WEBVTT - Conversations About Vagina 0:00:01.840 --> 0:00:04.360 Watch up and welcome back to another episode and no 0:00:04.519 --> 0:00:07.520 Seillers podcast with your host now funk that with your 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:18.040 low classes Malone, no ceilings, g L Peter and his 0:00:18.160 --> 0:00:23.759 spar is not like usually My big brother resident host 0:00:25.160 --> 0:00:31.120 uh and podcaster extraordinary originator at his inception from the West, 0:00:31.160 --> 0:00:34.400 My big brother big still food Gash the chronicles is here, 0:00:35.560 --> 0:00:41.199 um pete something you sent me on d M just 0:00:41.280 --> 0:00:43.600 a second ago. You know this was like a couple 0:00:43.640 --> 0:00:46.800 of days ago where the girl where oh boy was 0:00:46.880 --> 0:00:51.639 kicking the girl out of the car. Yes, so let 0:00:51.680 --> 0:00:57.280 me tell you what happened. Still, So the recording took 0:00:57.320 --> 0:01:03.440 place inside of a Dodge Challenger and when the footage started, 0:01:03.480 --> 0:01:05.440 it was a girl just saying, you just lay it fun. 0:01:05.920 --> 0:01:07.919 You just gonna kick me outcause you ain't get no pussy. 0:01:08.120 --> 0:01:10.280 He's like, Hell, yeah, you ain't. I ain't sunk with y'all. 0:01:10.280 --> 0:01:12.720 Take to the airport now, fil me'all flew y'all here. 0:01:12.720 --> 0:01:14.920 You don't give me no pussy. So they're pulling up 0:01:14.959 --> 0:01:18.360 to the terminal and uh, he's like, gonna get the 0:01:18.400 --> 0:01:19.640 funk out of the car. Get out the car. She 0:01:19.720 --> 0:01:21.920 kind of man lane lane mass nigger just send me 0:01:21.920 --> 0:01:24.200 my just testing my confirmation number. He was like, I 0:01:24.280 --> 0:01:27.120 canceled that flight. He's getting out the car giving her back, 0:01:27.319 --> 0:01:29.120 Like you cancel the flight. Yeah, you can fill yourself 0:01:29.160 --> 0:01:31.280 on all this because you're like, yeah, you're playing with 0:01:31.319 --> 0:01:36.319 the cheeks. You playing with the cheeks. And what I 0:01:36.400 --> 0:01:40.800 was able to get was he was he flew her 0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:43.479 to a town, to either his town or to some 0:01:43.560 --> 0:01:51.160 vacation place, and when they decided, like when she got there, 0:01:51.200 --> 0:01:55.200 she decided she was not going to give him no vagina, 0:01:56.880 --> 0:02:00.080 and at that point he wasn't going for it. He 0:02:00.120 --> 0:02:02.160 turned around a ticket to the airport or either the 0:02:02.200 --> 0:02:05.440 next day he took her to the airport and cancer 0:02:05.440 --> 0:02:07.040 the plane ticket and left it up to her to 0:02:07.040 --> 0:02:16.720 get home. Yes, what do you think step well, see see, 0:02:16.760 --> 0:02:19.480 I trust your wisdom in this as man who's been 0:02:19.520 --> 0:02:23.880 married for years. What do you think about that? Well? 0:02:23.919 --> 0:02:28.200 I have two different points off you. First of all, um, 0:02:28.280 --> 0:02:31.440 that was pretty shadow of him just to bring her out, 0:02:31.520 --> 0:02:34.920 to fly her out with the intenda just having sex 0:02:34.960 --> 0:02:39.359 with her, right show. But because she was such a 0:02:39.480 --> 0:02:42.480 charming personality. Oh don't listen, look, let me click, Because 0:02:42.480 --> 0:02:46.560 I got to two points of this right, I don't 0:02:46.639 --> 0:02:48.760 know if i'd win as far as canceling her flights. 0:02:48.800 --> 0:02:50.440 I'm not mad at him for taking her back home, 0:02:50.480 --> 0:02:52.360 because if that was his main intention, just to give 0:02:52.440 --> 0:02:55.480 him some pussing, he should have took her back to 0:02:55.520 --> 0:02:57.320 the airport. But I don't know if I had wanted 0:02:57.400 --> 0:02:59.639 cancel flights and stuff like that. You know, because the thing, 0:02:59.720 --> 0:03:02.720 you know, he brought her up there, He's utterly responsible 0:03:02.720 --> 0:03:06.600 to get her back home in a correct way of speaking, 0:03:06.680 --> 0:03:10.799 you see what I'm saying. No, I also disagree because 0:03:11.120 --> 0:03:16.040 he had a responsibility. Let me finish my let me 0:03:16.080 --> 0:03:19.480 finish my point. But she was an idiot for bringing 0:03:19.480 --> 0:03:22.519 her ass out of town without no backup plan or 0:03:22.600 --> 0:03:24.800 plan in mind in case this dude trip, because she 0:03:24.880 --> 0:03:26.680 knew she wouldn't give him no pussy before she went 0:03:26.720 --> 0:03:30.960 out there. She knew that would you. So so let 0:03:30.960 --> 0:03:34.760 me ask you something now, this version is still no. 0:03:36.160 --> 0:03:39.080 Have you ever flew a woman somewhere right when you 0:03:39.160 --> 0:03:44.000 was a single or he was too young? Yeah, I've 0:03:44.040 --> 0:03:47.240 been married a long time. Seven when I was close enough. 0:03:47.440 --> 0:03:49.960 Because you wasn't always married. It was a time in 0:03:50.000 --> 0:03:54.000 your adulthood. It was on this small window. Well, I 0:03:54.080 --> 0:03:56.920 just did. I gotta remember, see, I didn't just beat 0:03:57.040 --> 0:03:59.839 Maria and marry her the second day I met her. 0:04:00.160 --> 0:04:02.200 We went to according period. We were a boyfriend and 0:04:02.280 --> 0:04:06.120 girlfriend for a long time. So when I was single, 0:04:06.160 --> 0:04:10.800 I'll tell you this, I was always a gentleman if 0:04:10.800 --> 0:04:12.840 a girl didn't want to co operated to do this. 0:04:12.960 --> 0:04:15.160 I didn't never kick nobody out of the car, didn't 0:04:15.160 --> 0:04:17.600 never do no weird ship like that. I just didn't 0:04:17.640 --> 0:04:22.120 funk with him. So let me ask you a question 0:04:23.680 --> 0:04:27.760 with your wisdom. Now, would you fly a woman? Do 0:04:27.839 --> 0:04:31.919 you think it's wise? Why else would a man be 0:04:32.040 --> 0:04:36.120 flying you out of state? Well, you know, she probably 0:04:37.160 --> 0:04:41.240 in this case, I think she probably try to run 0:04:41.240 --> 0:04:43.039 one over on this guy. She probably wanted to go 0:04:43.080 --> 0:04:45.360 out there and travel. She wanted to travel. Ain't nobody 0:04:45.360 --> 0:04:47.200 could turn down a free trip. Though she could have 0:04:47.240 --> 0:04:48.960 came out here and saw some other friends and used 0:04:49.040 --> 0:04:51.920 him to get her audio. Right, So I'm not mad 0:04:51.960 --> 0:04:54.200 at him for sending her home. I'm not mad him 0:04:54.200 --> 0:04:57.200 for sending her home. And in a way, it was 0:04:57.200 --> 0:04:59.520 her responsibility to make sure she got home because she 0:04:59.600 --> 0:05:01.599 came b it just depending on somebody else, and she 0:05:01.680 --> 0:05:04.080 knew she wouldn't go get that man no draws before 0:05:04.120 --> 0:05:05.760 she came out here. Women know when they can get 0:05:05.800 --> 0:05:08.599 somebody to pussy. When the first second woman meets you, 0:05:08.680 --> 0:05:12.080 she knows if she's gonna have sex. She's just gonna 0:05:12.080 --> 0:05:16.200 play a little game kind of you did what I'm saying. 0:05:16.279 --> 0:05:18.279 I think they all play that game kind of where 0:05:18.279 --> 0:05:20.840 they want to make if a girl really likes you, dog, 0:05:20.920 --> 0:05:22.679 she's gonna try to make you wait for the trend 0:05:23.520 --> 0:05:24.880 because she don't want you to look at her like 0:05:24.880 --> 0:05:31.359 in the hole? Am I right, Peter? A lot of women, 0:05:31.400 --> 0:05:33.800 not everybody, Because you can have a you can have 0:05:33.839 --> 0:05:35.919 a long, extensive relationship with a girl and get you 0:05:35.960 --> 0:05:37.560 some pussy the first night. She might have just been 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:39.400 feeling you like that. That may not be your normal 0:05:39.440 --> 0:05:41.800 get down. But for the most part, a woman knows 0:05:41.880 --> 0:05:44.279 if they if they are going to partake upon a 0:05:44.320 --> 0:05:46.159 sexual act with you for the first time they meet you, 0:05:46.200 --> 0:05:51.359 within the first thirty seconds. Why would you board a 0:05:51.520 --> 0:05:57.680 flight to somebody you don't really know without believing that 0:05:57.680 --> 0:06:01.200 that's what they I had this conversation on Van Lake 0:06:01.279 --> 0:06:04.560 this podcast right Higher Learning, and I was talking to 0:06:04.600 --> 0:06:08.719 his co host, a lovely lady Brandy was there. Was funny, 0:06:08.760 --> 0:06:14.800 but she was saying to me how women should have 0:06:14.920 --> 0:06:18.960 the same freedom of sexual liberation that they believe a 0:06:19.000 --> 0:06:22.960 man has. Right where it's like, okay, well, if I 0:06:23.040 --> 0:06:25.279 want to just sleep with a man, nobody should judge 0:06:25.279 --> 0:06:28.160 me for it. And I'm like, well, the reality is 0:06:28.200 --> 0:06:30.640 you do have the freedom of it, right, But you're 0:06:30.640 --> 0:06:33.880 worried about people judging you. That's the problem. You gotta 0:06:33.960 --> 0:06:35.719 just like I'm a crip. I'm not worried about what 0:06:35.760 --> 0:06:37.719 you think of crips. So I'm gonna be a crip. 0:06:37.800 --> 0:06:43.000 Probably in this particular situation. If when a man and 0:06:43.040 --> 0:06:45.800 a woman meet each other ninety nine times out of 0:06:45.800 --> 0:06:50.160 a hundred probably nine ninety nine out of ten thousand, 0:06:50.240 --> 0:06:55.520 probably nine million, nine hundred and ninety nine, nine million, 0:06:55.600 --> 0:06:58.720 nine hundred and ninety nine thousand, nine hundred ninety nine 0:06:58.760 --> 0:07:02.760 times out of a hundred million or ten million, whatever 0:07:02.800 --> 0:07:06.680 that number was, right, if a man sees you, or 0:07:06.720 --> 0:07:09.880 if a man interacting, he wants to have sex with you, 0:07:10.360 --> 0:07:14.920 that's the initial thought. Somebody lying you out of town? 0:07:16.760 --> 0:07:21.200 What else? Why would you think he's flying you out 0:07:21.200 --> 0:07:24.679 of town without this? And it's that I was telling Brandy. 0:07:24.920 --> 0:07:26.480 I was talking to Brandon. I was talking to brandy 0:07:26.520 --> 0:07:28.800 cousin Mika, and they was like, well, maybe he just 0:07:28.920 --> 0:07:31.160 enjoys my company and conversation. I'm like, we can talk 0:07:31.200 --> 0:07:34.000 on the phone. I could talk on the phone. That 0:07:34.160 --> 0:07:41.680 is such bullshit. That is such a treat. That is 0:07:44.880 --> 0:07:47.280 no because, like I said, that woman knew she wasn't 0:07:47.280 --> 0:07:48.960 gonna get that man no pussy when she came out 0:07:48.960 --> 0:07:51.400 of it, when she brought rass out here and with her. Now, 0:07:51.440 --> 0:07:53.320 this is what I would tell her. You knew you 0:07:53.320 --> 0:07:55.120 wouldn't working with that dude like that, so you should 0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:58.520 have never took that trip or or being prepared to 0:07:58.560 --> 0:08:01.200 take your ass on on your way in case he 0:08:01.240 --> 0:08:03.040 started trip. And I think a woman should go out 0:08:03.040 --> 0:08:04.800 of town like that. I think anytime a woman goes 0:08:04.840 --> 0:08:07.560 out of town, especially going to go men that she 0:08:07.600 --> 0:08:09.600 don't know, even if she can want to go, she knew, 0:08:10.720 --> 0:08:13.480 she should already have a backup planing in score. She 0:08:13.480 --> 0:08:15.880 should have money with her. She should have in case 0:08:15.960 --> 0:08:17.720 this dude as a psychopath, she made need to go 0:08:17.760 --> 0:08:19.800 get her a hotel and go get her own flights back. 0:08:20.080 --> 0:08:23.160 She don't know this motherfucker. You should not get on 0:08:23.200 --> 0:08:26.680 a plane. That's a side point. Yeah, that's exactly my 0:08:28.440 --> 0:08:31.360 being responsible as a woman, like you're speaking now almost 0:08:31.400 --> 0:08:33.319 like more so as a father, and I get that, 0:08:33.360 --> 0:08:35.600 and I respect that. And giving advice as you know 0:08:35.640 --> 0:08:38.640 that the dudes and don't of being somewhat intelligent is important. 0:08:39.480 --> 0:08:42.120 This is a matter of principle. Has to deal with 0:08:42.120 --> 0:08:47.120 the delusional worldview that women have where they obsessively overvalue 0:08:47.160 --> 0:08:51.480 themselves and think that they're more important than they really are. Like, well, 0:08:51.520 --> 0:08:53.760 a lot of women don't like take an accountability. To Peter, 0:08:53.840 --> 0:08:59.000 it's always a man slot. We've certainly certainly didn't if 0:08:59.000 --> 0:09:01.840 we didn't cross that ridge. We we built it, if 0:09:01.840 --> 0:09:04.120 we didn't just cross it. So it's like it's like 0:09:04.160 --> 0:09:07.400 the sixth Street Bridge right now, what was going on 0:09:07.480 --> 0:09:11.120 in we're playing on that bridge steel Literally we do 0:09:11.120 --> 0:09:14.640 donuts on that bridge. We're hitting up graffiti. That is 0:09:14.679 --> 0:09:20.280 our that we actually built that bridge. We no Ceilings 0:09:20.360 --> 0:09:26.080 has established women live in the world with no accountability. 0:09:26.160 --> 0:09:28.880 That's our thing. That's literally if we made a T 0:09:29.040 --> 0:09:32.880 shirt that would be the greatest no Ceiling slogo. We 0:09:32.920 --> 0:09:35.040 could almost change the name of the show from a 0:09:35.080 --> 0:09:38.719 reference to ceilings to a reference to accountability. Yes, that's 0:09:38.760 --> 0:09:41.920 how much we dance in that arena that you just 0:09:42.040 --> 0:09:47.440 referred to. It to me, the issue is exactly what 0:09:47.520 --> 0:09:51.920 you just said, Like why why? I mean, like a 0:09:51.960 --> 0:09:54.320 while ago you were grilling me, you kind of about face. 0:09:54.400 --> 0:09:56.880 We have the whole podcast episode about why I'm this single? 0:09:56.960 --> 0:09:58.320 So long as you were like, you don't just like 0:09:58.440 --> 0:09:59.880 the company of a woman, and I was like that 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:03.400 the worst part. No, I think, No, that's not true. 0:10:03.440 --> 0:10:06.320 I think you can like the company of a woman. 0:10:06.679 --> 0:10:10.040 I just don't think if you're flying somewhere to a 0:10:10.120 --> 0:10:14.320 state to meet up with a guy, the desire is 0:10:14.400 --> 0:10:18.719 just your company for sure. If you guess again, it's 0:10:18.720 --> 0:10:21.679 not impossible. There are some guys that are handicapped and 0:10:21.720 --> 0:10:29.400 a penis don't work. We're getting into that obscure abortion 0:10:29.480 --> 0:10:34.880 justifications outlier territory now. I'm just saying, so, yes, I'm 0:10:34.960 --> 0:10:38.280 totally aware, because people can't help but find those obscure 0:10:39.000 --> 0:10:42.600 you know, singled out silly explanations of really grand ideas. 0:10:42.640 --> 0:10:45.360 What you know, where combatting. So I'm aware of those things. 0:10:45.440 --> 0:10:49.040 I'm just saying, if a guy flies you out of town, 0:10:52.200 --> 0:10:54.760 i'd say a hundred percent. He wants to hit that thing. 0:10:57.720 --> 0:11:00.600 Even though I love Maria to death, I'm my wife 0:11:00.600 --> 0:11:02.160 with all my heart. I wouldn't have been married to 0:11:02.280 --> 0:11:04.000 for thirty some of my years if I didn't put 0:11:04.600 --> 0:11:06.840 I got told her one day when I first met her. 0:11:07.160 --> 0:11:12.200 My main intention was getting pains everything. Whenever a million 0:11:12.200 --> 0:11:17.880 meets a woman the first time, about how about you? 0:11:17.920 --> 0:11:22.120 About no? But that's the thing, though, bro, every man's 0:11:22.120 --> 0:11:24.760 intends to get something. And what happens he is you're 0:11:24.800 --> 0:11:26.640 using mead a woman and you find that you've got 0:11:26.679 --> 0:11:28.360 a lot of stuff in common with them. They become 0:11:28.400 --> 0:11:33.000 a friend, and that's our relationships start. Right With some women, 0:11:33.200 --> 0:11:36.280 it begins and ends with the sixth will he because 0:11:36.280 --> 0:11:41.280 they don't have nothing else to offer you mm hmm yeah. 0:11:42.120 --> 0:11:46.160 The general rule of thumb on this is largely if 0:11:46.200 --> 0:11:49.760 a man is spending an ordinate amount of money for 0:11:49.920 --> 0:11:55.520 a small period of time, let's think it through. You know, Like, 0:11:55.640 --> 0:11:58.000 there's a million places I could take a girl to dinner. 0:11:58.040 --> 0:12:01.680 If I choose the most fucking expensive one and pay 0:12:01.800 --> 0:12:06.360 for a few extra rounds or thirty dollar cocktails, we 0:12:06.440 --> 0:12:08.800 could have eaten. We could have had a steak in 0:12:08.840 --> 0:12:11.480 the Martini any goddamn Well, that's another thing. You know what, 0:12:11.520 --> 0:12:14.079 I think women should be required to do because they 0:12:14.240 --> 0:12:19.720 know this is scientific to bro a woman woman discovered. 0:12:20.360 --> 0:12:22.959 A woman knows if she's going to sleep with you 0:12:24.559 --> 0:12:27.360 the first thirty seconds to one minute after meeting you, right, 0:12:28.040 --> 0:12:30.200 they have the idea in their mind. Don't mean they 0:12:30.240 --> 0:12:31.960 go do it right. Then they may stretch it out 0:12:32.000 --> 0:12:33.520 and make you. Wait. You feel what I'm saying. It's 0:12:33.520 --> 0:12:36.280 like a game with them. But I believe this. I 0:12:36.360 --> 0:12:38.000 believe you take a woman out the dinner and she 0:12:38.200 --> 0:12:40.199 knows for sure. I don't really feel this, dude like 0:12:40.320 --> 0:12:43.040 that she should pay for own meal at night. You 0:12:43.080 --> 0:12:46.199 would think you would think women honorable, but that just not. 0:12:46.400 --> 0:12:50.719 That's not gonna say that she's wrong. Ship. Let me 0:12:50.720 --> 0:12:54.000 ask you something right now. Still, you're not gonna be honest, 0:12:54.040 --> 0:12:57.160 but I'm ask you to be honest. Anyway, if you're 0:12:57.200 --> 0:13:00.240 going to go on vacation with your wife, would take 0:13:00.280 --> 0:13:03.719 her while she's on her period? Yeah? Or would you 0:13:03.760 --> 0:13:06.520 schedule around her administration? But that's my wife. She I'm 0:13:06.520 --> 0:13:09.160 gonna take her. We're going on vacation, were going on vacation. 0:13:09.240 --> 0:13:11.120 It wouldn't matter she was on her ministry site or not, 0:13:11.520 --> 0:13:13.360 because I'm not there just to get some pussy. That's 0:13:13.400 --> 0:13:18.120 my wife. It's a little different. But if she was 0:13:18.240 --> 0:13:21.880 my girlfriend, I would definitely get that trip around her site. 0:13:23.640 --> 0:13:27.679 Thank you. You know it's a difference, though, that's my wife, 0:13:27.760 --> 0:13:30.360 you know what I'm saying. Obviously three kyears later and 0:13:30.720 --> 0:13:33.440 you know, several years of marriage, you know that's that's 0:13:33.480 --> 0:13:35.160 like that's going to get a cup of coffee together. 0:13:35.800 --> 0:13:37.800 The Yeah, I've been there, done that, so I'm not 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:40.880 going it's more to our relationship than just that act. 0:13:40.920 --> 0:13:43.040 We actually have good conversation, actually have a lot of 0:13:43.080 --> 0:13:45.480 fun together. Whence while we've been married, still longe. But 0:13:46.040 --> 0:13:48.640 if that's my girlfriend, I'm a young nick out there 0:13:48.720 --> 0:13:51.400 springing and she said, I'll start my period tomorrow. Can 0:13:51.480 --> 0:13:53.319 we go get some tampons? Man? Why the fund you 0:13:53.360 --> 0:13:55.080 didn't tell me that ship before we came out here, 0:13:55.480 --> 0:13:59.360 because I'm thinking about that's the ultimate actor smashes and 0:13:59.480 --> 0:14:01.480 and for man the system. You know you're being romantic. 0:14:01.559 --> 0:14:03.240 You do get the biggest week to king with the 0:14:03.280 --> 0:14:05.600 biggest baby. You can test that motherfucker out and jump 0:14:05.679 --> 0:14:07.280 up down a little bit on it like I'm about 0:14:07.280 --> 0:14:09.160 to wear some ship out and they like this and 0:14:09.200 --> 0:14:10.839 they give you the hand, you know how you go 0:14:10.960 --> 0:14:16.800 to reach it for a girl like this. So maybe 0:14:17.480 --> 0:14:22.200 maybe it's a street ethnic thing. It's an ethic thing. 0:14:22.400 --> 0:14:25.960 I mean, you're asking, why does the in a cross 0:14:26.040 --> 0:14:29.120 section of demographics and the human race, why does the 0:14:29.240 --> 0:14:32.720 most self and self indulgent and entitled the group of 0:14:32.840 --> 0:14:38.560 people not feel a need to somehow not be that way. 0:14:38.680 --> 0:14:42.440 That's ridiculous. Well, I have a situation, right and I 0:14:42.480 --> 0:14:44.600 won't say her name. Does this somebody means you both 0:14:44.680 --> 0:14:47.920 know gen and they gotta show on black effect and everything. 0:14:48.040 --> 0:14:50.480 So we were talking yesterday and she was telling me 0:14:50.560 --> 0:14:53.240 that her and her husband had a conversation. Her husband 0:14:53.280 --> 0:14:56.280 admitted to where he cheated, right, and she was just 0:14:56.360 --> 0:14:59.400 trying to understand it. Like I really appreciate her because 0:14:59.400 --> 0:15:01.920 she was trying to just understand the whole psycholege your 0:15:01.960 --> 0:15:04.160 men right now, this is a pretty nice looking girl. 0:15:04.240 --> 0:15:06.960 She not ugly. She was somebody didn't look as good 0:15:07.000 --> 0:15:10.040 as well, at least in her opinions, and she was ugly, 0:15:10.240 --> 0:15:14.160 you feel what I mean. So she was telling me, 0:15:14.240 --> 0:15:17.280 she said, I know men produce all these sperms. You 0:15:17.360 --> 0:15:20.080 know women have one egg, you know they have one eggs, 0:15:20.120 --> 0:15:21.960 but men have these nine. I was a sperm. It's 0:15:22.000 --> 0:15:25.360 almost like we were just built to breathe. And obviously, 0:15:25.400 --> 0:15:27.800 as you know what that may be. I think man 0:15:27.960 --> 0:15:30.280 up until the point the man is thirty years old. Dude, 0:15:30.800 --> 0:15:33.160 I don't think no man should get married before the 0:15:33.240 --> 0:15:40.480 age of maybe even nine, because when you were young, 0:15:41.560 --> 0:15:43.720 the only thing you have in your mind every minute, 0:15:44.120 --> 0:15:47.000 you notice, every ask if it's if this. You could 0:15:47.000 --> 0:15:49.160 be in the store with two women and you go 0:15:49.400 --> 0:15:53.840 notice the ones that got fat asses or look good. 0:15:53.920 --> 0:15:57.840 You gonna notice the day you die. Though, Yeah, I 0:15:57.920 --> 0:16:00.040 think you know what. No, you you calm down, b 0:16:00.160 --> 0:16:02.280 I think you calmed down at a certain point, and 0:16:02.360 --> 0:16:06.240 I think you calmed down about trying to get them, 0:16:06.280 --> 0:16:08.840 but you never stopped noticing. Oh dude, don't know the 0:16:08.920 --> 0:16:10.800 thing else if you think your wife don't look at 0:16:10.840 --> 0:16:13.360 ni A you got life worked up. Yeah, But I 0:16:13.520 --> 0:16:15.760 just think that it's not the same. Like I get 0:16:15.840 --> 0:16:18.920 it that we would like to make it. People say equal, 0:16:19.280 --> 0:16:21.120 not exactly the same, But I don't even think we're 0:16:21.160 --> 0:16:24.520 equal in that regard, or I think any of those things. 0:16:24.560 --> 0:16:31.280 I think like particularly your partner, right, Like women always 0:16:31.320 --> 0:16:33.360 trying to figure out why do men cheat, and I'm 0:16:33.400 --> 0:16:36.680 telling them it's a personal thing. Like women seem to 0:16:36.760 --> 0:16:40.800 believe it's about them, like if they're not giving you sex, right, 0:16:40.880 --> 0:16:44.400 if they're not, they reduce it down to just this 0:16:44.680 --> 0:16:48.040 physical thing. And I think that's because a lot of 0:16:48.160 --> 0:16:51.000 men mislead them and make them think that it's just 0:16:51.240 --> 0:16:53.920 this physical thing, and it's not. It's really like a 0:16:55.120 --> 0:16:59.200 personal fulfillment, like a value. Like you get a false 0:16:59.240 --> 0:17:02.120 sense of value you and I say false, You get 0:17:02.160 --> 0:17:05.560 a false sense of value by every woman that allows 0:17:05.600 --> 0:17:08.200 you to sleep with them. You really feel like you 0:17:08.400 --> 0:17:11.159 have to be some kind of special person for a 0:17:11.240 --> 0:17:14.600 woman to give you her vadana because of how we 0:17:14.800 --> 0:17:20.439 put this ridiculous worth on vaginarect g um. A lot 0:17:20.520 --> 0:17:22.760 of guys that are serial cheaters. I'm talking about dudes 0:17:22.760 --> 0:17:25.119 and the serial cheaters that just they're not gonna be 0:17:25.200 --> 0:17:28.960 loyal to nobody. They used something some low, self esteemed dog, 0:17:29.040 --> 0:17:31.480 I believe, and they think that them knocking down a 0:17:31.560 --> 0:17:35.600 bunch of broads invalidates them in some way, and that's 0:17:35.600 --> 0:17:38.359 not that's not necessarily true. I've had dudes, right, that 0:17:38.520 --> 0:17:42.280 was my partners, people that I considered friend. And people 0:17:42.320 --> 0:17:44.080 ask me, how can I consider the type of person 0:17:44.160 --> 0:17:47.120 a friend? And I'm like, cause I understand what's deficient 0:17:47.119 --> 0:17:50.280 about him? Somebody me and you both know. Particularly he 0:17:50.480 --> 0:17:52.760 felt like if he slept with the same girls I 0:17:52.920 --> 0:17:58.440 slept with, that makes him as powerful or as valuable, 0:17:58.960 --> 0:18:02.119 whatever the funk that mean? As I am so like, 0:18:02.960 --> 0:18:10.879 huh no, because that's the easiest thing. It'd be harder 0:18:10.920 --> 0:18:13.240 for him to go out and live the life that 0:18:13.320 --> 0:18:17.000 I've lived. It'd be harder for him to survive selling PCP. 0:18:17.720 --> 0:18:20.280 Being a you know, a reputable crypt from seven Street 0:18:20.320 --> 0:18:22.000 to where you don't have to fight and you have 0:18:22.119 --> 0:18:24.560 to come up the hard way, you know, street racing 0:18:24.600 --> 0:18:26.679 and cars going a hundred and fifty sixty miles per 0:18:26.720 --> 0:18:30.320 hour on the street, all the things that make me 0:18:30.440 --> 0:18:32.600 me to the general public, to the public in l 0:18:32.680 --> 0:18:35.720 a right, being a reptable seven Street, being Olivia's son, 0:18:36.160 --> 0:18:39.520 being a street racer, having a low rider as a teenager, 0:18:40.080 --> 0:18:43.200 all of this stuff, going to jail, never telling, having 0:18:43.240 --> 0:18:46.399 to shoot niggas, having to fight niggas, getting jumped, standing 0:18:46.480 --> 0:18:48.600 back up, all of the things that make me, me, 0:18:49.800 --> 0:18:53.200 those are really hard things to sleep with. This broad 0:18:53.560 --> 0:18:56.920 is the easiest thing. So he's like, okay, that makes 0:18:57.000 --> 0:18:59.879 me him if I sleep with this broad because that 0:19:00.680 --> 0:19:04.040 and if you catch what I'm saying, that's the easiest 0:19:04.119 --> 0:19:06.280 thing to do out of all of this stuff. It's 0:19:06.359 --> 0:19:08.720 it's tant amount like from a value standpoint, it's tant 0:19:08.760 --> 0:19:13.600 amount to seeing like, Okay, you bought a brand new 0:19:14.359 --> 0:19:17.960 whatever Mercedes as six hundred may Box series off the 0:19:18.040 --> 0:19:21.320 lot or whatever the hell, and you have a huge, 0:19:22.400 --> 0:19:25.359 you know, financial empire and all this ship and whatever. 0:19:25.560 --> 0:19:27.919 You just wouldn't bought it because it was Tuesday. Another 0:19:28.000 --> 0:19:30.480 guy sees you and buys the same car and thinks, well, 0:19:30.960 --> 0:19:33.520 I'm at the same level as that guy, and he's 0:19:34.000 --> 0:19:36.040 financed the ship out of it and whatever. He just 0:19:36.160 --> 0:19:39.560 happens to know, my car brand and your car brand 0:19:39.680 --> 0:19:45.240 are the same, Thus we're the same. You. You get 0:19:45.280 --> 0:19:48.560 it right here. You spot on me and cheek to 0:19:48.680 --> 0:19:52.800 make themselves feel good. I tell I told my sisters, 0:19:53.400 --> 0:19:56.560 I told home girls, I said, you gotta understand it's 0:19:56.600 --> 0:19:59.480 not about you. But this goes back into that sends 0:19:59.560 --> 0:20:02.639 me Pe talk about all the time. Accountability. That's the 0:20:02.760 --> 0:20:06.520 only time they want to be accountable when when they're 0:20:06.560 --> 0:20:09.360 being cheated on. Like I've heard women, that's the time, 0:20:09.440 --> 0:20:12.720 what did I do wrong? That's the only time they're 0:20:12.760 --> 0:20:18.720 ever blaming their selves for anything in life, or the 0:20:18.880 --> 0:20:21.600 one the one time out of everything that happens that 0:20:21.680 --> 0:20:25.920 they shouldn't blame themselves. That's the one time they're gonna 0:20:25.960 --> 0:20:29.000 blame themselves. What did I do? What? What? What? I 0:20:29.160 --> 0:20:31.440 wasn't good enough that I didn't give him enough sex, 0:20:31.480 --> 0:20:33.639 I didn't suck his penis, I didn't do any of 0:20:33.720 --> 0:20:36.480 these things, you know, blah blah blah. It's like this 0:20:36.600 --> 0:20:38.720 is the one time. It's not all the other times 0:20:38.800 --> 0:20:41.040 it could have been about you. The reason he's staying 0:20:41.080 --> 0:20:43.560 out late at night without sleeping nobody because you tripping. 0:20:43.800 --> 0:20:46.639 The reason he's eating this, whatever he's doing, those are 0:20:46.840 --> 0:20:51.320 your faults. Men. Cheating is never the woman's fault. It's 0:20:51.440 --> 0:20:54.800 never the woman's fault. Even like I got a army 0:20:54.880 --> 0:20:57.720 who who feel like his girl sometimes be stepping out, 0:20:58.040 --> 0:21:00.320 so when he feels like she's mistreating him, he ago 0:21:00.440 --> 0:21:04.399 gets them vagina, and I explained to him, like the 0:21:04.520 --> 0:21:07.280 reason you do that is because you feel bad about 0:21:07.359 --> 0:21:09.800 her doing it. I don't be tripping. Yes you do. 0:21:10.000 --> 0:21:12.959 You don't know it, but this is your your repair 0:21:13.080 --> 0:21:17.080 mechanism to your ego, So you and she may not 0:21:17.240 --> 0:21:19.040 be doing it. It may be him. If you ever 0:21:19.119 --> 0:21:22.440 know this dog motherfucker they cheat, it's always accusing their spouse, 0:21:22.480 --> 0:21:25.960 so they're significantly doing it doing it. Here's here's the 0:21:26.080 --> 0:21:29.440 thing though, with that, there's a small intricacy. If it 0:21:29.640 --> 0:21:34.960 was about her, he would cheat and tell her. He 0:21:35.160 --> 0:21:38.120 probably doesn't. He keeps it to himself to not get 0:21:38.200 --> 0:21:42.280 caught because it's about him. And I was trying to 0:21:42.320 --> 0:21:46.000 tell him because he feels like, well, I don't really 0:21:46.080 --> 0:21:49.680 complain to her often about what she's doing. I'm saying 0:21:51.000 --> 0:21:54.000 you probably need to have it here because what you're 0:21:54.040 --> 0:21:57.160 doing is still the same thing you're You're you're repairing 0:21:57.240 --> 0:22:00.080 your ego. By saying you still out value because some 0:22:00.240 --> 0:22:02.480 other girl wants to suck your penis or give you 0:22:02.600 --> 0:22:06.640 some vagina. Yeah, you try to balance and no, I'm 0:22:07.280 --> 0:22:10.600 I'm still in demand in the marketplace, so I'm not antiquated. 0:22:10.640 --> 0:22:14.200 This is an antiquated dick, dammit, exactly, I'm I'm prime 0:22:14.320 --> 0:22:17.000 candidate right now, you feel me. I'm great a b 0:22:17.560 --> 0:22:23.719 So how men use women, right, is a very unique 0:22:23.760 --> 0:22:26.960 type of tool. So that's what I'm saying. I don't 0:22:27.080 --> 0:22:30.720 get how you could think somebody would fly you out 0:22:30.760 --> 0:22:33.760 of town and the one thing for sure you would 0:22:33.800 --> 0:22:37.359