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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Jaselle,

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Speaker 2: But what's up? I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you for being

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Speaker 2: here with us. What's a good? Yeah? Yeah, we still

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Speaker 2: don't have our song. We still don't have our rap.

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Speaker 2: I blame it on you. Yeah? Has anybody Yeah, has

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Speaker 2: anybody written in to say, hey, I can help you

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Speaker 2: all with y'all? Right with your lyrics? Okay? So of

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Speaker 2: our listeners are producers. This was care I say so,

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Speaker 2: maybe we should just blame the listeners. Yes, you guys's fault.

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Speaker 2: By the way, we didn't talk last week about Michael

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Speaker 2: Jamal Warner. Oh and even paulk Holgan. Okay? Was that

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Speaker 2: the Hulk Hulgan of it all? No? That was next

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Speaker 2: next one? Okay, fine, we don't we don't recall the

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Speaker 2: years ago he was like recorded, secretly recorded. There was

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Speaker 2: a he was ranting, saying the N word and saying

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Speaker 2: that his daughter better than not data black man. Oh yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: not we're not now with him wrestling? Was r I

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Speaker 2: p r ip to him? But let's talk about Michael

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Speaker 2: Jams Warner. That's it. That's good for you. It's okay.

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Speaker 2: I don't know Ozzy Osbourne. I don't know anything about him,

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Speaker 2: but yes, Malcolm Jamal Warner is. Yeah, he he And

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Speaker 2: didn't he date Regina King for a long time? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Did he? I don't know. Maybe I made that up,

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Speaker 2: But like he is, was a staple for us. Yes,

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Speaker 2: he was like our big brother. Yes, our total big brother,

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Speaker 2: total staple. I just there's so many scenes from the

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Speaker 2: Cosmy so that like he iconic, Yeah, that were iconic

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Speaker 2: and that he made like that. You just remember theo

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Speaker 2: in the Cosbee Show. It's really sad. It's really sad

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Speaker 2: that he passed away. It's sad the nature of how

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Speaker 2: he passed away. Yes, totally.

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Speaker 1: And it's so crazy because it's like as I get older,

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Speaker 1: there's just so many more things in life that I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I'm not.

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Speaker 2: Doing that anymore. Well, he was what scuba diving?

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Speaker 1: No, he was just in the ocean. He was He

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Speaker 1: just was like swimming in the ocean in Costa Rica

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Speaker 1: with his eight year old daughter and they got caught

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Speaker 1: up in a riptide or she's okay, And apparently there

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Speaker 1: were some other people out there I think there was

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Speaker 1: another man that got caught up in it, but he survived,

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Speaker 1: I think. But like, yeah, I'm not stepping foot in

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Speaker 1: the ocean anymore, like maybe my toes, you know, up

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Speaker 1: to up to like my knees or something. But like,

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Speaker 1: I'm not submerging my body in the ocean anymore. I'm

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Speaker 1: just not I'm not going out out past a certain certain.

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Speaker 2: You know whatever distance.

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Speaker 1: And I think about all of the stuff that I

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Speaker 1: used to do so care free as a kid. Totally,

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Speaker 1: there's so many things that I just won't do anymore.

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Speaker 2: The and the the currents I think are different than

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Speaker 2: where what they were back in the day. Well yeah,

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Speaker 2: and then I guess whether yeah, maybe I don't know,

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Speaker 2: maybe or could just be different different locations. But apparently

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Speaker 2: there were warnings about the riptides and the current and.

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Speaker 1: I guess they weren't heated. It's really sad that that

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Speaker 1: he passed away.

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Speaker 2: It's a horrible way to die. Yeah, rest in peace

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Speaker 2: to him and his family.

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Speaker 1: That was really sad because he definitely, you know, not

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Speaker 1: only just on the Kaisi Show, is theo like just

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Speaker 1: as an as an adult, his he was still a

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Speaker 1: great actor, like he was on the resident. Oh yes,

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Speaker 1: I loved him with that, Oh my God, for God right,

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Speaker 1: and he just always seemed like a great like he

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Speaker 1: just he was one of those that had.

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Speaker 2: A great spirit. He was so good.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he just seemed to just have a great spirit.

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Speaker 1: Definitely feel like one of our big brothers or cousins

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Speaker 1: or whatever has passed away.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely. All right, why do you have a shady moment? Okay,

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Speaker 2: what is your shady moment? Okay? The shady person again,

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Speaker 2: I think is me? M Yeah, shocker. So so it's

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Speaker 2: and whole foods Okay. Two days ago, and I was,

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Speaker 2: you know, zooming in and out of the lines, I

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Speaker 2: And this one particular isle I was about to go down.

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Speaker 2: they weren't screaming. They were throwing shade at each other

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Speaker 2: And then she said, and who do you think you are?

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Speaker 2: And boa so I of course went down that aisle, yes,

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Speaker 2: going on, of course, having nothing to do with me,

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Speaker 2: but to hear other people shade against each other brilliant.

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Speaker 2: So I love it. I'm walking very slowly down the

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Speaker 2: the maple syrup, okay, because i'm reading the ingredients. I'm

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Speaker 2: not reading the ingredients. I'm just listening and it's so good. Okay.

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Speaker 2: So I think that they knew how how crazy it

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Speaker 2: was getting because they said to each other, we just

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Speaker 2: gonna wait, we just gonna pause. And so this lady,

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Speaker 2: to do. I was like, ship, damn, sam it, don't mind,

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Speaker 2: don't mind me, don't mind me. It was I was

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Speaker 2: about to say, hey, don't I'm not here. But I

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Speaker 2: So I got out the aisle, but I didn't. I

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Speaker 2: right there and they went back at it and it

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Speaker 2: was kind of like who do you think you are?

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Speaker 2: And it was kind of complaining about their jobs and

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Speaker 2: maybe somebody was supposed to help out, but they didn't

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Speaker 2: help out with you always going on break and I

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Speaker 2: don't know if you think that we don't know that

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Speaker 2: you have gone on fifteen breaks Like it was all

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Speaker 2: of that. It was amazing. So I just want to

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Speaker 2: make a little PSA if you see me in the

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Speaker 2: store and keep doing what you're doing exactly, because actually

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Speaker 2: you're entertaining me. You're here for it. You're not going

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Speaker 2: to tell the supervisors want more. I might even chime

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Speaker 2: in to be like, yeah, no, not the thing exactly. Yes,

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Speaker 2: so you could you could let them know whose side

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Speaker 2: you're on, Yeah, yeah, who's the right one? Yeah. But

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Speaker 2: it was good and they were in it and then

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Speaker 2: and then they kind of jumped into like a little

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Speaker 2: like not patchwa, but like other languages a little bit.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh it was so good, so good. So whole foods, y'all,

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Speaker 2: please don't mind me. Yeah, I'm just, you know, innocent bystander,

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Speaker 2: just wanting to hear y'all shade love it, yes, love it.

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Speaker 1: Speaking of whole foods, this is just random. Have you

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Speaker 1: noticed whether or not they carry yellow watermelon?

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Speaker 2: Yes? They do, they do. I have to go well

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Speaker 2: one mine does? It does? Have you ever tried yellow watermelon.

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Speaker 2: Now it's outside. And I actually looked at it the

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Speaker 2: other day and I was because it was in the

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Speaker 2: what's that And I said to myself, this has got

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Speaker 2: to be not good, right, Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: So Carter has become fixated on yellow watermelon, of course.

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Speaker 1: So he sees it on TikTok. Yeah, and people make

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Speaker 1: TikTok videos and like, oh, it's so good, it's so juicy,

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Speaker 1: it's so sweetest.

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Speaker 2: So this is this.

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Speaker 1: So he's like, can we get a yellow watermelon?

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Speaker 2: I'm like okay. And they're smaller, kind of like a candaloa. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, like rounder, like the round smaller ones. So

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Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, sure. So you know, I order my

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Speaker 1: groceries online. So I was online ordering groceries and they

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Speaker 1: had a yellow watermelon online.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I ordered the yellow watermelon. My yellow watermelon was delivered. Yes,

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Speaker 2: this is getting good.

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Speaker 1: Carter is like, and I'm in the middle. I start

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Speaker 1: cooking dinner, right, but he is.

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Speaker 2: Like, yellow watermelon. Cut the yellow watermelon, like, cut the watermelon,

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Speaker 2: cut the watermelon, and y'all know, cutting watermelons is like

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Speaker 2: the it's a feet so do you. But this one's

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Speaker 2: kind of small. Well, okay, if it was a yellow

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Speaker 2: watermelon would be small. I cut that thing open, I

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Speaker 2: put my knife in it. I went down and that

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Speaker 2: shit was red. Huh, it was red on the inside.

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Speaker 1: They didn't give me a yellow watermelon.

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Speaker 2: Wait?

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Speaker 1: I ordered yellow water outside yellow? No, but you know

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Speaker 1: the outside of the watermelon isn't yellow. It's yeah, it's yellow.

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Speaker 2: Well, the one I saw, the things I saw, they

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Speaker 2: were all yellow outside of yellow, outside of yellow.

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Speaker 1: Well, I order a yellow watermelon and I got a

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Speaker 1: red one.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, but then what makes you what makes the

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Speaker 2: red one become yellow? The inside? Oh? The inside, yes,

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Speaker 2: the inside is yellow. I think the outside yellow too?

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Speaker 2: Is it some I gotta let us know because there

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Speaker 2: was a big I don't think they maybe maybe it

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Speaker 2: was a melon. I was, Yeah, it was a melon.

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Speaker 2: Is it called watermelon? It's called yellow watermelon. Okay, I'm

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Speaker 2: at the store today. I'm i'mnna check it out. Okay,

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Speaker 2: see if they have it. Okay, but how do you

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Speaker 2: how do you pick your watermelon? Because this is the thing.

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Speaker 2: So I've heard.

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Speaker 1: People, you know, they say like, oh, okay, you gotta

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Speaker 1: tap on it.

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Speaker 2: You gotta listen, yeah, you know, and how heavy is it? Right?

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Speaker 2: So I feel like I'm doing all that, but I

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Speaker 2: don't know what I'm like. Okay, when you tap on it,

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Speaker 2: what does it sound like? So I think, okay, I

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Speaker 2: think you wanted to be the more hollow it is,

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Speaker 2: the less it has to sound hollow, like, oh, you

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Speaker 2: wanted to sound hollow. Yeah, you wanted to sound hollow

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Speaker 2: like do not do? Not like the it's like, do

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Speaker 2: do do? Okay. And then if if it's a regular

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Speaker 2: green watermelon and it's white on the bottom, right, that's good.

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Speaker 2: That's good, right, yeah, and in the sun for a

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Speaker 2: long time, I guess. And then you have to knock

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Speaker 2: on it. And if you knock on it and it's

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Speaker 2: hollow sounding, it's perfect, right. And then the waight too,

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Speaker 2: I think like the heavier ones are juicier. Well, they're

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Speaker 2: all heavy, I know. Yeah, okay, yeah, I haven't bought

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Speaker 2: a whole watermelon in a very long time. Oh really,

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Speaker 2: I just caught one another day. Okay. It was supposed

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Speaker 2: to be get them always in your house. It was

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Speaker 2: it was red inside, not yellow, and you were like,

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Speaker 2: this is wrong. Yes, see you don't go actually go

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Speaker 2: to the store.

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Speaker 1: See, I go to so now I have to go

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Speaker 1: to the store specifically, Yes, and intentionally just to get

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Speaker 1: a yellow watermelon. Yes, because totally clearly the people where

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Speaker 1: I ordered it from getting followed up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, download you're talking about and I don't like So

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Speaker 2: you don't feel uncomfortable with people picking your produce. I

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Speaker 2: mean I watch it good, I know, but you know

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Speaker 2: they don't. They don't they don't care exactly, so they're

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Speaker 2: not picking the best. Yeah. I don't do a ton.

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Speaker 2: I don't do a ton of produce shopping online, Like

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Speaker 2: I will go to the stores to do that. Like

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Speaker 2: I don't want to go to the I get my

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Speaker 2: groceries delivered, but I still will go to the store

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Speaker 2: This episode's over. I said, you're gonna set him up

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Speaker 2: with me? Hell out? You know, eleven kids, eleven kids

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Speaker 2: how ad I say long? How long did you stay

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Speaker 2: How do you just marry? Six times?

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Speaker 2: And what was the nationality? Indian? The Indian restaurant? Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 2: six times? Six times? And I thought they married. It's

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Speaker 2: Totally. Well, he broke that, right, He broke that six times,

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Speaker 2: So he like hangs out late or whatever, and then

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Speaker 2: he's back at work. But he said he's never had

425
00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:23,640
Speaker 2: a vacation. But I'm just like, how do you have

426
00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:29,280
Speaker 2: time to meet someone? Yes, date them long enough, decide

427
00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:32,720
Speaker 2: you want to marry them, play in the wedding, get married, stay,

428
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:36,280
Speaker 2: stay married, have kid, yeah several, stay married long enough

429
00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:38,800
Speaker 2: to have kids or kids, and then be like, yeah,

430
00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:41,440
Speaker 2: I don't want to do this anymore. Get divorced. No,

431
00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:44,320
Speaker 2: I think I think, she says she just forty years

432
00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:48,960
Speaker 2: Like you're forty years old. Forty damn. Was the food

433
00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:51,879
Speaker 2: good at the rest? It was okay, it's very good,

434
00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:55,040
Speaker 2: it's hot. So he doing something right, highly recommend. Okay,

435
00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 2: he doing something right, okay, God bless him. You you

436
00:22:57,280 --> 00:23:00,760
Speaker 2: want to give a shout out to the restaurant or no, no, okay, I.

437
00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:03,080
Speaker 1: Want to buy telling him that I'm telling this business

438
00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:03,879
Speaker 1: on my podcast.

439
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:07,560
Speaker 2: But yeah, yeah, so anyone, if anyone wants a forty

440
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:12,000
Speaker 2: year old restauranteur that works hard and falls in love fast,

441
00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:14,240
Speaker 2: yeah you'll be wife number seven. He's your guy. And

442
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:16,520
Speaker 2: yeah he's cute. He's like, you know, he's a nice

443
00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:20,320
Speaker 2: on guy. Yeah okay, and then he's like giving us, Oh,

444
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:21,600
Speaker 2: let me give you some champagne.

445
00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:23,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, so he brought us free champagne. He brought Oh,

446
00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:26,160
Speaker 1: let me bring you dessert. He brought me a cheesecake.

447
00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:28,439
Speaker 2: And then he proceeds to say, yeah, I don't drink

448
00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:32,879
Speaker 2: and I don't eat sweets. What but you're like feet,

449
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:36,480
Speaker 2: you're giving away the drinks and the sweets, but you don't.

450
00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:40,000
Speaker 2: You don't partake like that. Things so funny anyway, Crazy

451
00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:43,320
Speaker 2: people cul cool out here, Yeah they cuckoo. Okay, So

452
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:46,840
Speaker 2: I just want to read this. This is by Sukiana.

453
00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:50,439
Speaker 2: Is that right? So Kanya so Kanya? Okay, so she

454
00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:53,040
Speaker 2: so Kanya has sent us a lot of one liners. Yes,

455
00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:57,040
Speaker 2: but this just in particular, she just she'll just cause

456
00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:58,600
Speaker 2: for pause. I mean I cast for pause. But this

457
00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:00,760
Speaker 2: is back in the day, so if you know this

458
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:04,879
Speaker 2: is if you know, you know. Okay, So Giselle is

459
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:09,000
Speaker 2: speaking right now, and it says CHERI will drag you. No,

460
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:13,960
Speaker 2: Cherise will drag you. And then Ashley says, drag me

461
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:18,199
Speaker 2: where girl? And then Jesseelle says over the woods, and no,

462
00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:21,840
Speaker 2: over the river and through the woods. What were you

463
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:26,080
Speaker 2: thinking in that moment over the river, over the river

464
00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:30,359
Speaker 2: and through the wood to grandmother's house? We go? Okay,

465
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:32,440
Speaker 2: that was to be season two. That was season two.

466
00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:35,240
Speaker 2: That was season two at the Housewives Photomac. You know this,

467
00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:40,280
Speaker 2: this line, this whole exchange had Andy and stitches. Oh really,

468
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:43,960
Speaker 2: when Andrew Cohen saw that whole scene go down, he

469
00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 2: texted me it was like, Jelle's the funniest thing about

470
00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:48,359
Speaker 2: heard over the river and through the woods. Really, that's

471
00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:50,879
Speaker 2: where you're gonna get dragged. Yeah, that was that was

472
00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:55,160
Speaker 2: the good old days. But yees, So Kanya is clearly watching.

473
00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:58,199
Speaker 2: She's like has been binge watching Potomac because she'll just

474
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:02,400
Speaker 2: send us an email of one liner talk about y'all faces.

475
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:04,159
Speaker 2: But then she has questions too, So let's give her

476
00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:06,840
Speaker 2: one of her questions. Okay, Okay, So she asked.

477
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:10,440
Speaker 1: Us, would y'all let y'all kids be on next gin

478
00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:14,359
Speaker 1: on the show on Peacock, basically a Bravo kids show.

479
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:16,880
Speaker 2: You've seen that, I've seen it. We've talked about it,

480
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 2: did we because we talked about Riley on there? Did

481
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 2: we think? Okay? So Riley, who is Candy Burrus's daughter,

482
00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:29,959
Speaker 2: is on there? Yeah, and I and so there was

483
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 2: there was a guy that was like basically not stereotyping her,

484
00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:35,960
Speaker 2: but basically was like talking about she came in the

485
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,280
Speaker 2: room and she wasn't speaking to people, and you know,

486
00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:40,440
Speaker 2: he was imitating her and he was moving her head

487
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:42,280
Speaker 2: his head around and acting like, you know, he was

488
00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:46,840
Speaker 2: like a stereotypical black girl. And I could just imagine

489
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 2: her being around this group of white kids. She was

490
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:52,080
Speaker 2: getting a lot of that. So she kind of like

491
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:55,479
Speaker 2: broke down in the moment. And when I was watching it,

492
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:58,159
Speaker 2: all I can say to myself is like, where's her advocate? Like,

493
00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:01,680
Speaker 2: where's the other black person on this show that could

494
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:06,320
Speaker 2: kind of like help navigate this nonsense? And the guy's

495
00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:09,000
Speaker 2: name is Charlie. I remember that, because I was like, you, Charlie,

496
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 2: Riley alone, she's one of ours, but he doesn't know

497
00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 2: that I said that. I just said it just now,

498
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 2: So anyway, long, Oh, then she calls Candy, and Candy

499
00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:21,200
Speaker 2: was like Candy got her together, but you could tell

500
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:23,320
Speaker 2: that Candy like almost want to cry, and I was

501
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:26,440
Speaker 2: the whole world was like rooting for Riley and Candy

502
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:29,440
Speaker 2: in this situation because it was like so just typical.

503
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, anyway, yeah, I mean that's I'm sure that

504
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:39,119
Speaker 2: felt alienating for her, like be in that situation. Yeah,

505
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 2: you know, probably kids if she really didn't know like

506
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:45,360
Speaker 2: that and they're just all kind of you know, filming together.

507
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:50,160
Speaker 1: And going through that. But that is something that I think,

508
00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:57,120
Speaker 1: especially in young adulthood, young black adults will encounter at

509
00:26:57,119 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 1: some point in their life, if they are the only

510
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:05,040
Speaker 1: black person in a situation, whether it's at work or

511
00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 1: in a social circle, You're you're going to run into

512
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 1: someone that says something that's ignorant or that's you know, insensitive.

513
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:17,240
Speaker 1: And that person might not be intentionally trying to be

514
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 1: racist or mean, like they just you know, don't know

515
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 1: any better, and so it just it all depends on

516
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 1: how people learn from it, how they address it. So

517
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:31,919
Speaker 1: you know, I'm sure it was hopefully handled in a

518
00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 1: you know, peaceful way.

519
00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 2: Well yeah, and hopefully there was some understanding there totally.

520
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 2: And it's it's clear that this kid, the Charlie guy,

521
00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:44,280
Speaker 2: is a product of his environment. Yeah, he you know,

522
00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:49,080
Speaker 2: he's probably like child of a one percenter. I don't

523
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:51,399
Speaker 2: know that, but it's just my assumption. But in that moment,

524
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 2: I said to myself, you know, if Grace was there

525
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:56,360
Speaker 2: with Riley, like, they would have waxed the floor with him.

526
00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 2: Like Grace would have just waxed the floor with the room.

527
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 2: So from that perspective, would I let my children be

528
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:10,120
Speaker 2: on Next Gen only for that scene, just that scene,

529
00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 2: those for those moments because those are teachable moments. Yeah?

530
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:16,679
Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, I don't know. I mean, I wouldn't

531
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:17,760
Speaker 2: have a problem with my kids.

532
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 1: I would if that was something that interests them, Yeah,

533
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:23,720
Speaker 1: then I would let them experience it totally. I just

534
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:26,640
Speaker 1: think I think life is full of experiences and that's

535
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 1: something that I think, you know, you can have a

536
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:31,479
Speaker 1: good time with, you can learn and grow from and

537
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:33,480
Speaker 1: if it serves you, well great, and if not, you

538
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:33,920
Speaker 1: get off.

539
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:37,000
Speaker 2: Yeah. You leave totally totally, and we could, you know,

540
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:40,200
Speaker 2: us being on reality television for a long time, we

541
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,560
Speaker 2: can help navigate the ups and downs of it, because

542
00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 2: there are ups and downs, right, yeah, totally. Yeah.

543
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 1: But like I mean, but Corey doesn't even want to

544
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 1: be on Instagram, so.

545
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:50,920
Speaker 2: Oh really, but he used that for basketball.

546
00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's like, so, you know, for basketball, like

547
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 1: he there might be highlights of him or you know,

548
00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 1: and people can't tag him because he doesn't have Instagram.

549
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 1: So it's like I'll just share it on my page

550
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 1: or I'll reposter whatever. But like, yeah, definitely. And I

551
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 1: say like, okay, do you want an Instagram page just

552
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 1: so that you can like put your highlights on? And

553
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:20,080
Speaker 1: he's like, yeah, no, he's not interested. But what about colleges?

554
00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:21,640
Speaker 2: I mean.

555
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:26,479
Speaker 1: Some, but really the coaches are in the gym with

556
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 1: the kids, like they're evaluating the kids in person. Yeah,

557
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 1: so the highlights really are just for like hype for

558
00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:34,960
Speaker 1: the most part.

559
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 2: You know. Well then I like that. Yeah. Corey is like, no,

560
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 2: thank you, Yeah, okay, I'm here for that. Yeah yeah,

561
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 2: it's good. Okay, So he feels about social media like

562
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:48,000
Speaker 2: his mom. Yeah, pretty much. The Apple doesn't fall far

563
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 2: from the tree. I have a letter. This is from

564
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:09,240
Speaker 2: Huge janis Huge Anus. Oh shit, Huge Anus. Really is

565
00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 2: this Dick Hurts all over again? Oh my god, I didn't.

566
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:18,240
Speaker 2: I really you read it. It didn't realize because we're

567
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 2: reading like it sounded weird. I mean, do you see

568
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:28,240
Speaker 2: how it's spelled Hugh like the wow is this you Dick?

569
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 2: Okay you h u g h like the Hugh janis

570
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Speaker 2: j a right in us? Huge Anus? Okay, go ahead,

571
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 2: Oh my god, crazy, y'all listen. Whoever is taking the

572
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:49,120
Speaker 2: time to like think this through rights wild But the email,

573
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:54,000
Speaker 2: their email is Hugh j also known as Dick Hurts. Okay,

574
00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Dick. That's so funny.

575
00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 1: This is Dick Hurts even sounding Dick Hurts. Dear ladies,

576
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:05,240
Speaker 1: big fan of the show. Yes, recently, the Fellas and

577
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 1: I all of us are forty five plus. We're drinking

578
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 1: and discussing our top fine milks. Oh me, okay, go ahead,

579
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Speaker 1: milks are if y'all don't know mothers, I'd like to Okay.

580
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:24,840
Speaker 1: As you can imagine, this was a difficult discussion, so

581
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 1: we had to break it down into categories. I wanted

582
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:32,040
Speaker 1: to let you know that you both made it to

583
00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 1: top ten light skinned it milk.

584
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 2: Oh wait wait wait wait wait wait wait a minute,

585
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 2: so we just get stuck in the light skin and

586
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:47,600
Speaker 2: the light skinned milks. Oh okay, we can't be just guess

587
00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 2: beautiful black women. No, I get thanks. We probably want

588
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 2: to have made it. I'll probably renivated. I'll take it. Okay, fine,

589
00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 2: huge Anus, Fine, this is a high honor and you

590
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:02,720
Speaker 2: both should be proud. I'm very proud. Okay.

591
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 1: In no particular order, here is the official list, the

592
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:11,280
Speaker 1: official list of fine light skinned milks.

593
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 2: Is he does he say light skin? Did? Oh? My god?

594
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 2: Like this is just bad to worse like skinded. This

595
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 2: is definitely dick hurts. It's definitely dick hurts. Okay, you

596
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:22,640
Speaker 2: got me those dick hurts Because if I read your name,

597
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 2: you know, huge huge you yeah, huge huge Anus. Yeah.

598
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:35,800
Speaker 2: And when you said it, I thought you were joking.

599
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:39,120
Speaker 2: You thought I really said huge Aus. I thought, you know,

600
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 2: I thought you didn't realize what you were reading. I

601
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:44,480
Speaker 2: thought you realized what you were reading with you joking. Okay, No,

602
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 2: I thought his name really was hugh. Okay, Janus, All right,

603
00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:54,880
Speaker 2: here's a list, y'all, Vanessa Williams facts legend status. Some

604
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 2: of these people I don't know.

605
00:32:55,920 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 1: Patricia south Hall Smith, Yes and parentheses, a few miles

606
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 1: on the vaginal odometer, but still got some useful miles left.

607
00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 2: What does that mean? A vaginal old domina? Because she's old?

608
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:13,240
Speaker 2: Is that? What is a vaginal old domed? Like? Never

609
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 2: heard of that? How do you know how many miles

610
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 2: are on her vaginal? That means she's had a lot

611
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 2: of sex. Oh, but how do we know that? No,

612
00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:23,800
Speaker 2: she was married to Emmitt Smith and Martin Law Pat Smith? Okay,

613
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 2: Pat Smith? Yeah, okay, okay, that was mean huge anusis

614
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:32,280
Speaker 2: I don't know? She has four Okay, so she pushed

615
00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:34,400
Speaker 2: out four kids. I don't know. Maybe I pushed out

616
00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:36,200
Speaker 2: line and push out but whatever.

617
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 1: Okay, moving on, all right, Kathleen Bradley, who's a legend status?

618
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 1: At this point, the engine might be a bit hard

619
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 1: to start, but once it's running and the smoke clears,

620
00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:49,600
Speaker 1: it's probably still good to go.

621
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Speaker 2: What Okay, I don't know who that is. I don't

622
00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:55,600
Speaker 2: know who this is. And the descriptions are wy they're

623
00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 2: very dick hurts like, yeah, okay, Kathleen, Kathleen she's a

624
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:05,040
Speaker 2: former model. Okay, yeah, pretty woman, yes, gorgeous. Yeah, and

625
00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:06,280
Speaker 2: she's seventy four.

626
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 1: She's seventy four, seventy four, okay, Lisa Videlle actress, fine,

627
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:14,800
Speaker 1: and can get it seven ways to Sunday?

628
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:23,560
Speaker 2: Yes, lord, Okay, Lisa is Lisa Lisadell. She could get

629
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:25,640
Speaker 2: it seven ways to say. Sorry, let's look at Lisa.

630
00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:27,920
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh I've seen her. She's a actress. I

631
00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:30,400
Speaker 2: feel like she's been in like she's gorge How old

632
00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:33,320
Speaker 2: is she? She's sixty sixty, sixty years old. Okay, okay,

633
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 2: she's Puerto Rican. Okay, of Puerto Rican heritage, right o,

634
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:40,200
Speaker 2: beautiful Anne Marie Green, Okay, who's that? I don't know.

635
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:43,720
Speaker 1: Gorgeous, high intellect, A smart version of Giselle.

636
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:49,480
Speaker 2: Oh it's I'm dumb. What is this? Is definitely different? Hurt?

637
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:54,800
Speaker 2: What a smart version of Josette? That is wild? Okay,

638
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:57,959
Speaker 2: she's a news anchor. She's a news anchor and she's

639
00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:01,360
Speaker 2: well she fifty fifty three three smart version of me,

640
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:06,760
Speaker 2: because Gselle's not smart, smart version of just according to Hughanus, Okay, okay,

641
00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:12,240
Speaker 2: Dick Hurts, all right, Rochelle ates just fine. No, explanation needed.

642
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:14,960
Speaker 2: And I do agree. She's beautiful. She's an actress. She's

643
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:15,640
Speaker 2: an actress.

644
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 1: She's in a lot of Tyler Perry movies. Okay, yeah,

645
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 1: which she's very pretty, Michael Michelle or.

646
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:26,520
Speaker 2: Beautiful, they said, Michelle. Michael Michelle, that's it. She's Michael Michelle.

647
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:29,719
Speaker 2: Oh really yeah, Okay Michael Michelle. Okay, well she's But

648
00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 2: he wrote it wrong.

649
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 1: Dick Hurts wrote it wrong, like Robin, not much in

650
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:34,960
Speaker 1: the booty department.

651
00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:41,919
Speaker 2: Well, Robert, you don't have a big booty. I got

652
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:45,759
Speaker 2: a little something. You got junk in the drunk I

653
00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:48,600
Speaker 2: got hips. But okay, that's true, but the face card

654
00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:52,080
Speaker 2: makes up for it plenty. Boom okay boom boom.

655
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:54,360
Speaker 1: Boom boom, Robin Dixon.

656
00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 2: Oh.

657
00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:59,920
Speaker 1: Based on early picks from college, the glow up has

658
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 1: been real.

659
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:05,640
Speaker 2: What dang? So your college life was? Like? I was fine,

660
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:08,120
Speaker 2: and I was I was. You're the badest in college too?

661
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:11,240
Speaker 2: Yes you were? Yes, you were ten in college ten now.

662
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:16,920
Speaker 1: Yes it was bad. From somewhat ashy to now outright classy.

663
00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:23,040
Speaker 1: A perfect example of having gotten significantly better with age.

664
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:26,040
Speaker 2: How is it calling you ashy? When were you ashy?

665
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 2: I don't know what day, doesn't know how much lotion

666
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 2: you own. You're not ashy, Okay, I'm not done.

667
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:40,280
Speaker 1: It keeps going, voice, smile, intellect, overall, Aura, oh, complete package.

668
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:46,000
Speaker 2: Dick Hurts. You know this is Dick Hurt exactly hates me. Yes,

669
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:48,680
Speaker 2: and I love Dick Hurts. Yes, love you back, Dickie.

670
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:51,400
Speaker 2: Giselle Bryant.

671
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:55,120
Speaker 1: Most likely would not make it past the first round

672
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:56,240
Speaker 1: of Jeopardy.

673
00:36:56,239 --> 00:37:04,239
Speaker 2: But who cares? Who cares? Okay, little do you know,

674
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:09,240
Speaker 2: Dick Hurts, I'm actually extremely smart. Okay the end moving

675
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:13,520
Speaker 2: on face card is on platinum status. Thanks, body is

676
00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:18,200
Speaker 2: still racking well, Thanks puts much younger. Three oh fours

677
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 2: to shame. I don't know what that means. It's three

678
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:21,960
Speaker 2: real four. I don't know that's new to me. Three

679
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 2: real four and the thick cabs when HI praise amongst

680
00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:30,680
Speaker 2: the fellas. Okay, thanks fellas, Congratulations the Fellas love you

681
00:37:31,680 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 2: signed huge us huge Anus also known as Dick Hurts.

682
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:41,799
Speaker 2: You know what I'm trying to affectionately love Dick Hurts? Yes, yes, actually, oh, look,

683
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 2: I've hated him for so long that you know I'm

684
00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:46,279
Speaker 2: now to the point where I'm just like you know what,

685
00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:49,120
Speaker 2: I'm don't mind. I don't mind. I wonder what his

686
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:51,560
Speaker 2: next name is going to do. I know that was

687
00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:54,520
Speaker 2: a good one. Yes, got me good? Yes, huge anus

688
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:58,359
Speaker 2: got me good. Oh okay, what you go next? All right?

689
00:37:58,560 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 2: Random question for him?

690
00:37:59,840 --> 00:38:04,360
Speaker 1: So recently I was going through my mail, okay, and

691
00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:06,120
Speaker 1: I have a question for you, like, do you let

692
00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 1: your mail pile up or do you open it every day?

693
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:13,320
Speaker 1: Because I just open up some birthday cards?

694
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:19,479
Speaker 2: What Robin, yeah, Robin, yeah, birthdays in March. I know

695
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:22,759
Speaker 2: what was the money in it? Gift card? Not in

696
00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:26,520
Speaker 2: my birthday cards. But I did have a check for

697
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 2: my insurance company that was like dated April something. Oh,

698
00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:34,320
Speaker 2: so did you deposit it? Yes? Thank god? Okay, you

699
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 2: know I didn't expire. Okay. Do checks expire? Sometimes they

700
00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:41,600
Speaker 2: get some of them will say like it's voided after

701
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:43,960
Speaker 2: one hundred and eighty days or something like if you

702
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:45,920
Speaker 2: don't deposit with them in one hundred eighty days. So

703
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:48,560
Speaker 2: I made that. But do you let your mail pile up.

704
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 1: Or do you open it every day? And like take

705
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:51,759
Speaker 1: care of it every day?

706
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:54,399
Speaker 2: Robin, You're always the exception to the rule. Okay. So

707
00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 2: what I do do is in my mailbox. Yeah I

708
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 2: don't check that every day right, by no mean it's

709
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:03,040
Speaker 2: like once a week. Okay, yeah, because like who gets

710
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 2: mail anymore? I do, like you do? Yeah okay, but

711
00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:11,160
Speaker 2: like not like a letter or anything like that, like

712
00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:14,160
Speaker 2: not like you know, a card with money in it

713
00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:16,680
Speaker 2: or insurance with paying me back. But yeah, I get.

714
00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 2: I get. So you know how if you like your

715
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 2: your car payment or your electric bill or whatever, and

716
00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:27,480
Speaker 2: they say, you know, check paperless. Yeah I never checked paperless.

717
00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:31,000
Speaker 2: Oh really yeah, because it's my reminder to pay. Not

718
00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:32,720
Speaker 2: that I need a reminder. But you're not on auto

719
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:34,840
Speaker 2: pay I am, Oh no, no, no, I'm not on autopay.

720
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:36,640
Speaker 2: I do it myself. I'll go in the computer and like,

721
00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 2: oh my god, I'm a control freak, Robin. You're not

722
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:42,640
Speaker 2: gonna take my money out my account. I auto pay

723
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:45,360
Speaker 2: on your car note that you know that you have

724
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 2: want to pay. I remain control. I want to be

725
00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 2: in control. Okay, that's myabolical I'm working on my control issues. Okay,

726
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 2: So I ask I continue to get the paper and

727
00:39:57,080 --> 00:40:01,279
Speaker 2: then it's my little reminder. Okay. So and mind you,

728
00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:03,799
Speaker 2: I have a one credit so let's just start there.

729
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:10,000
Speaker 2: As I'm sure everybody in auto payment as well. What

730
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 2: was the question. Okay, I get the mail like once

731
00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:15,399
Speaker 2: a week. Yeah, I go through it right then.

732
00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:19,640
Speaker 1: Really yeah, okay, yeah, I'll get it when I get it.

733
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:22,279
Speaker 1: I probably I probably don't check my box for like

734
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:25,600
Speaker 1: two weeks at least at least. Yeah, And when I'm

735
00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 1: getting I'm just like clearing out, clearing it out so

736
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:29,360
Speaker 1: that the mailman has room.

737
00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:31,960
Speaker 2: To put more self in. Yeah, Like sometimes it's so

738
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:34,760
Speaker 2: packed that they'll actually like sit it on my front

739
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 2: step because, oh, because they're mad at you.

740
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:39,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, But when I get it, I'll just kind

741
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:42,239
Speaker 1: of go through and just like discard all like the

742
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:45,319
Speaker 1: junk mail, like the catalogs and the stuff that I

743
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:47,759
Speaker 1: don't need, but like the stuff in the envelopes is

744
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 1: like it's still in the envelope and it gets put

745
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 1: on a pile sit on my desk in my office,

746
00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:55,919
Speaker 1: and then I wait four months later to just open

747
00:40:55,960 --> 00:41:00,960
Speaker 1: it all. So I'll literally have like why have you know,

748
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:05,360
Speaker 1: like red light camera tickets that have have gotten fines

749
00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 1: on top of them because I never opened the first one.

750
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:10,400
Speaker 2: So I get to pay double Yes, okay, lovely, so

751
00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:13,879
Speaker 2: that alone, Yeah, should make you open up. You're right, yeah,

752
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 2: that alone, because you're the woman that fills out the

753
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:20,399
Speaker 2: class action too. Yes, okay, and you get your three

754
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:22,920
Speaker 2: dollars and eighty eight cents yep. Okay, but you won't

755
00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:27,160
Speaker 2: open the red light camera yep. Okay, No, makes no sense, Nope.

756
00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:28,799
Speaker 2: And I get all types of fines and all that

757
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 2: type of stuff. Okay, I want to I want to

758
00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:32,480
Speaker 2: read this before you. You asked me that, Okay. So

759
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:39,439
Speaker 2: Sukiana Sukana again asked just out, what did Kappa's as

760
00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:42,239
Speaker 2: fine as they are now like when I was I

761
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 2: guess when I was in school, their stroll got me

762
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:48,000
Speaker 2: in a choke hold. Okay. The reason why I'm reading

763
00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:50,759
Speaker 2: this is because we didn't have a stroll back in

764
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:53,200
Speaker 2: the day. Right. So for people who don't know what

765
00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:56,680
Speaker 2: she's talking about, Yes, she's asking about the fraternity Kappa

766
00:41:56,719 --> 00:42:01,720
Speaker 2: Alpha Side Fraternity Incorporated. Yes, which is a black male fraternity.

767
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:03,799
Speaker 1: Like male fraternity. Both of our fathers are Kappus, Yes,

768
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:08,239
Speaker 1: so we know very you know. And we're in sororities,

769
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 1: so you know we spent time around the fraternitys and sororities.

770
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:13,760
Speaker 2: Yes. And one of my ex boyfriends was Kappa maybe

771
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:16,319
Speaker 2: three Okay, okay, who's no, nobody's counting.

772
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, so so that's so the Kappas are known today

773
00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:27,080
Speaker 1: for their strolling and stepping with a cane and.

774
00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:30,560
Speaker 2: All of them though, and like doing little yeah the shimmy. Yeah,

775
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:33,480
Speaker 2: they're shimmy and moving their bodies and whatever. It's the

776
00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:34,680
Speaker 2: Kapa shimmy. Yes.

777
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 1: So when I was in school, yes, that's what they did.

778
00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 1: So you're saying when you were at Hampton they did

779
00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:40,120
Speaker 1: not do all that.

780
00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:42,799
Speaker 2: No, So when I when I crossed, and when you know,

781
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 2: the Fraterneys crossed my year, there was no quote stroll.

782
00:42:47,080 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 2: So like now strolling is like such a big thing

783
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:51,680
Speaker 2: and it's part of like the whole probate. We didn't

784
00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:55,479
Speaker 2: have probate. Oh, we just came out online. We came

785
00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 2: out maybe they called it probate, but like after we crossed,

786
00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:03,400
Speaker 2: we came out. No, I'm back up. When we were online,

787
00:43:03,680 --> 00:43:07,640
Speaker 2: we were online outside. Oh you were above ground. We

788
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:10,560
Speaker 2: were above ground. That's what's called back then. Really like

789
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:13,040
Speaker 2: we were probably one of the last lines that were

790
00:43:13,080 --> 00:43:18,719
Speaker 2: above ground. So everyone saw us online as Ivy's and

791
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:22,520
Speaker 2: then when we crossed, we had like a little step

792
00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:24,880
Speaker 2: show something, but like it was, it wasn't like it

793
00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:28,399
Speaker 2: is now really like it. And I think because we

794
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 2: came out above ground so people knew who we were,

795
00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:34,520
Speaker 2: so I think they didn't there wasn't a need for it.

796
00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:37,600
Speaker 2: Maybe I don't know. Anyway, So I went to I

797
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:40,960
Speaker 2: was in Hampton visiting a door and it was a

798
00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 2: step show. And like the whole stroll thing is like

799
00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:46,480
Speaker 2: a thing, like everybody knows the stroll. I don't know

800
00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:49,279
Speaker 2: the stroll because I wasn't taught that. I'm kind of

801
00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:51,680
Speaker 2: mad about it. I want to know the stroll. I

802
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:54,040
Speaker 2: want to know the ak stroll. Y'all teach me well,

803
00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 2: But they're different, like everywhere you go, you just you

804
00:43:57,160 --> 00:44:00,719
Speaker 2: just you just it's happened, you pick it up. There's

805
00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:02,799
Speaker 2: details doing. You gotta know when to flip, you gotta

806
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:04,759
Speaker 2: know when to turn, you got to where to move.

807
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:07,839
Speaker 1: I mean, they're just like you could you could go

808
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 1: to different campuses and they're all doing different things. Like

809
00:44:10,760 --> 00:44:14,240
Speaker 1: it's not like it's not a uniform stroll.

810
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:17,319
Speaker 2: I think the capus is kind of just the way

811
00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 2: they do their little shimmy, like their little cane and

812
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 2: they tiling their cane. Yeah, my father was the cap

813
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:26,160
Speaker 2: and they didn't have they didn't have canes back then,

814
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:30,480
Speaker 2: like they didn't have anything. Yeah, yeah, they You don't

815
00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:30,759
Speaker 2: know that.

816
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:33,759
Speaker 1: Because it's so funny that this question popped up because

817
00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:35,440
Speaker 1: just the other day, Corey walks in the living room

818
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:39,640
Speaker 1: he's doing that, He's doing all this hes I know,

819
00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:42,080
Speaker 1: and he was like, did pop pop used to do this?

820
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:44,520
Speaker 2: I was like, no, no, pop hop did not, did

821
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:47,359
Speaker 2: not did not. But it was cute kids.

822
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:51,560
Speaker 1: Now now he's probably seeing content online and being curious

823
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 1: and like okay, like and it's it's very interesting. They

824
00:44:55,520 --> 00:44:59,319
Speaker 1: all have their stereotypical The fraternities and sweatons have their

825
00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:04,400
Speaker 1: like stereotypic cool you know, appearances or movements or actions.

826
00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:08,360
Speaker 2: You know. It's like the ques are hopping around and

827
00:45:08,400 --> 00:45:15,200
Speaker 2: barrowing clicking people. It's so gross. It's so gross. So Doug,

828
00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:18,960
Speaker 2: you know, our audio got dumb. He's a cue and

829
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 2: he was like, you say you have a date to cue.

830
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:23,000
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, y'all are gross. Y'all be going around

831
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:26,600
Speaker 2: nicking people. So he's like what, Yeah, I'm like he's like,

832
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:28,480
Speaker 2: that's a new thing. No, it's no, it's actually not.

833
00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 2: Y'all been around so years ago. Okay, So I want

834
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:38,719
Speaker 2: Gammaitaated to teach me the AKA stroll. You gotta go learn,

835
00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:41,640
Speaker 2: I gotta go learn. Yeah because in I gotta I

836
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:45,520
Speaker 2: wanted to hop in and just follow suit. Yeah yeah, Okay. Anyway,

837
00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:47,879
Speaker 2: that's our show. Guys. We love y'all so much. Don't

838
00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:50,600
Speaker 2: ever forget to live your life. Either reasonable shady or

839
00:45:50,760 --> 00:46:00,680
Speaker 2: both get the strolling biting. I'm biting. Reasonably Shady is

840
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:03,920
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