WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Cabo St. Lucas Love

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up to date, I'm gonna say there's a

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<v Speaker 1>ninety nine percent chance that Jose knows the woman on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone with us for a second date of Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I love you. It's going to be some listener that

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<v Speaker 1>you had a one night thing and she's mad. When

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<v Speaker 1>I say he knows her, I mean she's a model

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<v Speaker 1>on Instagram. Oh yeah, sorry, I shouldn't just say Instagram model,

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<v Speaker 1>because apparently she does work in magazines and other publications

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<v Speaker 1>all over the world. Her name's Lisa, and she emailed

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<v Speaker 1>the show saying she just had the wildest first date

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<v Speaker 1>of her life and she needs help getting back in

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<v Speaker 1>touch with the guy. So, Lisa, we'll get to your

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<v Speaker 1>wild date in just a second. But first things first,

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<v Speaker 1>why haven't you responded to any of Jose's dms? I'm sorry, Jose,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a lot of dms all the time to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to me right now, right you just called this

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<v Speaker 1>is this is your response to him? Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I'll try talking to you. And I have one

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<v Speaker 1>that hurts. She's playing hard to get with you. I

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<v Speaker 1>would say, keep trying. How are you a hot model

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<v Speaker 1>and you need our help in the dating world. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it just comes easy to you people. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it comes easy, but I'm prone to making mistakes. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>oh even better, you're a clumsy model. I mean, this

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<v Speaker 1>is what romantic comedies live for, and this could be

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<v Speaker 1>a confidence boost to everybody on this show. So go

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<v Speaker 1>ahead and tell us about the guy that you want

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<v Speaker 1>us to call today and where you met him. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a pretty crazy story. It actually all happened

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<v Speaker 1>a few weeks ago when I was in Copo Saint

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<v Speaker 1>Lucas for like this modeling gig that I had going on.

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<v Speaker 1>You were good at Spanish two, aren't you. Lucas apparently

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<v Speaker 1>went to Cabo. When you're a model, you don't need

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<v Speaker 1>to know where you're taking photos. You just need to

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<v Speaker 1>take off your clothes and then get in front of

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<v Speaker 1>that camera. So you're in Mexico for a shoot, is

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<v Speaker 1>what you're saying exactly. I'm and I had such a

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful place to stay and I was just getting settled

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<v Speaker 1>in my room when I walked onto my patio and

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<v Speaker 1>I saw this be yond handsome guy. Oh yes, so

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<v Speaker 1>you're standing out there pretending to look at the view

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<v Speaker 1>when really you're spying on him, trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>if there's a woman in the room with him. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I was just in awe of the way he looked like.

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<v Speaker 1>I take good care of myself, but this guy just

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<v Speaker 1>had such natural beauty to him. You popped the balcony.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you start the interaction between you and this guy?

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<v Speaker 1>What is his name? By the way, His name is Ryan. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So how did you and Ryan start interacting? I definitely

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to introduce myself, and I did right away. He

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<v Speaker 1>started talking. I even invited him into my room just

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<v Speaker 1>to chat. We didn't do anything at that point, but

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<v Speaker 1>we were just chatting. So this guy's single, on top

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<v Speaker 1>of being hot, and right next to you. Yes, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my wow, what's going on? What kin? At some point?

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<v Speaker 1>But you got all the good jeans the guy next

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<v Speaker 1>to you. So you and Ryan are in your hotel

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<v Speaker 1>room together, and what happens. Well, we set all these

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<v Speaker 1>different activities for us to do together. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>was working a lot, but every time I wasn't working,

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<v Speaker 1>I made sure that I was spending time with him.

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<v Speaker 1>I just said, it's so crazy. So you guys are

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<v Speaker 1>just like you start talking, you connect, You're both there

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<v Speaker 1>by yourselves essentially, and you're what taking some dune buggies

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<v Speaker 1>out in the Mexican forest idea. Oh it was awesome,

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<v Speaker 1>but I, like I said, I'm prone to mistakes, and

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<v Speaker 1>by the end, things just went downhill. Unfortunately. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like your downhill isn't downhill. Yeah, exactly, you know what happened?

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<v Speaker 1>You get a pimple? No, No, it was actually totally

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<v Speaker 1>my fault. Um, I kinda hooked up with my photographer.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that tends to happen. Yeah, how did you

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<v Speaker 1>find out? Well, I'm an honest person, So I just

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<v Speaker 1>went up to him and I told Ryan and that

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<v Speaker 1>that's what happened, and I apologize and I hope that

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<v Speaker 1>we could have moved past it. But unfortunately, no, like

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<v Speaker 1>he felt the same way that I felt about him,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was really crushed. And you stopped talking about yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well you were dating. Well yeah, right, you weren't dating.

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<v Speaker 1>You were in a relationship, and you didn't owe it

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<v Speaker 1>to him to tell him, like I slept with my photographer,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you guys had no commitment at that point, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what happened with the photographer? Like how did that happen?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it a male photographer? Is it a female photographer?

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<v Speaker 1>Free are you just trying to live out whatever. I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to know the circumstances. Yeah, it's a male photographer.

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<v Speaker 1>I've known him for a few years. I'd worked with

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<v Speaker 1>him on other shoots with sum just been really close

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<v Speaker 1>and we have fun together and I didn't really think

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<v Speaker 1>much of it when it happened. But so is that

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<v Speaker 1>something that happens a lot. You hook up with a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of the photographers just casually because your friends, like

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<v Speaker 1>in the modeling yeld. Yeah, and working is really stressful,

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<v Speaker 1>Like the day you're very long, and even though everything

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<v Speaker 1>looks still glamorous and you see the end product, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot harder than it looks. How come none of

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<v Speaker 1>us hook up after long, hard days? Afore, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna say I've always stressed out at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>radio and well I have slept with many people. It

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<v Speaker 1>pans out, all right, So sorry, So let's bring it

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<v Speaker 1>back to you and Ryan. You told Ryan about the

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<v Speaker 1>photographer and he was upset. How did you guys leave

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<v Speaker 1>things on a like really bad note. He stopped talking

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<v Speaker 1>to me, he went his own way, He completely ignored me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I had to leave pretty quickly after that. So

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<v Speaker 1>once I got home, I just kept thinking about Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>and I knew that he's the type of guy that

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to be with, and I could potentially even

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<v Speaker 1>see myself marrying him one day, and I felt like

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<v Speaker 1>I ruined the whole situation. So do you guys live

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<v Speaker 1>anywhere close to each other? Well, SMI close, but not

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<v Speaker 1>exactly in the same city. Okay, so there is a

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<v Speaker 1>chance for you to see each other, I guess, is

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<v Speaker 1>my question. Yeah, if he'll let me or until my

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<v Speaker 1>next shooting the ghost. He must be beautiful if he's

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<v Speaker 1>got a model begging to see him again, and he's

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<v Speaker 1>just like, all right, Lisa, we're gonna try and help

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<v Speaker 1>you out with this. We're gonna play a song. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna come back. While that's happening. Jose and I are

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<v Speaker 1>going to go out into the hallway and we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>look up your photos on Instagram, just because we're very

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<v Speaker 1>thorough in our work here. We want to know the

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<v Speaker 1>people that we're working with. When we come back, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>make your second date update phone called the Ryan doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>work out, you know, I'm still I'm glad she found

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<v Speaker 1>two men she can trust. That's right, you can trust us.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna do it right after this. Hold on. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>second update if you're just joining us for the second

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<v Speaker 1>date update, we're on the phone with Lisa, whose two

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<v Speaker 1>favorite things to do in life are modeling and exotic

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<v Speaker 1>locations around the world and listening to our morning show.

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<v Speaker 1>Want a combination, that's right? Yes, at least I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>tell you. We've been getting text to our message board

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<v Speaker 1>already calling you a cheater. But I feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>need to clarify here because it's not like you were

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship with this guy Ryan, who you met

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<v Speaker 1>while you were in Mexico. You just went out on

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<v Speaker 1>some exotic dates with him there, hooked up with your

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<v Speaker 1>photographer once in between, and then Ryan got upset about that. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>You were right, being a model is busy. Oh that's

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<v Speaker 1>very hard to fit at all in the schedule. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how you do it. Yeah, somebody options, But

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<v Speaker 1>you said you and Ryan didn't leave things on the

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<v Speaker 1>best note, and ever since you've gotten back, you have

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<v Speaker 1>not been able to get a hold of him. Right. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's been really difficult for me because I'm just thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about everything that I could have done better in that situation.

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<v Speaker 1>So I really want to get him back. Well, you

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<v Speaker 1>could also think about what he could have done better, right,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you were super honest, which is a good sign

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<v Speaker 1>from somebody because you didn't have to tell him. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean you didn't. I'm just saying like he could have

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<v Speaker 1>acted like an adult too, Like they're not in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like that's what that's what dating is, figuring out

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<v Speaker 1>how it's the guy's fault all the time. I think

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<v Speaker 1>there's hope. That's all I'm saying there is. Don't just

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<v Speaker 1>don't take all the blame. Okay, as long as you

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<v Speaker 1>haven't hooked up with a photographer again after Mexico that happened.

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<v Speaker 1>This guy's don't even talking to her. I'm don't saying.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not going to help her case if she continues

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<v Speaker 1>to look up with the photographer anything. Don't answer this question,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, thank you. I haven't hooked up with him,

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<v Speaker 1>so don't worry about that. I'm just really really hoping

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<v Speaker 1>this will work out. Okay, but it'd be fine if

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<v Speaker 1>you did. Alright, now, I think we're ready. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>dial Ryan's phone number and try and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>date up date. Are you ready, Lisa, I'm ready Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello. Hi, is this Ryan? This is him? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>M okay, it does sound hot. I apologize. That's that's

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<v Speaker 1>my female co host. Her name's Brooke. Hi. Ryan, You're

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<v Speaker 1>on a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning right now. No, I'm just just so you know, Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>she is married. Oh yeah, I don't want you at all,

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<v Speaker 1>don't care. I've just never been around so many beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>people all at one time. What are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>That was unnecessary? Okay, Ryan, I'm sorry. Are you still there? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here. So we're doing something on our show called

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update. Have you ever heard of anything

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<v Speaker 1>like that before? No? I don't think so. Yeah. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what, honestly, most hot people haven't heard of it.

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<v Speaker 1>So this checks out. And the reason the reason that

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<v Speaker 1>we we're calling you hot a lot, Ryan, is because

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners, Lisa, told us that you were No,

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<v Speaker 1>she said you were beautiful. I mean, if we were

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<v Speaker 1>going to say, we're gonna be specific, she said you're

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<v Speaker 1>a beautiful man. Can you confirm? Um? I can just

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<v Speaker 1>say I appreciate the compliment. Okay, Oh that's what beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>people say. Oh God, here we go. Hear that? Laugh r. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So obviously you remember Lisa from Mexico, right, She was

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<v Speaker 1>a model and you guys stayed in the same hotel.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you guys went on a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>adventures together and afterwards you're not responding to any of

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<v Speaker 1>her texts or her phone calls, and she's wondering why.

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<v Speaker 1>I honestly don't know how much I can tell you, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest with you, I mean, if it has

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<v Speaker 1>to do with Lisa, she's a pretty open book and

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<v Speaker 1>she listens to our show all the time. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>she knows that when you participate in a second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>there could be information that is shared that maybe isn't

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<v Speaker 1>the most flattering. Did she tell you what she did? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she told us who she did. Yeah. Are you taking

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<v Speaker 1>about the photographer hook up? Yeah? Yes, yeah, But you

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<v Speaker 1>guys weren't in you know, you weren't dating. Like, we

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<v Speaker 1>can understand both sides. You can see her side too,

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<v Speaker 1>she's in Cabo. I understand what you're saying. But it

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<v Speaker 1>was it was a very intense moment, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>we were falling for each other. Yeah, okay, it felt

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<v Speaker 1>like you guys had a relationship even though you had

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<v Speaker 1>just met correct okay connection. Yeah, it's almost like you've

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<v Speaker 1>known her forever when people say that all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're saying that you feel betrayed by her, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't trust her. Yeah. I'm in a very pivotal point

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<v Speaker 1>in my life right now, and I can't have somebody

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<v Speaker 1>that's not one hundred percent with me on my side.

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<v Speaker 1>I might be rash, but I need to have the

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<v Speaker 1>right kind of people around me. That bro't thing to say. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>is that an invitation because I'm so down. I'm on

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<v Speaker 1>this side. Wherever you want to go, you want to

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<v Speaker 1>go to Combo Tokyo, wherever. I appreciate that. Yeah, so, Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>you just can't look past the hole she slept with

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<v Speaker 1>her photographer thing. There's no way for you to work

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<v Speaker 1>past that. That is a piece of the puzzle. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>is there more to the puzzle? Um? In vague terms,

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<v Speaker 1>I can tell you that I recently sold my company.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm involved in tech, and I was paid very handsomely

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<v Speaker 1>to hand over the rights of my company. And it

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<v Speaker 1>felt like I was pulling on the universal cord and

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<v Speaker 1>I was supposed to be there at that moment and

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<v Speaker 1>at that time and when we met each other, that

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<v Speaker 1>what I was feeling, And then when she told me

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<v Speaker 1>she slept with a photographer that she had known. It

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<v Speaker 1>just I need to be guarded with myself, and especially

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<v Speaker 1>with the kind of money that we're talking about. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to be around people that I can't trust. Dude,

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<v Speaker 1>he's got at least a thousand bucks. Yeah, okay, handsome

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<v Speaker 1>and rich. A lot of people hook up with whoever

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<v Speaker 1>until you say not to. It's not just me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Like what he's saying is he's got to protect everything

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<v Speaker 1>around him. He has to trust everyone buying you. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I could argue both sides. I could argue why you

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<v Speaker 1>should be together and why you shouldn't be together. I

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<v Speaker 1>think you're going your own thing. Brou Are you saying

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<v Speaker 1>that there is no chance that you could ever change

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<v Speaker 1>your mind even if she was to tell you directly

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<v Speaker 1>that she's one hundred percent in with you. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>one of those things that it's always going to come

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<v Speaker 1>up in my head. I have to be honest with that,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll never fully trust her and I can't hold

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<v Speaker 1>her hostage to me not trusting her in a relationship. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe this will, Ryan, Maybe this will make you trust

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<v Speaker 1>her more, because I need to tell you she's been

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<v Speaker 1>secretly listening on the other line and she wants to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you. No, that doesn't help, It doesn't Lisa.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, Hi, Ryan, Um, you know I've been thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about you a lot, and I felt really bad about

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<v Speaker 1>what I did to you. But that was just a mistake, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just in the heat of the moment. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not always like that. I have so much more to

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<v Speaker 1>me than that, and we have such a good time together.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why you have to throw that all away.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't believe it was me that threw it away.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was your decision making wow at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>and you decided, Hey, I could be happy with somebody

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<v Speaker 1>and potentially grow a genuine relationship with them, or I

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<v Speaker 1>could sleep around. You chose to sleep around. You can't

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<v Speaker 1>forgive me the one thing you found Like you've been

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<v Speaker 1>like hurt by someone else before. You have mommy issues.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. It is like, Ryan, you're putting a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of pressure on this, Like, I mean, it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>I know, you guys had this crazy connection, but it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't a relationship yet, I mean, how many days did

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<v Speaker 1>you guys hang out together? It was four days old.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I mean four days spending every hour together.

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<v Speaker 1>Possibly that's like not every hour. There's the stuff that's right.

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<v Speaker 1>There was there was the two hours with the photographer,

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean that's a that's a lot of time

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<v Speaker 1>spent building a connection with someone, putting your trust into somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>I could see what he's saying. But sometimes maybe she's scared.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she's like, whoa, this is so much, so fast,

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<v Speaker 1>and in her mind, maybe it was too much and

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<v Speaker 1>she just wanted to ruin it. People are scared of

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<v Speaker 1>that type of intense commitment, and maybe she just needed

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<v Speaker 1>a minute to breathe before she was ready to move

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<v Speaker 1>on with you, Ryan, very very heavily. Yeah, Ryan, you

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<v Speaker 1>should really put yourself in someone else's shoes. For one,

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<v Speaker 1>everything was moving very fast with you. So don't expect

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to get some big commitment from me, like

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<v Speaker 1>right now, I want us to take the time to

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<v Speaker 1>grow with each other. But just give me a chance.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you say, Ryan, You're not going to find

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<v Speaker 1>anybody better. Just pretend that last one. But Ryan, she's

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<v Speaker 1>owning up to it. She's trying to be honest with you.

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<v Speaker 1>She does need to work on her apologizing. I agree, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not willing to give her one more shot to

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<v Speaker 1>prove to you that she's the type of woman that

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<v Speaker 1>you deserve. My relationships need to be sound, So that

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<v Speaker 1>being said, I can't agree to seeing you any further.

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<v Speaker 1>So work out for a beautiful person a company, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're too good for models. I'm sorry, Lisa. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>we're not going to get a second date for you here.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a feel and you'll bounce back. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope. So I'm so disappointing, but whatever, Like, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>get better. It's not a big deal. I mean, hilarious,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a blue check mark. Yeah, and make sure

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<v Speaker 1>to call your photographer after this. I'm sure he'll know

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<v Speaker 1>what to say to you to make you feel better. Okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.