Speaker 1: Second date up to date, I'm gonna say there's a
Speaker 1: ninety nine percent chance that Jose knows the woman on
Speaker 1: the phone with us for a second date of Hey,
Speaker 1: I love you. It's going to be some listener that
Speaker 1: you had a one night thing and she's mad. When
Speaker 1: I say he knows her, I mean she's a model
Speaker 1: on Instagram. Oh yeah, sorry, I shouldn't just say Instagram model,
Speaker 1: because apparently she does work in magazines and other publications
Speaker 1: all over the world. Her name's Lisa, and she emailed
Speaker 1: the show saying she just had the wildest first date
Speaker 1: of her life and she needs help getting back in
Speaker 1: touch with the guy. So, Lisa, we'll get to your
Speaker 1: wild date in just a second. But first things first,
Speaker 1: why haven't you responded to any of Jose's dms? I'm sorry, Jose,
Speaker 1: I have a lot of dms all the time to
Speaker 1: talk to me right now, right you just called this
Speaker 1: is this is your response to him? Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe I'll try talking to you. And I have one
Speaker 1: that hurts. She's playing hard to get with you. I
Speaker 1: would say, keep trying. How are you a hot model
Speaker 1: and you need our help in the dating world. I
Speaker 1: thought it just comes easy to you people. I mean
Speaker 1: it comes easy, but I'm prone to making mistakes. Okay,
Speaker 1: oh even better, you're a clumsy model. I mean, this
Speaker 1: is what romantic comedies live for, and this could be
Speaker 1: a confidence boost to everybody on this show. So go
Speaker 1: ahead and tell us about the guy that you want
Speaker 1: us to call today and where you met him. Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: this is a pretty crazy story. It actually all happened
Speaker 1: a few weeks ago when I was in Copo Saint
Speaker 1: Lucas for like this modeling gig that I had going on.
Speaker 1: You were good at Spanish two, aren't you. Lucas apparently
Speaker 1: went to Cabo. When you're a model, you don't need
Speaker 1: to know where you're taking photos. You just need to
Speaker 1: take off your clothes and then get in front of
Speaker 1: that camera. So you're in Mexico for a shoot, is
Speaker 1: what you're saying exactly. I'm and I had such a
Speaker 1: beautiful place to stay and I was just getting settled
Speaker 1: in my room when I walked onto my patio and
Speaker 1: I saw this be yond handsome guy. Oh yes, so
Speaker 1: you're standing out there pretending to look at the view
Speaker 1: when really you're spying on him, trying to figure out
Speaker 1: if there's a woman in the room with him. I mean,
Speaker 1: I was just in awe of the way he looked like.
Speaker 1: I take good care of myself, but this guy just
Speaker 1: had such natural beauty to him. You popped the balcony.
Speaker 1: How did you start the interaction between you and this guy?
Speaker 1: What is his name? By the way, His name is Ryan. Okay,
Speaker 1: So how did you and Ryan start interacting? I definitely
Speaker 1: wanted to introduce myself, and I did right away. He
Speaker 1: started talking. I even invited him into my room just
Speaker 1: to chat. We didn't do anything at that point, but
Speaker 1: we were just chatting. So this guy's single, on top
Speaker 1: of being hot, and right next to you. Yes, oh
Speaker 1: my wow, what's going on? What kin? At some point?
Speaker 1: But you got all the good jeans the guy next
Speaker 1: to you. So you and Ryan are in your hotel
Speaker 1: room together, and what happens. Well, we set all these
Speaker 1: different activities for us to do together. I mean, I
Speaker 1: was working a lot, but every time I wasn't working,
Speaker 1: I made sure that I was spending time with him.
Speaker 1: I just said, it's so crazy. So you guys are
Speaker 1: just like you start talking, you connect, You're both there
Speaker 1: by yourselves essentially, and you're what taking some dune buggies
Speaker 1: out in the Mexican forest idea. Oh it was awesome,
Speaker 1: but I, like I said, I'm prone to mistakes, and
Speaker 1: by the end, things just went downhill. Unfortunately. I feel
Speaker 1: like your downhill isn't downhill. Yeah, exactly, you know what happened?
Speaker 1: You get a pimple? No, No, it was actually totally
Speaker 1: my fault. Um, I kinda hooked up with my photographer.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that tends to happen. Yeah, how did you
Speaker 1: find out? Well, I'm an honest person, So I just
Speaker 1: went up to him and I told Ryan and that
Speaker 1: that's what happened, and I apologize and I hope that
Speaker 1: we could have moved past it. But unfortunately, no, like
Speaker 1: he felt the same way that I felt about him,
Speaker 1: and he was really crushed. And you stopped talking about yeah,
Speaker 1: well you were dating. Well yeah, right, you weren't dating.
Speaker 1: You were in a relationship, and you didn't owe it
Speaker 1: to him to tell him, like I slept with my photographer,
Speaker 1: Like you guys had no commitment at that point, and yeah,
Speaker 1: what happened with the photographer? Like how did that happen?
Speaker 1: Is it a male photographer? Is it a female photographer?
Speaker 1: Free are you just trying to live out whatever. I
Speaker 1: just want to know the circumstances. Yeah, it's a male photographer.
Speaker 1: I've known him for a few years. I'd worked with
Speaker 1: him on other shoots with sum just been really close
Speaker 1: and we have fun together and I didn't really think
Speaker 1: much of it when it happened. But so is that
Speaker 1: something that happens a lot. You hook up with a
Speaker 1: lot of the photographers just casually because your friends, like
Speaker 1: in the modeling yeld. Yeah, and working is really stressful,
Speaker 1: Like the day you're very long, and even though everything
Speaker 1: looks still glamorous and you see the end product, it's
Speaker 1: a lot harder than it looks. How come none of
Speaker 1: us hook up after long, hard days? Afore, I'm just
Speaker 1: gonna say I've always stressed out at the end of
Speaker 1: radio and well I have slept with many people. It
Speaker 1: pans out, all right, So sorry, So let's bring it
Speaker 1: back to you and Ryan. You told Ryan about the
Speaker 1: photographer and he was upset. How did you guys leave
Speaker 1: things on a like really bad note. He stopped talking
Speaker 1: to me, he went his own way, He completely ignored me,
Speaker 1: and I had to leave pretty quickly after that. So
Speaker 1: once I got home, I just kept thinking about Ryan,
Speaker 1: and I knew that he's the type of guy that
Speaker 1: I wanted to be with, and I could potentially even
Speaker 1: see myself marrying him one day, and I felt like
Speaker 1: I ruined the whole situation. So do you guys live
Speaker 1: anywhere close to each other? Well, SMI close, but not
Speaker 1: exactly in the same city. Okay, so there is a
Speaker 1: chance for you to see each other, I guess, is
Speaker 1: my question. Yeah, if he'll let me or until my
Speaker 1: next shooting the ghost. He must be beautiful if he's
Speaker 1: got a model begging to see him again, and he's
Speaker 1: just like, all right, Lisa, we're gonna try and help
Speaker 1: you out with this. We're gonna play a song. We're
Speaker 1: gonna come back. While that's happening. Jose and I are
Speaker 1: going to go out into the hallway and we're gonna
Speaker 1: look up your photos on Instagram, just because we're very
Speaker 1: thorough in our work here. We want to know the
Speaker 1: people that we're working with. When we come back, we'll
Speaker 1: make your second date update phone called the Ryan doesn't
Speaker 1: work out, you know, I'm still I'm glad she found
Speaker 1: two men she can trust. That's right, you can trust us.
Speaker 1: We're gonna do it right after this. Hold on. Okay,
Speaker 1: second update if you're just joining us for the second
Speaker 1: date update, we're on the phone with Lisa, whose two
Speaker 1: favorite things to do in life are modeling and exotic
Speaker 1: locations around the world and listening to our morning show.
Speaker 1: Want a combination, that's right? Yes, at least I gotta
Speaker 1: tell you. We've been getting text to our message board
Speaker 1: already calling you a cheater. But I feel like I
Speaker 1: need to clarify here because it's not like you were
Speaker 1: in a relationship with this guy Ryan, who you met
Speaker 1: while you were in Mexico. You just went out on
Speaker 1: some exotic dates with him there, hooked up with your
Speaker 1: photographer once in between, and then Ryan got upset about that. Man.
Speaker 1: You were right, being a model is busy. Oh that's
Speaker 1: very hard to fit at all in the schedule. I
Speaker 1: don't know how you do it. Yeah, somebody options, But
Speaker 1: you said you and Ryan didn't leave things on the
Speaker 1: best note, and ever since you've gotten back, you have
Speaker 1: not been able to get a hold of him. Right. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's been really difficult for me because I'm just thinking
Speaker 1: about everything that I could have done better in that situation.
Speaker 1: So I really want to get him back. Well, you
Speaker 1: could also think about what he could have done better, right,
Speaker 1: Like you were super honest, which is a good sign
Speaker 1: from somebody because you didn't have to tell him. I
Speaker 1: mean you didn't. I'm just saying like he could have
Speaker 1: acted like an adult too, Like they're not in a relationship.
Speaker 1: It's like that's what that's what dating is, figuring out
Speaker 1: how it's the guy's fault all the time. I think
Speaker 1: there's hope. That's all I'm saying there is. Don't just
Speaker 1: don't take all the blame. Okay, as long as you
Speaker 1: haven't hooked up with a photographer again after Mexico that happened.
Speaker 1: This guy's don't even talking to her. I'm don't saying.
Speaker 1: It's not going to help her case if she continues
Speaker 1: to look up with the photographer anything. Don't answer this question,
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you. I haven't hooked up with him,
Speaker 1: so don't worry about that. I'm just really really hoping
Speaker 1: this will work out. Okay, but it'd be fine if
Speaker 1: you did. Alright, now, I think we're ready. We're gonna
Speaker 1: dial Ryan's phone number and try and get your second
Speaker 1: date up date. Are you ready, Lisa, I'm ready Okay,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello. Hi, is this Ryan? This is him? Yes?
Speaker 1: M okay, it does sound hot. I apologize. That's that's
Speaker 1: my female co host. Her name's Brooke. Hi. Ryan, You're
Speaker 1: on a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning right now. No, I'm just just so you know, Ryan,
Speaker 1: she is married. Oh yeah, I don't want you at all,
Speaker 1: don't care. I've just never been around so many beautiful
Speaker 1: people all at one time. What are you talking about?
Speaker 1: That was unnecessary? Okay, Ryan, I'm sorry. Are you still there? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm here. So we're doing something on our show called
Speaker 1: a second date update. Have you ever heard of anything
Speaker 1: like that before? No? I don't think so. Yeah. You
Speaker 1: know what, honestly, most hot people haven't heard of it.
Speaker 1: So this checks out. And the reason the reason that
Speaker 1: we we're calling you hot a lot, Ryan, is because
Speaker 1: one of our listeners, Lisa, told us that you were No,
Speaker 1: she said you were beautiful. I mean, if we were
Speaker 1: going to say, we're gonna be specific, she said you're
Speaker 1: a beautiful man. Can you confirm? Um? I can just
Speaker 1: say I appreciate the compliment. Okay, Oh that's what beautiful
Speaker 1: people say. Oh God, here we go. Hear that? Laugh r. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So obviously you remember Lisa from Mexico, right, She was
Speaker 1: a model and you guys stayed in the same hotel.
Speaker 1: It sounds like you guys went on a lot of
Speaker 1: adventures together and afterwards you're not responding to any of
Speaker 1: her texts or her phone calls, and she's wondering why.
Speaker 1: I honestly don't know how much I can tell you, guys,
Speaker 1: to be honest with you, I mean, if it has
Speaker 1: to do with Lisa, she's a pretty open book and
Speaker 1: she listens to our show all the time. I mean
Speaker 1: she knows that when you participate in a second date update,
Speaker 1: there could be information that is shared that maybe isn't
Speaker 1: the most flattering. Did she tell you what she did? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: she told us who she did. Yeah. Are you taking
Speaker 1: about the photographer hook up? Yeah? Yes, yeah, But you
Speaker 1: guys weren't in you know, you weren't dating. Like, we
Speaker 1: can understand both sides. You can see her side too,
Speaker 1: she's in Cabo. I understand what you're saying. But it
Speaker 1: was it was a very intense moment, and it was
Speaker 1: we were falling for each other. Yeah, okay, it felt
Speaker 1: like you guys had a relationship even though you had
Speaker 1: just met correct okay connection. Yeah, it's almost like you've
Speaker 1: known her forever when people say that all the time.
Speaker 1: So you're saying that you feel betrayed by her, you
Speaker 1: don't trust her. Yeah. I'm in a very pivotal point
Speaker 1: in my life right now, and I can't have somebody
Speaker 1: that's not one hundred percent with me on my side.
Speaker 1: I might be rash, but I need to have the
Speaker 1: right kind of people around me. That bro't thing to say. Actually,
Speaker 1: is that an invitation because I'm so down. I'm on
Speaker 1: this side. Wherever you want to go, you want to
Speaker 1: go to Combo Tokyo, wherever. I appreciate that. Yeah, so, Ryan,
Speaker 1: you just can't look past the hole she slept with
Speaker 1: her photographer thing. There's no way for you to work
Speaker 1: past that. That is a piece of the puzzle. Yes,
Speaker 1: is there more to the puzzle? Um? In vague terms,
Speaker 1: I can tell you that I recently sold my company.
Speaker 1: I'm involved in tech, and I was paid very handsomely
Speaker 1: to hand over the rights of my company. And it
Speaker 1: felt like I was pulling on the universal cord and
Speaker 1: I was supposed to be there at that moment and
Speaker 1: at that time and when we met each other, that
Speaker 1: what I was feeling, And then when she told me
Speaker 1: she slept with a photographer that she had known. It
Speaker 1: just I need to be guarded with myself, and especially
Speaker 1: with the kind of money that we're talking about. I
Speaker 1: don't want to be around people that I can't trust. Dude,
Speaker 1: he's got at least a thousand bucks. Yeah, okay, handsome
Speaker 1: and rich. A lot of people hook up with whoever
Speaker 1: until you say not to. It's not just me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like what he's saying is he's got to protect everything
Speaker 1: around him. He has to trust everyone buying you. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I could argue both sides. I could argue why you
Speaker 1: should be together and why you shouldn't be together. I
Speaker 1: think you're going your own thing. Brou Are you saying
Speaker 1: that there is no chance that you could ever change
Speaker 1: your mind even if she was to tell you directly
Speaker 1: that she's one hundred percent in with you. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: one of those things that it's always going to come
Speaker 1: up in my head. I have to be honest with that,
Speaker 1: and I'll never fully trust her and I can't hold
Speaker 1: her hostage to me not trusting her in a relationship. Well,
Speaker 1: Maybe this will, Ryan, Maybe this will make you trust
Speaker 1: her more, because I need to tell you she's been
Speaker 1: secretly listening on the other line and she wants to
Speaker 1: talk to you. No, that doesn't help, It doesn't Lisa.
Speaker 1: Come on, Hi, Ryan, Um, you know I've been thinking
Speaker 1: about you a lot, and I felt really bad about
Speaker 1: what I did to you. But that was just a mistake, Okay.
Speaker 1: I was just in the heat of the moment. I'm
Speaker 1: not always like that. I have so much more to
Speaker 1: me than that, and we have such a good time together.
Speaker 1: I don't know why you have to throw that all away.
Speaker 1: I don't believe it was me that threw it away.
Speaker 1: I think it was your decision making wow at the time,
Speaker 1: and you decided, Hey, I could be happy with somebody
Speaker 1: and potentially grow a genuine relationship with them, or I
Speaker 1: could sleep around. You chose to sleep around. You can't
Speaker 1: forgive me the one thing you found Like you've been
Speaker 1: like hurt by someone else before. You have mommy issues.
Speaker 1: I don't know. It is like, Ryan, you're putting a
Speaker 1: lot of pressure on this, Like, I mean, it wasn't
Speaker 1: I know, you guys had this crazy connection, but it
Speaker 1: wasn't a relationship yet, I mean, how many days did
Speaker 1: you guys hang out together? It was four days old.
Speaker 1: I mean I mean four days spending every hour together.
Speaker 1: Possibly that's like not every hour. There's the stuff that's right.
Speaker 1: There was there was the two hours with the photographer,
Speaker 1: But I mean that's a that's a lot of time
Speaker 1: spent building a connection with someone, putting your trust into somebody.
Speaker 1: I could see what he's saying. But sometimes maybe she's scared.
Speaker 1: Maybe she's like, whoa, this is so much, so fast,
Speaker 1: and in her mind, maybe it was too much and
Speaker 1: she just wanted to ruin it. People are scared of
Speaker 1: that type of intense commitment, and maybe she just needed
Speaker 1: a minute to breathe before she was ready to move
Speaker 1: on with you, Ryan, very very heavily. Yeah, Ryan, you
Speaker 1: should really put yourself in someone else's shoes. For one,
Speaker 1: everything was moving very fast with you. So don't expect
Speaker 1: you're going to get some big commitment from me, like
Speaker 1: right now, I want us to take the time to
Speaker 1: grow with each other. But just give me a chance.
Speaker 1: What do you say, Ryan, You're not going to find
Speaker 1: anybody better. Just pretend that last one. But Ryan, she's
Speaker 1: owning up to it. She's trying to be honest with you.
Speaker 1: She does need to work on her apologizing. I agree, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're not willing to give her one more shot to
Speaker 1: prove to you that she's the type of woman that
Speaker 1: you deserve. My relationships need to be sound, So that
Speaker 1: being said, I can't agree to seeing you any further.
Speaker 1: So work out for a beautiful person a company, and
Speaker 1: you're too good for models. I'm sorry, Lisa. I guess
Speaker 1: we're not going to get a second date for you here.
Speaker 1: I have a feel and you'll bounce back. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I hope. So I'm so disappointing, but whatever, Like, I'll
Speaker 1: get better. It's not a big deal. I mean, hilarious,
Speaker 1: I have a blue check mark. Yeah, and make sure
Speaker 1: to call your photographer after this. I'm sure he'll know
Speaker 1: what to say to you to make you feel better. Okay, okay.
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.