now. So I'm good, good and

1161
01:15:59,600 --> 01:16:05,479
Speaker 1: ask person need to be a damn new daddy. Coming

1162
01:16:05,600 --> 01:16:07,639
Speaker 1: up with thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll play

1163
01:16:07,680 --> 01:16:10,519
Speaker 1: a round it would you rather? Right after this, you're

1164
01:16:10,600 --> 01:16:14,800
Speaker 1: listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show, Time down guys for

1165
01:16:14,880 --> 01:16:18,120
Speaker 1: a round of would you rather? Would you rather? Steal?

1166
01:16:18,280 --> 01:16:22,360
Speaker 1: Honey from a bear, or steal honey from a bee hive.

1167
01:16:23,320 --> 01:16:27,320
Speaker 1: We get this bee high. Yeah, I will run with

1168
01:16:27,439 --> 01:16:31,840
Speaker 1: the whole high. I'm not putting with that ball if

1169
01:16:31,880 --> 01:16:35,439
Speaker 1: it's winning the pool, didn't I'm cool. I think you

1170
01:16:35,640 --> 01:16:39,280
Speaker 1: and you think winning cool. That's what you think winning cool.

1171
01:16:39,560 --> 01:16:42,000
Speaker 1: You can let that car get out there with winning's

1172
01:16:42,000 --> 01:16:47,680
Speaker 1: ass and see what happens winning though. All right, the

1173
01:16:47,760 --> 01:16:51,160
Speaker 1: winning pooter that I met down at Disney, my kids

1174
01:16:51,320 --> 01:16:56,719
Speaker 1: ass and get your honey. You're talking about a real

1175
01:16:56,840 --> 01:17:00,439
Speaker 1: bear honey. Give me that damn be high. Wow, I'll

1176
01:17:00,479 --> 01:17:02,840
Speaker 1: be walking as slow as I can. Bees be all

1177
01:17:02,880 --> 01:17:05,000
Speaker 1: over my as I walk the ads right into a lake.

1178
01:17:08,280 --> 01:17:11,720
Speaker 1: All right? Would you rather go to jail for a

1179
01:17:11,840 --> 01:17:16,799
Speaker 1: crime your loved one committed or would you rather snitch

1180
01:17:16,880 --> 01:17:20,559
Speaker 1: on your loved one for a crime they committed? Oh yeah,

1181
01:17:20,920 --> 01:17:29,559
Speaker 1: you you're a snitch. I'm not a snitch. I'm not snitching.

1182
01:17:29,680 --> 01:17:36,560
Speaker 1: I'm telling a different same thing. I'm gonna go to

1183
01:17:36,720 --> 01:17:40,479
Speaker 1: jail for something I didn't do that my loved one did.

1184
01:17:40,760 --> 01:17:48,840
Speaker 1: For a snitch on them. Jail love, that's something. Okay,

1185
01:17:49,400 --> 01:17:51,519
Speaker 1: it just says loved one. But say it's your spouse

1186
01:17:51,760 --> 01:17:54,479
Speaker 1: or you know, your favorite child or something like that,

1187
01:17:55,280 --> 01:17:58,559
Speaker 1: your favorite child. Oh no, because my spouse. I'm gonna

1188
01:17:58,560 --> 01:18:03,400
Speaker 1: go to jail. All right, I'll do anything, girl, I

1189
01:18:03,600 --> 01:18:09,400
Speaker 1: don't what you better say the right thing? Are you crazy?

1190
01:18:09,560 --> 01:18:11,960
Speaker 1: Right now? We're gonna visit. I mean, me and the

1191
01:18:12,120 --> 01:18:14,640
Speaker 1: kids are gonna visit. We're gonna go down there and

1192
01:18:14,720 --> 01:18:19,000
Speaker 1: see their mama what we got. I mean, I'm gonna come.

1193
01:18:19,040 --> 01:18:21,120
Speaker 1: I'm coming down the air said, I'm dying there. I'm

1194
01:18:21,160 --> 01:18:23,960
Speaker 1: coming if the boy ain't and the boy if the

1195
01:18:24,040 --> 01:18:26,439
Speaker 1: boy ain't got baseball, We're dying there. We're gonna come from.

1196
01:18:27,400 --> 01:18:29,479
Speaker 1: But why you do what you do? Man? Why you

1197
01:18:29,600 --> 01:18:37,160
Speaker 1: do that? Now? I'm gonna say this though, if it's

1198
01:18:37,200 --> 01:18:45,320
Speaker 1: one of my children, Oh the thing, go jail. You

1199
01:18:45,520 --> 01:18:52,120
Speaker 1: know what? You need somebody on the outside with some

1200
01:18:52,280 --> 01:18:56,439
Speaker 1: money and some influence that could get you out. Oh okay,

1201
01:18:56,880 --> 01:18:59,920
Speaker 1: last one. Would you rather get a raise or about

1202
01:19:00,000 --> 01:19:02,320
Speaker 1: on this? You got to know the numbers? Yeah, they

1203
01:19:02,400 --> 01:19:05,040
Speaker 1: need no numbers for this. They got some bonus and

1204
01:19:05,080 --> 01:19:06,720
Speaker 1: you haven't seen them. People get them bonus and them

1205
01:19:06,760 --> 01:19:11,799
Speaker 1: big companies them boning. You've seen them. I need a bonus.

1206
01:19:11,840 --> 01:19:14,599
Speaker 1: I won't mind all that more. Right. Uh huh uh

1207
01:19:14,680 --> 01:19:20,040
Speaker 1: huh uh huh uh huh. I steal this. I'm I'm

1208
01:19:20,040 --> 01:19:22,400
Speaker 1: gonna follow his lead. He nobody money move my money

1209
01:19:22,439 --> 01:19:25,960
Speaker 1: than we do. Yeah, all right, that's our round. Would

1210
01:19:26,000 --> 01:19:28,559
Speaker 1: you rather? Today? Coming up? It is our last break

1211
01:19:28,600 --> 01:19:30,240
Speaker 1: of the day, and of course we'll have some clothing

1212
01:19:30,320 --> 01:19:32,560
Speaker 1: remarks at forty nine minutes after the hour from the

1213
01:19:32,640 --> 01:19:35,679
Speaker 1: one and only Steve Harvey. Right after this, you're listening

1214
01:19:35,960 --> 01:19:39,599
Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Here we are, guys, our

1215
01:19:39,760 --> 01:19:42,519
Speaker 1: last break of the day. It's been a good day,

1216
01:19:42,600 --> 01:19:52,240
Speaker 1: We've had fun today day. Well, let's go too. That's

1217
01:19:52,320 --> 01:19:55,120
Speaker 1: gonna be my clothes remark because I want to share

1218
01:19:55,160 --> 01:20:03,680
Speaker 1: with people the difference between fun and joy, because there

1219
01:20:03,800 --> 01:20:07,680
Speaker 1: was a difference and I had to learn this too.

1220
01:20:08,439 --> 01:20:12,120
Speaker 1: So here we go. You know, as I was growing up,

1221
01:20:12,360 --> 01:20:17,080
Speaker 1: just like most of us, we had a daily quest

1222
01:20:17,200 --> 01:20:20,760
Speaker 1: when we were young. As children, we only had one

1223
01:20:20,840 --> 01:20:25,240
Speaker 1: mission in life. After school. We wanted to go play.

1224
01:20:27,120 --> 01:20:32,840
Speaker 1: On Saturdays and Sundays, I want to go play. I

1225
01:20:33,000 --> 01:20:35,280
Speaker 1: could not wait to go outside. I wanted to go

1226
01:20:35,360 --> 01:20:38,919
Speaker 1: out in the snow. That I wanted to play because

1227
01:20:39,160 --> 01:20:43,160
Speaker 1: it was fun. Now, what I didn't know was there

1228
01:20:43,240 --> 01:20:45,680
Speaker 1: should be a cut off point for having fun in

1229
01:20:45,800 --> 01:20:49,280
Speaker 1: your life. But oh no, not me. I took it

1230
01:20:49,400 --> 01:20:54,040
Speaker 1: too far. I took fun to college. Now I know

1231
01:20:54,160 --> 01:20:56,599
Speaker 1: everybody that went to college who we had a blast.

1232
01:20:56,920 --> 01:21:00,360
Speaker 1: I had too much of a blast, and then after

1233
01:21:00,520 --> 01:21:05,240
Speaker 1: college kept all trying to have fun. There's a cutoff

1234
01:21:05,280 --> 01:21:08,360
Speaker 1: point to fun. And the thing I learned about it

1235
01:21:08,439 --> 01:21:12,640
Speaker 1: will see fun. You have to go do something, or

1236
01:21:12,800 --> 01:21:17,240
Speaker 1: go somewhere, or be around or certain people in order

1237
01:21:17,320 --> 01:21:23,720
Speaker 1: to have it. To go have fun, you have to manufactory.

1238
01:21:24,720 --> 01:21:27,519
Speaker 1: You have to buy a ticket, you have to be

1239
01:21:27,640 --> 01:21:30,679
Speaker 1: at a certain place, you have to drink a certain amount.

1240
01:21:31,400 --> 01:21:34,960
Speaker 1: You gotta be around the people are smoking this. Now,

1241
01:21:35,160 --> 01:21:37,120
Speaker 1: you can have fun if you make it to this

1242
01:21:37,320 --> 01:21:40,320
Speaker 1: party right here, we gonna have so much fun. And

1243
01:21:40,520 --> 01:21:44,200
Speaker 1: you keep looking for fun, But if you think about fun, man,

1244
01:21:44,800 --> 01:21:50,639
Speaker 1: it's always manufacture. It's something you gotta be doing, seen doing.

1245
01:21:51,080 --> 01:21:54,879
Speaker 1: You gotta be somewhere or thought of somewhere. It's always

1246
01:21:54,960 --> 01:21:59,920
Speaker 1: the case in having fun and fun is always short lived.

1247
01:22:00,040 --> 01:22:04,680
Speaker 1: You know, fun never lasts a long time. You never

1248
01:22:04,760 --> 01:22:08,800
Speaker 1: hear anybody said, well I just had fun, fun, fun, fun, fun, fun.

1249
01:22:09,360 --> 01:22:12,439
Speaker 1: Fun don't last a long time. It's a very fleeting thing.

1250
01:22:13,240 --> 01:22:15,760
Speaker 1: And I was teaching my sons about fun one day

1251
01:22:15,760 --> 01:22:17,599
Speaker 1: because we were in Vegas and they were going out

1252
01:22:17,640 --> 01:22:19,680
Speaker 1: and I told usaid, be careful out there, man, I'm

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Speaker 1: going to the room. Damn, y'all. Come on, man, we're

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01:22:22,160 --> 01:22:24,080
Speaker 1: gonna have some fun, I said, dog, listen to me.

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01:22:24,160 --> 01:22:25,920
Speaker 1: We've had a full night, went to see the fight.

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01:22:26,560 --> 01:22:30,479
Speaker 1: Everything was good, and now you're gonna go out here. Man.

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01:22:30,520 --> 01:22:33,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just tell you right now, it's dangerous out there.

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01:22:33,160 --> 01:22:36,760
Speaker 1: Be careful, Oh dad, We're gonna have some fun. I've

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01:22:36,840 --> 01:22:39,760
Speaker 1: discovered something about fun. If you stay, if you keep

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01:22:39,880 --> 01:22:44,280
Speaker 1: having fun, there's a time limit to fun. If you

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01:22:44,400 --> 01:22:47,160
Speaker 1: stay at the club till it closed, it ain't fit

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01:22:47,280 --> 01:22:51,200
Speaker 1: to be fun no more. If you're drinking and you

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01:22:51,360 --> 01:22:54,519
Speaker 1: feel a buzz, but you keep on drinking, it ain't

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01:22:54,560 --> 01:22:59,519
Speaker 1: fitting to be fun no more. If you at a

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01:22:59,600 --> 01:23:02,599
Speaker 1: sport an event and everybody going out the parking lot,

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01:23:02,720 --> 01:23:05,560
Speaker 1: but you y'all still trying to have fun, state, that

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01:23:06,120 --> 01:23:08,320
Speaker 1: is not thing to be fun no more. Because fun

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01:23:08,439 --> 01:23:11,280
Speaker 1: I discovered. I taught my children that night. Fun is

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01:23:11,280 --> 01:23:16,519
Speaker 1: an acronym. F you n is an acronyl, and I

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01:23:16,640 --> 01:23:18,280
Speaker 1: taught it to him, I said, son, if you to

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01:23:18,400 --> 01:23:23,320
Speaker 1: keep having fun too long, it's fed up now. That's

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01:23:23,360 --> 01:23:27,040
Speaker 1: what fun stands for. Too much fun and it's fed

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01:23:27,160 --> 01:23:30,479
Speaker 1: up now. Boy. They laughed, they laughed. They went out

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01:23:30,520 --> 01:23:33,880
Speaker 1: that night in Vagas. The next morning I saw him.

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01:23:33,880 --> 01:23:38,760
Speaker 1: They looked dishovel. They're in bad shape. Said what happened? Man? Dad?

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01:23:38,840 --> 01:23:41,360
Speaker 1: We was at the club. Man dude got shot and killed.

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01:23:43,360 --> 01:23:45,439
Speaker 1: Then the police surround the building. We stayed in there. Man,

1278
01:23:45,479 --> 01:23:49,640
Speaker 1: we didn't get home to five thirty. You know why,

1279
01:23:49,720 --> 01:23:52,800
Speaker 1: because they was having fun and too much fun. He

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01:23:52,880 --> 01:23:55,960
Speaker 1: got effed up. Now, f you n it's effed up now,

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01:23:56,600 --> 01:23:59,519
Speaker 1: and that's what fun is. And said Dad, what about you?

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01:23:59,800 --> 01:24:02,479
Speaker 1: I said, I like to have joy, and so what's

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01:24:02,520 --> 01:24:06,519
Speaker 1: the difference between joy and fun? I said. Joy is

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01:24:06,560 --> 01:24:09,200
Speaker 1: a feeling that I have on an inside that resides

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01:24:09,280 --> 01:24:13,360
Speaker 1: in me most of the time. And when I'm with myself,

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01:24:14,200 --> 01:24:18,760
Speaker 1: within myself or by myself. I found that I have

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01:24:18,880 --> 01:24:22,719
Speaker 1: a residing peace in me that gives me a certain

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01:24:22,880 --> 01:24:26,680
Speaker 1: joy that I enjoy being alone. I just enjoy just

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01:24:26,840 --> 01:24:30,200
Speaker 1: being with my girl. That's joy to me. That I

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01:24:30,280 --> 01:24:33,400
Speaker 1: can sit up and watch my grandchildren play, that I

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01:24:33,520 --> 01:24:36,280
Speaker 1: can take my family on vacation and watch them enjoy myself.

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01:24:36,360 --> 01:24:39,479
Speaker 1: That puts a joy in me. That joy that I have,

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01:24:40,640 --> 01:24:44,320
Speaker 1: it's not manufactured or superficial. The joy that I have,

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01:24:44,720 --> 01:24:48,679
Speaker 1: that residing peace is because I have relationship with God.

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01:24:50,040 --> 01:24:52,519
Speaker 1: God has given me the peace that I have in

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01:24:52,680 --> 01:24:55,920
Speaker 1: my life today. I wish I had discovered this years ago.

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01:24:55,960 --> 01:24:58,640
Speaker 1: I could have saved myself a world of trouble, but

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01:24:58,800 --> 01:25:01,560
Speaker 1: I didn't. I was like a lot of people. I

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01:25:01,720 --> 01:25:07,240
Speaker 1: was pursuing fun, trying to have it as many times

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01:25:07,280 --> 01:25:12,120
Speaker 1: as I could, going to have fun. If I could

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01:25:12,200 --> 01:25:16,600
Speaker 1: have understood about this residing piece, that it's okay to

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01:25:16,720 --> 01:25:19,640
Speaker 1: be with me, that I don't need a bunch of

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01:25:19,720 --> 01:25:24,599
Speaker 1: outside stimulation to feel good anymore. That I can sit back,

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01:25:24,720 --> 01:25:28,560
Speaker 1: close my eyes and be grateful and find joy. That

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01:25:28,680 --> 01:25:30,680
Speaker 1: I can sit up and just watch TV and be

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01:25:30,840 --> 01:25:34,280
Speaker 1: in perfect peace and joy. That I can walk around

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01:25:34,560 --> 01:25:38,320
Speaker 1: and ride my bike or walk down to the river

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01:25:38,920 --> 01:25:42,200
Speaker 1: and just have joy. I could put my headsets on

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01:25:42,360 --> 01:25:47,040
Speaker 1: and listen to some music and just have joy. Joy.

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01:25:47,120 --> 01:25:52,760
Speaker 1: To me, it's better than having fun. That's the difference, though,

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01:25:52,840 --> 01:25:57,600
Speaker 1: between fun and joy. One is manufactured and one is

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01:25:57,640 --> 01:26:01,680
Speaker 1: provided with an everlasting piece relationship with God. If I

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01:26:01,880 --> 01:26:04,080
Speaker 1: was you, I look for somebody that joy you feel me.

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Speaker 1: Those are my closing remarks today. I hope you got

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01:26:07,640 --> 01:26:09,840
Speaker 1: something out of it. If not, don't worry. We'll be

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01:26:09,920 --> 01:26:12,760
Speaker 1: back tomorrow, God willing. Maybe you'll like that one that.

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01:26:13,280 --> 01:26:15,960
Speaker 1: But in the meantime, y'all de self a favorite here.

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01:26:16,320 --> 01:26:26,000
Speaker 1: Talk to God. He'd love to hear from them. For

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