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Speaker 1: Come on, Hi, Ryan, Um, you know I've been thinking

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Speaker 1: I could see what he's saying. But sometimes maybe she's scared.

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Speaker 1: So work out for a beautiful person a company, and

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Speaker 1: you're too good for models. I'm sorry, Lisa. I guess

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Speaker 1: I have a blue check mark. Yeah, and make sure

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Speaker 1: to call your photographer after this. I'm sure he'll know

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