1 00:00:01,800 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: Get your hands together, and we're gonna start to party 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:04,480 Speaker 1: and start. 3 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 2: I'm ready to party. 4 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 3: The Elvis Duran after Party. 5 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:17,599 Speaker 4: Look at this, the after Party podcast is on and 6 00:00:17,640 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 4: there's Danielle and there's Scottie B and Scary and Gandhi 7 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 4: in Straight and Eate and uh. 8 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 2: Let's go ready to go? 9 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 5: Yeah? 10 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, So Danielle is about to say something. 11 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:30,480 Speaker 2: I think it's just absurd. 12 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 3: I can't wait. 13 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 6: Go ahead, honey, Hello, I was down the shore this week, 14 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 6: you guys know, for the day, spent the day down there. 15 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 6: So a lot of the teenagers that we are all 16 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 6: friends with with their families were there, so they were 17 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:43,680 Speaker 6: nineteen twenty. And I said, okay, guys, I have a question. 18 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:46,520 Speaker 6: So I said, if somebody was to cheat on you, 19 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 6: now they have to cheat on you, you have no choice. 20 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 3: Would you rather than cheat on you with. 21 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 6: Somebody hotter than you, or somebody uglier than you, or 22 00:00:56,880 --> 00:00:58,760 Speaker 6: somebody from the same sex that they. 23 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 3: Are different answers same sex sex. 24 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 1: The guys are going to say, no, same sex is 25 00:01:06,920 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 1: acceptable because I'm not offended because I can't supply what 26 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 1: that same sex is doing. 27 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 2: So it's like, okay, good. 28 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:16,040 Speaker 4: You're all and that's not cheating as far as I'm waiting, Now, 29 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 4: what about me in same sex? 30 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 2: Wait? You see, for Elvis, if. 31 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 3: Alex cheated, if Alex cheated with a girl, would you. 32 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:27,959 Speaker 2: Have that it's less offensive to you, Elvis? No, it's not. 33 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 2: It's this is why I said, this is absurd. 34 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:34,760 Speaker 4: How do you sit there and justify Okay, it's okay, 35 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:37,959 Speaker 4: it's better if they're uglier than me, go right ahead. 36 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 6: Because some people were saying, Okay, if they're uglier than me, 37 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 6: then I feel good about myself. I'm like, well, you 38 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 6: got uglier, I'm better looking. Absolute But if they're better 39 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 6: looking than you, then you can say, well, I kind 40 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 6: of get it. 41 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 3: I kind of understand what. 42 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 6: Okay, these really different answers. 43 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 5: Different answers. I was what I would rather be cheated 44 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 5: on with somebody who's a lot hotter than me? 45 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:06,919 Speaker 3: Yes, okay, yeah for sure, because if they. 46 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:08,800 Speaker 5: Weren't hotter than me, then I would be like, oh 47 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 5: my god, their personality is that much better. 48 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 3: Oh that's more. 49 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 5: Devastating, Or they cheated on someone uglier than me, Like 50 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 5: the hell, what the hell did they think of it? 51 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 2: What I'm thinking is, see, I'm thinking of this step further. 52 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 4: It's like, well, if they cheat on me with someone 53 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 4: that's hotter than me, then I will I have a 54 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 4: chance to get them back at this point because that 55 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 4: they found someone hotter and now and now I'm like 56 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 4: yesterday's news. 57 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 2: I'm like the ugly old guy. 58 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 3: Oh man, Well, why would you want them back if 59 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 3: they cheated on you? Anyway? 60 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 4: Why are we having this conversation. I don't have a pig. 61 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 4: If you cheat on me, I don't care what they 62 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 4: look like. You're you're you're out, You're gone. That that 63 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:45,079 Speaker 4: ruins the conversation. 64 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 5: If I say that, Yeah, well, the absolute last thing 65 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 5: I would want is for someone i'm dating to cheat 66 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 5: on me with a man. I would not be happy 67 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:53,359 Speaker 5: with that because it would just tick me off because 68 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 5: I'd be like, you did not disclose this ahead of time, 69 00:02:57,440 --> 00:02:59,919 Speaker 5: They didn't figure it out. Well, now you figured it out. Now, 70 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:02,640 Speaker 5: I'm just not that should be more acceptable to you, 71 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 5: not to me, because you. 72 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:05,239 Speaker 2: Because it's a guy. 73 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 1: And then he can get what he wants out of 74 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:10,359 Speaker 1: a guy. You can't give him what he wants. Oh 75 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 1: yes he can. 76 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:14,959 Speaker 2: But if he wants the feeling of another man, it's 77 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:18,799 Speaker 2: like I'm out I'm not a man. You could peg 78 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 2: this guy and you can keep him right, but. 79 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 5: I can't peg him. But I think I would be 80 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:24,799 Speaker 5: more upset with the dishonesty through the entire relationship that 81 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 5: I could have been pegging him from the beginning and 82 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 5: kep him from cheating. 83 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 4: But wait, okay, let me give you another level to 84 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 4: think about it in that. Okay, okay, let's say so 85 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 4: you're saying you're upset because you find out he's gay. Yes, 86 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 4: but what if he's bisexual? Still, Yes, that's a little different. 87 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 5: No, I mean yeah, I would be like, well, we 88 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 5: could have just you could have just told me. I mean, 89 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 5: I don't think. I just don't think i'd be into it. 90 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 5: No shade to anybody who's bisexual and is into that, 91 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 5: but like I would not. 92 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:55,839 Speaker 6: My favorite was one of the kids said I would 93 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 6: feel like I turned them that way, and I had 94 00:03:57,680 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 6: to say to them, guys, it's not how it works. 95 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 2: Robin could cheat on me with women all day long. 96 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 2: I wouldn't care. It's not cheating. 97 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 3: So if she hooked up with me or GANDHI can 98 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 3: be fine with. 99 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 2: That, it's still cheating. 100 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 3: Is Sheldon hooked up with. 101 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:17,599 Speaker 2: Straight guys. 102 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 4: Straight guys have this whole different view of it is 103 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:21,359 Speaker 4: different woman on a woman. 104 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 3: I guess it's still cheating. 105 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:24,919 Speaker 5: Guys think it's hot, and I think they think about 106 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 5: inserting themselves into. 107 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 4: That whatever I mean, and they totally sexualized it. They 108 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 4: forget there could be emotion in there too that would 109 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 4: make them upset. Right, I can't believe we're. 110 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 2: Talking about this. 111 00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:39,360 Speaker 5: I still want to know everybody's answers, because everybody did 112 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 5: not answer. 113 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:43,919 Speaker 6: Yeah, you guys didn't all answer different sex. 114 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:49,799 Speaker 2: No, you cheat on me, you're out. It does matter. 115 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 2: I can't answer that because it's just it doesn't compute 116 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:54,479 Speaker 2: with me. I can't answer that for you. 117 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:57,479 Speaker 7: I kind of agree with Elvis because like the hotter person, Okay, 118 00:04:57,520 --> 00:04:59,719 Speaker 7: I'm gonna get an inferior you are to your complex 119 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 7: over not being that attractive an uglier person, I'd be like, well, 120 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:04,840 Speaker 7: what do they have that I don't have? And then 121 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 7: somebody of the same sex, I'd be kind of like Gandhia, 122 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 7: like you've been. 123 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:12,360 Speaker 1: Lying this whole time. Sex and hotter guy, I'm okay. 124 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 3: With, Yeah, yeah, you understand the hotter guys. 125 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 2: I understand it because you described it perfectly. 126 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 5: Look at him. 127 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 3: How you can look at it like. 128 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:25,080 Speaker 1: I kind of understand cheated with a ten woman, you're 129 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 1: cool with it? 130 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 3: What are you trying to say, I'm only like a 131 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:28,920 Speaker 3: sex wow? 132 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 7: That whatever. 133 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:34,840 Speaker 2: I would be pissed. 134 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 3: Of course i'd be pissed. 135 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 4: But also back to something Nate was saying, if you're 136 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:41,800 Speaker 4: cheating on me with someone who I feel is uglier 137 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:44,040 Speaker 4: than me, and then we'll wait a minute, maybe they're 138 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:44,720 Speaker 4: not uglier than me. 139 00:05:44,839 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 2: Maybe I'm really ugly. 140 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 3: Issue right, that is a total issue. There really isn't 141 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:53,480 Speaker 3: but to pick which one. 142 00:05:53,720 --> 00:05:55,239 Speaker 2: What did the teenagers say, Danielle? 143 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:56,479 Speaker 3: They all said different things. 144 00:05:56,760 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 6: One of them said the uglier, one of them said hotter, 145 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:00,440 Speaker 6: one of them said that they'd rather would be the 146 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:01,599 Speaker 6: you know, with the same sex. 147 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 3: That they all had different, different fakes. 148 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 2: So was it? 149 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:07,160 Speaker 6: I thought it was very interesting, So I was like, Okay, 150 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:10,120 Speaker 6: maybe look at things I don't know. They don't ask 151 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:12,280 Speaker 6: why I bring up these conversations down the shore with 152 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 6: the kids. 153 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 3: Why not? 154 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 2: Yeah at dinner I didn't, which sounds like you had 155 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 2: fun with it. So I'm around the cheeseboard. 156 00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:23,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no, they were awesome round the cheeseboard. It 157 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:26,480 Speaker 3: actually was cheese and cracker. There was cheese and crackers. 158 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:28,720 Speaker 6: Other time we were we were just having a good 159 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:31,280 Speaker 6: time in laughing and they were talking about their relationships. 160 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:34,480 Speaker 6: One just found out that their ex had moved on 161 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 6: and it was the first time they were dealing with that, 162 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:38,640 Speaker 6: and so we were talking about that. 163 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:40,200 Speaker 3: So I don't know, I kind of just brought it 164 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:41,480 Speaker 3: up and it was like, so let's. 165 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 2: Say, you know, Wow, I'm gonna go down the shore 166 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:47,160 Speaker 2: with you next time. 167 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 3: For sure, they were older, they were nineteen twenty. They 168 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:54,279 Speaker 3: weren't little kids. 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