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Speaker 1: What's up? It's lip service, I mean answer like.

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Speaker 2: Yee, I'm Gg Maguire, Jordie or and I am Mimi

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Speaker 2: Fouls Nammy Fout.

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Speaker 3: By the way, congratulations, we just toasted you all around

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Speaker 3: me skincare products. Yes, you see the faces blowing you

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Speaker 3: the perfect model. Thank you to be doing something like this.

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Speaker 3: So this has been an amazing roll out too, because

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Speaker 3: I've been seeing you everywhere now, yes, and it feels

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Speaker 3: good to be everywhere for something like that's yours. Yes,

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Speaker 3: you said you have you felt the love I see

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Speaker 3: You've been doing pop up selling out, shipping out your

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Speaker 1: How has that been for you?

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Speaker 4: It's been amazing. When I first started out, it was

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Speaker 4: a little slow, but I think people really didn't you know, grasp,

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Speaker 4: Like I came from reality TV and like, oh now

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Speaker 4: I pivoted to skincare, and they just didn't get it.

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Speaker 4: So I had to just really keep pushing and pushing

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Speaker 4: and pushing, and I started doing pop up shops and

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Speaker 4: testing it out on people and talking about it, and

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Speaker 4: then it really picked up to the point where I

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Speaker 4: am completely sold out right now.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I got to restah, but I'm in the

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Speaker 3: process of restocking.

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Speaker 4: We're on pre order, but at the moment, I'm completely

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Speaker 4: sold out. So it is such a blessing to be

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Speaker 4: able to do something that you, you know, put your heart

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Speaker 4: and you see the results. It's amazing.

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Speaker 3: You know, You've always been an entrepreneur, even when we

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Speaker 3: gets like lost in the sauce a little bit too. Yes,

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Speaker 3: So where did you get this entrepreneur mindset from?

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Speaker 4: Well, I've been on my own since I was thirteen.

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Speaker 4: A lot of people don't know that. My mother joined

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Speaker 4: Scientology and they kicked me out at thirteen because I

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Speaker 4: wouldn't sign the billion year contract to work for the organization.

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Speaker 4: And I just had to figure it out my whole life.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, Okay, where am I going to sleep? What

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Speaker 4: So I've always just been even at a young age,

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Speaker 1: Were you gonna say something, Jordan.

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Speaker 4: No, I was just gonna say. It's also in the

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Speaker 4: Capricorn spirit.

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Speaker 4: Went December cap Come on, this is a Gemini over

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Speaker 4: I'm a Gemini.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, well you do you think that I want

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Speaker 3: to ask you this because you know, I saw your

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Speaker 3: Carlos King interview, of course, yes, and I saw you

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Speaker 3: talking about scientology and being on your own since thirteen,

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Speaker 3: and like you said, a lot of people didn't know that.

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Speaker 3: Was this something that previously you were hesitant to talk about?

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Speaker 4: No, okay, I mean if it came up, I talked

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Speaker 4: about it. I wasn't really hesitant at all. I said,

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Speaker 4: Leah was was heavy, heavy into it right back then.

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Speaker 4: And she was more deep into it than I was,

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Speaker 4: because she actually signed the contract and she worked for them,

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Speaker 4: you know, for for years. And when they offered me

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Speaker 4: the contract, I was like.

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Speaker 3: No, no contract valid when you're at that age too.

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Speaker 3: By the way, you can't even like sign a contract

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Speaker 4: I hold you to it. They hold you to it,

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Speaker 4: you know, because of their beliefs. So they hold you

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Speaker 4: it out in Yeah. So that's their belief. So you know,

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Speaker 4: belief is a is a powerful thing.

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Speaker 1: Very much. So you don't really fall to your mom.

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Speaker 4: I do not. She was looking and always searching for

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Speaker 4: But now that I'm older, I understand that she was

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Speaker 4: twenty eight years.

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Speaker 3: I wonder what effect this had on you and like

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Speaker 3: you could do so much better, Like that's really what.

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Speaker 1: The ongoing thing was, Like, Yes, leave him, like.

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Speaker 3: Like, girl, you got so much going for you and

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Speaker 3: so what would you say in hindsight when you think

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Speaker 4: I was a little girl lost. I was so long,

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Speaker 4: to be honest with you, I was put out at thirteen.

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Speaker 4: But my mother really stopped giving me parental guidance at

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Speaker 4: around eight nine years old. Wow. When she joined she

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Speaker 4: was constantly working for them. I saw my mother two

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Speaker 4: So I was just like running around. I was a nomad.

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Speaker 4: So I really didn't have anybody to teach me right

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Speaker 4: As far as relationships goes with friends, boyfriends, any.

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Speaker 1: Of that abandonment, I'm sure that has said.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, it all played a part in my

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Speaker 3: They did a whole compilation of how I'm bothered you

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Speaker 3: would be during fights?

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Speaker 1: Did you see?

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Speaker 5: You know?

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Speaker 3: It's so funny because every time there's a fighter going down,

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Speaker 4: You and you're like, okay. So my thing was this,

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna eat this fucking absolutely, And I think ultimately

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Speaker 4: Wanted to drama.

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Speaker 3: The pay cut at one. We're gonna pay you last

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Speaker 3: if you're an not gonna have no drama, yes, And

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Speaker 4: Oh well yeah, I'm like okay, I'll take it. I

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Speaker 4: And I remember when my contract was over it. Mind

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Speaker 4: I said, haven't I given you, guys? I have given

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Speaker 4: I want to see that. Nobody was to see you

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Speaker 4: No, okay, no, the kids they have their phones and

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Speaker 3: Would you be willing to want to have because I

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Speaker 4: So this is the thing. What you say and your

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Speaker 4: She's still when I see her clips or whatever, she's

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Speaker 1: It's not I guess it's not necessary either.

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Speaker 3: It's not like the girls are young and yeah, you

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Speaker 4: And she's so amazing. She's so amazing, and I'm not

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Speaker 4: I gotta to my horn for a second, because that

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Speaker 4: Do you think that.

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Speaker 2: The relationship that you had with your mother when you

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Speaker 4: Absolutely? Yeah, absolutely. I wanted her to have and know

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Speaker 4: Who lead you asked that? I said, if you accept

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Speaker 3: To know how then, because I'm sure that she has

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Speaker 1: And so how did you maneuver that?

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Speaker 4: It, I try to keep her as far away from

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Speaker 4: Love and Hip Hop as I possibly could. We did

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Speaker 1: Because she was on it too.

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Speaker 3: Other than that on the TV show, Like did she

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Speaker 3: So how did like how do you do that? Did

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Speaker 4: Like it's her dad, yeah, no matter what that meant?

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Speaker 4: Does he's still her dad, right and she wants that

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Speaker 4: It's because right there she's learning bad behavior. Someone does

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Speaker 4: you excuse it, which leads into what she's going through

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Speaker 4: right now with her friends.

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Speaker 1: That's crazy.

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Speaker 3: That's so interesting when we think about how that impacts

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Speaker 3: I've seen interviews that you've been doing. So do you

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Speaker 3: like we don't just I don't just be like, oh

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Speaker 3: About it because I'm sure you're probably also like I

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Speaker 1: All right, take a sip. Let me get this.

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Speaker 3: She let me ask you this, because there's been a

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Speaker 3: So I wanted to ask you Chiming in this conversation.

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Speaker 3: First of all, when you first say, got with Stevie?

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Speaker 4: When when Stevie and I got together? Okay, Stevie and

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Speaker 4: right because I fucked with you like that. It didn't

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Speaker 1: But what about being able to match you? Does that

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Speaker 4: Yeah, now, yes, now I'm wiser, I'm smarter, I'm all

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Speaker 4: around with potential, right, Potential.

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Speaker 1: Is been there, done that.

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Speaker 4: That potential is for someone in their twenties. Oh he

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Speaker 4: has potential? Fuck that.

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Speaker 1: Somebody got to die at fifty four years old.

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Speaker 4: Potential is not going to cut it. If we can't

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Speaker 1: Play with, right because I mean financially I think I agree. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I got like I got to.

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Speaker 4: I have a sixteen year old. We've got you know,

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Speaker 3: That for you, because it's whole, like just the feeling

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Speaker 4: You know, yeah, I've never had a soft life.

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Speaker 1: You need a soft life. It's not.

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Speaker 4: I will say this. I met someone recently who didn't

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Speaker 4: is it that you want to do? And they were facilitated.

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Speaker 1: Okay, with no questions. That's knocked that first domino down right.

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Speaker 4: Yes, So it wasn't I'm gonna just give you whatever.

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Speaker 4: They were like, I'm gonna assist you on whatever it

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Speaker 1: You're scared to work. You know what I left today.

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Speaker 1: You have leaned in so much to the whole quote

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Speaker 3: take this and turn it and flip it into something positive.

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Speaker 4: As as everybody should. Yeah, turn your limits into lemonade,

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Speaker 4: pits in the I don't know what the fuck, squeeze

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Speaker 4: the juice out of it. It makes the butter, I

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Speaker 4: don't know, but turn it around because we have that option.

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Speaker 4: You know, if everything might look grim and damn and

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Speaker 4: but there's always a way to spin it and turn

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Speaker 1: Now, Jordy, I know you wanted to talk about regrets.

438
00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:23,520
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, please, let's do that.

439
00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:30,119
Speaker 3: And I think a lot of people would say, I

440
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:32,680
Speaker 3: don't have no to stop it, And that's a lie.

441
00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:35,520
Speaker 4: That's a face, that's a bull face. I said that.

442
00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:37,960
Speaker 3: You know how many things we could be like I

443
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:38,920
Speaker 3: wish I wouldn't never.

444
00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:41,520
Speaker 4: Man, I've ever met basically.

445
00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:44,000
Speaker 1: Just about just about.

446
00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:46,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, I would take that back. I would have us

447
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:51,320
Speaker 4: from that situation several times. Yes, I think, yeah, I

448
00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:53,760
Speaker 4: think most of the man I've dated, because you real,

449
00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:57,080
Speaker 4: really that's not maybe one.

450
00:23:57,440 --> 00:23:59,879
Speaker 1: Okay, who is this one that you don't maybe like

451
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:00,639
Speaker 1: one and a half?

452
00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:01,800
Speaker 4: They were they were all.

453
00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:11,520
Speaker 1: Regret that. Okay, it's a tie, it's a tie.

454
00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:15,960
Speaker 4: There was this Australian guy that I was with and

455
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 4: he played me so bad. We were in a whole

456
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 4: relationship for a year. He turned out he had a

457
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:24,399
Speaker 4: girlfriend of four years and she found me. We had

458
00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:26,840
Speaker 4: a whole conversation, but she was actually the reason I

459
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:28,760
Speaker 4: ended up being playmate in the year with Playboy. So

460
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:30,160
Speaker 4: that kind of worked out.

461
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:31,439
Speaker 1: Okay, how did she do?

462
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:35,919
Speaker 3: So you can't regret that because it ended out, But

463
00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:40,280
Speaker 3: that one can't be Look I feel like because that

464
00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:41,720
Speaker 3: happened for a reason and it.

465
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:44,600
Speaker 4: Got Yeah, that's true. So that one worked out. The

466
00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:54,440
Speaker 4: other one was Lower east Side, mattress on the floor, jobless, jobless.

467
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:58,840
Speaker 4: But I bet man the dick was dick ing. I

468
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:06,440
Speaker 4: called him Daddy long leg because I was so traumatized

469
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:09,200
Speaker 4: after that's what I went telebent for two years.

470
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:11,320
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, that was a mess, that one.

471
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:14,439
Speaker 3: He So you would take that bad, yes, immediately? Yes,

472
00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:17,400
Speaker 3: what about you with your biggest regret.

473
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:23,600
Speaker 2: I would have to say allowing a man to take

474
00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:27,399
Speaker 2: control over my life and finances, because when it was

475
00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:29,720
Speaker 2: all said and done and he snatched everything up from

476
00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 2: under me, I had to like really re bounce back

477
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:35,199
Speaker 2: like ground ball, and I was able to do so.

478
00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:37,879
Speaker 3: So you wouldn't ex out that relationship, but just letting

479
00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:41,600
Speaker 3: the finances, Yes, I wouldn't ex out the relationship because

480
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:43,920
Speaker 3: I grew a lot within that space and I learned

481
00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:46,040
Speaker 3: a lot from it. But there was a time where

482
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:48,880
Speaker 3: I depended on him for everything, and when he decided

483
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 3: to turn off the switch, then yeah, it was bad

484
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:54,920
Speaker 3: for me. But I learned right because we learned from

485
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:57,080
Speaker 3: more mistakes. So I learned to never do that again.

486
00:25:57,560 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 3: I learned that it's better to be a rich bitch

487
00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:08,200
Speaker 3: than the one rich Nigga Okay, oh period, Okay.

488
00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 2: I'd rather make my own money, absolutely.

489
00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:12,240
Speaker 1: And what's your biggest regret? The biggest one?

490
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:13,359
Speaker 4: Is that a trick question?

491
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:15,680
Speaker 1: Okay, that's your biggest regret?

492
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:20,399
Speaker 4: I know is My biggest regret would be Nico. Okay,

493
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:24,760
Speaker 4: my biggest regret for you. My biggest regret in my

494
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:29,399
Speaker 4: entire life would be that said I regret even meeting it.

495
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 3: You think he was a rebound situation. You were vulner

496
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:34,200
Speaker 3: like what happened to you?

497
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 4: I was vulnerable? Okay, let's let's just rewind. Okay, that

498
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:44,679
Speaker 4: was after the first season, right after I'm really getting

499
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:49,720
Speaker 4: a real clear picture of what those two were doing

500
00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:52,920
Speaker 4: because I'm seeing it on Monday Night with the world Wow,

501
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:58,600
Speaker 4: not even knowing, I'm seeing she.

502
00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 1: Was just as artist.

503
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:06,960
Speaker 4: Oh okay allegedly, so yeah, that that whole situation was

504
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 4: a complete rebound and the joke was on me. It

505
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:16,159
Speaker 4: was on me. This man was married. I didn't know

506
00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 4: you brought your wife on the show. That's crazy, Like

507
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:22,000
Speaker 4: was this your intention the whole fucking time?

508
00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:24,639
Speaker 1: It's crazy. You know, the producers probably knew all about

509
00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 1: those ahead of time.

510
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:33,720
Speaker 4: I mean, I was so naive and gullible and I'm

511
00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:37,359
Speaker 4: and I'm going to use those words, and I'm using

512
00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 4: those words. I was very naive and gullible when it

513
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:45,280
Speaker 4: came to reality TV because I'm thinking these people are

514
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 4: are my friends. I'm thinking they're they got my back. Oh,

515
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:52,680
Speaker 4: this is my my producer. They're going you know, they they're.

516
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 1: For me, They're going to smooth you.

517
00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:58,439
Speaker 4: Therefore, the show their allegiance is to the show, fuck you.

518
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 4: Their allegiance is to get the best ratings they can

519
00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:05,560
Speaker 4: get on that day TV period. And I didn't get that.

520
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:08,199
Speaker 4: I don't know why I didn't get it. I just

521
00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 4: never got it. I was so like, oh, friend, you

522
00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:16,159
Speaker 4: know what I'm saying. And so it just I was

523
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:19,760
Speaker 4: the perfect candidate for love and hipuff right. It was perfect.

524
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 1: And it was so early on.

525
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:25,160
Speaker 4: I was there. I was their wet fucking drink. Yeah,

526
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:25,880
Speaker 4: I'll wear the show.

527
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:30,360
Speaker 3: They were like yes, I mean those are honestly, those

528
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 3: are the best stars on there, people that we didn't

529
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 3: know that are like coming on here and not from

530
00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 3: that world and just kind of like, okay, what do

531
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:39,239
Speaker 3: I need to do?

532
00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:41,800
Speaker 4: And yeah, And for me, it was a job and

533
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:44,400
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh yeah, I had pride at my job.

534
00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:47,560
Speaker 4: I showed up. I was on time. You know what

535
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:50,920
Speaker 4: I'm saying. I was like, oh, it's you know, and

536
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 4: I'm getting railroaded daily. Yeah, daily. It was. It was heartbreaking,

537
00:28:57,960 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 4: like it really was.

538
00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 1: But you don't regret it.

539
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 4: No, I don't regret doing it. I'll tell you why.

540
00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:09,160
Speaker 4: The show put me in a space to support my daughter.

541
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 4: It put me in a space to be in rooms

542
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 4: such as this. It put me in so many different

543
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:20,520
Speaker 4: spaces to elevate myself. So no, I don't regret doing

544
00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 4: the show. Even though it was traumatic and traumatizing and

545
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 4: all of these things, it still put me on a

546
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 4: different level to elevate my life.

547
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 3: I think that people also find you very relatable and

548
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 3: likable as a human being, even though, like you said,

549
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 3: there were scenes where early on you felt you were gullible,

550
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:42,959
Speaker 3: you felt you were naive, But you were never a

551
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:46,720
Speaker 3: bad person, no, if that makes sense, Like, I don't

552
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:49,280
Speaker 3: even know how to be that bad person that like,

553
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 3: And it didn't change you.

554
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:54,240
Speaker 4: No, it never changed you know why? Because I knew

555
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:56,800
Speaker 4: who I was before I went on the show. I

556
00:29:56,960 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 4: was I was grown I was thirty something when I

557
00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 4: joined the cast. I wasn't in my twenties. I was

558
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:07,920
Speaker 4: grown ass, grown ass woman. So it didn't me being

559
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 4: on TV, didn't you know? That didn't sway me to

560
00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 4: be a different person. Like I don't know even how.

561
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 4: They're like, oh, you need to be more do this

562
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 4: or that, and I'm like, that's not who I am.

563
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 4: I gotta be who I am. Still I'm on the show,

564
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 4: but I still have to be me. Yeah, I have

565
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:27,360
Speaker 4: a question.

566
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 2: So you mentioned that you didn't watch after the first season,

567
00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 2: and you didn't allow even to watch. Now that she's

568
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 2: older and about to be grown, yes, would you let

569
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:40,040
Speaker 2: her watch? Or if she came to you and said,

570
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 2: you know, I want to go back and revisit I

571
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 2: did see what was going on. How would you feel

572
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 2: about her wanting to go back and watch now at this.

573
00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 4: Stage, I'm sure she's because of the clips that are

574
00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 4: everywhere because social media is so social, and her friends

575
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:02,680
Speaker 4: and this and that and the third watch it. God,

576
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 4: I'm sure you've seen it. Anyway, if you've seen clips,

577
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:08,120
Speaker 4: she knew about the tape before I told her. Yeah, yeah,

578
00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 4: so I would be a fool to say, oh.

579
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:13,880
Speaker 2: No, you you're forbidden.

580
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:14,480
Speaker 4: You know.

581
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:16,400
Speaker 1: Would you like to have told her first?

582
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:16,960
Speaker 4: Yes?

583
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 1: You thought you were telling her first.

584
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 4: I did. You would have wanted to? I really would

585
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 4: have wanted to. And guess what, so many times I'm like,

586
00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 4: okay's today?

587
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 1: Yeah that's tough.

588
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:28,640
Speaker 4: Today.

589
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 2: So how was that conversation when you decided to tell her?

590
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 2: What was that like? What was your thought process? And

591
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 2: being like okay?

592
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 4: Now is the time I was like Okay, it's just

593
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 4: it's been too long. I don wanted to tell her before.

594
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 4: I thought someone else told her, right, So I'm like, okay,

595
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 4: I'm gearing up for it. Oh my god, Okay, okay.

596
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:52,920
Speaker 4: So Eva, you know, I want to talk to you

597
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 4: about something, and you know, we sit down and she's.

598
00:31:55,240 --> 00:32:00,120
Speaker 3: Like clocked it and.

599
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:05,280
Speaker 4: She was like, she was like, I know, I was

600
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 4: just waiting for you to say something.

601
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 3: I was like, she probably wanted to give you a hug.

602
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 3: She did, right, she did, like, Mama, it's okay, it's okay,

603
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:15,960
Speaker 3: and she.

604
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:17,760
Speaker 4: Told me it was okay. Oh my god. It brought

605
00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 4: me to tears because I'm like, all this time, I've

606
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 4: been holding this in, wanted to share, and she already knew,

607
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 4: but she was like, I just didn't know how to

608
00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:31,720
Speaker 4: come to you with it. So she was sitting with it,

609
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 4: and I felt bad for her because she had to

610
00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 4: sit with that and deal with that and yeah, had

611
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 4: it already aired like it was.

612
00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah yeah, but she was at the time. Yeah,

613
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:55,960
Speaker 1: she was like, speaking of Young, she had a good

614
00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:57,040
Speaker 1: relationship with t Young.

615
00:32:57,720 --> 00:32:58,280
Speaker 2: She did.

616
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 1: She was nice.

617
00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:03,000
Speaker 3: Now, look now I saw you told Carlos that you're

618
00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 3: not bisexual.

619
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:04,520
Speaker 1: Or lesbian.

620
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:07,920
Speaker 4: Okay, so let me talk about it.

621
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:10,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, because did you have another after that?

622
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:13,200
Speaker 3: No, you didn't date another woman after I kind of

623
00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 3: felt like there was somebody in the house with you

624
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 3: that knows after tie.

625
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, absolutely not. Okay? Why why why was that?

626
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 1: I want and done?

627
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:31,920
Speaker 4: I had the experience and I think for me the proposal,

628
00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:39,640
Speaker 4: I don't know what clicked in me. Something something happened.

629
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:44,080
Speaker 4: It was like this is not that's not it what

630
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 4: you're supposed to be doing. Like I don't know what

631
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:51,920
Speaker 4: it was like. It was like instinctively like you're not

632
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:55,720
Speaker 4: supposed to marry. I don't know what it was. And

633
00:33:55,800 --> 00:34:00,120
Speaker 4: I was like, oh shit, I can't do this. They

634
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 4: ate me like a ton of fucking bricks. I was

635
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 4: like I cannot. I'm sorry, like I have love for you,

636
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 4: like I think, but like no, and no, that was

637
00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:16,680
Speaker 4: it for me. When I say it was the weirdest thing. Guys.

638
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:22,719
Speaker 4: I had been heterosexual my entire life, right, years and

639
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:26,600
Speaker 4: years and years. Right. I thought women were cute, but

640
00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:30,880
Speaker 4: you know beautiful copy I oh my god, your legs

641
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:33,240
Speaker 4: are meaning, oh my god, your hair, your skin, whatever, whatever,

642
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 4: But it was never like, oh my god, I want

643
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:38,560
Speaker 4: to just jump your bones. It wasn't that type of thing.

644
00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 4: So when where did this start? Let's let's go deep Arian, Okay,

645
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:52,600
Speaker 4: my homegirl Arian. Hanging around Arian was the first time

646
00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:58,560
Speaker 4: that I was really introduced to being around lesbians. Yes, yes,

647
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:02,400
Speaker 4: on it consistent. She is beautiful, beautiful girl. But she

648
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:04,759
Speaker 4: was my friend. A lot of people thought Arian and

649
00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 4: I were in a relationship or had some sort of relationship.

650
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:10,800
Speaker 4: We absolutely did not. She was my friend, period done.

651
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:15,880
Speaker 4: But I was always around and I would hear them talking.

652
00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:19,000
Speaker 4: So I'd be like asking her questions, well what about

653
00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:23,200
Speaker 4: this and what about that? And she was like, you're gay,

654
00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:28,360
Speaker 4: like cause you know, I'm like, I don't understand. I

655
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:32,120
Speaker 4: didn't understand like sexual sex. I didn't get it. Like,

656
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:34,399
Speaker 4: I'm like, I don't understand. What do y'all do?

657
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:41,440
Speaker 1: She was like, you're dating, you were doing a little research.

658
00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:45,920
Speaker 4: I just don't understand what it's It's the two of

659
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 4: the same. How what the fuck I didn't get it?

660
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:53,480
Speaker 4: Something doesn't go in. It's just try blanks.

661
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:54,839
Speaker 1: Like I didn't get it too blank.

662
00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:58,520
Speaker 3: And even having like this strap on and it's not

663
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:00,920
Speaker 3: like you can feel it right that part.

664
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:03,279
Speaker 1: But I guess it's the power thing of you know.

665
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 4: Okay, well, you know I didn't understand that until after

666
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 4: the fact. However, she would always tell me that I

667
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:11,880
Speaker 4: was gallous, gay, whatever, whatever. But that's how I was

668
00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:14,800
Speaker 4: even being around you know, a lot of gay women,

669
00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:18,480
Speaker 4: a lot of gay women. Oh you know. So that's

670
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:21,000
Speaker 4: where that whole thing even started, was.

671
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:29,480
Speaker 3: Being around this associated yes, asking questions, getting answers, getting curious, okay,

672
00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 3: And then.

673
00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:33,680
Speaker 4: After the whole Nico situation, when I tell you I

674
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 4: was so done Stevie and then Nico, I was like,

675
00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 4: I need a break.

676
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:41,640
Speaker 1: I need a break for you.

677
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:48,800
Speaker 4: And so that's that's you know, Yeah, that's where that

678
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:53,480
Speaker 4: whole thing. But when I was with women, never desired

679
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:56,799
Speaker 4: to be with a man, okay, never, not even on

680
00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:58,600
Speaker 4: a drunk night, was like, oh my god, I want

681
00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:02,759
Speaker 4: some ding. Never I was strictly that. And then the

682
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:07,640
Speaker 4: moment I was done with that, I was done with it.

683
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:12,239
Speaker 4: I don't know, it's like the it's compartment. Yes, when

684
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:14,640
Speaker 4: the switch is off, it's the fuck off.

685
00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:19,080
Speaker 3: You said, okay, now, but we said the strap on

686
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:22,120
Speaker 3: the thing, you look this way and said until like

687
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:22,879
Speaker 3: you went like that.

688
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 4: Like I've never been a strap on girl. Okay me never,

689
00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 4: it's never my like. I don't like the strap wasn't

690
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 4: my thing, Okay, I prefer not the strap. To be

691
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:39,839
Speaker 4: honest with you, I prefer it was the intimacy that

692
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 4: I wanted. It wasn't if I'm like, if I'm gonna

693
00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:43,919
Speaker 4: do that, I might as well be with a man.

694
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:47,279
Speaker 4: What the fuck is this plastic? It was weird, it

695
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:49,960
Speaker 4: was uncomfortable. I don't know. Maybe the person I was

696
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:52,400
Speaker 4: witch just wasn't doing it right. I don't know. This

697
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:53,439
Speaker 4: strap was not my thing.

698
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 2: I need a real like penis in the body and

699
00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:58,080
Speaker 2: the field that the whole thing.

700
00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:00,600
Speaker 1: I need that come along with in with a man.

701
00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:03,760
Speaker 4: That strap that the what is it? The harness?

702
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 1: Harness? So you tried it though, of course.

703
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 4: Someone for seven years. Yeah, of course I tried it,

704
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:13,080
Speaker 4: but I just could not get with it. I did

705
00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:18,920
Speaker 4: not like it. I was like it the plastic.

706
00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:21,840
Speaker 1: It was just seven years, nine years.

707
00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:28,239
Speaker 4: Wrong long, And ultimately I think that was the part

708
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:31,400
Speaker 4: of our demise, because you know, that's what you know.

709
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:34,560
Speaker 4: They liked that and like doing that, and I didn't

710
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:34,960
Speaker 4: like that.

711
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:37,680
Speaker 1: Okay, you got to be sexually compatible?

712
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:41,000
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, I didn't like that I didn't want it.

713
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 4: I didn't want no parts of it.

714
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:44,439
Speaker 1: You think that was the demise that it was part

715
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:45,680
Speaker 1: of it? Sure?

716
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:48,279
Speaker 4: Okay, because when she cheated on me, that was the

717
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 4: reason she was like she wanted to strap. I can't

718
00:38:58,680 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 4: say nothing about it.

719
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:04,240
Speaker 1: Oh wow, I didn't want Is it intimidating?

720
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:04,600
Speaker 4: Right?

721
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 1: Is it intimidating now for the person you're dating?

722
00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:09,799
Speaker 3: Because I saw Candy was talking about how like she

723
00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:12,440
Speaker 3: has a sex toy line. She has this and people

724
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:14,840
Speaker 3: have this perception that she's gonna be like.

725
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:16,680
Speaker 1: This super free, you know, off the written.

726
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:19,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, so what is that like? Like finding the one?

727
00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:22,000
Speaker 3: Because I know you're you and something new that I

728
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:23,960
Speaker 3: know you, you're trying to you know, keep it private.

729
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 3: We're gonna find out at some point. But do you

730
00:39:28,640 --> 00:39:32,360
Speaker 3: feel like, like, how was that even, you know, them

731
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 3: knowing a lot of things about you without having even

732
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 3: known you because they didn't, Oh, they didn't know the

733
00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:40,839
Speaker 3: crazy thing okay, foreign they.

734
00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:44,000
Speaker 4: Thought they thought I was a stripper because we would

735
00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:46,720
Speaker 4: go to different places like the grocery store, home depot

736
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:49,360
Speaker 4: and things like that. People you like, my god, me, me,

737
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 4: oh my god, me, take a picture. Oh my god.

738
00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 4: He was like so for a while, like after like

739
00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 4: twelve times of this, He's like, wait a minute, motherfucker's tripper?

740
00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:04,600
Speaker 4: Why every because he would ask questions like did you

741
00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:06,759
Speaker 4: go to school here? And I'm like no.

742
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:09,880
Speaker 2: He was like, you know, asking he was trying to

743
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 2: figure out and I'm like, so, by process of location,

744
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:18,840
Speaker 2: googled you because i mean, isn't that what we do?

745
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:23,280
Speaker 4: Yeah? He was he got to be a stripper. Wow,

746
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:24,480
Speaker 4: And I was like, no, I'm not.

747
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:32,319
Speaker 5: A stripper, but yeah, straight stripper to bring it up, Okay,

748
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:34,919
Speaker 5: So you know, I used to work at Magic City

749
00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 5: and m HM and they have this uh Atlanta Hawks

750
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:42,640
Speaker 5: game coming up in a couple of weeks where the

751
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:45,800
Speaker 5: Hawks are partnering with Magic City for Magic City Monday

752
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:49,920
Speaker 5: when they played the Orlando Magic I'm actually scheduled to

753
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 5: do an interview with t MC sports about it because

754
00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:56,480
Speaker 5: there's been praise and backlash, Like all of the responses

755
00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:57,240
Speaker 5: has been mixed.

756
00:40:57,440 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 2: And there's an NBA player who was actually sent out

757
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:03,120
Speaker 2: a letter to the NBA actually protesting the night, and

758
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:06,719
Speaker 2: he's saying that it isn't a family friendly event, which

759
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 2: NBA games are known to be, and that it's disrespectful

760
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:14,160
Speaker 2: to the women associated with the NBA that work within

761
00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 2: the organization. So, somebody who lives in Atlanta, you know,

762
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:21,479
Speaker 2: we all love Magic City. Atlanta loves the strip club.

763
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 2: It's a Atlanta se It's a cultural they're calling it

764
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:26,759
Speaker 2: the Iconic cultural institution.

765
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:27,200
Speaker 6: Right.

766
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:29,760
Speaker 1: The food is amazing.

767
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:32,359
Speaker 2: Right, They're actually going to have Limon pepper wings at

768
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:33,520
Speaker 2: the stadium that night.

769
00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:34,080
Speaker 4: Amazing.

770
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:37,480
Speaker 2: There's a special merch that's already on pre sale and

771
00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:38,400
Speaker 2: everything that's happening.

772
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:38,640
Speaker 1: Right.

773
00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:43,279
Speaker 2: So, as a mother and as an at alien, right,

774
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:47,800
Speaker 2: how do you feel about the backlash or the negative

775
00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:52,080
Speaker 2: concept that's being put along with this partnership.

776
00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:56,440
Speaker 4: The thing is the NBA wants to hold themselves to

777
00:41:56,480 --> 00:42:00,680
Speaker 4: a higher standard. It's the thing there like, oh you know,

778
00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:04,759
Speaker 4: we're NBA wives or NBA whatever, you know, And they

779
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:09,319
Speaker 4: don't want to associate themselves with those shrippers. They want

780
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:12,320
Speaker 4: to make it out to be a bad thing. Magic

781
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:19,160
Speaker 4: City is such a staple in Atlanta. Like you if

782
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:23,040
Speaker 4: you've never been to Atlanta, you know about Magic City period.

783
00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 4: Literally a documentary wries like you know about magic It's

784
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 4: the performance. It's the like when I tell you I

785
00:42:33,320 --> 00:42:39,799
Speaker 4: have had what yeah, what Magic City was like I

786
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:47,840
Speaker 4: have left Magic City, like get distract. It was just like,

787
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:50,040
Speaker 4: this is so much fun.

788
00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 1: It's a fun time the Atlanta.

789
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:02,280
Speaker 2: So here's the thing that a lot of people aren't realizing.

790
00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:04,400
Speaker 2: And I am definitely going to make disappoint in my interview,

791
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:07,640
Speaker 2: which will be out by the time this gets out.

792
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 2: So one of the owners of the eight Atlanta Hawks

793
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:14,280
Speaker 2: is actually a woman by the name of Jamie Gertz.

794
00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:16,719
Speaker 2: She used to be an actress, and her and her

795
00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:20,840
Speaker 2: husband owned the Hawks. She also was the executive producer

796
00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:23,880
Speaker 2: of the Magic City documentary.

797
00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 1: That's on Stars right.

798
00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:28,000
Speaker 2: She is also a very close family friend to the

799
00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:30,480
Speaker 2: Barney family, which is the owners of Magic City.

800
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:32,520
Speaker 1: So of course she's with the Ships.

801
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 2: When it comes to doing a Magic City Monday at

802
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:36,839
Speaker 2: the Atlanta. And then here's another thing. It's Monday. Your

803
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:38,799
Speaker 2: kids should be in bed because I got school the

804
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:42,879
Speaker 2: next day. Like, there's not going to be strippers coming

805
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:43,719
Speaker 2: down to drumble Trot.

806
00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:45,239
Speaker 1: And I'll tell you that right now. It's not going

807
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:49,680
Speaker 1: to okay, isn't it like an Olympic sport.

808
00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:54,359
Speaker 2: Now dances actually dancing, Yeah, pole dancing. Pole dancing has

809
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:56,960
Speaker 2: been recognized in so many different ways over the years.

810
00:43:57,200 --> 00:43:59,800
Speaker 2: It's not not taboo, you know, it's not as taboo

811
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:02,719
Speaker 2: as a used to be. Honestly, I think that the

812
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:05,759
Speaker 2: people that are protesting it are overreacting. You could tell

813
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:07,600
Speaker 2: those people that are not from Atlanta, that don't know

814
00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:11,319
Speaker 2: shrip culture that are just taking what they think they

815
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 2: know and they're running I'm talking about they're dragging it.

816
00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:16,759
Speaker 2: And it's just like, in my personal opinion and not

817
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:18,640
Speaker 2: even being biased because I come from that world, but

818
00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:19,839
Speaker 2: it's like y'all doing too much.

819
00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:22,160
Speaker 1: It's not that deep, relax enjoyed the ways.

820
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:25,359
Speaker 4: But it's the thing to do. It's the thing to do.

821
00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:29,000
Speaker 4: If somebody is saying, yes, let's do this, there's gonna

822
00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:30,680
Speaker 4: be these people over here that saying no.

823
00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:35,080
Speaker 1: It's like when that comes with everything, would you go

824
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:36,400
Speaker 1: back to reality TV.

825
00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:38,919
Speaker 4: Like a love and hip hop show?

826
00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:41,560
Speaker 3: I mean anything like it? Or if you did, what

827
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 3: would it be? So I am doing my own show

828
00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 3: right now.

829
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:49,120
Speaker 4: I'm doing my own show right now. It's called Cleaning

830
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:52,080
Speaker 4: Up My Life, Yes, and it's about the ups and

831
00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 4: downs of everything that I've been through since Loving Hop

832
00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:59,520
Speaker 4: to current Okay, So, oh my gosh, what.

833
00:44:59,600 --> 00:45:05,000
Speaker 1: Good get into that cleaning up.

834
00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:10,000
Speaker 3: You know, wasn't it hard like after not being on

835
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 3: the show, because I'm sure there was a certain amount

836
00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:14,960
Speaker 3: of attention but also money appearances.

837
00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:17,880
Speaker 1: After that, you got to think like what's next.

838
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:21,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, and if you let me tell you what my mistake,

839
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:25,880
Speaker 4: my biggest mistake was, and for everybody and anybody that

840
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 4: wants to do reality TV, what you should do while

841
00:45:30,200 --> 00:45:32,799
Speaker 4: you're on this show. Make sure you set yourself up

842
00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:36,719
Speaker 4: for after the show, because when it's over, it's it's

843
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:41,640
Speaker 4: over immediately. There's no residual income, there is nothing coming

844
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:44,759
Speaker 4: your way, there's nobody knocking on your door. It's the

845
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 4: fuck over. So make sure you have something in the

846
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:51,719
Speaker 4: bag and you have something set up that you have

847
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:55,320
Speaker 4: to move forward, move forward with after your you know,

848
00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:59,959
Speaker 4: your situation, not even after while your on reality TV,

849
00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:04,239
Speaker 4: because that is going to push push whatever that you're

850
00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:08,200
Speaker 4: doing further. So that was my biggest mistake. When I

851
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:11,440
Speaker 4: was on there, I was so engulfed in the current

852
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:14,319
Speaker 4: and the current that I didn't set up myself for

853
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:14,840
Speaker 4: the after.

854
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, but now you're good, Yes.

855
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:22,239
Speaker 3: Yes, listen, Oli, remy skin is what it is. No,

856
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:24,680
Speaker 3: but I really appreciate you for coming through. You look

857
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:27,359
Speaker 3: amazing too. I want to say, you're, like I told

858
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 3: you when we first started. Your face and your skin

859
00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:34,360
Speaker 3: is like the best advertisement. Thank you for ola Remy skincare.

860
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:36,240
Speaker 3: It made me feel like, okay, let's get it together,

861
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:37,640
Speaker 3: it says, And you know.

862
00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 4: I don't use any foundation. So when I have my

863
00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:43,399
Speaker 4: makeup artist is there, shout out to Tyres, to glam King,

864
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:46,319
Speaker 4: shout out, I love you so much. Heat. When I

865
00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:48,160
Speaker 4: have them do my makeup, I'm like, don't put any

866
00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:52,839
Speaker 4: foundation on, right, just because clar blush and contour and

867
00:46:53,120 --> 00:46:56,919
Speaker 4: lit don't and lash I'm with you because I want

868
00:46:56,960 --> 00:46:59,000
Speaker 4: to show the skin and we see it and it's

869
00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:01,600
Speaker 4: glowing and the skin is skinning, and I'm about to

870
00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:02,920
Speaker 4: put in my pre order because.

871
00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:07,440
Speaker 1: Okay, listen and I and it's.

872
00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:10,000
Speaker 3: Probably also whatever else you got going on outside of that.

873
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Speaker 3: They got that skin glowing. But congratulations, we love that

874
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Speaker 3: for you can and we cannot wait to see you

875
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Speaker 3: cleaning up your life.

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Speaker 4: Yes, real quick, let me. I just want to say

877
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Speaker 4: a little bit about the skincare line. I formulated it

878
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:26,239
Speaker 4: for sensitive skinning. Eva and I both have ezema very

879
00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:30,239
Speaker 4: like in the wintertime, especially stuff would like irritate our skin.

880
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:31,800
Speaker 4: We couldn't find a product that.

881
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Speaker 1: My man got ezema, so I'm going to make sure.

882
00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:36,920
Speaker 4: Yes, so you're I was looking for something that was

883
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Speaker 4: effective but gentle, that can you know, be good on

884
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Speaker 4: the skin if you have poriatis exzema, this product is

885
00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:48,640
Speaker 4: going to be for you. It hydrates, it soothes, and

886
00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:52,120
Speaker 4: my moisturiz Right here, this is the best kept secret.

887
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:55,040
Speaker 4: It has an ingredient called palm kernel oil in it.

888
00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:58,320
Speaker 4: Have you guys ever heard of an African using sunscreen?

889
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:03,279
Speaker 4: Ever heard of that an African in Africa? I don't

890
00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:06,480
Speaker 4: think so using sunscreen. They do not, and they're in

891
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:11,240
Speaker 4: the hottest climate. Correct, Okay. They use palm kernel oil.

892
00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:14,800
Speaker 4: It's a seed that they use. They squeeze the seed,

893
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:17,359
Speaker 4: they get the oil out. They use it on their skin.

894
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:19,879
Speaker 4: Their skin is radiant, it's beautiful. They don't have any

895
00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:24,920
Speaker 4: pores like their their face. Their skin is Yes, I

896
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Speaker 4: put it in my moisturizer. So this is what sets

897
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 4: my stuff. Just so, this ingredient right here is when

898
00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:34,920
Speaker 4: I tell you, oh, I'm excited. It's a sun barrier.

899
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Speaker 4: It's hydrating, it's moisturizing, it's going to give you that glow.

900
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Speaker 3: I'm excited, and I do want to say it's also

901
00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:44,800
Speaker 3: good for us to have the sun on our skin,

902
00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 3: so you don't want to block it necessarily. Yeah, that

903
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 3: is one of the reasons why black women have fibroids

904
00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 3: the way that we do. And just an important conversation

905
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Speaker 3: says Okay.

906
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Speaker 4: Yes, just it's a three steps to stem and it's

907
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Speaker 4: super easy.

908
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:05,560
Speaker 1: And there's a toner. Right, there's cleanser. I need a.

909
00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:09,520
Speaker 4: Cleanser, toner moisturizer. The toner you can use on with

910
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:12,320
Speaker 4: your makeup. You can spray it on your face before

911
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:14,440
Speaker 4: your makeup, and after you put your makeup on, you

912
00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:17,240
Speaker 4: spray it on after Okay, fantastic.

913
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Speaker 1: Yeah, one thing you gotta do is take care of

914
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Speaker 1: your skin. Bab absolutely, you know. I'm all about it.

915
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Speaker 1: Were with all of us, all of us. I was

916
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Speaker 1: at before.

917
00:49:24,719 --> 00:49:26,359
Speaker 4: I was like, I hope she brings some moisturizer.

918
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:33,120
Speaker 1: She said, I need that moisturizer. Fantastic For people pre ordering,

919
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Speaker 1: is there a roundabout time when they'll get there?

920
00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:39,480
Speaker 4: So round about a round about a week and a half.

921
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Speaker 4: Tomiskin dot com, Oh, hel you are e m I

922
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Speaker 4: and that's your real name, that's my real name. Okay, yes,

923
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Speaker 4: I named it after myself all around. I'm literally now

924
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Speaker 4: Raimiskin dot com. Go get your pre orders. You're gonna

925
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Speaker 4: the product. I've had so many people, just some of

926
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Speaker 4: the testimonials, yes, ma'am, some of the testimonials. Like I

927
00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 4: had one woman she was like, she ordered it, she

928
00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:12,959
Speaker 4: didn't really use it. And then a couple of weeks

929
00:50:13,040 --> 00:50:16,160
Speaker 4: later she came home her daughter. She was like, God,

930
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:18,919
Speaker 4: your skin is amazing. You're glowing. What are you doing?

931
00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:21,319
Speaker 4: She was like, that stuff you ordered that you just

932
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:24,719
Speaker 4: side I took using that Olrami skin that you order

933
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:26,920
Speaker 4: you and she was like, oh my god, are you serious.

934
00:50:26,920 --> 00:50:31,640
Speaker 4: You're glowing. She was like, your skin is freaking glowing.

935
00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:33,719
Speaker 4: So she was like getting my stuff back. She was like, no, mom,

936
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Speaker 4: it's mine. Now order you some more. But just things

937
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Speaker 4: like that that people have, like send me emails about.

938
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Speaker 1: You look so happy. I love how happy you are.

939
00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:44,839
Speaker 3: Talking about it. That's the passion. And that you know

940
00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:47,480
Speaker 3: every detail about your product. Yes, that means a lot.

941
00:50:47,560 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 3: Plus it sound al ami, sound like an expensive rich name.

942
00:50:50,400 --> 00:50:52,960
Speaker 4: So and and it doesn't burn your you know how

943
00:50:53,000 --> 00:50:55,760
Speaker 4: some stuff you'll put on burns your eyes. Even stuff

944
00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 4: that says sensitive skin. You'll be like ah when I

945
00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:02,560
Speaker 4: tell you it's so gentle, doesn't burn your eyes. It's

946
00:51:02,600 --> 00:51:03,520
Speaker 4: just fantastic.

947
00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:08,480
Speaker 3: Yay, okay, I cannot wait to use mine. Well, congratulations

948
00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:09,480
Speaker 3: and shout out your teams.

949
00:51:09,640 --> 00:51:11,800
Speaker 4: I want to shout out my team. I got Monet

950
00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:15,480
Speaker 4: back there. Who is my designer and stylist? I love

951
00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:18,279
Speaker 4: you so much money to see the merch. Yes, she

952
00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:24,200
Speaker 4: rocks me every time whenever we go somewhere. Tyris, the

953
00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:28,480
Speaker 4: glam kings, my hair, my makeup, no foundation, no foundation,

954
00:51:30,239 --> 00:51:32,520
Speaker 4: and my girl who is my man?

955
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Speaker 5: She?

956
00:51:34,120 --> 00:51:34,480
Speaker 4: Thank you?

957
00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:43,920
Speaker 2: Got Okay, I'm waiting on my but the peach, what

958
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:44,520
Speaker 2: is it?

959
00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:44,719
Speaker 3: Is it?

960
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:50,879
Speaker 1: Peach? We got mescatto? You know love?

961
00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:56,040
Speaker 3: I like you, Thank you, thank you.

962
00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:59,040
Speaker 4: I'm gonna use this one right. I just want to

963
00:51:59,040 --> 00:51:59,920
Speaker 4: put a little bit on.

964
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:03,480
Speaker 1: Gosh, she's not playing, you know what I'm saying.

965
00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:08,320
Speaker 4: Oh yes, it's so she's silky yummy.

966
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:10,200
Speaker 1: Okay, Look, she's about to get the strap.

967
00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:17,040
Speaker 4: That's gonna be your life.

968
00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:17,600
Speaker 1: I know it.

969
00:52:18,440 --> 00:52:21,440
Speaker 4: Oh my god, never going to get this. If you

970
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:22,800
Speaker 4: pull out, I'm gonna.

971
00:52:22,600 --> 00:52:28,000
Speaker 1: Be like you. I tell you one more time. I

972
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Speaker 1: don't know.

973
00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:44,279
Speaker 6: Crazy, yes, sulky smooth okay, mos, yes, you know every

974
00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:47,120
Speaker 6: third my thirteen lucky number one three.

975
00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 1: You know what it is.

976
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:50,280
Speaker 4: That was my dad's birthday, two of the thirteenth.

977
00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:54,200
Speaker 3: Oh for real birthday this rich you're good at this too,

978
00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:57,239
Speaker 3: tell me okay, shout out to your man getting here.

979
00:52:57,320 --> 00:53:03,800
Speaker 3: Massages and others massages others.

980
00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:08,560
Speaker 4: We can put our lotion there too. Safe. Listen, I

981
00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:11,640
Speaker 4: use this. I keep one of my moist wizers on

982
00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:14,239
Speaker 4: my bed, okay, right on the night stand, so we

983
00:53:14,280 --> 00:53:16,439
Speaker 4: can because I use.

984
00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:19,600
Speaker 1: It, because I because I use it. I'll just say it.

985
00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:23,040
Speaker 4: Is right to use it, and I use it for

986
00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:23,759
Speaker 4: whatever I like.

987
00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:27,719
Speaker 1: You know, that's where multi use. Okay, I can see that.

988
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:30,399
Speaker 1: You know how to be showing the difference multi use.

989
00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:31,640
Speaker 1: Look at the difference.

990
00:53:32,320 --> 00:53:34,719
Speaker 4: Oh yeah you can. It's blowing this.

991
00:53:34,800 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 1: Hand looking new d I love me to me me,

992
00:53:41,800 --> 00:53:44,160
Speaker 1: I appreciate you, thank you so much.

993
00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:46,239
Speaker 4: So much fun, and I love how.

994
00:53:46,200 --> 00:53:48,560
Speaker 3: Open you are about everything. I just have always really

995
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:52,080
Speaker 3: liked it. You've always been a sweetheart, so and I'm

996
00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:54,640
Speaker 3: so happy for you. Let's sell it out again, okay,

997
00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 3: sound out them free orders.

998
00:53:56,520 --> 00:54:01,359
Speaker 4: Yes, that's good morning. See the listen and sun hits

999
00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:03,960
Speaker 4: you when you put it on your face and you

1000
00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:06,960
Speaker 4: go out with like minimum makeup and that sun hits you.

1001
00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:10,160
Speaker 4: I've had so many people send me pictures like I'm glow.

1002
00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:12,880
Speaker 1: It's giving a little gloves.

1003
00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:20,600
Speaker 4: Well, thank you, Mimi. You can order Olu raimiskin dot com.

1004
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Speaker 4: That's O l you are e m I and I just.

1005
00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 1: Ordered discount for the order. Okay, do it waiting on

1006
00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:36,360
Speaker 1: my waiting on my package.

1007
00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:38,560
Speaker 4: But this is for you. I didn't have enough for

1008
00:54:38,640 --> 00:54:41,200
Speaker 4: everybody to know. It was going to be obvious, ladies,

1009
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:43,960
Speaker 4: this is for you.

1010
00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:50,000
Speaker 1: Sure got the entire bundle. Yay. I cannot wait. I'll

1011
00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:52,040
Speaker 1: be using Okay,