1 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:03,040 Speaker 1: Hi. 2 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:07,400 Speaker 2: This is Laura Vandercamp. I'm a mother of five, an author, journalist, 3 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:08,000 Speaker 2: and speaker. 4 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:11,520 Speaker 3: And this is Sarah hart Hunger. I'm a mother of three, 5 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 3: a practicing physician and blogger. On the side, we are 6 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 3: two working parents who love our careers and our families. 7 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: Welcome to best of both worlds. 8 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:22,400 Speaker 2: Here we talk about how real women manage work, family, 9 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:26,120 Speaker 2: and time for fun, from figuring out childcare to mapping. 10 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 3: Out long term career goals. 11 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 2: We want you to get the most out of life. 12 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:35,680 Speaker 1: Welcome to best of both worlds. This is Laura. In 13 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 1: this episode, Sarah is going to be interviewing Lisa Woodruff, 14 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 1: who is the owner of Organized three sixty five and 15 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:45,240 Speaker 1: a longtime friend of this podcast and people have listened 16 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 1: to a past episode where she's on. She's also a 17 00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 1: business sponsor of this podcast, which is just amazing. We 18 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:53,519 Speaker 1: really appreciate that. So Sarah maybe could tell us a 19 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:55,880 Speaker 1: little bit about the episode and also how your general 20 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 1: organization is going. 21 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, I am always inspired by the way Lisa's brain 22 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 3: works and the things she talks about, and they often change, 23 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 3: like she's a very creative and energetic person, and she 24 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 3: even she'll say like I'm really good at like starting 25 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 3: projects and having ideas and then I need someone else 26 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 3: to do them because I've already moved on to fanx idea. 27 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 3: So I think you'll really enjoyed that aspect of Lisa. 28 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 3: I've been very inspired by her, you know, different organizing programs, 29 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 3: which she has actually changed around a lot to be 30 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 3: a little bit more fluid than they used to be, 31 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 3: which is good because I was struggling to like complete 32 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 3: them the way they were initially laid out. But she's 33 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 3: inspired me to get a lot of my own organizing 34 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:35,279 Speaker 3: done and I am starting to make some progress, although 35 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 3: ironically in the areas that she like says not to 36 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 3: focus on, I haven't been able to help myself, like 37 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 3: the kids' rooms. I mean, she is absolutely correct that 38 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 3: it is like the lowest yield project because it's going 39 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 3: to be ruined in a week, and I'm glad that 40 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 3: she remembers that, and yet it had to happen. So 41 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 3: I am making some progress, and that organize all of 42 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 3: my stationary supplies, which had actually been like on like 43 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:00,160 Speaker 3: I had wanted to do it for a really long time, 44 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 3: and then I emptied out all my drawers. I got 45 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 3: rid of old planners I didn't want, et cetera. That 46 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 3: felt really really good. My wa washy tape is all 47 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:08,000 Speaker 3: you know, lined up Laura, it looks awesome. 48 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. 49 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 3: But the other thing that Lisa and I are going 50 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 3: to talk about that I think you'll find fascinating, or 51 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 3: at least I did, is that she chose to go 52 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 3: back to school to pursue a PhD at age fifty 53 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:23,360 Speaker 3: because she just wanted more expertise in the area of 54 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 3: her interest. She wanted more legitimacy, she wanted to conduct 55 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 3: her own research. And I mean, I just have so 56 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 3: much respect for that because my impulse would have been like, well, 57 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:33,920 Speaker 3: I'll hire a PhD and like outsource all of that, 58 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 3: and she's like, no, I want all of it. And 59 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:38,080 Speaker 3: she's gone into detail about how she's doing prerequisites and 60 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 3: she's actually in like a kind of post back program 61 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 3: to become a PhD candidate and all the stuff she's 62 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:45,799 Speaker 3: done to streamline and organize her life to fit this in. 63 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 3: And I think this is relevant for many listeners because 64 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:51,640 Speaker 3: there may be people who were on a career path 65 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 3: and are interested in another. For example, I know a 66 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:56,519 Speaker 3: lot of people who choose to go to law school 67 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 3: fairly late in life, as it's a career. It's very 68 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 3: practical bed in three years you can be qualified to 69 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 3: do unlike medical school, where you have to don't forget 70 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:06,359 Speaker 3: the residency and maybe the fellowship and it like kind 71 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 3: of takes forever. But you know, law school three years 72 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 3: and you're there, and so I think that there will 73 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 3: be many helpful takeaways from Lisa's experiences and her journey 74 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:15,639 Speaker 3: so far. 75 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:19,799 Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely looking forward to that. Yeah, I'm more in 76 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 1: the school of I hire people who are experts in 77 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: research to help me with my I understand a lot 78 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 1: of it, but it's always good to have people who 79 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:31,640 Speaker 1: have the real credentials in it to help. Yeah, my 80 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:34,399 Speaker 1: organizing projects have taken a major leap forward of late 81 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 1: now that we have some professional help on that front. 82 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 3: I've had our. 83 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 1: Home manager person going through all the kids stuff. The 84 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 1: rooms are looking a lot better now. There have been 85 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 1: toy bins with labels on them. All the cake decorating 86 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: supplies are now in a clear plastic bin with a label. 87 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 1: I mean, it's probably something I never would have done, 88 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 1: but it's kind of fun to see it in my pantry. 89 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 3: Very excited. 90 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 1: I'll take it. 91 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 3: I think that was a fantastic use of that extra 92 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 3: time and extra help. And I've seen pictures and it's 93 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 3: really cute and it's not It doesn't look so hard 94 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:13,800 Speaker 3: to maintain, like maybe a home edit room would look 95 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 3: where everything's in rainbow order, and you're like, that's great. 96 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:18,720 Speaker 3: It looks more practical than that, So I think it 97 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:19,359 Speaker 3: will last. 98 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 1: Although I think the Lacroix and our pantry are in 99 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:27,279 Speaker 1: fact in rainbow order, so why not you know, somehow 100 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 1: I can as well. 101 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 3: Put them that way. 102 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:31,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, well let's hear what Lisa has to say. 103 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 3: I am so excited to chat today with Lisa Woodra, 104 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 3: who has been on our show before, maybe two times before. 105 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 3: I'm not sure I'm losing count. She actually asked me 106 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 3: as we were starting, wait, which podcast is this for? 107 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 3: And that just is a testament, meaning was it best 108 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 3: of both worlds or best laid plans? Not that she 109 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 3: didn't know us, but she she loves all of the 110 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:56,719 Speaker 3: Laura Vandercam, Sarah Hartunger industrial complex and has been a 111 00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 3: part of all of that. So we are so excited 112 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:00,599 Speaker 3: to have Lisa welcome. 113 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 4: Lisa, Thank you so much. I think that's just like 114 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:06,160 Speaker 4: a classic woman thing like who am I supposed to be? Like? 115 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 4: Am I the CEO? And am I have the wife? 116 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 4: I'm the mother? And rarely are we just like us? 117 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 4: And like today we're going to talk about like I 118 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 4: finally get to be like me? 119 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 3: Yes, and we hope you are going to be like 120 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 3: you because you are assassinating and a very different thinker 121 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 3: than many. So I'm sure you we'll share lots of 122 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 3: creativity with the world today. So the biggest thing I 123 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 3: was super excited. I wanted to talk to you about 124 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 3: all kinds of things, as I always do, but to 125 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:34,800 Speaker 3: tell our listeners about the really kind of big thing 126 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 3: going on in your life right now and why you 127 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:37,919 Speaker 3: decided to do that. 128 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 4: Oh my goodness. So I have a teaching degree in 129 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 4: early childhood education with an elementary add on. So I'm 130 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:49,240 Speaker 4: a teacher, I'm a parent, I'm a mom, I'm an entrepreneur. 131 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 4: And I have joked around on my podcast about wanting 132 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 4: to get a PhD for like a decade and I 133 00:05:56,440 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 4: had a good friend who was the dean of a 134 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 4: university program and she was like, you cannot get a PhD. 135 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:07,039 Speaker 4: I really admired her, and she's just one of those 136 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 4: like like when she's talking, you know if she's laughing 137 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 4: or not, because it's just like this flat, dry, like 138 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:12,920 Speaker 4: you can't get a PhD, just like not a lot 139 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:15,360 Speaker 4: of affect in her voice. And she's just wicked smart, 140 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:18,720 Speaker 4: like super smart. And I have dyslexia. And I was like, well, 141 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 4: she says I can't get a PhD, I can't. And also, 142 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 4: you know, I'm trying to grow this company and be 143 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 4: a parent and all these other things I'm doing. And 144 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:27,720 Speaker 4: so I have said numerous times I'd love to get 145 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 4: a PhD. I'd love to get a PhD just because 146 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 4: I love to learn, like and I love to research, 147 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 4: and I just love knowledge, like I love learning about 148 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:39,000 Speaker 4: learning just for learning sake. I've thought about getting a 149 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 4: law degree. I've even thought about going back and getting 150 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 4: a medical degree. And somebody said to me, as soon 151 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 4: as you get telling your PhD, you should get a 152 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 4: medical degree. And I was like, you know, if I 153 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 4: look beyond Greg, I might because like what else are 154 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 4: you gonna do with your time? And that is just 155 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:55,159 Speaker 4: like not a normal thought. I am not a normal person. 156 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 4: But I will tell you why. I actually am going 157 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 4: back and getting my PG no, it's because I'm out 158 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 4: of the active parenting years. And I just want to 159 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 4: say that right at the beginning, because whether you are 160 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 4: working from home, working away from home, stay at home parent, 161 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 4: like parenting is all encompassing, Like there's just not a 162 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 4: lot of time for you during the active parenting years. 163 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 4: How don't even know if there should be, to be honest, 164 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 4: like a hot back like that'll it's just supposed to 165 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 4: eat you through, like it is an intense thing to 166 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 4: be a parent, but once they are in their twenties, 167 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 4: they still need you all the time and they want 168 00:07:31,160 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 4: hashtag all your money. But you do get a lot 169 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 4: of hours back. And that's why I finally was like, 170 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 4: you know, I have the time, and I have the 171 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 4: time in my business because I've built a team and 172 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 4: we have the income in the business because we've been 173 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 4: around for more than ten years. And I thought, you know, 174 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 4: the only thing holding me back from getting a PhD 175 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 4: is thinking that I can very interesting. 176 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 3: I think Laura and I would both push back a 177 00:07:57,040 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 3: little bit on the idea that during your heavier parents 178 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:02,720 Speaker 3: years you can't do be things at work or for yourself. 179 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 3: But I do get what you're saying in that actually 180 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 3: the PhD is not the only thing you are doing. 181 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:10,880 Speaker 3: You are planning on doing your PhD while continuing to 182 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 3: run your successful, growing business, which is not necessarily the 183 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 3: same thing as perhaps like leaving a corporate position, having 184 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 3: a baby, and then deciding to get a PhD and 185 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 3: then go back to work. You're doing all the things 186 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 3: at once. 187 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 4: Yes, but you know what, it doesn't feel like it. 188 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 4: And I totally am like, I'm spending about forty hours 189 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 4: a week, working twenty five to thirty hours a week 190 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 4: in a PhD. And I quote Laura Vanderkim, like every 191 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:40,200 Speaker 4: day everyone on my podcast knows her because one hundred 192 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 4: and sixty eight hours, you have more time than you think. 193 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 4: That's only seventy hours, you guys still have ninety eight 194 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 4: left to go. I'm sleeping seventy eight hours a night. 195 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:50,200 Speaker 4: I was sleeping eight to nine, so I've lost like 196 00:08:50,280 --> 00:08:52,400 Speaker 4: one hour a night of sleeping, But that's a lot 197 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:55,400 Speaker 4: of sleeping. I'm still dating my husband every week. We 198 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:57,680 Speaker 4: are still watching TV five nights out of the week. 199 00:08:57,720 --> 00:09:01,559 Speaker 4: I'm still spending ninety minutes with my grandson every day. 200 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:04,079 Speaker 4: Like I am still doing all the things, you know what, 201 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:07,560 Speaker 4: I'm not doing I have no buffer time, Like there 202 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 4: is zero buffer, but I'm okay with it, Like I 203 00:09:10,920 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 4: don't even care. 204 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:18,040 Speaker 3: I love it. How are you currently? Are you relentlessly 205 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 3: kind of planning your week ahead of time? How are 206 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 3: you making all of the pieces fit? Because I've been 207 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 3: listening to your podcast, and I to me, it sounds 208 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 3: like you've done a lot of forethought, which I think 209 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:30,240 Speaker 3: is the best approach, because you know how I feel 210 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:32,840 Speaker 3: about planning and how incredibly important it is and how 211 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 3: it will kind of allow everything else to work. But 212 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:37,640 Speaker 3: maybe tell our listeners a little bit about how you've 213 00:09:37,640 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 3: gotten those pieces to fit together so nicely. 214 00:09:40,360 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's ten thousand percent planning. So I identified a 215 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 4: long time ago there's this cycle of organizing, and it 216 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:49,439 Speaker 4: starts with the cluttering, and then you move to organizing, 217 00:09:49,480 --> 00:09:52,200 Speaker 4: and then you move to increased productivity. I could not 218 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:54,080 Speaker 4: be doing what I'm doing if I had any kind 219 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:58,079 Speaker 4: of clutter anywhere in my house, in my mind, in 220 00:09:58,120 --> 00:10:01,959 Speaker 4: my schedule, in any like. I have for the last 221 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 4: decade gotten myself to the point where I was ready 222 00:10:04,400 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 4: for this. So I have decluttered my eating. I have 223 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:09,640 Speaker 4: decluttered my morning and afternoon and evening routines. I have 224 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:12,840 Speaker 4: decluttered my house, I've decluttered my responsibilities. I have no 225 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:15,839 Speaker 4: social life because I'm a nerd and I love socializing 226 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:17,440 Speaker 4: with the people in my class and the people in 227 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:19,560 Speaker 4: my business. And that's good enough with me. Like I 228 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 4: don't need to have a social life, so I decluttered 229 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:25,560 Speaker 4: a social life. The other thing is like I have 230 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:29,320 Speaker 4: these routines that I've built up over time. So I 231 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:33,640 Speaker 4: have a pretty elaborate beauty routine, both of the skincare 232 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 4: now and of the makeup. They take quite a while 233 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 4: and I love them. And I buy everything in bulk, 234 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:42,679 Speaker 4: and everything is on auto orders, so I auto order everything. 235 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:46,560 Speaker 4: I have really simplified foods that I eat, and I 236 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 4: don't care if I eat the same foods. So I 237 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:51,240 Speaker 4: have a granola bar and a coffee in the morning, 238 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:53,200 Speaker 4: and then I have a protein bar around ten thirty 239 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 4: and I make these rice bags. So in my rice bags, 240 00:10:56,720 --> 00:10:58,720 Speaker 4: it's like a little bit of fried rice, a whole 241 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:00,720 Speaker 4: bunch of vegetables and some chick I heat it up 242 00:11:00,720 --> 00:11:02,440 Speaker 4: for five minutes while I go to the bathroom, you know, 243 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:05,240 Speaker 4: get ready. Then I eat that and then for dinner 244 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:07,240 Speaker 4: either I get fast food on the way home because 245 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:11,080 Speaker 4: I love best food or I have little snacky things 246 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:13,760 Speaker 4: at home, and we don't really eat meals at home anymore. 247 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 4: We didn't even when I was in the active parenting years, 248 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 4: because I do not get parenting advice, household advice. So 249 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:24,839 Speaker 4: like all those things, like every single routine has been 250 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:29,840 Speaker 4: scrutinized and reviewed and every one and twenty days, so 251 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:32,480 Speaker 4: three times a year I go through them again. So 252 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:35,840 Speaker 4: we're recording this in the beginning of May. So I 253 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:38,200 Speaker 4: will plan my summer. I will plan my foods, I 254 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:41,680 Speaker 4: will plan the clothes I will buy. When I started school, 255 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:43,640 Speaker 4: I went and I bought myself a uniform. I went 256 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:46,040 Speaker 4: to Talbitts. I got two jackets, I got three shirts. 257 00:11:46,080 --> 00:11:48,600 Speaker 4: I got a couple of sweatpants because I don't have sweatpants, 258 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 4: and that was the uniform that I wore every night 259 00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:54,080 Speaker 4: for class. Like everything comes down to planning, and you 260 00:11:54,120 --> 00:11:58,280 Speaker 4: cannot have a proactive, productive life if you haven't decluttered 261 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:00,959 Speaker 4: and organized and refined your habit to that level. 262 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 3: I love it. I love both the physical decluttering and 263 00:12:04,440 --> 00:12:07,679 Speaker 3: I love the idea of doing every you know cyclical. 264 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:10,720 Speaker 3: I use Quintal's use kind of trimester as you divide 265 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:14,319 Speaker 3: the year into three, just like you're like an overhaul 266 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 3: of like what's working, what isn't, How can I streamline 267 00:12:16,640 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 3: things further? What are my priorities this time, et cetera. 268 00:12:19,880 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 3: I want to talk more about kind of like what 269 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:27,560 Speaker 3: some of your research is that you're passionate about, and 270 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:30,720 Speaker 3: what are the things that you are finding that inspired 271 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:32,680 Speaker 3: you in some ways to go back to school in 272 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 3: the first place, Like what was kind of at the 273 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:36,559 Speaker 3: heart of like what does Lisa want to show the world? 274 00:12:36,600 --> 00:12:39,080 Speaker 3: And it sounds like some of that's changed because you 275 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 3: realize it. In science, you don't just get to decide 276 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:42,559 Speaker 3: what you're going to prove, you actually are going. 277 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 4: To find actually anything. I'm like, what do you mean 278 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:47,920 Speaker 4: you can't prove anything? Isn't that the whole point? No, 279 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:51,600 Speaker 4: I've learned that you can support. I've learned that we 280 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:54,440 Speaker 4: disseminate our information, like even my language and my podcast 281 00:12:54,480 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 4: is changing. But I started this journey into the PhD 282 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:02,760 Speaker 4: a couple of years ago, right before COVID happened. I 283 00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 4: was doing a time study again inspired by Laura because 284 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:07,679 Speaker 4: she has the time studies in her books that even 285 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 4: emailed her. I'm like, Laura, how'd you do the time studies? 286 00:13:09,920 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 4: And she's like, okay, here's what I did. I was like, okay. 287 00:13:12,320 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 4: So we had sent out one hundred Sunday baskets to 288 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:16,920 Speaker 4: new people who didn't have a Sunday basket, and we 289 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:19,679 Speaker 4: were having them rate how they spent their time before it, 290 00:13:19,800 --> 00:13:22,360 Speaker 4: and then we were going to follow up. And then 291 00:13:22,400 --> 00:13:24,160 Speaker 4: the pandemic happened. I was like, well, that's the end 292 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:28,040 Speaker 4: of that. So we were trying to prove support that 293 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:31,240 Speaker 4: you say, five hours every week using a Sunday basket. Well, 294 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:35,720 Speaker 4: that research went away, but I still wanted to do research, 295 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 4: and so I was talking about doing research in my 296 00:13:37,880 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 4: three year Vivid vision for episode three hundred and sixty five, 297 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:44,800 Speaker 4: and I had hired a research company, like a sales 298 00:13:44,880 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 4: research company that was going to do really souped up 299 00:13:48,520 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 4: marketing research for me so that I could get on 300 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 4: the Today Show basically, and I was going to prove 301 00:13:54,679 --> 00:13:56,760 Speaker 4: that women are doing more work than men, like that's 302 00:13:56,760 --> 00:13:59,480 Speaker 4: just what I wanted to prove. Well, luckily, before I 303 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:02,520 Speaker 4: did that, Sarah reached out to me another Sarah and 304 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:06,480 Speaker 4: she said, they're all smart, that Sarah's are, And she said, 305 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 4: I think this could be bigger than you think. I 306 00:14:08,800 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 4: would like to help you make this academic worthy. And 307 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:14,079 Speaker 4: so she ran it through Harrisburg University where she's a 308 00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 4: member there, and they gave us an IRB to do 309 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:20,120 Speaker 4: our study. And so we did a study on what 310 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:23,400 Speaker 4: is housework and what is the weight of paper? And 311 00:14:23,440 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 4: then we used that initial study to actually run the survey. 312 00:14:27,440 --> 00:14:29,280 Speaker 4: So that was all great, and what we found out 313 00:14:29,560 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 4: was that we did not support that women are doing 314 00:14:33,320 --> 00:14:36,840 Speaker 4: all the work, but women are probably doing more work. 315 00:14:36,880 --> 00:14:38,680 Speaker 4: There was no way to tell if women were doing 316 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 4: more or less based on the questions that we asked. 317 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:43,880 Speaker 4: But what I realized after that was that everybody's doing 318 00:14:44,120 --> 00:14:45,840 Speaker 4: more work than we want to be doing at home. 319 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:50,360 Speaker 4: Now we've done another study with Sarah and the IRB 320 00:14:50,480 --> 00:14:53,040 Speaker 4: and we ran it ourselves, and that one was on 321 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:56,040 Speaker 4: home organization. Now what I know now, now that I've 322 00:14:56,040 --> 00:14:59,000 Speaker 4: taken only one semester of classes, is that I have 323 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:03,480 Speaker 4: operational life the words housework and home organization. And when 324 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:06,160 Speaker 4: I went to do my research studies. When you do 325 00:15:06,280 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 4: academic level research, every single word in the study has 326 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:12,320 Speaker 4: to be defined so that there is no confusion about 327 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:14,680 Speaker 4: what it means. So you can't say mental health, you 328 00:15:14,680 --> 00:15:19,080 Speaker 4: can say anxiety. And so we're ready to launch the study. 329 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:22,080 Speaker 4: This was back in twenty twenty and I said, okay, well, 330 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:25,160 Speaker 4: but what is the definition of housework? And they just 331 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:27,640 Speaker 4: looked at me, like, you know, housework. I'm like, yeah, no, no, 332 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 4: what is it? There was no definition like Google didn't 333 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:33,440 Speaker 4: have one. There was a one for home organization. So 334 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:36,160 Speaker 4: I made my own definitions for those studies. Well, now 335 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:40,000 Speaker 4: now I want to see can I operationalize those definitions 336 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 4: so that they are the academic definitions for housework and 337 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:45,920 Speaker 4: home organization? I know. Write second thing I realized just 338 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:49,960 Speaker 4: in my first term is I had to do a 339 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:54,680 Speaker 4: class on theoretical orientations, and as an early childhood teacher, 340 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:58,360 Speaker 4: I learned about Ericson and Ericsson's stages of growth. Like 341 00:15:58,400 --> 00:16:00,560 Speaker 4: as an early childhood you know, you could definitely see 342 00:16:00,560 --> 00:16:02,480 Speaker 4: as little babies go from one stage to the next. 343 00:16:02,520 --> 00:16:05,760 Speaker 4: My little baby Grayson I love. I'm like, oh object permanence, 344 00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:09,320 Speaker 4: you know, like I'm checking off the things. Well, those 345 00:16:09,480 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 4: stages of growth go all the way through one hundred 346 00:16:11,680 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 4: years old. And actually it's Erickson's wife that helped define 347 00:16:15,400 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 4: all of those stages of growth, and so I love 348 00:16:18,520 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 4: that that's from the Freudian time zone. Then in the 349 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 4: next time zone in like the seventies and eighties, that's 350 00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:32,400 Speaker 4: where Maslow was really popular and humanistic theology not theology theory. Sorry, 351 00:16:33,000 --> 00:16:36,480 Speaker 4: can't get religion and too many things. If Sarah guy, 352 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:38,880 Speaker 4: he's got stick with just forward to learning. So I 353 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:41,120 Speaker 4: like Maslow. I've done a lot of study of Maslow. 354 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 4: It's interesting now that i'm researching it, what I actually 355 00:16:43,960 --> 00:16:46,920 Speaker 4: know of Maslow is very commercialized and not actually what 356 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 4: he taught. But there's still things. Positive psychology came from 357 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:53,680 Speaker 4: that time frame as well. And now currently we are 358 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:58,280 Speaker 4: in the era of cognitive behavioral therapy, which is habits 359 00:16:58,320 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 4: and your whole life is habitual. So I wrote a 360 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:04,080 Speaker 4: paper about how there should be a household orientation theory 361 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:08,399 Speaker 4: that pulls the life stages from ericson positive psychology and 362 00:17:08,480 --> 00:17:14,200 Speaker 4: Maslo for goal attainment at home and cognitive behaviorabal habit 363 00:17:14,240 --> 00:17:15,720 Speaker 4: for me as the way in which you do that. 364 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:19,240 Speaker 4: So I'm toying with the idea. I don't know if 365 00:17:19,320 --> 00:17:22,280 Speaker 4: my you know, dissertation chair will let me of creating 366 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:26,240 Speaker 4: my own theory, the household orientation theory. 367 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:28,720 Speaker 3: Oh, my gosh, so interesting. 368 00:17:29,200 --> 00:17:29,520 Speaker 4: I don't. 369 00:17:30,080 --> 00:17:32,960 Speaker 3: I feel like there are just so many ideas and 370 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 3: anecdotal things around this and very little like hard data. 371 00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:39,800 Speaker 3: So this is just very, very exciting to bring some 372 00:17:40,440 --> 00:17:44,560 Speaker 3: science into a field that has been not surprisingly overlooked 373 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:47,000 Speaker 3: because it's been in the realm of mostly women. Oh 374 00:17:47,040 --> 00:17:48,920 Speaker 3: my gosh. We have to take a very quick break 375 00:17:48,920 --> 00:17:50,080 Speaker 3: and then we're going to be back because I have 376 00:17:50,119 --> 00:18:07,280 Speaker 3: so many more questions. Okay, I'm back. So your theory 377 00:18:07,320 --> 00:18:11,240 Speaker 3: would kind of put together and a framework for how 378 00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:13,800 Speaker 3: households operate or why they work and how they don't 379 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:14,440 Speaker 3: work or. 380 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:18,920 Speaker 4: Yes, so the person who I hope to study under, 381 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:21,160 Speaker 4: now I don't. I'm not in school yet. I'm still 382 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:23,879 Speaker 4: applying to get my PhD. So I'm actually in like 383 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 4: a I'm in a pacalaureate, yeah, a certification program, and 384 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:29,960 Speaker 4: I'm going to be applying here in the next couple 385 00:18:30,040 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 4: of weeks. And so I've talked to a lot of 386 00:18:31,640 --> 00:18:33,760 Speaker 4: people at school. So finger crossed, you know this is 387 00:18:33,800 --> 00:18:37,680 Speaker 4: going to work. But this hopeful dissertation chair that I'll 388 00:18:37,720 --> 00:18:44,160 Speaker 4: work under, she studies in workplace organization and how workplaces thrive. 389 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:46,640 Speaker 4: And so she told me that there were two different 390 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:48,920 Speaker 4: views of that, and I'm sorry, I'm not going to 391 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:51,040 Speaker 4: know the two that there are because all this language 392 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:52,720 Speaker 4: is so new to me. So I bought both the 393 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:55,920 Speaker 4: textbooks because of course I did, and I skimmed them, 394 00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:58,800 Speaker 4: and in the one textbook, I pulled out three chapters. 395 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:01,000 Speaker 4: I said, these three chapters. What I want to do 396 00:19:01,080 --> 00:19:03,760 Speaker 4: is create a scaffolding at home like we have at 397 00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 4: school and work, which is what I've been talking about 398 00:19:05,800 --> 00:19:09,560 Speaker 4: in the podcast Forever. And I have a couple of 399 00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:13,280 Speaker 4: advantages being an entrepreneur and somebody in my fifties. And 400 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:16,920 Speaker 4: the first one is like I'm used to creating something 401 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:20,560 Speaker 4: from nothing, Like there was no Sunday Basket, I didn't 402 00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:22,840 Speaker 4: have a podcast. I'm creating my own fake TV studio. 403 00:19:22,960 --> 00:19:25,680 Speaker 4: Like basically, I mean, if I dream it and believe it, 404 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 4: I just do it, like nobody's telling me yes or 405 00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:30,159 Speaker 4: no or giving me permission or whatever. So when I 406 00:19:30,240 --> 00:19:33,600 Speaker 4: go to do research, I've already done three research studies 407 00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:37,679 Speaker 4: with hiring out everybody that I need. So one of 408 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:42,880 Speaker 4: the things that is when you get a PhD in psychology, 409 00:19:43,200 --> 00:19:45,560 Speaker 4: the goal is to disseminate to do research, and then 410 00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:49,040 Speaker 4: disseminate that research so that people can learn what you 411 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 4: have found. I don't have a PhD, so I have 412 00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:55,520 Speaker 4: not published in any journals any of the research that 413 00:19:55,560 --> 00:19:58,200 Speaker 4: we have found. When I applied to school, I thought 414 00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:02,199 Speaker 4: a CV was your resume, I turned into resume. It's not. 415 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:05,040 Speaker 4: A CV is how you have disseminated the research that 416 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:10,280 Speaker 4: you've done well, dissemining research on podcasts, in live in person, 417 00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:13,440 Speaker 4: in webinars, allccounts. My CV is now three pages long, 418 00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:18,439 Speaker 4: written in APA style on all the dissemination that I 419 00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 4: have done from the three researches that I've done, but 420 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 4: I have not disseminated yet in journal articles. I need 421 00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:26,000 Speaker 4: to need to disseminated in journal article. I can't even 422 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:29,800 Speaker 4: quote myself yet, and it's already statistics. And so when 423 00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:33,600 Speaker 4: I approach getting a PhD and creating this theoretical orientation like, 424 00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:38,040 Speaker 4: I will be a research in journal producing machine like. 425 00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:42,040 Speaker 4: Along with getting my PhD, I'm already looking at getting 426 00:20:42,040 --> 00:20:44,159 Speaker 4: a coach to help me write journal articles for the 427 00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:46,920 Speaker 4: research I've already done and to pull things out of 428 00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:48,919 Speaker 4: the dissertation I'm going to be doing that will be 429 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:53,440 Speaker 4: journal articles when I graduate. So my goal is not 430 00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:56,879 Speaker 4: just to do research for research sake. My goal is 431 00:20:56,920 --> 00:21:02,320 Speaker 4: to have a more meaty conversation in rooted in science 432 00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:05,520 Speaker 4: so that we can bring to the forefront this discussion 433 00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:07,879 Speaker 4: that right now it's just this former teacher, stay at 434 00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:13,919 Speaker 4: home mom, blogger turned podcaster, quasi business owner is talking about. 435 00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:16,760 Speaker 4: But when you just what PhD after, I'd be like, oh, 436 00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:19,320 Speaker 4: doctor Woodriff said, I. 437 00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:22,119 Speaker 3: Don't know, And it's kind of a joke, but not 438 00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:26,400 Speaker 3: a joke. You do have a unique set of skills 439 00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:30,320 Speaker 3: and experiences and characteristics that, given your interest in doing this, 440 00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:33,120 Speaker 3: makes you perfectly positioned to do it. Not everybody would 441 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:35,000 Speaker 3: be interested in doing it, but since you are, like 442 00:21:35,200 --> 00:21:39,880 Speaker 3: who has all this personal and also client experience, customer 443 00:21:39,920 --> 00:21:43,120 Speaker 3: experience in so many different ways to run a household, 444 00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 3: some of which are effective, some of which are not effective, 445 00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:50,000 Speaker 3: And I can't imagine anybody who has a broader perspective 446 00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:52,440 Speaker 3: on what works. So this is super exciting. 447 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:54,360 Speaker 4: And I did just want to point out, like I'm 448 00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:56,240 Speaker 4: not making a light of getting a PhD, Like it 449 00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:59,560 Speaker 4: is going to be a solid four years and I 450 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:01,960 Speaker 4: already I could tell my brain is completely changing. Was 451 00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:05,399 Speaker 4: just one term done, Like getting a PhD is a 452 00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:08,399 Speaker 4: process of becoming a critical thinker and thinking like a doctor, 453 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:11,840 Speaker 4: and thinking analytically and being able to cite everything you're 454 00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:14,240 Speaker 4: talking about, like even in the podcast now sometimes I'll 455 00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:17,720 Speaker 4: say I'll add citations into my podcast show notes because 456 00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:20,560 Speaker 4: I'll be referencing studies that I've read. And so it 457 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:24,119 Speaker 4: is the process of becoming a doctor, not just the letters. 458 00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:26,840 Speaker 4: I don't want to, you know, everybody like, wow, she 459 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:30,160 Speaker 4: just thinks you you know, No, it is a seriousness to. 460 00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:33,240 Speaker 3: It, Lisa. It is very clear that the passion is there. 461 00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:36,359 Speaker 3: I don't think anybody listening to this doubt that, and 462 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:40,240 Speaker 3: I'm just really excited. I'm you said your series where 463 00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:42,840 Speaker 3: You So on Lisa's podcast on Organized through sixty five, 464 00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:44,600 Speaker 3: which if you don't listen to it, it is an 465 00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:48,320 Speaker 3: excellent podcast on so many different kind of household slash 466 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:53,119 Speaker 3: organization slash I don't know, like life type topics. But 467 00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:55,720 Speaker 3: recently there's been a great series which was like thirteen 468 00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:57,959 Speaker 3: or fourteen long about doing your PhD, which I think 469 00:22:58,000 --> 00:22:59,479 Speaker 3: you were recording in the car, which, by the way, 470 00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:01,880 Speaker 3: blows my mind because I could never do that. I'm 471 00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:04,159 Speaker 3: a terrible driver. You don't want me to podcast and 472 00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:07,879 Speaker 3: record it anyway, So tell listeners about that, and is 473 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:10,520 Speaker 3: that going to continue because I've loved hearing actually the 474 00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:14,280 Speaker 3: nitty gritty of how you're fitting this in and what 475 00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:17,040 Speaker 3: the journey's been like as a very non traditional student. 476 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:19,640 Speaker 4: Yes. So it's going to end up being I think 477 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:22,960 Speaker 4: sixteen or seventeen episodes. It's on Mondays, and it's pulled 478 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:25,439 Speaker 4: out into a separate playlist, so if you listen on Apple, 479 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:28,560 Speaker 4: like I've pulled out playlists into different channels and things 480 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:32,439 Speaker 4: like that. You know, I did similar things when Abbie 481 00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:35,919 Speaker 4: got pregnant and then had our grand baby. When you 482 00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:41,199 Speaker 4: are sharing your life and being an organized person, organization 483 00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:43,840 Speaker 4: changes as you go through different stages and you have 484 00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 4: to continually level up your organization and change out what 485 00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:50,520 Speaker 4: you're doing. And so I thought, first of all, I'm 486 00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:52,119 Speaker 4: going to talk a lot about getting a PHGA, might 487 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:55,960 Speaker 4: as well record a podcast. And second of all, the planning, 488 00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:59,680 Speaker 4: like I was planning for the two months before I started. 489 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:01,800 Speaker 4: All the time all I was thinking about like, Okay, 490 00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:03,600 Speaker 4: this is this going to stay? Is this going to go? 491 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:05,359 Speaker 4: How am I going to keep doing this? What about this? 492 00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:08,280 Speaker 4: What can I systematize? Because I'm looking at like, you know, 493 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:10,399 Speaker 4: a four year journey here. It's not just I'm going 494 00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:12,080 Speaker 4: to do this for ten weeks and then I'll pop 495 00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:14,240 Speaker 4: back into my life. And I thought there would be 496 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:17,120 Speaker 4: benefit for other people to see, how do you add 497 00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:19,560 Speaker 4: in like a thirty hour week commitment for four years 498 00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:21,679 Speaker 4: in your life? What kind of decisions do you have 499 00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:25,399 Speaker 4: to make? But then also, I haven't been in school 500 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:28,520 Speaker 4: in thirty years, and I've never been a straight A student, 501 00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:35,280 Speaker 4: so learning isn't like easy for me, and academia is. 502 00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:38,359 Speaker 4: I'm a professional business owner now, like I want to 503 00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:41,440 Speaker 4: do a good job, like I want to represent well, 504 00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:44,120 Speaker 4: and so I had to think about, like we're recording 505 00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:45,560 Speaker 4: this and I actually have my hair in a bun. 506 00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:47,320 Speaker 4: I never wore my hair in a ponytailer or a 507 00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:49,240 Speaker 4: bun before I started the PhD. I had to wrestle 508 00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:51,320 Speaker 4: with that for a long time, like is it okay? 509 00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:53,200 Speaker 4: Is it professional for me not to have my hair 510 00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:56,560 Speaker 4: down and curly? Which sounds completely silly, except you've done 511 00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:59,159 Speaker 4: it too, because we do, like we totally have to 512 00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:01,919 Speaker 4: think through all of these things. So I did that. 513 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:03,560 Speaker 4: I thought through all of those things that I put 514 00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:05,480 Speaker 4: them in there and then as we're going through like 515 00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:08,600 Speaker 4: how did it work? As I would go through different 516 00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:11,359 Speaker 4: stages of the term, like how am I doing with coursework? 517 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:16,000 Speaker 4: I traveled four times during that term, had a birthday, 518 00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:19,680 Speaker 4: just like how does real life happen when you change? 519 00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:22,040 Speaker 4: And now I could tell you that series has come 520 00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:25,000 Speaker 4: to an end because I am now a PhD student 521 00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:27,480 Speaker 4: and a CEO. When I started that series, I was 522 00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:31,280 Speaker 4: a CEO who was starting her PhD, but not even 523 00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:33,200 Speaker 4: sure that we were going to continue on, because like 524 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:35,400 Speaker 4: if Greg said we're done, I was going to be done. 525 00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:38,320 Speaker 4: And so how did I take all of the organization 526 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,920 Speaker 4: and productivity and everything that I learned and everything else 527 00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:43,919 Speaker 4: I'd done and apply it into this and then really 528 00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:47,360 Speaker 4: transition that now I am that person, just like I 529 00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:50,240 Speaker 4: am a grandparent now I can't even imagine when I 530 00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:52,520 Speaker 4: wasn't when I was worried about how much time a 531 00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:54,760 Speaker 4: grandchild wild take. And that's so true when you give 532 00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:56,880 Speaker 4: ready to start something, you have no idea how you're 533 00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 4: going to do it, and even when you start doing it, 534 00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:00,840 Speaker 4: you're not sure that you want to continue on, and 535 00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:03,040 Speaker 4: you might quit. But then eventually you just take on 536 00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:05,160 Speaker 4: that identity and you add it to everything else you're 537 00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:05,880 Speaker 4: already doing. 538 00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:09,040 Speaker 3: Which is a great metaphor for parenting in some ways, 539 00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:11,960 Speaker 3: too right, because it seems so especially when you're looking 540 00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:14,600 Speaker 3: at it before you've actually had the child, before you're 541 00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:16,840 Speaker 3: in it. It just seems like, how will I shape 542 00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:19,560 Speaker 3: my life around this? And then you just do you 543 00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:21,159 Speaker 3: figure it out? And I could see that how like 544 00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:23,359 Speaker 3: a podcast series in the very beginning would make sense. 545 00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:25,400 Speaker 3: But then by the time your kid is one, like, well, 546 00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:27,720 Speaker 3: you've probably found your rhythms, and there's not as much 547 00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:30,280 Speaker 3: to say. Okay, fine, well you should all listen to 548 00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:32,840 Speaker 3: the series. It is great. The other thing I wanted 549 00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:35,399 Speaker 3: to ask you about is you have kind of like 550 00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:39,919 Speaker 3: changed up kind of your overall guide to how to 551 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:42,440 Speaker 3: get your entire household organized. I feel like it's become 552 00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:46,400 Speaker 3: more flexible, less prescriptive. Has your research influenced how you've 553 00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:49,240 Speaker 3: decided to change that or is it more just with experience? 554 00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:52,120 Speaker 3: And for listeners, give them a little bit of background, 555 00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:54,879 Speaker 3: because not everybody might know exactly what you do or 556 00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:57,640 Speaker 3: even like what a Sunday basket or a household organization 557 00:26:57,720 --> 00:26:58,240 Speaker 3: program is. 558 00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:00,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, sure, and I think that is actually if you're 559 00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:03,080 Speaker 4: an entrepreneur this, You're gonna love this. So I've been 560 00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:08,280 Speaker 4: in business for thirteen years almost, and a lot of 561 00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:13,720 Speaker 4: podcasting and entrepreneurship is basically digging people on the journey 562 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:15,280 Speaker 4: with you as you figure it out. You're just a 563 00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:18,280 Speaker 4: step ahead of everyone. And when I first started, I 564 00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:20,240 Speaker 4: was a stay at home mom, and so I helped 565 00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:21,960 Speaker 4: you get your house organized in the forty weeks of 566 00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:23,639 Speaker 4: the school year, because that's the weeks that I had 567 00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:26,920 Speaker 4: to get organized. Then after that I figured out that, oh, well, 568 00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:29,040 Speaker 4: I actually do my class at three times a year, 569 00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:31,400 Speaker 4: and I do my kitchen three times a year. Okay, well, 570 00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:33,920 Speaker 4: then I'm going to break this down even more into 571 00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:35,679 Speaker 4: like one hundred day segments, and we're going to do 572 00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:38,080 Speaker 4: three one hundred day segments that match the trimesters. And 573 00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:40,280 Speaker 4: that's when I figured out that I plan in trimesters. 574 00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:44,080 Speaker 4: And then I segued to, you know, it's gonna we 575 00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:45,439 Speaker 4: need to do this in a year, like it's going 576 00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:47,280 Speaker 4: to take a whole year to get through all these spaces, 577 00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:49,720 Speaker 4: especially if you want to do the paper. And I 578 00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:52,160 Speaker 4: got to the point two years ago where I had 579 00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:56,000 Speaker 4: all these products and we really have not gotten rid 580 00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:58,600 Speaker 4: of any of the products. And I just kind kind 581 00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:00,040 Speaker 4: of a meeting with my team and they're like, I 582 00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:03,000 Speaker 4: know how to sell. You are like, well, just gonna 583 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:04,560 Speaker 4: sales meet and they go, we don't even know how 584 00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:06,520 Speaker 4: to do may like, what do you want us to 585 00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:08,879 Speaker 4: send an emails? Like there's just too many things to market. 586 00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:11,639 Speaker 4: We can't market you, Lisa, I said, I know, I know, 587 00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:14,920 Speaker 4: I'm a problem. And it's because we have no scaffolding 588 00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:18,560 Speaker 4: at home. If I was marketing how to do your 589 00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:21,399 Speaker 4: own business, I would fall into the business category, or teaching, 590 00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:23,679 Speaker 4: I'd fall into teaching. But when you're in the household, 591 00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:27,240 Speaker 4: what do you grab onto and there is no pocket 592 00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:29,960 Speaker 4: of money that you have in your budget for organizing 593 00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:31,919 Speaker 4: your house or maintaining your house or the role you 594 00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:33,920 Speaker 4: have as a homeowner, even though it's twenty eight hours 595 00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:36,960 Speaker 4: a week, people without children, without children, that's how long 596 00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:39,000 Speaker 4: it takes to maintain a household, twenty eight hours a week. 597 00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:41,240 Speaker 4: But yet we don't even like put it on the 598 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:43,440 Speaker 4: list at all. And I have somebody clean my house, 599 00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:45,680 Speaker 4: so that eliminates eight of the hours, but it doesn't 600 00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,880 Speaker 4: eliminate all of the hours. It's an actual job. And 601 00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:50,680 Speaker 4: so I just said to them. This is a whole 602 00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:53,440 Speaker 4: new revelation, Terry, You'll be the first person to hear it. 603 00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:56,720 Speaker 4: I'm starting my own TV show. I'm not waiting for 604 00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:58,520 Speaker 4: people to come ask me. I've set up all these 605 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,080 Speaker 4: vignettes over in the office. I'm going to go record 606 00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:02,960 Speaker 4: little segments. You're going to see them all week long. 607 00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:05,920 Speaker 4: And I've decided the flow is overrated. You can get 608 00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:07,680 Speaker 4: in the American flow, and you could go with the 609 00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:10,840 Speaker 4: flow and you end up not done with your goals. 610 00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:15,960 Speaker 4: There is a productive household flow, but it is very orchestrated, 611 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:19,080 Speaker 4: and it is deep work on Monday and meetings and 612 00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:21,840 Speaker 4: errands on Tuesday and Wednesdays when you followup from meetings, 613 00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:24,120 Speaker 4: and Thursdays deep work again, and then you transition to 614 00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:27,480 Speaker 4: the house Friday's networking, and then you do your Friday workbox, 615 00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:29,000 Speaker 4: and then you get up on Saturday morning and you 616 00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:30,960 Speaker 4: do your productive home solution and you play with your kids, 617 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:32,960 Speaker 4: and then you do your Sunday basket and that is 618 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,239 Speaker 4: the week. But then you layer on top of that 619 00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:38,920 Speaker 4: holidays and whatever else. And I know all this like 620 00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:41,720 Speaker 4: I can orchestrate this movie for you. Three hundred and 621 00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:44,280 Speaker 4: sixty five days a year, and I'm going to start 622 00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:46,360 Speaker 4: doing it in our app and on Instagram, and it's 623 00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:49,480 Speaker 4: going to be I'm gonna have to pre record some 624 00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:52,280 Speaker 4: of it. But even like the Sunday basket, some weeks 625 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:54,040 Speaker 4: you're like, why do I even do the Sunday basket? 626 00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:55,960 Speaker 4: There's nothing in here? This thing must not even work. 627 00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:57,760 Speaker 4: And then other weeks you're like, I need my whole 628 00:29:57,800 --> 00:29:59,880 Speaker 4: house is a Sunday basket, Like why is my sun 629 00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:02,959 Speaker 4: basket exploding? And that's normal, And so I can give 630 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:04,720 Speaker 4: you a Sunday basket report on Sundays to be like, 631 00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,000 Speaker 4: here's the barometer of where your Sunday basket is. So 632 00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:09,600 Speaker 4: I'm going to go all in on this because I'm 633 00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:11,920 Speaker 4: crazy and I have a warehouse, so I'm just gonna 634 00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:15,960 Speaker 4: set it up. But that is why this research is important. 635 00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:21,760 Speaker 4: The common mainstream conversation right now is that women are undervalued, 636 00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:24,040 Speaker 4: that they are doing the invisible work that they are 637 00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:26,760 Speaker 4: put upon and men better step it up and do 638 00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:29,520 Speaker 4: their job. And the men are saying, well, i'll do 639 00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:31,560 Speaker 4: whatever you want me to, just ask and the women 640 00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:34,040 Speaker 4: are like, why can't you figure this out? You know why? 641 00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:37,000 Speaker 4: Because the women can't figure it out and it's too 642 00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:39,040 Speaker 4: exhausting to tell you, so you might as well just 643 00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:40,800 Speaker 4: do it, because there's so many things I can't stop 644 00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:42,000 Speaker 4: to tell you, because I'm not going to get it 645 00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:45,960 Speaker 4: all done. And that conversation is real. I'm not saying 646 00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:49,719 Speaker 4: that conversation isn't real. I'm just saying it's not affirmative, 647 00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:52,360 Speaker 4: and it's not constructive, and it's not helpful. It's great 648 00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:55,120 Speaker 4: for clickbait, it's great for the Today Show. It's great 649 00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:57,320 Speaker 4: that Marie Kondo has decided that she's given it up. 650 00:30:57,400 --> 00:30:59,360 Speaker 4: She has not given it up. People. If you think 651 00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:02,440 Speaker 4: Marie Kondo is overwhelmed, she is not. She is selling 652 00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:05,600 Speaker 4: a new book. She's just fine. She's still more organized 653 00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:08,840 Speaker 4: than all of us. But we need to have a 654 00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:12,160 Speaker 4: school like you need to learn organizing school like Organize 655 00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:14,520 Speaker 4: three sixty five is a university. This is where you 656 00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:17,560 Speaker 4: learn to be the head of your household. And there 657 00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:20,480 Speaker 4: is no easy way for me to do that. So 658 00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:21,880 Speaker 4: I'm just going to keep running faster. 659 00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:26,880 Speaker 3: And yeah, so are you going to encourage couples to 660 00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:28,160 Speaker 3: attend your school together? 661 00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:31,800 Speaker 4: You know are quite a few men that are doing 662 00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:34,640 Speaker 4: the productive home solution now and they've started to say 663 00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:37,320 Speaker 4: to me, you know, like for men, for men, for men. 664 00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:38,680 Speaker 4: I'm like, okay, well I need to know what the 665 00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:41,600 Speaker 4: lingo is whatever. And then there's this one audience member. 666 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:44,360 Speaker 4: She travels and she's the breadwinner and her husband is 667 00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:46,600 Speaker 4: at home, and he's like, yeah, but they're all women 668 00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:50,280 Speaker 4: in there. She goes, do you know when the last 669 00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:52,760 Speaker 4: time I was in a meeting of any kind where 670 00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:55,200 Speaker 4: I was not the only woman. She's like, suck it 671 00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:57,800 Speaker 4: up and get in the productive home solution. And I thought, 672 00:31:57,800 --> 00:31:59,920 Speaker 4: you know what, Yeah, why do I have to change 673 00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:03,480 Speaker 4: to make this gut off again. We're opening the door. 674 00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:05,320 Speaker 4: We're not going to change our sex and I'm not 675 00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:07,400 Speaker 4: gonna change my language, but I'm going to open the door. 676 00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:10,840 Speaker 4: Come on in. I'm not gonna shame you. Clearly, there 677 00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:13,400 Speaker 4: are no men in my life that are not supporting me, 678 00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:15,560 Speaker 4: helping me opening the door for me. I'm going to 679 00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:17,920 Speaker 4: support you, help you open the door for you. But 680 00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:19,800 Speaker 4: I'm not going to change the fact that this has 681 00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:23,680 Speaker 4: been a female ground for like ever, like I can't 682 00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:26,400 Speaker 4: change that, but I haven't make it more comfortable for 683 00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:30,200 Speaker 4: you to come join us and find anything visible work. 684 00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:32,840 Speaker 4: You want to just start doing anything It does. 685 00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:35,400 Speaker 3: One hundred percent right though, that there does not need 686 00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:38,520 Speaker 3: to be a for men tacked on, because there's no 687 00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:42,240 Speaker 3: reason it would need to be any different of a program. 688 00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:45,400 Speaker 3: And I'm still waiting for my first male Best Laid 689 00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:48,080 Speaker 3: Plans Academy registrant, but it's gonna happen. I can't wait. 690 00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:54,560 Speaker 3: That's awesome, Lisa, that is fantastic. I want to we 691 00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:56,280 Speaker 3: need to do Love of the Week. But I just 692 00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:59,360 Speaker 3: one more seasonal question. It's May. As we're recording this, 693 00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:02,440 Speaker 3: you've told people on your podcast about like the different 694 00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:05,240 Speaker 3: golden windows, like what should everybody be thinking in the 695 00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:09,560 Speaker 3: months ahead in terms of since you were able to 696 00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:11,680 Speaker 3: like read our minds and know what the focuses are 697 00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,960 Speaker 3: going to be, what's the next few months looking like 698 00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:14,560 Speaker 3: for us? 699 00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:17,000 Speaker 4: Yeah? So May is setting you up for the summer. 700 00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,680 Speaker 4: And what happens is you run so fast in May 701 00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:21,000 Speaker 4: and you get all the way to the end and 702 00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:22,840 Speaker 4: you're like, oh my gosh, I didn't forget anything, and 703 00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:24,360 Speaker 4: then you just collapse on the floor and the next 704 00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:27,719 Speaker 4: thing you know, it's Labor Day. So you're gonna be 705 00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:29,920 Speaker 4: awesome summer either way. I'm just like, I'm not giving 706 00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:32,600 Speaker 4: you any guilt. I'm not giving you any homework, but 707 00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:35,760 Speaker 4: I'm just saying that the memories that are most meaningful 708 00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:39,280 Speaker 4: to you someone planned those. So even if you just 709 00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:41,320 Speaker 4: say I'm going to do one thing in June, one 710 00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:42,920 Speaker 4: thing in July, and one thing in August, and you're 711 00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:44,800 Speaker 4: actually going to plan it, and I'm saying that you 712 00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:47,840 Speaker 4: have to plan like a wedding, I'm just saying you're 713 00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:49,440 Speaker 4: gonna do Somemores one night and the kids are going 714 00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:51,120 Speaker 4: to stay up an hour late, and you're also gonna 715 00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:54,080 Speaker 4: watch a movie outside, or you're gonna take the day 716 00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:55,800 Speaker 4: off work and you're gonna surprise them and you're like 717 00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:57,960 Speaker 4: pajama Day in the middle of July or something like, 718 00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:00,400 Speaker 4: just something fun and so like, they will talk about 719 00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:02,000 Speaker 4: it for the rest of their life, but it will 720 00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:06,400 Speaker 4: not happen unless you plan it. So it all comes 721 00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:07,120 Speaker 4: back to planning. 722 00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:11,400 Speaker 3: Awesome. Well, before we go, do you know our tradition 723 00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:13,399 Speaker 3: of sharing a love of the week. I don't think 724 00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:16,359 Speaker 3: I've warned you. Oh you do, okay, good, So I'll 725 00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:18,239 Speaker 3: let you go first. Mine is not that exciting, but 726 00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:19,719 Speaker 3: I still have a lot of love for it, So 727 00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:20,240 Speaker 3: go ahead. 728 00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:24,359 Speaker 4: So my first term in getting my PhD. I kept 729 00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:26,959 Speaker 4: hoping that Grayson would get in daycare because Grayson lives 730 00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:30,840 Speaker 4: with us. He did not, but he started daycare yesterday. 731 00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:34,000 Speaker 4: Love of the week so I was a preschool teacher, 732 00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:35,480 Speaker 4: I was a stay at home mom. My kids did 733 00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:38,240 Speaker 4: not go to daycare. I love being home with my kids. 734 00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:41,520 Speaker 4: And for Grayson, I love daycare for him because he 735 00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:45,080 Speaker 4: doesn't have siblings, and my daughter was staying home with 736 00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:47,359 Speaker 4: her him, but she wants to work and she doesn't 737 00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:49,960 Speaker 4: have a spouse, and so he is in day number 738 00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:52,440 Speaker 4: two and he's so excited. I've seen little pictures. So 739 00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:54,400 Speaker 4: my love of the week is daycare. 740 00:34:55,440 --> 00:35:00,040 Speaker 3: Daycare is awesome. And also I think providing permission to 741 00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:02,279 Speaker 3: ourselves to love daycare is excellent. So that is a 742 00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:04,359 Speaker 3: fantastic love of the week. And I'm going to give 743 00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:06,920 Speaker 3: a really really boring one, which is that Lululemon socks 744 00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:07,560 Speaker 3: are awesome. 745 00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:09,680 Speaker 4: I need socks. 746 00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:13,319 Speaker 3: Lululemon socks. They're great for running, they're comfortable. So many 747 00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:16,960 Speaker 3: socks are like itchy, and they're my most comfortable socks. 748 00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:18,120 Speaker 3: And I realized the other day that I had a 749 00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:20,080 Speaker 3: pair that was like, I don't know, really really old 750 00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:21,920 Speaker 3: and they were like, still working great. So I think 751 00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:24,840 Speaker 3: I'm going to replace all my socks with Lululemon socks. 752 00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:27,719 Speaker 3: Now I've just ruined every future sponsorship with every other 753 00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:30,320 Speaker 3: sock company. But it's okay. I love my socks. 754 00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:32,200 Speaker 4: And you know what I just want to say, like 755 00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:35,560 Speaker 4: for women, you should do that, like go buy yourself 756 00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:39,279 Speaker 4: all new underwear, like it's amazing. It's ridiculously expensive, but 757 00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:40,880 Speaker 4: you're worth it. You do it for your kids like 758 00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:42,520 Speaker 4: every six months, So do it for you. 759 00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:45,239 Speaker 3: Agree one hundred percent. Well, Lisa, this has been such 760 00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:48,360 Speaker 3: a pleasure. Tell our listeners where they can find all 761 00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:49,080 Speaker 3: of your stuff. 762 00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:52,360 Speaker 4: So the podcast is called Organized three sixty five. The 763 00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:55,480 Speaker 4: website's Organized three sixty five. I'm Organized three sixty five 764 00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:56,400 Speaker 4: on Instagram. 765 00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:58,799 Speaker 3: Awesome, thank you so much for coming on. 766 00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:00,000 Speaker 4: Thank you. 767 00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:03,360 Speaker 1: Well, that was awesome. I'm hearing about all the amazing 768 00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:06,920 Speaker 1: things that Lisa has going on in her life. So 769 00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:10,400 Speaker 1: the question is from somebody asking us about podcasting. This 770 00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:14,319 Speaker 1: person's wrote to Sarah and said, how much time a 771 00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:17,120 Speaker 1: week does your weekly podcast with Laura take to prep 772 00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:20,160 Speaker 1: record and produce? What equipment do you need to buy 773 00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:23,480 Speaker 1: to sound professional? Do you edit the podcast? Yourself or 774 00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:25,960 Speaker 1: outsource that, and do you have any tips on what 775 00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:28,719 Speaker 1: recording software to use? So for those who are just 776 00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:30,719 Speaker 1: joining us, I guess we could get into a quick 777 00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:32,080 Speaker 1: rundown of how it goes. 778 00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:35,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, so, yeah, we talked about this a while back, 779 00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:36,360 Speaker 3: but it's been a little while. 780 00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:37,680 Speaker 4: Laura and I go. 781 00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:39,720 Speaker 3: Back and forth with the show notes. I would say 782 00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:44,640 Speaker 3: that takes maybe around thirty to sixty minutes, sometimes sixty 783 00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:46,640 Speaker 3: minutes or more, depending on what the topic is and 784 00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:49,360 Speaker 3: what it is. And you know, we're prepping somebody to interview, 785 00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:51,320 Speaker 3: we might actually want to read their book and that 786 00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:53,400 Speaker 3: could take some time as well. So actually, I'm going 787 00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:55,640 Speaker 3: to revise that. I'm going to say prep takes one 788 00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:57,680 Speaker 3: to two hours, and we're kind of sending stuff back 789 00:36:57,719 --> 00:37:02,000 Speaker 3: and forth to do that. There's also time that you 790 00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:06,880 Speaker 3: need to record, and that usually takes about the episode, because, 791 00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:08,879 Speaker 3: as we'll talk about, we kind of do a take 792 00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:12,520 Speaker 3: and let someone else fix it and then yeah, and 793 00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:17,000 Speaker 3: then there's extra time brainstorming thinking about episodes, deciding which 794 00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:20,480 Speaker 3: guests to actually pitch, coordinating with said guests, and then 795 00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:23,440 Speaker 3: also coordinating with our sound team, which we do outsource. 796 00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:26,319 Speaker 3: But then there's work in actually having to tell them 797 00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:28,840 Speaker 3: what to do in terms of like where's our break 798 00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:32,120 Speaker 3: and what sponsors are in this week's episode, and actually 799 00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:35,880 Speaker 3: sending them the tracks and whatnot. The equipment so all 800 00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:37,759 Speaker 3: I have. Laura has more fancy stuff than I do 801 00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:41,080 Speaker 3: because she has Before Breakfast, which is a little bit different. 802 00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:44,640 Speaker 3: But I have a MIC from twenty seventeen that somehow 803 00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:48,200 Speaker 3: is still functioning. I don't understand it, but it's great. 804 00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:52,000 Speaker 3: It's an audiotechnica, like one hundred dollars mic, and I 805 00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:54,960 Speaker 3: use my MacBook Pro and that's it and a pair 806 00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:58,520 Speaker 3: of wired headphones. So that's all of my equipment. Do 807 00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:01,800 Speaker 3: we edit it ourselves? We outsource it to a company 808 00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:04,960 Speaker 3: called Sounded by Strategies. They're a public company available to anyone. 809 00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:07,759 Speaker 3: They have a starter package, or you can if you 810 00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:10,880 Speaker 3: have an existing podcast. I don't know if you I 811 00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:13,239 Speaker 3: don't remember if you can start if you already have one, 812 00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:16,640 Speaker 3: but anyway, they basically allow you to purchase their time 813 00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:20,399 Speaker 3: to do all the editing and production, and they can 814 00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:22,759 Speaker 3: even like for bestlaid plans. I had them help me 815 00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:24,880 Speaker 3: grow it from scratch, meaning they help me with the 816 00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:27,320 Speaker 3: cover art and getting it on all the platforms, et cetera. 817 00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:31,640 Speaker 3: And then finally tips on recording software to use. We 818 00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:36,400 Speaker 3: use squadcast, which usually behaves itself. A lot of people 819 00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:39,719 Speaker 3: also like the program Riverside FM, so that's when I've 820 00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:42,920 Speaker 3: been a guest on a bunch that seems to work well. 821 00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:45,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, for best of both worlds, I use the same stuff. 822 00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:49,320 Speaker 1: It's just my laptop, a microphone you can buy off Amazon, 823 00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:51,720 Speaker 1: and you can spend any amount of microphones, but definitely 824 00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:54,200 Speaker 1: if you're you know, looking in the fifty to one 825 00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:57,719 Speaker 1: hundred dollars range, you can't get excellent stuff pair of headphones, 826 00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:01,320 Speaker 1: and that's it. That's the upside of these online recording 827 00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:04,360 Speaker 1: software platforms as you really can get because it records 828 00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:06,600 Speaker 1: local tracks, like it's recording a local track for me, 829 00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:08,560 Speaker 1: in a local track for Sarah, and our sound engineer 830 00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:10,640 Speaker 1: puts them together and so the quality is better than 831 00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:14,960 Speaker 1: if you're relying on the internet transmission of it. So yeah, 832 00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:16,040 Speaker 1: that's what we do. 833 00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:17,040 Speaker 4: Well. 834 00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:20,400 Speaker 1: This has been best of both worlds. Sarah was interviewing 835 00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:24,040 Speaker 1: Lisa Woodruff of Organized three sixty five. We will be 836 00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:26,320 Speaker 1: back next week with more on making work and life 837 00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:26,960 Speaker 1: fit together. 838 00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:32,040 Speaker 3: Thanks for listening. You can find me Sarah at the 839 00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:36,440 Speaker 3: shoebox dot com or at the Underscore Shoebox on Instagram, 840 00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:37,200 Speaker 3: and you. 841 00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:41,400 Speaker 2: Can find me Laura at Laura vandercam dot com. This 842 00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:44,719 Speaker 2: has been the best of both worlds podcasts. Please join 843 00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:47,560 Speaker 2: us next time for more on making work and life 844 00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:48,360 Speaker 2: work together.