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Speaker 3: You are listening to episode three hundred and twenty four

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Speaker 3: moments to essential tips on how to live a healthier, happier,

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Speaker 3: tell you this. I am sitting down with Banija Laney.

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Speaker 3: It has been an electric week here in New York City,

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Speaker 1: And that helped me on the court, you know, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I love that, and I think that resiliency is so

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Speaker 4: Regardless of what that looks like.

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Speaker 1: I'm dealing with my natural human emotions of you know,

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Speaker 1: disappointment and all the things. But you know, regardless of that,

439
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Speaker 1: like I know that I can overcome this. I know

440
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Speaker 1: that you know, this isn't the end, and you know

441
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Speaker 1: everybody isn't for everybody. So just because this person doesn't

442
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Speaker 1: like this or you know, one, that doesn't mean that

443
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Speaker 1: the next person won't. And so it's just it's also

444
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Speaker 1: just about you know, kind of just staying true to yourself,

445
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Speaker 1: continuing to believe in yourself, you know, just finding a

446
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Speaker 1: way to kind of find that urge to.

447
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Speaker 4: Just to just keep going.

448
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Speaker 1: Just know that it's that it's going to be okay,

449
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Speaker 1: that you're going to make it, that you're going to

450
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Speaker 1: overcome it. Like at this point, like when I found

451
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Speaker 1: out I had to have, you know, my sixth surgery

452
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Speaker 1: this season, I was just like, okay, you know what, well,

453
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Speaker 1: what's the rehead plan?

454
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Speaker 4: Like what we're doing?

455
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Speaker 1: Because I know I've been there, I've done it. I

456
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Speaker 1: know that I can overcome it, and so it's just

457
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Speaker 1: a matter of you know, mindset and will.

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Speaker 3: You know that thing I keep coming back to is

459
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Speaker 3: this notion that you've gotten through all the hard moments

460
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Speaker 3: that have happened up until this point. And in the

461
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Speaker 3: midst of some of those difficult moments, there were certainly

462
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Speaker 3: thoughts like how am I ever going to get through

463
00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:04,520
Speaker 3: this or this is my lowest lower. I am beside myself, right,

464
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Speaker 3: And so when then to your point you're faced with

465
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Speaker 3: adversity again, it's like, what's the worst that can happen? Oh,

466
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Speaker 3: I'm exactly where I started in ninety nine point nine

467
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Speaker 3: percent of the time where you started. Really wasn't that

468
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Speaker 3: bad at all. You mentioned that rough ACL tear. Would

469
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Speaker 3: you say that's been the biggest hurdle that you faced

470
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Speaker 3: in your professional career or where would you go with that?

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Speaker 1: I think it was the second biggest. I'll I'll say,

472
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Speaker 1: I'll go to the first big I'll talk about this first,

473
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Speaker 1: and then I'll go to the first This for me

474
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Speaker 1: because it was it was my first major injury, Like

475
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Speaker 1: I had never been injured to the point where I

476
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Speaker 1: had to, you know, miss a.

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Speaker 4: Season, and like I said, I wasn't I just at

478
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Speaker 4: that point. It was early on.

479
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Speaker 1: It was early enough to where like if the team

480
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Speaker 1: wanted to replace me, like they could have because we

481
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Speaker 1: were what five six games into that season, you know,

482
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Speaker 1: and it's WNBA. There limited spots, you know, they want

483
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Speaker 1: to be able to contend for a championship. And like

484
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Speaker 1: I said, I didn't feel like I had did enough

485
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Speaker 1: in the league where I had like solidified myself, you know,

486
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Speaker 1: Poky and the team, they were gracious enough to keep

487
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Speaker 1: me on, allow for me to rehab and keep my

488
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Speaker 1: keep my spot, and so I think like once I

489
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Speaker 1: found that out that I would be fine for you know,

490
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Speaker 1: for the rest of the season. I was like, Okay,

491
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Speaker 1: now I can just focus on getting better. But moving forward,

492
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Speaker 1: the I think the biggest hurdle that I had to

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Speaker 1: overcome in my professional career would be like the second

494
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Speaker 1: time that I was ways because it's like, Okay, you

495
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:42,639
Speaker 1: got through it the first time, and then it happens again.

496
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Speaker 1: It's you know, later in your career, you think about

497
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:48,720
Speaker 1: the lifespan of a w NBA player, it's not that

498
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:52,239
Speaker 1: it's not that long. And so I'm just like, man, like,

499
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Speaker 1: what's going to happen. We're going into a bubble year

500
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Speaker 1: where it's not like, you know, people can see me

501
00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:02,440
Speaker 1: and pick me up from from training camp or from

502
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 1: seeing me play against other teams or anything like that.

503
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Speaker 1: Like there's there's nothing showing what I you know, what

504
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Speaker 1: I've done, the work that I put in, you know,

505
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Speaker 1: as I'm like quarantine and everything, and you know, you're

506
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 1: kind of just waiting on people to make decisions as

507
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:21,240
Speaker 1: to whether they're going to play or opt out of

508
00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:24,600
Speaker 1: the bubble and everything like that. So that I would

509
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Speaker 1: say was like probably like my my lowest point in

510
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Speaker 1: the league where I'm just like, okay, like what's next?

511
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Speaker 1: Like I work so hard for this, I don't know

512
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Speaker 1: what's going to happen where you know, where my career

513
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:37,680
Speaker 1: is going. And then you'll just like, you know, that's

514
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Speaker 1: when that little bit of like doubt starts to creep

515
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 1: in and you're thinking, like, am I, you know, is

516
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Speaker 1: this what I'm supposed to be doing? Am I being

517
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Speaker 1: pushed in a different direction to do something else? And

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Speaker 1: then I just had to you know, I just had

519
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Speaker 1: to be still. I just had to pray. I had

520
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Speaker 1: to like lean on the people who were supporting me.

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Speaker 1: And that's where my now husband came in. That's where

522
00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:59,800
Speaker 1: my mom came in, and just you know, the family

523
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Speaker 1: and who really rallied around me and just told me,

524
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Speaker 1: you know what, like it's going to be okay, you know.

525
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Speaker 1: And then that's when I had that conversation with Nikki

526
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Speaker 1: Collins and I was like, this is a new opportunity.

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Speaker 1: This is a moment for me to go out and

528
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Speaker 1: you know, prove that I don't deserve to be way,

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Speaker 1: prove that you know I've put in, I've put in

530
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Speaker 1: the word, proved that I'm the player that I that

531
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Speaker 1: I want to be. And then, you know, it was

532
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Speaker 1: like my lowest point, but then it was also my

533
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Speaker 1: highest to a certain extent, because just the turnaround, the

534
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Speaker 1: transition of that moment was so big.

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Speaker 3: So bag, there's a choice that has to be made

536
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Speaker 3: when you are in a moment like that, and you

537
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:44,360
Speaker 3: were very vulnerable in making it, which was to allow

538
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Speaker 3: your people to lift you up. I think that sometimes

539
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Speaker 3: in our darkest moments, we have this attitude that we

540
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:55,440
Speaker 3: are supposed to figure.

541
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Speaker 2: It out alone.

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Speaker 3: Right that this is on me. I've got to move forward,

543
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Speaker 3: I've got to whatever the case may be.

544
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Speaker 2: And so to hear that you allowed.

545
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Speaker 3: Your community to show up for to show up for

546
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:09,320
Speaker 3: you and then uplift you and help you get back

547
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:11,520
Speaker 3: to being the badass that you are on the court,

548
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Speaker 3: I think that's really beautiful.

549
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Speaker 4: I mean, it took me a few days to get there.

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Speaker 1: I'm also that person that you know wants to figure

551
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:20,800
Speaker 1: it out on their own kind of deal with the

552
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 1: emotions and all the things. So it did take me

553
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:25,919
Speaker 1: a few days, but like once I just kind of

554
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 1: like I was able to take a breath and just reflect.

555
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Speaker 1: You know, I did allow you know, my people to.

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Speaker 4: Pour into me.

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00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:37,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's so special to get there, and like

558
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Speaker 3: you said, then some really amazing things happen. The first

559
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Speaker 3: thing that I want to talk about is your relationship

560
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 3: with your now husband. I know, a relationship that really

561
00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:53,119
Speaker 3: developed during the pandemic, arguably during a time that you

562
00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 3: probably really didn't expect it.

563
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Speaker 2: Talk to us a little bit about that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I didn't.

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Speaker 1: When we first started dating, like we were just casually dating.

566
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 1: There was no you know, boyfriend or girlfriend. We were

567
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:08,120
Speaker 1: just kind of figuring things out, not really looking for anything.

568
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Speaker 1: But then I think we just started to realize like

569
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Speaker 1: the similarities that we have, the aspirations that we have,

570
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Speaker 1: just how much we have in common, and you know,

571
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Speaker 1: we just.

572
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Speaker 4: Fell in fell in love.

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Speaker 1: It was it was definitely an experience just being that

574
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:29,679
Speaker 1: we were in quarantine and everything together and we were

575
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Speaker 1: able to push each other and be there to support

576
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Speaker 1: each other.

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Speaker 4: And then we just we both know what it takes.

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Speaker 1: We both played at the at the highest level, and

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Speaker 1: so it was just a comfortability. You know, we know

580
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 1: what each other needs and in certain moments and that

581
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Speaker 1: kind that really just pulled me in.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And for those that don't know, your husband, Jordan also

584
00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 3: plays basketball, something that couldn't be a bad thing when

585
00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 3: you can't really socialize with that many other people to

586
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 3: be able to go out there and do that together.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, heayed. He plays basketball in Taiwan right now.

588
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:09,360
Speaker 1: He played professionally in the league for five years. And

589
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 1: we met in Israel overseas. We met in twenty twenty

590
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 1: early January twenty twenty, and then we quarantined together once

591
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Speaker 1: we both left left Israel, and then we just we

592
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Speaker 1: just continue to build our bond and our relationship throughout

593
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Speaker 1: the years.

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Speaker 3: How is it doing what you do, winning a championship

595
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Speaker 3: and having that distance between you.

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Speaker 1: I mean it's hard in the sense of, like I

597
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 1: would love to have him to be able to be

598
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Speaker 1: here with me and celebrate with me this moment, because,

599
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Speaker 1: like I said, I feel like he's helped me.

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Speaker 4: Get here to this point.

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Speaker 1: But I also understand, you know, we both have goals

602
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 1: and aspirations and that's also what makes us work. So

603
00:29:56,880 --> 00:30:01,600
Speaker 1: just knowing that he's there recording me from Afar. He'll

604
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Speaker 1: wake up no matter what time it is to make

605
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Speaker 1: sure that he could catch the games, even if it's

606
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Speaker 1: a twelve hour difference. So if we played at three,

607
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Speaker 1: he would be up at three in the morning to

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Speaker 1: make sure that he's you know, locked and watching and

609
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Speaker 1: then trying to get like an hour net before he

610
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Speaker 1: has to go to practice or lift or something. And

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00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 1: so just also just knowing that he's supporting me as

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Speaker 1: much as he can from Afar.

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Speaker 3: And So you talked about coming back and after this

642
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643
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Speaker 2: Give us some insight into that arc.

644
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Speaker 3: What was it like when you realize this is not

645
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 3: only going well, but it's really starting to click For me?

646
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Speaker 4: When I realized that.

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Speaker 1: It was right before we entered the bubble and I

648
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 1: was doing like my workouts and everything, and Nikki Collins

649
00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 1: walked up to me and she was just like, you know,

650
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Speaker 1: I don't know who told you that you can't shoot,

651
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:38,680
Speaker 1: but here I want you to shoot until you miss.

652
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Speaker 1: And so it just like sparked this confidence in me,

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Speaker 1: like okay, like you know, whatever you want, whatever you need.

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Speaker 1: And she's absolutely somebody that I would run through a

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Speaker 1: wall for, you know, just because she's somebody that believed

656
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:55,400
Speaker 1: in me, and not only believed in me, but she

657
00:32:56,120 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 1: helped push me towards being the player that I know

658
00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:03,080
Speaker 1: that I am. And so I'm forever grateful for her

659
00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 1: for for that, for that season and everything, and wish

660
00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 1: her nothing but the best of luck.

661
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it irrefutable that when you walk into

662
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 3: Barclays like you're a crowd favorite, like hands down Liberty

663
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:18,480
Speaker 3: fans love you.

664
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:21,280
Speaker 2: What does that feel like for you?

665
00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:24,360
Speaker 4: It feels it feels really good.

666
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:27,120
Speaker 1: It feels really good to know that you know, again,

667
00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 1: there are people that are that are supporting me, that

668
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 1: are you know, looking up to me, that you know

669
00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:33,240
Speaker 1: want to see me.

670
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 4: At my best.

671
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 1: And I mean I'm more of a reserved kind of person.

672
00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:42,000
Speaker 1: I do tend to like get overwhelmed with things at times,

673
00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:46,120
Speaker 1: but ultimately just knowing that, you know, when I when

674
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 1: I'm there and they're screaming my name, or I'm looking

675
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:51,640
Speaker 1: around and seeing the people with my jerseys or people

676
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 1: walking up to me on the street and saying things

677
00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 1: of encouragement, it really it really means a lot. The

678
00:33:57,600 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 1: support and love that I get from our fans something

679
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:02,760
Speaker 1: that I couldn't have dreamed of, you know. So I'm

680
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:06,840
Speaker 1: just I'm really grateful for for everything from New York.

681
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:09,120
Speaker 2: Is it ever overwhelming?

682
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:12,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it can be, because like I said,

683
00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:14,760
Speaker 1: I'm more of a like reserve person in a sense,

684
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 1: I like to kind of lay low and just you know,

685
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 1: do my thing. But I would I would much rather

686
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:28,239
Speaker 1: have this than nothing, you know. So it comes, it

687
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:30,960
Speaker 1: comes with it, but I try and embrace it as

688
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:34,040
Speaker 1: much as I possibly can. But yeah, it's it can

689
00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:37,400
Speaker 1: it can get a little overwhelming at times, but just

690
00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 1: due to my personality. But for the most part, I'm

691
00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 1: you know, I'm grateful and I'm thankful for it.

692
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:46,759
Speaker 3: And on the heels of that question, there were probably

693
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 3: moments when you were younger that you thought about both

694
00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 3: where you're at now in terms of playing for the

695
00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:55,399
Speaker 3: New York Liberty or a team like it, and then

696
00:34:55,440 --> 00:35:00,239
Speaker 3: of course dreaming to win the championship. Now that you've

697
00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 3: done it, is it what you thought it would be?

698
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:06,239
Speaker 2: Is it better? Is it just different? What's it like?

699
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:10,759
Speaker 1: I think it's how I envisioned it. I think it's

700
00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 1: I think it's really how I how I envisioned it to.

701
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 1: You know, going into Barclays like being in New York

702
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:20,960
Speaker 1: because I grew up coming to New York. My late aunt,

703
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:24,760
Speaker 1: she lived in Brooklyn, about ten minutes from from Barclays,

704
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:27,200
Speaker 1: and so I grew up here, you know, so I

705
00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:30,439
Speaker 1: know like the kind of the feels of New York,

706
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:34,719
Speaker 1: and so to be in Barclays and have that that

707
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:38,560
Speaker 1: transition onto the onto the court and kind of just

708
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:43,160
Speaker 1: almost like where it started in a sense, like I said,

709
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 1: being somewhere that I that I grew up coming to.

710
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 1: I spent a lot of summers and holidays all the

711
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:52,719
Speaker 1: things here here in Brooklyn, and so to to be

712
00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:56,759
Speaker 1: here and then experience this experience a championship, like you

713
00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:58,640
Speaker 1: kind of got a glimpse of what it would be

714
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 1: like last year, even though we felt a little short

715
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 1: and so it was just like it's just gonna be

716
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:05,920
Speaker 1: that much better. And so walking into those games in

717
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:10,680
Speaker 1: the playoffs, just how electric the atmosphere was, and then

718
00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:14,799
Speaker 1: to the to the parade and all the celebrations, I

719
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:16,520
Speaker 1: feel like it might be a little bit more than

720
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:18,880
Speaker 1: I expected. But for the most part, like this is

721
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:20,800
Speaker 1: New York, Like you know, this is what it's about.

722
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 1: Like we're we're loud, we're like out there, we're you know, supportive,

723
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:28,400
Speaker 1: and so it's it's been it's been a really amazing

724
00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:32,440
Speaker 1: like journey, a really amazing feeling to be here and

725
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:35,360
Speaker 1: to win this championship so special.

726
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:38,400
Speaker 3: It sounds like you're exactly where you're supposed to be,

727
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 3: right and in the same vein of that is this

728
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,320
Speaker 3: what you expected it to be? I mean, you're also

729
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 3: an Adidas sponsored athlete. Sometimes I talk to people and

730
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 3: it's so special to have a company of that size

731
00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:56,239
Speaker 3: standing behind you.

732
00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:57,440
Speaker 2: What's that like for you?

733
00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:02,880
Speaker 1: I mean, it's amazing because when I first started, I

734
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:06,799
Speaker 1: didn't you know, I didn't know anything about being endorsed,

735
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 1: or having partnerships or or any of the things. I

736
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:13,040
Speaker 1: was just playing basketball. You know, I was just happy

737
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 1: to be there, and so you know, you fast forward

738
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 1: two years later and then you know, I have this opportunity,

739
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 1: I have this partnership, I have this brand that's rallying

740
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:26,760
Speaker 1: around me and you know, just making me feel special

741
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 1: in all the right ways. You know, it really means

742
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:31,919
Speaker 1: a lot to just be able to go out there

743
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:34,800
Speaker 1: and do what I do and have the support of Adidas,

744
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:37,360
Speaker 1: and then to be able to support them in the

745
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:39,719
Speaker 1: same way by just trying to, you know, bring my

746
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:43,400
Speaker 1: best self, you know, be a great representative of the

747
00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:46,040
Speaker 1: brand who who has given.

748
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:46,560
Speaker 4: Me a lot.

749
00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 1: You know it really it really means a lot, and

750
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:51,080
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm happy for the support.

751
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:51,839
Speaker 4: I love it.

752
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:55,800
Speaker 1: You know, this Adida's brand like where it's a family.

753
00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:59,200
Speaker 1: You know, it's not just them endorsing me. And then okay,

754
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:01,520
Speaker 1: you know they know they really support me, Like they

755
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:04,719
Speaker 1: show up you know my my ideas. You know, they

756
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:06,719
Speaker 1: they come to the games, they show up, they check

757
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 1: in on me. And so to to know that, to

758
00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:11,319
Speaker 1: know that I had that support from them, because that

759
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 1: you know that that goes a long way from me.

760
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 1: You know, I come from a supportive background and so

761
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:20,360
Speaker 1: to to have to have this brand that you know

762
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 1: shows up the same way that you know my my other,

763
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 1: my family, my supporters.

764
00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:27,360
Speaker 4: Do you know it? Really it really means a lot.

765
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:30,040
Speaker 3: I love that they rally around you and they also

766
00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 3: amplify you, right, and that let's talk about the conversation

767
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:38,080
Speaker 3: of women's basketball, women in sports right now. That's what

768
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 3: it's all about, right, is these brands and media companies

769
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:47,360
Speaker 3: really amplifying the message of women in sports and showcasing

770
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 3: what it is that you all are capable of. You

771
00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:56,399
Speaker 3: talked earlier about knowing that, all right, I'm easily replaceable, right,

772
00:38:56,440 --> 00:39:00,200
Speaker 3: the W is only so big. Well, moving forward, it's

773
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 3: about to dramatically expand. So at this point being a

774
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:09,319
Speaker 3: woman in basketball, how does that make you feel to

775
00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:13,359
Speaker 3: see that there's so much runway ahead for not only

776
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:16,879
Speaker 3: where basketball and women in basketball are going to go,

777
00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 3: but broader than that, the growth and eyes on women's sports.

778
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's grown so much from the time that I

779
00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 1: entered the league in twenty fifteen to where we are

780
00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:33,319
Speaker 1: here now in twenty twenty four. Just the amount of

781
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:37,120
Speaker 1: viewership and support that we're receiving. As you know, I

782
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:39,800
Speaker 1: won't even say it's just women's basketball, but just women's

783
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:43,319
Speaker 1: sports in general, Like we've just grown so much, and

784
00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:46,239
Speaker 1: you know, rightfully, rightfully, so I think people I don't

785
00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:49,680
Speaker 1: think it's a matter of us changing so much, but

786
00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:54,880
Speaker 1: people really realizing in seeing, knowing what it is that

787
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:57,920
Speaker 1: we're capable of as women and in this in this

788
00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:02,000
Speaker 1: sports world. You know, we've been working hard for so long,

789
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:04,680
Speaker 1: and you know, now is our moment and we're just

790
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 1: continuing to capitalize off of it, continuing to you know,

791
00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:09,600
Speaker 1: just get better and.

792
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 2: Grow, get better and grow.

793
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:17,720
Speaker 3: And to your point, you've been doing amazing things, right,

794
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:21,640
Speaker 3: it's just now the platforms are in place, the eyes

795
00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 3: are on you, and it's you're finally getting the attention.

796
00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:26,760
Speaker 2: That you deserve.

797
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:27,759
Speaker 4: Mm hmm.

798
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:29,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure.

799
00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:33,640
Speaker 3: Now someone comes to your Instagram page and they see

800
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:37,440
Speaker 3: the highlights that you're a player for the New York Liberty.

801
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:40,240
Speaker 2: You just won the Liberty's first ever title.

802
00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:44,279
Speaker 3: When you look in the mirror, Benija, what is it

803
00:40:44,320 --> 00:40:46,799
Speaker 3: that you see looking back at you.

804
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 1: When I look in the mirror and I see me,

805
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 1: I think the biggest I think I see somebody that's resilient,

806
00:40:54,800 --> 00:41:00,239
Speaker 1: you know, I see somebody that kind of do anything,

807
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:03,680
Speaker 1: you know, I don't like. I know, we talk about

808
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:06,640
Speaker 1: social media, but I don't. Social media doesn't define me

809
00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:09,360
Speaker 1: in any type of way. I think that I'm just,

810
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:11,920
Speaker 1: you know, regardless of what it looks like on social

811
00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:15,040
Speaker 1: media or anything like that. I'm a you know, I'm

812
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 1: a beautiful, genuine person, you know, who just wants to

813
00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:25,239
Speaker 1: just enjoy, enjoy life and enjoy the things that are

814
00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:28,759
Speaker 1: that are happening around me, you know, love on my

815
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:31,280
Speaker 1: loved ones and vice versa.

816
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:34,280
Speaker 4: So that's I guess what I what I see.

817
00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 2: What does enjoying life look like for you in the

818
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:38,640
Speaker 2: near future.

819
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 1: In the near future, I would say being able to

820
00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:47,680
Speaker 1: go celebrate with my husband, that's what That's what enjoying

821
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:49,760
Speaker 1: it because I've you know, I've been able to enjoy

822
00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:53,719
Speaker 1: the championship. I've been able to to be home and

823
00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:56,720
Speaker 1: you know, experience my my family and friends. But that's

824
00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:59,840
Speaker 1: that's one piece right now for me that's that feels

825
00:41:59,880 --> 00:42:01,919
Speaker 1: like is missing a little bit. You know, the phone

826
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 1: can only do but so much, and so just to

827
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 1: kind of be in each other's presence and brace celebrate

828
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,480
Speaker 1: all the things, that's what I'm really looking forward to.

829
00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:12,120
Speaker 2: I love that now.

830
00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:16,000
Speaker 3: I also know that whenever this happens, whenever you do

831
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:19,120
Speaker 3: move on from basketball, that in your future you really

832
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:21,440
Speaker 3: want to open daycare centers.

833
00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 2: And I love that about you. So can you tell

834
00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 2: us a little bit about that.

835
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:27,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, one of my aunts she has daycare centers, So

836
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:32,560
Speaker 1: I kind of grew up around daycare centers and specifically

837
00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:35,480
Speaker 1: in urban areas, and just kind of stand the impact

838
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:38,920
Speaker 1: that she's had on the community, given back to the

839
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:41,279
Speaker 1: to the children that come through her centers. You know,

840
00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:44,799
Speaker 1: community is something that my mother has always instilled in

841
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:48,279
Speaker 1: her children, and so this is my way of doing that,

842
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:51,399
Speaker 1: of giving back, and I do want it to specifically

843
00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:54,160
Speaker 1: to be in urban areas where children don't have as

844
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:58,560
Speaker 1: many resources and all the things, just you know, show

845
00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 1: them that they can they're more than where they come from.

846
00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:04,320
Speaker 1: To instilling them like there are a lot of possibilities

847
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 1: out there, regardless of what it looks like, and to

848
00:43:07,080 --> 00:43:09,040
Speaker 1: just give them, you know, a home away from home,

849
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:13,960
Speaker 1: a safe a safe haven if you will, and just

850
00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:16,359
Speaker 1: just help foster them. You know that at that age,

851
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 1: children are very impressionable, and so if they can we

852
00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:23,400
Speaker 1: can start to build that foundation early, especially in those

853
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:27,239
Speaker 1: in those areas that'll just That'll be my way of giving.

854
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:31,279
Speaker 3: That your passion is so apparent, and it's also so

855
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 3: apparent that you have had some stellar female role models

856
00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:39,359
Speaker 3: to get you to this point. When I look at you,

857
00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 3: I also see a stellar female role model, someone that

858
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:48,280
Speaker 3: so many young women, impressionable young women look to and think,

859
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 3: all right, one day, I want to be just like her.

860
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 2: How does that feel When I say that to you?

861
00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:58,840
Speaker 1: I mean it, it feels good because that's I guess

862
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:01,799
Speaker 1: what I've out to do or to be.

863
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:03,400
Speaker 4: I am like, I am more.

864
00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:06,240
Speaker 1: Quiet and all the things, but I want my impact

865
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:09,279
Speaker 1: to be more about others than it is about me.

866
00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:12,279
Speaker 1: And so that's why, you know, I do the community

867
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 1: things that I do, and once I retire, I'll you know,

868
00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:18,400
Speaker 1: start to have my daycare center so that way I

869
00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:23,120
Speaker 1: can just give back and be able to have an

870
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:27,440
Speaker 1: impact in the community. And So, to answer your question more,

871
00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:29,640
Speaker 1: it's just it's almost what we spoke about earlier, just

872
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:33,040
Speaker 1: that kind of validation of what I already know and

873
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Speaker 1: like what I'm setting out to do, and so to

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Speaker 1: know that it's it's recognizable, it just makes me want

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Speaker 1: to just you know, continue to keep going and keep

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Speaker 1: pushing and just continue to be everything that I've set

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Speaker 1: out to be.

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Speaker 2: I love it.

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Speaker 1: Well.

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Speaker 3: You talked to us earlier about some of the biggest

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Speaker 3: hurdles that you faced within sport, both that acl tear

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Speaker 3: and then also getting waived. Right now, if you were

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Speaker 3: to offer yourself a piece of advice, right at that

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Speaker 3: massive hurl moment getting way for the second time, dealing

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Speaker 3: with so many of the emotions that come hand in

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Speaker 3: hand with that, knowing what you know, now.

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Speaker 2: What advice would you give your younger self.

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Speaker 1: I would literally just tell myself just keep going, you know,

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Speaker 1: keep working, keep doing all of the things that that

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Speaker 1: you've been doing. And then some you know, in those moments,

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Speaker 1: it's so easy to kind of like fall away from

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Speaker 1: the things that you've been doing because you might feel

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Speaker 1: like it's not working or it's not worth it. But

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Speaker 1: just keep at it, you know, because you're gonna be

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Speaker 1: a champion, which is you know what we set out,

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Speaker 1: what we set out to do. You know. So I've

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Speaker 1: I've reached I've reached one of my biggest goals.

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Speaker 2: And how does it feel.

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Speaker 4: It feels amazing, It feels great.

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Speaker 2: I'm so happy for you.

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Speaker 3: I'm like truly giddy over here a Brooklyn, a Brooklyn

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Speaker 3: neighbor there for Game five, at games all season, so

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Speaker 3: I couldn't be more honor that you gave us. Send

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Speaker 3: of your time here today for Hurdle. For those that

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Speaker 3: may not follow along with you just yet that want

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Speaker 3: to keep up with you, give us your details.

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Speaker 2: How do they keep up with you?

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Speaker 1: On social My Instagram is noje Laney. That's kind of

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Speaker 1: the only one that I really know how to work.

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Speaker 1: I don't use Twitter because I don't really understand it.

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Speaker 1: But if Twitter, then Benaje Lani. But those are those

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00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:24,759
Speaker 1: are my two socials.

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Speaker 3: Hey, if you use Twitter more, you too could have

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Speaker 3: been inundated with red Wine yesterday at the parade.

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Speaker 4: We had Quincy.

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Speaker 3: They're like Stewie tweated for all of us. It's all good,

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Speaker 3: it's all good. Well again, thank you so much for

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Speaker 3: your time. I'm over at Emily a Body and at

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Speaker 3: Hurdle Podcast. Another Hurdle conquered. Catch you guys next time.